I absolutely adore this song. This is the empath anthem I've always needed. People don't really understand what its like to feel others pain so deeply it brings physical pain to yourself.
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@rebeccapetersen56134 жыл бұрын
Indeed it is
@johnchavez4104 жыл бұрын
I understand I try to stay away from people because of it
@gracechristensen63554 жыл бұрын
I too am a empath. And a healer... No one understands the physical pain and the emotional pain. Thank God for this song......
@susancarver39774 жыл бұрын
I put everything into others because it takes focus off my needs and pain. Its actually selfishness on my part to be this way cause sometimes i hurt so bad my soul starts to grieve. This song seemed to be calling me out. Ive just cried and cried over this song
@joyegbunu18384 жыл бұрын
Who told Brent my life's story!!! Such a comforting song just cause someone else feels our pain!
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
love you!
@haleylemaire22624 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. My relationship is on the rocks. I am giving birth this Friday. I don't feel myself anymore. I always try to help everyone else... but I forget I need to heal my wounds as well
@karlahansen49764 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!!!!
@strrwbrryjamjam21914 жыл бұрын
Tell me about it💕
@darlenenelson3644 жыл бұрын
@@haleylemaire2262 Congratulations on your new arrival. God bless you and your bundle of joy, and know that no matter what your never really alone. We are strong because we must be, but call on the Lord and JE will raise you up dearest new mama. Your in my prayers Darlene Marie
@chickachickie3 жыл бұрын
As a fixer, I've never heard a song more true to my mentality. You don't feel like you're worthy to be fixed. So to ignore yourself breaking apart, you fix others. Hoping one day you'll care about yourself as much as you care about others. At least that's what I do.
@michellealexander23653 жыл бұрын
I can't relate more. I like to ignore the fact that I'm hurting to help others. I forget that I need help too and when I meet that breaking point I realize that I'm the one that needs fixed.
@hippiechickie53203 жыл бұрын
I'm finally fixing myself & it's tough and it's beautiful and it's a wake up call,my wish is for all the fixer's is to know your worth, don't wait till your 60 years old
@BeatersRus3 жыл бұрын
so there with you.
@altwreck1272 жыл бұрын
I don't think I've ever agreed with a sentence more
@rebeccaweller86162 жыл бұрын
Amen! Right there with you
@aprille192711 ай бұрын
I'm dedicating this song to my past self-the old me. Hang in there, sweetheart. You are going to get through this, I promise, and things will get so much better. I love you. ❤
@Godisfirst2111 ай бұрын
Thank you for the hope.
@matthewjames559811 ай бұрын
@@Godisfirst21 I almost killed myself. A small part reached out. Not even my parents realized what was going on. Everyone thought I had it together and was so happy. The cutting was 5 years ago. Hold on friend. You don't have to do this alone. Let someone in. It helped me.
@Godisfirst2111 ай бұрын
@@matthewjames5598 Thank you. I hope you have a great day today.
@lorraineanne78219 ай бұрын
Your beautiful ❤ take care of you beautiful soul ❤
@gingercats10676 ай бұрын
❤❤ for you~
@JuliaKyi3 жыл бұрын
“Fixers never fix themselves” It hit hard...
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love Julia!
@kimberlycitizenenichols56273 жыл бұрын
But we can with help xox
@ishauniyal66333 жыл бұрын
❤❤
@sarahagustianti3 жыл бұрын
It is
@ashleynicholecash4933Ай бұрын
I don't understand exactly how to not be who I am.
@cesardanielgatuno9693 жыл бұрын
I dont care if I'm a man, I'm dedicating this to myself. Beautiful song.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@Brian-ph6of3 жыл бұрын
Same, bro. Same.
@catlynnnounoute89533 жыл бұрын
This is the energy I want. A start to "fixing" myself.
@debbieoneal33713 жыл бұрын
@@catlynnnounoute8953 please do fix yourself. My sister was always the fixer until she took her life last year. I only wished she told me she needed fixed. She hid it so well. We all thought she was happy and she was always there fixing all our problems. I miss her so much.
@cesardanielgatuno9693 жыл бұрын
@@debbieoneal3371 Sorry to hear that.
@justtop47863 жыл бұрын
I didn't search for it ,I found this song by coincidence. what a lovely coincidence
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@justtop47863 жыл бұрын
@@katerigolden2838 a lucky coincidence
@skrip_skrip48143 жыл бұрын
I normally don't click on song suggestions but this one seemed like it called out to me. It sings to my soul
@btsworlddomination50693 жыл бұрын
Same :')
@shawnashuman48473 жыл бұрын
@@skrip_skrip4814 same someone sent me another song to listen to and this was a suggestion and like you said it felt like it was callin me
@saronh14882 жыл бұрын
I cried when i heard this song for the first time. it felt like someone finally understood what i am going through 😟 and how on edge i am. thank you for this song💛
@jojodouglas84682 жыл бұрын
Exactly how I’m feeling
@MeJanukaitis Жыл бұрын
Praying for you my dear❤❤
@davidpotgieter4513 Жыл бұрын
Kept in my tears till i saw your comment. Then the watrerfall started rolling down my cheeks
@aliyahadaanni Жыл бұрын
True . Me too 😢
@warriormom-ub6lr Жыл бұрын
I just broke down myself. I needed this
@ochiochimi3 жыл бұрын
this songs hits you when you’re always by your friends side but they’re not on yours.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love
@garrettauville56903 жыл бұрын
Feelin it
@funattack29503 жыл бұрын
Yeah facts
@samoumln3 жыл бұрын
True ..heartbreaking 😔
@reneirene15413 жыл бұрын
Hurts so bad
@AlpacaLegion3 жыл бұрын
Smart choice of words!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
thanks alex!
@alexiafulga60943 жыл бұрын
Nu ma asteptam sa te gasesc aici sincer :))
@clar94253 жыл бұрын
Good word pickin
@jonac.41803 жыл бұрын
Hi brent i loveyourvoice❤️🥰
@wiambadreddine9383 жыл бұрын
Yesss !!
@AuraNetworkVision3 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with this song 🥺💖
@kudr_3 жыл бұрын
honestly we all are
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
@@kudr_ :)
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Thanks aura!!!!
@camhere1573 жыл бұрын
sameee hereee♥️
@adelagoguetyquiengco96013 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@muguure_12 жыл бұрын
To all the fixers out there…Here’s a guy who has us figured out. this song is deep🥺
@iriskain3052 жыл бұрын
It really is. Makes me cry every single time, but damn it's beautiful.
@jodyrn032 жыл бұрын
Very deep. My life song and it’s so hard.
@joycher2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and mean.
@petergriffiinbirdistheword2 жыл бұрын
😔 yep.
@itsimportant264 Жыл бұрын
Agree😢
@lilithrosewood68293 жыл бұрын
Talked with a friend and we started talking about what each others theme songs would be. I sent him his theme song and then he took almost 10 minutes going through his history to find this song. And right after he sent it he said, "Just in case you thought nobody noticed what you've done for everyone around you.", and then he said he had to go. After the call ended I listened to this and I nearly cried. My heart you guys, it feels.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@zety42283 жыл бұрын
i think this comment suits to the book i just fished reading week ago😭❤️😊
@alpacakira68993 жыл бұрын
Did you two date? 🤗he appreciates you
@lilithrosewood68293 жыл бұрын
We are officially dating now! And I couldn't be happier, he is super caring about everyone he meets and makes sure to take extra care to help me when I'm nervous or upset.
@Jessica-nh7fo3 жыл бұрын
@@zety4228 what book was that
@dee-tx5jd3 жыл бұрын
She's addicted to fixing others, so she doesn't have to face and deal with her own brokeness. Saving other people is a coping mechanism. It's escapism. It's running away from a victim mentality by escaping into it.
@akhileshchandrasrivastav86353 жыл бұрын
oh now i see why i do it. 😮🖤
@hayleymaddison73493 жыл бұрын
That hit deep
@cseri07283 жыл бұрын
Woah..
@izebelle82003 жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚💚
@1234Colormepink4 жыл бұрын
So I decided to write a response to it... Here y'all go. Same tune different words. I also just did a video of me singing this, vocals only, since there were many requests to do so. Thank you! - kzbin.info/www/bejne/q2qnYnuZj5hgitk I’m a fixer who found my fixer I’m a lover being loved in return My heart’s shattered and dazed from all the pain But this fixer has a fixer herself. I’m a fighter with people behind her In a corner they ensure my health. He pulls me away from a terrible place. He’ll fix every scar he can find. Oh, She fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke. Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most. Cleaning the wounds and fighting her hell This fixer found a fixer herself. I’m a liar, alive with a fire Shamed that I burden you But he whispers my name, and I am saved. No more lies, I’ll be honest and true. Oh, she fixed all the lonely, fixed all the broke. Now he’s fixing the one who needs fixing the most. Backed with persistence, fighting the hell. This fixer found a fixer herself. I’m a handful A whole lot to handle. But he says it’s no trouble, he’s fine. He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place He’s fixing the fixer each night. He’s my sunrise each day from my darkest place He’s fixing the fixer each night. Hope you enjoy and thank you for this glorious song and inspiration!
@shanw.29484 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@hazelfabricante13374 жыл бұрын
Whooaah! Hand's up to you! 👏👏
@ksorangeeee8403 жыл бұрын
I'm crying to this. I always believe no one is gonna fix this fixer. I hope someone will be willing to as I will fix that person too. I am glad you found yourself one 👏👏👏👏👏👏
@1234Colormepink3 жыл бұрын
@@ksorangeeee840 As am I! I think you'll find someone eventually, give it time.
@1234Colormepink3 жыл бұрын
@@hazelfabricante1337 Thank you!!!
@mrsperfectlyimperfect63633 жыл бұрын
As a fixer, I always focus my energy on those who need me. Focusing on myself only causes me pain and anxiety of the past and present that haunt my thoughts when I am alone. This is a beautiful song that has put perspective on my emotional health.
@danielletoohey81932 жыл бұрын
Same
@ElisabettaValli Жыл бұрын
Not going to fix others any more ❤
@pattigemini3027 Жыл бұрын
Ditto
@jessie33010 ай бұрын
We accept the love we think we deserve
@In8n84 жыл бұрын
I've never felt so understood in my life. This song makes me feel relieved whenever I feel stressed. Thank you!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@courtneygahan5513 жыл бұрын
I have never felt more personally attacked by a song in my life. And never had a song put my feeling into words better than this.
@shakurwonders52163 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@janicehammersmith47283 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@paruparo97503 жыл бұрын
to anyone who's listening to this with me, i hope you know that you are loved. you are enough. you are worthy of being loved and you should be kind to yourself, too. you can do that. when you feel that no one's there to fix you, you can come back to this song and remember that you are your own fixer... and you don't have to fix others.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@whatachick833 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to see today, I have not been kind to myself lately. Thank you
@shaniceamira42012 жыл бұрын
I cried after this comment 😭
@marysunshyne73752 жыл бұрын
Thank you much
@chelhartzell8254 Жыл бұрын
The tears won't stop. This is my life in a nut shell.
@TheFlacapreciosa4 жыл бұрын
My soul is naked and spirit is broken. This song was able to rip tears out of my eyes that I didn't even know I'd been holding back.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love
@ytownsend9183 жыл бұрын
Fixers cant fix themselves because they are to busy fixing others. And maybe they are like me and run away when people try to help. This song hits home for me
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@fecalla47713 жыл бұрын
Who else didn't want to miss a single line because when you heard the first line you already know that this song is all about youuu. 💓💓
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@tarau86954 ай бұрын
Somebody DOES understand !! Thank you for this song !!
@xiins19233 жыл бұрын
YT is doing a fucking good job with the recomandations. Why am I crying, again?
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@LisaCapron2 жыл бұрын
Hospice nurse here… this could be our anthem in hospice. We take care of the patients and the families (no matter how crazy a situation we walk into) and we have to keep staying strong no matter what.
@Godisfirst2111 ай бұрын
I love hospice nurses. So much respect going out to you.
@Sparklescooby932 жыл бұрын
Some songs just hit you so hard that all you find yourself doing is crying to them at almost 4am…thank you for this beautiful masterpiece!
@kristencarr90032 жыл бұрын
Hey that's my name!
@marissalondon40312 жыл бұрын
As a fixer myself, this hit really hard. It's been a long and difficult journey to understanding that it's not my responsibility to fix anyone...especially when doing so only breaks me even more. Thank you for this.
@cuminurdadsass4 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of a Mother going through a hard time being a single mother
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love
@CraziCutie3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@GlitteryFishsticks3 жыл бұрын
Single mom here of two who agrees
@youaregood9aj733 жыл бұрын
my mother is a single mother of 3.
@cuminurdadsass3 жыл бұрын
@You Tube I didnt mean to make you cry lol
@brinsley45993 жыл бұрын
As an empath, I really don't know how to feel about this song. I always reach out to people who are sad and I offer an ear when I think people need it cuz I love helping, but it's astronomically hard for me to open up about myself because I feel so misunderstood. I feel like a liar and an entitled person though, for relating to this...
@gingerjones59313 жыл бұрын
It's all good but you sound relatable to me. We do need healthy boundaries.
@cmubabe073 жыл бұрын
Observe others feelings and issues, don’t absorb them. You can’t help anyone when the weight of the world drowns you.
@luna-jj4cw3 жыл бұрын
I do to and as a fellow empath I can say that we need to realize we give everything and get nothing it’s not selfish to won’t help and praise or even some emotional stability its natural. Put yourself first it’s not selfish.
@ghanacryptogurl35743 жыл бұрын
You explained how i feel so badly, thank you for putting it in words
@tyleraaron27763 жыл бұрын
I totally feel you, but try to understand that the way you feel is valid and just because you may not be able to help yourself with your problems yet doesn't mean you a lair just means you haven't figured out the puzzle quite yet.
@southerncross53603 жыл бұрын
I became the Fixer early in life, I was as a child when I was powerlessness over my mother’s mental and emotional health. When I was young the stigma of mental health problems meant my family survived by learning to hide the truth about the hell we were living behind closed doors. My mother was institutionalized many times, all her breakdowns and outbursts, being present or finding her after multiple suicide attempts, I was the daughter who learned to carry the burdens of others. Our family was about rescuing my mother in order to save our whole family. Over time I was conditioned to fix problems. So I’d respond to certain things like when I heard "I can't" that meant they can't, so I assumed the role that "I can". I saw my father as Superhero who always helped our family. I wanted to be like him so I helped him, I was the little superhero I assumed that role costume and all. It meant I was good and worthy for helping my family like my father. I spent many years in chaos where I learned to believe that’s what families, especially parents do, they help one another. Marriage meant in sickness and in health but that meant sacrificing my needs and myself. I was conditioned to carry the weight of others, and their problems. It takes a toll over the years as it became too heavy at times making me angry, and resentful when I couldn’t help the people I loved. I thought being needed was being loved. I placed the needs of others above myself sacrificing time and energy from my own life to help others on their path forgetting my own since I was a young child. I did like fairytales but I learned quickly the stories many girls are told are lies. People who become fixers learn that the only real way to connect with others is to rescue them and or fix them not realizing the cost is too much to carry and heartbreaks too many. I lived this life for over 40 years. The hardest thing I did was something nobody in my family had done before, I divorced my husband of 20 years, he became an alcoholic, and his anger grew with age. I believed for years if I did this or that he would change, but he didn’t want to change. I couldn’t make him care about me or our children, that was his job. It’s exhausting watching your family fall apart. I even felt guilty when he got in trouble, lost his job, went to jail, he had girlfriends who harassed me and my children. That wasn’t my mess to fix nor clean up so i quit helping him. The mess was his, he made that choice when he didn’t want to fix anything when he had that choice or he had to leave. He chose to leave our family behind. He looked for women like me, anyone to take care of him. I learned the hard way that it wasn’t my job to make him better. It’s hard to know my children suffer with the fact he left and the choices I made that kept him around too long. I know now that what he does is his choice and his problem. There’s times i feel the need to watch from afar and say it’s about our children but I know it’s me. Truth that’s hard to accept is that if he loved me or our children he would have stayed. His choices are not mine, his burdens of his choice aren’t mine either. I hope others realize their self worth and their identity is not found in someone else, and free themselves from a life in chains. I spent too many years caring for people who didn’t care for me. It’s hard to comprehend and heal the brokenness caused by giving your all to love someone and it’s not returned. Do not be a doormat or assume your own identity in someone else. If this is you know you’re drawn to unhealthy relationships, attracted like a magnet for anyone needing a rescue, it’s a vicious cycle, a cycle that has to be broken. You must love yourself before you can love someone else. Most important message I’ve heard in a song, thank you!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this comment!! Much love 💚
@emillyanyango8053 жыл бұрын
😊your strong and I got a lot from you
@Riverstar033 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you’ve had to go through so much, and I know it’s hard to carry other people’s burdens and feel like they are more important than what you go through. It makes me glad to know there is more people that deal with the same things as me, and I’m glad you’ve kept going, even through all of that. I love you and you are so strong, I hope you find something and someone that makes you happy💕
@Purpose_Nov20253 жыл бұрын
How are you? Hope you’re well and taking care of yourself
@deeanaholyoak31273 жыл бұрын
You have found a way to so eloquently reach me with your story. Validated me in ways I didn't even know I needed. It is times like these that I love the internet. 🎶 " I guess you're just what I needed!" 🎵 - she sang in her head. 😊 Thank you. ❤
@muthoninjauyah3968 Жыл бұрын
I am a fixer who now prioritizes fixing myself first, and I now only fix people who ask for it, and appreciate my energy. We are learning 💪🏾.
@Anna.21. Жыл бұрын
How did you start?
@muthoninjauyah3968 Жыл бұрын
@@Anna.21. I started by no longer allowing those who abused my kindness into my energy, or space. I completely cut them all off. It is now my fundamental rule to only give where I am appreciated, where my kindness is reciprocated 💖🦋🙂🦋💖. I wish you all the love and wisdom in caring for your beautiful fixer souls 💯❤️🌹.
@jennymoser9750 Жыл бұрын
SO proud of you! It sounds simple, but most of us fixers understand how much fight it takes to get to where you are now. Good for you.
@muthoninjauyah3968 Жыл бұрын
@@jennymoser9750 💖💝🌺💓💞💖
@janejuliet1 Жыл бұрын
I could've written this! ❤️
@gracealexandrea21504 жыл бұрын
"Lies aren't a fix for the truth" Yes thats true but it sure makes a great bandaid.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@gracealexandrea21503 жыл бұрын
@@BrentMorganMusic Thank you for the like and comment. I hope you are doing well and have an amazing night/day!
@amyedison87804 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: She's a fixer with no one to fix her She's a lover who won't love herself She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a fighter with no one beside her In a corner alone on the ropes She's a let down away from a terrible place She'll fix every scar but her own Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most Buried in bandages, hiding the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a liar, a calm to the fire Shamed when we all follow suit She's a whisper away from a dangerous place 'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who need fixin' the most Packed with prescriptions, disguising the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a handful A whole lot to handle But worth every thorn in my side She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight
@jacobmurphy1002 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@gitangiie86343 жыл бұрын
"She's lover who won't love herself" damn, it stabbed me
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚
@funattack29503 жыл бұрын
I felt that
@janicehammersmith47283 жыл бұрын
You're not alone. I'll be 70 this yr, and all of it still applies to me.
@megannicollebarrera11182 жыл бұрын
Fr I'm leakin
@noname-ds1jd2 жыл бұрын
@@janicehammersmith4728 so it really doesn't get better with age?
@jeanettelapierre78243 ай бұрын
My beautiful daughter (16) sent me this song. I have never felt as seen and validated. Of course I cried! Hehe
@malissahayes19103 жыл бұрын
My daughter told me to listen to this, after a traumatic event. I’m in tears!! 🥺 do the work!! Stand tall, even when it hurts it’s worth the work! Tape and glue only works for so long!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love!
@kellinhell4 жыл бұрын
All I did was click on this suggested song and now I’m crying
@itsyourmumma4 жыл бұрын
Same
@rebeccamehl97633 жыл бұрын
Me too!!! 🤦🏻♀️
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
My bad!!! 💚
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
@@itsyourmumma 💚
@sprihadharan10073 жыл бұрын
Omg same. I am crying inside
@lettygonzales25524 жыл бұрын
I can’t listen to this without crying! 🎁It’s so meee!! A I agree, us empaths feel the pain and don’t worry about our own. Thank you for this beautiful beautiful blessing🥺❤️
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for bieng here!
@sprihadharan10073 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@jayasree92802 жыл бұрын
Beautiful song... why do i have tears in my eyes.... bless ur heart...
@cindyjensen6346 Жыл бұрын
Hugs
@Snow17Kero3 жыл бұрын
Sitting here feeling numb and came across this song. I'm crying. I lost my myself in healing someone else and loving him too. Really loved these words sang.
@lathonjonesdowning28442 жыл бұрын
This
@rainebeaumeyers87433 жыл бұрын
I never knew this song existed and now that I am sitting here raw, broken, and frustrated I feel like I just learned alot about myself. Thank you. -A fixer
@Hevvers4 жыл бұрын
Damn this made me emotional. This song is relatable as hell
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
much love!
@stephanieharrington47102 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!!! I'm in tears listening to this beautiful truth!
@alyssasamarro4823 жыл бұрын
It's sad that we instantly have a name in our minds the moment we heard this song. I hope everyone finds someone who's willing to fix them and have someone to fix them.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
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@bloodysovy80263 жыл бұрын
That's my mom, man. I just don't know how to help her sometimes, because she doesn't let me.
@jillianjoys14434 жыл бұрын
You wrote this for me. No question. I’m her. The bleeding heart fixer of everyone. Yet drowning in my silence
@rinman99034 жыл бұрын
Sending you love sister ❤️ we're here for each other 💕✨✨
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Of course I did 💚
@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I3 жыл бұрын
Same ♥ thats for u if u need me im here
@caristewart4813 жыл бұрын
Same. You're not alone.
@reham_.21563 жыл бұрын
Virtual hug!
@nanananna96673 жыл бұрын
"Buried in bandages Hiding the hell" Guys I'm 7 days free! I know it's not much but I'm very proud of myself!
@krizzannegayatgay30843 жыл бұрын
I’m proud of you☺️❤️
@randomperson99613 жыл бұрын
THATS AMAZING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!! :D
@msmsmarissa3 жыл бұрын
How is it going? Hopefully life is getting better every day for you!
@nanananna96673 жыл бұрын
@@msmsmarissa Honestly things were a lot better!But last night I did it again..I really hate myself for this...
@msmsmarissa3 жыл бұрын
@@nanananna9667 it's only one day..you didn't throw everything away! Don't hate yourself, just try again
@Vixen86ed4610 ай бұрын
Thank you for such a beautiful lyrically written song from those who are highly sensitive and dealing with depression. This is a masterpiece the world needs to hear. We are all creatures of habit. Some of us just get sick in a continuous loop until someone is courageous enough to see the beauty beneath the broken!!
@kinseystokes41584 жыл бұрын
I feel noticed when listening to this song. I'm listening to this everyday from now on and showing all my friends that need to hear it
@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I3 жыл бұрын
How is it going
@kinseystokes41583 жыл бұрын
@@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I oh hey I am good. Just going to school.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@cezarailincastanciu87803 жыл бұрын
Finished my therapy session, left crying and disturbed with thousands of questions, take out my phone, open KZbin, this song pops up first. Damn you life with your coincidences, thank you!
@raquelstrickland49662 жыл бұрын
This song made me feel so raw and naked, all I did to hide away my issues and this song rips them from my hiding places slowly and painfully. I'm tired, I'm sad, I'm lost, I'm lonely in a house full of family this Thanksgiving. I can't get over them leaving me here, I miss them so much I can barely breathe 😪 I just want my dad, mom, and brother back 💔
@ML-HS8 ай бұрын
This song paints a perfect image of me. River of tears shed. My friend's are pointing out how much of a fighter I am, but can't tell them I am a fighter with no one beside her. Oh, how I yearn for things to be different. Those animations with a hug is hit the most.
@t13434o3 жыл бұрын
I prayed for healing and comfort and this is what I got. Thank you!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
☺️
@flathanger2 жыл бұрын
This song found me. I've been listening for months. It's my go to when I need that reminder to fix myself before trying to help others.
@enamiibk7154 жыл бұрын
This is not just a song,this is a feeling 💜
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚
@katrinagutgsell63903 жыл бұрын
I was always told I was a fixer, even though I was the most broken inside. I was fighting my own battles and didn't feel like anyone was there to help me. This song relates to me so much. Thank you so much for such a beautiful song as this one.
@shaniafernandes31863 жыл бұрын
I'm sure the songwriter is such a gentleman who understands women. God bless you.
@PokeJenn973 жыл бұрын
I study counselling psychology and counsel some people myself. While we are taught the importance of self care and keeping ourselves happy etc, I'm going to share this with my program classmates. A lot of them will resonate and others maybe can use this song to help put what the clients feel into words
@claudiarobinson58711 ай бұрын
Oh what a beautiful song. The trumpet is beautiful.
@Gwgwvwgywbvgyq14526 Жыл бұрын
I'm dedicating this song to my mother because my mother is always helping us fix our problems while she always hides her problems and cries alone.
@thefriendzonedpanda21003 жыл бұрын
I don't even know why I'm here. But I'm crying when he sang the first line. And now I'm a crying mess. This song made me realize that I was always the "shoulder to cry on," the one who's always available and "one call away" and the one who listens to either the loudest rants or most silent chaos, but no one bothers to do the same for me.
@MoiraDelie2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the club....
@siennapayne94852 жыл бұрын
You are not alone ❤ I know it's hard but you are loved and I'm here fighting just like you are
@aiosquadron2 жыл бұрын
For me, it's not that nobody bothers to do the same for me... It's that I'm always too reluctant to reach out for their help until I'm super close to the despair even horizon...
@alissa98624 жыл бұрын
This song is so beautiful. This year I have faced being abused my husband, missing my son who would of been 2, I didn’t get to see my step daughter, I lost my job, he took the car, and I blamed myself for it all. I’m finally looking forward and trying to care for myself, and this reminds me I can’t help others if I don’t care for myself ❤️ I found my new repeat 🥰
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
thanks alissa!!!!
@rebeccacecil-wiley92054 жыл бұрын
You hang in there sweetei. I'm a former fixer and former abused woman. You can do anything you put your mind to!
@TheWinningNadz3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about all of this! There's a world still full of joy and love- it's for you❤❤
@OscarMartinez-yx2hn3 жыл бұрын
Super relatable as a male, my whole life story tbh. Ive always found it easy to help others but can never help myself. I choose others over me, i mean I am even pursuing a career in psychology... this song hits hard tbh
@mysterious70923 жыл бұрын
Amen,which is how i became a doormat.Now only more focused on myself.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
I can relate!
@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I3 жыл бұрын
U guys i hope this makes it to the top im a female but i hope u find someone to help fix u ♥
@angelrage75282 ай бұрын
This song speaks to me at the exact moment I need it most. Thank you.
@JohnRaymondPeterson3 жыл бұрын
This has to be the most beautiful song I've heard in a long time. The imagery, the melody and the lyrics work beautifully and you delivered it perfectly. It moved me as a good song should. Thank you Brent
@MichaelWilliams-co3yo2 жыл бұрын
What he said!
@autumn2845 Жыл бұрын
It's been over 2 years and each time this song plays, silent tears still flow without fail. The warmth from feeling seen turns into ache from becoming aware of my reality all over again. It is strong enough to lift the heaviest floodgates. Thank you, Brent. 💜
@sweetmanggo4070 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to Brent Morgan, whenever I feel like there's no room for me anymore, I come to his channel, and feel better in the end. God bless you because you may have saved many lives0
@shescountry0916 Жыл бұрын
I never knew I needed a song, until I heard this beautiful song!
@nativeamericanfeather99482 жыл бұрын
Beautiful❤️ I'm a broken fixer. I make others smile as I hide pain,I'm there for others as I fight demons alone.I've given sunsets to others,there isn't any left for me♡ seeing them shine makes me happy❤ God Bless the kind hearted & the broken fixers
@ramchaorinhungyo82322 жыл бұрын
The first 2 lines started and my tears started to roll down endlessly!! I don't know why listening to this, makes me feels like someone is comforting me.
@Lylia90003 жыл бұрын
Admit it, you didn’t look for this song. It just found you and now you get to cry by yourself cuz it’s probably not the best that you relate lol. ;w; Edit: Whoa that's a lot of likes...
@poptart3573 жыл бұрын
Why you gotta call me out like this
@katrina60713 жыл бұрын
Stop calling me out (。ŏ﹏ŏ)
@amandajanedeweese743 жыл бұрын
No shit thanks
@alextodoroki86723 жыл бұрын
yes actually-
@trogdoress3 жыл бұрын
So true
@saltywisdom3 жыл бұрын
She's a fixer with no one to fix her She's a lover who won't love herself She's a heartbreak away from a horrible place 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a fighter with no one beside her In a corner alone on the ropes She's a let down away from a terrible place She'll fix every scar but her own Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who needs fixin' the most Buried in bandages, hiding the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a liar, a calm to the fire Shamed when we all follow suit She's a whisper away from a dangerous place 'Cause lies aren't a fix for the truth Oh, she fixes the lonely, fixes the broke But tends to forget who need fixin' the most Packed with prescriptions, disguisin' the hell 'Cause fixers never fix themselves She's a handful A whole lot to handle But worth every thorn in my side She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight She's a sunset away from the darkest of days No fix for the fixer tonight
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@suzhasbighair4 жыл бұрын
with tears down my face, this one hits deep to my soul.. thank you for putting words to our feelings... God bless! May I fix anything or you while i'm up???!?!
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@BasilPaste_3 жыл бұрын
wow this song makes my soul ache. sometimes you really dont notice how badly you need to fix yourself when you focus on fixing others. being there for others all the time is a crushing task.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love 💚
@hannahcaunga95113 жыл бұрын
I Really Love this Song it made me feel like Someone's Understand my Side.. really appreciated the lyrics and Brent Morgan Voice ❤️❤️❤️
@leeeeemon414811 ай бұрын
I almost forgot about this song. Thank you for recommending this to me randomly.
@aprilfraser80704 ай бұрын
Learning to heal my own soul but the healing others keeps you going..
@lauriec4JC4 жыл бұрын
Love love love this song!!! Congrats Brent! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Laurie!
@mycatoohey96613 жыл бұрын
This song touches my heart. This is how Ive felt for too many years of my life. But Ive finally found someone who is willing to stick with me and help fix my fucked up life I have been sober for about 4 months now and its all thanks to my husband. I could never ask for a better father to our future children. I have truly found the light in my life and I'm happier than I have ever been.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
Much love!
@FukusuNoMe8 ай бұрын
Crying so much right now. So agonizingly beautiful this song is.
@DreamyGems2 жыл бұрын
When a song puts yourself into perspective and you know things have got to change.
@coolbeansdude25284 жыл бұрын
This song makes me think of my mom. Love her so much. Hope she never grows old
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚
@maryph42553 жыл бұрын
When youtube recommendations know you better than your friends.
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@jessicahilding283 жыл бұрын
😂👍💜
@meriksen_3 жыл бұрын
So true 😄😒💙
@amyepp78723 жыл бұрын
Right?!?
@notaQuackhead3693 жыл бұрын
Fucking oof
@jilly2020Ай бұрын
so about 3 years ago i wrote your song title in my diary and i had no idea unil i was going through old stuff, i forgot all about this song and im so glad i brought myself back this golden song..
@jacquelinearndt71633 жыл бұрын
I love this. Hits home, 5 years of fixing myself, empathy can be controlled and you can fall in love with yourself
@munkyzzb75043 жыл бұрын
I'm always trying to help ppl probably cause I can't help myself..
@BrentMorganMusic3 жыл бұрын
💚
@alexiafulga60944 жыл бұрын
Well this really told the story of my life, my whole life I was the person that my parents, siblings and friends could count on and I had my dear grandma that i could lean on, but sadly she passed away 2 years ago so now I am on my own. This song really said what I could never bring myself to say, thank you. I hope everyone reading this has a good day and is healthy and happy, sorry for my mistakes, english is not my first language, love to you all🧡
@gisellelozoya33973 жыл бұрын
My grandma passed away right before the new year, I felt this 🥺 She was the one non toxic person in my life who didn’t drain me Being an empath is tough
@alexiafulga60943 жыл бұрын
@@gisellelozoya3397 oh god I am so so sorry for your loss. I know no words can help you now but I just wanted to say that the pain you feel now is just love that has nowhere to go. Just love. Time truly does help with the pain but right now just cry your heart out, don't keep it in cause that will cause you troubles later. Surround yourself with people that love you, happy people that can take you out of your sadness, even for only a few minutes. Listening to songs that you relate to help with the feeling that you are now alone, but don't do that too much, I am an empath too and I listened to sad music too much, I was healed but I absorbed the energy from the music which made me think I was still suffering. Even though now you don't think this is possible, there will come a day when you will think of her and only happy thoughts will come to mind. Until then, I hope you will have an easy recovery, I wish you all the love and if your grandma was religious, I'm sure she is drinking a cup of hot tea up there, where there is no more pain and she's watching you. Take care🧡
@gisellelozoya33973 жыл бұрын
@@alexiafulga6094 Thank you so much for the kinds words ❤️🥺 She was religious and I know she is watching over me and is always with me and that brings me some sort of peace and gives me strength, also knowing she’s not in pain or suffering anymore is a relief for me. She’s my guardian angel now ❤️ it’s just hard coming to terms with the fact that she’s no longer here physically
@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I3 жыл бұрын
@@gisellelozoya3397 religion helps i hope ur doing good
@SurfinLifeCaliGurl Жыл бұрын
Well, I certainly feel called out!! Beautifully tragic song that a lot of us who are healer’s that can’t heal ourselves but we absorb the suffering of others to lighten their burden.
@gracetolbert88414 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for this
@BrentMorganMusic4 жыл бұрын
:)
@maritzame.95084 жыл бұрын
I know I am In need of fixing. I have no prescriptions at all ... though Ironically enough we both know what we want and besides him needing his girls but me... his dedicated loyal subject of his hearts and his loins longing
@Abc123-ZN4 жыл бұрын
Think shes already in a horrible place. Surrounded by people who lied to her while she was forced to be transparent and never allowed to sit down and feel.
@bokilover0410 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad this randomly showed up, I really needed this. It's such a great, sweet song❤️
@VarshaManoj3 жыл бұрын
The music is so soothing.. The lyrics are so emotional... It's really beautiful. The whole song is like an emotional rollercoaster.
@bazatenorio671 Жыл бұрын
Oh my word! Where has this song been??? I’m only discovering it now and the tears are flowing! ❤
@peaches_n_cream133 жыл бұрын
This song is so beautiful... I’m so happy that someone finally put this into words. It sucks feeling like this but not having a way to convey it to someone. Thank you for making me and so many others feel heard. A masterpiece. I cannot believe I didn’t find you sooner. I’m a new fan and proud of it.
@shirahivans99002 жыл бұрын
Hands down... this is a beautiful song 🥰
@julia-xz5ig3 жыл бұрын
Much love to all Fixers who are trying their best to fix others and to survive this world
@jamiekelly7173 жыл бұрын
I’ve never heard a more incredibly true song! Wow!! I can’t stop replaying!
@mossiris8162 жыл бұрын
I don't know why, but this song hits so close when you're battling sickness alone. Keeping up a happy face when you're drowning in meds, bad results from tests, ER visits, and having to keep everyone from being sad or stressed while trying to keep yourself alive.
@ashleyrose27923 жыл бұрын
Just when I felt like giving up. This gave me strength. And comfort.
@trenishadaniels82352 жыл бұрын
Never heard a song that absolutely speaks about EVERYTHING I feel. I literally had a crying spell this morning around 6am. All alone, in the dark, in my room. I felt every emotion that he's singing about. I feel so overwhelmed so often and under loved and appreciated every single day of my life. I feel like I'm always trying to please someone and be a helper, and I'm constantly shown that I'm an afterthought to (almost) everyone in my life. No one knows what I go through daily because I just put on a smile and act as if everything is okay! Thank you for this song. I know I'm not alone or special in this, but it sure helps knowing that I'm not alone. (Not that that's a good thing) I'm done rambling now gn.