This was so perfect! I'm a 55 year old grad student who has not had to deal with institutional pettiness for a long time. So it really stuns me when I encounter it. Furthermore, it's usually coming from female professors who are much younger than me. I sometimes wonder if it's just a generational thing. Either way, as much as I know it has nothing to do with me, it still gets to me sometimes and I really needed to hear this. Thank you.