A Mental Health Plea For India's Parents

[@dr.mayank5020]

Even i've no courage to share this video to my parents 🤷‍♂️ That's how we raised !

[@swastirathod1458]

True

[@Sukoonologist]

Exactly, me too!

[@theonewhoasked10]

I feel you, man

[@yogitameera]

I can totally relate

[@emilyential8730]

True 😔😖😒

[@hashtagteen7941]

Every child deserves parents but every parent doesn't deserve kids. 💔

[@trgtheunreal2463]

🥺😭😭

[@lupitasaikia515]

Exactly😭❤

[@poonammehta1290]

Agree

[@shauryatyagi2840]

True

[@mayankwarude4383]

Exception: India 1 birth per 2 second 😢😓

[@itznikiswifeu]

Dear parents, Thanks for giving me food,shelter, beautiful things, education . I wish you could give me mental support too.....

[@momimahantadutta9340]

I just feel so guilty when I say I'm not mentally well. People have gone through worse conditions but they aren't depressed, so with everything I have, why do I still feel ungrateful? All they don't give me is mental support......

[@lifeinlight89]

It's all so confusing...!!!!

[@Yash-it9nq]

Indian parents: Stop playing sports, stop learning musical instruments, stop singing and dancing, stop drawing and writing, and asking questions. Focus on your studies and career. Also Indian parents: Why couldn't you be like that kid who got international recognition in sports, art, or scientific research?

[@bonusquotes8383]

Exactlyyy

[@diyabose8491]

Yaa

[@sahithayelamanchili2606]

😂😂

[@arzoosingh1597]

u know it is harsh to say but our parents are hypocrates my parents crushed my dream of dancing they believe dance is bad thing to do and now i am just studying alone in the room without interest u know i can't be successfull in life because i have no interest in studying mujhe to maths samjh hi nahi aati kya karu bas failures hi mil raha hai sab jagah se what to do

[@ramrajkumar4]

Indian Parents : We love you so much that we don't allow you to go outside all alone, as we are afraid that anything might happen or even lose you. Also Indian Parents : (Honor kills their child for intercaste Marriage)

[@shubhamnarole3447]

This should be broadcast on channels like Star plus , Star Utsav and zee TV before TV serial starts...I hope parents will get message.🙏

[@ajayram198]

wont happen.. Parents still want to see cringe on TV serials. btw sometimes I wonder with so many OTT Subscription channels like Amazon Prime Zee 5, etc etc would regular Setup Box, Cable TV get outdated?

[@shubhamnarole3447]

@@ajayram198 yes ik ajay..this types of videos are worth to watch...hope on someday everyone see this video's on TV also not only on KZbin.

[@Nirzar_R]

This should be broadcased on each and every indian soap drama channels instead of the new V! advertisement..

[@suha1995]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ajayram198]

@@shubhamnarole3447 true. And movies like Udaan, Karwaan are like Guiding light.. they portray Exactly how fked things are. And we kinda learn that "Friends are Family" 😀

[@Aankhein3631]

I might sound judgmental and bitter... but most of the people from 60s and 70s have failed at parenting...

[@dharanitha23]

I think there is a lot of truth to this unfortunately.

[@silly6135]

And they call us failed generation😢😊

[@charnjitsingh3365]

Coz they were busy gathering money for you and that's what they were taught

[@carrad123456]

60 and 70 s or 70 s and 80s

[@nancyfancy9825]

Nah that's true though. That's plain truth right there. That's why our parents are like this too

[@honeyboodreams6878]

The fact we can't even share this video to our parents ☹️ because they will be like "unhone bola aur tumne ye man bhi liya"

[@dishasarkar.haven.inkonhearts]

Yes

[@viraaj5546]

My mom also care ne but she can't understand my problem . She always compare to her childhood or my cousin...If I show her this vide then also my mom will doesn't understand pain of mine.... She scold so much I mean for the whole day non stop ...life of an indian kids is very tough

[@sarvajeeth.y6936]

@@viraaj5546 o o O cool bro chill we know that

[@dilipsaha4732]

@@viraaj5546 my mom does the same, and you know my main problem is with studies, I am very poor at math, I don't have any teacher to teach me, my mom says when I was like you everyone was jealous of me because I was always first in maths ,and you!!

[@viraaj5546]

@@dilipsaha4732 just trying to live my life happy

[@adityareddy3552]

I spoke about depression to my father he told that who are depressed are losers

[@adityareddy3552]

@Shhreyas Kairoli really??

[@adityareddy3552]

@Shhreyas Kairoli thanks man

[@akhilaakki7395]

@@adityareddy3552 well your father is right😂😂

[@walkingtalkingdread]

Akhila Akki looks like we have a real loser here....

[@akhilaakki7395]

@@walkingtalkingdread so many I guess😂

[@SuranyaDas]

No one apart from kids will watch this even after 3 years. We are taught to be brave but never been taught how to handle dejection, and failure. Dear parents, I really wish this pops up in your FB or yt feed someday, so that you know we really are not okay.

[@abhirati]

Ik their reaction will be "yeh generation hai he aisa....sab kuch galat lagta hai inhe"

[@arpitpgupta]

lol.. they are busy watching some random young girl on fb, or busy sending some good morning jsk messages. :D

[@needafarheen4189]

"Will you compare our Problems with your Childhood Struggle": Struck deep in ❤️

[@mgA757]

😭

[@manvithad.p5799]

😭

[@muffin3718]

Absolutely ! 😢

[@notsocommonriya]

Yes, why can't they understand that times are different......

[@draught_gamer_yt6509]

Ur times are different meaning u have ur own right and privacy in your own time no one is there to stop u,or nothing is there to stop you ur aim is to be a best competitor in education in your times,but in our time is different Games and social chat are virtual so we need technology and own right to grow our nation,I know older generation are experienced people but not a puzzel solver,u believe what people and society will say nor think ones it is good or not. ~Don't believe anything blindly first get your answer then react.

[@sweetkorn.]

How many of the people watching this almost cried or cried somewhat or went into a puddle of thoughts? This tells it all in itself... Edit after 2 years: my god, i wish i could hug each person in the replies... all i wanna say is that stay strong and find ways to deal with it cuz parents have a lot of pressure and expectations! They love you but they don't know parenting, most don't. That ruins many things for some children but hey... rely on endurance for the time being. Learn more about what you want to do in life. Adjust, plan and focus. Eventually you'll respectfully earn your way out as you grow up. Forgive your parents for those big and little things. Tough love 💕

[@840_fayazahammed7]

yeah mate :(( Idk why.. but I almost cried too

[@mjones1187]

me 😞😞

[@MinoosMiniWorld]

In tears right now

[@mgA757]

I cried!😭😭😭😭

[@chewinggum5550]

Am literally crying rn watching this video... came here after my dad told me these mobile phones and laptops will spoil my future after seeing my eyes red and not knowing they were red cuz I have common cold rn

[@hunny3565]

I learned how to burry my wishes when i was 10... i still crave everything people do to be happy, to enjoy their life..people say i grew stronger.. but let me remind you.. i was a kid.. i didn't needed to be stronger.. all i needed was to be loved.. ~traumatized teenager

[@nancyfancy9825]

Same

[@anjalijaiswal1339]

hey your comment stuck with me so i am writing this .. i also learned to bury my wishes when i was a child from then till now, as a kid i wanted to go to school picnics with my friends they never let me , now even if i am older and more mature they wont let me go anywhere with friends , i asked for permission every time they denied and being the obedient person i am i never went anywhere without their permission , this has happened so many times that the 2-3 friends i had , they have also stopped asking me to go anywhere ,they just go themselves while i watch their status; i crave for the ability to be happy unapologetically ,to love someone truly and to experience things people normally do , will i be ever able to do that i don't know but i hope people like me and you get the courage to make ourselves happy and content even if we have buried our wishes long long ago. plus: you write really well :)

[@yeehaw7486]

:@@anjalijaiswal1339 take caree girl..

[@shubhangishakya6921]

Just to let you know only kids are watching this video.

[@sdutta1111]

True story

[@arunvijayan8427]

Share

[@kgaurav35]

😂

[@kruttikawavade9588]

True. I wish I could send it to my mum but she'll say kya jatana chahti ho ki hum tumhari parvarish acche se nahi karte? Why do they take everything so personally???

[@inihos]

True!😢

[@evilanime8722]

we can't show this to our parents nor will they understand... But lets just all work hard so that we could give our coming generation all that we could not get

[@skatter]

this...

[@owenforuca3292]

Exactly yaar exactly

[@pranavkarthik6758]

Soo true....

[@trishadeb2558]

True

[@jelofishh]

Yeah

[@Piueditsss]

It hit hard "meri asli ladai to meri bahar ki duniya se honi chahiye" 💔

[@samaira9055]

The fact that we cannot talk about this with our parents just breaks me

[@mrunalvora209]

Hey friend we can talk to each other if there is anything that is bothering you?

[@mrunalvora209]

Ve Ra Sha No thanks in friendship...

[@mrunalvora209]

@@samaira9055 Hey, deleted the comment... thought it was more sensible...thanks

[@mrunalvora209]

@@samaira9055 Guess learning is a two way street :)

[@mrunalvora209]

@@samaira9055 :)

[@venussharma8941]

The thing is sometimes they are giving free advice to other parents "talk with your children, it's important" but failed at their own home.

[@muthuchelvam6751]

The irony in that

[@luxuarytown3360]

that is so true

[@muffin3718]

Yes ! The biggest hypocrites.

[@aena5995]

This 😥

[@AnasKhan-qb1tn]

My mom: give your child time and space to mature and improve Also her when I say no: You dare oppose me mortal

[@nandinipriyadarshinijana7032]

I still remember when in a heated argument I told my parents that I had depression, and then they said that I have clothes, money etc etc. Then why will I have depression? Since then never talked with them about my mental health. I have a lot of mental health issues, with depression, deja vu and suicidal thoughts being the main. Thankfully I have got super supportive friends and BTS with me who never let me suffer alone :(

[@nandinipriyadarshinijana7032]

@momo_chatni I'm sorry for you

[@pakiyammuruganandham3631]

I'm not having friends but bts with me💜 it's like a driving force for me

[@Heyyyyyyyyy100]

Same happened with me but thanks to BTS 💜 now I'm safe

[@agnostic...4636]

​@@Heyyyyyyyyy100You mean music right?

[@MansiSharma-t9l]

You are so true... When I told my mother about my mental health she said “what depression you have.. You get what you want you have money, phone, cloth and still you have depression ” Since then I started to talk limited to them... They have been abusing me with their words that feel like a deep cut on my heart.. My mother.. She has no time to talk to me but still loves to talk to her husband who had been cheating on her since 8 years and she knows that... They always compare me to other children despite the fact that I'm a good student.. My every teacher praises me but still my mother never had a good word for me I'm 19 but now I crave for a happily married life and my children I have decided that I'll study hard and get a nice job and I'll run from here forever

[@abhiruchisaxena8117]

Sad part is this video will only be watched by people who desperately want their parents to understand this. And it will just make them cry for a bit and that's all maybe. But yeah someone staring in the screen might think thank god I am not alone ❤️and that's awesome. But I seriously hope we try to send this to our parents.

[@SUBSINMONTH-ed3qw]

This is so true

[@Blacksheeped0001]

We can only try lol Let's be honest, none of us showed it to our parents

[@shreyamishra534]

This is true. This vdo only made me cry and gave me a hope that maybe accidently it will pop up to my parent's phone and they'll see it😂

[@lonewolf2193]

@@Blacksheeped0001 marna h kya bhai

[@Blacksheeped0001]

@@lonewolf2193 wohi toh XD

[@AksBoutique]

I felt that when she said, “Your cousin sister is better than you”.

[@ajayram198]

same feelings here. I continously get belittled and compared with my bua's son. Indian Parents irrespective of caste/ class, think alike :!( ~|

[@strangestranger8532]

....nd somebody else is better than your cousin sister, this might be said by her parents too... So what does it means that your cousin is better or worst... The answer lies is in eyes of parents, remember that quote a man on cycle desires to have motorbike while man on motorbike want to have car , but the best person is the one who says "o thanks god atleast i have legs so i can move"

[@confusednsutian7100]

@@strangestranger8532 same. Infact this almost ruined my perfectly good career.

[@strangestranger8532]

@@confusednsutian7100 who ruined ur career ? Don't say parents

[@shabeehahmed376]

I got into a govt med collge, but my cousin is in AIIMS, she is preparing well for PG entrance, I can't keep up, and everybody be like look at her and study like her...

[@armywonderland8648]

I feel bad when my parents say that we have given you everything you want but still you are not showing any good results. What results! What you have given me? The things I didn't required were given to me. The only thing I want is freedom to do what I love and not pressure of studying I know studies are important but I am trying hard to excel in it. I am trying my best in it and even if I do good in it they don't care but if I get bad marks they will be the first one to speak up.But have you genuinely asked me what I want to do ? I am sorry if I have written something wrong in this but this is how my life is going on these days. I am just a teenager. After writing this maybe I feel better.

[@diyasingh6606]

You haven’t written anything wrong, I feel you

[@mantisbrains]

Youre right , I felt the same

[@sneha-mg9rm]

I felt you❤️

[@sakshi1686]

i felt u

[@TheAditya-zt9pb]

Mai samjh sakta hu aapko

[@visca_el_barca_2018]

'We give everything to you, then also why your marks are so bad' -famous quotes

[@manibhardwaj4426]

Unke genes kharaab h to isme hum kya kr skte intelligence is hereditary

[@davidarmitage22]

Yes

[@aaryavyawahare1737]

Kya kami reh gayi thi hamare pyaar mein

[@equal7958]

9th Standard mein hai, padh le, youtube na use kar, nahi hogi dikkat, kahi problem ho samjhane mein, toh sidhi Tarah se reply kariyo, I'll try my best to explain you parents point of view, and career browsing :)

[@muzammilh5298]

@@equal7958 But parents also need to understand child's point of view. Till when we'll be compared with 90s generation or with our cousins...

[@yashvantkumar5972]

My parents think I am mad I have a disturbed mind cause I don't behave in the way they do. I start crying out of nowhere and howl and laugh without any reason. I am all alone in this world and I do talk to people that I created by my mind. I helps in releaseing all my traped emotions all in a burst

[@aafiya987]

Same here bro 💔😞😭 Literally depressed but what can we do....?

[@devanshvajpeyee8440]

Brooooo!! Don't worry AT ALL!! We should pull ourselves together and just be happy!! Ik it's hard, but still worth a try! Just get away from your parents or leave the room whenever they talk shit to you..... Cuz I have the same situation for 2 years and I'm still fighting.... Good luck! ❤️

[@MiaMantri]

My parents and family made me think I'm mad and I ended up having a nervous breakdown. I'm an autistic transwoman and they don't understand. It makes sense that our mental health suffers as a result of receiving all these false messages about ourselves. It might make us feel less alone if we connect and talk to each other more. Anyone who wants to talk to me is welcome to message me on facebook. Take care everyone.

[@shwetachauhan9840]

Bro you're not alone...even I do that

[@jhumadas7179]

You're not alone. I;m depressed as hell. They have trapped me for an year in my own house. Its been 1.5 year and they wont allow me to meet my friends or invite any friends to my house. They just want me to get married to any random guy. And constantly rant about how good other kids are and how lucky other parents are. They dont even let me study and crack the exam. All I hope is to die. All I imagine is killing myself. I dont know how I am controlling myself right now.

[@niti5631]

"Often at 3 AM , a strange thought keeps me awake" ...this line almost brought me tears! Insomnia due to depression and overthinking has become an unconditional, unspoken epidemic that our generation is left to deal with..

[@fashionglobally.2075]

I am going through this right now 😭😭😭

[@yout1556]

same. I've trained myself to understand and accept the fact that NO ONE CARES. and that I'll be valued only if i can make money.

[@10thclassboards33]

Indian parents: our child is strong and determined to goal Child's pillow: (shouting)No it's not the truth

[@davidarmitage22]

Yee

[@jungkookk97]

Yes.... I'm done

[@sohamshinde1258]

I have peronsally been the topper at my school and felt this to the max at that time .

[@exploringsides]

Yes....

[@enugusrivarsha3754]

My pillow is the only one who know the real me

[@divishamanek5107]

Parents think they know us cause they are "parents" but they are the reason of our bad mental health

[@gurcheetsingh1675]

True

[@pi_04]

I miss being a child, when I could cry in front of my Parents....

[@lupitasaikia515]

Same

[@dipjalosmos7110]

When i was a child my goddamn family can't tolerate my crying. Those were the most horrible times. Threatened by mother and sister

[@vivekhvp1546]

I am 14 and in this age also 🥺 no happiness every time my parents compare with other one they study better than me they look better and they say I am useless I am a big zero I am putting this comment while 😭crying no one talks with me but the only relief is my school have many friends play a lot talk a lot love school but when I came to house depression again I feel very alone every time i always taking phone and sitting in a room I wish I wouldn't born in the world how good it be but I started too study and hardworking for better future without depending anyone I won't give up they are also getting old don't forget mom and dad....

[@yout1556]

naah...that time also i was beaten for crying. I've stopped talking much ever since.

[@nancyfancy9825]

​@@vivekhvp1546I agree

[@sakshiag0506]

I'm relieved to know that I'm not the only one... Don't worry guys, we're gonna get through it ❤️

[@syedashiquehussain5908]

Yeah we will definitely 💗

[@prachibhoj4078]

🥺 when?

[@trishadeb2558]

We will 🙂

[@kargo1843]

This video makes me soo sad.. I came here after searching how to legally separate from your parents... I just can't with my mom... She always physically, mentally and verbally abuses me.. She always calls me a slut and say that she wishes that I would get rapped by 10 men and they will tear me apart.. I mean that's her what she wants for me.. She has always slut shamed me, that's why I never talked to any boys in my school cuz I thought what if this guy calls me for some work and my mother caught me talking to him, she would literally beat hell out of me.. My father does nothing.. . I have no friends who I can share what I go through everyday.. She also say that I am a burden for her and everything happens because of me.. I am preparing for jee 2021 and my exam is in 2 weeks and I have to go through this everday of my life.. I wish to get a good college so I can be away from home as much as possible... Also I wish no one ever gets a mother like mine..

[@augustwintermoon]

@@kargo1843 Hey human I'll pray a very safe and secured environment for you... I can feel this coz I've this same situation and my dad says nothing and IT IS SO FRUSTRATING anyways I hope you leave your shitty family soon. More power to you🌻💛🌟

[@simrangupta8941]

Honestly seeing this bring me in tears. People say that daughters are loved by their father the most and a father can never bring tears in her eyes. Whereas in my case my father is only one who always brings tears in my eyes. Ps : I really want to share this with someone but i can't. Writing this make me a little less burdened.

[@Pooja-lu1qh]

Same here.. I even stopped talking to them.. I don't even feel like to see their face.. It's impossible to change them... I hope everything will be fine one fine day

[@Pooja-lu1qh]

@@sheena221 I can understand you.. Our happiness is in our hand.. You are doing great in your life that's important.. Who are facing these kind of problems only they can understand that.. Not every parent is good.. Because of ego, society, etc etc they will ruin their own children's life.. I want to marry the person I love but my family is so into all stupid society that they are not even caring about my happiness.. I have decided to do what I want to.. You are already an independent women .. ✌🏻

[@derashines4978]

Same here

[@Pooja-lu1qh]

@Yashwant Sharma thank you bhai.. Jiske upar guzarta hai wahi samajhta hai

[@iamrohitroy]

Try to journal your emotions. But don't write a script. Write in points.....once written....burn the paper and affirm "I let go all of this from my life now". Try doing it every Monday, Tuesday or whichever is your favourite or used to be a favourite day and repeat every week. Once, you've burnt the paper, start writing afresh till you reach the next burning day. Read all the points (your emotions may react to the reading) but then burn them while you affirm and imagine them going away. May seem like a task.....but do it for your own self. The best thing of being selfish is taking care of oneself amidst people who are hell bent and adamant to hurt you intentionally or unintentionally. All the best!!!

[@sidharth-mx2lf]

This too shall pass😢, have been going through depression and anxiety more than a year,when i confessed this to my father he said "you are shedding crocodile tears" & he said jaa mrna hai toh mar nah😢😢

[@user-dp3iy2ch4p]

I’m only 19 lol but I so wanna be a parent only to give my kid all the love attention and understanding that I never had

[@josephstalin4385]

Google my name you'll see how bad parenting turned me into an evil dictator.

[@ananyavaishnav3322]

i totally feel you... That is what i always keep thinking when i have hard times with my parents

[@mehar4351]

Same I am 18 abhi 🙌

[@noproblem9220]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@prithamukherjee5008]

I'm 21. And I legit think the same.

[@shilpaabhiram829]

My parents always play victim, in the reality they'll be the one hurting and demoralising me. As a result I started sleeping more due to stress for which also they started adding insult to the wound. It affected my study plans, future plans everything which added more stress to me.And they still keep doing the same demoralising talks

[@sameerskulkarniicse6162]

But remember your parents intentions are never bad The case maybe that your parents have a wrong way of showing their intentions All they want is a good life for you Try to come in an agreement with them Things will sort out 👍

[@randomhuman8825]

Society reputation is more important for them than child's hard work. I remember I studied hard for my maths exam in half yearly but got only 7 marks more than passing marks. The way they compared me to my cousin without understanding my problems in studying maths as if my life is dependent on those marks. I literally cried a lot.

[@Vasukut]

Exactly the same thing happens with me every single day so don't worry.

[@shrustiswain3268]

And then "sleeping like a donkey, ruining your future, useless etc." ....happens with me too

[@ryjn2024]

@@sameerskulkarniicse6162 couldn't care less about intentions, what is the use of your good intentions when your child is in depression or sucidal

[@unicuskalaa]

More than the video, the comment section shows the mental health issues this generation is facing. And not only mental health issues but the effects of generation gap rooting day by day in our society.

[@lassyyaa]

I wish I could show this to my parents.......without getting scolded

[@priyanshisingh162]

Kyuu tmhre parents kyu daatenge tmko.......tm jaao na apni mummy ke paas galee lgaa lo unko orr roo loo jee bhaar ke......bata doo unkoo jo bhi maann mei ho......kah do ki bhouutt dukhi ho tm......tmhre parents pathhar dil ke hain kya jo tmhri aisi halat dekh kr bhi tmko datengee☹️

[@aafiya987]

@@priyanshisingh162 may be yes because wo too khte h tum mere ko daily tourcher kr rhi ho just because mai ko wo bilkul nii psnd jo wo bolte h krne ko and ite years se unhe follow kr rhi Ab nii hota to unke nzr mai badtameez ho gye aur jb khti hun duniya ko dekhye aisi nii h kuch to smjhye mere friends k parents bilkul v aise ni h mummy to wo khti h k tumne saare khrb dost bna rkhe h cousin ko dekho uske jaise unke friends v kitne ache h aur ek tum ho too maine kha exchange kr le too khti h kr leti krne ki chiz hoti too kya kru literally I don't know bs dil krta kash kisi trh is duniya se skip hoke ache duniya milti jha koi judge nhi krta kaash but anyways chodo aap...

[@priyanshisingh162]

@@aafiya987 it's okay.....sb thk hojayega........ye time bhi guzar jayega ♥

[@ddgupta3008]

True

[@aafiya987]

@@priyanshisingh162 Thanks frnd ❤❤ I hope...soon ...

[@tuliipbiswas]

If I say this to my parents they might immediately get me married n take away the lil bit of freedom I have left with me right now. ;-;

[@mysticsoul8809]

Sad lyf sis;(

[@devikashribhadri6687]

Exactly!

[@BeanOnTheFlipside]

Noo 😭

[@aswathymb9003]

How accurate 🙂

[@Nikolazyko]

Can't you just scream NO...... IMMEDIATELY GET ME MARRIED 😑 HOW ? By making you sniff morphine....??

[@sarahscreativityhub9954]

I showed this video to my father and in the middle of watching it, he pushed away the phone and said "Will these kids teach me parenting?" 🙂 I'm shocked to see so many people like me in the comments are facing the same thing. I've been going through emotional abuse by my parents since childhood and it has only increased since my teenage. Most brown parents are toxic, no doubt we've all grew up from childhood trauma. May we heal and not pass it on the next generation.

[@equal7958]

The reality is, there's hardly differences between parents of different nations. It's just shown that India bad, Indian parents know nothing, this and that. It's not like that. Also, why are you buying what are this influencers saying, if your aim ain't being influencer.

[@anuelango4071]

You sound mature. So please don't generalize all brown parents. And, perhaps, by showing this video to your dad, you could've hurt his ego. Let's understand that parenting skills is a trigger topic for most, if not all parents of teenagers. Because teenagers are not the only ones who are struggling with their responsibilities, feelings and countess decisions to be made that could drastically change the course of their future. The parents too are struggling with the transition from parenting a kid to parenting a young adult. Anyways, I hope you will not give up on trying to communicate with your dad because of this incident.

[@arshvikaa]

I feel that

[@arshvikaa]

My parents don’t mentally abuse me or anything but sometimes my grandma or my dad or mom and sister say something that hurts me so much i start thinking bout suside

[@anniemoretz4007]

same just same i am sick and they hate me i have tried 12 times to commit suicide

[@gethteddy]

Guys, you are trying to change the unchangeable. All we can do is be better parents..

[@rajlaxmipathak2281]

true

[@brotherbear6434]

We forget that we guys are the future boomers

[@abdulrahamanshaik1123]

True

[@103rupaliavantikasahoo4]

@@brotherbear6434 the boomers ..those who are crushed way before realising the same

[@Karthik-kt24]

@@103rupaliavantikasahoo4 oooof

[@greenpath26]

As a parent to a 22 year old handsome young man, my message to all parents is that as a parent pls love your kids for what they are, not mould them into your expectations. They are a individual with their own feelings, own opinions, own unique strengths , and different challenges than yours. Embrace them for what they are and see the difference it makes in your relationship. They are not your “property” for you to show off to relatives or to be compared with any other individual. They are God’s unique gift to you and god doesn’t duplicate any of his creation so why compare??

[@davidarmitage22]

Wish parents could understand this 😓😓😓

[@kpoptato8yearsago617]

Wish parents could understand this.

[@davidarmitage22]

@@kpoptato8yearsago617 😿😿

[@lupitasaikia515]

Wish every parent could understand this! Thanks uncle!

[@davidarmitage22]

@@lupitasaikia515 Yes :(

[@divyaaaaa3]

Just to let my parents know:The pillow does know how many times I've cried

[@aayushivora8814]

I literally cried realizing how relatable this is

[@poojanayak8206]

Today I I abuse by my father and my mother also support him.... I just left the room as soon as possible.....that time I control myself to cry but when I see this vdo I cry very hard....good luck me

[@aayushivora8814]

@@poojanayak8206 I really hope you get out of this situation as soon as possible, you're so strong. Hope it gets better some day

[@poojanayak8206]

@@aayushivora8814 hope so!!! 😒

[@chakithaponnala9869]

@@poojanayak8206 same happened with me today yaar

[@studybuddy2471]

Even I cried too while watching this

[@tusharbhatia8332]

But our Indian parents will remain the same

[@bhatia.18]

Yes😒

[@jithinrangani866]

lol xd

[@gethteddy]

All we can do is be better parents

[@strangestranger8532]

Don't blame only Indian parents , if you don't know how parents in other countries are behaving with their children...

[@EASTERNSHARK]

@@strangestranger8532 we are just being specific when we say indian parents, We cannot stereotype parents of all countries.

[@aestheticbeauty12]

I am feeling very blessed that i have parents who understand my problems... I was recently depressed due to some issues... My family was there for me... Thank you bhagwan🙏 Hare krishna🌸

[@fashionglobally.2075]

You are the luckiest person in the whole world

[@fashionglobally.2075]

You are the luckiest person in the whole world

[@khushi9937]

Lucky ho bhaiya 🥺

[@MamtaAgrawal-gq3tm]

So lucky 🤧

[@rises_the_moon3012]

This made me cry soooooo bad 😭😭! I pray that this video reaches to literally every. Indian. parent. I have realized by now that mental health is one of the biggest jokes in our country. Parents use things like 'Mann nhi lag rha? Jao beta, thode der bahar ghum kar aao" (as if 'bahar ke log' are going to listen to my problems....as if the trees, the streets, the shops and animals are going to listen to my problems", then they say this classic thing while looking at your lil old pics, "Tab kitni acchi dikhti thi. Chehre pe humesha hasi, padhai karne ka mann. Aur abhi dekho kaise dukhi aur bor rehti hai, humesha kaam krna jaan pe aata hai" and they don't care to know what makes you sad. 😔😔😔 Really an excellent video 👏🏽👏🏽

[@nightisnotforever2791]

Yes and sometimes I fear would they ever be able to get it!?

[@PiedPiperInPrada]

It's extremely sad that 2020, global pandemic and economic crisis was needed to shift our focus on one of the most sensitive topic like "Depression". And it hurts even more to realize that parents, especially Asian or might I say Indian parents (barring a few) consider depression to be a phase and compare it with being sad. Irony is...many suffer in silence, very few fight it out on their own and triump, while the rest....are forced to take a drastic step, instead of given a helping hand when needed. P.S: Once again, beautiful video shared by Brut India. ❤

[@ajayram198]

thanks to Yotube, at least we are getting a channel to write/ share. That itself is reasuuring, and helps us become cheerful. Melodious music does the rest :)

[@sunitasaptel8072]

If you stretch your hand out, can we parents help :)

[@bhargavi1809]

All they this that depression happens to just to adults with financial problems lmao and teenage depression is fake.

[@monishvj5172]

not just depression , mental health in general. what makes me so sad is , if we really want to tackle mental health , the science is overshadowed by religious faiths like "stars , chakras " and all. don't know why parents have no problem believing faiths than actual science.

[@viraaj5546]

@@monishvj5172 yaa mom also say that maintain your chakra stars and all this.. I am feed up of these thingd

[@vinishabonagiri3052]

I thought I was only the one in a toxic family, but now I know iam not alone…. iam sure I will not be like my parents when I become a parent!

[@akashpatel7490]

yes my main problem is "OVERTHINKING" I want to get rid of this from last 8 month. To distract my overthinking i binge youtube.

[@sudhashukla3564]

Bro same here don't know how to get over it

[@akashpatel7490]

@shraddha I would say ignore gossips, now just be honest. Try to have some new friends.

[@shrutimishra0209]

This habit is making my life like hell.. kisi se keh bhi nahi skti I really want to stop this mind chatter..but don't understand how?

[@akashpatel7490]

@@shrutimishra0209 just try to keep yourself busy in what you like the most. And have conversation with one person whom you really trust.

[@healthyyou9397]

@@akashpatel7490 what if you do not trust anyone??????

[@saptarshipal6743]

And the fact is 90% viewers are not parents instead us and even if we want we will end up not sharing this video with them. Just felt the goosebumps and thought abt the parallel world and yep we are hit by the reality again.

[@pranavarora737]

Every Indian mother should hear this.

[@ishagupta9206]

If i die tom .will anyone care.this thought cross my mind daily

[@ishagupta9206]

Mrunal Vora thanks ..the lines are deep

[@greenpath26]

Your parents will care. They may not understand you but they love you... however, I totally agree that this video is much needed for Indian parents.

[@abhiruchisaxena8117]

Yes. A sure definite yes. Power to you ❤️

[@nandinighosh7338]

Even if you feel that way please take care! I know we don’t know each other but i believe in you! You are worth it and we can overcome this 💕

[@user-dp3iy2ch4p]

I care about you

[@ArpanRayTV]

The sad part is you can't even share it because of more scoldings from relatives or sympathy from friends😔

[@jenstatic]

I hope somehow this gets recommended to my parents cause I have no bit of courage to share this to them

[@lunarsubs6311]

SAME DUDE

[@calvinklein2648]

Unpe bas yehi aaega ki dusro ke bcho ne kaise top krliya 🙂..aisi achi chize thodi aaengi umpe

[@ishna2023]

Living with toxic parents, I am so scared to say all this, I can't even share it

[@rhythmofpooja]

Me too

[@FreshyAnime]

It will get better one day :) Same here

[@ishna2023]

@@FreshyAnime It did

[@FreshyAnime]

@@ishna2023 So glad to hear that 😁

[@rachasiddhu8562]

people who are forced to study the subjects which they never liked this will hit them very hardly man seriously engineering just ruined my life...

[@kritisrivastava9393]

Been there, done that.

[@void0686]

Im very sad that to study computer science we have to be good at PHYSICS CHEMISTRY MATHS 😢 pcb aren't even related to cs

[@pi_04]

I am in 11th and My subjects are PCM but I feel the same. I don't like them.... I feel that it is ruining my life and everything...

[@praneelsinha6211]

@@pi_04 yeah same 11th pcm, half yearly somehow passed 60%+, but term 2 syllabus is like 10 times harder, I will hardly pass this time 😔

[@akashjagtap5512]

@@void0686 well u are wrong. I am cs graduate and physics maths is all we do at work. Chemistry everyone should know. lol

[@barnikadas2753]

The fact that we are fighting battles silently My parents think that I don't have any ability to move forward in my life They don't know how they are affecting me

[@akhandelwal2000]

Isn't it amazing that we're the generation jo apne bachchon k saath woh kabhi nhi kregi jo hamare parents ne hamare saath kia ?! Ps - I'm glad we don't hold that thinking !!

[@davidarmitage22]

Yess

[@lupitasaikia515]

Yess!

[@plantedeyes]

if i send this to my mom, she be like "chappal kidhar hain meri. " ps, I am not trying to make fun of anyone's issues ..... but being a desi kid , I only make fun of my own mental health....that's the only way of skipping the pain for me

[@JyotiSharma-zr1tx]

Man i tried, she gone without saying a word...

[@mahathikarisha394]

True

[@plantedeyes]

@@JyotiSharma-zr1tx so sry to hear that mate

[@doxtor9745]

I psychiatry we call this as an ego defense mechanism called Humor,it's also an effective way of tackling Negative thoughts,other defense mechanism includes sublimation,ascertism,humor,altruism etc.

[@plantedeyes]

@@doxtor9745 informative

[@abhilipsamahapatra4054]

I am a child and i literally couldn't stop my tears in the last few seconds...

[@shrutimishra0209]

I thought I'm the only person like this 😢😢😢 Everyone is happy outside. But there are many.

[@sarojchaudhary4745]

We are Mentally Drowning, We need To fly again. We are meant to be the Explorer of our destiny.

[@davidarmitage22]

Yes

[@Charmspreader__]

I wish our parents could really understand this, we all don't even have courage to show them to our own parents who brought us to this world, we don't have courage to share our emotions with them. 🙂

[@meharshaba3460]

Sad is that- I can’t even share with them.. After seeing this heart warming video their reaction still be like Ab ye sikhayenge ki hme kaise rhna hai Itne bde ho Gaye Jo smjhane chale aaye

[@davidarmitage22]

Exactly....it's very sad

[@sheetalmishra7549]

I should not say this but you can share with iff you want

[@disharajput6412]

We can't say this things to our parents because they are never going to understand this, at any cost... But I am glad and I can guarantee that our next generation would not need any video to communicate with us... We'll understand it as we have been through it :)

[@palakmakhare4055]

Don't ask me how much I've cried watching this

[@preet7720]

U ok now?

[@RYZEN5PLAYER]

😭😭

[@enjoy7869]

When I listen that someone is better than me .I just Say "Bhad me jaaye"

[@saleehasiddiqui3367]

I was sad reading the comments but this made me laugh 😂

[@SM-tz3nv]

Sometimes they say you haven't seen anything in life to be this upset ... Even when they were facing depression themselves

[@shreyasingh8454]

Trust me I am graduated, failed an exam even though passed all of my semesters in great way. But it’s just not parents , it’s the relatives the known people who are telling my parents that your daughter is nothing … their friend daughter have done something… AND THE conversation begins ,comparison , naak katwa di etc etc.. Although those relative child faced failure at same point but just being a girl and especially single girl .. Failure always means that I am weak..

[@unknownproplayer5889]

AGAR YEH BOL DIYA NA MAINE TO CHATEN CHAPPAL HI PADENGE

[@aaham_asmi]

Hey man we can talk to each other if there is anything that is bothering you?

[@aaham_asmi]

@divyam verma if he/she feels like if they talk about there mental health with there parents and it won't sit well with them then I believe everyone should have an outlet where they can talk no?

[@unknownproplayer5889]

@@aaham_asmi na sister I am fine

[@RD-gt3ts]

@@aaham_asmi just talking is not sufficient in my opnion like old times people need to play small games like ludo , carrom enjoy the time spend be it in phone any form of social activity is a relief and solution in itself

[@aaham_asmi]

@@RD-gt3ts I agree but we start where we can?

[@yashvantkumar5972]

i cried out when she said 'if i die tomorrow then who cares'

[@davidarmitage22]

😪

[@anjalitilak3120]

I m a parent whose son is suffering from mental illness. Trying to understand him and his illness. We both are supporting him. It's difficult to digest yet but trying my level best to understand.

[@FANTASTICGAMING2627]

How many of you sometimes thinks that your parents only supports your sibling? Sadly but I feels this sometimes 😢

[@shivamsinha5571]

I got tears in my eyes. I literally lived into depression bcoz of failure(25%) + Family (75%) My morale were brought deep down inside the earth,now I have started to rise,but time has lost too much.

[@KingJungkook]

Same situation here. But no matter what, since we have to the capability to get up and rise, I am sure that we also have power to make up for the lost time. Don't give up no matter how much abuse you bear. Always remember that the destination point of your aim will do all the talking and replying to them on your behalf. Till then, stay consistent and starve out all the abuses and distractions.

[@rhythmofpooja]

Same here

[@miuiee8096]

I will never be able to say that to my mom she always backfires whenever I tell her about my problems.. whoever wrote this script... Hats off to you

[@phlegmsmoothie]

Happy to know that this generation will become parents and correct these mistakes.

[@nolimits7495]

Oh so we are not important? We don’t deserve to heal ourselves first? What about us? If we are not healed then most of them will repeat the toxic cycle. This is the truth and some of us never want to become parents because we are already too broken. You’re completely neglecting us. If we are depressed in teenage or early 20s then we should forget about ourselves and focus on next generation? What a crap! You can’t pour from an empty cup.

[@phlegmsmoothie]

@@nolimits7495 No you don't deserve to be healed. You should be forced to have kids.

[@mohitdaheriya8712]

Parents have always this notion that we born and brought you so its your duty to respect and comply. Personally,my opinion is that Common Indian Parents are most hipocritical people on earth, they mostly watch all reality shows,movies,lovestories,political news, sports but they will never want their kid to love married, become actors,join politics or sports.Even they are hipocritical in religous beliefs too, for example they want their kid to be like Lord Krishna in childhood,Lord Ram in teenage and Lord Shiva in married life, they can't even follow life of one diety for whole life , because every diety had their life's pros and cons but Indian parents want their kid to be perfect. They don't know how much damage they do , when they force their kids and also don't support when needed.

[@jainamshah1474]

My fellow generation, after watching all the negative comments that we can't talk to our parents about this, one thing to share. Be happy that, atleast you won't be like this; so this means your future kids will be happy that you were there. You'll be there and you'll understand them! right? Don't end up being the same parents then !! :')

[@inx-xskull3321]

"The lack of support " this hurts a lottt 😭😭😭😭😭

[@medstudent468]

I cried watching this because my parents will only think depression is a real then after i die

[@deepannitasamaddar9507]

I think our parents are also suffering, but they have been taught to ignore the suffering and traumas and they have learnt to live with it and now they are expecting us to do the same.The thing that I have learned for my experience is that our parents don't consider our problems to be problematic because according to them we are living the life they ones dreamt of. There is a line in the book "think like a monk " -'you cannot be what you can't see'. Our parents don't understand our problems because they think that they have given us everything that ones they wanted but they couldn't have it so we must be very happy to have what they didn't have, because of this mentality they totally ignore or may be don't realize our level of suffering. I think parents are not the only ones who need to talk to us but we also need to talk to them about their struggles because the suffering and traumas they are carrying in their heart has become they reason of our suffering.

[@pi_04]

Yes. This is probably another side of the coin.

[@studyhard7539]

dude I asked my father about his childhood ..in conclusion I understood outsiders were only people from whom they got criticised not from parents....and most importantly I understood they don't think as we think .I mean we get it emotional but they didn't..its not like I am saying we are emotionally weak but I am saying our parent's generation nature was like that and so we are different from them that they can't understand us. But dont u think these tv shows and movies are making parents toxic.I mean in India don't know about countries.

[@Harry_2003]

@@studyhard7539 sach mein hamre parents kaa nature humse Boht alag hai ...hamri soch alag hai.... Tv shows nahi but yeh yt vlogs ne beh unko ghumraha kar rakha .....log Ghar kaa kaam , khet kaa Kam and gharelu kaam kaa vlog banate phir humse unka comparison hota roz 😢

[@SpunkyGuy]

Parents be like-- Ghntaa....😉😂😂

[@anonqwerty7845]

Made me laugh

[@kavishap6136]

Thanks for making me smile

[@davidarmitage22]

😂😂

[@singhji439]

🤣

[@financialservicesloans7353]

If every Indian parents could understand Mental health it would be 8th wonder

[@Anchal187]

"I always talk to the mirror " - (A depressed kid since 2020 )

[@0fun1]

This is so relatable. I remember when I got my first job in Gurgaon and my home was in Delhi, I used to stay alone late at night in a hotel & take the last metro back home just to make them realise that travelling alone at night would be risky for me so they could let me stay in a rented house in Gurgaon itself. All this to just have a little freedom I never would’ve otherwise experienced. I love them so so much and wish I could live with them, but the fact that I have to stand up for myself and my career made me push myself away from them.

[@gumseedpudding4235]

Did they later allow you to live alone? In rented house

[@0fun1]

not for long, I later left for New Zealand to pursue higher education.

[@utkarsh_108]

@@0fun1 Did you fund the education by yourself/? How did you arrange funds

[@lupitasaikia515]

Thanks for sharing himani ji

[@pragatisonavane8759]

I wish I had much confidence to tell this all to my parents. My mom doesn't understand me and my dad isn't interested in me. I only have a friends whom I talk with regarding all of my problems. My parents read my chats and then tell me that I am humiliating them. What shld I do then. I cannot afford to bottle up my feelings. Due to petty misunderstandings, I get beaten, get bleed and get get humiliated by my own parents. I hear them telling how ungrateful I am just cuz Im living on their money. I really wanna end my life. I don't want to live in this pain.

[@raunak840]

Can we be friends?

[@davidarmitage22]

@@raunak840 Can we be friends 😪💕

[@inikki.tomar1]

May be we will be the last generation to suffer this pain and toxic behaviour by their parents.

[@jeetk5663]

Many parents are like ," hum to bahot sukhi h na , Hume rokar dikha Dia !! I have heard it many times but now I have developed mental fortitude ! So things are going well now !

[@Miniflower25]

1:26 soo true..comparing our struggles with their childhood pains nd present struggels...😏 my mom- whenever she feel stress she will shout on me to be silent quiet untill her pain normalise,,Here hypocrisy is😆 She will say all her pains, from her childhood to marriage , again nd again repeatedly ,if I ask her to stop nd keep quite as I am already feeling stress with my life, she answers- u r a in young age , y do u get stress anxiety at this point , we used to work till nit at ur age, Young children should be strong... Now what I don't understand is...Is stress, Tenstion- age related...😅

[@ramnathbhandarkar7162]

But the thing is their generation is completely different, we're not living in the 90's, so they can't understand what we are going through, I'm glad that the people from future generation can understand coz their parents have suffered and can talk to them without any hesitation, I'm so pissed off right now coz they are not allowing me to take my own decisions regarding my future, I have a lot of dreams and I want to achieve it, I can't even concentrate on anything thinking about my future...btw I've never talked about my mental health to my parents and I can't tell sadly

[@daiyanmuntazim1954]

I told my father about mental health condition and he thought it of joke and mocks and laughs about it. He doesn't care about anything rather than himself. I wish my father had understood and cared for me

[@Itsme-vw6nm]

My parents literally pulled me out of depression when I was 17 and at that time I didn't even know what I was going through but I was sharing everything with them crying ,shouting whatever I just told them every thing &they understood my situation better than me ,now I am 23 much stronger than I was before becoz of my parents, but my brother who is 20 , he never disscuss what's going in his life with mom,always busy on phone , whenever she ask anything he always kindaa ignore,he went through breakup few months ago, mom completely supported him but he thinks it's parents responsibility to take care of child but what about child's part, parents also need emotional support sometimes, how hard they try to be like a friend so that they can understand what we are going through for us so many friends r there (according to us), but for them we r evrything,I think on our part we should discuss our life with them be it realtionships,moodswings anything after all they are our parents and they deserve to know about what going in our life , this is personal view based on my experience, I know all parents are not same

[@priyanshisingh162]

Yeah sometimes I just feel that such videos are negatively portraying Indian parents..........this depression thing is completely new for most of the parents but still they can understand if we want to make them.........no one else in this world can love us more then our parents..........orr iss duniya m parents hi aise hote hain jinko agrr tm galat proof krke life m aachaa kroo toh wo bhouutt jadah khush honge....tmse bhi jadah

[@sumanya_]

I understand u but there are parents who don't even try to talk to u like even if I tell my parents about depression they'll just say that I'm overreacting and take away the phone

[@avishsingh8884]

This was a beautiful point of view. Thank you very much for sharing! ❤️

[@sonamamarghade6776]

@@priyanshisingh162 I did the the same talking shouting crying aur meri mummy ko lagta h ki ab me 'batameez aur alsi ho gyi hu' aur kuch nhi h

[@suryanshtiwari7358]

@@priyanshisingh162 Dekho duniya mein har koi ek jaisa nahi hota..Agar kisi ko loving and supporting parents mil gaye toh iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki baaki sabke maa baap bhi waise hi ho…

[@weirdwormie5986]

Indian parents after seeing this: chalo jao aur padho chalo niklo👍

[@SN-sw2dn]

Most of you are talking about being 19/20 i am 28 and nothing has changed. Nothing will change. The best we can do is shift our focus and response. There is something called grey rock method please see how many of you can implement that. It has been helping me the last few weeks. Preserving energy is very important. We have lives too. If any of you have pets don't use them for comfort. Deal with the emotions and find something to do. I'm sure you'll pull through. Practice reiki, yoga. It took me a long time to realise all of this. I'm still struggling. My mother knows only how to scream. My father is afraid of everything. They think if i go out I'll come back drunk so they never let me go out during the day also. Nowadays i just go that's different. But all of these experiences have drained me out i don't care anymore. I don't wear make up. If i order food also they'll say i am selfish this that. Or they'll judge me for that. They judge me for spending money They judge me for the clothes I wear. If I'm in a good mood,oh we are scared of you it's hard to predict when you'll be happy and when you'll throw things . Could be true but it hurts to say and hear that. Depression is hard. Emotional abuse is hard. Whether you're a man or a woman, it's okay to cry but be strong. Please don't give up. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Girls, i know it's hard for us . We want to go out, maybe catch a movie, maybe meet boys, maybe even travel. I remember every single trip of mine my parents ruined. They called up the hotels they video called me 1000 times to know who I'm with where I am. They threatened me with colleague and manager names saying they'll call them. I wouldn't tell them about the trips. My fault .but still. My mom had literally told me she cares about my sister's safety more than mine so i don't think it's about safety its more about me not going out of control or having fun. My sisters are always quiet so that doesn't help. So i know it's hard girls. Fight ! Fight till you bleed! What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Please also remember, Marriage is your choice. Hold on tightly. They will end up getting you married to someone like them. Listen to them only when it's necessary but be kind. I am sending all of you lots of love energy and strength. It brought me to tears to see how many people are going through the same thing. It's horrible..but we have each other and we have this space to open up. Instead of trying to change them we can hold hands and talk to each other. If you're feeling low just remember you're allowed to feel that way. Give yourself a hug and watch a funny movie. Listen to a podcast. Go for a walk. Enjoy your tiny moments that you have the freedom to do. Also remember many don't have food to eat! So give them some food! Let's Be grateful for whatever little we actually can do! All is well , darlings! Let's keep the comments section active. Thank you for reading. Christmas and New Year wishes to all of you. 2022 will be better, I promise☺️

[@SN-sw2dn]

@Twinflame guidance 7777 ♥️

[@An...51]

❤

[@charuagrawal93]

I spoke to my mom about depression and she said ye depression ka toh aajkal fashion ho gaya hai.

[@davidarmitage22]

Oh that's sad :(

[@equal7958]

I'd say, what she's saying is true. I used to think I'm depressed, but when I realized that depression ain't real problem for people like me, who can change a lot by quitting social media, it vanished in 2-3 days.

[@strangestranger8532]

I can understand.. My advice to my frnds in comments is that """ have patience ne keep your deeds clean, God isn't injustice, when you will have everything u want, you'll be much more thankful than sadness right now... Believe in the process of life ~Dino James There are 2 type of people, 1. Children bad , family good 2. Children good , family bad I will not share this video with my frnds who are already taking advantage of their good parents..

[@adityareddy3552]

Also 3d parent good family and children

[@HoneyMaharshi]

I'm surely not going to say that I don't have Hypocrite Parents but after every night every good sleep I have moved forward for better and tried every possible Things that I can do for me & myself and for my happiness...

[@ShahidKhan-ks5ps]

I was also going through all this last year coz after completing 12th there was so much confusion and stress of career , pain of loosing friends as they were far away from me then this corona .I was suffering from stress , anxiety, mood swings and I used to get super angry on even silly things and sometimes bad mouthed my father and hurt him and in August 2020 when l watched this video for the first time l was crying like hell for hours and couldn't even help it and now I am again watching it with no cry . My condition is much better than then. Idk how but yeahh I am happy . My parents are the best. 😍 BTW this is my father's account I m a teenage girl ❣️ This is my first comment on you tube , thanks for reading.

[@titussimon2937]

With everything going on over the internet, never ever thought I'd say this, but people on the internet understand better and sometimes they're a safer space than our "most comfortable" environment, our home.

[@riyasalian577]

All we ever needed was someone who understood us. If we find that person in our partner, our parents have a problem but they themselves don't have the time to listen to us

[@bhuumikaaa]

My parents never understand this 😭 becoz I am too small for this things for them 🙂'Depression'word for them is like kam he ky krte ho jo depressed ho gye!!

[@gyaaniguys6183]

Today but not Today infact everyday I felt very weak without u (parents). Feel alone having parents instead of it feels alone. Today i search specially for videos like this " how to live life without parents support" and I got this video full of my feelings. Very golden words from heart ❤😢.i don't know why parents always aspect to us why they never think what we want😔

[@the_headachetaker1103]

The things parents say hurts our feelings and they are even realising it ?? The one thing I always hear from my dad is" Are you studying ?;" " His ABC daughter got this much mark,he did this,he did that "; "What are you doing now "- My only answer to this question is I'm studying now ,even when I'm not,just to please him . And now I can't even share any of my problems openly because I have grown conserved keeping my problems to myself don't wanna share and saying it yay everything fine . I have regular headaches, cramping in legs, overthinking , Insomnia I don't even know I can say all these to my parents or not. What I fear most is their reaction after hearing, will they support me or keep blaming me that I'm not capable of ...! What I'm now thirsting to hear is that " Its okay " , " we believe in you, you can do it " they don't how impactful these words can be . But What is the use they only care what society says and not what we feel ...

[@deepanshisirohi6561]

Baat ye h ke parents suna he nahi chate vo bss apne chalna chate h🥺