Brenden Praise says Mpoomy Ledwaba was always around | Is that why he married her?

[@SimzRight]

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[@ModernMom102]

Brendan & Mpoomy are very happy with each let's not compare bananas & apples. Nozipho's husband his voroso had been around other people's private part before marriage it continued in marriage with other people. The guy has no respect for marriage.Brenden loves and respect his wife and he knows cheating is not the way to go

[@deliciamudau9544]

Mpoomy and Brenden marriage is a true reflection of God's glory and grace.

[@masindicindy2281]

The other one is not? 😂😂😂 heeeh

[@feliciamasimula2614]

Bese they break up then what will we say it was 😢😂

[@masindicindy2281]

@@feliciamasimula2614 concluding God's reflection because you see snippets is crazy

[@nomynoms1969]

🤣🤣”Saved/Born again” people will always be Delulu ke nkosi yam… You CAN NEVER vouch for people’s marriage like that, awulali nabo or wake up with them in the mornings… Also like Cindy asked, & Other marriages aren’t??🤨🧐🤣🤣🤣 Weee! PS: Speaking as a True reflection of God’s Glory & Grace myself 🙈

[@sontovero3404]

You don't know what's happening behind close doors

[@Elizabeth-vu1tb]

Proves to show how every relationship is different. What works next door, won’t work in this house.

[@Prism446]

I think sis worked hard to ensure moguy is hooked. In every relationship uyambona ozifelayo .I always prefer to be loved more & I grow to love him

[@thembekaxipu6961]

That's how it should be...

[@SibsM93]

Very true

[@nomvulanelly2352]

The truth here

[@tseboutlwa2190]

i hear uuu

[@tryphosatlotlo6539]

It’s not your job to love a man. He should love you and you become submissive!

[@nthabisengmashaba1]

I honestly think that Mpoomy and Brendon love each other. And the fact that “he would feel miserable when she’s not around”,meaning his “best friend or someone he loves” makes him to feel miserable because she is not around, now that feeling was forcing him to get back with her. That’s how I see it

[@sinazompehlo5818]

I think we are just working hard to misunderstand him, cause we don't really like usisi.

[@nthabisengmashaba1]

@@sinazompehlo5818 exactly ✔️

[@SharleneFondini]

They love each other I wish peopl3 could just leave other people's business

[@t23663]

​@@sinazompehlo5818exactly... people are turning this into something else because of how they feel about Mpoomy

[@nomynoms1969]

Nozi Said they were best friends with her husband too🤣🙈… to be honest we talking about 2 marriages with different number of years… that’s STILL a red flag to me… it’s just that the marriage is not 20 years in life Nozi’s.

[@lesedikhoaripe8072]

Haibo 😂 Brandon is just saying that he can’t/couldn’t be without Mpumi. For him to always go back to her because his life wasn’t the same means that she has a special place and her presence is valued.

[@lisatom5746]

Day 28 INNIT! damn Simz, you made it. KZbin better pay you 100k ntwana, you deserve it!

[@Ithabeleng_Kopo]

They could mean the same thing but Brendon understands commitment and respects Mpoomy while Zola never really was in it for the long run, I feel there’s a lot that Nozi isn’t sharing that went down in that marriage

[@dust_za]

Social media is dangerous ngeke. Ningavumi inicabangise kakhulu ngokungenasdingo

[@thandekabusisiwe113]

Iqiniso lelo yazi, abantu bangavumi ukuhlukaniswa uSocial Media bo!!

[@KiTumetsi]

I’m not excusing his behaviour but in my opinion she enabled it. From the get go, he showed her his true colours, kept adding more colours and EVERY TIME without fail, she repainted him. When he would wash off the paint she would paint him AGAIN.Never let a man tell you more than once ukuthi akasak’funi. This time he brought reinforcements and still you want us to toyi toyi for her? He has the capacity to make bad decisions.., choose yourself, let him go. Yes it hurts and it feels like you are dying but as long as you are still breathing… it’s NOT too late to rewrite your life story❤️🙏🏾

[@somahlekimberlymasumpa7070]

Thank you 👏🏾you couldn’t be more accurate

[@bongiwemapoma4630]

@KiTumetse iyooo, your reply says you're a vibe 😘 Love it

[@bokangmotsoane1259]

"I can still hear the music in my nose" 😂😅

[@onafezie]

A man will leave you even if you are always around if he doesnt want to marry you. its sad how he is using such a kind hearted lady like Nozi.

[@kgomotsogwangwa4104]

This is a video ya 2 years ago, they were talking about their love journey, things that happened in their early twenties. People in their twenties are still figuring things out, it’s normal. I suggest we all look at our own love journeys. I think Mpumi knows what he meant and she’s content with it or not 🤷🏻‍♀️On the other hand some of us are making assumptions others are projecting nje 😂😂 I understand gore they are public figures but they are still people who went though staff, which most human beings goes through particularly during the early days of dating, it’s a mess out there, some good and funny😅😅some bad.

[@mbalzz]

He said, “I didn’t understand why we were together.” 😢😢😢 Were you not inlove, sir? Sounds like she made you fall for her eventually. Nice Mpoomy. It’s still a win right? Also I think the last part was to save what he initially said.😢

[@siphindiwezungu6617]

Eish, Which video did he say this? I can't find it on the Mo & Phindi channel

[@MsSwanlake]

Oooh this couple Mpoomy and Brendan are definitely vibing and look goodt together ❤️ 😍 💖

[@blinkym21]

Asifani I think, Some women actively manifest their relationships and marriages and make sure they put in 101% to make sure it goes where they want it to go… sometimes it works for good as in the case of Brendon and Mpumi.. Personally I have found it easier when from the go ,the guy is the one who is insanely in love because even when challenges happen they will fight for the relationship better🤔.

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Hi. Sometimes akusizi. People can change.

[@Echoes_of_South_Africa]

"you are always around" means that you are territorial! you fought for your place in their lives, you are always available sisi😂

[@ThandazoNorah]

It means you're desperate sisi😂

[@Echoes_of_South_Africa]

@@ThandazoNorahyes yes🤣

[@ThandazoNorah]

@@Echoes_of_South_Africa it means you're a pick me! 😂 yes yes

[@ntandokazi5587]

Ehhh!! 😂😂😂

[@Daphneymalope]

​@@ThandazoNorah😂😂😂😂

[@naumiyomi15]

It's a simple one 😅 Mpoomy stood by her truth by always being around. Brenden loved her but was not on the same page of understanding in terms of what they were building. A lot of men could say that about their now wives/partners. Most relationships are standing because the lady decided to stick around, even to the dismay of someone. Men are strange nje... They know a good woman when they see one, but the idea of commitment...Modimo😮😢😅 Best wishes to everyone of us, nje😅😅❤😊

[@LizzyLiz464]

You get it

[@MissFlapps]

Nah.. Hands off Brendan n Mpoomy ngeke. They wouldn’t both be laughing about this. Haai we dont have to interpret what always around means just watch the fruit of their marriage and glorify God aai! Creating fire where there is no smoke🙄

[@zwashebangani8328]

Always around in my own understanding means you were in my face...

[@Prism446]

To be honest ,I personally want someone on my face always not the other way round .But we have ladies who really stick around even if ubhuti shows he still needs his time they wait & be a small fly in his life 😂

[@yolinda_cele]

If God is a foundation of your relationship whatever may happen or whatever we may do as humans it will not break nor will it destroy us because God is the foundation and you are “equally yoked”

[@Prism446]

The girly girly types stick around ,put blinkers & focus big time to a point that they are married

[@zonkemayila]

Ohh hai wethu some people just don’t understand their humor ….those two love each other and are on the same page….Sometimes as couples we have a way we speak to each other that the other person won’t understand just sucks once you put your relationship out there

[@tebalelomarobane8496]

Thank you😂😂😂if ppl were to come to my house 😩😩😩🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@zonkemayila]

@@tebalelomarobane8496 Girl! mine too 😂😂😂🫢

[@MsNandi001]

One thing about humans if you keep giving they’ll keep taking.

[@siphokazimagaya9113]

No it was not the same good people , people are trying so hard to get at Mpumi and Brandon. Brandon was going through a lot during that period after Idols

[@Joy25-ce6vz]

They are yhoooo, SANs don't want to see happy thriving marriages

[@sinazompehlo5818]

​@Joy25-ce6vz they dislike good things soo bad, precisely marriages and relationships.

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

Hai but we can't equate Brendon & Mpoomy to Nozipho & Zola. Zola has always been a cheater & dodgy, Nozipho just probably never thought he'd officially take a 2rd wife.

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

My comment is directed to the opinions from Twitter

[@GeminiJune0608]

Ey Nozi failed to see the red flags. She just wanted to be with him qha. This guy liked to be with lots of women, and Nozi was in his way. He just got tired, now hes teliing Nozi who really is. Nozi was seeing what she wanted to see, not what was real, in my opinion.

[@SimplyNokwanda]

I think its different okwa Brendan.....he missed her and couldn't get her out of his mind, he would miss her.

[@anelz122]

I think iWording yakhe eWrong,he probably meant Mpoomy was unforgettable and didn't understand why he would always run back to her even after breaking up with her.But ke aii asazi🤣

[@ThobekaMhlongo6270]

I couldn't get rid of you / I couldn't imagine my life without you - two completely different expressions but hey, I don't know. 🤫

[@pamellayantolo3797]

I enjoy your channel and congratulations to your 30 videos for this month 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@theBellas703]

😂😂😂laughing before I watch

[@lifewithqueenSolo]

I can never compare Mr. Ntshangase & Brenden shame, Neither their marriages cannot be compared Please! Yhu laBhuti ka Nozipho is just cruel. He's been cruel to all the women he's been with.

[@chantellemodisane]

Mpoomy and Brendan’s history is no secret😂😂😂 marrying a man like zola is a nightmare. The difference between the two is that one is based on true love, the other is based on tolerance

[@tshegofatsos8167]

yoh, i couldn't finish the interview Mo and Phindi kept talking about themselves

[@vinoliamashigo8948]

I was so irritated

[@lindiwemtshali1643]

Yoh bangibhore 🙄

[@Zeethegreatone]

All man feel like this about us...this is why we need to have our individual lives ,dress up, go out, make him miss you ,take vacations and stuff even push him to go out 😂😂😂😂

[@MandisaHanise]

I think all this means is that the lady has always been there for them. I think sibuye sixakwe sislungu

[@likhayadiko6045]

😂😂😂Work sisi, work. 28/28

[@Sma_dzadza]

For the fact ukuthi he started by saying “this is gonna come out weird “it’s because the statement is wrong..that’s my take

[@ThatoKhumaloTK]

"I feel exactly how I look" 🤣🤣🤣

[@InspiredBy_]

The tone is totally different.

[@lush1480]

😂😂😂 , means you were always there Simz😅😅. I think this is atypical case of how words are important, where they are used and how they are used. Fir instance, if Brandon had said Mpumi was always there, no one would try to make comparison as that statement means a lot of good things depending on the interpreter. May you recover from alostro and gout on your ears 😂😂. I needed this

[@Echoes_of_South_Africa]

yohhhh AMADODA!!!!!!!!!!!

[@kedibonemaepa3524]

Brendan has learnt to be with Mpoomy..She loved him more ,mothered him probably nursed things that when he left ,He needed the nursing.this must not be a Khaya Mthethwa thing.

[@1phindy]

I doesn't really what he means all that matters is what happens when you vow to commit. Period

[@bontle6264]

I love this challenge❤

[@PrudenceMkhabela]

Ave ngikuthandwa sister's ❤❤❤

[@wendyayakiva4127]

I watched their old videos and I couldn't help but picked up she really worked harder to bag Brenden

[@monie-M]

Their love was not only in 3D it was also in 5D love♥

[@SanahLindt]

Yoh amadoda aiii…. They need a dictionary

[@nazikay1340]

l wish l can have the love of Mpoomy, if no effort enough from guy l bounce😂😂😂 and yet lm just single! Mpoomy is the bekezel in a good way or she has the love we dont have which is a blessing

[@Maelly851]

And it's normal 😂it feels like that sometimes with "most" of us😅 just that others doesn't voice it out, like brenden said "not in a bad way " i feel like they both meant they couldn't live without their wives hence they couldn't get rid of them😅. "NOT IN A BAD WAY THOUGH"

[@zanelemofikoe4800]

I think only the “man gang” understand this, when men start getting serious in relationships their friends always call them whipped and say negative stuff, within their crews it’s “uncool” having that one steady girlfriend or even committing, so when a man says you were always around, he is basically saying out of all the girls I dumped and did not commit to, you were the one I just couldn’t shake off, you were always there and between me moving between women you were the one I always chose to go back to… sounds negative but if you think about it from the context of a man in their twenties and how they navigate life through “majita” then we begin to understand their thinking with that statement🫶🏾

[@kgomotsogwangwa4104]

Perfectly captured, they were in their twenties. Most people have stories for days, but now they have healthy and loving relationships/ marriages ❤

[@hottopiconly]

I think he really wanted to get ride of her but he couldn’t find somebody else to fill in her space and replace her. but if he did he was never gonna marry her🤔 bitter sweet🤧

[@susanmashigo6141]

I love this couple they love each other.

[@Nozipho_N]

Mina ngiya gcwala ngawe bra😂😂😂 uyasebenza🎉 noma udiniwe noma kunjani❤❤❤ and the numbers don't lie ke sana

[@MpumiDlamini-ft5de]

7:36 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Laughed out loud at the nail salon.. Uthini vele uSbusiso????

[@princessnyachi7507]

Noo mpoomy and Brendan love each other people always think that true love doesn’t exist…he was miserable because mpoomy brings the best out of him …their marriage it shows the glory of God that if u put God first everything will work out and their marriage it’s beautiful with beautiful family

[@asivegaxa9788]

Niyimamele kakuhle english ka Brendon yeyakwa Woolies plz dont misquote him😂😂😂

[@ayandanobatana3440]

Eish amadoda awafani nathi xem ayadineka.We love more like puppies sinjalo nje&one thing bayadikwa.Yoooo one day sizozwa that "you were always around"🤔.Hayi kabi giod luck it's out nje he meant nothing but uyadineka qha.

[@Phindihlophe]

Its the gout in my ear for me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kgaogelomoeka7055]

yhuuuuuuu the beginning of this vlog finished me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ncisept5900]

Love comes to people differently. It may start as the woman loving (or showing love to) the guy more in the beginning and love may grow slowly to the guy...... that doesnot negate the current state of the marriage, of which I think mat be the case with Brendon & Mpoomy.

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Yebo! People watch movies a lot. Love can come in different ways.

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

I feel like thats the case for many people. I never meant to be married with my husband but couldn't get rid of him. Life madexno sense without him

[@lebogangmothibe2697]

Nami Simz ngiyazibuza lowo mbuzo, "What do we want at groove nge winter"😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@FindingYolisa]

NOOOO. NOOOOO. Brenden & Mpoomy are perfectly fine. Brenden wasn’t tired of Mpoomy. That man loves his wife. They are very intentional about their marriage. Please. They bother no one. They always mean well. Let’s not project our twisted wishes on their marriage and try make them seem like their reality. Please.

[@andisiwemcasa7360]

Nozipho forced herself into that toxic situation, red flags were very visible from the beginning but Sis went all out to dig children that were hidden from her and even drove all alone to the Step daughter’s hometown, not her even doing DNA 😂 on boyfriend’s child🤭 isibindi😅 Ayiiibo wangagcini lapho Mohgirl took all 3 boyfie’s children and stayed with them when she was still a girlfriend🌚🌚🌚 No guys I’m failing to sympathise with self inflicted pain and self-made trauma ngeke andiziiiii!! You can put effort to make the relationship work but don’t FORCE!! That man had no choice but to marry her ekugqibeleni cause Sis literally made herself a wife forcefully so!! Ukhatheleke umfana cause from the beginning he was never ready to marry her but he was pushed by all the extreme pressure Nozipho put on him.

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Really? There many women who do the same and abashadwa. No one can force someone to marry anyone. Some people love kids. Asifani.

[@financialsavvybunny_]

😂😂😂 “around ini??? Uthini???😅

[@thechristcenteredcommunity]

Love u Simz! You too funny for real girl. You that homegirl whose gonna keep it real.

[@nthabisengmashaba1]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@missthabile_]

PHUMANI KUMA RELATIONSHIP WABANTU YHO.😒

[@nombewu33]

Around what my brother?😂😂😂😂 sile amadoda yerrrrr but nam I agree naba bathi we can’t compare the two honestly.

[@nokuthulalanga1523]

😂😂😂😂 you're the best

[@khunibikizana2287]

Good story teller 😂 so funny ntaba ka gogo 😅😅

[@bryanoaitse1547]

He means he was always available in all aspects of their relationship

[@FikileKgwadi-qw5fw]

Projecting 😮

[@marinelatavares1580]

Nozipho set herself up, accepting him even after finding out he lied about not having kids with 3 different baby mamas,the guy doesn't rate her shem.

[@wonderlubisi4881]

She thought she will change him 🧎‍♀️

[@leratorudlo5110]

And he said “ my biggest thing”😭😭

[@givenzinhlentuli6248]

Sila!

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

Guys men always know who they love and will make a wife. I remember my husband pursuing me for a year and me just not seeing what this man is trying to do...I had to be convinced because in my mind he didn't meet the mould I thought was the perfect man. Kanti no he came with so much softness towards me that eventually I let my guard down and he swept me off my feet. 14 years later we have two kids and our marriage is amazing. A man that shows red flags in the courting stage...RUN. They always reveal themselves early....but women choose to ignore the signs.

[@oarabilebernard9123]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Simz otago roba dikgopo shames😂😂😂😂

[@MackaysCastingAgency]

the appearance 😂😂

[@sbongiles2675]

I was always around, you couldn't get reed of me?? Haibo wenja 😢😂 amadoda azosibulala struu.

[@DineoMalatsa-mz5kg]

😢😢😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 uthini sbusiso hai simza ngeke

[@sxooptv]

What's your average RPM if you don't mind sharing

[@glamgodess9643]

Always around means you forced yourself on me. Mpumi laughs because she is embarrassed by Brendon, it’s probably not the first time he says it.

[@triciakekana]

Nah not the same though, the way Brendan said it aowa

[@wonderlubisi4881]

3:23 bob the builder 👷‍♀️

[@takatsomotsepe9074]

What I’m hearing is that they couldn’t stay away from each other. Mpumi understands this hence they laughing about it

[@tutumvalelwa3283]

❤❤❤❤

[@Born_A_Star]

Mara there are similarities only the other one wasn't a cheater or had multiple babies. And also the God factor place a big role is brendons relationship with his wife.

[@nomynoms1969]

All I have to say is “ I COULD’NT GET RID OF YOU” is not it guys… if he can still remember it like that, it means at the Back of his mind 20 years later like Nozi’s Husband he may find or see someone who HE now chooses & feels HE wants to Mary for sure by choice & not default of always being around… in Nozi’s Case GIRL was already doing A LOT… taking 4 kids to stay with them, travelling far to get kids, doing DNA tests herself that time you still a Girlfriend, HAIBO BOB THE BUILDER😔… hai Nozi was building her marriage by herself & the centre was Always the kids😱… Much as the husband might be appreciative &grateful for that… it Doesn’t mean he’ll be inlove & consider you love of his life in his Heart🤞🏾💯… now he wants a second wife cause I’m sure he tried & found it wasn’t working & from my Judgement he always cheated& Nozi knew… She just perhaps never thought he will take 2nd wife.

[@De23Rosa]

Always around means you left me no other choice

[@Gorata_Kiki_Nkwe]

Bro this was not necessary and completely out of context..let’s learn to leave people relationships alone. To each their own..

[@jacquelinesenwedi9404]

And 4 hours😂🤣

[@thembekaxipu6961]

Hayi, its just notthe same. Zola is not saying it feom the good place...

[@tsakamhlabane9269]

Maybe always around, through thick and thin never left

[@MichelleMakhanya]

"Couldn't get rid of you" aiiii no ngeke

[@wespeakthetruthhere7413]

Nozipho was really doing the most hey, the hunting down of the love children jerr! It’s like he was forcing this guy to be a father yena engafuni.

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Is it a bad thing? I grew up in an environment where it is normal to take in children that your spouse had before marriage. Those kids are raised like your own. I don't see why you see it as a bad thing.

[@winnierampe5634]

Eish Simz, my son's girlfriend is always around, doesn't want my son to have friends, want to check his phone, maybe he will be doing the same as Brandon 😅

[@khosiethabekhulu3497]

Yebo! Consistency is beautiful. 😅