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@LegalAlien100
@LegalAlien100 3 жыл бұрын
When I was being intensely bullied in my school I would have loved for a teacher to threaten me with being sent home. I would have said, “Oh, yes please!”. The irony.
@duggydugg3937
@duggydugg3937 3 жыл бұрын
sorry you got screwed over
@xixxxxix5084
@xixxxxix5084 3 жыл бұрын
You had a better home life then
@Gingerbreadllama
@Gingerbreadllama 2 жыл бұрын
That’s what gets me! My kid loves home. Even if he can’t play video games when he gets home, why threaten him with his safe place?
@LINDA-oi4mt
@LINDA-oi4mt 2 жыл бұрын
So many behaviors demonstrated by "bad kids" are escape mechanisms. The reasons for their need to escape is very complex. He could have some sensory issues interfering with his daily success within his environments.
@RobinSmith-o9r
@RobinSmith-o9r 10 ай бұрын
I was badly bullied at school but my parents said I must have done something to deserve it so l had no support at home or at school.
@Escherlife
@Escherlife 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a teacher for 30 years and the education department has taken the power to enforce rules and discipline away from the staff. This is the result. Sometimes giving kids too many choices is confusing and detrimental to their sense of safety and security. When will the powers that be wake up and see this?
@gillianbrookwell1678
@gillianbrookwell1678 3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@yvettemoore1228
@yvettemoore1228 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve only just started the programme but I’d like to know how many of the children have been statemented.
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Gee Escherlife, the education department has also taken the power to enforce rules away from the parents, too. The parents of these kids should all be called, and collected. No one should have to put up with kids like these, except for the parents of these kids. Sorry Pastoral hires. You’re fired!
@daisyhoney3088
@daisyhoney3088 3 жыл бұрын
The powers that be already see it and this is what they want. They are evil and if they can teach children evil ways by desensitized them by playing all those evil killing games and parents use them as baby sitters because they have no power to raise thier children right we are all doomed. I tell you the devil wants our babies because they are the next generation
@daisyhoney3088
@daisyhoney3088 3 жыл бұрын
We are screwed unless the parents break the government from around thier neck and quit acting like the herd - cattle mentality the our government thinks we have.
@reubenmygdal8872
@reubenmygdal8872 3 жыл бұрын
The kids are getting so much attention from their bad behaviour. It’s being rewarded.
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. All these powerless adults bowing to their criminal attitude
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. They can spot a victim a mile away.
@jaycekoda6056
@jaycekoda6056 3 жыл бұрын
i realize I am kind of off topic but does anybody know a good website to stream new movies online ?
@wadeace2350
@wadeace2350 3 жыл бұрын
@Jayce Koda I use flixzone. Just search on google for it =)
@FrozenAlaska777
@FrozenAlaska777 3 жыл бұрын
True Reuben! Any type of attention is better than no attention.
@jessicaellina3878
@jessicaellina3878 3 жыл бұрын
5 minutes in... phone Levi,s parents and get them to collect him... 3 adults pandering to this boy and wasting everybody,s time is just unbelievable.
@pheart2381
@pheart2381 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! Its disgusting.
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea.
@mindareinetels6047
@mindareinetels6047 2 жыл бұрын
I agree Jessica💯💯💯💯💯😡
@Judias24
@Judias24 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea, no offense intended. There’s likely either emotional, physical and/or sexual abuse he’s suffered and these educators have no clue!
@m1421
@m1421 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing that a slipper across the backside wouldn't have sorted in my day.
@eyestotheskies
@eyestotheskies 3 жыл бұрын
My best friend is a teacher in a school that has several kids like this and most of the time they're acting out because of stress, whether at home or elsewhere. That or some form of learning difficulty. She is unbelievably gifted with disruptive kids and I honestly salute any teacher who encourages progress from them in a kind and professional way. It's no mean feat.
@edie4321
@edie4321 2 жыл бұрын
Not really so. There are brain differences and many are injured by the many, many shots required to enter school. I know, I lived it. They were diagnosed bipolar among other things but I found out that this was done to avoid saying what I just said and you'll see if my comment doesn't get taken down. It's always been easier for the schools,hospitals, etc. to blame the families for what they do not know about as it's hidden from them too.
@river8760
@river8760 2 жыл бұрын
Great comment Nicola. Totally agree.
@GypsyGirl317
@GypsyGirl317 2 жыл бұрын
Nicola Wharry I agree with you. I have been working with young children for 58 years now, and I am currently working in early childhood education. You are spot on.
@GypsyGirl317
@GypsyGirl317 2 жыл бұрын
@@edie4321 I agree with you regarding the neurological impact of all the toxic vacs. The OP does allude to diverse physiciological problems as well as parental challenges. 💖 Many parents do struggle to create appropriate healthy boundaries and structure for their children, out of their own fears and anxieties. 😔
@celtickitty6547
@celtickitty6547 2 жыл бұрын
@@edie4321 & GypsyGirl317: Utter bs about blaming vaccines for an aggressive child, stop spreading false & fake reasons for this. While some kids are born with a disorder, most of these kids are like this due to things like their parent drinking or doing drugs while pregnant, abuse & someitmes a lack of attachment because the parents haven't bonded with their child (for whatever reason, no blame, just an explanation). Billions of people have been vaccinated over the last 200 years & are just fine.
@mariekatherine5238
@mariekatherine5238 3 жыл бұрын
What’s wrong with the adults that one child is permitted to monopolize the entire staff and faculty and bring the other children’s education to a halt? If a child has this much power, why wouldn’t he exercise it? The sisters in my childhood boarding school would NEVER have permitted such a thing.
@gillianbrookwell1678
@gillianbrookwell1678 3 жыл бұрын
I started school in the 1950's and we wouldn't have dared walk out of a classroom or argued with a teacher, we were too scared of being punished. The teachers were in charge.
@flossymelton7658
@flossymelton7658 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly my thoughts. Is this attention not rewarding his behavior. Note: it appears to me that there are 2 women working with this first boy.
@sandyherron4391
@sandyherron4391 2 жыл бұрын
Happens all the time. I stopped asking myself that question about 5 years ago.
@kentteamparanormal6023
@kentteamparanormal6023 2 жыл бұрын
Needs a clout round the bloody ear !
@helenhoward5346
@helenhoward5346 2 жыл бұрын
Well if they're not getting support from the home environment, there's only so much the school can do about it if the child had a subpar upbringing combined with ineffective parenting or abuse/neglect at home. Yeah I worry about my kids being exposed to others' behavioral issues. It stresses them out, confuses them and then it rubs off on them.
@andih6658
@andih6658 3 жыл бұрын
Am so relieved they have the extra staff to deal with Levi. I remember a few disruptive kids at my school. And as a slow learner it was incredibly detrimental to my own learning. When I was in primary school a good few years ago. The disiplined kids went unnoticed the bad children took up all the true learning time.
@sarahharrison8186
@sarahharrison8186 3 жыл бұрын
Relieved? This is so pathetic! That silly room for kids who disrupt!? Never ever had this years ago and I’m only 18 and I can see how this had changed just since I was in primary school! I think this is really pathetic and very unnecessary. It’s the parents who need to take the responsibility for their kids instead of having extra staff. What a waste of their time and efforts when their parents could just bring them up properly
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahharrison8186 totally agree. They like violence? Let's give some to them
@lindaandrews2351
@lindaandrews2351 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahharrison8186 you show your age and inexperience. In life by your statement . Have children , experience life first before. Comment .
@lesleydevlin3656
@lesleydevlin3656 2 жыл бұрын
Really our Scottish schools have been made to take in kids from other countries not by choice yet our Scottish kids are led to struggle
@thomasnewton8997
@thomasnewton8997 2 жыл бұрын
I bet the person who you refer to as a slow learner had a learning disability
@susansage1876
@susansage1876 3 жыл бұрын
Parents: it's up to you to raise your children, not the teacher. If you don't have time to raise a respectful, responsible child, don't have them.
@kandkcollins1
@kandkcollins1 3 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely up to parents to raise their own children, and not teachers, I don’t think anyone would disagree with your statement. However, it’s also the law and the right for every child to be educated and to attend school. Not every child is born into a perfect family that doesn’t have any problems in it or have parents that are dealing with mental issues or have teaching and social skills, AND, I’m sure you know that it’s been against the law now, for many years, to force barbaric practices of sterilization on ANYONE. Society cannot dictate who can or cannot create a new life. If a child is born with learning problems, mental illness and behaviour problems or born to parents with these issues, it’s not as easy to teach them how to ,be respectful and responsible, as you’ve stated. We also don’t know what a child is dealing with or what health issues they may have at birth until they are older. So, please try to understand that, WITHOUT judging the parents or the children. After all, positivity, kindness and support goes much further than judgemental negativity, cold hearted hate, ignorance and downright nastiness. Have a blessed day! ❤️
@gagiman7273
@gagiman7273 2 жыл бұрын
@@kandkcollins1 home school
@Gingerbreadllama
@Gingerbreadllama 2 жыл бұрын
Because it’s so easy to control a small human being with their own thoughts and feelings when you’re not near them? And because kids don’t realize they can get away with something in one environment, but not in another?Do you know what it’s like to raise a disabled child? Or one with mental illness or cognitive disorders? This whole “just don’t have kids if you can’t handle the worst case scenario perfectly” attitude is utter bull. Until you’ve truly walked a mile in a working parent or a parent with a neurodivergent kids shoes, keep your thoughts on parenting to yourself. Sounds like elitism at best and eugenics at worst.
@shellos8
@shellos8 2 жыл бұрын
If only it were that simple. Telling someone not to have anymore children is not effective, is it? So stop saying such stupid things!
@SB-ez3dw
@SB-ez3dw 2 жыл бұрын
Susan presents the Conservative argument: Control your children when you’re not there. She’s probably against abortion, birth control, and social programs to help parents/children. Thanks, Susan, that’s completely useless.
@ponyguy99
@ponyguy99 2 жыл бұрын
“Levi……Make good choices”…He’s told over and over again, day after day, and continues the same willful behavior while putting teachers and students at risk. Enough is enough. Get him into a special school, psychological help, and whatever else it takes. It’s obvious as much as the his current school is trying to help with him, it’s not working.
@fionav3840
@fionav3840 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree with you 100%. And this is coming from somebody who has worked in school districts with emotionally handicapped children for over 35 years. It is not fair for the other students to have to put up with his disruptive behavior continuously. The coddling of students like this is not helpful at all ! It absolutely is possible to teach children like this behavior modification, they can learn their behavior has consequences. It is never a good idea to reward bad behavior.
@bluebird3042
@bluebird3042 2 жыл бұрын
Agree.
@rayaofwakefield
@rayaofwakefield 2 жыл бұрын
Have you seen the end of the documentary? The program did change him. He just needed a chance.
@bernadineseidel7078
@bernadineseidel7078 2 жыл бұрын
When I was a child behavior like Levi's would have gotten me a sore behind. If there was trouble in school.. there would have been the same at home.
@marycanary86
@marycanary86 2 жыл бұрын
@@motiseer lol how do you think prisons are funded? with return bottles?
@danielakresic4745
@danielakresic4745 2 жыл бұрын
I'm also a teacher and all I can say that the children have become so protected that they can do whatever they want to and they know it. They can even hit you and you can't do anything. The only bright side is that they are not my own.
@daphne10120
@daphne10120 3 жыл бұрын
Mental health issues, issues at home, and trauma all cause children to act out like this. It’s very important to get to the root of the problem. Without doing so, the behavior likely will escalate as the child ages. I knew several children growing up who behaved like this, and it was because of severe trauma/neglect or abuse and was likely exasperated by other mental health issues and being improperly medicated. The school never tried to get to the root of the problem and the parents (if present) did not care to either. Now these boys are largely in jail. One recently opened fire on police officers in a church parking lot.
@ifitbringsyoujoy3045
@ifitbringsyoujoy3045 3 жыл бұрын
The thing is this: How can schools be expected to get to the root of the problem? That's not fair. If we (teachers) had that much control to fix the endless trauma, there would be no issues. I am not that important or powerful.
@denisecarpenter2981
@denisecarpenter2981 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. You have clearly hit the nail on the head. "Get to the ROOT of the problem" Thank you!
@ritadonnelly8820
@ritadonnelly8820 2 жыл бұрын
I agree totally
@sandyherron4391
@sandyherron4391 2 жыл бұрын
You are correct. But in the meantime millions of children are not getting a quality education in a safe environment. And in the US it is always the teacher’s fault. It’s very difficult to teach educational content and help all the children learn content with one or two of these students who constantly disrupts.
@jennysmith8835
@jennysmith8835 2 жыл бұрын
@@denisecarpenter2981 being the parents,
@DemonWoman75
@DemonWoman75 3 жыл бұрын
Levi does what he likes because he knows he can I bet he does the same at home, i am absolutely shocked at this I have a severely autistic adult son he's never acted this way
@sharonw2008
@sharonw2008 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter is autistic too but grew up with boundaries and the word NO whether she liked it or not. Even kids or especially kids with ASD/ADHD etc need boundaries and routine in place. No point in making rules if you turn a blind eye to them every now and then, they have to be black and white, yes is yes and no means no.
@ElsieT420
@ElsieT420 2 жыл бұрын
Sadly not all parents were given the right tools. They cannot teach what they don't know. This nurture project looks fantastic!! Why won't the government help the youth more? They are future adults. Some have no empathy, some have anger and or more. If parents cannot teach that then sadly its left to schools to deal with. I was impressed by the outcome and insight. Thank you.
@LisouFlower
@LisouFlower 2 жыл бұрын
@@ElsieT420 no one has the tools to care for children unless they actively seek child caring education. There is a ton of resources but a lot of parents would rather not try and would rather blame and leave it up to others....like the government.
@LINDA-oi4mt
@LINDA-oi4mt 2 жыл бұрын
How old is your son?
@lizolson282
@lizolson282 2 жыл бұрын
@@LisouFlower you're wrong! Many parents do try and still aren't able to make the difference the children need. It takes a village to raise a child. A village of caring, nurturing and loving adults.
@MAZ732
@MAZ732 2 жыл бұрын
The name Levi tells me all I need to know. Why it’s the responsibility of the school/teachers is beyond me. This is a generalisation of unstable kids raised by parents or should I say, one parent who’s probably a kid herself.
@ricksardella3436
@ricksardella3436 10 ай бұрын
He has never been spanked lol
@daisysummer514
@daisysummer514 Ай бұрын
You’re not judging enough, try harder,
@lizzynunez4906
@lizzynunez4906 2 жыл бұрын
Levy should have been expelled from school and should have been sent home right away. It's not up to the teachers to have to teach him to behave, that needs to be done at home and with professional assistance for the parents and Levy.
@olivialaylaxox
@olivialaylaxox 2 жыл бұрын
its levi
@lynseyw1061
@lynseyw1061 3 жыл бұрын
There's not 1 but 3 distruptive kids in my daughter's class and it's a joke. They get rewarded all the time and it clearly doesn't work because they are still naughty. They were pulling my daughter out because one of the distruptive girls 'chose' her to go and do activities with as a reward. I was NOT happy. These challenging children need a school of their own.
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry u have the deal with that it's ridiculous I hope things become easier for u and your daughter.
@lynseyw1061
@lynseyw1061 2 жыл бұрын
@@adjjal only one left in her class now as the others have been moved to another school.
@gagiman7273
@gagiman7273 2 жыл бұрын
Should really have the power to refuse to teach them not fair on the other kids
@gagiman7273
@gagiman7273 2 жыл бұрын
So glad we home schooling
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 жыл бұрын
@@lynseyw1061 at least theres that, happy things are a bit easier now
@Steph-yz4tn
@Steph-yz4tn 3 жыл бұрын
To help any child with discipline problems, you need to find the root cause. Every child is different. Lack of parenting, low self worth, bullied, abuse, mental disorder, etc. Find the root cause, then try to support them based on their needs.
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Steph, these children are beyond discipline problems. They have severe emotional and behavioral issues that the parents should be dealing with, but the educational system has taken over the parenting responsibilities, because society is afraid to do what is necessary: kick them out of public school. Parents you had your kids, and so deal with them. Do not expect society to put up with your crappy kids.
@frogperson883
@frogperson883 3 жыл бұрын
@@shawnaweesner3759 Crappy kids will eventually grow into adults, in case you forgot. If the root issue isn't sorted out somehow, this will get much worse. Parents aren't therapists. Kids are the next generation, if we want decent people we have to make sure that our kids are well cared for and that ALL of their needs are met.
@kasey7338
@kasey7338 3 жыл бұрын
@@shawnaweesner3759 If a child is having serious behavioural problems which persists despite of usual disciplinary methods, there is a medial reason for it. Neither parents or teachers are not trained to diagnose these conditions and the medical system is set up to ensure diagnosis are difficult and time consuming. For example, in Canada, the current wait list for diagnosis of ASD is 1-2 years, which means the child is already in the school system before they have any therapeutic treatment. Aside from delays in diagnosis, there are limitations in parental knowledge, access to treatment, poverty, and a number of other social issues which compound the problem. So your idea of "it's up to parents" and "remove the problem from the classroom" not only will fail to address the issue but further create social problems as these under educated children with behavioural porblems become under educated adults with behavioural problems and their own children.
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
@@frogperson883 no, what needs, the need to disrupt the others' lives? They have a right to be beaten into civilization, like in the olden days, when discipline wasn't words
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 жыл бұрын
@@frogperson883 some kids needs are impossible to meet. What happens then? The kids who are able to have their needs met get resources and time taken away given to violent kids. Im not talking about kids who just need some extra help and attention to understand a topic. They deserve attention. But its the violent kids who usually end up getting all the attention and that isn't healthy and doesn't set good examples to all the other kids. If a kid is violent and won't stop, they shouldn't be allowed into a normal classroom.
@jojocanon2803
@jojocanon2803 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately...Levi is probably on his way to prison...and his parents are to blame for that.
@Melly16yr10
@Melly16yr10 3 жыл бұрын
How can you be so sure?
@Buster_Piles
@Buster_Piles 2 жыл бұрын
He'll be better behaved after he gets bully-rammed in the showers. Truth.
@Ace01234k
@Ace01234k 2 жыл бұрын
He’s not bad just a little bully hope his parents see my comment
@AAPPUK
@AAPPUK 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ace01234k 👏👏👏 that's the applause for you that you don't deserve for nobody patting you on the back or caring what you have to say and thinking you're brave by saying you hope his parents see you calling a child a bully in a secondary reply to comments feed. Has your ego been stroked enough by posting your irrelevant comment?
@deidraleonard8381
@deidraleonard8381 2 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of seeing our educators having to be the parents and being abused by these little monsters. It's rediculous.
@voodle50
@voodle50 2 жыл бұрын
As an educator is nice to hear someone acknowledge our struggle.
@ophelia3401
@ophelia3401 2 жыл бұрын
Kids go to school to learn a lot of things. It's not all math and science. These schools have teachers to help teach coping skills and self regulation which are vital skills for live long learning.
@rr8960
@rr8960 2 жыл бұрын
They’re not monsters!! That’s a horrible thing to say about a child.
@Ace01234k
@Ace01234k 2 жыл бұрын
@@ophelia3401 schools a joke
@lizolson282
@lizolson282 2 жыл бұрын
@@ophelia3401 thank you. My daughter was a teacher and she learned about the needs of children and used these skills to help them. Most parents work for a living in jobs not related to education so they don't know as much about teaching children as the well educated teacher. I'm thankful for the teachers who worked with my children.
@eyestotheskies
@eyestotheskies 3 жыл бұрын
Trinas self awareness on her parenting style is probably more important than she'll realise. I'm glad she was able to be so honest on camera and make changes.
@adc2327
@adc2327 2 жыл бұрын
I am old. We had no kids, zero that acted like this when I was in elementary school. No quiet rooms. You know you would be in trouble at home if your parents found out about bad behavior. What changed? Parents! Now the parents may show the same behavior towards teachers.
@reneecook2972
@reneecook2972 2 жыл бұрын
I agree. When growing up if we were in trouble at school we were going to be in trouble at home. Period.
@keepingitreal618
@keepingitreal618 2 жыл бұрын
Thank god I never had to mix with children like this not one through junior and senior school. Would not have been tolerated.
@heidilecompte4198
@heidilecompte4198 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I never once in all my years of school ever had any student act up like this. Not once. For one thing, it wouldn’t have been tolerated but it never happened anyway. We always had men such as principals, vice principals, teachers, etc. also. I think very helpful.
@sadiefrench383
@sadiefrench383 2 жыл бұрын
This is how my kids were taught too. I never hit them I only had to look
@commonsense571
@commonsense571 3 жыл бұрын
Never in my life did I have the ”choice” to decide to go to class..🤔
@Vixyvix01
@Vixyvix01 3 жыл бұрын
I was given the choice in highschool by the school, it was supposed to be their response to me being bullied. They gave me a card and if the people who were bullying me were in that particular class I could use the card to go to the SEN room and do my work there, it just isolated me and gave more power to the bullies do it didn't work.
@hungrylittlebean
@hungrylittlebean 2 жыл бұрын
Yea, exactly. No true discipline anymore. I can't believe how these teachers and staff coddle the disruptive little bullies.
@raquellucas2202
@raquellucas2202 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching this for 5 minutes, and I’m betting Levi does this at home and it works. School is where we learn how to function in society, learn to follow rules and consequences. If they don’t respect authority at these young ages, where do you think they will be as young adults? Prison? Jail? Not productive members.
@allim.830
@allim.830 2 жыл бұрын
Not always…
@allim.830
@allim.830 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes children act out when they feel unable to do the work
@lucyhogarth3988
@lucyhogarth3988 2 жыл бұрын
@@allim.830 I was this child! Turns out I had undiagnosed dyslexia. But once that was sorted out I was super productive! Just graduated university! So us "bad" kids don't always stay bad forever lol
@gabby20
@gabby20 Жыл бұрын
@@lucyhogarth3988 Theres no such thing as a bad kid. Just misunderstood. I'm glad you graduated university. Best of Luck for future
@temme6545
@temme6545 2 жыл бұрын
Levi definitely makes the rules and everyone is just in his world. Ridiculous that kids are the ones that have the upper hand and last word! God help us in 10 years - if we last that long with this compliance
@maggiesmom213
@maggiesmom213 2 жыл бұрын
Why is it that when I went to school (1949 through 1961) Nobody in any of my classes ever acted like that? Has something new been added to the drinking water lately to make kids go crazy?
@daidrivejil4950
@daidrivejil4950 3 жыл бұрын
What a bloody nightmare. God bless those teachers and parents
@burglar42
@burglar42 2 жыл бұрын
The lack of parenting skills are most of the reasons these kids are like this.
@teresapolkinghorne9056
@teresapolkinghorne9056 3 жыл бұрын
To soft on kids of today all these teachers being used for one child its ridiculous.
@llemon9341
@llemon9341 2 жыл бұрын
I’d be so interested in how many of these children have unidentified language or learning difficulties - this can have a huge impact on conduct and engagement in the classroom. It’s heartbreaking.
@allim.830
@allim.830 2 жыл бұрын
Almost all
@Rat_Queen86
@Rat_Queen86 11 ай бұрын
Or….maybe they have issues at home and are responding appropriately? Not everything is a pathology
@davinawherry4687
@davinawherry4687 2 жыл бұрын
I have a daughter whom was just like Levisham,keeping him in school won't work what worked for my daughter had a private tutor everyday and instead of schooling at home I made the decision that my child would do her schooling at the library this worked very well and was a good choice for my child,she has extreme mental health and couldn't deal with crowds of people
@katierhodes3346
@katierhodes3346 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like what they are doing is great! The children are showing lots of progress and even feeling better about themselves and happy to do their schoolwork. These teachers and all working with the kids are phenomenal! I hope they can continue to find their funding. Children aren’t just bad there is something behind their actions. They deserve help and love ❤️
@jobee9545
@jobee9545 2 жыл бұрын
Giving children choices instead of instructions when they behave like this …. Wow.
@lindamac3846
@lindamac3846 2 жыл бұрын
I've worked in special education for almost 30 years. I must say the way they handle this boy is so very different from what I've been taught to do. It seems he just needs to vent, ask him why, what, when, where, how. This information can be vital to understanding his behavior. BUT, please don't get me wrong, I fully admire the time and effort these people put into their work. I guess there are more ways to handle this than what I've seen. Kudos to all of you.
@GypsyGirl317
@GypsyGirl317 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. When children feel unconditional acceptance and are truly listened to, it makes a huge difference in their lives and their behaviour. 💖
@julesbransford4132
@julesbransford4132 3 жыл бұрын
These kids are obviously never disciplined at home and have no respect for anyone. And the teachers are supposed to pick up the pieces. Send them home to Mum and Dad or whoever has let them be so disrespectful to all.
@kathalloran5828
@kathalloran5828 2 жыл бұрын
We don't really know what's going on. For many that may be the case but sometimes there are many factors going on - including undiagnosed developmental disorders or mental health issues.
@mrwill7834
@mrwill7834 3 жыл бұрын
A school isn't all about academics? says one very frustrated mother. Teach the little disruptive darling to behave in the home and NOT disrupt the other 30 children in class. For example, little Levi needs parental control and disciplined rules he's obviously not getting from a home environment. Little darling Levi has a two minute choice of what he wants to do. Little darling Levi needs some parental control.
@ArtWorkOfDR
@ArtWorkOfDR 3 жыл бұрын
U don't know they don't should the home side of things u don't know if the mom is struggling at home
@burglar42
@burglar42 2 жыл бұрын
Levis problems start at home...obviously, domestic violence, abuse, is in his home. His parents are the reason.
@mael2039
@mael2039 3 жыл бұрын
when I was 16 I babysat a seven year old who would draw tiny stick figures all day long, and he always drew them killing other stick figures, hurting them, or literally pissing and pooping on other stick figures. He was not a bad kid. He had many dark things happening in his life that he could do nothing about, that he couldn't even comprehend. He acted out, and he acted violently. He had tons of problems at school, and with other kids. Their home was a landfill of harbage. I loved that kid. I truly did, and I understood that there were so many circumstances in his life that caused his behaviour. However, all the other kids should not be impacted in their education. It's despicable that nurture groups are considered a luxury. They should be funded by the government. They should be funded by the bloody total family who are sitting on more money than they could ever spend even if they tried their very best every day. It's not a coincidence that many of the children affected are also children from poor families.
@adjjal
@adjjal 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything u have said.
@bojangle0029
@bojangle0029 3 жыл бұрын
I was always quiet in school, too quiet.Teachers reports always included "quiet and hardworking", I would feel the biggest amount of embarrassment doing anything like Levi would.I think at an early age I learned some of my behaviour from my parents .There just as anxious,quiet and not wanting to do anything to burden others.
@TASIAawful1
@TASIAawful1 2 жыл бұрын
Empathy and introverted behaviour I was the same as you
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
That’s such a brilliant point at the other end of the scale. (The not noticed)
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
I was and my children except one are all on the “noticed” scale.
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
And the one that was not noticed suffered just as much.
@jamiestanley9234
@jamiestanley9234 Жыл бұрын
Very much agree. Also, those kids are seen as “good kids” cause they’re told to sit down and shut up and they do out of fear I’m sure. Too much in one direction is never good.
@gillianbrookwell1678
@gillianbrookwell1678 3 жыл бұрын
I started school in 1954, and hated it but after a while I knew I had to be there whether I liked it or not; There was no arguing and tantrum throwing. We didn't have a choice, we knew we were there to learn with this rule being drummed into us.
@cisrot
@cisrot 3 жыл бұрын
From what I experienced when I was in primary school and secondary school, a lot of the children that behaved poorly at school typically had something going on at home. Some of my friends in school would be cheeky / naughty in school, but when you’d sit down and talk to them they would often talk about how sad they were at home for whatever reason, be it abuse, loss of family members (death, divorce, etc) and undiagnosed conditions like autism and ADD. I know that some of my friends from primary school got a diagnosis of ADHD or dyslexia as they got older. A lot of anger from children stems from genuine frustration. I’m autistic and have major anxiety and I know that sometimes when I would get in trouble at school it was because of overstimulation / not understanding that what I was saying or doing was overstepping a boundary. I didn’t get in trouble very much though haha, typically just occasionally forgetting homework, not realising how loud I was talking and accidentally hurting someone’s feelings. There are, however, some students who have learned that being a bully gets their way. It’s always frustrating and heartbreaking. Thankfully though, at least in my year group, most of the people who had some behavioural issues grew out of them once they realised that their behaviour wasn’t nice and that they would enjoy their time at school if they communicated better. I’m forever thankful of how my parents raised me in this regard. I never had after school detention, I never had to go into in school isolation, etc.
@maggiesmom213
@maggiesmom213 2 жыл бұрын
"overstimulation" you wrote. I believe that you truly have something there. Todays children certainly do have far more of that than yesterdays' children had. Being sad, loss of family members, and alcoholism was common then also; but those things did not bring about the disruptive behavior that we are seeing in todays' children.
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
There was disruptive behaviour then…just not as recorded. Because those kids, like me were either beaten or made to feel “stupid” and stand in a corner or removed from mainstream school like was. And I had a good, supportive family upbringing!
@leiawaterfall4768
@leiawaterfall4768 3 жыл бұрын
Surely the absolute best thing to do would be to invest in teaching for these parents
@vickibleak7425
@vickibleak7425 3 жыл бұрын
Not always a parenting problem. Childhood trauma can cause a lot of issues. Be understanding and learn how to help the children and families.
@leiawaterfall4768
@leiawaterfall4768 3 жыл бұрын
@@vickibleak7425 I agree child hood trauma can have a massive impact but I think the majority of these children have parents that just know how to parent. If we invested in them early on you would take a huge part of the problem away. You could then use the excess money to help those who have been through trauma properly.
@LegalAlien100
@LegalAlien100 3 жыл бұрын
That requires long term investment. Politics doesn’t work that way.
@tammiedodd4963
@tammiedodd4963 3 жыл бұрын
Watch from 27:30 mins
@thomasrobertson6764
@thomasrobertson6764 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you wont have to deal with this problems, you wont be able to cope with it ..life can be difficult for everyone even for a 7 years old and it is not just the parents to be blamed all the time ... Also society that we are leaving in.
@lindastoeckel2729
@lindastoeckel2729 3 жыл бұрын
I’d love to know what the percentages of these kids bad behaviour is nature or nurture. If they are told they will be sent home if they don’t behave I’m sure a certain number will misbehave on purpose. Where do most young children learn bad language, spitting, violence, unacceptable behaviour. Maybe there needs to be schools for parents of these kids.
@user-pampam70634
@user-pampam70634 2 жыл бұрын
I agree!!!
@susandavey2361
@susandavey2361 2 жыл бұрын
When your child is 10 and you've let this behaviour carry on then the parents need educating, they probably have no attention at home, late nights, computer games to old for them, some of these children don't look a full kettle of fish, there's nothing behind their eyes 😕 be interesting if they wrote a story of what they do at home
@paulaerasmus5527
@paulaerasmus5527 3 жыл бұрын
They paying too much attention to Levi........ignore him and put him in the silent room for longer. They are giving him too much option / choices. All that attention for one child.....of course he will continue being naughty.....even negative attention, is attention.....
@duskripper6650
@duskripper6650 3 жыл бұрын
Well if you saw the end of the documentary, he's improved significantly with this strategy. So.
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Paula Erasmus, I totally agree!
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
@@duskripper6650 yes, and while he slowly improved, teachers and otger chikdren got a mental breakdown
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
@@duskripper6650 I doubt very much that Levi is improved. Let's check in on him in a couple of years.
@Curlymcgurk
@Curlymcgurk 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. Thinking exactly the same, ignore him and he will be curious to see what he is missing.
@vickikelly3146
@vickikelly3146 2 жыл бұрын
Levi has trained the adults well.
@CodyTheViking
@CodyTheViking 10 ай бұрын
Yes
@amyshew1151
@amyshew1151 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like the parents need as much intensive training as the kids do . My mom had a kid who made her want to quit teaching every day for a year : She had to retain him , kindergarten,and live through a second year with him . And .... taught second grade and caught him for a third year . She had more head aches and special training to try and help kids with behavior issues - but they SO affect the entire classroom. I wanted to homeschool because if the out of control situation in my junior high - we ended up with armed cops in our hallways it was so bad - 1980’s St Louis , MO . I made it through, but actually had a class that I never knew what the subject matter was - classroom chaos - another teacher called out 2 boys to fight in the hallway with the rest of the class encircling them- told them to get it over with . Man , oh man !
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
These kids should not be in school. They take the resources from everyone else with their problems.
@amyquinn9609
@amyquinn9609 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve worked at a school and with children just like that, and at least 8 out 10 times it’s the parents faults. Absolutely no guidance, no consequence and absolutely no accountability! Those kids will eventually go on to hurt or kill people.
@shelleysteer6566
@shelleysteer6566 4 ай бұрын
I'm a disabled mum my daughter starting acting like this at 5 years old when I had sepsis and lost my mobility she's 11 now she hasn't acted out at school but would shout out in class for the kids to be quiet would grass on kids who didn't follow the rules I had trouble getting her into school but she went in now in the last 6 years ive had chunks of hair pulled bites broken bones bruses had police come 50 times in one year had 4 police officers hold her down for half an hour and she still went for me ive tried everything professionals don't want to know her because she won't engage she hasn't hardly been in school for 2 years and since she was 5 months old I noticed she was different I was let down from day 1 January this year she was diagonised with autism with pda aniexity and esba and still no help for her or me she says she will go back to school in September high school I'm dreading it incase she can't cope in that environment again and her behaviour eslates again and I'm worried if she may start in school this time it doesnt make my parenting bad but I've learnt to parent low demand i had too my daughter at the age of 8 wanted to self delete she never came out of her room got dressed washed herself tell everyone to eff off she never leaves the house ive had to cancel numerous kidney appts for her my own hospital appts I havent seen a doctor in 3 years in last 6 months my daughter has come out of her room baths twice a week frim having 2 baths a day brushes her hair once every 2 days gets dressed once a fortnight if she doesn't bath she still can't leave the house and this mum as gone to social services asked the pshygolist to do home visits adult social services wants to give me respite but children's social services don't want to know so can't get respite there's nit a lot of help well no help even when your asking for it I think it's time to stop blaming the parents time to listen to the parent when they voice a concern normal parenting courses didn't work on my child doing the same or slightly different parenting courses for 6 years now patents like me who try their upmost to parent their children and it fails because patenting courses are just aimed at one thing only punishing a child that can't not won't comply with society thinking I'm looking at pda society and dr Ross greene and a top notch physiologist in the uk about parenting a child thst constant mode is fight mode because she struggles with getting dressed eating drinking everything that we all take for granted that cones natural my daughter sees it as a demand eg drinking want a drink but can't get a drink because she's put that demand on herself that to take back control of her aotumy she has to demand me to do it yes I try to encourage her to do that herself but I know when to say alright ill do it for you it's like the terrible t stages they will scream when you put shoes on them they can't communicate that they don't want those shoes on so society so fit to say these two year olds are being bad children when in fact those shoes might well hurt or not comfortable but we still force those shoes on now when we buy shoes for ourselves what do we go for shoes being comfortable do we not but a two year old can't tell you that so what are we doing to that two year old we are abusing them aren't we the same with clothes if we don't feel right I'm or dint like how it hangs on us do we still buy them or wear them again are we forced to wear them it's like when a kid screams in town after doing 6 or 7 hours at school and you have to get something in for tea that child just wants to go home have a little rest but are forced to be out for more time than they wish for they are tired you can't blame them for being tired but they can't communicate that yet ate punished for something they can't articulate ots like some adults can't work full time or even part time because of mental health disabilities etc but yet kids are forced into full time education and they can't say I need a rest I need 5 mins to myself and behaviour starts they get punished kids are kids they are not adults most know right from wrong but even when they say I need to be alone an adult I'm every aspect of their lives is always forcing them forcing them to hold in their urine forcing them to sit down when their body aches forcing a uniform on forcing them to go to grandma's house forcing them to wear school shoes getting told of for asking questions etc tell me what adult would not say anything about if it was happening to them we wouldn't stand for someone shouting in our face in front of our work mates we wouldn't get shouted at for being late or told to stay back yes we would get no pay for that hour most work places let you wear what you want and comfortable shoes etc I just think if we all took a step back and look at what we are doing to kids making them put all that information in their heads and school is very different to how it was 30 years ago the amount of pressure even being put on kids 11 years and younger is disgusting half the stuff they Keston in primary schools I didn't learn at all in my whole schooling when my eldest children were in school they are coming up 30 in the next couple years homework was reading and spelling your name that was reception year now it's spellings reading and maths then it's even more for each year group how can they say enough my brain can't take anymore information my brain can't work anymore like I said kids need to be treated as kids nit to see what school or country is best at grades pr where they are on tables our kids are human and rest yes they need to show respect and manners but it works both ways and giving a choice of going into a classroom is the right thing to do ot takes months and years to get that behaviour sorted the child needs to trust again if a child doesn't trust the person the behaviour is not going to change either
@frankiefranklin9761
@frankiefranklin9761 Жыл бұрын
8 months since I first watched this I completely changed career and work with children and adolescents like this. Lovely to see the trauma informed approaches I have been learning in action
@kaityparsons1212
@kaityparsons1212 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, the nurture group should be implemented everywhere
@patriciahenderson5898
@patriciahenderson5898 2 жыл бұрын
WHY are the teachers completely charged with all these things??!! When does the parents responsibility come in to play?
@snapdragon2441
@snapdragon2441 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter was disruptive in class and out, turned out she was highly intelligent with autism. Eventually diagnosed as an adult despite my pleads for help from schools, doctors, social workers, police. Exclusion from school is a punishment for the parents, not the child. Sometimes it’s not the parents fault, or the child’s really. I have learnt that my child needs to be allowed room to be herself with the knowledge that support is there if she needs it.
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Let me guess, the disruptive children have disruptive parents. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
@Arkala_KingsChoice
@Arkala_KingsChoice 3 жыл бұрын
That is a judgemental comment. Not all disruptive children have disruptive home lives. Supporting families and helping parents support their children and finding root causes to disruptive children's behaviour is the key to helping these children.
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
more likely, weak parents who are afraid of their kids.
@blackswan1983
@blackswan1983 2 жыл бұрын
Not always true. The quiet, depressed ones can create disruptive kids too.
@Ace01234k
@Ace01234k 2 жыл бұрын
@@Arkala_KingsChoice it’s a realistic comment
@Jojomo564
@Jojomo564 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know what I'd do if these were my kids. I'm at a loss.
@forrestfey
@forrestfey 3 жыл бұрын
Every child should get the help they need!
@annapachaclarke2392
@annapachaclarke2392 2 жыл бұрын
Especially the other poor kids having to put up with these tyrants!!
@ilovefabricandflowers8543
@ilovefabricandflowers8543 3 жыл бұрын
Levi has too many choices. Maybe take his choices away. He needs definite direction. To me it seems a lot of ;face; loss for levi.
@5p674
@5p674 3 жыл бұрын
He shouldn't have any choices except behaving and getting the rewards of behaving...or misbehaving and suffering the consequences.
@mszoe1974
@mszoe1974 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even watch this all... teachers discipline abilities have been stripped from them, parents negotiate rather than parent... I’m so glad my children are older I would not like to be having young children in these times!
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Zoe, I totally agree with you!
@raeanneegan6191
@raeanneegan6191 4 ай бұрын
Couldn’t watch this either. This is sad and pathetic
@MissIncorrigibleOfOz
@MissIncorrigibleOfOz 2 жыл бұрын
Good on Trina for acknowledging her faults and changing her parenting style.
@kaityparsons1212
@kaityparsons1212 3 жыл бұрын
In my experience as a teacher, kids that disrupt class tend to not be challenged enough. Or the child has self esteem issues in regards to academia
@kaityparsons1212
@kaityparsons1212 3 жыл бұрын
So it's the extreme ends at both spectrems
@ruwaydalottering8108
@ruwaydalottering8108 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. The one boy says he would rather go to time out than stay in class. He must be struggling to understand the work
@pinlight97
@pinlight97 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree, as a teacher myself.
@blackswan1983
@blackswan1983 2 жыл бұрын
I used to think so too, then my own kid came along!!! What was initially diagnosed as severe mixed adhd & odd turned out to be moderate adhd with a profound receptive auditory processing disorder. It's a communication problem for some. My girl can use 4% of verbal info, and she was becoming frustrated with the inability to explain why.
@songbirds3712
@songbirds3712 2 жыл бұрын
Levi was absolutely in control of his choices, and he was choosing to be rude and obnoxious. I was not at all impressed with the teachers and other school personnel “working” with Levi.
@emilywiebel3238
@emilywiebel3238 2 жыл бұрын
The care team is truly amazing. The way they keep their voices calm and keep composed is impressive. It’s sad that there even needs to be care teams like this at schools but I know the teachers greatly appreciate having a team on hand the whole day to help with a disruptive child so they can focus on teaching the class and giving the other students what they need and deserve. I know mental illness, trauma etc plays a role in behaviors like this but most of these kids are very intelligent and know what’s right and wrong but they just don’t care. They want to do what they want and could careless how if effects others. It’s all about them and no rules.
@aquajuwel7098
@aquajuwel7098 2 жыл бұрын
Parents are always to blame, not society, teachers and so on. Lazy, rude, bullying parents……..children are a reflection of the parents!!!!!!! So many should never have become parents!
@pfranks75
@pfranks75 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it no one’s fault, a child can have a certain temperament and just have problems. It is much easier to deal with problems as a child than an adult.
@jackiemarshall3711
@jackiemarshall3711 3 жыл бұрын
I have a grandson like Levi. And I don't care what people say he and most of the children like him are the way they are because of something that happened that they had no control over and made them mad so this is how they react to have control. In my grandson case it was home issues. He is now in a live in school for children with discipline issues. Until the child tells someone why they are so upset the behavior will not stop. He has broken into neighbors homes ran away fights curses. Everything starts at home. Spend quality time with your children, be honest with them children are not stupid, even as young as 1 and 2 they know what is going on. And stop labeling them and stuffing them with all these meds. Because most children are upset not challenged. If a child can play video games all day or do what they want to they do not have adhd. It's they see others do bad things to get attention so they are doing it to get attention. Think about it if they act out they have your undivided attention that's what they want. So give them that before they do bad things.
@madhuramitra6688
@madhuramitra6688 3 жыл бұрын
Yes mam you are right and 20 years in teaching i learnt to be patient enough to teach my kids and their parents to value time ,productive time I mean. Thank you
@maburg713
@maburg713 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts. Be honest with your kids, and give them your *TIME*. That's what they want more than anything else: your time, your understanding and your love.
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
Well said Jackie Marsh!
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2
@doyouhearthepeoplesing2 2 жыл бұрын
Wrong I have ADHD and can play video games for hours when medicated
@Ace01234k
@Ace01234k 2 жыл бұрын
Excuse excuse
@butterfacejessie2301
@butterfacejessie2301 2 жыл бұрын
I think the teachers are trying their best…I have a difficult child like this. I’m a responsible, caring parent. We’re not rich except for in love. Please don’t blame parents. It’s so hurtful and it’s not our fault. If the parents are abusive or neglectful look at their background.
@oh2887
@oh2887 2 жыл бұрын
The mum 'Triona' is to be commended. She aknowledged the problem, took the advice, and made a positive difference.
@msplace100
@msplace100 Жыл бұрын
So grateful that at my sons' school there was none of this behaviour. Partly because it was a high socio economic area but also because any bad behaviour was dealt with immediately and contained.
@daniellemayfield3584
@daniellemayfield3584 2 жыл бұрын
I think it's amazing the help they offer for the children an parents! As a child I had learning an behavior problems I or my parents were not helped in giving tools to help. I had it rough in school an life till I got older so programs like this are definitely beneficial!
@medidmi
@medidmi 2 жыл бұрын
I had a "disruptive" child. Who couldn't seat through a lesson, keep "hands to himself". I asked for counselling, and worked together with teachers to find best solution. He is 15 now, well behaved, good grades. No trouble in school or home. 90% of cases can be sorted by parents and school working together. Of course there are cases that need proper medical intervention, but even in hardest cases both parents and school should cooperate.
@clairew1987
@clairew1987 3 жыл бұрын
What beautiful transformations! The mums were absolutely lovely women, hats off to them for being so open and honest- what an inspiration they are. And the children were incredible. I have a lot of admiration for everyone in this documentary.
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
Woke
@clairew1987
@clairew1987 3 жыл бұрын
@@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 I’m probably the least woke person you know...but I will give praise to people where it’s due
@annapachaclarke2392
@annapachaclarke2392 2 жыл бұрын
Except we don't hear much regard for other children in the same classes as these disruptive kids. It isn't incredible if their education suffered through all the disruption, and they are made to feel less valued! Give your head a wobble!!
@clairew1987
@clairew1987 2 жыл бұрын
@@annapachaclarke2392 as this comment is a year old and I can’t remember all the particulars of the documentary, you’ll have to forgive my vague reply…but, to see the improvement in the children is heartwarming. Yes, other children in that class haven’t had the same praise or time spent on them- but they also haven’t had the same struggles and issues as the so called ‘naughty’ children. I don’t begrudge a child having intense help when it’s needed- if that help means that they grow into functioning adults.
@liselottenormannsrensen7867
@liselottenormannsrensen7867 Жыл бұрын
25 sec. in and a parent says "I just wish the goverment would...." I just wish parents would take responsibility and help their children❤
@MsNiiiina
@MsNiiiina 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 5 minutes in and this is like a prison documentary...
@aromana3547
@aromana3547 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts 👌
@xixxxxix5084
@xixxxxix5084 3 жыл бұрын
Without the discipline
@rachelwilson2570
@rachelwilson2570 2 жыл бұрын
Where are the parents? They should start calling them in to take care of their kids.
@marygiannakopoulos9871
@marygiannakopoulos9871 3 жыл бұрын
I believe when a child is acting out in an aggressive way, the parents should sit down with the child and talk to them about their behaviour. Ask the child lots of questions, to get to the bottom of their child's problem. And then offer a reasonable explanation as to why they should not be behaving that way. Children need lots of understanding from their parents. This process should be repeated many times, until the child completely understands that their aggressive behaviour is unacceptable. It all starts from the home.
@katbagley3214
@katbagley3214 2 жыл бұрын
The likelihood is that these aggressive kids have aggressive parents. So sadly nothing would change.
@JenAmazed42
@JenAmazed42 2 жыл бұрын
These children simply need to face consequences for the choices they make. That teaches them really quickly and then the other children and teachers don't have to suffer, nor will society when they're grown.
@sharonellis8776
@sharonellis8776 2 жыл бұрын
These teachers are just so amazing with what they have achieved with these troubled children. xx
@avsambart
@avsambart 2 жыл бұрын
I remember in high school, a lot of us always got fed up of the teachers for spending the lesson wasting time on and complimenting the disruptive kids for doing the bare minimum. Especially towards the end of high school, multiple kids would straight up tell the teachers they were frustrated by it.
@zoeferguson210
@zoeferguson210 2 жыл бұрын
I would sooner be motivated to be more tolerant of the behaviours of the disruptive student. There is no doubt that this student is met with a lot of negativity, and will wholly appreciate those teachers that offered support before condemnation. As for *not* needing that kind of attention, and being in a position where we rally our classmates to chastise a teacher who is more than cognisant of how they may be falling short in the face of the overwhelming responsibility of supporting a student with additional learning needs?? We should all be so fortunate.
@annapachaclarke2392
@annapachaclarke2392 2 жыл бұрын
@@zoeferguson210 Yeah, well you can say that as an adult, but it isn't your call is it. Not when the other kids who are wanting to learn, constantly get their classes disrupted by these tyrants, besides the aggression which can be frightening!
@camilocienfuegos9233
@camilocienfuegos9233 2 жыл бұрын
Some good old fashioned discipline is what they need
@thomasnewton8997
@thomasnewton8997 2 жыл бұрын
Teachers should not have to be the parent for their students
@leeannemcphee601
@leeannemcphee601 2 жыл бұрын
Here’s a thought …….. how about bringing back DISCIPLINE in schools!!! Children NEED boundaries NOT pandering to. Their not able to make safe choices and the right choices!!! These children are going to end up in prison END OF STORY!!!
@jamiestanley9234
@jamiestanley9234 Жыл бұрын
What kind of discipline do you propose?
@raeanneegan6191
@raeanneegan6191 4 ай бұрын
Good old fashion discipline! This is pathetic
@lindamatus4429
@lindamatus4429 2 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t anyone see that Levi is in control?
@willowtreefarm7735
@willowtreefarm7735 3 жыл бұрын
It’s really unfair that other children have to disrupted by these children who misbehave. Why are they given such one to one help when the children who behave have to take second place.
@annapachaclarke2392
@annapachaclarke2392 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. How undervalued some of the quiet ones will feel, they see these entitled tyrants being rewarded and valued more!
@denisecarpenter2981
@denisecarpenter2981 3 жыл бұрын
I wonder if Levi has some underlying learning disabilities that cause his reluctance to go to class?! He might not even be able to explain what the problem is. Maybe he is struggling with abuse or stranger abuse or something that they aren't aware of, even his parents. Have they tried to just talk to him? do they have child psychologists? I just wonder. With a lot of kids there are underlying problems they don't know how to articulate.
@blackswan1983
@blackswan1983 2 жыл бұрын
I had to pay $2k for that assessment, which showed a profound communication disorder. Without that diagnosis the school couldnt help.
@rebeccaholt8668
@rebeccaholt8668 2 жыл бұрын
My eldest in year 1 became very disruptive , her teacher and the school worked with me and my husband , turns out she is autistic and once the school implemented a routine and we had the same at home she’s a model student :) , most naughty kids have a root cause sometimes it’s being on the spectrum sometimes it’s a bad home life etc it’s just finding the cause and hoping the parents are willing to work with the school
@carolynkernan939
@carolynkernan939 2 жыл бұрын
Seems too many choices keep asking him what do u want to do
@wendyabbey820
@wendyabbey820 2 жыл бұрын
I really can’t understand why children behave so badly in this generation, when I was at school this did not happen, I went to schools where there were a lot of children very large schools consisting of around 600 children I never saw kicking, or swearing at teachers or aggressive behaviour, so I question why is it like this now, is it to do with the food they eat, is it because we have no discipline anymore, something has definitely gone wrong somewhere, I don’t mean go back to Victorian times but we need to go back to how it was in the 1970’s and stick to that.
@carahodson5867
@carahodson5867 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not always the parents at fault. I’ve seen totally great children and absolutely horrific children with the same parents. When I was in school, there weren’t choices. If you caused problems, you went to the office for a paddling. Now the kids don’t have repercussions for bad behavior. It’s a way to stay the center of attention. Who wouldn’t want to have their own audience.
@lilianhioki
@lilianhioki 2 жыл бұрын
Have you heard that in some disfuntional homes children are treated in different ways? So sometimes thats the case, specially if we're talking about narssisists parents/tutors.
@vladimirputin40
@vladimirputin40 2 жыл бұрын
If the parents are marginalized, the kids will most likely be as well. All this counseling won't mean much when they go home and fall back into the same old patterns. We didn't have any of these disruptive kids at my school. I think socioeconomic factors play a huge part in this.
@owleyes5599
@owleyes5599 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe by not asking but telling them what is expected might go a long way. When adults are afraid to be in charge and cottle these kids then the kids have the power. It's a shame no one can raise their voice anymore without being labeled abusive.
@shelleysteer6566
@shelleysteer6566 4 ай бұрын
Shouting doesn't help specially with autism add pda trauma based kids most parents don't ask for help for eg when my daughters behaviour s6arted at home I was blamed because I eorked I've always asked for help the professionals didn't want to know my daughter because she couldn't engage adult social services wants to help me big time but children social services she's nit bad enough even though she wanted to self delete herself broke my bones police called out 50 times on a year took 3 police to h9ld her down for half an hour and yet I'm to blame because I'm the parent after the last time i won't ever ask for help again because I've been told there's nothing else that can be done myvm daughter has never played up 8n school but she would shout out if the class got to loud for her she is niw nit getting an education because she can't do school environment and yet I'm being fined because professionals dint want to work with my child and I'm not on about the school here they were slow to help with but I can't fault them like one time the head teacher came out to our home and ny daughter was in a very overwhelmed state he managed to calm her down after an hour and stayed another hour stroking her hair with her head on his lap whole she was still crying saying I want to come to school but I just can't it was heartbreaking he managed to get her in but she had to bring in her Teddy blanket and something else and he let her go to the sensory room before going to her class he actually said wish I could do this every day so thst she can come in but obs he has to be at the school etc she needs someone like that to help her every day someone she trusts and can relate too she's at senior school in September and I'm dreading it its a big school 900 students just in year 7 and for ny daughter she can't do crowds big places and noise I'm hoping her behaviour will still be contain at home because she can't deal with shouting or being touch the school are in 5he middle of setting up things for her so she can over come barriers my child is austic with pda which means she can't do demands from people or herself pda stands for pathological demand avoidance she needs the nuture and understanding and I have said school setting is not for her and homeschooling is a no no schooling needs to be broken down and rebuilt in my town there is at least 9 senior schools loads of empty buildings that could be made into nurture schools my daughter would probably live going to school say like at 5 or 6 pm and finish at 1 am for eg she is a night owl because there is no everyday demands at night I'm awaiting a peads appt for something to help her sleep she can be awake for 3 days at a time and it's not good just wish I could parent her too her needs I'm still learning to parent the pda way I.m just waiting for the break through moment trying to find out her biggest need so I can help with that need but doing it by myself
@wendyandrews968
@wendyandrews968 3 жыл бұрын
My girl is like this she has been in a SEN school since she was 5 it is caused by early years trauma from her birth parents
@beckyparker5661
@beckyparker5661 3 жыл бұрын
Awww that is so sad 😥 I'm really sorry to hear about that xx
@jewelhunter6839
@jewelhunter6839 3 жыл бұрын
Never had this happening when I was in school. Hmmmm I wonder what changed?
@shaybatty3785
@shaybatty3785 3 жыл бұрын
The kids have power now
@JenAmazed42
@JenAmazed42 2 жыл бұрын
This is not a mental illness. This is a lack of discipline. The first child should have been picked up and placed in a class room and then sent home of he couldn't behave. Don't know if they have truancy court over there but after being sent home enough, that's where he would end up, if he were here. The parents would be held responsible because of his age and if the problem continued the behavior, he'd be placed in an inpatient facility to treat his "mental health problems." Personally, if he were my child, I'd have them call me, I'd go to the school and light his rear end up and I'd sit in the desk beside him and every time he disrupted we'd go to the bathroom for some more education. These brats have no right to interfere with the educations of children who choose to behave themselves. Tax payers should not being paying the salaries of these wranglers for these poorly behaved kids. That's absurd. Their parents need to do their jobs and if they can't or won't, they need to be taken from them. They should be reformed by whatever means necessary before they're adults reeking havock on the world and end up hurting someone and then go to prison.
@raeanneegan6191
@raeanneegan6191 4 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@MariaTorres-hc5uq
@MariaTorres-hc5uq 3 жыл бұрын
Teachers in my time, yes I'm 62, were lucky: they would get half tamed kids...parents made sure of that... At 6 y.o. you were supposed to know all the "magic" words like: sorry, please and thank you, eat with mouth closed and seat straight at table and other stuff. If some parents knew how damaging bad education is when you grow up, when you have to face other adults, with a better bringing up.
@leighb2293
@leighb2293 Жыл бұрын
In my son’s 3rd grade classroom there is 1 teacher for 25 kids and 2 teachers for the 2 out of control kids. They follow them around the halls & plead with them to make good choices. It’s obvious that the only choices they are interested in is causing a disruption, getting attention for their negative behavior & avoiding schoolwork.
@TheRose087
@TheRose087 Жыл бұрын
Go off and educate yourself to not be so ignorant
@HELLINA-HANDBASKET
@HELLINA-HANDBASKET 3 жыл бұрын
So they kick off and get rewarded with going home or getting to play instead of doing the lessons they are supposed to be doing 🤦🏻 🤬
@hettiemurray2509
@hettiemurray2509 2 жыл бұрын
Levi is loving the attention.
@annadanielova2310
@annadanielova2310 3 жыл бұрын
And big respect to the teachers!!!
@djpamdemonium
@djpamdemonium 3 жыл бұрын
Just reading the comments makes me sad that no one is addressing the emotions of this child. Just obey. So many say educate the parents when the whole society needs an education on the role and process of emotions and trauma. This child needs coping skills, not jail time. Consequences are necessary but in conjunction with education to better handle what he is feeling and not just asking him to disconnect and listen. No one is listening to the child, why would he listen back?
@lolas185
@lolas185 3 жыл бұрын
The majority of well behaved children should not be held hostage to the minority poorly behaved children. Other children have rights too.
@daisyhoney3088
@daisyhoney3088 3 жыл бұрын
I garentee you bust that behind coupled with grounding and get rid of all shooter up games you might have a chance
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
@@daisyhoney3088 Exactly my thoughts, too!
@shawnaweesner3759
@shawnaweesner3759 3 жыл бұрын
@@lolas185 I completely agree! All children acting out emotionally/behaviorally should have the parents called immediately to come and collect them. They should not be able to return until the parent can sit and deal with them all day in school for at least a month. If the parent can’t make it, kid doesn’t come back to school. Why are educational institutions giving in to these abusive families!?
@annapachaclarke2392
@annapachaclarke2392 2 жыл бұрын
Go be that listener then, go be that saviour who panders to an undisciplined, self absorbed child who spoils everything for other's. Go be the parent he or she should have had since a toddler! Save us from them!
@lolas185
@lolas185 3 жыл бұрын
Parents have to discipline their children better so they don't get in the way of other children trying to learn. Stop victimising good children.
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402
@cccpsovietunionisnothingbu2402 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kgraham5820
@kgraham5820 Жыл бұрын
Kids are incredibly quick learners! Take a look at Levi. He’s learned how to manipulate the adults around him to get his way. for two whole hours the adults are focused only on him and they’re begging him to go to class. BS. Either go to class and do what’s expected, or go home and don’t come back until you’re able to do what’s expected! If need be, let his parents get him under control and let them home school him. Teachers are paid to teach, not chase after someone else’s problem.
@DucatiQueen
@DucatiQueen 3 жыл бұрын
Those children need to be removed from the classroom. This is disruptive, disrespectful and is hindering the behaved children from learning and competing their tasks. If you can’t raise your children to have respect and manners, then that’s your problem and others shouldn’t have to suffer because of your demon seed of a child. Also, you wanted this child so YOU better prepare to have the funds to manage them if needed, NOTTHE TAXPAYERS. Also, keep your kids in-line while shopping or in restaurants OR keep them at home !
@onewheelatatime2905
@onewheelatatime2905 2 жыл бұрын
I worked at a school where many children had behavioural difficulties. A rude kid called me a ‘disabled c*nt’ when I was walking my dog. I explained to him that I’m not disabled. I think that shows the level of behaviour I was used to that I corrected the disabled part!
@thomasnewton8997
@thomasnewton8997 2 жыл бұрын
If you can't be responsible parent don't have children
@donnyreiss1180
@donnyreiss1180 2 жыл бұрын
yes these kids would act a lot better if the parents did a lot better or just do not have kids just because u r a woman it does not mean ur place on earth is to have kids
@jadebrown1017
@jadebrown1017 Жыл бұрын
This was my day to day. I spent 6 months of the year walking round the school keeping an eye on the child that had ventured out side of the school building. I would be blue in the face keeping a calm voice and words of encouragement to get them back in. I do miss it but I know if I went back to that my own children wouldn't getthe best of me, and thats not fare for them.
@valerienewman6103
@valerienewman6103 3 жыл бұрын
Parents nowadays need to be parents not their child’s friend . Discipline needs to start at home from a young age, it’s no good allowing a child to do what they want, they don’t see danger. Parents man up and discipline your child
@lindanorthcott2517
@lindanorthcott2517 3 жыл бұрын
The kids r in control of the teachers I have a nephew like this and there were no control at home
@oldishandwoke-ish1181
@oldishandwoke-ish1181 3 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when we've had enough of experts, when populist journalists are telling people they "don't need education". Combine this with 40 years of ever-deepening poverty and debt under neoliberal ideology and you have a serious social problem. Noticeable too is that it falls to women staff to deal with the fallout, and that under the usual "cuts", also a feature of neoloberalism, their noble (and successful) interventions are under constant threat. The neoliberal elite has no real interest in a well-educated, well-adjusted population - in the words of George Carlin, "that's not in their interests". Hats off to the school staff featured in this programme, they deserve so much more support and recognition.
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