Breaking My Son's Heart: The Worst Feeling In The World

I had to leave my son on this freestyle Friday to attend a pre-meeting for the bridal party of my friend's wedding. It was an obligation rather than a choice, but Kobe wanted to come with me. It was late, and bath time was around the corner. Despite all the logical explanations, his disappointment is always heartbreaking.
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[@tlsthoughts]

He's SO smart and he thinks that by saying "Bye bye, Mommy" he'll be able to go with Dad! 😆🤣👏♥️

[@RCKMSCKM]

The "Bye Bye Mommys" are *so cute* He really wanted to go too.

[@Rita-wl8vq]

It doesn't matter, when those sneakers go on, Kobe's ready to go. Such a smart little boy. ❤❤❤

[@dahna4822]

Aww, I felt DaddyMopa’s pain🥹

[@BessieRestoredbyYAH]

Awwwww ❤️ He loves You Both. 💗 His “Bye Bye Mommie” was soooo Adorable.

[@DeniseL-mn7dk]

Sandy is so supportive, understanding and kind. Dad has the same qualities but might be a little more sensitive it’s so sweet. They make a wonderful loving couple and great parents. Love this family.

[@cynn8990]

I love how you both are raising Kobe, You both are AMAZING parents. God Bless 🙏🏽 🥰

[@MsFadir]

Poor sweet baby 😭 The way he kept saying 'bye bye Mommy'! Like it was not happening that Dad was about to leave 😢

[@simplysondra9096]

Such a beautiful Baby boy kisses his Mum and wants to be with his Daddy Aww 🥰 so sweet ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@manifestingbeautifullife2187]

I felt that Mopani.😢 You're a great Dad🙏🥹

[@PinkHypatia]

No tantrum, no rebellion, no tears. Just gentle persistence and determination to create his desired outcome. When that was not possible, he relented disappointed, but not a meltdown. A child like Kobe shouldn’t be disappointed unless it’s unavoidable. I understand why it hurts you to do that.

[@marshaaitkens]

Aww Daddy Mopa feels this, it's ok it's part of growing up and parenthood. Im sure you'll all enjoy your Saturday outing to make it up to our chunky, healthy, handsome and absolutely adorable Kobe 😊

[@esthermwebaza5123]

Awwww felt for you Daddy Mopa and Kobe as well....but mummy was so nice n calm with him and it helped too. Love you guys❤

[@EvershiningInJesus]

Here is a great tactic, plan your leave time earlier. Then take him or all out for 5 minutes. Return, send him in his room for something. You must leave immediately. Moma must distract him with a snack, or etc. If he asks where you are momma must say he will be back "only those words". His sense of time has not developed yet, so he will be good. ❤❤❤

[@Seren_ity22]

🎯

[@BTA08]

That's not necessary. Kids have to learn at some point that not every activity in their parents life involves them. Like showering or going to work for example. There's nothing bad in it. Just explain it.

[@divinecooperation4555]

Kobe🥹😫😔so sweet and beautiful, all three of you🤗🫶🏾🙏🏾💙☀️😓

[@shannibsunshine5808]

Aww Daddy Mopa it will be alright. You got this Kobe is a champ💪🏾

[@princesskessina6772]

He's growing so fast he's such a cutie 😃😍🤩🥰🥰🥰

[@lashaunhunter7364]

Kobe is determined, but you have to be diligent and firm but compassionate, he may not like it but he’ll understand ✨✨🩵

[@selma5141]

Awww, even though it’s sad but I love this throwback. The “Bye bye mommy” & “Take your slippers off” is so adorable. 🥰

[@MsFadir]

Oh, it's a throwback? I thought it was a current video.

[@selma5141]

@@MsFadirYes, it’s from last year when Kobe was 2, he’s so determined and adorable. 😊

[@nellma1960]

I almost cried . He really wanted to go with Dad .

[@aymee7136]

I like how Kobe puts his hand over your mouth when he doesn't want you to say something he didn't want to hear. ❤

[@Justyna_N]

“ let’s go, then”…“ bye bye,mommy- kiss kiss” I remember this and it’s still making me want to cry lol. He figured if he said it enough times over & over you’d both cave. You’re both stronger than I because I would have 😂.

[@paulinejackson5489]

Absolute blessing as parents our little ones does hurt the heart too cute

[@VioletEmerald]

Such a cute video. :) I love how calmly you keep explaining it to him with sympathy for his emotions around it. Great parenting ;)

[@JamesBrown-um6wg]

Oh my goodness this was hard for me to watch,I'm a Grandpa and have been watching children all my life,I know how you feel Daddy Mopa, love the Kobe Family.

[@SkylarTheWriter]

The last 10 seconds… Mopani, I feel for you. I know you didn’t wanna disappoint Kobe. But wow are you and Sandy PHENOMENAL parents. ❤💯🥹

[@Honestdwarf]

Soooo sweet! Teaching and learning life lessons in the healthiest, kindest and the most beautiful way possible.Thanks for being such amazing parents to our super clever sweet Kobe. ❤️🙏😍🙏Thanks for being so wise nice and awesome. God bless you all and I hope Kobe grows up happily under his both parents presence and support to his full potential. Thanks for sharing…❤️🙏😍🌹

[@L.Smith.]

Aww i felt that... i remember when my son would be like that when i went out. It will get easier as he gets older.

[@essie491]

Kobe is such a handsome Dude.. Love him soooooo much!!!!!❤❤❤ Blessings from Holland to you all!!!

[@benitamaiorano3970]

Aww! It’s difficult for little ones to understand some things (time). I know it hurt your heart daddy but you are a wonderful daddy ❤ Sure you & Kobe blew it out with fun the next day 😊

[@WeRoneWeR1]

This is the most adorable video - dad, mom, and child. Kobe's wit is top tier. The end was so heart touching. You guys are blessed to be ordained by God as a family. Blessings!

[@violapittman8039]

You just have to love precious little kobe Bear 🐻 !!! 😊

[@reginald1817]

Kobe told mom "YOU stay home!"😅😅😅😅😅

[@reginald1817]

Kobe just knew he was goin' with pops!!😅

[@Ob1208-h5x]

Next time take my sweet boy with you 🥺😭 they will have to understand Kobe is apart of the Mopani package and at any given time he will be with you. 💔 I'm finished. Going for a cry now and maybe to call my adult boys .. 22 and 26 happen in the blink of an eye

[@sadditycarroll1996]

Listen, he did all the necessary things in order to prepare to hang with best friend for life… awwwe Kobe… my heart breaks with your Mopa 😢 My friend be ready to go 💔 💔☹️

[@hiwotmehari8015]

Kobe so lovely

[@h.patriciablackshire6003]

Such a wonderful, toddler! He's speaking up and wanting his dad's attention. Somebody help Kobe understand. Right now, he's a little confused. Luv you, so much Kobe!❤❤❤

[@krisluck4541]

You know what's up when you put your shoes on in front of Kobe.😅😢

[@1965paw]

THE BEST!

[@stanleyhall2793]

While difficult sometimes, you have to enjoy those moments. They grow so fast and before you know it, they will be going out with their friends and telling you tomorrow we can do whatever you want.😢

[@Diz_27]

Y'all are such great parents. 💜

[@teemadarif8243]

Good job Dad!🎉🎉🎉

[@luciansunset1]

Toby is growing. So cute

[@justinemusubika9837]

Kobe's bye bye to mummy is a kind bribe to daddy so he can go with him😂😂😂😂

[@cookiewright8196]

For the first time I can't watch little Kobe video more than once, 🥹

[@patriciacarter8599]

The king is a soilder he never gives up😂😂❤❤

[@ritahdedeng6889]

How cute!!!!

[@SkylarTheWriter]

He said, “Nah, I’m going out.” 😂🥺

[@marthaolmsted4029]

This is my first video of yours. I would love it if you are a couple but it seems you are managing separate lives while doing a great job with your son. You both seem like sweet people and good parents.

[@marcellinodadon1103]

_...Kobe has gotten so big..._ 😘...

[@lenderabickham9138]

It’s okay dad, sometimes, it happens, where you will have to say no. Kobe doesn’t understand right now what is happening except, dad is leaving and he has to go too. He’s so precious he loves his family ❤♥️💕🎈🎈🎈🥰

[@journierinfarris8129]

It’s ok to say NO to your child sometimes.

[@fayeanderson4480]

So cute i had to watch this like two times❤❤

[@ranea193]

Awwwww, he just wanted that guy time with daddy

[@keshownaallen3599]

He said he's a jr groomsman 😅😅😅

[@tracymanengatkayumba]

❤❤❤

[@kathybutterfield2760]

Mopa, You enjoyed that. You drug it out. You should have cheerfully told him about tomorrow, said kids aren't allowed at a wedding practice, only those in the wedding. See you tomorrow and out the door, tears or no tears. IMO. ❤

[@SuzanneDigiacomo]

I really do not know the family dynamics. Are these parents separated or divorced? They both seem like great people and parents. Their child is wonderful , intelligent, loving, caring and terrific. I pray the family always loves and cares for each other forever. Children need and deserve love. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marciafierro4931]

OMG! Kobe is NOT having it! 😹🙀

[@panitapad]

It always hurts when you have to tell them no they can't go with you. Cuz it's for big people only It just breaks your heart. But don't worry it'll go by so fast it be like my 13-year-old who doesn't want to be seen with me anymore😂😂😂😂

[@metisespesmetisespes2435]

😢

[@soniahill6494]

now I want him to go too!😢

[@jennifergranati8096]

🥰Kobe is so cute “ Bye bye Mummy”

[@roxymelrose1822]

I use to run out the back door from nephews when they were little and sneak out while leaving em with mum#noguilt🤦😂💡then come back and they happy.

[@robinowens4877]

😢😢😢

[@sunitanair6753]

Kobe Darling ❤️

[@paulastafford1642]

It's ok daddy, he's just sleepy. He is a smart one that's for sure. ❤

[@Tikipunch9]

Mopani it's time to get that house, and Sandy, Kobe needs some little brothers, and sisters so he can stay busy, and babysit when it'stime for ypu, and Mopani to go out for some alone time with each other, and with your friends....It's the sad look that gets me when Kobe can't go with his Dad or when he wants to go with you Sandy, he gives that heartbreak look. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ❤🙏🏾

[@mtownboi4ya]

Aww 😢😢 💔

[@sheilabyrd2289]

I feel bad for Kobe and Daddy Mopa🤒

[@dinapolanco3535]

OH😢, I'm Feeling like I am going to CRY!😭4 KOBE! HE LOVES GOING OUT/WHEREVER DADDY GOES! AND NOT USE2 NO!--HELL NO! NOT KOBE BOY😂

[@yolinagarr5144]

Kobe says today it’s the time to say goodbye to mommy 👋 others times he says goodbye to daddy! 50/50 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@roxymelrose1822]

Awww🥺

[@mariecarter3479]

Well we see who's Kobe's best friend

[@nadiyekartal6209]

Hello KOBE ❤

[@B_ready4671]

Take ur flippy's off please💙😄

[@s.hawkins9222]

😂😂😂❤

[@ccee1985]

I have been saying that he needs a partner 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Fm0901]

🥹🤗😍

[@bipinpathare5699]

Don't put your shoes on in front of him