Bridgerton - how does a lady come to be with a child

[@aliciablack1254]

Best scene hands down 😂 I love Eloise's offended "apparently it's not even a requirement", like its not about curiosity anymore, girl wants to know why all y'all been lyin to her

[@daniels7907]

Also terror. After all, nobody actually answered the question. The only thing she now knows is that pregnancy may strike at any time.

[@haileyblum5037]

that line gets me every time lol

[@jezeannwilliams1145]

I hope they include the scene where Eloise and Francesca pays a maid to tell them about it in detail 😂😂😂

[@chand911]

If this is the best scene, I'm pleased to know I missed absolutely nothing by skipping this show.

[@harleyquinn5774]

@@chand911 There are even better scenes than this. ❤️

[@tip21967]

the smirk on the two brother faces was gold

[@kathleenmckenzie6261]

Actually, the interactions between Anthony and Benedict were great throughout the show.

[@tip21967]

@@kathleenmckenzie6261 i agree bring on season 2

[@tip21967]

@Evelyn Greene sure have why's that

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Absolute menace that Colin 😂

[@bellak46]

I love this sibling scene between Eloise, Colin and Benedict. Plus their mother yelling “COLIN BRIDGERTON!”” is hilarious

[@lifewithjown]

You know you did something wrong when your parents call you by your full name 🤣

[@gracewalker5283]

I KNOW

[@deamea5098]

They cast violet so well, she really does feel like there mom

[@anaisbarrosodgh5790]

É AsfAms

[@vaanshichauhan9868]

Total how many siblings are these?? I thought it was 8 bcs series has 8 books

[@baked_alaska]

I can just imagine poor Eloise constantly looking over her shoulder and peeking behind doors before she enters, terrified that pregnancy could strike at a moment’s notice. 😂

[@thecommie739]

👏well played

[@samalvey8168]

I can vaguely recall a similar conversation involving Penelope Featherington asking about it and the response is a sarcastic "Cake"........... and she then looks in horror at the slice of cake she's eating.

[@jjh2456]

Then she really needs to be careful around Theo then

[@lu-gp4ld]

The sad thing is there are reports of fundies praying to not get pregnant and being terrified of it happening, because they haven't been taught how one gets pregnant

[@rubyanne4909]

It's funny because in the books, by the time it's her time to get married, she semed more knowledgeable about it than poor Daphne. Then again, Eloise and Francesca bribed the maids for details.

[@kritichatterjee8403]

The best part of the whole show. Also, good reference to the books where Colin and Benedict regularly go fencing.

[@georgiebennett3336]

is it literal fencing or... a metaphor for something? 🤣

[@kritichatterjee8403]

@@georgiebennett3336 it's in book 3, an offer from a gentleman. the two men are fencing where benedict starts taking out his frustrations in the sword-play and colin talks to him when then benedict comes to realize that "love shall conquer all". it's a subtle play on the routine the two brothers have. like a bonding activity for the two of them.

[@kurastil5804]

“It’s about a woman!😈” Looking forward to seeing more of teasing-younger-brother-Colin😏

[@daniels7907]

In those days sports like fencing were a respectable means of working out for gentlemen. Hence how in shape they are despite the food that is almost always laid out.

[@krampus5068]

what's the show?

[@sheliza8838]

I actually kind of liked how Colin was willing to educate his sister😂

[@samf.s.7731]

Barn animals 🤦‍♀️ Thank goodness he didn't continue.

[@Purple_Sweater]

"In fact, eh, we were just heading off to... take our sticks out-" "COLIN BRIDGERTON!" "A round of fencing"

[@roxanelvgsch]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tiffanygrever8092]

I had that same thoughts 😂

[@scrappycoco6282]

can someone explain full context of that joke 😅😅

[@thelordnaevis4946]

​@@scrappycoco6282take ur sticks out. im sure it is familiar to u on what a stick is in that context LMAO

[@pup_master66]

Colin was WILD for that 😭

[@Nieves001]

I love Colin character, while Benedict was trying not to ruin his little sister innocent mind, Colin on the hand... 😂😂

[@melindoranightsilver9298]

Especially since at this point Benedict had spent more time acting like a rake than Colin.

[@loitlois]

Have u ever visited a farm??? 😂😂😂

[@etprincipalis]

*Immediately gets hit by Benedict who was clearly waiting for Colin to say something like this*

[@caribbeangyal3972]

I don't get the farm reference Can someone explain😅

[@miztercasuall3718]

@@caribbeangyal3972 I guess he meant brothels .

[@anna3707]

@@caribbeangyal3972 i think he wanted to explain it with animals (for example where the kittens come from) 😂

[@maisalloyd]

@@etprincipalis Kate Sheffield be like 👁👄👁

[@mzcyberbat]

This fact is so sad. Can you imagine the fear of the poor women on their wedding nights? Especially as many men in those days simply didn't care about their pleasure.

[@monicastephens3156]

Still happens. My friend was in an arrange marriage she was completely unaware

[@strawberriesandcandy]

“In those days...”

[@dimmiecandy2928]

Dude my cousins didn't even know what sex was when she got married

[@gerdina5168]

Hold up xD

[@allier1867]

probably even go as far as feeling disgust of the act.

[@davidjames4915]

I don't think Eloise ever actually got an answer, not that we saw, anyway.

[@severigne_m7652]

Well in the book, it was said that she and Franchesca would bribe one of the maids to tell them what happens during the wedding night I think some time after Daphne's wedding

[@MTCDiana]

pretty sure after what Daphne went through, she'll be the one to tell everything to her sisters

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

@@MTCDiana Daphne had a great experience, can't say the same for her sisters in the books...

[@jrlombardi5251]

​​@@thelegacyofgaming2928 how is it for her sisters in the book?? I know there's consent problems in Benedict's and Eloise's books but I don't know about the rest.

[@APerson-qv2rd]

​@@severigne_m7652😅

[@laysamont.4840]

daphne's "what ever you're talking about" is the cutest thing i've ever heard

[@rotsu2108]

0:19 replay button 😌

[@carolharris2401]

Clearly she has no clue either lol

[@pinkparis]

She wants to know so bad. Poor thing.

[@Needsmoreflash]

The pianist looks like she's wearing the most accurate Wendy Darling cosplay I've ever seen. I half expect Peter Pan to fly in through the window.

[@m3lodr4matic]

"The pianist" is called Daphne and she is the main character of the show lol

[@yonicorn1641]

@@m3lodr4matic not everyone watched the show lol

[@m3lodr4matic]

@@yonicorn1641 Well that's why I explained it ...

[@alwaystired727]

OMG that's what it reminded me of.. Now that's all I think about when I see her in this getup🤣

[@Rim1789]

omg the accuracy.

[@esssteeaa]

love the way Benedict is putting away his tea on 0:22 like "I don't need this, Eloise asking about babies is tea enough"

[@varduhi81]

Take our sticks out 🤦‍♀️ 🤦‍♀️ 😂

[@odysseyflyer4017]

I died at that line!

[@leahrose5401]

was waiting for this comment thanks 🤣😂

[@natalieschannel7675]

The actress who plays Eloise says her character is “a virgin who can’t drive”. In those days boys probably found out about sex really early and the girls had no clue until the wedding night.

[@natalieschannel7675]

@C S True

[@user-xn9vp3xe4x]

That was so sad and unfair

[@severigne_m7652]

I think during that time, mothers would tell their daughters what to expect and stuff the night before the wedding, like Violet did for Daphne. It's still quite sad though how clueless they can be, one of the scenes in the book is daphne pointing at Simon's semen and asking what it was

[@jazzinikki01]

That's just so sad.

[@daniels7907]

Basically, yes. Because of the intense sense of propriety (and desire to avoid bastards), the sons would likely be told about sex by their father or another male relative quite young. But the mother would be expected to explain to the girls, and it was quite common for them to be too uncomfortable to do so. As is the case here with Lady Violet.

[@joyajohnson2216]

I love the way she says “how does a lady come to be with CHILD?????” 🤣🤣

[@levorne3860]

it was this moment i fell in love with eloise

[@rossen8384]

Totally!!!!

[@flo5726]

The moment I fell in love with Eloise was DAPHNE!!!! YOU MUST MAKE HASTE!!!

[@levorne3860]

@@flo5726 that was pretty great too! :D

[@marialondonooo]

@@flo5726 same like I love the fact that they didn’t make the siblings hate each other, but they made them tease & be playful with each other

[@katesullivan4707]

I loved the real family energy of this scene. And that Violet is like totally entitled to be more frazzled than she is (especially because while we saw most of the staff, I never saw a nanny or governess....)

[@georgiebennett3336]

They did have a governess, well at least Hyacinth and Gregory. Hyacinth mentioned it in the movie, but she never had any appearance at all. But I think Violet is still pretty much a hands-on mother to them, and "the talk" is indeed a very rare topic among families, even today which made the family's relationship more relatable and realistic.

[@rossen8384]

@@georgiebennett3336 I love the mother in this. Btw, wasn't there another daughter in the very first episode that we never saw after that?

[@kathleenmckenzie6261]

@@rossen8384 Francesca reappeared in Episode 8. She's been away most of the season for piano lessons.

[@paulabridge4741]

@@rossen8384 The youngest daughter was talking about her in this scene.

[@rossen8384]

@@paulabridge4741 Ah yes.

[@laurenr1629]

Benedict: Do not look at me. 😂

[@єєм-л7э]

*COLIN BRIDGERTON!* cracks me up every damn time

[@emilyh7621]

This is the best scene in the whole show

[@davidbouncer3760]

"Apparently it's not even a requirement" She sounds so relieved 😂

[@Sun.Shine-]

One of those times book Colin came to life on screen! Usually Benedict has more witty moments, here he is the silent one 😊

[@MC-lily]

Ikr, Colin became so serious after his heartbreak with Marina, it's such a loss to see him this mature and melancholic like hes grown to his thirties already.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

I miss funny/carefree Colin

[@differnet]

Benedict.... "Do not even look at me...." LOL

[@bookl0ver]

What i never got is why they wouldn't tell them? A young lady being pregnant was basically a social death sentence for everyone involved, you'd think they'd tell them exactly how it happens so they could avoid it at all costs.

[@giovanalaurence]

People back then did tell their daughters about sex exacly bc of this

[@mateakalanj3988]

"do not look at me" is a one-shot kill

[@corydestein3160]

Violet was cast perfectly. You forget she’s not actually their real mother.

[@alicat7633]

Eloise, Colin, and Benedict are the best sibling trio.

[@___Artemis___]

As hilarious as this was, its kinda sad that a nearly "grown" woman (Eloise is 17 y'all) doesn't know how children are made, and she's meant to be "debuting" next season and potentially getting married or something. Like why tf did they want their daughter's so stupid. Don't they think it's better if they knew? So that way they wouldn't accidentally "compromise themselves" as they're all so afraid of the girls doing?

[@gabytenor1226]

This amazed me as well. They truly knew nothing. That's a big difference from kids in my 4th grade class talking about anything and everything lol

[@kyramacklin7141]

The common belief was that if girls knew, they would be as Mischievous as the men. So to prevent it they didn’t really give them the talk until the week of their wedding. This scenario is exaggerated because most women would find out prior to this anyway via book/farm/or friends

[@___Artemis___]

@Ashanty Ortega That's true. There's people who really go around thinking that girl's can't get pregnant the first time they have sex, or that pulling out is fool proof 🙄. Still better than people from before who thought that simply having physical contact with the opposite sex will get them knocked up 🙃

[@bobvancevancerefrigeration844]

This was actually true in history. Women in higher class (and even in some middle/lower class) had no idea until AFTER marriage because society wanted them to be “pure and innocent” while men were allowed to have sex and even r*pe with barely any consequences. And that is what we call the ✨patriarchy✨ which affects us to this day

[@carolharris2401]

You think Daphne who is older knows?

[@cynthechebaleli4141]

Colin and Benedict are hilarious😂😂😂

[@yaminoonna3218]

Eloise's awkwardness is the best thing about her character 😂❤

[@vasilikichr1919]

I have this entire scene memorised from begining to end.

[@DoanDiemTrang]

Hấp dẫn! 💪📢

[@klaragagarina510]

0:45 Eloise's face 😂 she noticed that something in Colin's words was the answer for her question

[@deangirl2286]

If Collin isn’t allowed to take her to a farm, he should get her a book

[@Funkyk2]

Those types of books would of been more scandalous then Lady whidtledown

[@odysseyflyer4017]

Did those books even exist back then?!?

[@ssansu]

@@odysseyflyer4017 Of course. Pornography is hardly a modern thing. You can find samples online.

[@helene4397]

Before book was given to unmarried girl, it had to go through the mother and her inspection of the book. Girls were not supposed to send or recieve letters if they didn't go through the mother first...

[@cassiegeorge141]

"Don't look at me" I love the Lukes

[@titaniacrawley3817]

The one dislike is the mother still disappointed in Colin

[@briannacripps3065]

I'll admit it, Benedict, Elosie, and Colin are my favorite trio of siblings. When these three do interviews together they're just as funny. It's almost as if they're siblings in real life as well, probably why it's so easy for them to bring that sibling chemistry to the screen.

[@GhostBones127]

the way she spun round so quickly with the cOLIN BRIDGERTON😂😂

[@janviikad1538]

I love how Eloise is genuinely confused @ 0:44...It's hilarious but sad at the same time...

[@namnam_23]

Then in Francesca's book we found out that Eloise and Franny bribed their maid to find the answer to this very famous question

[@playfulpanthress]

And just remember people, this may be a tv show, but there are people who want to go back to this!

[@НиколайРоманов-л6ю]

Well yes there is no harm in not knowing, but there is harm in hooking up after two seconds like in today's world. And no, people were not clueless about intimacy in that time, just read Queen Victoria's diary and what she wrote about Prince Albert

[@playfulpanthress]

@@НиколайРоманов-л6ю "No harm in not knowing"?? That may be one of the most ignorant things quoted on the Internet. How the 🤬 do you think there isn't harm in not knowing?? I live in the US. There is a vast difference in the areas that have comprehensive sex education and the areas that "teach" abstinence only. Guess which area has MORE pregnancies and STI's?? Hint: It isn't the areas that teach comprehensive sex education. How the 🤬 are you supposed to protect yourself from a thing if you have no understanding of it?? The ONLY reason to keep anyone, but especially women, in the dark about sex is control. That's it. We are going through this foolishness right now in my country. And I sincerely doubt you'd be okay with this crap if you were the one getting your rights stripped away and knowledge being forbidden to you. In this day and age of information, I find you to be disgustingly offensive in such backwards thinking. If you want to wallow in ignorance and stupidity, that's your mistake. But do not get it through your empty skull that such 🤬 isn't harmful to people. It is.

[@NanNo-vq8ql]

​@@НиколайРоманов-л6ю There's so much harm in not knowing

[@April_2007]

0:35 the smack 😂

[@townsongs]

the little "what" gesture at 0:48 is truly the winning shot

[@jerper7961]

I just LOVE that actress' voice

[@wendymarvell1653]

lol eloise's face when her mother yells at collin for the phrase "take our sticks out" she is so confused HAHAHAHAHHA, she's like "sticks?? what do sticks have to do with anything??"

[@Khushisharma-c7z]

Love the way eloise delivers her dialogues

[@hillyplays29]

Mama had a dirty mind when Collin said that!🤣

[@amandaljohnson]

That look at 0:23 PRICELESS

[@shanreroma]

this will forever be my favorite scene

[@nicolepas2474]

"take our sticks out" LMAOOOOOO

[@marialondonooo]

The fact that it’s 1813 and the siblings behave like they do now, they’re not even like formal or anything, 🤣🤣🤣 Also Eloise is an ✨ICON✨ she’s literally my spirit animal ngl

[@aqsaazam3785]

So true,man. The universality and the timelessness of siblinghood is immaculate

[@snapthat6384]

“Have you ever visited a farm?” SMACK! 😂

[@aishalady3867]

" Eloise: I think that the two of you know. Colin: Have you ever visited a farm?" 😂😂😂

[@dewd9327]

the last line killed me. "miss? humboldt is coming". LMFAO

[@IndyIsabelle]

“To take our sticks out” 😭😭😭

[@bananas.in.pyjamas]

They were heading to take their sticks out😂 Gold.

[@Ghargr18]

I love Colin and Benedict

[@stephwiller9089]

And that like 5 seconds was the closest we got to book Colin. I miss the shit disturbing Colin from the books, he was hilarious and 90% of the entertainment.

[@odysseyflyer4017]

We were just heading off to take out sticks out. 😂😂 Such an iconic line

[@missm8067]

“Have you ever visited a farm?” 😂😂😂

[@sophiefrankis9476]

You' think they'd give ladies 'the talk' seeing as they were supposed to get married a bare heirs. But I suppose it was improper.

[@allshookup1640]

Unfortunately women back then were often left completely in the dark on such topics until their wedding nights. Some believed that educating women on this was indeed improper and others felt that it would soil their innocence and purity. It was also just deemed unnecessary. Women weren’t supposed to be having sex unless they were married and having children so they didn’t NEED to know. Of course that is incredibly ignorant and I’m sure led to many scandalous affairs that were not properly documented. Of course this ignorance usually only remained for upper class and sheltered women. Poor and lower class women were often exposed to the “sins of the world” long before they probably should have been unfortunately at this time.

[@noomre9105]

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[@drunkfannyprice3278]

Love the chaos that is this family 😂

[@daniels7907]

While we would have all certainly liked to see Benedict and Colin "take their sticks out", I think that it would have required moving the show from Netflix to HBO.

[@evaleone7992]

Actuallllllyyyyy idk if you've ever seen shameless but.....

[@tjsho9606]

@@evaleone7992 Or Sex Life... Or Sex Education...

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

This scene with Colin's dialogue at the end 😂

[@JCScowling39]

Colin and Benedict...lol. I love them :-)

[@bpo4736]

You know the mom is mad when they say your first and last name (or full name xD). COLLIN BRIDGERTON!!!!!!

[@aronspidle138]

Yup. When mine said my first, middle and last names, my response was usually, "Ohhhhh crap."

[@ioanairimies4378]

To me this is the most hilarious scene from Bridgerton S1😂😂😂

[@myheart715]

The mother takes a L for this. Later on, Daphne was so angry (and rightfully so) with her mother for not preparing her for the realities of marriage and basic reproductive health

[@rugbytimothy1315]

The funniest part of these besides the brothers teasing her is how she goes from being very animated, then gets scolded and then does a defeated stroll to the couch.

[@AvaxPompea]

0:33 it was this moment I knew, Colin is my favorite character 😂

[@meredithludlow8103]

Eloise, my dear, don't ever change 🥰

[@denise9542]

I have watched this clip to many times its gold

[@Ck-ce5xh]

i grew up in a very conservative catholic home, so i was rather clueless about sex until i googled at around 17/18. If i didnt have access to the internet my parents and my catholic school would have kept me in the dark

[@ajvanmarle]

To be honest, I think that practice should be illegal. To leave children that ignorant is nothing short of criminal.

[@ripflapjack8419]

i am confused, didn't they teach you science at school?

[@ajvanmarle]

@@ripflapjack8419 Depends on where you live. In the USA, a lot of schools avoid any mention of the reproductive system.

[@ripflapjack8419]

@@ajvanmarle i know, i live in a religious islamic country and we dont have the "sex education" class as well. But they teach us "where babies come from", menstruation etc. in middle school during the science classes so i was like "they teach us even in my country how others don't?" when i saw this comment lol

[@ajvanmarle]

@@ripflapjack8419 Part of the problem is that in the USA it's gotten mixed up with the whole contraception debate. Now the more conservative schools are against any form of sex-ed, because they want to preach abstinence-only.

[@jolijnattema1638]

I love Colin. He is soo cute

[@thekid8832]

The answer to this question could have avoided a lot of trouble to Daphne

[@13realmusic]

This whole sequence of events surprised me in a sad way. I’ve read other types of regency-Victorian age books and the girls in them were never _that_ clueless. I’m not that deep into the history of society and sex ed but these girls know how to read and even with all “unwholesome” books out of reach the Bible is quite explicit about sex in certain chapters. And in general just girls talk and/over hear things. The only way this makes sense to me is if none of these “proper” ladies/girls ever got a chance to befriend more “common” girls who generally being more active in their household and exposed to other males outside their homes would know and talk about it. Terrifying as the the thought of unprotected unmarried sex in the 1800s is people were still doing it.

[@melonpan8892]

I'm seriously excited for Eloise's story

[@TheRobinRedbreast]

I love this scene.

[@ATWTMVTVFTVSGAVRALPS]

"take our sticks out" 😂

[@VidWatcher01]

"COLIN BRIDGERTON!!!" 🤣🤣🤣

[@user-ti9th3xj2k]

This is the funniest scene in this show

[@KawaiiStars]

lower class girls usually knew especially those with animals in the family but sometimes upper class mothers were too shy or strict to say it

[@biancamariavalenti8050]

Eloise is hands down THE best character after Daphne & Simon… 4th place Lady Danbury cause she’s hilarious 😂 Anyways Eloise’s funny 😂 Love how she’s all indignant and offended like “why didn’t anybody tell me… seriously it’s ALL a lie… marriage is a COMPLETE sham”

[@bluesky1807]

Although this is highly entertaining thank God we've moved on and girls and their family's honour is not tied to being clueless about sex, being a vrigin and never being with a man un chaperoned!

[@madisoncorman4764]

this is by far the BEST scene in the entire series

[@nhile7445]

I just LOVE this scene 0:35

[@cathytuttle5537]

as funny as this scene is, it is very sad also.. girls that old and getting ready to marry do not know where babies come from..

[@VidWatcher01]

I know right! Things we knew by the ages of 11 and 12 and if your parents are really prudish 13 or 14 is girls had no idea about and they were full grown

[@lunatiger]

This is hilarious but also sad that Violet didn’t prepare her daughters about the marriage bed. She failed at that as a mother. Daphne could’ve had less heartache if she knew what the Duke was doing.

[@garlantyrell6368]

Well if you think about it’s not really Violet’s fault either. She was probably raised like that too since back then women knew nothing about marriage consummation. The only way you learn is if you are lucky enough to have a very loving governess or a mother who isn’t too afraid and awkward to tell you.

[@misspriss2482]

@@garlantyrell6368 Yep. My mother didn't know and neither did my grandmother until after the fact. Imagine being raised so strictly that you don't know the basics.

[@srrealism1530]

I find it hard to believe women were THAT sheltered and clueless back in the day, it would be hard to go an entire life not catching even animals in nature doing the deed.

[@yumikohamabe3385]

Colin and Benedict are my favs

[@n.y.174]

It's a funny scene until you realize that Daphne is just as ignorant as Eloise and also had no idea you could get pregnant without being married. This is some great foreshadowing for what she goes through. It's also a good way to show how their mothers are failing them by actively ensuring that ignorance.

[@parinikasharma317]

Eloise has a beautiful voice

[@hillyplays29]

I watched the entire first season. Loved it!

[@relaxingsleepstudyaudio7378]

They way she nods her head 😂

[@lifewithjown]

One of my fave scenes! Hahahha

[@jacquelineplaatjies9052]

I keep coming back for more.

[@angelgrace8037]

"Not at all Mother"

[@Pinktrest]

This is where I fell in love w Benedict 😂

[@feithful]

I love this scene 😭😂😂

[@ZOECRAIG-rr1cp]

Like I know this is how it used to work but it’s like they are surprised when girls have done it wrong/ don’t know after there married and I like what did you expect !