Break Decluttering Paralysis (Even Paper)

[@hlegler]

The best thing about this gal is that she doesn't talk down to you from a place of superiority, she comes to you as a friend. Like, the kind of friend that always welcomes you into her home (which is kinda ironic because she's said that she used to be embarrassed to have people into her home.) Anyway, 100% of everything she says is craaaaaazy helpful.

[@annfarrell6479]

I couldn’t have said this better! She is so relatable. 👍

[@lm0703]

Agree. I really enjoy watching her episodes.

[@annbutryn2568]

She's the best. If you haven't read her books, they are literally life changers.

[@marys2344]

Yes! She went from a super slob to a you can do it coach!

[@karaa7595]

I know right! It's like she's in my brain!

[@thewadsquad]

Everytime you say skip to another video if you want xyz I think... nah girl, I want you.

[@orimontgomery5326]

Thank you for giving me the permission to not be perfect. Perfectionism has resulted in many areas of clutter in my home. If I didn't have the time to complete a purging of an area, I wouldn't even start. Now, using your suggestions and support through you tube, I have accepted that progress, not perfection should be my goal. When I think that way I feel good about myself. When I feel good about myself I am more likely to tackle more clutter. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

[@GoogleUser-wx8mw]

She's probably less judgmental than my friends (wonderful as they are) b/c she understands our struggle from her own experience. She is just down to earth, honest and real -- and funny. So glad I found her channel.

[@StarrREVA]

When you were talking about the fact that looking takes away the scary part, I was reminded of an old kid's book my Nephew liked. "There's a Monster At the End of This Book". The whole thing was about not turning the page because there was a monster at the end. Often it is the "monster" in the paper pile, but when we look we realize there was no real monster.

[@lynnettelg]

Grover! Loved that book as a kid! Thanks for the comparison. 👍

[@mommalynnette8190]

My little brother loved that book, and I used to read it to him with all the expressions and excitement in my voice. He absolutely loved it, forty years ago! Thanks for the memories.

[@carleenroberts6002]

My kids loved that book!

[@conniegibson9740]

Dana, these videos get better with every one you do. I know they make you uncomfortable, but you're doing awesome :)

[@tiffanytempleton2201]

Yes! Love the videos and content ❤️

[@les_is_more88]

Agreed!

[@megroux]

Agreed!!🙌🏻love these videos

[@JoanDam248]

I agree! Dana is just awesome 😊❤️

[@l.p.5177]

Agree! Love them!!

[@marcipalin9917]

I'm paralyzed right now. I keep moving it around. Thank you for your videos.

[@LedgerAndLace]

I found you through Cas and Dawn. I have been binge-watching Nony vids and listening to your podcast episodes and I FINALLY feel like I've found the missing piece to my struggle with clutter and I am making progress! THANK YOU, Dana! Your kindness, understanding, compassion and humour have been a healing balm. Trash bag, donation box, and feet! AND it's also translated into when I shop. I almost made an impulse purchase of pens and thought, "Nope. I'll wait till I declutter pens. I bet I have some of these . . . somewhere." And I did, when I excavated my desk the next day. :-)

[@MartiMax22]

"Take my permission, because I wrote the book! " Love this!

[@adan101206]

JUST FINISHED LISTENED TO THE AUDIO BOOK !!! I am on a MISSON. ..my kids are scured 😳😳😳

[@susanchristie9322]

“You guys are the internet, and you’re wacko” LOL…..I just love you, girl!!

[@alisongregson4740]

Your gift is talking us out of paralysis! In some things, I am good, on other areas, I feel emotionally stuck. You are so good at talking to us when we are there. Thank you!

[@beccismith4454]

💜

[@Roxanna.wez5671]

“Because you’re the internet and you’re wacko and you don’t need to see my business” That will be the best thing I hear all day! 💕 I’m sitting next to a pile of papers. Thank you for the motivation and strategies to re-tackle it! (Re-tackle because this is at least the second time I’ve been through this particular pile.)

[@dobycorder3206]

Oh my gosh, she gives the pep talk that gives me permission to just do one thing: look for the trash. I got rid of 2 piles because once I threw out, I had so little left to file, and it was all done and gone! I listened again today so I can do another couple piles. Thank you, thank you!

[@Julies-in-a-mood]

I often feel bad for our very nice mail carrier. It’s like she’s a reverse-garbage man: delivers trash to my house then drives away.

[@cinnie2543]

that is delightfully hilarious.

[@SimplyBeautiful516]

Oh m’gosh, that’s hilarious!

[@abbygreenwald8873]

So true

[@Iloveflowers2024]

Yes! Mind blown. 😂

[@kmcq692]

I commented to the postal worker when I was shoveling direct from P.O. Box to trash and he said it keeps the post office in business.

[@peavy6106]

"You guys are the internet...so you're wacko..." LMAO!! So true!!

[@angierecovering_clutterer2434]

Can confirm. Am the internet. Am wacko.

[@simonbennatan8257]

We are all the internet. We're wacko. 🇨🇵

[@dracofirex]

We are many. We are one. One is all. All is one. All is wacko.

[@llllllllllilillii]

Nah, it's the influencers who are whacko. Who wants to put their life online? hahahahhaha

[@mlc7497]

Thank you for this video. I watched it yesterday and loved that the first thing is "focusing on having less". We that have clutter are sometimes perfectionists and if we can't do a job "perfectly", we won't even start. So today, I focused on having less. I now have a full kitchen trash bag full of paper. I am not finished, but I have less! Success!

[@anitas5817]

Clutter threshold is everything. Oh and the container concept is everything too😆. I just listened to one of your podcasts on clutter threshold last night. It’s like a lightbulb went on. I have a very low clutter threshold and just function so much better with a lot less stuff. Even stuff that I love. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Thanks for the video😊

[@OutToTheWoods]

Me too! My closet is at least half empty 😊

[@mettamia2008]

The "I just want to have less", was perfect for me. When it comes to paper, I'm in an odd place. I have near perfect control of anything coming in... I've worked on it. The issue is that I have the stacks that came in before I figured out how to stop it. The "I just want to have less", inspired me to clean out a few files while this played in the background. It wasn't much, about an inch of paper to toss from five or so file folders emptied, and now I think I found the next step to paper freedom. Thank you!

[@bonniewehrle5184]

I cannot thank you enough or express the fullness of my gratitude to you for making this video. After 2 bereavements & end of a long-term relationship I have nearly stopped functioning but seeing your honesty about your own struggles I feel inspired to try again. With your kind words mentally repeated I'll start my own process of Deslobification!! 😍

[@llllllllllilillii]

@bonniewehrle5184 How are you doing? Hope you're ok.

[@jaybee8094]

Dana, thank you so much for making me feel better about being frozen at the thought of addressing my paper clutter.

[@SN-sz7kw]

Thank you! This is great. I am 60 & my ADD is getting worse - paperwork is a terror! I got my other overwhelm tip from Kathy Roberts - Tidy Tutor. If the paper issue is huge, gather up ALL papers & do a broad sort. Rubber band every category & label with a sticky note. Place all of them in a container(s). This way, at a minimum, it’s not a mess & if you need something you can at least find it in the labelled stack. Then go through each stack as you can. This method from Dana feels like a great way to begin that part. I think I’ll do it as I update/purge my filing cabinet. Then do it regularly to keep things under control.

[@gaynorprice-jones1826]

Thank you for sharing this tip. I have a huge mound of papers / filing to do but it is all jumbled up. By using a both ideas I can at least get a grip on what I need to do! Thank you again.

[@MelanieJarvis]

It's time for me to re-read Decluttering at the Speed of Life. When I follow your principles I make real progress

[@LilCraftyNook]

I have it on Audible!!

[@jessplanninglife6488]

Me too

[@mrsalethajune]

Right!? I was thinking the same thing. Time to re-read!

[@barbkandel777]

I just listened to this book and it was amazing!!!

[@thoselittlehands5388]

The audiobook is amazing because she is the one reading it 😍 its like 6 hours of this beautiful and encouraging voice

[@jennywoods9122]

I’ve been listening to decluttering at the speed of life and it has been SO helpful. The question “would I know that I have this if I needed it” has been a game changer. Also just having less. Thank you!

[@anga3659]

Yes!!! That's what I have, I literally go through a Paralysis when I have to start decluttering. I just freeze! Like you said last week; I will sit down to make an organized list then I'm too tiered to work on my clutter. I have the best intention, but its very self-defeating. Then I get frustrated, and still nothing gets done. It's been a nightmare Merry-Go-Round. I have Purchased your class. Love it! I also have your books. (I've read a chapter or 2, then life happens and I say I'm going to get back to it). Thank you for posting these last few videos. I removed the trash from my Kitchen island tonight. Thank you again. No pressure! I love your solo videos. I can't relate to a minimalist (that's not my end goal). I just want to make it through my house and not feel like I am going through a slalom course. LOL.. Seriously. Thanks again for your honesty, 😃🙏 God Bless you.

[@tracegates8841]

omg, a slalom course!!!! I GET IT!

[@cinnie2543]

I love this because I always feel guilty when I think of "only handle paper once', which I can never do!

[@juliannelay248]

I have a po box and each day I do pick up mail, I go through it right away and toss most of it.

[@margaretmeyer975]

I love your systematic and gentle approach. It puts my "all or nothing" thinking in check and makes me realize that slow and steady does win the race. Thank you Dana. I appreciate how you give us grace and space to tackle things over time and that chipping away at something deserves credit!!

[@beautfullybroken119]

I literally paused your video to write this comment because I need to say thank you. When you explained why you said trash was your first step it spoke to me. My area has a recycling program in place and I use it, but I have STACKS of dvd cases that are not excepted because the plastic is not the correct number (those who recycle know what I mean by that.) I have had these cases for the past 5 years (I’ve moved with them, twice) with every intention of recycling them. For me to do that, I would need to ship them to a recycling place in a different state. I am on a limited budget and the cost of shipping all these dvd cases would add up fast. So I just want to say thank you for explaining that you would recycle if it was easily accessible to you because I know that the cost of shipping these cases will not be easily available for me. I finally feel like it’s justifiable to let these cases go and not feel guilty.

[@sharondesfor5151]

Around 4 minutes in, when you talk about wanting to stop the inflow of paper, I remembered a couple of overwhelming times in my office many years ago. The first one was the day I made a paper tent sign for my inbox saying, "Inbox closed for the day. Try a different destination." The second time things were even worse, so I took my inbox completely off my desk and replaced it with my trash can. Apparently I was onto something back then! 😅

[@d.c.1851]

I am so glad I found you through the clutter free January playlist. I feel like yours is the voice I need in my head while I'm cleaning and decluttering my house.

[@fousies]

It’s like a huge way of life ..a prevention of excess crap coming into your home in the first place! I’m taking the class now I’m pretty good at the paper clutter thing but it sure can collect quickly! Dining room table is always a work in progress. Easy stuff first works!!!

[@LilCraftyNook]

Yay for motivation!! 👍🏻

[@pattilaurents954]

This was such an eye-opener for me! I've always heard " Only touch paper clutter once, period". So unless I have time and mental energy to deal with it all, I don't deal with any of it. So now we have boxes full of papers that need to be dealt with. Thank you Dana!

[@cindygrim3060]

Thank you for not making me break out in a sweat thinking about paper piles!

[@tplarsen9327]

My Mom’s friend kept a mannequin in her guest room showcasing her wedding gown. Very cool. Thank you for your encouragement videos. I so relate and it is helping me.

[@Chaundradickinson]

Okay, I love the eye roll with the "because, I wrote the book"

[@suzy1676]

I love how you explain the process and how you understand that overwhelmed feeling that leads to paralysis that leads to the clutter getting worse. I'll take a peek at your books 📚 . Thank you for this.

[@lauraw8851]

Mid-video I went and bought the book online. Returning to the video having read 2 chapters and I am so hooked. It is a great addition to "just watching videos". Thank you Dana ❤️

[@seaspeaktome9167]

Watched this while emptying my dishwasher and doing the “easy stuff” in our main living area. Really love your approach and ideas Dana! Thanks

[@MultiSignlanguage]

Very helpful. At my worst, so far, I’ve had approx 6-8 bags of papers that I couldn’t bring myself to deal with. That included bills and insurance and everything. 😫 The whole idea of being in denial and avoiding it cuz I’m too scared and ashamed and overwhelmed. Yes. I love how you said just sit and look at them, quickly sorting them and hair get rid of the trash, and reduce the amount of clutter. That’s one of the biggest things that’s so helpful. Thank you 🌺

[@suzy1676]

Limited focus, limited energy, etc.! Yes! I'm re-watching this video and ❤ that you speak out for those people who don't quite fit the mold of "traditional" organization systems!

[@4mandysake]

OMG! THIS PAPER PARALYSIS IS TOTALLY AN ISSUE FOR ME❣❣❣ Thank you for addressing it. 😊❤🧡💛💚💙💜

[@AliciaElnagger]

You’re amazing and I’m so happy that you’re posting again! No pressure though, I’m still happy even if you don’t post another video ever. It’s just nice to see your face right now. I’m googling up both your books and they are changing my life and my home. Thank you for all that you do!

[@530Paradise]

Paper clutter is hard! Right now I have a system that is working really well- I mean yes, trash removal is huge and makes a difference, but the other thing that is helping me right now is categories. I have a small container that is "current properties", "prior property" and medical. Now *ASSUMING* I am staying up to date on stuff, it has subsections. A folder for cars. A folder for known tax documents. A folder from the mortgage & purchase of my home, or warranties, etc. But IF I'm not on top of my shit, when I get down to that little pile of "keep" you are talking about from your mail purge, I can put it in the current property bin. You see we just sold two properties and a car, and I wasn't sure how it would impact taxes and all kinds of stuff. How long do I need to keep this? I dunno. But when I need a document, I can find it with about 1/3 the going through paper mess effort. Less if I occasionally go in and put it in those subfolders that ARE IN THE BIN, but so is a fair deal of loose leaf. Likewise, if I need a medical document, I can find it in the "medical" bin. I mean, in a perfect world do me and my husband have separate folders and know where the dentist stuff is vs eye doctor or whatever? Sure. But that isn't me in reality. But I can pop something in the medical bin, that I'm not sure whether or not I should keep it.

[@username00009]

The state of my paper files is the ultimate indicator of how I’m feeling time- and energy-wise. My system varies from micro to macro like yours, and sometimes it’s more like the Sunday Basket concept where all the current stuff is just thrown in.

[@TeriMaxwell]

This was super helpful! Thank you! Today I "decluttered" my paperwork. I was not overwhelmed, I focused on "finding my lease" (which I did find 👍) and trash. I went through two boxes and a large pile on the floor. I filled a trash bag with shredding and half a shopping bag with paper to recycle. I am far from finished but my focus was on the now and having less and today I did that! Thank you for this video!

[@natashyas4149]

If you have less, you will have decluttered successfully. Thanks, I needed to hear that

[@adb4252]

Dana, this has helped me in so many other areas of my life! When I’m behind on admin and I feel so overwhelmed I also go into denial and just ignore it as if it will go away. But now I tell myself “getting something done is better than what it was” and often I’ll get a lot more done than just the “something” I initially planned. Thank you for this! Your videos are helping me with decluttering, but also so many other areas of my life! 🌸

[@hannahm4078]

So glad you're posting videos! You have so much insight and I love it.

[@erint933]

This was the best advice for me who is sooo overwhelmed. I have prob 5 plus large bins of paper. Thank you a ton bcs to even just hear to first toss the trash, to reduce the pile size- wow that is so freeing. I put a lot of guilt on myself bcs of this mess. I'd hug you if I could bcs I so needed that!😁👍

[@lynnettelg]

Only 5? 😀 I’m with you.

[@erint933]

@@lynnettelg 😁👍

[@carolg.6838]

Right, you are not the only one. When I go through a box or a bag, some of it is junk and it is reduced. There are lists of what legally we need to keep, nevertheless it gives me decision paralysis as much is sentimental or other categories. Same is true with non-paper items.

[@lisaannbrown904]

Oh my word I can so relate to you. Love how you show real emotion and keep it truthful. Love your container method. Up to now, I would just get more containers. I have tubs of stuff. I have just found your channel and I have now stated doing my dishes daily. I got rid of a lot in my kitchen. I decluttered my linen closet and making small strides throughout the house. The last 20’years (for real)we have been redoing our home. It seems like I keep moving one project from one room to another. I wish you could come down to my Texas town and help me with the emotional stuff. I feel like I need a counselor because I am attached to stuff. I could go on about how I had boys and they don’t have the same attachment to things. I could mention that I left my country and moved my entire childhood/parent homes “stuff” and now their memories and my childhood memories have no where to live but with me. Anyhow... just thought I would tell you to keep doing videos because you’re amazing.

[@beccismith4454]

💜 hugs!! Sounds like you are on a good path! Be gentle with yourself, and finding your path to how you feel most comfortable in your space.

[@michellemybelle22]

My parents are hoarders and it’s heartbreaking. I think some of your concepts might resonate with my Mom. Thank you so much.

[@beccismith4454]

Wow, when I listen to you I am so thankful for the recycling system here in Germany. Every household has a paper container - at the house!! And it gets picked up once a month. That one and the yellow one which is for packaging recycling, plastics and tin cans and such (not glass) I picked up free of charge, to encourage recycling. And the black bin, which is smaller and it’s for “everything else, stuff that can’t be recycled but isn’t glass or special trash like batteries or electronics” The black one gets picked up every two weeks I think, if you put it out, and you get charged per pick up somehow. So that discourages the use of that bin, encouraging putting things in other receptacles as appropriate as much as possible. And containers for glass, three different colors, are located here and there, never very far from where people live unless you’re really remote but even there I’m sure they have them... Sometimes near/next to the grocery store. As appreciate that the recycling systems more and more often in the US and also some other countries I’ve heard about. I think this is only going to improve over time :-)

[@micaparsons546]

Honestly today is the first day Ive ever seen one of your videos and Im already ordering your books as this video was SUPER helpful. I do the exact same thing and bury it and not think about it. Thank you so much for covering this topic, Ive watched many declutter videos but not many touch on how hard it can be to start.

[@joycegreer9391]

I fit with you more than the other ones giving advice. Paper is one of my big problems. I like your strategy that whatever amount you decrease is successful decluttering. I would try to tackle large piles with lots of initial energy, but I would find I can only sustain that for a certain period of time before losing energy and attention. A smaller amount at a time is much more efficient. I don't have bills only digital, because I would probably forget what is due and when. I need to have the bill come in the mail.

[@colleencarrillo7929]

For those who watch this her books are amazing. I find purging and organizing overwhelming and it has helped sooo much!!!

[@elaine0980]

Thank you Dana. Love the Take Your House Back course Dawn@ Minimal Mom and Cas @Clutterbug. Also, I have read your books several times. Actually, I listened to the audio book. I highly recommend your AUDIO book. Your narration is so entertaining while so very very helpful for real world decluttering and home care. 😊

[@Pxzvamp33]

THANK YOU Dana for making this video, it came right when I needed it. My husband of 28 years passed away in July due to Covid. Now I find myself downsizing from a 2200 sq ft. home that we shared for 18yrs down to a 850 sq ft 2 bedroom to be shared with our daughter (Moving from Texas to Los Angeles, CA not sure what I’m thinking here). Paper clutter has become my biggest enemy in this whole process. As if our paper clutter wasn’t bad enough before now I’ve had to add new files to deal with probate, covid hospital bills, death certificates etc. you get the point. It has been so paralyzing and overwhelming. Trying to decide what to keep to be put into the moving POD has just left me so overwhelmed and frozen with indecision. Hearing your thought process and feelings about paper clutter is so relatable. Thank you and keep up the great work.

[@DanaKWhite]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[@LilCraftyNook]

I sincerely congratulate you three and frankly, ANYONE under the age of 60 (who has figured this out early)! The rest of your lives will be so much less anxiety producing!! I so hear you about the talking while fast forwarding!! It was hilarious to watch when you did it!!!

[@turteltaube2277]

Hi Dana, when I am in front of a pile of things I always ask myself "whats the worst that can happen?" just to tell myself its not like I am cleaning out the Horse manuver. Anyways the other day when I had the courage to "attack" a big old box of stuff that I had shifted from one corner in the office to another... I actually found a TESCO VOUCHER that would have expired the week after! This Box must have been standing there for 6 months minimum, and I felt so REWARDED when I saw what I was missing. x

[@GoogleUser-wx8mw]

And so here I am a year later listening to Dana while I clear trash out of a big bag of paper. Wish I could five it a second thumbs up. Okay, off to re-listen to some of her other videos so I can get through this bag.

[@lisaholderby3031]

I know what you mean about the mail. Ugh I hate it!! I used to actually avoid getting the Mail cause I didn’t want more mess and didn’t want to deal with it. 🤦‍♀️

[@squeegeeval]

We have a mailbox separate from our house at the front of our neighborhood. It’s a secured box so we let it pile up, unless we are looking for a check or orders that come through USPS. Sometimes it’s weeks before we go to claim it, even less incentive with COVID. I deal with it fast though and pare it down to what is ‘keep’ only, usually 25-33% of what the total mail pile was.

[@suefrack2958]

I know you say to always look, but I had a box that had moved with me 3 times (over an 8 yr. period) & when it was time to move again I just knew that if I opened that box I would probably end up keeping it, so I didn't look, I simply walked it to the dumpster & tossed it in. In 8 yrs I'd never needed whatever was in there.

[@DaisyTea1]

YAYYY YOU!!!!

[@cynthiafisher9907]

Aaaaaa! I could never do that, no, not ever. Yeah, I’m just starting this journey. Lol

[@me3mrsjones]

Hahaha! I do a lot of that... but one day I gave a pile of clothes from my daughter away and didn’t look through it... months later my mom asked me about a dress that had been my sister’s and passed down to every one of my nieces! My mom made it and it had hand made cross stitch! For them was a heirloom😱 and I just gave it away!!!! LOL I hope they will forgive me for it! Lol

[@brendamcelyea1246]

Brilliant!!!👏👏👏

[@username00009]

I did that once with a boot-sized plastic tub full of art stuff, but luckily I had just given it to my mom because my social security card was in it. How it was need up in there is a mystery.

[@Catbooks]

Okay, I watched the other video on paper and don't think I'm ready for it, but this I'm 98% sure I can do. So, thanks for making a horrible task sound doable!

[@deboraballes9044]

"I am not a minimalist" thank you, thank you😄 Dawn sent me....your decluttering with feet is pure genius!!!! Finally a system i can follow.......absolutely dont get rid of that mannequin......if you do call me🤭🤭

[@colemine7008]

yes, this is all the very best advice. I love your approach. Just look, do the easy, just make a difference, if you get interrupted you still made it better not worse.

[@islandercirce2]

I've read advice from so many other organisers who emphatically state that the paper pile must be gone through & how essential it is that each piece be dealt with, only handle it once, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. In my case (and others too, I'm sure) that advice & their recommended action is what actually results in failure. Or the feeling of failure. What you've suggested here is what I actually do. Having several chronic health conditions means that sometimes huge piles of paper develop. Perfection simply isn't possible. It's a bit silly that I needed your saying it's ok to not feel like I've failed, but there you go. Thank you.

[@debraneighbors8764]

Dana, you have no idea how much you have changed our lives in the last month. I'm not even done with decluttering yet, but my home and office at work are so much nicer. I didn't even try to enlist the help of my husband and daughter, but they love the results so much that they have happily started decluttering their areas around the house. Everything just looks so nice and neat and it's no longer stressful or overwhelming to keep it that way. And the DISHES!!! We all love not having to do dishes and never having dirty dishes in the sink or on the countertops. One little change and the dishes always seem to be done and put away. We now have regular routines to immediately deal with any new items coming into the house so that they don't become clutter. We apply your simple ideas to everything we do around the house and we love it. Thank you so much for everything!!!!

[@davidgregg2778]

I just found this video . I have many years of paper clutter to go through . It is such a struggle just to get started . She has a way that will help me get started with my boxes of paper . So glad you are sharing your journey .

[@jinglesh1398]

You are the decluttering QUEEN!!! Thank you so much for all you do for all the "Slobs coming clean at the speed of life!" We are not alone any more

[@summawub]

I like that you talk during the fast forwarding. You are pretty adorable. Thanks for being your honest self and sharing. You've really helped give me a boost in my progress.

[@bethkucera9356]

smart smart lady.

[@_Shonda_]

Where have you been all my life? The words you are saying sound exactly like me. I just found you yesterday. I am SO glad I found you. Thank you in advance for helping me get my house decluttered.

[@belindamcintosh1671]

I am so grateful for you! You do come across as a friend and someone just like me! Emotional overwhelm and living with so much clutter and lack of organization has been my life, but now I am beginning to feel like it could be possible to conquer the clutter!

[@ashleyfarrell3576]

You speak RIGHT to my brain! Thank you SO MUCH for being you and being here to help!

[@angelaglaros]

I love your approach. I feel like it could be the basis for a hoarder recovery program too, because you pay attention to the emotional reasons for clutter buildup. 💗

[@cynthiaespitia8979]

Thank you for keeping life real especially for those of us who are struggling with "getting it together." I appreciate that you share your real struggles to help us along.

[@jiuzgirlbeauty619]

I don’t think anyone has actually understood me like this!! I am a new subscriber!

[@Isaac-e7p2t]

Love you your so down to earth & relatable! Been watching some of your older video's.

[@scarletbluefield2542]

Yay! Dana, you made the paper clutter video! Whoohoo!

[@loritempleman2951]

I think I need to have this on a loop while I face my paper clutter. I love seeing new videos from you, you get through to me like no one else does!

[@tracegates8841]

Yes, I agree.

[@PigletSaysHello]

I love your honest, compassionate advice. You understand people who struggle with these situations. Your strategies work and help. Thank you 😊❤.

[@miriamgladen9615]

Thank you so much. I'm overwhelmed and paralyzed and in denial as you have been years before and desperately looking for advice. So I will check your videos for the first one and start at the beginning through the end. Perhaps I will find a way out of this misery. Love from Germany

[@shereemoon]

Thank you, you comforted me in my anxiety and paralysis today! 💕i can take some baby steps today.

[@pvg1236]

Lost track of the number of times I nodded, said "Yup, that's me" out loud, or said "oh, yeah" in the first 10 minutes. Then came the cherry on top "You're the internet, so you're wacko!" and I got to finish the video with a LOL moment and a smile. Thanks, Dana! And a side note to Dana - I WAS a cheerleader, so I know it's more Dragnet ("just the facts, ma'am") than cheerleading when I say that your videos make my day every time I get a chance to see one.

[@IndigoAwakener]

The "Awareness Factor" is SO REAL!!

[@nancymeister4803]

Agreed! I try to take papers and fill a small trash can to feel I am succeeding. It could take me all day, adding a sheet here and there, or I do it in one sitting. Either way, by the end of the day, I try to have a small trash can filled. I also rip the paper so I can't second guess and put it back.

[@lanahundley2078]

Paper clutter is my nemesis! I know exactly what you are saying, nothing overwhelms me like all the paper that comes in My husband is self-employed so I panic because THAT paper may be vital to him. We are working on it! Thanks for all your insight and ideas. I enjoy you and your channel.

[@SoulShineLiveMichele]

You have a beautiful way of explaining. I feel like I'm between. I get easily overwhelmed so I totally relate to the lala if I don't look it isn't a problem. I also easily declutter when I actually do the process. I think there is some valuable information to share with my daughter. She has a huge pile of clothes and she knows she needs to go through it. If she just goes through looking for the obvious trash or no brainer good byes she will reduce the pile and feel better and see what's there.

[@me3mrsjones]

I have learned to detach from material things by watching all of you “declutters”!!! (You, Cass, Dawn, Natalie, etc) It has been a great journey!the only thing that has been difficult as far as paper is photos and my music sheets (I have millions of both)🤦🏻‍♀️... but I am on my journey. And I love the container concept! Thank you thank you!!!

[@franalesi320]

This was fabulous. I stopped the video and went through a pile of paperwork I have been avoiding for months. It is much smaller!

[@patriciahibbard7345]

You are so much like me....I love how you say getting anything out is a win. I have been married 52 years and we have so much clutter....but did get rid of all my yarn, all my material, most of my books....so hard....but I love the idea to get the trash out first....thank you for your books, for your videos, for your blog!

[@magswilliams-fuller8879]

'This!' So relatable, it's the approach I have had to allow myself to take, and it works.

[@maryholton162]

Yes! Go straight from the mailbox to the recycling bin!

[@kathysheeran6589]

Yes , less. I’m with you. I get overwhelmed too. I relate but I can make progress and I am happy with that

[@justusewater1]

Your decluttering boo was my favorite (and I have read all the decluttering books). I love your approach! You are not only helpful, but super funny too! These were actual tips girl!

[@aldawnadee357]

Dana - you are a gem 💎!

[@robinq5511]

I took a look at this because I am in the process of having to go thru my office records at work and put them in storage (IRS requires I keep the last 10 yrs!). I have been in business 35 yrs so that is a lot of stuff to toss. I found a company that for $150 will shred 7 bins of documents for me onsite. Well worth it, except I still have to empty the file drawers and such and box up the rest I will keep. Trash first is the best rule and the fastest part. And like you said, it gives me a chance to look over everything as I go. I have until Sat at 2 pm...wish me luck!

[@KJDogluv]

I’ll say it again, you have changed my life ❤

[@jodypeters4307]

We asked our postmistress to not put flyers in our mailbox and that’s been a HUGE help in reducing the incoming paper amount.

[@trinidiana]

Wow. That’s a great idea

[@stephanipoole4759]

You're awesome, Lady! Thank you for the permission to make progress!

[@2ksbill724]

I saved this decluttering video for last because paper clutter is the bane of my existance! Thanks for making it managable. I can now start. Thanks!!!!

[@user-22-]

You are so helpful! Your mindset towards ‘thinning the herd’ is so logical & is what most do NOT consider. The papers are my nemesis! Sooooo many notes, bills, receipts, etc... It piles up faster than anything else for me.