10 Surprising Things that Instantly Ruin Your Style Over 40

Sharing 10 things that can instantly ruin your style. We are all guilty of making style mistakes from time to time. This list will serve as a resource for you to refer back to whenever needed. Thank you so much for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo
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[@vesch5083]

I love how your dog is looking at you as you wobbled around in those heels. You can see the confusion in his eyes. Also, this may be a little detail, but I wanted to tell you that I appreciate how you say "we will put a link" instead of saying "I will put..." Because it shows that you are recognizing your team that helps you do the videos and blog, and you don't take credit for everything yourself. Again, it may be a minor detail but it speaks volumes to your integrity.

[@BusbeeStyle]

That is so sweet of you to even pick up on! My team is integral in the process. I couldn't do it without them! xo

[@suanneamos4491]

I have noticed that too and love it!!

[@janeseemann2527]

I’ve noticed that too! Love the inclusiveness.

[@braveknight2000]

I never wear logos. Whoever thought that was classy? It's like saying, "Hey! Look! I have money!" To me it screams, "Hey! Look! I'm insecure!"

[@rebeccatomasetti3636]

“I’m an unpaid billboard!” So dumb.

[@danicegewiss862]

I'm a teenager in my mind.😆

[@Precious.Marketing]

Yeah. And on top of that, 99.99% of the logo looks are just fugly and tacky. 😩

[@janeseemann2527]

I wonder why it even became a thing to wear a company logo...

[@sharronwolfe7711]

The only logo I wear is the LV handbag our daughter gave me for Christmas a year ago. Or my college T-short around the house! Ha!

[@dianevioletta1408]

Just yesterday I had on a pair of wide leg trouser jeans with high heeled booties (because the pants are so long) and my 17 year old said “you can’t wear those jeans with heels! You need to wear sneakers. You look like a mom”. I said I AM a mom, not trying to look 17! Lol

[@BusbeeStyle]

I love that, Diane! xo

[@msjr1765]

Love the rear view tip. When I was a little girl, I would watch my mom getting ready for church, and i noticed that she spent a lot of time on the back of her hair. When I asked her why she spent more time on the back than the front, she said because people actually see the back side of you more than they see the front. And its true. I am a plain girl but I go crazy over tops with detail on the back because of what my mom told me.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Great advice...SO true! xo

[@Jeannineross]

32 years old and I started watching you in my 20’s. You have such great, classic style advice that could work for any age range! Love it all ☺️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Jean! xo

[@lu_re7198]

Erin, You often mention “wardrobe basics/staples”....Please make a video about how to avoid wasting time/money by selecting foundation pieces that fit/flatter your style/figure/undertones/palette,etc.

[@BeautifulLivingHome]

I literally REFUSE to wear an uncomfortable shoe at this point in life, lol. I would rather go barefoot😄

[@tallisinwonderland4724]

Me too! Life is too short to be uncomfortable

[@cherylanne6549]

I wear Crocs. I have dressy Crocks and comfortable Crocs and the Crocs with the lining. But I have bad feet, actually terrible feet, and painful knees even though they've both been replaced, and I can't wear regular shoes. My feet won't even go into them. People make fun of me for having an entire Croc wardrobe, but I'm retired and it works for me. Not sure what I'll do if I ever have to get really dressed up! but then I couldn't wear heels even when I was young and had better feet.

[@janmeyer9602]

@@cherylanne6549 I also can’t wear many shoes after 4 surgeries for a shattered ankle. I did find a brand, Propet, that works. They have a lot of ortho shoes but I have found I can wear the Travel Active line, kind of like Skechers. I just finally donated all my shoes I can’t wear...

[@Jusmeh]

Hell to the YES! You cannot get me to buy just any 👟👠. I have followed in my Mom's footsteps and our entire family think that what we choose to dress our "footsie's" in. First it was Merrill, still wear them and still have every pair. Looking for Merrill's sent us to the different stores that sell them. So now my favorite pair are some black patton. Memphisto? Etc. I won't wear anything else! I'm relatively young, latest 40's. I have an Immune Disorder, broken many hippo & femur and had 5 knee surgeries before the replacement.

[@1annemwalters]

100% agree. I like to be fashionable but not if it hurts.

[@Malithi-P]

OMG!! When you mentioned check your rear view I remember I while back I was out shopping and then went to the toilet. Came out, after 15 minutes a lady came up to me and said that my skirt had got caught to my underwear and everything was on show at the back!! She was so kind enough to cover me while I adjusted myself. Ever since that day I always check in the mirror twice before I step out 😀

[@BusbeeStyle]

Oh no! So happy a nice lady helped you out! xo

[@chandaharkins4418]

I was at a conference several years ago, and a woman giving a presentation had done the same thing. She was literally surrounded by an auditorium full of people. I felt SO awful for her.

[@angiebrain6004]

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[@FiftyPlusBeauty]

What a wonderful video Erin! I 62 years old but yet I still want to look young and stylish. Thanks so much for the great tips! I am in the process of building a new capsule wardrobe and I will keep your great info in mind. I especially appreciated the tip on actually following the size chart of each brand! I am like you in that I am the return queen and it is a truly terrible feeling! LOL!💝💝💝

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much! I find that the size charts are so helpful and help me cut down on the returns! Keep me posted on your new capsule wardrobe...I bet it will be fabulous! xo

[@lupechacon-florez7520]

I had to reply as I am turning 63 myself. My clothes are office, elegant, classic. I don't want to dress like that any longer. I live in NYC. I like sexy, perhaps a bit eccentric but chic. But I don't know what that is yet. So I'm going to look to both of you talented and beautiful ladies for ideas.

[@nancylpr]

PLEASE do something on dressing fashionably in HOT climates. It is so easy in cool weather but I am in Florida.

[@BusbeeStyle]

We will be starting our spring/summer content soon...stay tuned, Nancy! xo

[@michellem8740]

I’m from Florida as well and I find it so difficult to look put together and show minimum skin in this very hot weather 🥵.

[@jencam2002]

FL gal too, I agree it’s hard to look pulled together when it’s 98 and 100% humidity 🥵

[@suanneamos4491]

That would be wonderful! Arizona gal here:)

[@thequeenofwitches7943]

I live in Florida as well. I dont even care about leaving the house during the day time when it's hot and humid. Thinking about what to wear it's not fun.

[@stelladrakou7361]

Hello Erin, I love your humor, the way you say things . You make me laugh and learn at the same time. Thanks!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Stella! xo

[@dksweet1]

You are so right about seeing someone else, and thinking how amazing they look, and wondering, can I wear that? It can throw off your signature look, if you continue to try to look like someone else. I definitely have done that. You have definitely nailed your signature style. You always look impeccable. Thanks for your tips Erin! 😊

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're SO welcome, Donna! Absolutely...This happens all the time!

[@emmaphilo4049]

When you middle aged, you have to find the middle ground to not dress too young or too old. A very interesting balance to find indeed :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Exactly, Emma! Balance is key! xo

[@BassPlayerSusan]

So true , Emma. I'll be 44 this year. I find that striking that balance is the key. I can still get away with wearing tank tops but I have to be much more conservative than I was 20 years ago. I can still get away with wearing a bikini but, yeah, a bit more coverage than even the one I wore when I was in my early 30s.

[@Catherine3385]

I was questioning whether or not I was too old for platform white sneakers I decided I was not and bought them. I wore them the other day and my 26y/o daughter looked horrified and asked "Why are you wearing old lady safety shoes?" lol Great Video

[@BusbeeStyle]

Oh no, Catherine! xo

[@donnamedica9014]

Thank you Erin for championing us over 40 ladies ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're SO welcome, Donna! xo

[@kismetbridgeforth9131]

The giant print pants would've worked with an edgy ankle boot, and the looser fair aisles sweater with a leather legging or jegging would also be sophisticated & sharp. But, overall, you offered great tips.

[@margiteder8274]

I see absolutely nothing wrong with the big print pants

[@pajamamama5965]

Thanks! With the large scale floral trending right now, this was helpful because I love florals and am tempted to buy. The opposite problem is finding a small scale floral pattern that doesn't look like Little house on the prairie or great grandma. I'm still searching....

[@catcollins2451]

Pajama Mama.. I love florals too but got it wrong many times, ended up with that little house on the Prairie look haha.. Then I discovered that black and white slightly abstract looking florals look awesome esp if in a top paired with dark jeans or black pants but... black print on white background, esp on a fine knit top as opposed to flimsy dress or blouse. And so important, very small florals can look " grandma" so match the scale of print to your frame. I'm 5ft6" with a medium build and a medium scale print works best or else looks too small. Hope this helps.

[@pajamamama5965]

@@catcollins2451 Yes, this is helpful. I have made both mistakes in the past unfortunately. I think you are right, and I have the same issue with other types of prints as well. I have to ask myself, would this look good as a curtain or tablecloth? If so, then it's a no lol.

[@janeseemann2527]

In Australia, there are several chain stores all geared to the (supposedly) over 40s. All of them sell oversized clothes with a veritable bounty of large floral filling the shop! I’m 57 and I don’t EVER see myself shopping in any of those places... (Australians in here will know exactly which shops I mean 😬).

[@juliedoesharry]

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[@1annemwalters]

I LOVE my beanies. It's so cold where I am, and I love how they look. But with everything else, I agree. I am finally freeing myself from prints--don't feel the dowdy prints bringing me down and it's so much easier to put outfits together with solids. I feel a lot more stylish these days b/c of you--thank you!

[@MsRahrah11]

Great tips I’m so happy that I already do some of these tips. Thank you for validating my daily routine, especially checking out your back end. I’m a curvy girl so I’m always making sure there’s no lumps, bumps, or lines. Thank you again!!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! xo

[@br4653]

The more of your videos I watch the more I love how you help everyone find their own style & be happy with our bodies ❤️

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Barbara! Thank you! xo

[@triciasimmonds86]

Love the idea of having a style uniform. Have bought a few blazers and camis etc thanks again Erin 👱‍♀️

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad it was helpful, Patricia! xo

[@terrijamison9154]

I remember the What Not To Wear show, they really emphasized age appropriate clothes and all the things you covered Erin Great video!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! I used to love that show too, Terri! xo

[@sneeria]

Man I miss Stacey and Clinton!

[@pamela5250]

I loved that show.

[@Zeppydooda]

Loved that show.

[@islandgirl7769]

The all black outfit, with the elegant necklace, was so classy! That was right up my alley!❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

So glad you liked it! xo

[@joannmaddalena1084]

Love this video! Stress ages! I found disconnecting from the TV, removed a lot of my stress. Their ‘programming” was taking a toll on my health. I cancelled my cable and also Alexia! Tired of having all our conversations listed too! I use to keep the TV on for background sound, found silence is sooo much better!

[@gae429]

Hi Erin, I remember when my excessively chic step-mother went from stilettos to a shorter, block heel. Now that I've reached that same plateau in life, I completely get it. Believe you me, when you're in your late 40s, it is NOT an issue to wear the heels you do. Enjoy it! At some point however, there are many anatomical issues that prevent most women from safely wearing them, myself included. So....it would be very wonderful if you would do a video on shoes that can be stylish for those of us over 55. Keep in mind that in the winter, heavy socks are a must, so we need shoes that accommodate the aging, cold feet. I am specifically looking for the right shoes to (warmly) wear with straight leg jeans (not skinny, cropped or ankle length...those will forever be "high waters" in my book) full length and straight leg pants. Ballet flats are TOO cold!! Flared pants are not a problem, nor are skirts and dresses. Please help!

[@carom7960]

I've found that my Docs work well under straight jeans-there's enough room& they good for a casual vibe. Sock boots- i know they're not 'in' but they just slide right under jeans& you can wear the socks you need. Same with any skin line boot. I started buying shoes socks with toes from Daiso, because you can't see them under my boots& they don't move due to the toes...

[@wakeupstylellc]

I needed this so much... I find myself dressing too young in summer, and have found it difficult to dress my age and look elegant and put together.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're so welcome! xo

[@sheilagreenhouse6620]

I appreiate how you always include yourself as you preface various "mistakes" videos. So we don't feel alone or particularly foolish. Very kind of you! :)

[@maureenrose9166]

Another great video Erin! You are so insightful and gracious in the way you encourage a flattering wardrobe and great tips to reflect on! Thank you!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Maureen! xo

[@BR-kk9qu]

Great video! Yes on logo overload and being able to walk in shoes! Thank you, Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Belinda! xo

[@victoriafine8209]

Love your sense of humor with the fashion "don'ts." Agree that the proper undergarments are a game-changer!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Victoria! xo

[@celesteinman56]

I call those dinner shoes. Your husband drops you off at the restaurant, you get in your seat, you eat, you go home, and then you take them off.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Exactly! xo

[@eriasmith1411]

You did it! I can't believe it! ( in a good way). So excited to see this video. Thanks for everything, the emails, the newsletters, the website. You're doing an awesome job. God bless you.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Thanks for being so SWEET, Eria! xo

[@nikimajsa9824]

Videos from this channel keep popping up on my news feed, and I keep watching them, even though I'm 28. :D I find them very informative even for a little younger audience.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad you like them! There is a lot of good information in these videos for women of all ages! xo

[@trustgod3212]

Wonderful video, thank you❣️learn something new every time I watch 😍

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! That's SO nice to hear! xo

[@almabackstrom5414]

Wow Erin. Great video. With all the fashion as ice a IlBle on utube, you are the one I trust and admire most. As an almost 70 woman who works as a nanny, I want to make my family and clients proud of me. I am so happy to be in this stage of life and I want to rock it. Thank you so much for all you do.i appreciate you.❤❤❤

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO welcome, Alma! xo

[@susanciaburrilamarca7824]

OMG, I'm so thrilled I found your channel! I've been searching forever for some one Like you. You are absolutely amazing & on point with everything! I have so much to learn and change.... Thank you so very, very much, you've helped me to want too get out of this awful slump in my life and not give up. I just can't thank you enough for what you do! 🤗🤗🤗

[@BusbeeStyle]

Wow, thank you! You are SO sweet, Susan! Welcome! xo

[@roxilees2289]

Today I was in the "Wrong Mood for the Right Time in Life" (yes, I am quoting myself). I stopped by to check in on what's up on your channel. It's really nice to hear from others that I try to practice what I know to be true. Erin, you nailed it. There is ALWAYS something to be reminded of & to work on. Truly happy I can watch you without regret of personal time wasted. Like most of us we are more blessed than we think, and yet evolving and hitting "our" marks while maturing isn't always easy, I sincerely Thank You for your passion & honesty ! I really did enjoy this piece very much.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Roxi! xo

[@debbieg6229]

Once again - fantastic content. Another winner! Thank you

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Debbie! Glad you enjoyed it! xo

[@gegeschannel8836]

Love, love, love your advise. This 67 classic style woman really appreciates updates on style. Uniform, jeans, white shirt and blazer. Thanks again.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! xo

[@siminaalexa7909]

Again,so valuable information! Thank u ,Erin!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad it was helpful, Simina! xo

[@kasey77]

I agree to find YOU and dress that way and even style your hair for YOU. I had medium to long hair, recently cut it short. I look 10 years younger and it suits my hair type. No use trying to put a round hole in a square peg. Costs more and doesn't work.

[@heathervaughan9891]

This was my favorite video. Very light and fun and SPOT ON!! Erin, thank you for all of your help. Turning 50 stinks but it can be fun if you have help!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it! xo

[@peachydelacruz8120]

Thanks Erin for all these tips and reminders..helps me alot when i don't know what to wear..stay safe..🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! You too! xo

[@lifeofmamatess1908]

Love this video . Thanks for your tips.

[@dee1732]

Love your style. Please do more videos with outfit suggestions. Thank you. 💖

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! Will do, Dee! xo

[@sharontreece7147]

Cracked me up when you tripped🤣🤣I couldn’t wear half that size heel🤓

[@angelapruisman536]

Love your videos...thanks for sharing your style expertise, keeping it real, and nudging us to be our best selves! Thank you for all you do! (Loved the t.p. example...you are such a hoot!!!)

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Angela! xo

[@tammyroy9042]

Lol I’m working on the basics - I promise 😉☺️. Just love you Erin- thank you for always looking out for us💕 Have a beautiful week! Xo Tammy Roy 🇨🇦

[@BusbeeStyle]

You got this, Tammy! Thank you...You too! xo

[@mmore1134]

I wish Erin would do a video where she asks viewers for pictures with them dressed, and she critiques the viewers clothing

[@BusbeeStyle]

Great suggestion! xo

[@artistforlife]

When going to my car in a parking lot, I saw this fabulously dressed woman - definitely senior - her outfit was great, but watching her stumble around in stilettos was pretty painful. Made a mental note to self - if I can't walk easily it doesn't matter how killer the shoe is - you will look ridiculous!

[@bonniegkirk]

Broken hip, just waiting to happen!

[@LiveLoveCHXBeach]

Makes me crazy.. I know of ladies who should use a cane and wear inappropriately high with shoes with no socks and complains she cold and falls argghh

[@janeseemann2527]

Block heels solve a lot of problems! 😀

[@angelacrowder6127]

Good morning Erin, I absolutely enjoyed your video! Thank you so much! Have a wonderful day!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! You too, Angela! xo

[@berniceormoc1467]

This video is so informative but at the same time, so entertaining & hilarious, especially with the exaggerated demonstrations 🤣 Good job on the great content & effective delivery, as always, Erin 👏👏👏

[@pattorelli3451]

Great tips, Erin, and I loved your dog watching you try to walk in those high heels 😂.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Pat! xo

[@allthatfluffnstuffQLDaustralia]

This was so informative, so thank you very much Erin for sharing. I am a new subscriber and very new to KZbin. Good morning from Australia 🇦🇺

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad it was helpful! Welcome! I'm SO glad that you found my channel! xo

[@verawhite1586]

Just love your excellent style tips and your wonderful sense of humor. You make fashion so much fun!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm so glad! Thank you, Vera! xo

[@sherylbeamer7189]

Erin I just love these these sorts of videos from you! You’re so funny and help us so much! Thank you! ❤️👏🏻💕🥰

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Sheryl! xo

[@Sallysask]

I find underwire bras SO uncomfortable. So hard to find good support without it, but I will NOT wear underwire.

[@LisaLisaD1]

Loved this, Erin! I agree with so many, and guilty of a few 🤪 ❤️ Lisa

[@BusbeeStyle]

Aww...thank you, Lisa! We are all guilty of a few 😂❤️

[@elizabethrose997]

Omg right I’m getting addicted to your channel and believe your tips are so on points. ❤️💕🥰🤩💜

[@lisamarierobinson3220]

@@sassydoe9407 Well thanks Sassy, so appreciate the kind words. Taking time to pay attention to my style, is a compliment always. Thanks ❤️

[@cindywiemers9149]

Yesssss! Great video Erin!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Love ya, Cindy 💗🌻

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Cindy! xo

[@candylong9795]

Another great video and tips! Funny this was posted today, because my husband said just last night, “every time we are out someone compliments something you have on”. Helping my friends in our age group (over 65) to stop wearing all those no no’s of bad habits from years past. How about a new video of 2021 jeans outfits? I’m in Texas and still wear my skinny jeans...(western boots from over the knee to booties are still in my uniform) but have newer jean styles too. Keep them coming, Erin! 💕♥️💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

Great suggestion, Candy! xo

[@thehousecatdiary9667]

So funny. I tried to tell my daughter recently about big up top, skinny around the bottom and vice versa and she said nobody does that anymore. I guess it’s the Billie Eilish style. Quite like it actually.

[@jkanful]

I want to dress for my lifestyle. I live in Hawaii (surfer all year long)where its very casual and wearing cut off shorts, flannel and flip flops are appropriate at all ages. Comfort is key

[@BusbeeStyle]

As you should! You still have a style uniform...it's surfer casual! xo

[@zebhk]

Loved this video. Thank you! Loved seeing the Dean Davidson Castle ring on you! I am a fan of his jewelry! 💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad you enjoyed it! Me too! xo

[@maureenpacker910]

Good reminders guilty of a couple too. I like the spray wrinkle releaser that works on many fabrics. Double check your specific fabric. Thanks again for all the information!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Maureen! Great suggestion! xo

[@tinam761]

I’d love to see a video on shoes 👠 for aging feet. I’d LOVE ❤️ to wear cute heels, but age has caught up to me. I need help finding feet friendly shoes. Many of us will end up with surgery for bunions etc. and afterwards still want to wear something pretty for an evening out. Help! I wear Dansko now all the time, but could use some advice on other brands and styles.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Have you seen this video, Tina? kzbin.info/www/bejne/jHLPn3Vjf8uIbcU

[@EvaMariposa]

Guilty of dressing too old for my age, all my life, and the uncomfortable high heels shoes...😬 Thanks Erin! Love your videos 💕

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Eva! xo

[@jerseygurlinmaryland]

Great video! Good reminders of what not to do. Not giving up my high tops though.

[@elizabethrose997]

Yes do you agree middle of the road is my favorite price Pont! Lol! I still remember teaching my niece how to walk in my stilettos before a fashion show I last min put her in! 🥰

[@judys1340]

2 sided tape for those blouses that are a tad too tight at the buttons. I think I learned that fro you 😉

[@ejalltheway2339]

LOL - the part where you were walking in the high, high, heels and your dog was like "um, Mum? what's doin'?"

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are too funny! xo

[@elizabethrose997]

Love! Classy and effortless but natural

[@deenap307]

You have such a funny personality! I love watching your videos for the content, but your humor is amazing!!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you so much, Denna! xo

[@leigho968]

Hi! I am new to this channel and loving it! Would like to see how you would recommend styling yourself if you do carry an extra 20 pounds. Maybe with a heavier model? I see how the boxy look does age you, but don't know if I can pull off the styles you recommend with the menopause tummy weight. (Saw your video on that as well and found it helpful and motivating.)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Welcome! SO glad you are enjoying my channel! We are working on ways to incorporate different body shapes onto the channel, but for now you may find these videos helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaCYpniEntSIb5I and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e4qugo2NqtGhaq8

[@mtaylor7307]

Converse sneakers are always age appropriate. It's all in how you lace.

[@Cloudsandcurls1303]

I’ll be wearing Converse hi tops to the senior home lol

[@debbiedaniel9774]

So glad to read this! I’m 59, tall and considering buying a pair of high tops to wear with my cropped jeans. But I don’t want to steal my daughter’s style...it’s a dilemma!

[@bubblestheterrible]

Agree. I have a rare pair of really cute vans high tops and I don’t think they look any sillier or inappropriately young than some of the golden goose sneakers that fashion influencers go nuts over. Vans and chucks for life.

[@mtaylor7307]

@@debbiedaniel9774 I think Converse can look feminine. I have several pairs but probably prefer regular sneaker over high top. I play with the lacing for different looks. You can go funky, classic, prep, girlie, change lace colors and textures. I go without socks look (low-rise footies) or color for accent or fun prints. I did dress up a pair with male dress socks when wearing a white over sized shirt and simple sweater for causal day at work. (Edit: sometimes I turn down the high top like a collar and I have done this with peakaboo sock and the without look---i don't actually recommend going bare in converse or you'll get that sneaker foot odor that boys get!--lol) If you make the sneakers your own? They won't be a style steal of your daughters. I had been wearing mine for years before Oprah Winfrey starting sporting them. All of the sudden half of the women over 40 in my neighborhood got a pair. My first pair of "boy sneakers"? It was the 70s. Some elephant leg jeans just needed them!

[@mtaylor7307]

@@Cloudsandcurls1303 me too! I got my first pair in 1970 and wore them with elephant leg jeans!

[@cathylehman7538]

Loved the guest appearance of your dog sitting there so attentive and adoring!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you, Cathy! She loves being part of my videos! xo

[@noemimatias3729]

Excellent video! Thanks for all the wonderful tips. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@BusbeeStyle]

Glad it was helpful, Noemi! xo

[@jadexplores2100]

I'm 42 and my wardrobe is so confusing now lol. I am constantly feeling like items are too tight, too loose (matronly), too short, too long (making my short frame look frumpy and older) or too young (i.e., trying too hard) or too old. Really trying to find my 'happy place' with my clothes at the moment.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Finding that balance can be tricky. I hope that this video was helpful! xo

[@channahnoyb4803]

I’m the same age as you and I’ve always tried to dress fashionably, but I’m like you at this stage- confused, but trying to find a new normal for my forties. I so don’t want to look like I’m dressing like a 20 something year old.

[@ninajohnson6578]

Erin. Help us with hats! Ahhhhh. Gotta wear one when walking and outside in the summer. Sunburn scalp is NOT pretty. Thank ❤️

[@spiritmatter1553]

Heck yeah! I’m not dressed without a hat!

[@tonyawinton3225]

Thanks for tips Erin. I also loved the comedic examples 😀. I swear you are helping me through these challenging times (as are my spiritual practices and meditation 🙏❤️). Thank you Erin!!!😘

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are SO sweet, Tanya! Thank you! xo

[@robertahall4960]

Perfect Erin!! Thank you. Been there, done that.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You're so welcome, Roberta! xo

[@KaylaRoseCampbell]

Lol I’m 21 and I don’t even like dressing like people my age 😂

[@rebeccatomasetti3636]

Enjoy it while you can sweetie. You will miss it when it is gone. But definitely you can take it up a notch-young, sexy, and sophisticated- that’s the triple threat!!👍😘

[@BassPlayerSusan]

My niece is your age and she'd agree with you. My nephew thinks that Sheryl Crow is far sexier than most female pop-stars (I call 'em "pop-tarts") out there now.

[@ashleyschmidt9376]

Same girl, people my age (22) dress so weird sometimes.

[@GardenHomie]

Dress how you want Kayla, whatever feels comfortable to you.👍

[@marlamoss1302]

Hey Erin I love your channel! I have a question. I am planning a trip to Disney this fall I want to be super comfortable but I don’t want to look frumpy or baggy I am 57 years old I want to look cute and cool yet comfortable do you have any suggestions for a five day Disney excursion? Thanks in advance!

[@BusbeeStyle]

I have two great Disney videos that should help you plan: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q6bRk6qPe62AkLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/q3ezqIhrfLaJY8k I show you exactly what I wore each day! I hope you have a great time, Marla! xo

[@angelaleeanne5258]

Love your channel. Exactly what I need. Thank you so much ❤.

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome, Angela! xo

[@CatherinesChronicles_]

Such a terrific video!! Merci

[@123cindyb]

I’m 60, if I could rock a crop top I would do it!

[@SleepStoriesASMR]

I gotta admit, at 40, I still wear crop tops-but only with really high-waisted skirts

[@BassPlayerSusan]

@@SleepStoriesASMR I'll be 44this year. I can still get away with a slight crop and the right jeans

[@Ilovevintage77]

You go!! ☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️ I wear a crop top with very high waist skirt or high rise jeans.

[@komrad7907]

Don't limit yourself, I think it can look good depending on the type of crop top🥰

[@staceykersting705]

@@SleepStoriesASMR That's the trick! I was just about to comment same.

[@MaryMelin]

Much to my shock and dismay, I checked my old bra’s fit, and the girls were looking off to the sides...yikes! So , thanks to you, the girls are now up front and center...woohoo!

[@thepreppygigi8216]

Thanks Erin! Although plus-sized, Lane Bryant is not my go to, except in a couple areas mentioned in your video. First, their button up shirts/classic shirts have hidden buttons at the bust. Second, their jeans, especially the tighter tummy line, keep you from the dreaded muffin. Third, their Cacique line of bras address support for large bust and plus sizes. Everyone have a great day!

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! Thanks for sharing. They do have some great key basics! xo

[@mk6455]

Thanks Erin, great as usual. You got me thinking again about my signature style. It’s been hard to define since I retired but I would say boots/sneakers (funky), jeans or leggings, sweaters -turtleneck or v-neck. Canada-so puffer coat or black long wool wrap coat, beret or head band and a leather tote bag.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you! xo

[@lynnlazenby-faulkner3033]

Who are these aliens that love to iron...lol

[@BusbeeStyle]

Right? xo

[@cherylanne6549]

I have a friend who loves to iron. She says it's relaxing and satisfying. She wears nothing but linen. I don't even own an iron. If it doesn't smooth out in the dryer, I donate it. I don't actually own any linen!

[@anavalenz9716]

I love to iron, it relaxes me😁😌

[@QueenofArgyle2525]

This is hilarious. The TP😄👍

[@dianeharrison4975]

If it needs ironing yes if not no!

[@sloftin]

I love crop tops and will continue to rock them while I still can. LOL! :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Go for it! xo

[@JillJ]

As you should.

[@labornurse]

They are fine with high waisted bottoms, especially.

[@honeybwp1]

I have learned so much about fashion and style from you. 👏🏽 To you Madame. Some of these I have implemented in my improving style and others I’ll begin to try. Thxs again

[@BusbeeStyle]

I'm SO happy to hear that! xo

[@angelasshows]

I love your videos! You give good, practical advice for REAL people. You have a great sense of humor too. Thanks for doing these. :)

[@BusbeeStyle]

You are so welcome! I appreciate that, Angela! xo

[@macmama6836]

I also use a blazer and jeans for my uniform. Since covid I wear a turtle neck to avoid the whole mask thing. If I go in a store that requires one, I just pop it up over my mouth. I'm in a state with no mandates so it works.

[@guerralg63]

I despise jeans, because I'm short and not a skinny person. Even when i was thin i didn't like then, so learned to embrace slacks. Its amazing how the rigjt slacks can make you look, thinner, taller and classier.

[@alicewall5363]

Sitting here in my huge fuzzy robe, wondering if it's age-appropriate... :P (Thank you for another great video!)

[@BusbeeStyle]

Always appropriate first thing in the morning, Alice! Have a great day! xo

[@ms.newyawkeri7559]

Lol. Me too.

[@msjr1765]

Im reading through all the comments and you literally made me laugh out loud and almost choke on my peanut.

[@DT-su8cq]

😂

[@DH-qz2so]

Yes! Totally age appropriate...as long as it is clean, fuzzy, comfy, and has pockets...need those pockets...(remote, wine glass, chapstick.... wine glass...)

[@karireyes6710]

Your energy is great, I enjoy all of your videos. Hope your staying warm up there in CO!

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thank you SO much, Kari! xo

[@clairewillow6475]

I’m 30. But I’m at that point where I don’t want to look “young” anymore. I don’t want to look trendy and unsure of myself if that makes sense

[@kaitepfotenhauer7521]

I'm 33 I can relate. Where do we fit 😆

[@jessicag.3694]

Me three! I'm 34. I'm liking this gals' approach. I've seen this style of basics on women of all ages and it just looks good. Even my grandma in law (88!) And if you're in your 20's, you just look rich lolol.

[@jessicag.3694]

Actually, I think we're in the "ok I'm done looking stupid 5 years later" phase.

[@conspiraterry7393]

I laughed when you fell down in your heels!

[@colleenr5871]

Even though I've watched this before, it def bears rewatching. Thank you!

[@jh115]

Great video! If i feel bloated, i just put on a trusty shift dress, as they always look superb and are classic. They are not bodycon but shaped for a slimline silhouette and made of thicker material, so not stretchy x

[@BusbeeStyle]

Perfect!

[@MustardSeedish]

I agree with your bonus tip. My friends can wear a flowy kimono but I can't with my pear shape silhouette. Here's another tip about bra size, don't get your measurements from Victoria Secrets. For years I was wearing a bra strap that was two inches too big because they measure over the top of your breasts instead of where the bra strap is placed.

[@BusbeeStyle]

Thanks for sharing! xo