Where are you girls getting this bullshit that what men love the most is a woman who is confident? 😂 No, what men love the most is a woman who is submissive, which you black women are terrible at being.
@definingdarlene3 жыл бұрын
“Work on yourself to complete and not to compete” - Breeny whew, a word
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
"Competition comes from comparison" "Jealousy thrives com areas where we think we're lacking" 💯
@tiffanyburrell40163 жыл бұрын
As a 17 year old girl, these videos are really helping me! It's giving me the reality check that I don't need to settle for boys that aren't worth it, I'm truly excited to work on myself! Thank you xx
@blessedtugz12523 жыл бұрын
Im 17 as well and they're helping me as well!
@jaythenihilist46893 жыл бұрын
@@blessedtugz1252 Here's some honest advice that you two younger girls will never hear from a woman like Breeny. Your value in a mans eyes are directly correlated with your youth and beauty. At 17 you obviously shouldn't be worried about trying to settle down. But if you want to attract the very best man that you can get then follow my advise. Stay in good shape, learn to be feminine (if you're not already), don't sleep around with more than maybe a few different men before you start looking for Mr. Right, and try as hard as you can to get married by the age of 25. High value men rarely commit to older women, high value men rarely commit to overweight women, high value men rarely commit to promiscuous women. Please don't just take my work for it. By all means investigate the matter for yourself. Things that feminists women like Breeny say may make you feel empowered, but that advice is not pragmatic. So many women believe feminists lies, and wait until they're older or overweight or whatever before they try and settle down. And then most of them who do that either end up having to settle for what they can get. Or being alone the the rest of their lives. This is the only life on this planet you have. You're both young and full of opportunities and potential. Do NOT waste it. Good luck.
@LisaFrank392 жыл бұрын
@@jaythenihilist4689 and a man's only value is his money. I'm glad we're both set in reality.
@womenwhodate76433 жыл бұрын
"People will treat you how you feel about yourself." Think about it, if you feel like you are worthless and other people are better and more worthy, they might be. If you just THINK you are worthy and good, you truly are. Great content, love it!
@zainabhamidaddin35933 жыл бұрын
Im getting a dopamine rush every time you post. This series is getting me hooked on daily Bree content 😭
@fatemebabakhani4483 жыл бұрын
I wish every girl in the world had a good sis like you ❤️
@F0reverblessed3 жыл бұрын
Your worth is NON-NEGOTIABLE! Anybody that even questions your worth should not have access to you. Protect your peace, standards and your worth. From a self love content creator to another; well said Breeny! ❤️
@nicksmith-cx1fx3 жыл бұрын
Forget about all this worth and value nonsense. We are all valuable because we are all God's children. Also don't rate yourself as a 4 or 10, this is all objectifying and is not healthy. You have to see yourself as worthy of love, and being loved
@F0reverblessed3 жыл бұрын
@@nicksmith-cx1fx Yes, we both agree that we should all see ourselves as worthy of love and being loved! Thank you for sharing!
@camillefaith20053 жыл бұрын
@@nicksmith-cx1fx This^^^
@simi61523 жыл бұрын
Well said!😀
@brendabrown71303 жыл бұрын
Point on, I totally agree with you.
@officiallyKES3 жыл бұрын
Breeny. This series is an explosion of knowledge for women!
@deborahgold3 жыл бұрын
Don’t let the "Kevin Samuels" narrative tell you you’re not worthy.🥴 You’re more than deserving, Queen. Stay shining✨
@saffv60983 жыл бұрын
!!!
@Florenge7773 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@kenyamyhomemycountry91553 жыл бұрын
Fred the fish, there’s a huge difference between a man being just a high earner and actually being of high value. Kevin Samuels talks about high earners. Any man who expects a woman to accept his cheating because he makes a lot of money is a very very low value male.
@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack22293 жыл бұрын
The Kevin samuels narrative is a fact of life narrative. He doesn’t tell people they are not worthy. Life does.
@caesarx81393 жыл бұрын
@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 "He doesn't tell people they are not worthy. Life does" Exactly! A lot of these women are not in tune with reality. In the real World, what matters is the outcome/results you produce.
@reenaree56163 жыл бұрын
You don't need love and attention from a man, you need it from yourself. Love yourself and take care of urself
@sumaboss2073 жыл бұрын
I am soooo sad the last days. I am going through miscarriage (again) but I don't get any emotional support from my husband, he doesn't even ask how I feel, or maybe just a hug. He's so cold towards me, I just don't get it. I am tired, disappointed and hurt..I thought he was different
@tshephang_lesole3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤wishing you well love
@yoyo-jt6yp3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear abt your miscarriage. I hope you are feeling better now. I am also sorry for your husband not providing you the emotional support that you require. I hope one day you realise your worth and gather the courage to leave such a cold guy.
@africanqueen52923 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry your goring through all this beautiful. Stay strong and positive. In the end everything will work out the best for you ❤️
@labornurse3 жыл бұрын
Was he always this way? How long did you date before marriage? If this is a new personality trait, he could be grieving the loss (guys aren't good with dealing with deep emotion) or he has checked out of the marriage. It may take bit of time to figure out the problem, but I would be careful you know for sure before falling pregnant again. Do everything to protect your health and financed until it's resolved. This is just by 2 cents gleaned from experience of a 20 year marriage.
@jojobrown25043 жыл бұрын
No man is more important than your mental health. In your time of need , your husband should be there for you . Put yourself first.
@brookeashley9993 жыл бұрын
Breeny I genuinely mean this you have been such a role model to me. To me you are a strong woman that radiates self love and self empowerment. You’ve helped remind me of my worth and reminded me of what I deserve. I’m in the middle of changing my life for the life I deserve and your videos remind me of the true woman I am thank you so much sending love❤️
@rethabileseripe70353 жыл бұрын
“Work on yourself to complete and not to compete”❤️
@ivynnivana3 жыл бұрын
currently in medical school and whew I needed this!! thank you
@kaoshi_kutie3 жыл бұрын
Needed this!! Keep meeting men that can't see my worth, it is very hard when you have dealt with alot of rejection. Learning to love myself and not take my crown off! ❤️👑
@wandabutler49323 жыл бұрын
I totally went through settling until God really pushed me to leave the relationship. There were things I realized would bother me in the long run and need he was clear he wasn't going to do. I still wanted us to be friends but I don't think that was meant to be either. These are great points to remember when dating
@lordschild36182 жыл бұрын
Sisss I can relateee so much
@Kleillaa21213 жыл бұрын
That's so healing I'm mindblown. I gain confidence every time I hear you speak Thank you from the bottom of my heart
@AmerieFanbase3 жыл бұрын
I would always minus and subtract my value, just to appease a man, NO MORE!
@bridgatina55533 жыл бұрын
You are like the big sister I always wanted putting me on game , teaching me how to be a powerful queen❤️❤️❤️
@marianabessa28383 жыл бұрын
I'm brazilian and I'm really proud of you. You changed my life and the way that I treated myself. THANKYOU
@Lucylu7233 жыл бұрын
I was getting scared when the video didn't come out exactly at 21:00, but you did it again Breeny! God bless and give you strength through these videos.
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
@5:54 "and stay in your own lane!"" You're in a league of your own!" 😊❤
@kriszma12123 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I've been telling women this same thing 4 years! My daughter is one who doesn't listen, because she thinks she's too grown, and some what guilty of making these same mistakes. Yet she does it over & over to for fill the truth about what's holding you back.
@LevelUpYourLife3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the wonderful reminders and quality content! We have to focus on ourselves first, heal our wounds of feeling unworthy, and then we will be able to demand our worth. Blessings and full watch 💠🙏
@kammys223 жыл бұрын
I don't know why people listen to that man who is fast approaching pension age and is jealous of people living their lives in their prime. Never discredit your own worth. Love yourself and believe in yourself. I remember you saying, add your value plus tax.
@CookieMonsterRawr213 жыл бұрын
I'm absolutely LOVING this series, you're one of my favourites on KZbin and you've helped me SO much on my self-love journey and knowing my worth 💕 thank you endlessly!
@DrinkwaterMindurbznz3 жыл бұрын
"Know your worth & add tax" Breeny you said that in a previous video & it stayed with me. Thank you ❤️
@damndons3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Breeny, we all appreciate this knowledge so much. You actually changed my life 2 years ago and I’ve been hooked ever since. Thank you.
@lindaEdem3 жыл бұрын
We pray for a relationship that will push you in your purpose and excel in what you love to do.
@bm-rk8gm3 жыл бұрын
This series couldn’t have came at a better time. Thank you for your honesty and encouragement!
@jamiew.66063 жыл бұрын
I'm loving the consistency of your posts Breeny!!! Keep them coming. I am living for this advice, preach!
@christianawilliams77643 жыл бұрын
No lie in this video. Just gems 💎. Came at the right time 🙏🏾
@keshiadawn3 жыл бұрын
No more negotiation. No matter WHO!
@josseeo1713 жыл бұрын
Wowwww Breeny, you’re an inspiration to loads of people, just watching and listening to you alone will help build up anyone’s confidence to the maximum level. THANK YOU🙏❤️💕🥰
@Amz11_133 жыл бұрын
I feel like you are my inner queen Breeny, when I hear you speak, I feel your power, and that empowers me. You are such a strong female, so happy I get to watch these videos and feel strong too 💪
@kimbobeads2303 жыл бұрын
Fake it till you can make it!
@lx24953 жыл бұрын
You are doing God’s work Breeny. Bless you
@lcclark83703 жыл бұрын
I feel lost and hopeless at the moment as a 39 year old woman with a few failed relationships and in a dead end job but I'm o grateful for you now as from today I wrote down my goals and decided to put them into action. grateful for u xx
@NightinGal893 жыл бұрын
Im a size 14 lol, and I never considered settling, but I got criticized by others for my attitude. It's not like I see myself like hot stuff, but I did get told I was pretty a lot, and I do not see why I should settle, when I have been celibate all my life, and worked hard for all I wanted. No man gave me anything.
@valerieshinia85263 жыл бұрын
Wow am envious of you I wish I practiced celibacy too😭😭😭😭
@Minnafropolis3 жыл бұрын
I am sharing this series to my sisters every single day …. Thanks For opening our eyes…. Love from a youtuber in USA
@jackiek41593 жыл бұрын
Thank you beautiful Breeny! Sending lot's of love to all the queens out there! You are more than enough and worthy! 💞🙏🏻✨
@In2uCon3 жыл бұрын
“Work to complete, not to compete” Yaaaasss!!!
@marierobinson56362 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love Breeny! Every piece of advice she extends helps me to become better as a person. Extraordinary woman!
@authentique59483 жыл бұрын
Breeny, I have been watching you for a while....you had all this knowledge before starting your previous relationship, you told us all the to do's and not to do's.....so I want to know how did you get into that toxic relationship regardless? Did you not follow your own advice? Or did you ignore the red flags,as you've told us multiple times not to do....I'M NOT BASHING YOU, I just would like you to be transparent so we can learn from that too....
@robynw82233 жыл бұрын
good question!!
@ulricka21313 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly darling❗ Those pieces of advice are applicable when a person is truly healed and secured. Because we all know all this but to put them into practice is another story. Also a person becomes blind to all the red flags when sex is involved. Just saying.......
@NikitaHunt3 жыл бұрын
I am having the same questions.
@ariah4573 жыл бұрын
@@NikitaHunt four videos down I believe it’s the video titled “when I relaxed he hated me”
@LouisaWatt3 жыл бұрын
I’m so pumped for this series, and it just made my day to realise there’s still more coming. Girl is on fire 🔥
@Soneelicious3 жыл бұрын
For me I think there should also be a balance to valuing yourself because I do believe some people do overvalue themselves and this can sometimes cause problems in meeting potential suitors who should have been for them. I love the message about knowing your worth but just wanted to say this too because I do feel some people will go to the extreme of valuing themselves so much that they de-value another person because they think “they are not on my level” . In the case of body sizes In my opinion I wouldn’t expect to deserve someone who has six packs Because I myself am not fit yet as if I was fit, then yes I can make these demands. It’s like you can’t be a size 20 and say you deserve the most sexy ass man you don’t “deserve” it although yes it’s possible to get it. What I’m trying to say is confidence is very important however overvaluing is dangerous.
@Sallyy1503 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything, but i will not use the birkins bag example, because it is not about worth, it is just a bag, but it plays on ppl obsession with attaching their self worth to material positions.. that’s why a man will buy an expensive car and not pay his rent, or a woman with chanel bag and not a dime in her bank account!
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
I ❤you Breeny! But that's Not true that people treat you how you feel about yourself! Lotsa people treat you how they feel about themselves! Aka projection!
@inside_the_waiting_room3 жыл бұрын
AMEN👏🏼👏🏼
@Daisytee13 жыл бұрын
What Breeny said is true in some cases and what you are saying is also true in other different cases... It's all about the circumstance.
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
@@Daisytee1 you also have a point, however, most times I see the projection way.
@Daisytee13 жыл бұрын
@@Katrica670 yes yes projection is more common
@Shaniaunique3 жыл бұрын
I’m loving the 7 days of revenge
@lc61663 жыл бұрын
Omggg yassss when you said just because you have 3 kids don’t mean you need to settle for 5 baby mommas!!!! Girl preach!!! I’m a single mother of 3 and this definitely helped me not lower my value and settle!! Love it 👏
@commandresswhiplash983 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Breeny. What a beautiful video, the part where you mention "comparison" is so true, word to word. "Exit out of the competition" is exactly what I needed to hear right now.
@alicianakibuule25653 жыл бұрын
If you don't compare yourself you'll never come up short
@soilakigera86443 жыл бұрын
Thank you Breeny for reminding me... Sometimes all you need is that reminder
@shomshomni23143 жыл бұрын
What you permit; you promote 🙅🏽♀️
@natural91LC3 жыл бұрын
the bag analogy is great! There are lots of bags better looking and better made than the birkin, but the burkin is just overpriced for the hype and meaning we attribute to it. Loved this video and the revenge series. Keep the videos coming dear
@mariannimoh95143 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to what my ears are listening to… Breeny lee. She’s breathing life back into my dried bony ears.
@elizabethm49733 жыл бұрын
I’m absolutely loving this series. It’s much needed 🥰 Keeping doing you sis 💞💞
@annaa62593 ай бұрын
Breeny- you are a true gift to humanity ❤
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
Lotsa women think and act like they're a 10 and still get treated like shit! 🙄
@Daisytee13 жыл бұрын
And they walk away from those situations until they one day find someone that will treat them right. In this case, it's not you, it's them.
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
@Fred the Fish you're probably right!
@Katrica6703 жыл бұрын
@@Daisytee1 not all the time unfortunately.
@Daisytee13 жыл бұрын
@@Katrica670 yes unfortunately, because it's not easy to walk away anyway
@zairalaraib2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these videos. Really, i thank you from the bottom of my heart. You dont realize how much your words and powerful statements have changed me, my mindset, and how i think about myself. you made a big impact on me in much less time. I found your channel just about 3 days ago. :)
@danitagabriella73663 жыл бұрын
You’re literally my role model. You have helped me so much.I love you❤️and I’m so grateful for your Chanel.
@tiffanyamadin69003 жыл бұрын
You’re literally my online big sister breeny!❤️❤️
@OwolabiEsther3 жыл бұрын
I just love breeny, she making feel confidence in myself
@selflove962 жыл бұрын
More people need to hear this 🙌 🙏 👏
@kez63753 жыл бұрын
can you do a video on emotions - and how to like stay strong? i have a lot of issues at work with some girls! x
@flyandshy003 жыл бұрын
I like this more natural makeup and no lenses.
@miagreig13982 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say I love you girl! I first started watching you when I started my self growth journey Nothing watching your videos ever since. Thank you so much!
@brixananicole3 жыл бұрын
NEEDED to see this video! right on time with it breeny as always!
@esmeeruis48713 жыл бұрын
This counts also for how you feel about your inner self (character). Love the way you are as a person with all your bad flaws and good characteristics.
@ishmeetkaurhira93143 жыл бұрын
Yeah girl! Another video... 2nd one.. Woah
@jamesinman73643 жыл бұрын
Breeny Lee you're like the female version of Trent Shelton he preaches the same content, I enjoy listening to both you and him.
@ashley54303 жыл бұрын
Whewwww!!!! I do needed this! This was so on point I’m going to play it again!
@ribanaslifestyle596 Жыл бұрын
Just found your channel and I binge watch, your content is truly inspiring and I'm learning a lot before I hit my 30s. I appreciate your videos so much
@Mgz2543 жыл бұрын
Breeny you are a blessing to other women.😘
@LifebyJazzieey3 жыл бұрын
I’m truly loving this series, I needed these reminders getting back into dating.
@claudettee.63103 жыл бұрын
Breeny, continue to be unbreakable, God bless you!
@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack22293 жыл бұрын
Overcompensation for a broken heart.
@lisaariottiart3 жыл бұрын
You popped up in my feed. Great Messaging ! Subscribed
@Kmama8013 жыл бұрын
People on here need to go check out Kevin Hicks, a man who speaks to women about how toxic men can be, gives great advice and more men need to watch his videos! All of the crap being spewed is negative to our community guys
@nozkgatla75113 жыл бұрын
It's the timing for me.. wow sis
@xoxosisihere3 жыл бұрын
“It may not be Idris Alba” why not Breeny why not Idris 🤣 Love youu thank you for this series ❤️
@maisarhjanabi77952 жыл бұрын
Everything you say is true, I did not disagree with anything. You should write a book with what you created on the channel to sell and empower even more women! Great job, keep it up sis.
@esiandoh68412 жыл бұрын
stop it, spitting pure facts
@kavie19993 жыл бұрын
THIIS SERIES IS SO EMPOWERING AND INSPIRING
@charsdiy18793 жыл бұрын
Idris Elba. Man speaking truth love this series I'm playing it on repeat.👏💯
@jovannabernard78613 жыл бұрын
I thank god that I came across this channel.God bless you Breeny u don't know how much you're helping me .I love you.
@lidyaabiy79313 жыл бұрын
Oh wow Auntie B , you coming hard on this one💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@simonembatha77073 жыл бұрын
From all of your amazing videos lately, this one is the one I needed to heat the most 🥺 🥰. Thank You B
@dr.sandraa3 жыл бұрын
Watching this is like watching some sermon. I'm blasting in tongues😅😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@estherwillie85803 жыл бұрын
Thank you for always encouraging us. GOD BLESS U
@tylershankles18822 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Breeny !!!!You’re always the best with advice and facts!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
@scurvyelephant54873 жыл бұрын
allllllll facts she never misses
@Pokoyx3 жыл бұрын
i like that. take back your energy you've been pouring elsewhere and give it to yourself. Fire.
@adaezeso22143 жыл бұрын
Your channel is a daily pick me up 💅🏾🙏🏾
@bruna.brandt03033 жыл бұрын
Sister ALWAYALS on point 🤸🏽♀️
@ChaiTogether Жыл бұрын
SPEAK IT GIRL 🎉🎉🎉💚🙏🏽
@shukk56132 жыл бұрын
All your videos are just 😍😍 idek which video to start on 😂 I'm watching them from top to bottom 💙💙
@adofosimpaa3 жыл бұрын
This series is 💥 bomb. Enjoying from Ghana 🇬🇭
@Adinas_music3 жыл бұрын
Yesss the queen is back love you so much thank you for taking your time to help us and nourish us ❤️🌺🍓so happy you exist God bless you 🌼⭐️🌸