Busola VS. Pastor Fatoyinbo: Three Lessons To Learn Regardless Of Your Stand

[@esthererhahon8891]

I really admire Timi Dakolo for standing up for his wife. Most victims won’t talk about their ordeal until they have a strong sense of safety like a husband that will literally lay down his life for his wife. I believe Busola Dakolo and I pray for her as she continues on her healing journey. Trauma can be debilitating but God has been faithful.

[@keneorakwute2521]

God bless you my sister. I am a man but I understand how a woman feels in this kind of situation.

[@omoraheemy8777]

But it's now, or are you telling me that Busola just informed her husband about this and even if she just told him, why did she kept mute alll this while

[@bonnechance6988]

@@omoraheemy8777 Did you watch Busola's entire interview?

[@paulnelsonnwokeforo3939]

@@bonnechance6988 i wonder oh, abeg ask am again, talkless of this Adeola video sef?

[@lamrechane2477]

@@omoraheemy8777 Google it to find out when she told him, oponu

[@minaturalbeauty8146]

Ademola I can sense how emotional you felt this video. You nailed every word you said to the T. You brought the bacon home, in summary . I commend your effort, you are meticulously impeccable!!

[@atokeajibola6786]

All the victims here have no fear of God

[@jamespoda5621]

its time we look to God and not man... this video changed my prospective of how I judged the matter!

[@stolives5639]

I bless the womb that birth this amazing lady full of wisdom! This is super succinct. Thank you for this video, very useful indeed. The Lord will defend your cause o Adeola🙏🏽

[@johnani5972]

Amen

[@druzezi8438]

St Olives I am a very open minded person. I don’t look down on rape victims. But as a Doctor and someone who reasons, I wonder why she still went to his house voluntarily the same week after he raped her. And then got raped again. Isn’t that strange? Why are we being so emotional about this and ignoring reason. Some things in the story don’t sound right.

[@elisan3345]

@@druzezi8438 watching the story i think am reasoning wt you. Both how the first rape went.

[@MrZoszos]

@@druzezi8438 That's exactly my only concern in all the Saga. The easy repetition of the alleged incidence. Very confusing.

[@gracegracey294]

@@druzezi8438 have you heard of women being threatened.?.be empathetic. You would not write such if it was your daughter sister mum or wife. Nkt

[@asdfghjkl1903]

Yea nobody listened to the previous people that spoke out because they weren't popular. It's good she spoke out, it gives the other victims a reverberated voice

[@QueenFloxybee]

Well said sis. Well said. May God continue to empower you. Ase!!!

[@egaliteranspecie8525]

Very educative thanks a million

[@bigsamkay]

Totally agree with you. And we need to listen to everybody. We also need the law to do something. The problem here is not the church. The problem is the Law that seems it only applies to those who are not rich or in positions of authority.

[@mercyuwadia1763]

Good Talk Adeola

[@aksyn47]

@@bigsamkay wetin you want make law do about claims of 10yrs ago? A case of his or her words, nothing else. Abeg make una leave matter to God if you believe in God.

[@olasunkanmifasanya2820]

We don't need to wait for the other side to talk before drawing our conclusions. When a man talks, we just take it. It should be the same for a woman. I think the man needs a Psychiatric!

[@benedictiribhogbe5686]

A man cannot come out in Africa and claim he was raped and his claim will be taken without further abuse. He won't even speak out.

[@abayomiolagunju4494]

It's been long I saw her this serious. She really kept it real this time. Thanks for the video.

[@davetv4705]

Thanks for doing justice to the story as usual. Honestly we Nigerians need to change our "blaming the victim" mentality!

[@elbash1]

This is your best video of the year.. The advise was clear and you were logically serious on the matter.. Good job Adeola👍

[@Medzip_Me_Zouan]

Very well said!

[@francizmuteba9471]

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[@i__miles26]

I swear down man!

[@sose43]

The advice was clear quite alright, but she should have spent more time on educating women about how to handle the evidence of rape to allow for prosecution.

[@esekasunday1628]

@@sose43 rape has no concrete evidence because it is not planned. It's just like death, it happens to you unexpectedly

[@janekakaan8443]

I was raped at 16 years by someone very close to my family, a man we called ‘uncle’ ... this thing affected me for years on end, I was depressed, I started failing in school, and till this day I have trust issues. It’s hard to talk about even now, this man is currently an ambassador to one of the European countries. I’ve never told anyone in my family. I believe this lady , when I heard her story I imagined if the person who raped me was a pastor, no one would believe me. Please let’s be supportive of people who have gone through this, it’s not easy

[@stacyhugues1806]

I pray for complete healing and total peace in your life my dear. May God come through in your life also consider therapy that might help. I really sincerely wish you the best. Sending you lots and lots of love❤❤

[@ChisomisStillProlife.3378]

I'm so sorry 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@clapwithonehand9304]

I won't lie rape is very traumatic😞 it is very difficult to move on.

[@auntietee]

extremely

[@DayoSamuelMastery]

I empathize with you, Harrison. May you find healing and help so the memory is remodeled. If you need to talk to someone, I'm a therapist

[@clapwithonehand9304]

Dayo Samuel okay but how can i get in touch?

[@DayoSamuelMastery]

@@clapwithonehand9304 hey Harrison, my email is Dayo @ Audacity2Lead dot com ( please put them together, I wrote it this way because of scrawling bots and spam) I'd send my number to you via email

[@comfort123ita4]

So so traumatic u can never forget it

[@mr.augustus]

This time around , Adeola was keeping it REAL ! You kept it very real..

[@doranwafor3523]

Adeola you're really a great woman aside education you have the natural wisdom and all the potentials that takes to be a complete woman. I admire you alot, may God increase his grace upon you to continue in your wisdom amen.

[@tolulopetoluwade4116]

So far, this is the most intelligent analysis I have heard on this issue. Waiting to hear the other side. Thanks Adeola for always making intelligent analysis about issues, looking forward to hearing more.

[@ikeobi4095]

Waiting to hear from the other side of the story but at the start....she said she believed Bukola 100%.....common dont give appraisal to her as the best when she clearly stated she believed Bukola 100%.....am sorry am not having it......When the Pastor is proven guilty then I can castigate the Man of God.

[@blazes2000]

Adeola, I love your perspective on this issue. I wish I could be as clear as you on this matter. I worked part time at an eating disorder hospital in the UK and the sheer amount of insight into a person's or young person/s mental health can't be over-emphasized and I learnt a lot within a very short period because of my interest in mental health. The people who choose not to understand the situation are just ignorant, and I am not saying this to bring anyone down but stating a fact. Self education is very valuable because if you are unsure, you can find out or simply research instead of giving an opinion that is flawed. I stand with Busola because I believe her and it could be me. I also salute her courage. Thanks Adeola once again

[@christ_inspire_daily]

This must have touched Adeola, this video is different from all others

[@Nezeville]

Shemaiah Gaza very true

[@Love25648]

Trafik Rant With Neze yeah I’m scared of the implications why

[@shulicharles1866]

It not true .Read joseph book.if genesis he was accused. Wrongly

[@infinityennie535]

I strongly agree with you

[@ericnyikwagh1553]

I await the day you will launch a human right TV channel to stream unlimited content to shape our society for generations. You spoke with deep wisdom

[@rasheedbabatundemalik2466]

one human right radio and tv is already on and the producer is really trying....SEACH BREKETE FAMILY ON KZbin. U will enjoy it.

[@esekasunday1628]

@Bibi Georgewill what evidence do you expect a raped victim to provide? Apostle Suleiman escaped stephanie otobo allegations despite her obvious evidence because it was not a rape case. Don't expect any evidence from a raped victim because it was not planned

[@mariagorrettiachu7878]

Yes oh. She did . She too wise

[@joycaramel65]

I love the statement "He did not die for you" Jesus did!! ✨✨✨✨✨

[@imelda4jesus]

yes me too

[@blazeovich]

At this point, I openly denounce every so-called "man of God" who uses the pulpit to exploit, mislead, and abuse God's people, bringing shame to the body. According to the words of Jesus Himself, "You are of your father the devil, and the works of your father you will do!" True, nobody is perfect, and we're all flawed, but grace is by no means a license to persist in iniquity. This is not Jesus; this is indulgence and evil concupiscence and must be repented of. "Bring forth therefore fruits meant for repentance... Every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down and cast into the fire!" (Matthew 3:8-10) Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded. Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness. Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up." (James 4:8-10) For everyone who calls themselves a Christian, Christianity is not a religion, and it is not about going to Church, jumping, or shouting hallelujah. It's about having a relationship with God by grace through faith. No pastor can teach you this; you must learn it by yourself at the feet of Christ by studying the Word. That way you cannot be misled. For parents - fathers especially - you are the first protection and priest for your children. This is not the duty of any Church, but your salient responsibility as a parent. Teach your children BEFORE they even turn teenage. That way, if they walk into any gathering, they cannot be brainwashed or misled by every wind of doctrine. We are not to forsake the fellowship, but we are meant to guard our hearts with all diligence, and also to bring under subjection every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God... to the obedience of Christ! I'm so disgusted. DEAR LORD, HAVE MERCY!

[@wuraolaomotoye2078]

@Olukayode Esan A whole lot!

[@cryptomarshall5140]

Well said. Thanks

[@bezasolange3604]

Who loves her jacket like I do? Good message though. But couldn't get my eyes off your jacket

[@lkylky1730]

What's the jacket here?

[@deleobakorede]

🤣🤣 please don't rape her oo

[@lkylky1730]

What's so special about some African print ladies top? Why not focus on the substance instead of some African print fashion which I didn't even notice? I hope your intention isn't actually different. Be careful though, we are all watching.

[@divinefavor9375]

I was busy looking at the jacket also

[@madamadamakanuentertainmen5874]

Same here

[@Chennel93]

I once listen to a woman who said you can't fight the rich until you are wealthy Thanks adeola for your analysis

[@olukayodejoseph3664]

Overall, the problem with Nigerians in Nigeria, is Victimization... Victimization, a situation where you can't express yourself, due to the fear of negative reactions of the society at large..

[@ibnkhawf9508]

one of those reasons hellfire makes so much sense to me...if you think you are an untouchable overlord in this world...The supreme being is waiting for you and you can't escape!

[@InfoimpressTV]

watch dis for de full video 👇 👇 👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJqvpp9vp9FgZrM

[@lolukush2172]

I am seriously wondering who the 384 dislikers are.....what on earth are you disliking in this sensible video?

[@JudahLPV]

They are potential rapists and supporter of wickedness. Even the devil clicked like, so wtf!!.

[@jmkbee5334]

COZA members?

[@aladetoyosi6403]

Some people r just naturally stupid

[@amb.reeves923]

Adeola Fayehun, thanks mama you couldn't have said it any better. I love you my dear.

[@frankobochi]

Well articulated, apt and straight to the point. Thank you for this.

[@powerman6952]

i got news that they are refusing first timers from entering the church today, never thought i would see the day a Nigerian church reject new comers lol

[@blackjesusdieorbar3537]

What!!??

[@TWUMKWAME5]

What is going on in this so call churches in Africa? Na wa oooo!

[@blessingezinne20]

power man lol cos pple want to go and hear what they will say in the church today

[@zobanwa]

These pastors have become demigod, I stop going to black churches cos they promote themselves above God

[@mcbenckosfx5846]

Ọmọ na wa o🤣🤣🤣

[@ebubechiibegbula5968]

Wow Adeola I didn't even know Tokunbo Ajayi committed suicide I just stopped hearing her name on NTA, there was no social media then..... So sad.....

[@ebubechiibegbula5968]

@Ile Adura beni(yes ) ma

[@abioduna.1241]

Adeola, I can see you woke early to do this. I like your seriousness with this. I remember Tokunboh Ajayi so well and how she committed suicide.

[@fantakwt6208]

Abiodun Awoyemi even me i have rep by my uncle sence when I 15 years old but I never told any body. An since them i never talk to him

[@stesyls]

@@fantakwt6208 I'm really sorry for you. But be strong, the best thing it is to talk about it with someone close to you. It will help a lot.

[@justbelieve2675]

@@fantakwt6208 I suggest you tell it to someone to ease yourself from the burden.

[@abiodunabimbola3746]

Preach on sister. A lot of people are quick to judge the victim because they need to justify their own guilt.

[@surajuolusegunajadi2573]

@@fantakwt6208 please share it with someone close to you. I mean a confidant who could help seek closure without escalating it.

[@olajideoni2566]

Such a GIFTED lady!!!! I'm impressed. GOD keep you always always Amen

[@mch7933]

the 17 people who disliked this video are rapists or potential rapists. There is nothing to dislike about all you just said

[@titi9238]

Or enablers of rapists.

[@paulnelsonnwokeforo3939]

@@titi9238 hahaha, u are funny

[@eugeniababyqueenmascheroni4257]

M CH yes seriously my dear. Some people in this world are unbelievable.

[@Vclef92]

I love the "idol worship" part. She nailed it there

[@bihpride4772]

U speak with so much wisdom.. I agree with u

[@dariuskiprotich9094]

Silence is one way of giving powers to the oppressors ,we should stop it

[@olabisiolaleye7083]

Please let's use a lie detector.i don't believe Busola and I am not on Pastors side.The bible urge us to find investigate matters and hold on to the truth

[@benjaminajayi2277]

These people are not pastors they are business men and women

[@nendy69920]

You are welcome. Thank you.

[@yvettetagoe3627]

Only Jesus is perfect

[@benjaminajayi2277]

Yvette Tagoe bible says Matthew 18:6 says whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea. @YVETTE please read your Bible...

[@je9625]

Predators

[@michaelheery7427]

Exactly jet aircraft men

[@oyindamolaakinpelu9031]

God bless you Adeola. Thanks for addressing this... hopefully some mindsets will change .

[@naijatalkertive]

Exactly what I have been telling some people and they are too dumb, blind and foolish to see it because he is a pastor

[@Goodnews-kc8yr]

Adeola you spoke well. Very objective and intelligent point of view. Thanks👍

[@akinomokogboh8761]

Mrs Koledowo 👌 for this balanced report, always proud of your job. Well-done.

[@tosinmustapha6989]

I am proud of you, Adeola. I remember when you started with Saharareporters and you have really been inspiring people. Keep up the good work.

[@deborahtatama4480]

A very objective point if view. Thank You Adeola.

[@aigbedotimola3278]

Thank God for technology they should go for detective test no matter how long it's detective test would prove everything

[@debbiebalogun8803]

@@aigbedotimola3278 *lie detector*

[@oyed861]

Absolutely loved every word you said today Adeola... factual and straight to the point. Well balanced opinion.

[@ifechristy7523]

Thank you so much Adeola This is really inspiring

[@uchechiokeke7844]

Well said Adeola, victims of sexual abuse(both gender) find it hard to speak out because they are either victimized or the accuser gets scot free with the crime.

[@Missforexcharts]

And the stigma too makes it difficult for them to talk

[@yvettetagoe3627]

Men of God are just vessel to be used by God,the devil can use them,spirit of lust

[@suckrientertainment5232]

I dey find who go rape me. Kai i go give the babe all the style

[@uchechiokeke7844]

@@suckrientertainment5232 very funny but you may not be in the frame of mind to give any style while the act is going on cos you may be in shock or wondering how you found yourself in such a position

[@nenesaamuel3970]

@@@suckrientertainment5232 that is if you are raped by a woman, what if you are raped by one heavy weight lighter?

[@eberechimaraihe3223]

You tried. My first time to see you this calm and serious here. No jokes and clapping of hands. Lol

[@ebubechiibegbula5968]

Walahi the thing touch adeola

[@soniaelliott974]

I'm in tears, our people really need to be enlightened. God bless you, your message comes from the heart.

[@wuraolaomotoye2078]

It's time to do things the 21st Century way! Cosby's case, on my mind. Years after his crime he got booked! Remember how tough Lewinsky's case was, against an incumbent President of the strongest Country in the world!

[@SportsSalem]

There was evidence to nail those cases and that's the only difference between them and us. No judicial system anywhere in the world will give redress without evidence.

[@ngumcareen7096]

I love this lady. I can feel the sadness in you when you are talking about it. God bless u

[@judithdarkey923]

Hmmm but other people in church knew about the rape case so why should someone says she's lying, God have mercy on all of us.

[@lessharm]

judith darkey did they , really ?

[@adrianwalton6162]

The church members don't want to accept that the pastor is a rapist, because they believe in the pastor more than God.....

[@InfoimpressTV]

judith darkey kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJqvpp9vp9FgZrM

[@tees1065]

Busola pointed direct fingers at two pastors; Wole and Flo. It’s interesting that neither of them have come out to deny the allegations. Their silence is deafening. If this case ever goes to court, I hope they’re both subpoenaed.

[@clarak.mallah4137]

Flashback, nightmare, can't sleep, worry, think, sad, alone and unwanted. I can understand...

[@bigtymerbitz]

For 15yrs?

[@debest2250]

Did it happen to you too?

[@87lafoie]

@@bigtymerbitz Yes, from your reaction, victim would suffer until the end of their life and not feel comfortable sharing. I am hoping your love one never have to suffer such a faith.

[@justme951]

Is even more difficult when a child comes out of it.

[@annickmahan7458]

@@bigtymerbitz you can even be affected for life after being rape.I was around 8 year old when it happens by my uncle the flashback stop but not completely after I met Christ and today because of the rape I don't trust anybody around my kids.I won't even accommodate a man or boy in my house family member or not because of my kids.I pray constantly for my kids.Everytime they are not with me I am thinking about them and praying.It is so serious that maybe that's why God has not given me a girl because I don't know how extremely protective I'll be.May God help every rape person out there.

[@mocoker3568]

Bravo! You hit the nail on the head Adeola. Well done my sister 👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@bayoifebajo9009]

Thank you Adeola. You are a blessing to our generation

[@idehenprecious8480]

Make dakolo family go boil stone's ,where is her evidence ,,,,hope she save the sperm ,the condoms and the blood stain clothes since she was a virgin so that she can show the evidence in court

[@lydyasakyi3969]

@@idehenprecious8480 Are you okay my dear. You are the reason why perpetrators are protected and victims shamed. If you go through sexual abuse, you will understand. But don't be ignorant.

[@reelspilltv]

I conducted a personal survey and found out that one in every two girls I grew up with from primary and secondary school in Nigeria, and even my own spouse, were victims of rape or serious sexual assault. I have about 90 female friends. Most were sexually assaulted by a family member or relative or friend of their parents or a so-called acquaintance from university. Almost all of the remaining 45 have been propositioned for sex by a boss or manager at work or by a lecturer at university.

[@ogbeemmanuel5140]

Thank very much. You nailed it, i really commend your effort and how you view this.....

[@clarak.mallah4137]

Those who asking those silly questions are all evil!!

[@esthapeace4234]

Exactly

[@clarak.mallah4137]

@Bibi Georgewill people are asking because they're stupid and obsessed with the so called pastor. Busola is successful why will she want to hurt or lie on Biodum? Nonsense! I stand with her!!

[@j.babiweedor461]

You gave a lot of insights in the way victims of rape feel. Initially, I had planned to watch for a few minutes, but ended up watching the entire clip. Thank you for the video.

[@tolulopemary8795]

God bless you ma'am. Only those that has affected can really understand better...

[@cocooconnor1968]

God bless you.....our level of tolerance in Nigeria is sickening.

[@davefx_]

You are just too good in social analysis GOD BLESS YOU I LOVE YOU 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pj081505]

How many women in Nigeria who haven't travelled out of Nigeria, or read/listen to news from the west, understand this?

[@nigeriapeopleunited539]

Guess if it was a Catholic priest a lot of people would have believed

[@shalomnwachineke8677]

Ahahahahhahah you are right

[@ednaaalin]

😩

[@SportsSalem]

Why? What's the difference between a Catholic Priest and other men of God? All people are saying is bring evidence and we will believe.

[@aijayaijay9903]

@@SportsSalem I think it's because priests don't get married so people always believe they commited such as they don't have wives

[@legendimuwahen2439]

@Pecu the Catholic Church has given up priests who did rubbish, some had been jailed in Australia and some cases are in court.. And please a PASTOR is different from a PRIEST we are not like other Christians who worship Pulpit bandits and pimps instead of Jesus

[@christophermonday1173]

I have listen to busola's interview ,she did mentioned some pastors and elders in the church at that time who are fully aware of the whole issue .Let them speak out for Christ sake

[@udokaejiofor1502]

Aa

[@micci973]

I remember when my mother would always cautioned us to lock the door and never open the door, not even to my relatives until she comes back. This had protected us from some rapists that always visit our house when my parents are away, literally. Sometimes, they will lie that my mother sent them to get something for her or that they came to drop something for her. Anytime she comes back, we tell her what this person and she would praise us for being smart and obeying her. And those people, eventually raped some little girls in my vicinity. If not for my mother, my sisters and I would have been in such trauma and be tagged as raped. That is why till today, I will forever be grateful to my mother. In my mother's Word "trust no one except God cause people that claim to know God more than you are the deadliest".

[@btstories74]

"We raise people to the point they can do no wrong"....that right there is the main issue wrong with Nigerian Christianity.

[@chrisohams8843]

God will bless you my sister. This is same argument over been having with people.

[@Chris-Oyema]

"I will never understand why it is more shameful to be raped than to be a rapist" - Anonymous Thanks to Busola for speaking up and giving voice to others.

[@jacklinekipsutto5381]

It is emotional, you loose your self esteem, your self worth, even become bitter, unforgiving. Only God can heal the wounds.

[@olubalogun7794]

Please let's exercise caution. Do not vilify Adeola, she has been very objective about this issue. Listen, watch, think and understand....do not be an educated illiterate.

[@samuelikonallaholokpo9063]

Adeola didn't laugh this time. Serious. Thanks for this video.

[@imelda4jesus]

yes oh i was thinking the same.

[@bessemca2005]

Samuel Ikonallah Kroz Olokpo It’s a very sensitive issue .

[@poky2914]

you should only meet your pastor in church in the presence of another person

[@moyneal1065]

THANK YOU! Thank you so much for addressing this issue!

[@ShakiratIyabo]

Aunty ADEOLA, I can't stop loving you 😘😘😘

[@benedictodion5562]

Thank you Adeola.... You spoke my mind.. MOG are prone to mistake

[@nevermore464]

Adeola!❤❤ I stand with you. Very great message to all Africans. Thank you for speaking up.

[@Lawrencedairoproduction]

Well analyzed and constructed. Sukuru wo lo lo( which school you attended). I like your grammar so comprehensive and mature.

[@clarak.mallah4137]

So, is not his first time doing so? He needs to be arrested and prosecuted and imprisoned.

[@jessicagweh1027]

Thank you for your video. I like how educative it is and how you made a conscious effort to state that you are not passing judgement. God bless you for this video

[@chrisohams8843]

Everything I have in my head you helped me put them together in a video like this. I'm crying hear really. God bless you Sis.

[@chinelofrancisca9120]

I love your objective point of view. It is actually difficult to separate yourself emotionally from this.

[@Greatness_236]

I can’t love you less. God bless you Adeola.

[@DayoSamuelMastery]

Adeola, thank you for this. I'm a professional therapist, and I've had to weep because of the aftermath of this particular case. It has opened up a lot of unhealed wounds, and some of these people are innocent in all forms. But are people taken advantage of by people of authority, and power. Thanks for your wisdom, and the balance you brought in. If anyone would like some help, I'd be glad to offer my services.

[@wsbddssed538]

God bless adeola Nigerians are not ready for a change. Truth is the key to a good life ✌🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@Kolapodaniels]

Sis!!! I can't help but say, thank you!!! This is Wisdom from above.

[@yaweklim]

Thanks sister. We African man have to understand there is no development without us protecting our little girls, women. Not at all . Let's protect our women and stop rape anyway. God bless you sister.

[@danielhassandanbaba7201]

God bless you my sistet

[@titi9238]

Thank you for this comment.

[@jamez1224]

"replacing God with men of God" thank you sister

[@Blessedchild609]

Well said

[@justinebangs3471]

Thank you so much Adeola you are really the daughter of the soil, this is really objectives.

[@shondetemitope6008]

Hummm thank you dear sister, don t mind the people asking such questions if they have been there they will know how destroying it is to be there rape, I was crying when I saw bisola's video because her story make me realise that what am going through is as a result of me being abused I thought I was heal until I listened to her story and I still find out that the pain still in my life, I even told my family when issues started they said I was the one who seduced the man, can you imagine at age 14 seducing a man since they couldn't listen to me then the man continued and I have no one report the issues to again, God rescued me and I left the house, it was after 6 year that my family later find out that I was saying the truth concerning the man but it was too later because my relationship with my family had been broken and because of that till today I don't see them as people love me even thought am trying to love them, another thing is that parent should be careful don t let your child see you as their enemy dont be far from them, remember you are in that marriage because of them, make them your best friend, teach them the word of God if all parents can do that the issue of rape will reduce, when a person is rape more than one is call abuse which is the deadly part, see if you have a friend tgat you love so much but yet he or she doesn't love or trust you check the person this are some of the signs that the person has gone through such thing, and one thing that people don t know is that either you were raped or not we all suffer the pain because if you were not rape but you will want to make friends and want to love people and if your friend was raped or abused before it will be difficult for you to enjoy that relationship because some time they will remember they issues and pass the anger on you so are we not all eating the pain? for those that has not being rape I pray it wouldn't happen to you or any of your family and for us that need healing we are heal in Jesus name Amen

[@o.edwardoladapo8311]

Adeola,God bless you with more wisdom..... thanks again for good job 👍

[@dorisada8243]

You just gained a subscriber for keeping it so real. I love u loads and thank you for keeping it real.

[@oluwatimileyinogunfolaji9947]

My respect for you just increased by a 100%. You have spoken with wisdom.

[@jaelshake1126]

well said. its a shame not all people feel the same way. you really speak wisdom. love your advice

[@jenniferchuks454]

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[@iao.3956]

Wow! Wow!! Wow!!!.. My super intelligent Adeola. God bless you for this video,infact this is an award winning vidoe in 2019.well said my dear and keep up doing the good job👍👍👏👏

[@eddyemma9875]

Adeola, you reason like a goddess, you articulate like an angel. It is so wonderful how you analyze objectively. By the way, there is something about the Busola story that single-handedly commands my deepest sense of believability

[@clarak.mallah4137]

I have my story and I'm praying to meet someone to help me reveal it. Rape never heals.

[@sndbeauty9965]

Clara K. Mallah I can relate, it’s something one lives with every day 😭😭😭

[@iSketchyHub]

Try unbroken.ng

[@dorcasabubakar8713]

Please speak when you still can my sister. We are all here for you. And remember, your truth mite just be helping someone at the moment

[@Twin1294]

I am with you sis! When you are ready please speak. No matter how big or small your platform. You have a voice and I stand with you. You are a survivor!

[@HillCityMusico]

Publicly declaring it doesn't heal anyone either. Ask God to help you forgive the offender, share it with trusted members of your family who need to know and move on with your life. You are more than this.

[@rubytuesday9831]

Deola you put it so succinctly! The politicians are no different !

[@lateefayinla2412]

Adeola, I beg God, the Almighty, to bless you more than you have expected. You are indeed a blessing to thief great country, Nigeria.

[@monicagift2724]

I think am beginning to like you sis, you are the best swt hrt thanks for coming this way God bless you.

[@ezekielkingsley7399]

Wow.. This is powerful, God bless you for this massages

[@misterdanfemi2572]

Thank you Adeola, your objectivity is what I appreciate the most. Thanks again

[@mariebrii]

ADEOLA, EXCELLENT COVERAGE ON THIS. YOU SPOKE WITH WISDOM AND INTELLIGENCE.

[@motpeters9807]

👏👏👏👏 Thank you for this well spoken address. Support Abuse Victims not Abusers!

[@otowanseedorf1721]

Who really care about the poor in nigeria, you even get hate because you're poor

[@okuomose1]

It's a global thing idiot..Nobody cares about the poor.

[@nenesaamuel3970]

My dear you are very right, if you poor you can't see "man of God" but if you are rich hmmmmm. May God help His church! People are now closer to pastor than to God.

[@otowanseedorf1721]

@@okuomose1 You're just a fool

[@lawrenceatkinson]

One of the best take home here is..... "STOP Replacing GOD with man" ... there's no other better way to better stress that point .......