BROKENNESS TO RESTORATION - Story of Hope: How God Restored a Broken Marriage

This is the full documentary of our story of brokenness to restoration and the path we took to get there.
In this documentary we talk through our past pain and trauma of life and how we walked through life full of addictions, trauma, pain and confusion.
We didn't know what kind of behaviors were unhealthy or how to work through our problems. We didn't know how to communicate about life, marriage or subjects that really matter.
We specifically would make sure the outside of our lives looked good to other people, both online and in person. While on the inside we had a lot of pain and confusion.
We were drifting apart in our marriage, while avoiding topics and red flags in our marriage and the addictions kept magnifying.
Adelle gave me an ultimatum to stay with her and our daughter or the pills and alcohol. I needed that. I went into rehab November 2016 and our live took many positive turns from there.
Then in 2018 many pivotal moments happened. I (Travis) found Jesus on a mens hike with Seacoast Church Greenville and Adelle had 2 major spine surgeries. She also discovered that I was unfaithful to her and our marriage covenant in our marriage.
I confessed this to her and we began a long journey of healing and restoration.
This has now turned into our passion and what God has called us to full time. We love marriage ministry.
There were numerous pivotal moments, peoples and organizations who made a huge difference for us.
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23:00 Serving Marraiges
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23:11 Winshape Retreat
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24:00 Seacoast Church Men's Hike
www.seacoast.o...
30:00 Dr. Gary Chapman
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34:30 Focus on the Family Hope Restored Marriage Intensive
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(Special thanks to Focus on The Family for recording this video for us and allowing us to use it. )
50:20 The impact of having a host couple for intensives:
Buddy & Nancy
1:02:10 Dr. Greg & Erin Smalley
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1:03:00 The Noble Marriage
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1:08:00 Our legacy
We have broken down this film into sections to take a deeper dive into our story! Please go check these videos out below.
Part 1: Addictions & false identities impacted marriage: • Part 1- Addictions & F...
Part 2: Ignoring red flags in marriage: • Part 2 - Ignoring Red ...
Part 3: Suicidal thoughts, worthlessness & Codependency in marriage: • Part 3- Suicidal Thoug...
Part 4: Dealing with the loss of a career & discovering infidelity in marriage: • Part 4 | Disappointing...
Part 5: How betrayal, secrets & infidelity impact marriages: • Part 5 | Betrayal, Inf...
Part 6: Finding Restoration in a broken marriage: • Part 6- Find Restorati...
Part 7: How to be Whole & Complete in marriage: • Part 7- Healing & Rest...
Part 8: How to have emotional safety: • Part 8- How to Have Em...
Part 9: We talk about Oneness: • Part 9 - Discovering O...
We are passionate about pouring into marriages through what we have learned in our own relationship. Our goal is to impact & make a difference in thousands of marriages. Through KZbin we are able to widely reach couples and get our message out to you, so that you can start experiencing true intimacy & love in your own relationship right away.
On our channel we deliver daily, inspiring, & motivating videos that will support you in being your best self and best spouse you can be. We hope you will join us on this marriage movement!
We cover a variety of relationship & marriage topics
marriage restoration
Marriage healing from infidelity
healed after betrayal
Infidelity in marriage
Betrayal in marriage
forgiveness in marriage
Marriage story
Married life
Advice to married couples
Marriage help online
Best relationship advice
Relationship questions
Codependency
Toxic relationship
Marriage in the Bible
and much more...
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[@peggyruatoe7831]

Praise God. I'm Peggy from New Zealand. Please pray for restoration and healing in the 34 years of our marriage. And for my husband to come back to me, our children and grandchildren grandchildren. ( husband Emile, me wife Peggy).

[@TheNobleMarriage]

I pray for Gods will to be done in your life and marriage in the name of Jesus. Amen

[@peggyruatoe7831]

Thank you. God bless.

[@Larry_Apodaca]

Sister in Christ, My heart breaks for you. I will offer prayers for you and Emile not for healing or restoration but that the Holy Ghost will lead and guide you both to something far better and Holy. To the loving relationship He had planned for you in the beginning. I pray a hedge of protection around your family. Your brother in Christ.

[@peggyruatoe7831]

Thank you, God bless you always.

[@joegaccetta5799]

Thank you for sharing. Your story gives me so much hope. As I listen to your story of restoration and so many other stories, I hear people having some serious challenges. God still helped those couples work through their challenges. My wife and I’ve been married for 26 years and she file for divorce and left with our 3 kids in September, eight months ago. I continue to stand and be obedient to God, and work on myself. We actually had a pretty good marriage and were very close family but something got in her over the last couple years that just turned into an avalanche that I could not stop. They’re little things that we can work on and I would love to like building better communication. And meeting my wife’s emotional needs. Even though there are no deep toxic problems the enemy is still trying to destroy a good family. with a real deep problems or something in her that aren’t true. Please pray that her heart would be soften and open up to considering restoration that we can go on a journey growing together, and fixing any issues that are coming between us and God and our covenant with him. I love my wife and will continue standing.

[@letscarryit]

I love hearing the beauty and power of the Gospel wrk in and thru you guys . And how both of y’all first surrender to the Lord and then come to one another In humility and dying to the flesh . I’m at the point in my marriage where this is NO Hope in the physical. My beautiful bride said she would NEVER COMEBACK, that she loves me as the father of our children but no longer “In love” . I have tried many different things. But it was control but the Lord said Rest in Me . I praying if it’s the Lord’s will to move her heart first to the FATHER through faith in Christ .

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing this! I am also praying for your heart and her heart. For healing in both of your hearts and in your kids hearts. And that God would give peace in the relationship. I pray that eyes and ears would be open to something new. Thank you again for this! And thank you for your continued ministry to others and showing Jesus to others through who you are being.

[@matthewellison581]

Please pray for my wife Cheyenne and myself. She filed for divorce and I’m praying for and believing in restoration!

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Yes.. I’ll pray for open hearts, healing and great communication in this season as you guys work through this and restore your marriage in Jesus name.

[@danielleg1504]

How is everything going now?

[@ryanr6607]

Same situation here… pray for Kayla and I please

[@evenatheloma5522]

When marriages are changent and healed children are absolutely impacted.... amen to that

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen! Thank you for watching!

[@sarabergen7129]

God is so good. I am praying for this kind of healing in my marriage. Ive been hoping that we can find a way to attend this intensive. Thank you for sharing your testimony. God bless you.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for the comment and acknowledgment. I pray for that as well, that a way will be made for you. Praying for your marriage.

[@ngunjirinjunji3243]

I'm going through a separation. And though I want my marriage restored, I'm asking God to first draw me to himself then draw me and my wife together

[@TheNobleMarriage]

I love hearing your heart in this. I’m praying for your heart and your marriage

[@ngunjirinjunji3243]

@@TheNobleMarriage thank you very much. God bless you for your prayers towards me and my marriage. I can feel the transforming power of God working to draw me closer to himself. My study of his word has increased and each morning I'm doing a devotion

[@josiejones3186]

😌Your story made me smile, and… …🙏🏻I hope, and pray God will speak to my daughter in law through your story, and hopefully she’ll give her marriage a chance to be healed through ☦️Jesus Christ?!🕊 Please pray for Tara & Dan! They’re separated currently, and their marriage is headed for disaster, and apart from God’s intervention, it’s not going to survive. 💔 I am Dan’s mother, and have been praying for them individually, and for their marriage for years, and will continue to, but it sure helps to know others with their Faith steadfastly in Christ are also praying for them, and for their marriage both for intense healing especially since a divorce hasn’t happened yet, and I’m hopeful that never happens?! Thank you to anyone who might lift Dan & Tara up to God in prayer, and thank you to the couple for your story! Thank God for Jesus Christ, and for all God’s people who’s lives are absolutely Glorifying God Almighty, and helping people who’ve lost all hope in their marriage’s to be give a newfound hope through, and in Jesus Christ!💔 💓🙏🏻Thank you God!🕊

[@TheNobleMarriage]

I also pray for healing and restoration of their marriage and Gods Will to be done.

[@josiejones3186]

@@TheNobleMarriage Thank you so so much for your prayers! And yes, I too pray according to God’s Holy Will, and it’s my hope God’s Will is to bless Dan & Tara (and their girls who’re 6 & 10, and both are very close to both their parents)with A Miracle Healing of Dan and Tara’s Marriage in Almighty Father God’s Timing, and pray in The Holy Name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour! 💓 Amen, and A M E N ! 🙏🏻☦️🕊

[@StefanieandCaleb]

Thanks so much for sharing this powerful testimony!!

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Guys! Thank you for always being there for us and supporting us! We love you both and appreciate who you are! God bless you guys.

[@berlindaestella4566]

This is so timely 😢. My husband and I is in our 12th year and exposure of infedility just happened few weeks ago. I can relate to every single bit of your word - - no communication, no intimacy, etc. How I wish and pray that we will also go through counseling and get through this tough time. ( watching and commenting from the Philippines ) -- Berlinda Mahinay Estella

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for this!! We come into agreement with you for healing and restoration of your marriage in the name of Jesus. I pray that you both have a willing heart and actively work together for your healing. Reach out to us for additional support: thenoblemarriage.com

[@mercybeale9995]

Berlinda I am from the Philippines and I am going through my divorce.

[@mercybeale9995]

Infidelity emotional, physical, and financially. I felt hopeless with mine with 4 kids is really tough.

[@lilyflordelisdiaz3348]

Prayer for my marriage to be healed restored.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen

[@tthomas]

Thank you for sharing this. What an encouragement to know others understand the dysfunction we can bring to marriage. We do sometimes feel we are the only ones going through such devastation. Can't say thank you enough..❤

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Absolutely!!

[@joankidon4626]

Am praying for this kind of healing in my marriage. Where we shall both reach a level of growth and maturity in Christ....

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen!

[@jonathanbyrd4724]

Thank you, Jesus!

[@jeremiahharris5002]

This series has helped me so much! Thank you for being so open and to share.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you SO much for sharing this with us! It’s so inspiring to us to hear when our story is impacting others lives! Our story points all to God and the work he has done in and through us and we know there is so much hope for you and others watching our channel! Thank you again for being vulnerable and sharing! ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

[@jonathanbyrd4724]

What a beautiful story of God’s Grace and love! Thank you for sharing. I love your channel and your ministry. My marriage is over now but I have more hope than I’ve ever had in my life. My greatest transformation is learning to define my value from inside rather than from outside. God’s love is profound. Thank you for being his vessel. ❤️

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen! I love what you said about value from inside! Powerful! Thank you

[@BBCakes333]

Please pray for Jorge and Bridget that God brings reconciliation and full surrender to Christ…I’m desperate for this to be healed

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen.. I pray for healing and restoration

[@fishchicken4188]

God is good all the time

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Amen!! All the time, He is good!

[@peggyruatoe7831]

Thank you for sharing your life. I'am blessed. There is powerful healing in it.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

It’s an honor to share and thank you for that acknowledgement. God bless!

[@peggyruatoe7831]

Thank you. God bless.

[@sherihard3961]

Travis & Adelle, your story perfectly mirrors that of my husband's & I. I am very interested in a weekend Intensive. Is there room to bring our two Dalmatians? 😉

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you!! God bless you both! And I responded to your email. We are excited to start chatting with you both.

[@Larrymopac]

Im so grateful for your channel. It has help us through out and I have learned a lot about myself from watching your videos.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Wow, thank you so much for sharing this with us! It inspires us to keep going and to keep sharing our story. It also encourages us know that God is working through our story and allowing people just like yourself to have new insights about themselves that spark growth and an access to a new way of working through betrayal. Thank you for following along our story! I pray healing and restoration over your life!

[@jeffangelo5447]

Please take a moment and pray for Jeff and Shay to be reconciled in marriage. Thank you.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Absolutely!

[@jeffangelo5447]

Thank you!!!@@TheNobleMarriage

[@amberbutler6930]

Praying for this healing in my marriage. ❤😢

[@TheNobleMarriage]

I pray for that also. Amen

[@megalopolis2015]

Thank you for sharing your healing journey and everything you do in Christ to restore marriages. Please pray for my beloved. Since he doesn't feel worthy of Love, he'll never believe anyone could Love him, or should. No human heart can reach him. I'm praying and believing the healing and restorative power of The Great Physician. Please pray in agreement, all who read this. I read through all comments, and I stand with each hurting person for their marriages, as well as the MIL praying for her son's marriage. In Jesus' Holy Name. 💜

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for this vulnerable comment. I coming in agreement with you and pray God's intervention over your spouse and that the lies of the enemy will be silenced in Jesus name. I pray someone speaks truth into his heart and he is able to hear something new for himself that will b ring him back to God and his family. I pray God's will over you, your spouse and family and know that God's hand is at work even when you cannot see it. in Jesus name amen! I also want to encourage you not to wait for your spouse to get your healing. You are worth the lasting healing that is available for you. Sometimes, God uses our pain to take us to a deeper level of healing and restoration. Please check out our resource, Becoming Whole & Complete Program. This guides individuals to discover the root of the pain and get lasting healing from the wounds in your heart. I'll put the link below. programs.thenoblemarriage.com/offers/Sp2C2WjG/checkout

[@megalopolis2015]

@@TheNobleMarriage Thank you so much. I'll check this out. With God's strength, I'm going to be putting out an album on my journey from seeker to faith soon. It's taken a very long time. I pray that it blesses people.

[@hillarymacadam424]

Proverbs 31

[@monstermaker181]

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ, Please pray for the healing and restoration of my marriage. please come into agreement with me for my Chinese Buddhist wife's salvation. Her name is Tao. Please pray that God will turn her heart of stone into a heart of flesh and that she will forgive me of my past mistakes in our marriage. please pray that she will love me again and welcome me home. I know that the enemy is trying so hard to stop my wife from knowing Jesus. I put my wife ahead of God, and that is when the enemy slipped in. Pray God will make me the man he intends on me being for his glory. Please pray for us both to be a testimony of God's loving grace and mercy. in Christ Jesus love, thank you. Toby

[@frankgeary7574]

I am hearing your heart and pray for you! I pray the Lord speaks to your heart and allows you to walk with Light you already have within you. I need the sane Lord to allow me to be the man He has planned for me to be. To step into my Light as well abs let it shine forth. I’m not sure what will happen with my broken marriage but asking God lead me to the answers I need to know to move forward.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you Frank for your encouragement!! God bless you.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for this comment. I come into agreement with this prayer in the name of Jesus. Amen. I also pray for wisdom and peace.

[@evenatheloma5522]

How to connect with you

[@TheNobleMarriage]

You can reach us at: thenoblemarriage.com/ Click on the chat box.

[@evenatheloma5522]

@@TheNobleMarriage thank you

[@punishednomorefreetoprotec2165]

I’m confused he has a living wife?? How is this ministry ??

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for your bold comment here. This is not the first time someone has had this question. And I think it's so cool how Jesus uses broken people to reach other hurting, broken people. We both have a past history that was out of sin and brokenness. But GOD! Isn't it wonderful that he can redeem even the most broken people and then use them to be powerful voices for him? We certainly dont feel qualified to be doing this ministry, but God is the one driving this ship and He has us speaking out about how miserably we failed at marriage, so that others can get the healing and redemption through Christ like we did. His grace and forgiveness covers us all when we surrender to him as Lord of our lives. We are grateful every day for His calling on our lives. The world is full of wounded people looking for people with scars.The fact that He chose us to show our scars is beyond me, but we are grateful for this calling on our lives. Thank you for watching our story! It means so much!

[@punishednomorefreetoprotec2165]

@@TheNobleMarriage yes Jesus uses broken people but they repent and don’t teach to sin! He redeems us and we can’t continue in sin! The Bible is so clear Roman’s 7 Luke 16:18

[@matthewellison581]

I guess I missed that part. What am I missing?

[@rosserscott4376]

You are the one person in the comments that very likely knows the truth. The gate really is narrow and few be there that find it. And the path to destruction is broad and many travel that road.

[@lilit384]

@@punishednomorefreetoprotec2165 Why on earth would you imply that their marriage shouldn’t continue? 🙄 It is wrong to conclude that divorcing the second spouse in order to return to the first spouse is honorable and pleases God. Nothing in scripture would support that.

[@BobbyCulpepper.srv3fender]

There's something very off about this video, I have a feeling when they use the word intimacy it means something very different than what we're all thinking

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Hey and thank you for this comment. You may have been thinking physical intimacy? We are referring to emotional intimacy in this video. Physical intimacy is a byproduct of emotional intimacy. Every human on this planet desires emotional intimacy. Into-me-see. To be fully known and be known by our spouse. This is God design for marriage. Hope this clarifies for you! :) ~Adelle

[@BobbyCulpepper.srv3fender]

@@TheNobleMarriage thats what i was thinking, and thats what worries me, theres no physical intimacy and the man has been reprogramed to accept it with a smile on his face. Men need physical intimacy, women could care less about it so they could never understand, they just think men are pigs... This guy is wearing a smile and going about with what his wife wants so peace can be kept, but hes dying inside

[@ka-bar5060]

I would greatly appreciate prayers for the restoration on my 20 year marriage (Manny & Mary) to my beloved wife. We both made mistakes, but she says she no longer wants to "identify as a wife and mother". I have placed all my trust and faith in the Lord. Thank you.❤🙏🙏

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Absolutely! I will come into agreement to pray for this.

[@tthomas]

Wow...I was going to skip this video but watching it and see your marriage so resembles what I've gone through for 25 years. Believing God for promises He's given for healing and restoration.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for sharing this! God bless you and your marriage.

[@danielleg1504]

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half… Our romance began in sin and brokenness. In addition, the pandemic was extremely difficult (he’s a healthcare worker) and our child’s serious illness played a role in where we are now… working our way back from his pornography addiction and unfaithfulness. Please pray for our family. I’m believing that God can help us learn to communicate and care for one another well. ❤

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for sharing this and your vulnerability. I come into agreement with you to pray over this, your healing, and the healing in the marriage in the name of Jesus

[@TammyScott-e8f]

Pray for me Tammy and my husband Mccoy for restoration of marriage

[@TheNobleMarriage]

Thank you for this request. I pray for Gods Will to be done in your life and in your marriage in the name of Jesus.

[@laurentrusselltv]

Thank you for this transparency. Seeing you being emotional shows truth. I needed this video. You guys are a breath of fresh of fresh air. I just may not strangle my husband today 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheNobleMarriage]

So glad this is helpful. God bless you and your marriage.

[@DanelleOlson-d7w]

Thank you so much for your transparency and your ministry! I have a question for you: I was married to a woman for close to 25 years, but have been divorced from her since July of 2022. In December of 2023, she remarried another man. Because there wasn’t any physical infidelity involved when she and I divorced, I believe that God still honors our marital covenant, but needless to say, she doesn’t feel the same way. With that in mind,do you have any videos in which you address the question: “Should the standing spouse remain standing if they believe that their spouse who left the marriage did so for unbiblical reasons?” (Note: Please know that I’m certainly not implying that I didn’t contribute to the demise of our marriage because I very much did. I’’m also not throwing my former spouse under the bus either. Again, i’m just trying to discern if I should remain as a faithful “stander”, even if the other person has remarried but is in what appears to be a marriage that was not ordained by God. I Thank you for your consideration!😊

[@georgiadewaal8309]

God can do anything, if you have been called to stand, do it and trust HIM

[@DanelleOlson-d7w]

@@georgiadewaal8309 I very much appreciate your encouragement! Thank You! When my former spouse remarried, she made it clear that she only wanted to communicate about business related issues only- not anything related to the marital relationship we had. I am trying to honor her request because I sense that my not doing so will only push her further away than I already have. (Note: I did send her a Mother’s Day greeting yesterday, which I believe she was willing to receive because she said “thanks” this morning via a text message.) Thank you again for your encouragement. I will take your advice, continue to stand for her, and trust God to intervene in our situation. 😊

[@Salomesaville]

The pain is so much that leaving this world seems so much easier.

[@TheNobleMarriage]

I get that! I have felt this way a few times and it is a lie from the enemy. You can make it! You can get through anything with Christ! Yell out for Christ to help you right now! He draws near to the broken hearted. He wants to rescue you right now in your pain. I pray the supernatural peace of God, which surpasses all understanding to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.