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Lauren Gibson

Lauren Gibson

Жыл бұрын

If you guys are going through the same thing we got this! I love you guys so much!!

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@DrizzyDrake328
@DrizzyDrake328 Жыл бұрын
Love you girl you got this. Thank you for being vulnerable. It makes us feel less alone ❤
@galaiko_anastasia
@galaiko_anastasia 4 ай бұрын
Yes, that’s definitely hard! I totally understand you! I am going through the same thing! Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤
@RonC689
@RonC689 Жыл бұрын
These are never easy been through bad breakups. Keep being you. Your an amazing person, you make us laugh and inspired each day. Each day it will get better. Stay up and keep going.
@CristinaPerezVelarde
@CristinaPerezVelarde Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so transparent about this topic. I wish more women empowered each other this way. I am going through the same situation and this has given me hope! I’m also in the LA area so I extra understand how hard it can be to avoid someone that was in each aspect of your life! Reach out anytime 💗
@dylanbushmire1622
@dylanbushmire1622 Жыл бұрын
I’ve literally noticed that every single girl that plans out how she’s gonna get over a breakup, and that she’s gonna do it the right away, does exactly the opposite. I can’t be wrong
@DearAnnya
@DearAnnya Жыл бұрын
Break ups are the WORST. But I’m so proud of you for not jumping into something else and taking the time to heal. You won’t regret it. I agree with you. You can’t see them or look at their stuff for a longgggg time. It’s only gonna delay the healing. Girl you got this 💕
@emmastrening-ch4dq
@emmastrening-ch4dq Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for how hard this is! I can’t even imagine. We are all here for you and thank you for being so awesome and being willing to share this with us even though it is super hard.
@CS-jm5xr
@CS-jm5xr Жыл бұрын
Your 24. Move the fuck on.
@mattdawson2236
@mattdawson2236 Жыл бұрын
Giving yourself the time to heal is one of the best things to do, and surround yourself with people that will always be there for you no matter what. Breakups are hard but they also open another door in an opportunity to do something different and find your true self. Stay strong ❤
@sarahlogar1032
@sarahlogar1032 Жыл бұрын
I know this is so hard girl and I am completely going through something similar. Idk if you are into podcasts but the podcast “date yourself instead” is amazing and has really helped me get into the right mindset! Sending you all the love ❤️
@jordansolis_
@jordansolis_ Жыл бұрын
take as much time as you need Lauren, everything else can wait. I hope you feel better!
@jordansolis_
@jordansolis_ Жыл бұрын
I feel lonely sometimes as well, this helped me a bit just trying to stay optimistic and that there’s light at the end of the tunnel.
@reaper6204
@reaper6204 Жыл бұрын
My 11yr ended when I was told that she was just no longer in love with me, the only thing you can do is just move on and don’t let those thoughts creep into your head of “why wasn’t I enough” etc keep moving forward and as you said hit the gym do whatever it take to get into a healthy mental state and I promise the rest will follow, stay strong and keep moving forward
@chewiebox9793
@chewiebox9793 Жыл бұрын
We’re u married ?
@jessicadaianacardona8173
@jessicadaianacardona8173 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry girly, we get you. a big advice is focus on yourself, spend awhile on your own and heal. dont even focus on finding a person, focus on your own journal and the right person will come along when you aren’t looking
@teckdan
@teckdan Жыл бұрын
That crushes my heart seeing you broken like this. I literally love seeing you happy and dance everywhere, it just fills my heart with joy. I hope you will heal in a good way. I am healing myself from a very painful breakup. I feel your pain. I wish the best for you! With much love.
@ChumblesProductions
@ChumblesProductions Жыл бұрын
This LITERALLY just happened to me. We just too many things that we weren't on the same page about. We decided it was better to break things off instead of letting it linger and making it worse on us in the long run. Been following for YEARS, hope everything works out for you in the end :)
@melissadelana
@melissadelana 6 ай бұрын
Lauren, I just came across this video, and you're right a year later you are in a better place and with somebody better. Guaranteed Vik will protect your heart.
@saintsarah_
@saintsarah_ Жыл бұрын
Ugh girl I’m going through a break up as well. But we are at a toxic stage where we see each other here and there but I gotta stay strong and heal and stand up for myself and not see him anymore. We got this together. Hold each other accountable.
@djbeans2585
@djbeans2585 Жыл бұрын
When you said you're 24, I'm 26 and still haven't found a person, so I relate. Whatever we can to help you know we will. Love yourself. Breakups are normal things in life.
@flightscapeaviationphoto
@flightscapeaviationphoto Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for opening up your feelings and while you're battling through it, you're growing through it and bringing others who follow you along for the ride that many out there likely need. How did I get here? I have 2 boys that are your age and we recently lost their mom and my spouse of 32 years to cancer. I can't dance but caught a few videos w/ Vik and Miranda on a YT channel and it fascinates me how people can move like this. The music was from MY college years (late 80s). You were in one of them and I had to find out WHO has that amazingly expressive and beautiful smile... it was you. Listening to you here, you will clearly get through this and be even BETTER... your maturity, attitude, drive and overall personality (and STUNNING smile)... will have you coming out from that other side so much better. 🙂... oh, and keep up the amazing dancing.
@rotti5849
@rotti5849 Жыл бұрын
Poor Lauren! 😢 You will find that person and be happy together with him for the rest of your life! You‘re just 24 and got so much time left, don‘t ever give up :)
@ceradaddygibson
@ceradaddygibson Жыл бұрын
Im so sorry you’re going through this! When I was 24, a really significant relationship ended for me as well. I had the same mindset as you. To heal and be as healthy as possible. I didn’t want anybody new. A few months later, my person came into my life. I rejected it for awhile because I was ‘supposed’ to be on my own. Eventually I realized that it was special. Almost 3 years later and I know I made the right choice. He checks every box, as you put it. None of my exes did I feel so sure and comfortable around. I never felt so secure in the relationship. Now ai have that. You’ll find it. You’re rad. Just give it time.
@rinearlovelle
@rinearlovelle Жыл бұрын
YOU GOT THIS!!!!!! someone will come along and you will say wow I can't believe I thought I would never get over this person and your so much more in love with the one for you!
@stephenmccullum1
@stephenmccullum1 Жыл бұрын
I understand what your going through Lauren I went through a bad break up myself , Don't stop living your life because of it .
@chelseagillman
@chelseagillman Жыл бұрын
We are all so proud of you. I wish I would have left when I knew it wasn't gonna work out. I ended up finding my forever person after that, but sometimes I wonder if I would have found him sooner if I would have just left my last relationship. We are here for you and we love you so so much ! You'll be a better person and a stronger person for this. I promise.
@samsqueakymorgan6948
@samsqueakymorgan6948 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for what you are going through. When I was single I was told not to look for relationships and the right person will just accidentally stroll into your like when you least expect it 💙💙
@venom23mx
@venom23mx Жыл бұрын
Love how you are thinking it , smart woman , don’t torture yourself thinking that you lose something, start thinking what did you learn from it and how can you improve for your next relationship
@Shadowmage18
@Shadowmage18 Жыл бұрын
it's hard to find the right one. Still looking for mine. Keep strong and you will find the right one for you 💪
@rj12w
@rj12w 5 ай бұрын
It’s even harder when the love of your life passes away. It’s been so hard to get thru it. Hope you have a good support system, that really helps. I think you will be fine gurl!👍🏼
@lourdesorozco1753
@lourdesorozco1753 Жыл бұрын
Im sorry Lauren to see you going through such a hard process... I broke up with my bf these past days and it feels horrible, when you're feeling alone without that person, but something i read yesterday was: what really hurts the most is all the unexpressed love because its stuck with you, it cant go away and of course there is no more that person so you can give this to, and all the expectations are broken because at some point you end up believing that this is "your" person, your soulmate and rie or die for the rest of your days and when its over, its hard to actually convince yourself its OVER. Lol, it seems like a diary now hahah. Send you lots of love and you're right in thinking to heal in a healthy way, to break that cycle of trying to be with a new guy just to not feel alone. It will make you stronger. We got this gurlllll 😘
@lilycialowicz6953
@lilycialowicz6953 Жыл бұрын
You’re young! You’re still learning so much about yourself. Don’t put so much pressure on time to find the one.. you’ve got tons of it. Also, I would unfollow him on social, it’ll only help. In a year from now you’ll probably be able to see him around again and feel totally fine about it. Time is so on your side ❤ You’ll meet the one when it’s meant to happen, have faith in that and it’ll help you focus on healing. Sending you good vibes!
@benjifrmdadot1410
@benjifrmdadot1410 Жыл бұрын
You are a mature women who knows what she wants and NEEDS. Take care of yourself be kind to one self and no matter how hard it gets it could always be worse. Smile and keep walking on. You deserve the best
@mikelightsr983
@mikelightsr983 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lauren sorry to hear about your brake up I've been in that situation after 7 years I'm going on 34 and still single and waiting for the right Person all you can do is focus on your self and do not look for the right relationship let it find you keep your head up and keep staying strong
@melvinmeert53
@melvinmeert53 Жыл бұрын
i know how you feel Lauren, hope you feel better soon. you are a wonderful person!
@MortimerSnerdVideos
@MortimerSnerdVideos Жыл бұрын
I hurt for you Lauren. It’s okay. You’ll get through this.
@nikkialganes
@nikkialganes Жыл бұрын
You’re very kind Lauren! I know you will find someone someday who will check all the boxes! There are just stuff that are like perfect chemistry but not compatible in the end. It just sucks and it happened for the best :( I cried when you said I hate losing people. 😭 I really hate it too, I just learned to cut ties of some people and not give them access to me anymore jus cuz I’m afraid of losing them, jus gives them the power to do the same thing as they did to me and took advantage of me hoping things will change ya know. I’m so sorry Laurennnn. HUGSSSSOOOOTIGHT
@anthonybryant584
@anthonybryant584 Жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry that this has happened to you. Life is tough we all know that. Although everything happens for a reason, admitting and validating those reasons also takes a lot to come clean about and you have done that. I do wish good luck for both you and him cause we all know that you both are hurting so much right now as it hurts us trying to process that such a terrible thing has happened. We love you Lauren. 8:14
@aubreyfetz
@aubreyfetz Жыл бұрын
You go this and we're here for you!
@gillyrocksjapan
@gillyrocksjapan Жыл бұрын
Break ups are one of the hardest things in life. From my experience you just have to put it behind you and focus on other things. It takes time to heal, months or sometimes years, so don’t rush into a new relationship. I married for the wrong reasons at 24 and it ended in divorce. Don’t make the same mistake, wait a few more years. Take it easy and be with friends.
@aaronmason7861
@aaronmason7861 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to see you like this you’re 24 and that’s still young I’m almost 20 you’ll find someone who loves you a lot who cares about you who never wants to leave you and hopefully I will to
@shaunwooding2892
@shaunwooding2892 Жыл бұрын
keep your family and freinds close when go through this it helps alot
@ashleytrotter1660
@ashleytrotter1660 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry ❤😢 you deserve the world!! Remember that
@bacegla666
@bacegla666 6 ай бұрын
Lauren, You are such a wonderfull person. Im Happy You'r not rushing this time. Find freedom in being single. The Peace You gonna find is unspoken. Love Ya
@jchap9115
@jchap9115 Жыл бұрын
For me I had to stay single and really be happy with myself and for me to actually be ok. When I was able to do that being in another relationship was so much better and easier.
@vstam390
@vstam390 8 ай бұрын
Girl, I ended a 9 year relationship last Nov so I'm coming up on a year since that. At this point I'm taking it day by day, because i think I'm over all the bullshit endured and then the crippling anxiety appears that I seem to have acquired throughout the 9 yrs. I hope you're doing better 💕
@ludapetter5492
@ludapetter5492 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry about your break up I will stay strong with you everything happens for a reason I am praying for you to get better even tho you will find a better one and a good one be happy
@gustavocastro2403
@gustavocastro2403 Жыл бұрын
I hope that every tear that you have shed will be returned to you as tears of Love and Joy. Stay Strong!! Greetings from Costa Rica.
@7DarkAngel
@7DarkAngel Жыл бұрын
@belladi7753
@belladi7753 Жыл бұрын
Lauren! I just want to give you the biggest hug! Here for you girl anytime you need to vent or talk
@jincbf
@jincbf Жыл бұрын
Your beautiful, your still young you got plenty of time to find someone ♥️
@revelationpeleti5654
@revelationpeleti5654 7 ай бұрын
You gooot this! hope this comment reaches you! you will find the man that is destined to do life for you, not for just a season but for the long haul, im not saying its gonna be easy and perfect, you will go through hardships but he will remain strong for you no matter what you guys go through! ❤hes your all and your everything! ✊🏾
@novaa325
@novaa325 Жыл бұрын
it's sad to see you like this, Time will make the job ! Focus on yourself,on your goal like you just said, Don't push you to find someone...24 is still young and it's not bad if it take time to find the good one ! Healing is hard and painful but it will come to an end, faster than you think😌 take time to be with your friend, your family, they will always be there for you ! Be happy alone with yourself before trying to be happy with someone else again ! Everyone know its hard don't worry👍have a good day
@novaa325
@novaa325 Жыл бұрын
@@CS-jm5xr did she look like !?
@4sythemusic
@4sythemusic Жыл бұрын
You deserve happiness, you'll find what you're looking for when you least expect it❤️🌹
@mastersmax6223
@mastersmax6223 Жыл бұрын
Take care of yourself, you will get better!
@serenaholland1546
@serenaholland1546 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that you’re hurting. I wish I could give you a hug. you will find your person. You’re amazing and beautiful
@7DarkAngel
@7DarkAngel Жыл бұрын
@ArizonaKid
@ArizonaKid Жыл бұрын
Just part of life . Thanks for sharing . And yes it has to be a match . For both of u . So happy hunting and yes take your time . God Bless
@dktayngz
@dktayngz Жыл бұрын
As a friend, I'm very proud of you Llauren.
@SuperRusty29
@SuperRusty29 5 ай бұрын
It may be for the best! Someone better is looking for you! I believe things happen for a reason!
@jacksoncraig9861
@jacksoncraig9861 Жыл бұрын
Hey idk if you check these or anything but if I can give some advice, I found it really helpful to block the ex on all social media platforms. Even if you guys are on good terms it keeps you from checking his status on everything, location, etc. And I know it’s hard to even consider doing it but I promise 30 mins after you block them you’ll feel so much better. I ended up blocking my ex for a few months so I could get over them then unblocked them when I was feeling better! Worked really well. also I didn’t delete their contact info just in case they needed something for some reason.
@beau_croom
@beau_croom Жыл бұрын
the sincerity......... U really R an amazing person
@garfieldbarney69
@garfieldbarney69 9 ай бұрын
Lauren, I feel for you and have been in your shoes but a bit of advice, stay smiling and I know it hurts but dont ever let your ex see you not smiling and dont stop going to places that you love because of him❤❤. Stay smiling and stay dancing and you'll be happy. Love and Respect❤❤
@ciciellis9909
@ciciellis9909 Жыл бұрын
Breakups are never easy but you will get through it.
@A.JForever213
@A.JForever213 Жыл бұрын
I'm always here for you Lauren
@jamessnyder3052
@jamessnyder3052 Жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful you deserve someone that will love you and care about you forever i hope you find your happiness
@krnaprej
@krnaprej Жыл бұрын
how can someone break a heart of a such a beautiful girl like u i will never understand that. so sorry for u :( stay positive and move on LOVE U
@s4spencer54
@s4spencer54 Жыл бұрын
Im right here!!! I’d do everything for you!
@ofrowley
@ofrowley Жыл бұрын
Girl your love for him shows through the screen and trust- you will be the one that got away!! ❤❤❤ Stay strong 24 is young don't worry honestly !!!
@harveywhitman1133
@harveywhitman1133 Жыл бұрын
Focus on yourself. Lock in. Everything else will work itself out.
@leannabenson8033
@leannabenson8033 3 ай бұрын
Ohhh iam so sorry dear i feel for you lots of love to you dear you will always be in my thoughts and prayers
@rebeccalong7281
@rebeccalong7281 Жыл бұрын
I feel you and im still trying after a 6 year relationship and I was close to him and his family and they were close to me and my daughter
@Ross6532
@Ross6532 Жыл бұрын
I don't know you or really much about you. But I'll say 1 thing, you are 24. You are young. Live life and enjoy it. A person will come when you least expect it. I've been through 5 years of a relationship, and it sucks after, but stay strong and keep your head up. I know it's cliché but it really does just take time!
@MichaelB-zl6rf
@MichaelB-zl6rf Жыл бұрын
I don’t know if you’ll read this, I hope you do. I’ve started opening up about my most recent relationship. We were at a point where we started talking about having a family. Getting married, all the good stuff. We even had a time frame for when to actually make the push to get pregnant. Now in the mean time, we weren’t doing anything to prevent a pregnancy, but we had a time frame for when to really start paying attention to the cycles of her body to get pregnant. About halfway between us discussing a time frame and “pulling the goalie” for lack of better term, she tells me she’s pregnant. I was over the moon excited, I was 31 years old at the time and I was over the moon excited that I was finally going to be a dad. Then there were some discoveries that I won’t go into detail about, but I basically found out that she was pregnant with another man’s baby. It crushed me. It ruined me and I still haven’t put the pieces of my heart back together. Maybe talking about it helps? We’ll see. Anyway, I’ve dealt with heartbreak pretty much in every relationship. And it gets tougher to want to move on. You say early on in this video that you’re going to take your time, and you should. But don’t take too much time to the point where you’re just comfortable being single. Because that’s where I’m at. I’ve lost my passion for everything I’ve ever wanted. I used to define what I wanted in 3 simple words: “house, home and family”. But I’m at the point now where no one has broken my heart in 5 years. And I don’t if I’ll ever have it in me to risk another broken heart. So you do you. You do what you think is best. You’re young, talented, beautiful and you appear to have a lot of love to give in your life. Time is on your side. Just don’t take too much of it.
@jbrows3730
@jbrows3730 7 ай бұрын
Yes, just take your time❤
@fathulbari2010
@fathulbari2010 4 ай бұрын
Don't worry girl.. life is always found a way the answer...😊
@canadianevang55
@canadianevang55 Жыл бұрын
1:30 the time will come…. Be positive and stay strong💪. Never dated but I know you’ll bounce back
@eagle78ninja
@eagle78ninja 5 ай бұрын
LAUREN!!!🙋 HATE seeing you in tears! You only going thru this cause to remind you just how special and happy you gonna be by the time you actually even see this... If ever... But regardless you are gonna be happy and continue to show the prettiest smile I ever seen!!! Maybe you need an easy coast man!! 🙋😄😘
@AM-br4ix
@AM-br4ix 3 ай бұрын
No doubt it's tough as I KNOW MYSELF! Divorced twice...my first ex-wife was the love of my life. I am now 56 and have no children, divorced twice. I understand. It definitely takes time...take your time! SORRY to you, Lauren!! Your Beautiful, and a Great Dancer! You WILL MEET someone BETTER, Lauren!
@nanaman
@nanaman 3 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful spirit and I know that you’re going to be blessed with the best. 😉💃🏻🕺🏻
@Beer20001
@Beer20001 Жыл бұрын
You have to what's right for you, and he (Hootie) has to do what's right for him - a break-up is sometimes better than being in a miserable/ horrible relationship. Keep your head up high and this shall pass soon Lauren. All the best to you. Greetings from Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
@sumairshirazi
@sumairshirazi Жыл бұрын
she still follows him though on Instagram
@sumairshirazi
@sumairshirazi Жыл бұрын
so idk
@dlion5313
@dlion5313 Жыл бұрын
I've said I've been single for 3 years, I mean, since the pandemic started for real. I had been dating one woman after another one before, that lasted 10 years. Honestly, it's not easy to be single as well as it's not easy to be dating. I felt I need that experience tho. Stay single for a while. So I could take over my life. I wanna have kids and everything, but "haste make waste". Wish you all the support. One thing I noticed, I thought I would be lonely, then I discovered I'm surrounded by lovely people. And this people deserve much value. I know you have amazing people around you, you'll be fine. Wish you all the support. Mat
@dlion5313
@dlion5313 Жыл бұрын
@Shahab Vaziri I'm Brazilian, I never chill lol!
@dlion5313
@dlion5313 Жыл бұрын
@@shahabvaziri29 all right, thanks anyway
@jdmfs1772
@jdmfs1772 10 ай бұрын
I've sworn off relationships entirely because I have no interest in going thru another break up. I'm damn near 20yrs older and have a 22yr old son I raised myself. I'm not recommending u give up on relationships entirely. That was the best choice for my situation, not yours. You're young, just take it one day at a time. Time heals all wounds. After my last break up, the worst 18months of my life ended up being one of the best things to ever happen to me. Perspective is the key to life. I've been saying that for 20+years. I could never see how happiness was a choice though. I used to think that was the dumbest ass shit when people would say happiness is a choice. Like all the unhappy people in the world are doing it intentionally cuz they don't want to be happy. If not being happy is what makes everybody who isn't happy, happy, and that's why they choose it, then why aren't all the unhappy people happy!? Turned out that I was actually the dumbest ass shit in the equation, and they were all right lol. It just took me 40yrs to finally gain the perspective I needed to see it was a choice and know how to choose it. Losing people u love sucks! Losing your best friend (or who u thought was your best friend until u found out they weren't) is a F@#$ING HORRIBLE experience. Do what's best for u and keep doing the shit to become the best u. That's the only winning there is in life. U can't love someone else if u don't love yourself. U can't make someone who loves u happy if u don't know how to be happy. Anybody who loves u will value your happiness too much to be happy with you being unable to find happiness. Most importantly, u cannot teach a child anything that u can't show them yourself. Unfortunately i learned that one way too late in the game. I couldn't show my son how to choose to be happy or how to have a healthy functional relationship. I was still trying to figure that shit out myself. Just ride it out 1 day at a time and let time so it's thing. If u do something each of those days to better yourself and figure out how to make yourself happy, I'll bet u $1000 that's gonna be where u find that dude you're looking for. If u keep improving yourself it's going to keep improving him too. You'll be the best u with the best dude and u guys will be able to show your kids EXACTLY WTF they need to do to do the same thing! I think u should do that and I will keep dropping these pearls of old man wisdom on people who probably won't ever read them because they're way too long lol. For some reason it seems to be a universal belief that anybody who would write such a long comment has nothing worth reading to say or all kind of other weird ass conclusions they like to jump to when they see anything resembling a paragraph😂.....all I gotta do is try. Whether anybody listens or not is entirely their deal. I did my part✊️
@apollomoon1
@apollomoon1 5 ай бұрын
It’s pretty weird isn’t it that it happens to nearly all of us at some point and sucks the same for us all. It’s hard not to get lost in someone. It’s the loss of habits and the unfinished plans that hurt almost more than the loss of the person. Yep. Withdrawal because it’s a grieving of sorts. I won’t say any cliche things, there’s plenty of them here to read.
@maryslifelately
@maryslifelately 10 ай бұрын
Your brave gerl❤ me too brokeup just this week😢
@Chris_Eatz
@Chris_Eatz Жыл бұрын
We’re all here for you
@aaronmason7861
@aaronmason7861 Жыл бұрын
I know how you feel Lauren I got out of a relationship as well
@winter_vfx8972
@winter_vfx8972 Жыл бұрын
Stay Strong!
@craigbrabant4938
@craigbrabant4938 5 ай бұрын
Love is an electrical impulse & emotional construct your mind, BUT I’m sorry you’re hurting.
@bacegla666
@bacegla666 6 ай бұрын
24, for your age you have very good awearness and knowladge about yourself. Meeey im so glad You are smart
@tuiman5212
@tuiman5212 Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget to forgive yourself. Don’t look to date anyone at all. Let love come to you. Focus on yourself. Love yourself. As my mom always said. Never chase a girl; the right one won’t run.
@jessicapeterson2709
@jessicapeterson2709 Жыл бұрын
Heal yourself to the point that that boy ain't even your type anymore 😌👌🏼
@compumule3099
@compumule3099 Жыл бұрын
Be strong!
@Tvtgames101
@Tvtgames101 Жыл бұрын
Fr 😂😂😂 been cheated on so many times people can’t be loyal so I’m dating older
@adriendiolle5058
@adriendiolle5058 Жыл бұрын
That person you are searching for might be in your comments. I love watching you talking.
@juandelacruzfraganciadelac1224
@juandelacruzfraganciadelac1224 Жыл бұрын
It's always the same for everyone as much as love's feels good it's gonna hurt as much if it didn't hurt alot even if love was really good then it wasn't really love when it ended it's the balance of life .
@bobbyandrews3537
@bobbyandrews3537 Жыл бұрын
You got this gorgeous.
@Truthseeker1370
@Truthseeker1370 Жыл бұрын
Lauren it’s a lot to read but please . Love is often confused with attachment and to be honest if your going to the past your ruining your present. Real love will feel easy, you’ll always be certain, assured, secure. We don’t fall in love with people, love is a state of being, we love how they make us feel, how we feel and see ourselves is a internal reflection , everyone is a mirror for you to see that. Healing is ugly , it’s so uncomfortable but it will set you free. To heal you must feel the discomfort and make peace with it by letting go. Surrender to the moment and let your heart expand. Life is about learning to love yourself so you don’t need anyone, they just add to you . If your ever in Florida let me know I’d be happy to break it down more in person 🙏
@sherria4920
@sherria4920 Жыл бұрын
TRUST the advice Lauren gave here on YT. It is SO valid and healthy! Don't wait for Mr Perfect because perfection doesn't exist. Do wait for Mr Right-For-You. Meanwhile, do what makes your life better. Your person makes you a better you, stronger, safer, saner, and closer to all God created you to be. We women waste so much valuable LIFE and TIME settling for fixer-uppers who didn't ask to be fixed! We need to fix ourselves and then wait for the real love of our lives. Meanwhile, love yourself and make a positive mark on the world no one can easily erase! That's what matters. Your good works and substance will be like a Bat Signal to the right guy. He'll find you when you least expect it, but not if you're with Mr Wrong. Stay available until then, and great love is more important than the hottest looks, bc chemistry is NOT love. Chemistry is only temporary attraction, which fades over the first 4 yrs. There has to be something solid besides chemistry for real love to form and last. Remember that and wait for the guy you can respect because he's GOOD to you over a long period. Read up on narcissists and if someone seems too good to be true while too hard to resist, you might be getting "love bombed". Run!! If anything ever feels really off, it probably is. Trust your gut. Don't get gut punched later with betrayal bc you didn't listen to red flags. Last, anything bad a guy tells you about himself in the first 5 minutes - believe!! Later he'll say he warned you! If you feel completely safe, you might be, and if you don't, better safe than sorry. If MORE women held men accountable, more young men would have to mature sooner, and show more patience and appreciation for the love of a good woman. Stop giving men who don't deserve it everything they want! You can't "teach" a man to love you by making it easy to use you. It says you aren't valuable to yourself. You are precious in God's eyes, and should be in everyone's, but that doesn't make you a match for every cutie who flirts with you. When Mr Right finds Miss Right, he will pursue respectfully and commit right away, but not tell you until later. It's healthy not to move too fast at first, so you both still have room to communicate openly and honestly. If a man can't do all that with you, you are not the one for him. Cut Mr Wrong lose quickly so Mr Right can find you. Most importantly, don't sleep around trying to find your forever person! It doesn't work 99% of the time. Your Mr Right will respect your boundaries and like you more, not less. The players will dismiss themselves. LET THEM GO GLADLY. Better small disappointment now than big pain later. WAIT patiently for love! Meanwhile, love your free time and use it wisely to improve you. Become the woman you'd be willing to marry if you were looking for one. That should both keep you busy, and make you more attractive to a quality mate. Best of luck to you all. ❤
@CBaller2020
@CBaller2020 8 ай бұрын
Girl, you're so young. At your age, I was already a mom to a 2 year old. Break-ups suck!! Hold your head high!!! You have plenty of time!! Maybe Vik??? He's hot! Go for it!! ❤❤❤ Also, I went through plenty of break ups before I found my husband. 25 years later and 2 kids later, we're still going strong!!
@emmar7263
@emmar7263 Жыл бұрын
Your such a pretty girl and one day you will find your soulmate ❤
@7DarkAngel
@7DarkAngel Жыл бұрын
@angelareiswig4302
@angelareiswig4302 11 ай бұрын
You gotta just do YOU. Be yourself. Do what you like doing. Maybe start a new hobby. Something different and out of your comfort zone. This is how you grow as a person. The right one will come along. Fall into your lap actually.
@jacquelinekamminga5397
@jacquelinekamminga5397 Жыл бұрын
I took a year single and still ended up with the wrong person and I'm 27 i definitely feel wanting to find my human 🤣
@tonalsword9019
@tonalsword9019 Жыл бұрын
I was gonna comment something scummy but watching the vid made me feel warmth wtf
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