Breaking Free from the Male Jailer: The Truth About Women, Relationships, and Independence

[@octo3010cl]

He took everything but left behind the cleaning supplies! Makes sense - he has probably never even used them.

[@Jellyroll2]

😂 I said the same thing

[@margaretjohnson6259]

the day my husband died i was shocked at not being a wife, but a widow. i felt like my purpose in life was gone. then, i thought: i have to reinvent myself. ok. i didn't want to be alone, but i was 65 and recognized what my dating pool was. nixed that quickly enough. six years later i am thriving on my own. the freedom and peace is wonderful.

[@toscadonna]

An empty house is a small price to pay to escape with your life. Just make sure you never speak to him again or even think about giving him another chance. He doesn’t like or respect you.

[@tiffanypayne6124]

Not only does the system use shame. But it uses women against other women as well.🧐💯🌹Sirius

[@Yourmuthasaidso]

those are the pick me's or cool girls who NEVER get chosen!😂

[@StefaniaP880]

On the flip side, if the girl that lives with his boyfriend's parents is smart enough, she would've saved all of her money that would normally go on rent and other utilities as a single person în a account. That way, if sh*ts hits the fan with her relationship, she has her own resources. But yeah, as a european girl myself, major red flag that the guy didn't propose by now and that his parents didn't pressure them into getting committed. To me it sounds like shes just keep the place warm for his future wife.

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

Agreed. I think everyone is happy but for different reasons. Hopefully he proposes soon. Maybe he's just a little late. Hoping. She's perfectly convenient and that is not okay...he needs to propose soon. Maybe she will update with good news.

[@Aqua23-ammg]

@@CharityUniqueBlackwell Hopefully he NEVER proposes. Why should she bind herself to this family and sooner or later become the house slave? Because that´s where it´s headed. I´ve seen this with various cultures countless times - the woman marrying into this "son stays with the parents"-situation ALWAYS LOSES OUT BIG TIME. She needs to get ruthless, save up her coins to maximize what she can get out of this doomed relationship, and then run.

[@oliviaobiaja]

But I also want to add to it...notice how she's enjoying this arrangement because there's another woman who helps her. If she didn't explicitly say it, you would think she was in the relationship with the mother. These men are showing themselves...men need women, women need other women. At some point, the women will realize that the men are useless.

[@oliviaobiaja]

She's in a relationship with the mother and making future family plans based on the assistance of the mother...not the boyfriend. That is very interesting.

[@starlingswallow]

I left my abusive ex husband in 2018 and it truly was the BEST decision of my life!!!! Of course he was "blindsided"...but that blindsightedness was the final nail in his coffin. HOW can someone live and work with you 24/7 and NOT see how miserable you are and say nothing?!??? _Thats_ how little he cared about me. You love me?! Yeah. RIGHT. Byyyyyyyyye!!!!😂😂

[@annmarieknapp2480]

Left mine in 2001!

[@estenas.8799]

Left mine in 2010! Congratulations to us 🎉

[@naestudios0826]

Left mine in 2024

[@aehutmacher]

How much of that stuff did she buy or did they buy together? And he just took what he wanted without even asking. All because he didn’t want the drama that comes with difficult conversations

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

He's a man. He should have left her everything. :)

[@nikicarrie4071]

Not worth women's time

[@DiAn-ud8dy]

She bought everything he takes it and they Say "she took everything it's so unfair For mn"

[@Joyfullscroll]

Did he also take HER truck? She said her "spare Truck keys" were still in the cupboard. I bet he Used it to move. (And not replace the gas )

[@DiAn-ud8dy]

@jayfullscroll maybe, abbvsers tend to do this, then just play the vv1ctim card

[@CoachDeBora]

Your commentary is always so intelligent and insightful. Ladies, I hope you are listening to her and the other content creators who teach put yourself first.

[@Nicoleheartsbooks]

Oh gosh I couldn’t move in with someone till after few years. I had a ex who talking about how he couldn’t wait for me to move in with him so he could save on rent and that’s when then relationship ended 😂 Oh god the second story reminds me when I was dating this guy who lived with his parents (which I wasn’t bothered by) but he mentioned how he wouldn’t move out and after his parents die it’ll be his house which kinda just freaked me out like he plans for his partner to live there with his parents in a 2 bedroom bungalow. Absolutely not so ended that relationship too 😂. I have terrible luck dating

[@身赤-w3w]

Good for you. Don't settle. Men are crazy out here.

[@o.revi.]

The 2nd woman with her Albanian boyfriend is very lucky to have boyfriend's parents who are open and not forceful. Love that. I hope it's not a fluke. All the best for her

[@mido_woo]

ME + PEACE = 😘TRUE LOVE

[@rra7490]

I love that! 💕💕❤️

[@tiffanyi.6459]

Yessss hair! Love this look on you!

[@THRIFTYSINGLEMAMA]

LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!!!!!! 3 broken cheek bones and a fused jaw- I am absolutely better off!!!!! I AM SAFE!!!!!!!

[@lisarey3]

I hope she found a loving home for the cats. ☹️ It’s not their fault.

[@laughingshaman1]

The woman in the first story should change her locks immediately then sue him for any of her property.

[@shiina29]

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a toxic person admit to being toxic and controlling, so I’m confused. But kids these days don’t seem to be ashamed about stuff like that anymore, so maybe she’s just being real? I don’t know.

[@mitotakyrah9244]

i love this your hairstyle🥰

[@AyAReI00]

I would be livid but then again i would never live with a man withouth marriage involved, law would not protect me if he decide to do something like this, im fact society will blame me for not choosing better.

[@AyAReI00]

Wow and now she is ready to jump moving to other random she meet in tik tok ... Jesus woman

[@MS-sr6mj]

Of course he left the cleaning supplies! 😂

[@KaylaJay1]

5:44 thank u for this 💯 I am guilty of doing this multiple times & I was homeless because I can’t get back on my feet ever since I relied on a man instead of myself. I’m about to be 25 I was about 23 when I didn’t renew my lease.

[@Shay-rx4xu]

Peace of mind is priceless im genz so its not just all younger women hun that moves this way its just ppl who like drama n co dependent who can't be alone plus she said she is toxic so they always need supply r their fix to put themselves in chaos to charge themselves back up

[@MFiction60]

Definitely the woman showing the almost empty apartment- is a good lesson for what you said. But, she didn't buy or own those things he took, he did. She moved in with almost nothing. So, what you're saying makes sense. Have your own!

[@rhondamccoy2953]

Sweet freedom ❤

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

Of course he left the cats😂 Boy bye❤😂

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

I have the feeling that when they marry and have children the tables turn. 🤔🙂

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

I thought the same thing. Most mothers do not want a double. Maybe she is an exception. :)

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

@CharityUniqueBlackwell I wish her luck. What I think is that I have seen a lot. The recent relationahips are non-binding at all but married and with grandchildren it is a totally different game. I don't trust that. A seller is also kind to you because they want to sell to you. 🤔😄

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

@oOIIIMIIIOo Yeah, it's no wonder they love her. They have ZERO responsibility to her. True love requires RESPONSIBILITY ❤️ 💙 💜

[@toscadonna]

My ex husband’s parents were great; I wanted to stay married to them-but not him. 😂

[@CharityUniqueBlackwell]

No pots and pans No utensils No bowls and plates No chivalry smh

[@gj-d7354]

Great Video!

[@Foenix-1313]

Yay, my beautiful frontal lobe 😊❤

[@inasyal6311]

I’ve moved with my BF quick and ended up leaving him due to abuse. It’s not recommended .

[@honeymoonavenue97]

1:09

[@lf3554]

Never learn moving in with another guy smh

[@Goodlucket102]

22:28

[@sapnapandey5922]

You look beautiful ❤

[@angelb7817]

Hope the cats were okay

[@user-dq9rr9mv3f]

I wonder if she can’t afford to live alone,

[@MFiction60]

I believe that's exactly what's going on.

[@mathprof777]

❤

[@mitotakyrah9244]

i'll copy your hair😏

[@outtahere156]

She hasnt learned her lesson the first time. She is moving in with another boyfriend.

[@4nasj]

I feel sorry for the Albanian mother. She is a woman burdened by another woman and her own child/son...what happens if the mother is not there anymore?

[@l_z1478]

Wtf 😂 he robs her 2:51

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Notice how the men who call women emotional are the same men acting very emotional 😂 funnfact humans are creatures with many emotions.

[@sotired9790]

No problem with the Albanian family.

[@starrysuu]

The Balkan girl responding, idk if it’s south Asian culture or anything but my parents do the same too, where they put everything on my little brother 🫠 I do my best to take care of my brother because, unfortunately, it didn’t mean they’d be nice to my brother I didn’t know that this culture of the only son staying with their parents spread as far as the balkans 🫠

[@destroyraiden]

It seems like her ex stole from her too she should take him to court for theft.