《 我 》When It's All About Me | A Butterworks Trilogy

[@erikagonzales03]

Butterworks is really doing well when it comes to real-life encounters with your loved ones. Life ain't fantasy. Keep it up guys!

[@dulcenayen]

I find this very intriguing. It's not only the guy who is selfish, it's both of them. Relationships falls apart and quarrel happens because both people are selfish and not accommodating to each other. Thank you for the reminder :) I hope people don't think it's just the guy's fault, but also the girl's! It takes 2 hands to clap!

[@nervxxx]

Yea both parties are quite selfish here, the guy for imposing what he thinks the ideal scenario is on her, and the girl for coming in with a shitty attitude without trying to understand what he has done and just demanding that they go back. Both are toxic in their approach, and it's super hypocritical when they lecture the other person on what's 'right'. Ideally the guy should have listened to how the girl is feeling and changed the plans / compromised; the girl should have tried to understand what the guy had planned and be more appreciative and willing to make a compromise too, despite being super tired (tiredness is not an excuse for being able to have your way). At the end of the day it's always about communication and compromise.

[@charvit1811]

That's deep

[@Butterworks]

When its all about me, myself and I… unknowingly. The next time a quarrel happens, question yourself too. Please support our OST for this trilogy called 《 你我他 》sung by Yichao Teoh & Rachel Toh. Here’s the link: open.spotify.com/album/4g8ResS8xnMUwjZadBUhIg Thank you guys for the support :)

[@chiawei1875]

i love all ur videos 😍😍😍

[@dorothychoong8848]

Butterworks ur videos inspire me a lot , and I finish watching all ur videos :)

[@arabesque2222]

the acting is so natural. like!

[@nildzakheirizzad969]

Rules to watch butterworks vid: 1) Click like 2) Play

[@heyyyitsjoelle8569]

i love how you guys show the reality of relationships, the bitter part i guess :")) one of the most genuine youtube channels ive came across 🌻

[@chriskuahth]

Isn't relationships about sacrifice and compromise? We all can relate to it somehow. But how many of us will let our ego overtake us?

[@smellypitsbob]

i know i'll never be disappointed with a butterworks film👍👍👍

[@jdkhry]

They're both right..... dangggggg

[@bobvin96]

你们真棒！期待下一个影片！我个人觉得有时候情侣之间都会为了给彼此一些的惊喜而闹到彼此都不开心，所以惊喜这件事是因人而异的。

[@greenygreentea]

Tearing... Acting on point, issue so realistic ); Good job!

[@thamyi-shen8001]

Seeing the notification pop up on my phone from you guys is the best part of today!!

[@ny1fanta]

This happened to me and my ex too, planned everything out, and then in the end I was the selfish one. Sometimes I really hate some girls don't appreciate the effort you put in it. And when you don't plan anything, you are fucked too.

[@douknodawae7805]

Zee Wil i hope my bf does what u do but im actually being the bf in this rs and my bf is acting like a gf

[@exghostzplays]

NoobGamingForLyfe lmao

[@shawnaw2]

That just means either your approach was wrong, (usually lack of hints for the girl, I'm a guy too so I know that feeling) or she does not consider any of your plans as a plausible plan (no matter situation); for the latter case, she is not the one for you.As for not planning, well welcome to the life of a guy mostly haha. But we still love them don't we?

[@feonahho908]

Waiting for the next "他” 😍

[@isabelletws]

This series is legit nice and relatable so far! Love the soundtrack and have been listening to it on Spotify!

[@nickkoh7944]

I could resonate to this as I'm guilty...thanks for making me realise that love should be simple. Cherish your love, this is more important than any material comfort. Thanks.

[@chrisanne7008]

So good and so real. Keep these sketches coming! Never stop making such videos. It's so raw I can feel the emotions piercing through my heart! :)

[@Identi3Profiling]

Awesome! We collected a sample size of 11,000 people in Singapore and their Empathy traits measure the lowest between 20 - 40 years old. Also shown in your video, how 'Power Struggle' comes into play. When love is gone, 'Power Struggle' crepes in. Each couple suffers from 'Self-Righteousness'. Great video!

[@mjforever3531]

For couples who constantly fight, please remember: It’s not Him/her vs you It’s You & Him/her vs the problem

[@mehh4426]

Perfect imperfections, such a beautiful work done with many hidden meanings. break a leg and good luck!

[@yummy4567]

Great job guys at Butterworks! I am sure many couples have been through this... including myself.

[@kyronconradjunus7119]

Love it so much. Could relate to your stories. Keep up the Amazing work! Love from Australia

[@muthuproductions100]

Can we have more of such videos! It's just so damn good, Butterworks deserves so much better and best in Singapore for KZbin!

[@stanpentagon5907]

New fan here 🖐 hi butterworks i have been binge-watching all your videos and each movie was great 💯 i love all your works keep it guys! 😘

[@carislam7627]

is this a part 2 of in love with a nameless ghost? 😏

[@jeevithass115]

Caris Lam most probably yes..or maybe not...they would know it better

[@agnesadisastra7609]

In love with all of your videos ! Keep it up Butterworks

[@sushmitasutradhar4880]

Each one of us have a different kind of way of Love, that's it

[@Ct239Dzafirah]

lesson learnt: you can never win an argument with a girl😅

[@yuzhou7614]

you have a story,please start your perform,haha

[@je77yan]

Feminist

[@xiiaoxiiaozinczxc]

Another amazing video. Thanks! :)

[@juzanordinarygirl8107]

Omg this is so relatable to our own story

[@lokisenpaiii]

relatable contents :') good job butterworks!!

[@acm2125]

Very nice ! Love the concept.

[@amsyarariffin7765]

THAT COMEBACK. Snaaaap.

[@nixeon]

This upped the game from last ep m8 nice one lah

[@ybbolb]

Both parties are thinking about themselves. Isn't she forcing her idea of a good time on to him as well?

[@poogledyblue]

ybbolb I don't think so. I don't think she is forcing. She is and already said that she is tired from work and prefers to go home and relax. It is the guy who got angry at her for not being able to make it. I think the guy could have been more reasonable and ask her if they could postpone the date to another day. It's not like it had to be that special day.

[@shawnaw2]

Well, if you see it the other way,he started off being polite and wanting to bring her out. However, she started off with being extremely rude and stating extreme tiredness and wanting to go her own way (home), ignoring what he has planned.It's the guy's fault for exploding from her statement, BUT its also her fault for not considering his feelings for planning SOMETHING in the first place.Granted if she was really tired to the point of breaking down physically/mentally, politely declining and requesting if he could postpone it, instead of forcing onto him the want to head home.Both are in the wrong either way.

[@milOfawx]

Male lead actually planned the anniversary dinner for her and was speaking politely from the start, she comes in with some shitty attitude claiming to be tired. Then came up with the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard in my life at the end claiming that "your vision of "perfection" is different from mine". I don't see how the guy is toxic?? *insert confused meme*

[@yeeshinwoon6867]

poor guy tho..i guess if she's really considerate she will put some thought into how much effort he took to plan...tired also will go along with his plans bc that's what you do when you love someone dangit.

[@dexter-ib9ec]

True

[@garyheng5201]

Sebestian Tan Hmm maybe we can take a look at this situation from a different perspective. Perhaps for the girl, this was something she has always kept inside, she has been trying to please him by always agreeing to go with the kind of planning he wants but it has been exhausting for her to keep up with it. She actually likes things simple, perhaps she has somewhere communicated it but he somehow goes back at it. Until at this point, it erupted. To him, he went the extra mile and she's being unappreciative, to her, she never actually appreciate all these and she felt that she was never really understood by him. He thinks this is what loving her means, to her, she's saying this is not loving to me. The solution? It's always compromise, it's always a continuous giving in that spurs on more giving and eventually they would find themselves in a matured relationship has formed middle grounds that both can either accept or be genuinely happy with..

[@milOfawx]

In that case, your scenario would've made her response to his efforts a little more adequate. I gave my opinion in contrast to the situation in the skit hence I felt that it is unfair for the male lead ahaha.

[@yuzhou7614]

ye i think so

[@rinhluipialtu3114]

Benji 😚❤️❤️ Good work as always 👑

[@alaashapaan5969]

from Egypt.. I really love your movies I watched it many times. I like the way you sent a important message by your movies and your movies help me to realize things in a deffrent way.. thanks alot❤ and I'm sorry if I mad mistakes in my comment because English isn't my language

[@ngjinwen7710]

every relationship have 2 sides of views, 2 different thinking. important is one have to always give in and be soft to the other one. is not easy to maintain a relationship.

[@shawnaw2]

Correction Both have to give in.If one is only the one giving in, you'll have a lopsided relationship which will not end well.

[@lewisloh6719]

omg the acting is on point

[@fatmatota6571]

Butterworks your the best^-^ love u♥

[@kristinkoo9355]

I love all butterworks videooooooo

[@milkteaboba156]

wow hen hao cannot wait for the next video

[@jacksonvibes7731]

I Love it 😍 its awesome 👏 but why the boy is not Yu Lun?

[@SonLeinhhp]

I see myself in the video. Thank you.

[@nataliewenmin5894]

Omg this is so good ! My heart die abit inside :'(

[@Dwxk]

So how ar? Didn't surprise her say no surprise so boring, got surprise her say I think of myself only omg hahahaha

[@evangeline7010]

Darren Wong agreeedddd

[@CKAHYEE]

Continue surprising your girl, I'm sure the right one will appreciate your effort

[@jacklau5529]

so moral of the story: The girl isn't the right one, got it.

[@shivangidubey7062]

Totally agreeeee!!!!

[@akam2930]

I loveee this!

[@fanclub11]

Arrange sth nice for the girl, she want it simple. Arrange simple for the girl, the girl find you bo xin to plan for a special day. #toughlifeasabf

[@skynight3778]

This Video Reached me with a want to Change Impact

[@KB-vq1sk]

Good job, guys!

[@soob8750]

I love those actors they look cute tgtht

[@thegreatsensei4131]

may I get the lyric from the sountrack of this video ?

[@RaselHossain-gk8tu]

awesome video

[@hannahho1765]

wonderfully done :,)

[@IsabelleHou]

Dang so good!!

[@rorycelsvlogs1673]

I have one question. Okay so Rachel is one of the teachers in my dance class...how does she cope teaching and acting? Mabel too

[@TheRoger0105]

very true

[@jintaoho5312]

很接近生活，不错。我很多年以前就跟家人讲不要以关心我的名义来或者用你认为在关心我的方式来对我怎样，我做工很辛苦在家里就想好好休息，饿了，我会去冰箱里找。我要休息不想被打扰……

[@MagnificentCreature]

When I'm early

[@yepsayunika591]

give me some thought.... really like it

[@ipikeublack5406]

这片尾的歌叫什么名字啊

[@dilciacoffie1105]

This guy is so handsome.

[@TheS1lentX]

Male actor should’ve known by now that she likes it simple since they have been together for a while now and he believe a lot in fantasy whereas the female actor doesn’t know how to appreciate and want things to go her way

[@otterly23]

I demand the next video

[@adibakim5700]

U didn't put a quote at last

[@mariasolis1159]

我就喜欢你，怎么了💓

[@kitotkh]

Deja vu...

[@shanechan5712]

nice

[@bryanchang1995]

but then the guy made an effort to actually plan something lmao and the girl should just go on with the plan although she is tired cause then it means that she is willing to sacrifice(her sleep) for the guy lul. no hate pls

[@Pitchoo973]

Hum, since when guys pay attention to that lol. Role are switched xDDDD

[@alyssakastono]

Early birds 🐦

[@minatozakisana5036]

How girls always turns things around abd then complain that their bf didnt do this didnt do that and get jealous of other girls bf and what they did to them. Hahaha classic

[@zephyrakira9137]

Hmm I know the girl was so tired, but why didn't she just say sorry after hearing what her boyfriend had done? I mean, yeah, maybe that was not her definition of anniv celebration, but by saying it (what she said on the video), I think she didn't respect him at all. If I were her, I would definitely ask for apology. Dont judge me guys ...

[@Cikyaniehazel]

plot twist, she has something up at home in her way to celeb the anniversary. both want to go their own way and see their way is the most perfect method to celeb an anniversary. so both are selfish. seeing most people blame the girl just because she is tired and showed uneasy reaction to your eyes, does anyone see how was the guy disrespecting the girl by not considering her tiredness and get pissed off immediately even before the girl know what he is up to. If the girl had known it earlier and still wanna go home, she deserved that treatment. But she doesnt know, and most of you here saying she is not the right one for that. That is very unfair.

[@julianakoh3987]

It's realistic

[@michelleang97]

benji put on weight? :O

[@faizinhayathayat6077]

thats my ballet teacher

[@aposvlah1855]

are they going to brake up?

[@leewemn222]

Benji gain weight?! 🤔🤔

[@yzs2758]

20

[@archimedes7703]

Am i first? C:

[@David-hd8ir]

家是讲爱的地方 不讲理由……因为理由多过肉油分不清谁错谁对 爱是永无休止的体谅

[@sweetcandysugaarmy8480]

The guy shouldn't raise his voice at the girl and answer her questions so sarcastically. Perhaps the girl is really tired or stressed out at work and just want to chill out at his place for a change instead of going to a high class restaurant and being all formal? Maybe she just want to snuggle with him on the couch in front of the tv and eat pizza? It may seem like a 'cheapo' way to celebrate an anniversary but ain't each other's company the most important thing in a relationship? A celebration doesn't have to be so grand, it is the thought that counts. He shouldn't have lost his temper at the girl and instead ask her nicely about her day at work.

[@lawrencewong100]

haiz, always want to fight, better break up girls and boys had own decisions

[@leechengmeng2942]

A

[@clairemasangcay511]

Both were selfish not just one

[@dwindarwin7188]

girls never wrong... lol

[@jungkookhasnochill3510]

early lol

[@Fluff._.y]

1

[@christinelohzchen3172]

okay. too deep for me.

[@wooottff]

I thought she was pregnant in the thumbnail

[@luciam1660]

Am I the only one who hated the role that the girl played?

[@reyko-2722]

Tf is so messed up

[@syakirah1920]

10th comment hahaha