Bride In Tears Over Mother's Disapproval | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire

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This mother and bride has a history of disagreeing, and when the tears start flowing, Gok has to step in with some comfort.

[@Danny21hd]

The 3 dresses looked awesome on her, but the first one was *chef’s kiss*

[@novimustahdiatinasri2645]

Agree

[@patriciabjeijeh909]

The first one was the best.

[@nk47100]

I really preferred the third myself

[@dietotaku]

i wish i could take the top from the second dress and put it on the skirt from the third dress. i really liked the flowy "woodland princess" feel of #3's skirt but was not digging the open applique "sleeves."

[@Icebluegel11]

She looked like a magical princess! Wow

[@mysticjc]

The people said "MOAR GOK!" and they heard us.

[@nathanmalik1697]

🤭😂😂

[@joyceprice4811]

Mystic...is MOAR Gok's first name? LOL

[@maximilianemustermann815]

Mysicjc, the KZbin algorithm asked me to rate your comment. Strange. I don't understand your comment but at least now it feels less surprising that there are some comments with 10000 likes.

[@hiraethatelier1205]

this is not enough gok, I NEED MOAAARRRR

[@maximilianemustermann815]

@@hiraethatelier1205 Thank you for clarifiing! 😊

[@ShelbyZealand]

"We have to find the right words to tell her it's not the one..." "You don't look as thin!" Nailed it.

[@pearls7272]

😂😂😂

[@elsamoonlight1357]

my name is Shelby too :)) aye

[@konoha-kun4024]

just what I thought -.-'

[@mellie4174]

Exactly my thoughts

[@purepsyc]

Indeed! It wasn’t me and I felt deflated!!!

[@lovelivi1591]

The first dress on her was everything!

[@novimustahdiatinasri2645]

Agree

[@karishmasingh8557]

Right

[@patriciabjeijeh909]

I also agree. It was just so fantastic.

[@BasicYTHandle]

I just "snipped" and pasted all 3 side by side and the first one absolutely looks the best on her BY FAR - however, it is more about how the bride feels in the dress than anything.

[@lovelivi1591]

@@BasicYTHandle avsolutely!

[@amandalupacchino6728]

When the bride says “I don’t care” when you ask if the entourage will like the gown as well, that’s the gown. At the end of the day, it is what the bride is wearing the dress. It is about what makes them feel like the best version of themselves.

[@rosameijering5161]

Exactly. This is how i want to fwel

[@icturner23]

I was so happy when she said that. She had thought she needed their approval but she didn't.

[@fidelianerina]

That's why I don't understand why brides bring anyone with them. I feel like she loved that second dress more then the one she picked, given she cried and felt like she needed something different because of their opinions. If you love a dress and you think it's perfect, it doesn't matter what the others say. It's your dress, they shouldn't have a say. If you do bring someone, their opinion shouldn't matter. I've seen so many brides now pick something else because of what others say and it's just sad.

[@Savs649]

Gok is just so amazing. Not only does he help these brides to find the perfect wedding dress sometimes he helps them to find their self confidence, their beauty and I love it. More Gok please!

[@THEAnnEla]

I love how Gok asked her if she thought it will be enough for the mom and friends with the 3rd dress and she just said "i don't care" because she loved it so much. You knew that was it.

[@tsukilunamoon]

I like that this consultant listens, doesn't give up, and doesn't pressure a decision. Kudos to this team

[@IngridAlcazarOficial]

Lancashire location is a first class boutique and I'm not talking about money. The way auntie Gok and his staff do their job is amazing, professional and emphatic, they make every bride happy and special, respecting everyone and the budget with emphasis; also the dresses selections are impressive most of the times. In this case, the bride received a golden experience from Gok and the disagreement was managed with class and keeping calm but also giving her an option for her dress. I just loved everything here.

[@maburg713]

He is the absolute best, isn't he?? I would honestly fly in from the U.S. (if I were getting remarried) to get my dress from them, just because of the respect with which they treat everyone, and the incredible designing skills of Gok. He is a Master in the art of ^Class^.

[@rachelcookie321]

From my understanding Gok doesn’t actually work at the boutique, he is only there for the show. Even without him the boutique looks lovely and the staff seem nice so I would like to visit when I’m getting married.

[@eleanorcooke7136]

I'm happy that I live in England so I could go there to get my dress if I get married.

[@annedalton289]

The shop is called Ava rose and is where he films ! Belongs to Paula Chappell and her two daughters Ava And Niamh nothing to do with Gok

[@BunnyQueen97]

That’s how all bridal shops should create the experience! I work in a shop like this and the number of brides who come in and say, “now THIS is what I wanted it to be like!” makes me so sad!!

[@pralinez28]

I'm already married but I'd have a second wedding just to wear one of the dresses from this boutique! How can every dress be so lovely? And Gok, with all the customisation to make sure every bride gets their dream dress. 💗

[@Heyitslidz]

You know where to get a dress if u do a vow renewal 😝

[@acehart4213]

Renew your vows!! There’s your reason!!

[@lisaproustresearch]

I would love to pretend I’m getting married just to have a consultation with Gok ! He is beyond perfect !

[@suvashree100]

Essence of Australia has the best n affordable dresses .. 2000£ isn't cheap either , but u get my point..some of these dress would way more expensive elsewhere.

[@tearzacurtis3116]

I love that he asks what the bride's think about the dress, but almost always follows it up by asking how they feel about their bodies, because he knows that if they don't love themselves in it they won't truly love it

[@elizabethwinkelman5536]

The second dress was kind of a comfortable dress, but didn’t do much for her current figure. The first was fabulous!

[@elizabethwinkelman5536]

She did seem happier in the third, though.

[@BasicYTHandle]

What a shame that she didn't go back and try on first dress again after seeing herself in the other two (without a doubt, the first one that made her look the best in every respect, IMHO). She was STUNNING in the first dress.

[@nk47100]

People are saying this but I felt that way about the third actually!

[@jot6685]

I'd love to see the 3rd dress after the sleeves were in and all alterations done.

[@icturner23]

Wrong. The first one was the worst and she knew she preferred the third so trying the first one on again would have been a waste of time.

[@Justicia007]

@@nk47100 The third one was incredibly stunning on her in every way.

[@danni1993]

Goc was born for this job...he is blessed with the compassion of making EVERY bride feel absolutely beautiful. He instinctively knows what every bride needs to hear. I'd bet he's a loving, loyal friend.

[@annedalton289]

Read his life story💙 then you will see why he is like he is ❤️

[@Hanka1598]

I love Gok doing so much work with the pins. The dresses then fit so well even though they are not the right size. So much more effort than other SYTTD editions.

[@dianeburnejko2908]

The first dress looked the best.

[@amandaparker9208]

She is stunning! AND, how could you not LOVE Gok!! What an amazing man he is! So compassionate. Thank you Gok for what you do!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@the.magic.catbus9459]

When I was at my friends bridal appointment I didn’t critique the dresses like this. The only question I asked the bride was “can you drop it low and dance all night in it?” 🤣 it’s all about how she feels my personal style and taste has nothing to do with it.

[@mallikadhanashekar9851]

❤

[@GraceSavidesKeller]

"Can you drop it low and dance all night?" is the single best question to ask at any occasion for any reason.

[@kathimorrical9912]

YOU are a great friend! It's not about anyone's taste but the brides! I'm glad you were there for her.

[@Amanda-xw5mi]

That first dress.... Absolute wow 😍😍😍 absolutely perfect on her

[@nonnie8388]

She actually, in my opinion, looked best in the second dress. I didn’t think it was too plain at all. I am blown away by the dresses in this particular place of all the bridal places I’ve ever seen this place has the most stunning gowns and the people that work there are absolutely brilliant!

[@micheledavidswife4336]

Stunning The first one looked amazeballz on her

[@Devin3Anthologie]

The fact that you said "Amazeballz" 🤣🤣🤣 I have not heard that in a long time.

[@micheledavidswife4336]

@@Devin3Anthologie 😂

[@RosezanneMarcus]

@@Devin3Anthologie right?!

[@womanonabicycle]

Real shame. Bless her. They were trying to kindly give her honest opinions but she seemed to really take it personally. She looked lovely in all three.

[@mnqromero13]

Yess.

[@nandini45]

Yessss

[@O-Demi]

low self-esteem does that to people... that's so sad to see because she looks great in every one of these dresses!

[@theresabrown4288]

Yes I agree

[@victorialine5984]

No, they were trying to push their choice on her.

[@michellesutton202]

When is the people with the bride realize the dress isn't for them, it's for the bride and her groom?

[@heatherbressette6275]

I agree!!

[@angelabacker1177]

Every mum wants to see their child look their very best. The second dress didn't do her justice.

[@AFAskygoddess]

If the bride asks people to come dress shopping with her, she should expect to hear their opinions. If I was told to come but keep quiet, I'd tell the bride that she really doesn't need me there.

[@shellykevinbaumgartner7612]

She was so beautiful in each gown. There was no wrong decision. But, her reaction to the 3rd gown said it all. ❤

[@ME-tj4wm]

I do loved the first one on her, but her energy on the third dress was everything, that made her absolutely gorgeous 😍

[@Shann2112]

Mum’s *gasp* at seeing her in 3rd one was everything ❤️

[@cyflym11]

Because she'd got her own way. Personally I thought the floppy lace bits on the arms looked messy.

[@genevieva_b]

@@cyflym11 maybe the lace bits were on-the-spot alterations which will then be done properly and won't look as messy

[@michellestella7477]

This isn't just about how a dress looks. It's mostly about how the bride feels in it. 🤍

[@b.j.loveislove9090]

Yeessss!

[@AnniCarlsson]

And to many mothers refuse to accept their daughters. They expect them to be a doll they can dress up as they want and the doll bot allowed to feel anything

[@doriwilson6991]

True.

[@andreygreenidge4854]

Clearly.😨

[@nellysmith6006]

For reals I feel like alot of people forget that.

[@megalopolis2015]

All three dresses were so beautiful and feminine, but the third dress was the most unique. I Love how the bride's face lit up as she wore it. Much Love to her and her groom and family.

[@Moffeliten]

I'm from Norway, but if I should get married to my husband again, I would defenately travel to Lancashire and Gok to get my wedding dress.

[@robertgreen8131]

Hi petty lady How are you doing today?

[@annedalton289]

He only films in shop doesn’t own it !Paula Chappell and her daughters Ava and Niamh own it

[@hotrod66ify]

Two Gok episodes in one day !!! Hallelujah !

[@alomafoggo3239]

Last gown was stunning💕 Gok always has such beautiful gowns

[@Suely4sure]

She looked gorgeous in all three of them! Once the third dress is fitted it will (and was, don’t get me wrong) absolutely stunning!

[@rivertam7827]

From the title and the build up I was expecting a venomous monster mother, but I think she wasn't that bad, no one liked the dress, not just her, but she wasn't viscous like so many other mothers on SYTTD

[@deeniayomi7466]

I love the way Goks treating every customer with so much love. And all the dresses they've got are so gorgeous. I wish to get my wedding dress from them one day. But I'm so far from their country 😭😞 But i enjoy every brides experience with them every day 😍😘

[@beaesquivel6524]

Wow i love how Gok transforms these beautiful women to ethereal beings! I love it. It’s like a touch of grace and magic!❤️😍😘

[@sheLoVic]

Most of Gok's beautiful dress is from Essence of Australia. And they are stunning! Funny that in other SYTTD, sometimes (rarely) they have Essence of Australia too in some episodes, but we always see neverending dresses from Dando London, Hailey Paige, and Pnina Tornai

[@MsJubjubbird]

this is a smaller store so they stock smaller name brands

[@catladyfromky4142]

Yes, and the smaller brands are usually cheaper. When commenters complain about other versions being more expensive, this is one of the reasons.

[@judithryle2113]

Pinna tormei I think makes the gaudiest dresses. Too much sexiness to them

[@Justicia007]

Love Essence of Australia dresses, they are stunning!

[@suvashree100]

​@@judithryle2113 true.. they hardly ever look bridal... No whimsical , magical any of that beauty to those dresses. Very rarely i hv liked any of her dresses.

[@alanparks703]

The first dress was stunning!!!!!!

[@kaitlinfrost264]

I personally thought the 3rd dress suited her the best. And you could tell how happy she was! It was stunning and just perfect for her. ❤

[@lee-qz7bd]

Loved that last dress........The arms were everything

[@janetwray7277]

I love how Gok seems to truly care about the brides to be!! Amazing human being!

[@kimpelders4996]

I love the second dress. She was right...so sorry she tried to please her friends..

[@HumanimalChannel]

Gok listens, understands. And delivers

[@rickkraft6013]

Gok is the best! Such beautiful dresses matched for the lovely brides.

[@ladyjustice1474]

The bride looked stunning in all 3 dresses. I hope she chose the 2nd dress. That's the 1 she really loved, and didn't settle on the 3rd dress. What ever her decision she will look beautiful on the day.

[@skhan9030]

I got all teary because she literally looks so beautiful in that first dress

[@MichLStover]

Honestly Gok say yes to the dress is the best. Like he listens to there wants and needs so much and knocks it out of the par

[@bluemesa9529]

I just love how wonderful Gok is with his brides!!! Just lovely

[@janececelia7448]

Gorgeous Gok and gorgeous girl! She looked stunning in all three, but she chose the best for her happy day.

[@debrataggart116]

She looks like an angel without wings.

[@susankibbey400]

All 3 gowns were beautiful and looked amazing on her.

[@absolutetruthgirl]

The first dress was it!!

[@swaybaby77]

When do you ever see a bride look great in the top 3 choices. Super flattering!! All of them.

[@Katw76]

I flipping hate it when the mums say 'it's just what I wanted' news flash - not your wedding sweet pea. 🙄

[@juliam.mallen3181]

She's a very beautiful young lady and looked absolutely stunning in all three of the beautiful dresses. I love how loving and kind the host was with her.

[@OohLaLaurie]

Imagine getting dressed every day with Gok by your side! I need that kind of positivity ❤️

[@robertgreen8131]

Hi Laurie How are you doing today?

[@DS-ky9dl]

The first dress was spectacular on her, and she has a wonderful shape! Beautiful sweet girl.

[@mlisnaglar]

💖💖💖 I need Gok to be my therapist! The bride was so stunning in everything she wore! Such a beautiful personality and body❤️

[@horses2by]

Beautiful Bride, I still liked the first dress on her.

[@kattysaclayan1233]

Gok is really a MASTER. Every dress he puts on to a client looks like THE DRESS

[@dalemills7926]

1st dress is absolutely stunning , 😮❤❤❤

[@user-pt1cz4ot1e]

Gok is the Chuck Norris of bridal gowns. No one else stands a chance. 💪🏻

[@jonicerquettini5179]

Stunning! She an exceptionally beautiful young woman!!

[@lushiousification]

I like how the bride's mothers and the brides friends look like past and future versions of the same people, lol

[@morrigancorvus2879]

🤣

[@starzmwl9327]

I love how Gok supports his clients and helps them see past limitations… 🤗💕✨

[@jacquelinem3551]

Stunning she is absolutely stunning.

[@christinanyborg188]

One thing that can make me sad on behalf of the bride is that she should always take care of what others think. The day is about the bride and not family and friends. The phrase I hear in all episodes from the bride is "Now I found something we ALL liked" like bruh! 😒

[@gardenjoy5223]

She isn't forced to bring people with her. Plus she chooses those herself. She brings them to help her. They did a fine job. The first dress was a dream come true. The second not. They were telling her kindly. Her tears had nothing to do with that. Just some build-up anxiety coming out. The third dress was okay. Didn't like the weird sleeves though.

[@angieoo13]

She had the cutest reaction to dress #3. WICKED! Love that for her

[@shelleysquires2741]

“What do you think about your body?” “It rocks.” Yes it does darlin’ yes it does 💕

[@cynthiahafner796]

GOK totally rocks! There are no others like him! ❤️

[@telarl.5154]

She has a wonderful beauty and first dress enhanced it all, and suited her so well

[@georgieeve2026]

She is absolutely stunning in all of the dresses! 😍

[@katiew1560]

Every dress Gok chose for her was beautiful, she looked gorgeous in all of them. 💜

[@shawnagrubb9958]

I personally think she's got a great figure, and looked great in every pic. But it's gotta be what makes the bride happy 🙂

[@kataiga]

The first dress is stunning on her !!

[@haplessasshole9615]

0:42 -- The intro set up an extremely tense situation, and then... Gok Wan arrives. I'm 99% sure this one is going to have a happy ending. Gok is a designer, therapist, and diplomat all rolled into one fabulously unique life form.

[@annedalton289]

Doesn’t design wedding dresses

[@hammadoolass]

I thought the first dress was the one --- but so glad the bride fell in love with something everyone else loved too.

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

I loved the 2nd dress most on her because of how she lit up when she put it on. It was very romantic looking and it highlighted HER instead of the dress. Sad that he family couldn't see that. Still, if she's happy with that 3rd dress, then so am I.

[@gardenjoy5223]

She lit up the first time already. It made her feel like a princess. It was the only dress, that indeed enhanced her so much, that she even looked regal. Glad her family could see, that the second dress indeed did less for her, and they were kind and honest enough to tell her in a soft way. Her tears were nothing but build-up anxiety. Had nothing to do with how her entourage tried to help her make the best choice.

[@Raevynwing]

She looks amazing in all of the dresses. I thought the first brought more light to her eyes myself but whatever she chooses, it's her decision and right to be happy in her choice.

[@moosehead1183]

Essence of Australia makes the most wonderfully gorgeous dresses

[@akferren1]

Such a beautiful girl naturally.. she looked gorgeous in every dress.. the first one was wow😍

[@orathayphommaseng4430]

This is emotionally great!

[@christinaireborg9977]

How is it that ALL the dresses in this shop are gorgeous???

[@robertgreen8131]

Hi Christina How are you doing today?

[@ninad.7152]

That first dress gave me the feels. Its what I imagine I would wear

[@melissacoviello2886]

I love that when he asked if she thought they’d like it, she said “I don’t care”. It makes me so sad that the people closest to you sometimes tear you down the most. I think the 3rd dress was a perfect combination of the first two dresses, but that brings said I think only her opinion should matter. It was never 4 against 1 unless you let them have that power.

[@gardenjoy5223]

Uhm, beg to differ. They didn't tear her down at all! You were just led on by the wrong title. They only gave their honest opinion. They kept saying she was stunning, just that they liked that dress less than the first one. She really did look a lot better in the first dress. Scroll through the comment section. Most agree here.

[@deannaporter7730]

All lovely gowns and I'm so happy she found the one for her but the first dress looked like it was made for her! Her waist looked amazing!

[@corvidual]

They're bonkers that second dress was perfection

[@TravelBug189]

I actually loved the 2nd dress because it was more effortless. Not all brides want a heavy dress where they have to pick it up every time they walk.

[@gabriellac2777]

me too ! the second dress was my favorite

[@TSmith72110]

I loved the skirt of the 2nd one. It was very Grace Kelly. I could see her floating around a dance floor in that

[@robertgreen8131]

Hi Marcelina How are you doing today?

[@cynthiat6505]

It’s so soft and flowing. I don’t blame her!

[@robertgreen8131]

@@cynthiat6505 Hi Cynthia How are you doing today?

[@mzp6620]

Just wow--she's beautiful and her dress compliments her so nicely.

[@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat]

💗 The first dress was absolutely stunning on her. I didn't like the second look. Ultimately the bride should go with what she loves, no matter when anyone else thinks or says

[@rickfarina]

The first dress was superb !!

[@alisonriley3996]

The dresses are just so beautiful even the ones that aren't your own style you can see that they are gorgeous. Gok makes all the brides feel so relaxed and so special and he is patient and just knows everything for the special day. I think I might get married again so I can go along and spend the time with this lovely man and his superb bridal gowns.

[@annedalton289]

It’s not his shop only where he films 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@alisonriley3996]

@@annedalton289 Hi Anne, Thanks for that, I didn't know the shop wasn't his, I just assumed it was. I haven't been watching for very long so hopefully I'll see what's happening.Alison

[@sarahmorgan835]

I want a hug like that

[@joannaflores7483]

She is so beautiful and in that dress she looks like a princess.

[@dogmom2023]

GOk I love you... you make every bride that comes into the boutique feel as beautiful as they are.

[@taffneycampbell2394]

She looked beautiful in the first dress!

[@lesleymcshanemitchell9651]

She looked amazing in the dresses. Lovely bride

[@heididepotter8136]

That first one looks stunning on her! True royalty. waaw!!!!

[@nishthagarg8856]

I love gok n these dresses are just wow..... ❤️❤️❤️

[@IrynaHp]

Yes please 🙏 more Gok in our lives

[@dewainalexander6615]

All the dresses were stunning but the first one. Wow. Just wow.