3 Things: Women's Unpaid Labor at Work, Fed Up Wife, Have You Had Sex When You Weren't Into It?

[@annejohnson5875]

I was coerced into sex when I was 17 and ended up pregnant. I gave the baby up for adoption, but we have reunited since and she has met her biological father and she can't stand him.

[@shakwon619]

MAN: Comes home regularly and kinda notices he has kids. WOMAN: He is the greatest father that ever lived. Better than God.

[@spreadyourwingsandflybutte768]

Facts. King baby

[@rainxinxblack21]

I’d totally have kids if I could be the dad. 😂

[@klaythoring1326]

@@rainxinxblack21 hahaha that’s been my response for so long - I would make a great dad! Even better grandpa!

[@1108-g1q]

What I'm noticing about these videos.Is that so many women will say that their man is a good father but then proceed to describe him not being a good father. For example I don't think it's easy for someone who works a full time job to have lots of free time for cheating online with strangers while also meeting familial obligations.

[@tinyshepherdess7710]

It seems like all a man has to do to be called a good father is provide and not abuse his kids. I mean seriously, very little is expected of men in this regard.

[@martibee8984]

People are so used to men either having nothing to do with their children, or being horrible to them, that when they're around, and at the least don't physically harm them, they are relieved. In that relief they tend to compliment the man for merely being not as bad as the others. It has become so standard that it's all it takes to be considered good now. All that managed to do was lower the bar even further for men. There's never been any society wide raising the bar for men, only lowering, and now the bar for men is in hell.

[@Lysistrata2025]

Ladies, please choose yourself.

[@GoldenMermaid]

The freeze response is a huge factor when it comes to sexual assault. Especially when abusers desensitize the victim over time. A lot of times when women are assaulted by their partner or a close person, it starts small over time. Slowly chipping away at boundaries until the victim isn't sure where to draw the line or when the violation even started. Abusers prey on women's tendency to self doubt and over analyze. That's why I don't even find it useful to talk it out if I think a guy is being creepy. He will just try to deflect, minimize, and gaslight while continuing to chip away at boundaries

[@TheePrincessBrat]

💯💯 no point in talking because they know what they’re doing. Let the police speak to them

[@islandgirl8067]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@LaraEdwards-x5p]

I had a high-risk OB make a wildly inappropriate sexual joke. Knowing what I know now, I should have flung the door open and reported it to his nurse and demand she record it word for word in my patient encounter note. Then I should have called the police. I had subchorionic hemorrhages and he caused me to visualize his eggplant entering me while I was abstaining from seks. Over reaction? Don't care anymore. I now record encounters with physicians with a digital voice recorder. I have a $30 mic that is meant to record cell phone calls, it records ambient nose remarkably well and it is tiny. The digital voice recorder lasts hours and hours on one AA battery.

[@positiveonpurpose2734]

Right... Very well said!

[@teresamagnusson]

I don't doubt myself. I watch subtle behaviors and call them out as they're happening. It leads to very big outbursts and temper tantrums, and divorce. I'm always watching, observing and making mental notes

[@bluegreenglue6565]

Thanks to this channel, I have begun refusing to do the "women's work" at work - you know, cleaning the dishes people (men) leave in the breakroom sink, cleaning out the coffee machine, wiping down the table, even putting more paper in the damn copier. I'm sick to death of doing it because "someone has to." I'm not even being paid enough to pay rent on my own, so doing this extra stuff is just not working for me anymore. I've been a pleaser all my life, but have finally realized it gets me literally nothing.

[@BurbNBougie]

Good for you!!

[@leananas1002]

​At work, our secretary was expected to be the little hands of the office, changing towels, TP, coffee and tea machine cleaning etc... She got fed up and printed her job description, put it up on her desk and everytime someone complained, she would point at it and say "if it's not on my JD, ask the director about it". Even the director was annoyed but hey, he found a solution pretty quickly! 😂

[@altyrrell3088]

"I want a forehead kiss without asking for it." Wow. That's powerful.

[@anthill1510]

I understand wanting affection without having to ask for it. But to the forehead kiss specifically: I think there is something wrong with it, even so a lot of women think it`s cute. It`s so infantilizing. Just imagine a woman giving a forehead kiss to a man in public, really picture it. There is something off about it, isn`t there? It`s something you do to children, to someone who is in your care, not to somebody you see as another equal adult. Especially the "standing in front of each other in public, holding your head in their hand, giving you a forehead kiss" type of situation. It`s different when you are alone, the other person just literally cried about something emotional and you wanna comfort them. It doesn`t seem strange to me in that moment, even if you would kiss a man on the forehead. Because it actually is a vulnerable space where childlike feelings can come up, so it makes sense to comfort somebody like you would comfort a child. But in these everyday situations out in public it`s just the symbolic way of saying "my little girl". Nothing against if you are into that, but people don`t treat it like it`s a kink, they actually mean it and treat is like it`s just normal behavior and a normal way to see your girlfriend in everyday situations. So society treats that as normal and women celebrate it as "loving" and than we are all collectively surprised if men don`t respect women. Well, which one is it? Do you wanna be treated like his little girl in everyday life, or do you want to be respected like an equal partner? I am sorry, I think we have to choose one of these. To me it seems so infantilizing and I could never be with a guy who does that.

[@vendetta.02]

​@@anthill1510Uh how are forehead kisses "infantilizing"? im a woman and its not infantilizing at all lol its a normal expression of love lmao

[@bigidea5619]

​@@vendetta.02 Agree. Sometimes I feel people have become completely detached from reality.

[@islandgirl8067]

1st story is why our department didn't have a Holiday party last month. The male engineers didn't want to be bothered, & us women refused to get stuck doing all the work. 2nd story sounds like OP and her husband should have never gotten married. There's no love there, he will cheat again because he has her locked down with the baby. She needs to leave. Why should it all be on women to show men how to please them? Why don't the men make the effort to learn?

[@Tormekia]

When it comes to giving at work: You will be resented the more you do for them. It's weird. People will talk crap behind your back. Complain and gripe and whine. And you're doing your best and like... if you ain't getting paid to do it, don't. Fill your own cup. Tend your own garden. If they really want it, someone else will do it. If it doesn't get done unless you do it, then that means no one else valued it enough to step up.

[@brandy4530]

I don’t know if this is an unpopular opinion or not, but I do not believe employees should be doing office birthdays or Christmas stuff. Either don’t do anything or that should be the management’s job, imo. I feel like this is something some women really enjoy, so those women tend to take the lead, and everybody likes cake, so people go along with it. Unfortunately, it isn’t often reciprocated unless management steps in and makes it happen. I worked a job years ago where an older woman admitted she put a stop to birthday and Christmas parties years before I got there. As a result, the boss planned a Christmas dinner at a nice restaurant for the employees, and no one person had to do a bunch of free labor. It really is the way things should be. If there is going to be birthdays and Christmas parties, then management needs to plan it and make it happen.

[@ccannon1]

Yeah at places where I worked, they did a monthly thing and the company planned and paid for it. Though my friend who worked the same job at a smaller office, 7-10 people total, said the co-workers pooled their money. Although she did say one time, when it was the lady who usually did bdays turn, they put the office assistant in charge and she botched it big time. Everyone else came together and did something better like 2 days later but she could tell the lady was still hurt.

[@carlismycat]

I was pissed they made me put up Christmas decorations instead of training me to do my job on my two or three day of training. It was a shit show and I'd like to find another job but I need this income atm to pay my bills.

[@YepItsYouSorry]

I agree 👍 I'm not going to be normalizing free labor

[@CreativeCrisis-Art]

Completely agree with you. At one of my jobs, they would have Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners "for the employees." Except that management would contribute only part of the meal, like the turkey or whatever, and expect every employee to bring in some kind of side dish or dessert. I never contributed or attended these things. If management wants to do something nice for employees, let management pay for it!

[@smrndalodz7182]

@@ccannon1 Where I work, certain people do this as part of their jobs. They handle event coordination so if there's a conference they're the ones who get the food. And for the events, it comes out of a designated budget. No donations or 'volunteers.' The good thing is that attendance isn't really mandatory. I go sometimes to things, but I also have a life outside of work, so if something else is going on I'd rather do, or I just don't feel up to it, I don't go. Or I show up and leave early.

[@elipotter369]

Yes, cheating is more than just an "oops". It takes sustained, repeated acts of omission and commission. I've had a couple of male fiends (friends, lol) say things like: " i didn't mean to cheat, but we were dancing at 2 am in a nightclub or out drinking late and oops, i found i was kissing her. The real question is - what were you doing out late, drinking in an environment conducive to seduction anyway - especially when you know you have no self control? The answer is because they are doing it deliberately - being in the situation and hoping something happens, and feeling they can excuse themselves with the oops it was late & drinking, rather than taking responsibility and manning up.

[@chanelno.5560]

Currently 2wks postpartum myself. If his Dad even tried to ask at this point, I could not be responsible for my reaction. That man needs to be publicly shamed for that. What a disappointment of a human being.

[@sylvieroche9364]

I am shocked by the posts about coerced sex in marriages. That lady saying she gave birth 2 weeks before and was coerced broke my heart. Ladies, learn how to rephrase the guilt tripping sentences "if you loved me you would do that small sacrifice" : if you loved me, dear husband, you wouldn't spread sperm inside my wounds ; if you loved me, you wouldn't rip off my stitches ; if you loved me you wouldn't take pleasure from me being in pain. Say it out loud. In front of his parents if it takes that for him to "click".

[@triciad4100]

I know it's far from the point of the first story, but I'd rather work than be forced to attend a mandatory fun work party. Just let me take that time off at the end of the day instead so I can go home early and eat cheese in bed. Does anyone actually LIKE standing around under fluorescent lights eating stale sheet cake and making awkward small talk about the weather?

[@Misandrist777]

Fact.

[@shakwon619]

I always find it interesting that ppl don't like their coworkers. My coworkers are one of my friend groups. We go on vacation together, invite each other to parties, have happy hours, brunch, game night at each other's house. A big group chat where we talk damn near everyday. We share food pics and everything.😂😂😂

[@kaedatiger]

I've never had the opportunity to find out. I like to think that being paid to do nothing every once in a while isn't so bad.

[@darkmage4648]

I'm the same. I keep my private life and my work life separate. I have one coworker who is my friend and we sometimes meet up outside of work.

[@louhortonsculpture]

Yes. It’s so awkward!!!

[@gee_emm]

11:40 I think it's really problematic that people use the words "intimacy" and "smegs" interchangeably. It's very possible to have one without the other and vice versa. A random unsatisfying 30 seconds in the shower here and there is smeggs but it sounds like there is no intimacy at all. People need to understand that while they would ideally go together, smeggs and intimacy are two different things and two different problems for this woman, it would seem.

[@martibee8984]

Definitely. She's not getting any intimacy. She is getting smex. She's getting it like a flesh light, but still.

[@user-kpkxgtj]

All of this. I hate it when people say intimacy when what they mean is sex. I also hate it when people say they're lonely when what they mean is they haven't had sex in a while. Call a thing by its name.

[@dusklvr]

Give yourself the love and attention that you seek. Pleasure yourself. Don't worry about him. Focus on yourself.

[@brookealicia92]

It’s the same with family functions. All the girl cousins, aunties and sisters are present but the guys are “busy” working or with their girlfriend’s family. I have shit to do too!

[@indigoeyes100]

I feel like that woman who “didn’t understand why women didn’t just say no” either has had very little experience with men or is actually a man pretending to be a woman. That’s just a bizarre level of naivety.

[@jsChelimo]

Yup.

[@wanjirunjoroge5942]

I get where the last lady asking how women can't say no. I have said no and stopped in the middle of thrusting because the man wasnt listening to me and i am fortunate they have listened to me. When i talk to women/teens about it, I give them tactics on how to go about it and how it has worked for me. It not that i don't believe them or judge them but to also show its possible but i dont guarantee it will work. Just like divorce gas become easier, sharing ways of saying no and having courage to stand up for yourself helps. I am grateful we are all sharing experiences because it gives us strength and hope.

[@queenlj12jax97]

OMG! So many women seem to be diminished and suffering with their husbands and partners when it comes to cheating and sex on demand. As a single, child-free woman just hearing these stories sickens me, especially the post-partum woman with the Cro Magnon husband. It's like these women aren't even safe with the men who promised to care for them and protect them. It's sad and scary.

[@LaraEdwards-x5p]

I never even thought about the unpaid labor of women at the office! They're always talking about collaboration or whatever!

[@dearbrave4183]

09:28 The fact that she thinks she should get over this is insaaaane😅 like why don't we honour our bodies as women. A man would never think twice about leaving a spouse who had an affair and towards whom he feels repulsed. Isn't it actually why they leave cheating spouses? 13:08 if he's a great father like she said, a divorce won't break her son's life, it might disrupt his routine but he'll be alright because they can easily organise around custody. But I suspect "he is not a great father ", it's another meaningless term like "he is my bf", "he's the love of my life" that women conclude with after explaining how h*rribly they are trtd by the man🤦🏽‍♀️

[@thetwinklegg8121]

The lady who is conflicted with the man who turns her off and has been cold reminds me of my ex. Yes, he had many issues but one of my biggest issues was how surface level the relationship was. There was no depth between us. He sounded spirited out there.....was actually a passionate friend, son and brother but with me, apart from smex, everything else was surface level. He could t understand my passionate self, differing points of views, he couldn't understand a woman was more than smex and an appliance. The smexual chemistry started amazing but the lack of depth between us in pretty much every other area was non-existant. I tried to bond with him intellectually, activities, gifts, deep conversations etc. I realised he couldn't understand why a bond beyond smex wasn't enough for me. Soon enough I didn't even want him to touch me. He said he saw a future. I knew this future would be surface level, and boring so, I had to leave.

[@Misandrist777]

Been there so many times. Men are boring. We are not people to them.

[@poohbesr19]

That first story is the reason why I never stepped up to be a party planner at work at work. My team had more men than women and already showcased their inability to do things when it came to a basic potluck, so I knew to not bother planning things.

[@ladywolfwolf]

They are not unable. They know what to do. Who do you think is eating all of that pot luck food?

[@haileys5371]

They think women by gifts because "women be shopping." They think that's the reward you get... to go buy them stuff... same in families.

[@kaedatiger]

I hate this trope that women love shopping and doing all the chores. Like we're not allowed to have real hobbies outside of what benefits other people.

[@tinyshepherdess7710]

Story # 1. I can relate to the comment about women shaming women for not being a part of gifting events at work (or any social event at all, because only the women are expected to run them), but really, we shouldn't do that to each other! Even women have different expectations for women than for men.

[@tinyshepherdess7710]

Like with potlucks... all a man has to do is bring a bag of chips & he's good, or he can show up with nothing at all & gets a pass. But a woman must prepare a dazzling side dish or dessert, or she is seen as a slacker by the other women. I have always hated that kind of female pressure on me. That's why I avoided these types of work gatherings (retired now).

[@tinyshepherdess7710]

Story # 3. Men DO NOT KNOW how to please a woman, unless they've been taught BY A WOMAN. If you don't speak up, they assume you are fine. That's why so many men say stupid things like, "well, I've never had any complaints..." Ladies, this is on us and no one can do this except for us. There is no other way. We have to know what we like, what we need, what we must have and then communicate that to our man. Intercourse is satisfying for men, but for most women, not so much.There are other ways to be satisfied and women have every right to have pleasure! Religion teaches us to be ashamed of our bodies. We must break through the shame & embarrassment & teach our partners.

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

Work is work, not a damn social club

[@michelleandreya7208]

💯

[@darkmage4648]

Hear hear!

[@bunneywolf]

There are women who have brothers and they are the equivalent of a boy-mom but to their brother(s). Now. Just like I have sons, I have brothers. And just like with boy-moms I see these sisters and it gives me the ick. They pretend not to understand why most women feel grossed out by, disgusted with, or afraid of men. But they know and understand exactly what we are saying. They’ve experienced it. And maybe their brother beat the guy up but they still experienced it. And their brother beat the guy up after he, himself, did this to someone else’s sister. This is the type of woman who wants justice when she is harmed, but dismisses when other women are harmed. Because as a sister of brothers she must protect men at all costs. Even pretending to be dense. I do not acknowledge when women do this. I treat them like I treat men, pick me people, and boy-moms.

[@ccannon1]

6:50 they’re better than me, I only exclusively sign bday cards for literally everyone at work. If we’re not friends outside of work, I’m not doing anything for your bday.

[@LustyLizardLady]

As Sarah's present she should have called out every single one of those men's excuses in front of them and freed her.

[@clvsterfvckofwhatthefvck7981]

💯

[@DoriZuza]

2nd story: The guy doesn’t love her. He was capable of making an effort for his ex. Zero for her.

[@amberparedes875]

We had only a few of us ladies on my shift who would do a "potluck " birthday each month. The person or people (there were only 15 or less of us) wouldn't pay. Everyone chipped in. The problem was that the men planned and helped with NOTHING! They loved the idea of it, but never helped. Not even with clean up. A few would give a little more than the asked amount after they found out us ladies were putting in more to make it special. I told my co worker, I don't want to do it anymore. When my month came around, the guys who shared the same month always wanted food I hated...so I never really enjoyed the birthday food. It was a lot of personal time you spend on this kind of stuff to just go unappreciated.

[@patriciaa4451]

As the great philosopher, Big Sean once said “ the grass is greener where you water it”.

[@lexa_power]

Leo on Twitters experience is so sad. I’m so glad women share their stories. So tired of this type of behavior being called “oversharing.” I got written up for oversharing about being sexually harassed by a mutual professor that we both shared with a colleague at Fox who was attending my alma mater (CSUN). I wish I went to HR with it, but they also dinged me for casually asking a co worker if they are married (because apparently that’s also sexually harassing someone from my end) and I was pretty sure I was on the block anyway by that point. Just sucks how the patriarchy always wins!

[@jasminejeanine2239]

I've had a partner tell me that cheating was necessary. Then later ask me why I let him cheat. Like seriously. 😑

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

12:26 this was my situation too! He never wanted to go anywhere, do anything or even just talk to anyone. Just sit around the house watching TV. And when I tried to engage with him, he'd give one word responses and make it clear he's not really listening, because he's uninterested in anything I have to say...

[@Diana734]

I am not sleeping with someone whom I cannot trust. She needs to leave him.

[@leendsmin]

Story 1: yes keep it professional. These people aren’t your friends. My coworkers and I just greet each other on the chat on our birthdays. Also no person should be expected to do the unpaid coordination work. Let people opt out or exclude those who can’t keep up. Only those who want to do it for each other should continue to do it.

[@ipeefreely9865]

Also, please stop gaslighting and bullying women coworkers (who you don't like) into unpaid labor or trying to manipulate them into unnecessary labor. Some women do this to try ro "flex" in front of management. Learn how to leave women that you don't like alone. The folks in management don't give a shit about you either and will terminate you, once your utility has expired. 😒😒🙄🙄

[@tabbycatcrume]

We used to rotate cleaning term kitchen, only some didn’t do their fair share. When it was my turn again I cleaned it to reset, took down the cleaning schedule and out up a sign saying clean up behind yourselves. The new boss didn’t blink and was fine with it. She also wasn’t Christian and refused to make us decorate or participate in holiday festivities like the last boss made me and another employee do. (And this was a public service job! Not private.) That December I sent out notice of the location of the decorations and that anyone was free to decorate. No one did. I could tell they wanted to say something but they weren’t my boss, so 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MN-hv5xv]

The lady in the first story needs to leave, it’s not going to get better.

[@pokemonfreak6669]

I always get off before my husband. He is very attentive, thankfully.

[@Misandrist777]

Lucky you. 80% us don't.

[@aaabbb8812]

For that first woman. They need to have their celebrations without the men. They should take each other out to dinner or lunch. Do not include the men.

[@RowenaSnow-px3jg]

Good idea

[@user-kpkxgtj]

This is a good way of pouring into each other and building supportive relationships at work. Those willing to put in the work and exercise some reciprocity can participate, those who only want to take can watch from the sidelines.

[@Ms.Iah08]

The random video couldn’t be more appropriate!!! #NailedIt

[@rikkicmgs]

Random video 😝💥❗️🧨😝

[@ShielaM-p1w]

I'm not ine of those birthday people. I barely remember them. But if someone comes to me and says someone is having a birthday, can you contribute? I definitely WOULD. and if it's someone who's done my birthday in the past, i'd do double, triple. These men hate women soooo much!!!

[@briolivia]

Same. I don't do birthdays either, but when my coworkers did something for my birthday...i made a point to celebrate them

[@fitnessen2860]

Well the thing is for the first story, why are you even doing all that at work? I’m just there to work and leave, and those men probably feel the same. And they didn’t ask her to plan birthday stuff for them. If you’re going to be extra, please don’t expect anything, just do it from the kindness of your heart but if not just keep working

[@ayamempress1579]

15:00 This lady has had a good experience with her husband, but as a woman who was clear, if the sex wasn't great, more often than not, men don't take the news well. I'm not saying don't tell them, but get out safely first, perhaps. If he doesn't take it well, let it be the last time.

[@ayemad]

I’m confused by the woman with the ‘ice cold’ sex. She contradicts herself with every post. She says her relationship is great but also he doesn’t talk to her. Is she lying?

[@KatrinkaGivens-yh1fh]

Divorce this guy.

[@MadCatLady28]

I'm just going to correct those poll results by excluding the male responses (I'm glad she did that so curious men don't skew the data). Poll 1: Yes 88.2% No 11.8% Poll 2; Yes 72% No 28%

[@May-nt3ow]

What was up with that many men answering?!?!

[@MadCatLady28]

@May-nt3ow they wanted to know. Better they have their own section rather than skew the results. It's a good way to keep your data clean.

[@Biiku_]

Well, nice to know I'm not alone in giving it up avoid a tantrum while also hating it.

[@crazyjoy8948]

First story: it was never in the job description therefore she shouldn’t have been doing it in the first place if you’re not getting paid to organize these events then you shouldn’t do it that’s literally the equivalent to “working for free”, bro, like I got bills to pay ain’t nobody got time for that I’d rather take a day off to be home in my bed, then take time out of my day to organize events, dealing with people that I don’t like let alone hate, but maybe it’s just me because I’m an introvert🤷🏽‍♀️

[@LadyStudio1]

It's not just you. The same women who endlessly tried to sabotage me when I got promoted to an elite team amd got a raise were the same women begging for money when it was "so n so's birthday." The audacity was higher than the international space station. That's why I'm glad I work remotely. I don't have to tell anyone I'm not participating bc my azz ain't there.

[@LadyStudio1]

It's not just you. The same women who endlessly tried to sab0tage me when I got promoted to an elite team and got a raise were the same women begging for money when it was "so n so's birthday" getting mad, and clutching pearls, when I politely declined. The audacity was higher than the international space station. That's why I'm glad I work remotely. I don't have to tell anyone I'm not participating bc my a.. ain't there.

[@bbo7002]

That lady with the bad husband needs to LEAVE. Her posts were breaking my heart, i feel just awful for her. She sounds so sad. I hope someone in her life who cares about her will give her the encouragement she needs to put herself & her happiness first. I get that she doesn't want to disrupt her son's life, but having parents who are very unhappy & have a lot of bitterness and resentment btwn them will harm him a lot more, bc he'll grow up thinking that this is what relationships just ARE. It's depressing.....😒

[@lovelyloner]

He’s going to grow up to deeply resent her and other women. A lot of the r e dpill m e n come from two parent homes like these. I have witnessed it many many times.

[@clvsterfvckofwhatthefvck7981]

Our time on earth is SO short. Don’t waste a minute no matter how young or old you are. Really think about how short life is. Time is the most valuable resource that exists.

[@margaretanderson6924]

5:34 Disagree! Tell her what you see, tell her what you think. We need to help each other see the BS, & demonstrate solidarity.

[@Jac527]

For me it was 3 days on after my Bisalp, when I asked him to visit me to keep me company he told me “he was busy”, he was embarrassed to even be around me as I was inconvenience to him, I dumped him when my period started.

[@sonikascott6094]

I love that random video lol

[@D-Dollie]

Ok but that RAMDON VIDEO you posted in the middle made me cackle 😂

[@jasminejeanine2239]

3:44 Yeah, I don't do Christmas or bdays for this very reason.

[@jamiepinski922]

Another good video tonight with some great topics! Work women-stop being an assistant to the big boys. Work stoppage to anything beyond work.

[@jiminkaijinyoungnikkie9921]

Why would anyone want to stay with a cheater? I think she should leave her husband he clearly doesn't like her at all. Poor woman 😢

[@Goodnesswithros]

Yeah unpaid labour we do everywhere without realizing this is a wolf business world 😮🙄 i found he lies after marriage ever since I just kept my life to myself this is the only marriage I did, previously I had an engagement arranged that got cancelled so this lie broke me deeper. 😑

[@bobahicks]

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@BurbNBougie]

🎉🎉🤗🤗

[@4thllz]

I wish that poll about coercion had excluded men, since that would instantly double the percentages who said yes. Including men waters down the numbers and the impact

[@janetcampbell5601]

This men don't know crap is just more gaslighting.

[@janetcampbell5601]

The random video is a Lorena Bobbitt how to.

[@YepItsYouSorry]

The video fits great in that spot, looks like a vegetable of some kind 🤔

[@maryseeley9404]

Agreed, but I don’t think we should be doing gift exchanges at work. I think many people really don’t like the birthday cake crap at work.

[@lexa_power]

LMAO at the random video 😂

[@tylergood3773]

❤❤❤

[@bettinaknuelle9981]

You interpreted the results of the survey wrong! It much worse than you assume. You need to deduct the men first. Their answers are irrelevant for the result. From the women who answered 72% said YES.

[@onycagayle4485]

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[@delilahevil5089]

I honestly don't know how to lower expectations. I'm a bit older and honestly this was always "women's " responsibilities. I don't know why and I don't know how to change things

[@smrndalodz7182]

Maybe we should take a play out of the men's playbook and do 'weaponized incompetence?' Like if someone thinks you magically know how to do something because you're a woman, just stare at them and act confused.

[@delilahevil5089]

Btw-thrilled to be a later in life lesbian

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

Work is work, not a damn social club

[@Misandrist777]

Exactly. They are my colleagues, not my family or friends outside of work.

[@Userinterfaceexperience]

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