Breaking Down The Stereotype Of The Angry Black Woman | Prince Donnell | The Man Cave Podcast

[@asthysoul1304]

Prince Donnell!!! I have seen so much toxicity thrown at Black women over this issue, and it's destructive. You are an amazing young man with so much wisdom and understanding to offer. May your platform expand 10-fold!!!

[@honeydove_4844]

When you thanked your mom..I got chills..my mom has a amazing husband for 20 years now and she still haven’t grasped that concept of relaxing..she still want to control

[@barackthecomposer6642]

And these modern times, she’s not nearly alone. This is increasing in this nation.

[@mohodeh1550]

I think the root of the problem is immorality, when a woman decides to have casual sex with a man that she barely knows n gets pregnant and decides to have the child even tho the man does not want a child nor can he support one but she has it anyway, now u have a resentful man that feels stuck and most likely will not be a part of that child's life, now the woman becomes very angry and miserable and extremely resentful towards all men, she in turn channels all that resentment and anger towards her child who grows up to be just as angry and just as resentful n the cycle repeats it's self, and this is not to lift the blame off the man cuz a real man takes care of his kids ... The moral of the story is to hold ur self in high regard and know ur worth and don't jump in bed with a man unless u r 100% sure that he will not desert u, this is why having children out of wedlock is extremely problematic and filthy .. marry first then have children, but unfortunately in America that's becoming a thing of the past and people that have the same view I do are considered old fashioned and backward

[@lesliebrown3036]

It is so true!!! It is hard to raise our young ladies to be anything but strong because we know they are under attack. Our men are oppressed, they are not loving us, they are not supporting us. We have to find the balance to raise our girls to be half of a healthy relationship and be 100% a strong beautiful smart black woman. It’s so hard. But we are on edge. We are angry. We are hurt. We are in pain. We are proud. I’m resentful for that bc it is so hard. For all of those things.

[@shatieyachapman949]

I have 2 daughters: one is 8 and one will be 17 in a couple of days. It's hard because at times it's like, "what should we teach them?" I understand your comment.

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Being strong is very different than being angry and mistreating or being rude to someone who has nothing to do with your personal problems, which is how a lot of black women are perceived

[@MarcelaMorete-g7y]

😂😂

[@shefunsize6992]

@@Patrickstarrrrr69The stereotypes that every black men have to say but don’t speak on the actual causes and facts of why black women are that way.

[@WangGolden]

Overcome the victim mentality, then your lives will be better. Just do your best, work hard, stop being materialistic and aggressive. That’s all there is. No one is hurting you but yourselves.

[@thegloryimage]

Wow..just to hear this black man speak from a transparent but realistic experience is therapy. Applaud and correct vs condemn and reject

[@integerconsulting9344]

Okay so the elephant in the room is, where are all the black fathers who are missing in these families leading to the masculinization of black women??????? WHERE ARE THE BLACK MEN????

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Not putting up with black women. A lot of them are entitled, rude, promiscuous, and misandrist. I'm not advocating for impregnating someone you have no intention of sticking it out with, but in a sense, it's hard to blame them for not wanting to put up with that abuse...

[@DAD2286]

This convo is amazing!! I always say that when black women are labeled masculine or angry the context behind WHY black women naturally HAVE that presence is forgotten. I expect black men to understand that bc part of why black women had to take that on is because black men have been unfairly taken out of the households starting back in slavery! So black women have to give grace as well. We both need to give each other grace instead of bashing each other. It doesn’t mean that we don’t hold each other accountable. Thank you for this convo.

[@SteadySteppin]

Independent doesn’t equate to masculine. Submissiveness doesn’t equate to feminine.

[@6figuregainz856]

Actually does

[@knucklehoagies]

women need men. men need women. period. there's nothing "respectable" about a woman who chooses to live a life "not needing a man."

[@jayrmelvin]

This just sounds like an excuse for women who are pro-creating with bad partners and absolves accountability. Yes, some men are absent, but that's not the majority. Many times women see red flags in men and choose to ignore them, or foolishly think they can change them.

[@roxannejohnson3998]

First of all Black women are naturally angrier and more aggressive because they naturally have more testosterone than women of other races. Not all Black women obviously but enough for it to have become a general observation which has subsequently turned into a stereotype. This is also why many black women have been disqualified from competing in certain athletics, because like trans women, their testosterone levels are considered above the norm to be able to fairly compete. This is also why black women (and men) dominate power sports like sprinting and track and field. Put a black female sprinter against a white female sprinter and there's just no comparison. The black female athlete will run circles around that white female athlete. Black women also on average tend to be taller and "thicker" than females of other races, and that is because of our West African heritage which made us more desirable for and able to tolerate the back breaking manual labor needed on sugar and cotton plantations during the Trans-Atlantic slave trade. People of West African descent tend to be taller and bulkier due to our natural disposition to developing muscle mass. So the reason Black women tend to be angrier really has very little to do with social factors or men not doing their part. The reason Black women are angrier is the same reason East-Asian men tend to be more timid - it's just a genetic predisposition. For me personally I don't like being around people who have predisposition towards anger. I'm a black woman, but I'm smaller and have tended to be bullied by the larger black women I was around.

[@HabitualLineStepper69]

All nonsense

[@roxannejohnson3998]

@@HabitualLineStepper69 It's the truth ruth!

[@uncommonsense7399]

False! Be accountable. If you can be cordial with your white boss who doesn’t care about you and act like a biznitch to your black man who’ll jump in front of a bullet for you. You can control yourself. No excuses.

[@RKel-r4i]

Nothing to breakdown. Simply algebra. Just as a grandmother, mother, sister, daughter and nieces have been taught not to take no shit off people then expect that the "angry black woman" was taught the same by her parents. Black women have to stand up for themselves. I personally see them as stronger beings than most - regardless of color.

[@DDLLCSJACKSUNNTVDOTNET410]

So what, NO EXCUSE TO MISTREAT MEN! GO GET THERAPY! If they " HAD" to be MASCULINE, Black men "HAVE" to leave you alone.

[@Leelee_videos_888]

I sound like Momma 🤔 This is soooooooo true 👍🏽 Thanks for breaking this down.

[@marzmoonshine601]

Me read title 👀 he is not afraid to go there is 👏🏽

[@miss_92_lissa16]

Love this! Completely enjoyed this dialog. It's so accurate.

[@ldwoods3237]

"CEO of the family when she should've been a co-founder"💯 🙌🏾#Facts

[@sherryberry8061]

Great conversation & thank you!

[@QueenLove-hw5os]

Amazing, Thank you for this video..

[@rashadabruce3310]

I am praying for you that you keep going. Keep being honest and let God lead you. You are incredible

[@5StarNiecy]

Black men have also chosen to leave the home and prioritize other things over their family

[@Flameofblaze7]

Always one

[@5StarNiecy]

I’m lying??? How are we going to grow as a community if we never address these issues. We have to call out the trash fathers! It’s not acceptable to leave your children! Our children need thriving families bottom line

[@mst5543]

I want to be able to release the masculinity. The toxicity of it.

[@CoachLove]

@@5StarNiecy Too many men will stay faithful to a sports team and never go to another team, even if they don't win a game all season, but will leave the family they created after one, two, or even five "losses."

[@martins2191]

Such a one-sided statement.

[@theblackchefjustice]

So basically we must accept a masculine woman??? Naw I'm good... I understand but I don't want a masculine regardless of how they grew up 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@razheer100]

Stop giving people excuses. When you know you have an issue as as an adult you try to fix them. Not continue to harp on how i grew up or what my parent did. Im 35 and grew up in foster care for 18 years of my life. As an inmature young man I was angry at the world and my upringing and used it as an excuse. Yet when i hit my 30s i started realizing my world wouldn't change unless i sought to change it and hold myself accountable. If your a grown man or woman and you know you have an unhealthy form of anger or rage, fix it or get help.

[@Leelee_videos_888]

What about therapy for a man in handling such a strong woman?

[@5StarNiecy]

Agreed

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

"strong" does not equal loud, obnoxious and nasty

[@MarcelaMorete-g7y]

Ahhh stop this blablah, I'm birracial , I have 8 black aunts and 5 white aunts, I love all over them for sure , but my black side family are always loud and angry for anything. I got used to it and I'm ok with that because people are what they are, we don't need deny the true to be pleaseant to anyone.

[@timothyvaughn4828]

I wonder how his mother ended up in her position as a single mother of 3...how?

[@anyyyyyyyyyyyy]

You said you're "not letting women off the hook" but you never once put men on one. Where is the accountability for the growing number of black men that create baby mamas & dip out? You never once held your father accountable for being a deadbeat or these other men. You didn't even acknowledge the plethora of feminine men & men who don't know anything about manhood due to absent fathers. Don't put everything on the women hold the men accountable as well

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Partially agree, but women gatekeep sex. She should not have spread her legs without securing some sort of commitment from the man. Secondly, let's be real, a lot of these ladies chase after the bad boys then act surprised when he dips. Not absolving the man but I think the brunt of the responsibility falls on the woman for being sexually irresponsible. It'd be like a man offering to give his life savings to a woman he barely knows then she takes it and runs. Sure, she's pretty nasty for doing that, but the guy was kind of an idiot, wasn't he?

[@ldwoods3237]

I'm so over my masculine craziness and just leaning into my feminine side in preparation for my husband who HAS to be a provider and protector 🙌🏾#WorththeWait #Self-Love #FeminineQueen #WarriorKing

[@lakeishaslovingteachings6704]

Thank you so much for this! This made me cry, I'm gonna share this video everyday 💯❤

[@4thdown452]

Naw bro ya moms just had to be a mother she didn’t have to be masculine..all y’all needed was a disciplinarian

[@Katrinah443]

Very helpful

[@mychi282003]

Sorry that I'm late seeing this... thank you for seeing truth partially. However, black men have never been removed from the home. Welfare existed because black men create single mothers. How many men have children without commitment.

[@Patrickstarrrrr69]

Women gatekeep sex. She should have secured a commitment before opening her legs. That'd be the responsible thing to do at least

[@lelediamondASMR]

Why is that a masculine thing providing for your kids 😂such nonsense. Women have been doing that for many years. Id consider that very feminine. I think its a victim mentality that causes the anger.

[@razheer100]

Yeah lol

[@bruh2677]

But why was she a single mom? What happened to the father?

[@kalebnbrown]

You make sense.

[@kimberlyjackson8343]

I remember that I went to the Jehovah's Witnesses religion kingdom hall worship place the Jehovah's Witnesses black people is men and women they're very happy people they look like they don't get angry alot or not at all they get along with each other and they don't get into any drama

[@AcesizOfficial]

🙌🏽🇬🇧

[@goddessofalchemy4763]

That maybe true but in my opinion men are not willing to get in touch with their's either. That's why there's so much domestic violence among couples.

[@LaKymana]

I can relate to this

[@honeydove_4844]

Finally a man I can agree with

[@Fudge_Fantasy]

Stay single

[@d.c.9854]

Brother you offer good points BUT...we're NOT talking about ALL. We're talking about THE AVERAGE "ANGRY BLACK WOMAN". What man wants to die dealing with that ish everyday. Maybe you? Maybe him? BUT HELL NO NOT ME...life is wayyyyyy too short sir!

[@humble.pie.]

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[@latoyasykes1]

YES!!!

[@tiathompson6674]

Leading her? Why does she need leading?

[@Gerald-ig7mw]

💯

[@smooveselling3236]

I love your channel and everything, but I can't totally agree with you on this. Women need to be held accountable for their bad decisions in men and etc. They made it harder on themselves @princedonnell. I'm not buying women had to be aggressive in order to survive. They made the decisions and chose the bad men.

[@IndigoCosmic]

Some women become widows and don't have a choice.

[@smooveselling3236]

@@IndigoCosmic I agree some women are widowed, but in general, most are not and they chose to be single mothers. And even if they are widowed, there's no excuse for them to act that way. It's a huge turn off to real men and it makes women very unattractive to most real men in general

[@jayrmelvin]

Without reading your comment i said the same thing, this is PANDERING at best to women's emotions.

[@jayrmelvin]

​@@IndigoCosmic That's a SMALL exception and not the majority of women. Most women by 25 have at least one kid by some dude they were not married to. Stop the BS.

[@IndigoCosmic]

@jayrmelvin I don't know what your talking about "stop the BS" ? It is true that some become widows. I said nothing wrong.

[@martins2191]

I understand you. But find out if she was leaning towards the masculine nature when she let your father leave.

[@hostilemgtow603]

VVomen chose the no man option though, please stop it bro 😐.

[@virgo6911]

Was never a single parent,, now that u broke it down I can understand