Bryce Dallas Howard: How to Preserve Your Private Life in the Age of Social Media | TED

[@ChristianPodcast]

"The world is now one big small town" that resonates so much

[@deanriley5690]

Deleted Facebook many years ago, I have no reason to put my life on social media. I love my life and that's all that matters.

[@citrusfirefly]

Bryce is an amazing actress! I loved watching her in 'Black Mirror.' I can't believe I didn't discover this video up until now. She is so inspiring and intelligent.

[@KillerTacos54]

Bryce Dallas Howard is so awesome

[@Jbech444]

Great story telling, insight and food for thought while raising a teen myself with very limited social media. What gets me, actually crosses boundaries, when others choose to post photos without permission on social media. Wish they would ask permission before posting (rather than me reminding them not to) in addition to following the 48 hour rule. Great advice!

[@misskmcp]

Balance between your private life and your public life. And well, I really, really love this speach, so much needed. I find myself between delete my social media and keep it because I am a really private person and bothers me people thinking that you have to post every single piece of your life and I disagree. What I like most about social media is the possiblity to see the world through different eyes and culture and people, and also the memes lol. Well, you have to be balanced and careful people....

[@clarissawilson3382]

You have to be balanced and careful. It cannot confuse you when people would rather withdraw.

[@kyhxx]

. nod- 6/6/2022 ^

[@driftingdruid]

true dat, though I fear it might be too late for me and many others: anyone can pay a data broker for everything they got saved from you now

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@driftingdruid yeah I figured.

[@AtotheZness]

She’s one of the good ones. Great speech!

[@claudiaorta1730]

Beautiful. Extraordinary talk. Thanks Bryce. I am learning about privacy and quitting social media. I hope I can speak English as well as you. Thanks for sharing. Greetings from Mexico.

[@madelineshumaker6997]

Your English is fantastic! I am learning Spanish :)

[@greatnessismagnificent]

Pure Greatness

[@AmaSharapova]

Great talk! I'm really struggling with this right now. Feels like I need to share everything with the world, but I have no clue why.

[@drankenstein5241]

I am the opposite I have 0 social media and 0 pics of myself. I am a decent looking man or so I am told I strongly disagree, granted my life sucks I'm a 37m failure w no professional life, no job and in rehab I wish I had your problem

[@Dimaz42]

perhaps because you want people to acknowledge what you do? or to share the joy or whatever emotion that you feel at that moment and see if people could relate to that?

[@samehmke3396]

That last part about finding yourself through the public eye is great. There is alot of overthinking about how technological is hurting the private life. There are more solutions for this and you have freedoms to choose. Don't forget that

[@TheRealSandman]

I need to be on social media for my music. But I also choose to stay off social media as much as I can for personal use. It feels so freeing just living your life & not having everything published. I love the feeling of people not knowing what I’m doing every second of the day & keeping some mystique.

[@mialewis4580]

Everything aspect of this speech was incredible

[@theyogidentist]

MUCH NEEDED !

[@clarissawilson3382]

MUCH NEEDED!

[@clarissawilson3382]

Much needed! ❤️

[@ikop8826]

I love her speech so much and love her black mirror act

[@TheRealSandman]

I need to be on social media for my music. But I also choose to stay off social media as much as I can for personal use. It feels so freeing just living your life & not having everything published.

[@pateole1951]

What a beautiful testament to the love and respect you have for both your parents. I relate to this as i was raised very similar. Mom and Dad were a United front despite being divorced. Thank you for sharing so eloquently a piece of you and some of the greatest advice that Anyone can benefit from. 🙏

[@clarissawilson3382]

You are a 🥇 of life 🙌.

[@Dray.TheChosen1]

True strength is keeping everything together when everyone expects you to fall apart.👁🖤💫

[@clarissawilson3382]

🥵

[@clarissawilson3382]

🥶🤢

[@leveljoe]

🤮

[@Enzan55]

Thank you for this!

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@yaj280 you're here.

[@claremurphy12]

Oh wow powerful excellent speech from my favourite beautiful actress. Loved her words. Feel like taking notes. Very good teaching Bryce! 🌹

[@starlight7499]

She's very cute, smart and devoted . Ron Howard and her mother must be proud .

[@amaliarahma2998]

we must balance between private life and public life. as experience, inner circle is important. why? because we can't trust everyone. when we have difficulties in life, not everyone can help. a strong bond will be formed because we can invest our time with them more. without inner circle I feel empty. we shouldn’t be too much in sharing things on social media because not everything we see there is true, some of them are fake. we must be wise in using social media, use it for useful things.

[@mpms04]

In the off chance you’re reading this Bryce, this was a great talk! I know this is the least important thing, but you’re rocking that outfit, girl!

[@evaschubmehl6]

3:33 that one guy laughing in the audience 😂

[@davisouzademoura8322]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@this-abledtheextravertedhe5299]

Wow 😯 You are so fortunate 🥰 Much love to your Mom and you. 🤗 Thank you 😊 Fantastic message!

[@nonenone7742]

It's a misleading title. She doesn't speak about HOW to preserve private life, but WHY to preserve.

[@MichaelWalterVentures234]

Absolutely incredible!

[@Dimaz42]

I could use some of her ideas, especially about finding the purpose to share and delaying to publish stuff that you might regret later on.. and to find ways to toughen up and make a better version of ourselves

[@ruthannharrison3200]

Thank you Dallas. a true gem.

[@Deadpool3203]

LOVE this woman.

[@mahammudshuvo9512]

well

[@rajeshdhakad3411]

Hardworks gets the confidence and confidance make men perfect to live life with maturity . About tha social media if we used this in the perfect way , we got more information about the happenings of the world's 😊

[@arshadayub7563]

She is healthy and she certainly looks elegant!

[@Tradewindrain]

Amazing episode of Black Mirror.

[@clarissawilson3382]

🙌

[@ankitsharma00014]

Great talk. Tysm.❤❤🙏👍

[@muhammadibnufadlinsyah-0667]

Mesmerizing speech

[@mahammudshuvo9512]

thanks

[@muhammadibnufadlinsyah-0667]

@@mahammudshuvo9512 wdym by that '_'

[@mahammudshuvo9512]

@@muhammadibnufadlinsyah-0667 you send this work.. I don't know

[@clarissawilson3382]

This is an incredible speech. 🗨

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@mahammudshuvo9512 it is a new perspective.

[@dustinjames6052]

The world is one big small town.. lol good one!

[@ThePsycheGym]

Be in control of your privacy and what you let known to the public 📝 Wonderful speech! 👏

[@ferhasyed1698]

Great talk

[@smmora1973]

I love this!

[@giselebarana226]

Amazing history thanks a lot for share with us....good advices...

[@xaviercastillo1410]

I love bryce dallas howard and that a very interesting speech and had very good advice.

[@twinsmomfarjanasvlog3734]

Thank you for sharing..

[@nicolesudjono]

A chip of the old block :) gerat talk!! I myself limit social media and it has been really awesome!!

[@HeartBrokenBiker]

I had a wide grin when she said "two day delay", remembering how for most of my 11yr+ "youtuber" life (as of 2022), .. I have followed at least " 1 YEAR DELAY ". As in, I scroll back on my phone, and post memories from last year .. if and when I can remember them. The social network gets to hear about my trips years after I've travelled, and by then have moved on to other interesting things. It has been very 'counter-productive' when you think from a "youtuber" perspective (since almost everyone seems to wanna blow up), but very very sensible thing to do, to actually LIVE a wonderful life & for Inner Peace.

[@BeeSweet16]

I like how she said to ask yourself "who does this serve and is it worth it?" Most of the time I don't post or go on social media BECAUSE it doesn't serve me much, only my ego. If I had pictures of trips or hanging out with friends or family, maybe. Big MAYBE. Special events with others? Thats worth a post. Quite honestly, I would scrapbook my adventures, quality time and special events. It means more to ME than having strangers approve of me. It's also why I will choose to use a pen name for my writings going forward. I like my privacy :3

[@amandaanyawidjojo7228]

great speech, and great advice

[@privatelifestaysprivate]

excellent video 🧍‍♂️

[@kushal809]

Much needed

[@clarissawilson3382]

Confidence comes from character.

[@muzikgurl3]

Love this.

[@okeowoaishat6594]

amazing..

[@djbeastwood]

Brilliant

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

I don't *have* a "life". Just an existence. 🙂 I work on my series, and that's about it. In all honesty, I'm GLAD no one calls me, talks to me, bothers me, nor follows me. I'd like my last few years on Earth to be devoid of as much human contact and interaction as is possible, and I'm mostly already there. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

[@rbelle8]

This speech sounds well intended. Aside from the mental work that was done to overcome mommy issues. I &feel that having a social media account does not automatically deem someone a public figure. Sites like Facebook were initially intended to connect friends and love ones in a fast paced, busy world and society. People should not be stalked or bashed because others disagree with opinions or are triggered by photos of happy moments. Social media has taken an abusive turn with people intending to silence others because of the expression of who they are. This also has led to unnecessary competition and battles because what is portrayed or shared goes against preconceived notions or rumors. Why else would there have been a Facebook whistle blower? I have personally felt the lash of resentments due to accolades shared on social media. Social media is a major platform that has opened the doors for many people who otherwise may never be recognized. By silencing these individuals, I have also noticed, that corporate America, Canada and other State-Sponsored Syndicates exploit vulnerabilities of the less fortunate, rake in big bucks from their ideas through the harvesting of genuine creativity, data bank while masking the TRUE origin of said intellectual property. Invasion of privacy is still a crime and a social media account does not warrant such violations.

[@mahammudshuvo9512]

memories speech

[@clarissawilson3382]

Anecdotal.

[@seemakarande3035]

Byrceeeee youu gooooo love 🖤🥳

[@kaafchoudhri8898]

Best !!

[@MehtaRaj_BestChildrenHospital]

Excellent. Great Cheryl ☺️

[@funny3272]

Confidence comes by having "Wealth and Privilege" because if all else fails you can always fall back on those two. Also a vast majority of the Elite families of America's past forgone "Coddling" and many of those people turned out to be chaotic and have no heart later in life. We are already under the eye on personal information that has to be shared that limits from trying to own a starter house (which is now unattainable) and not able to afford rent for a one bedroom apartment (which is becoming more unattainable). Unless you own a home behind a Gated Community with 24 hour Security with enough funds to hire a legal firm to protect your personal information, you won't be able to protect yourself. Richy Cunningham may of been a joke, but in our new "smaller community" thanks to the internet, the rest of us wouldn't mind being described by that name if it came to being able to live a comfortable life away from worry...we already "are sitting on it" and it's hurting the rest of us.

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

Exactly. Only those with coin, connections, communities, clout, control, and computer code can do as they please. Everyone else is just... vulnerable. 24/7/365. You could disappear tomorrow and no one would ever know. 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨

[@NicTheMuse06]

Knowledge 💥 explosion ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@clarissawilson3382]

Much needed! ❤️

[@샐리-q1p]

Oh! i like her!

[@clarissawilson3382]

We all do.

[@lailacraig1545]

Very insightful video!! I do not want to repeat the same mistakes I made last year. This year I will like to invest my social security and participate in great opportunities, to help me me prepare for retirement. please can someone share long-term investment ideas? ❤️

[@Joaquim230]

Get a licensed financial advisor who understands the market much better.

[@YusufEymen248]

It's a great idea to invest Linda but I will advise you at best to get an investment advisor who understands the market much better, who will guide you and help you build smart ideas to achieve your financial goals.

[@ericayumi454]

@@YusufEymen248 I've heard quite alot about how helpful an investment advisor can be I've been on the look out for a good one, or Still can you recommend a good one for me?

[@YusufEymen248]

@@ericayumi454 I have my portfolio very well-diversified, though I did it using trad signals from a US regulated broker EULA ROSWELL financial analyst and CNBC contributor and it's been a huge relief. Good earnings and little to no engagement at all on my part. Her stock picks are top-notch, I don't worry about market trends anymore because she's quite the genius in trading and portfolio diversification..

[@YusufEymen248]

You can look her up on the web with her full name below as she is SEC regulated. *EULA ROSWELL DIGITAL*

[@Double00Agent]

That’s SO crazy! I woke up this morning thinking: I wonder what Bryce Dallas Howard thinks….about anything.

[@clarissawilson3382]

This is very interesting. The series was an anthology. This is predictable.

[@JG-yd5tz]

Bryce is a genius

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@JG-yd5tz this speech was no doubt some type of genius.

[@JG-yd5tz]

IDOL

[@817Moon]

Literally stay off of social media. It’s that simple

[@samsononi8039]

A summary, please 😶

[@pwsigma5720]

❤️❤️❤️

[@courtlaw1]

Sounds like your mom made Ron's job as a parent real easy. I like your mom.

[@lynnturman8157]

yeah, this isn't a problem for most of us who are happy if we get 5 likes

[@tabularasa]

8:01 Wait-- WHY is opting out supposedly "not the answer"? I don't accept that. This stuff is bad for our health. "Meta" executives don't let their OWN CHILDREN use their products. You later ask "why" post, or "what is the purpose?" The answer is-- there's no good reason. It's just attention-seeking. We don't need it. Everyday non-famous people should connect with their own local communities. That's where we need the most connection for a better society.

[@studyshit4418]

Well, I think you missed the point. Try telling a kid that you cant start a youtube channel because of this complicated reason. First of all, they wouldnt understand this reason and rather think of this as an attack. A restriction. Its like you are imprisoning that kid. You might think it is exaggerated, but that is how kids think. Not only that, you would only force the kid to hide the fact that he started a channel without telling you. That would definitely create trust issues.

[@AdrianHertz]

8:03 missed opportunity start the video as she gets on stage showing those massive checks on movement

[@chasemer6]

Not to criticize, but the only solution suggested was to delay social posts for two days.

[@forkidsbykidsread-aloud3097]

Bryce is my name😁

[@killerbudgie1976]

❤️

[@clarissawilson3382]

❤️

[@TheJadedJames]

This is one heck of a speech topic given that one episode of Black Mirror she was in ... I'm just saying

[@anon6116]

Still don’t care what strangers think. Why would I need some one else’s opinion to function in my daily life?

[@vareseources]

Very few people her age can tell a story about their parents

[@rickmartin6817]

She's pretty too :)

[@hannahcardel]

Wow

[@andreastinellis23]

Simple : don’t go on social media.

[@nickm.5931]

Is that the girl from Molly's Game, and Interstellar? I didn't know she was a Howard!

[@stang2889]

Not her. That's Jessica Chastain

[@nickm.5931]

@@stang2889 (Sorry I was joking - I knew that)

[@reshanfaraz]

Comment to title of the video: impossible

[@topsuperseven7910]

she did this talk to brag about how fcing TOUGH her family is and how TOUGH she is and stronger than you or men!

[@AdityaMehendale]

I saw this 2 months ago - though that one was a "megamix" where ElonMusk's talk overshadowed all :/

[@brochal76]

The answer is simple. Stop using social media. Age restrictions would help as well.

[@clarissawilson3382]

That is not an option. Advancement in technology is no longer controlled by the human mind.

[@brochal76]

@@clarissawilson3382 I’m talking about social media and not technological advancement. Two different things.

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@brochal76 no, they are not. Algorithms.

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@brochal76 are used by artificial intelligence.

[@clarissawilson3382]

@@brochal76 it has a name now. Machine learning.

[@things2465]

Portuguese subtitles?

[@felixnuwahid9879]

All social media were bad except Twitter

[@kerrylerskine6524]

Argyle

[@zqpcydbfoqbdiehdj]

We are never truly known. Lol

[@Alexe829]

"We are all......" No, more n more ppl seeing through! Enjoy more nature, less tech. But I base that on first minute only. The rest I didn't hear. Respectfully We! ( Non American)

[@bob_WRLD]

Pawg lives matter

[@4s4lf4]

Long live your mother!

[@dooshmasta]

Both Bryce and Dallas are boy names

[@Andijt]

I've known a girl named Bryce.

[@Andijt]

@@twuandixon8675 ???

[@dooshmasta]

@@twuandixon8675 never can tell these days

[@drankenstein5241]

I like this woman a bit too much

[@zhezd6374]

So um are we going to talk about how messed up it is to make a child clean up the corpse of a squirrel?????

[@asturpac]

There is absolutely nothing surprising here. One more talk. It's hard to understand how something like this.. I don't understand what people are thinking.

[@anggaapriliansyah7143]

Someone can learn something from the experience that other people shared... Don't to much live in private... It seems annoying...

[@clarissawilson3382]

More so. That's called intimacy. Stop destroying our future

[@NickFlack]

Jurassic world character?

[@manfredhermann9576]

Waht

[@clarissawilson3382]

💯💢💥💫

[@muazzamazizi7563]

Helo Bryce. I and my brother want to apologize if we do something wrong secretly or openly. Sorry

[@dawnprencesslaudecaburog4250]

NOSEDIVE!!!!