Overcoming Political Tribalism | Amy Chua | 2022

[@zachrucker6717]

I would add one stanza to Langston Hughs poem, If America was never America to you, I have one favor to ask, but be true. Live over seas, for a year or three, preferably in a 2nd or 3rd world country. View with your eyes, and ask "are They free?" Then surely you'll believe why America is America to me.

[@lukehanson_]

Amazing talk, much needed. Hopefully she can remain a voice of reason at Yale for many years to come.

[@RayBanks]

Amazing speech! I really appreciated her ideas of exposing ourselves to different viewpoints and together reaching towards higher ideals.

[@m.harris2429]

Thank you, Professor Chau for inspiring us to raise our sights and behaviors higher. Your observations and recommendations rang true.

[@crystalayers2933]

She is amazing. She made several valid points.

[@spencergibby4602]

Thank you Professor Chau. I appreciate your courage and faith to address a widespread problematic situation. I especially am inspired by the specific factors you pointed out. And I'm grateful for specific suggestions. This shows your love for America, love for unity, and faith in the future of both. You are somebody who is taking steps to help. Thank you.

[@mikestephens3038]

I am a huge fan of Amy Chua. I have read many of her books. I have always found her insightful.

[@psivast8007]

She is right on the money here. I hope it's not too late for this amazing experiment called America. Let's all do our part....

[@Michigan1985]

She's very clever and subtle with how she delivered this speech. It's probably the only way to have this important message well received by this audience. Well done Amy. :)

[@JazzyUnderscoreTrumpeter]

This is great.

[@amyl3766]

I really appreciate her perspective and insights! Great forum!

[@EricELT18]

Thank you for sharing this insightful, fact-based analysis of our current political divisions. Your sensible suggestions to recreate a stronger nation around universal ideals, American achievements and pluralistic patriotism inspire.

[@creelabellehoward]

Wow! What an incredible talk. The whole country needs to hear this. And I 100% agree that people who grow up in cities need to understand what rural life is like and vice versa. Then they'll understand why people value different things depending on their lifestyle, the jobs in their area, etc.

[@stevenlee9064]

Dr Chua saw this coming years ago. She almost mouthed the words “make america great again”.

[@lesley4215]

Exciting perspective.

[@GAILandROD]

This is A TED talk. Boy do I miss the good ole days where we just all got along with few labels if any. Your behavior and work determined respect and honor. Nice presentation...as we are all now thrown into a "collective identity "...

[@stevendorsey4882]

This is a very timely message. Professor Chua makes excellent points.

[@chenvictor8]

Beautifully spoken

[@hlim431]

WOW she is REALLY an American Powerhouse of hope!!!

[@rogerandkamiphillips7147]

Our diversity can unify us, let's make it happen. Thank you for inspired word Professor Amy Chia.

[@yellowyosh470]

Thank you so much! What a gifted speaker. 🙌🏼 Thank you for taking the time to share.

[@Lindatong2]

The former USSR was also a supergroup built on the ideal of its constitution. The failure of that communist experiment should lend some lessons to the USA. There are 2 ways to bring America together: 1. Find a common enemy - China/Russia 2. Find inner strength and confidence The first way is the easy way. The second way is the right way - A) Promote American exceptionalism by facing and solving our problems and finding solutions. don’t try to find excuse or blaming scapegoats because that won’t treat the root issues. C) Continue our tradition of the generous inclusiveness built on mutual benefits - legal immigration, fair export/import, peaceful cooperation and competition. Save the money from weapons and prisons and spend them on infrastructure and education. D) Eliminate entitlements and welfare (both corporate welfare and social welfare) and separate corporate interests from the politicians by reforming campaign finance.

[@lindaledesmasoto6731]

Brilliant!! Outstanding...THANK U!!

[@wenavi8289]

I want to hear the questions, why did u cut it off??! Ugh this was phenomenal

[@byuspeeches]

As it says in the description, you can hear the question and answer session by listening to the audio version at speeches.byu.edu/talks/amy-chua/overcoming-political-tribalism/ or on the recent speeches podcast.

[@crystalayers2933]

It says in the last days, people who be lovers if themselves...think "Selfies". Think Tik-Tok & Instagram, etc.

[@ildenete3235]

De fato os jovens missionários se tornam pessoas ótimas e na comunidade

[@TempleScoop]

Amazing speech so many valid points made.- Chad James

[@jackiehowe0505]

Fantastic talk.

[@amgania]

Great talk. But where's the Q&A portion??????

[@byuspeeches]

Hi Fred, the recording of the Q&A section isn’t available on our KZbin. However, you can go to our site and you’ll be able to find the audio which has the entire Q&A period. From what I can tell, that section is about the same length as her speech. Hope this helps, and I hope you enjoy. -Ryan

[@tmcg7254]

A very needed address, especially for this population.

[@harryharrison6930]

This is spoken in the secular language. Here is a translation for us religious people: 44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; For the full passage: 38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: 39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. 40 And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also. 41 And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. 42 Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away. 43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? 47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? 48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect. From Matthew 5. I was tempted to prefix this verse with: Dis said in seh-cue-lor words. Is tra- trans- trensla- ... For me easy know. Here better words. :But I felt that was too much.

[@leswalker2639]

Also read Malachi chapter 3.

[@cmil80]

3 Nephi 7:2 “And the people were divided one against another; and they did separate one from another into tribes, every man according to his family and his kindred and friends; and thus they did destroy the government of the land.”

[@dominicbailin2207]

I love her energy, but when she says that we need to remember what makes American exceptional, she forgets that there is an entire political party that doesn't believe America is exceptional. I believe in the exceptionalism of America; however, if an entire political party doesn't then the needed civil discourse has no starting point.

[@benjaminb777]

Recognizing that there is a problem in the country you love is not the same as not believing America is exceptional. A doctor can diagnose a cancer or a disease and fight to get rid of it without hating the patient. Don’t assume that one side doesn’t think America is exceptional just because they point out a problem and fight to change it. That’s the whole point! Making an assumption about what others believe is the issue she’s talking about. One can love America and still criticize its flaws. Don’t be the problem you are pointing out. I can assume that when you say “an entire political party that doesn’t believe America is exceptional” that you are talking about one party when you may be talking about another. I certainly feel that one side is weakening American unity more than the other, yet you may feel it’s quite the opposite. I think she does an excellent job pointing out that BOTH sides are guilty of this type of thinking.

[@Abogadoarizona]

I think you missed the whole point of her talk my friend.

[@pererau]

Presumably, if you are watching this video, you are LDS. In the church, we believe that repentance is one of the first principles and ordinances of the gospel. We believe that if we identify misbehaviors in our past, we should recognize, repair, and forsake them. This doesn't make us less exceptional; it helps make us more exceptional. I'm no leftist, but I've been able to grow past my fear of the left by trying to understand that point of view. Generally speaking, people on that side believe strongly in America, love her, cherish her strengths, and want to help each person receive her blessings. While I don't agree with some of the policy decisions they espouse to get there, please do not blind yourself to the good motivations of the good people on the other side from you. This kind of sweeping generalization you made is the kind of thing I used to say, and my life is so much richer over the last few years since I started making some efforts to see the world from other perspectives beyond my own.

[@lukehanson_]

She did mention in the talk that many on the Left believe America is evil so she does recognize that. Maybe you think she is too optimistic about it, but she's not ignorant of that point.

[@natandjoec]

You could not be any more correct. They are trying to destroy the very foundation that this nation was built on and replace it's history, meaning and intent. You can't get rid of a good thing until you tear it down, so you can replace it with something else. It is all intentional. Most all of it is based on lies, and it's replacement is far worse. Socialism, and broken families, and dependence on government will never be better than the constitution, faith in God, and strong families. Look to see what party most closely aligns with God's laws. Yes they are both flawed, but tearing down things that work because some things are not perfect is idiotic. Going full out to destroy the very things that made America exceptional in the first place is insane. And it is no accident.

[@benjaminb777]

Reading through these comments I can easily detect a defensive stance from many of you. Your fears and your political leanings are obvious. I have something to say: you’re missing the point! Recognizing that there is a problem in the country you love is not the same as not believing in or loving America. A doctor can diagnose a cancer or a disease and fight to get rid of it without hating the patient. Don’t assume that one side doesn’t think America is great just because they point out a problem and fight to change it. That’s the whole point! Making an assumption about what others believe is the issue she’s talking about. One can love America and still criticize its flaws. Don’t be the problem you are pointing out. I can assume that when you say “that there is an entire political party that doesn’t believe America is exceptional” that you are talking about one party when you may be talking about another. I certainly feel that one side is weakening American unity more than the other, yet you may feel it’s quite the opposite. I think she does an excellent job pointing out that BOTH sides are guilty of this type of thinking. The fact that there are so many defensive comments towards this talk are evidence that it’s true. We are all Americans. Don’t assume that your team owns the monopoly on patriotism. In fact, maybe ask “is it I?” when examining division in our society.

[@natandjoec]

If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. She is pointing out what she thinks is wrong with people in America, and we are doing the same with her talk. She says not to get your news from biased echo chambers, then she proceeds to use "information" that she got from the news that is absolutely incorrect. Yes, love is the answer in a world that is deeply divided by hate, but we can lovingly let her know where she is wrong. I have read the book of Mormon 17+ times, an enemy hath done this by Ezra Taft Benson, the naked communist by cleon skousen, and a handful of other books on the constitution and our nation. Make no mistake about it, the enemy is combined and is trying to destroy what God has set up. We all need to be very aware of the enemy and their tactics to defend the constitution, and our religion and our families. We can love our enemies to the point that we are kind in our discourse, but we do NOT bend on our beliefs and our GOD given freedoms. There has been a rise in hate and animosity due to freedoms being trampled on and abused. It becomes our civic duty to defend what is right. #captainMoroni

[@lukehanson_]

Certainly a fair point. But she does point out widespread distain for America coming from the left. We shouldn't assume every Democrat hates America. But we do need to acknowledge just like she did that is is prevalent in places of power that the left dominates. Both sides definitely have problems. Having now gone over it three times. I'm surprised by how little criticism she has for the right. The only explicit example she gives is a white nationalist conference (she must be referring to AFPAC). She had many examples on the left. I even asked her during the Q&A is she had more specifics on things that are problems on the right. She didn't. I asked the question because I very much want to address problems on my side of the political spectrum. She does say the problems are equally bad on both sides. I think I agree. What I wouldn't agree with is that the problems are equally prevalent. In other words ethno nationalism and hating Americans founders are both very bad ideas. But one is more ubiquitous than the other. Her talk seems to confirm this.

[@blackjay5338]

I think she overstated the issue of right wingers promoting white supremacy. This is a Leftist trope, a manufactured problem made to profit the Left by stirring up more anger. Write supremacy is, and has been on life support, at least since I was a kid in the 80s and 90s. Does racism still exist? Sure. But it does not deserve the incessant talk on Leftist news outlets that it is getting. It's not that prevalent. It's a distraction from many more pressing issues. I think my point comports with Luke's reply comment above.

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

Massive demographic transformation, when one group is overwhelmingly dominant, it can oppress or uplift

[@jimmyedwards1639]

Did someone brief her ahead of time not to use “Mormon” when referring to the LDS denomination?

[@caffeinatedsaints]

Bruh you’re like those ppl that tell ppl to put a mask on when they walk into a store lmfo let her call us mormon

[@Ryanhelpmeunderstand]

@@caffeinatedsaints President Nelson told us to stand up for the correct name of the Church. No matter how small of a correction. This IS NOT comparable to telling someone to wear a mask. The Prophet of God has asked us to say the correct name of Christs Church/His people. That is not a light thing brother.

[@Ryanhelpmeunderstand]

Zion is the best model…

[@greentree_]

If it isn't with God, there's no hope. Only Zion will reach that goal now. It will only get worse until Zion.

[@natandjoec]

Ok, I'm only like halfway through, but I couldn't disagree more. What this all comes down to, is sin. America has been too prosperous for too long. The people got proud and lazy and the enemy moved in to attack while our defenses were down. Make no mistake about it, there is a very real attempt to divide the people. It is not imagined, and it isn't due to a change in the dynamics of race, or which news station we watch, or even our economic class. We've had all of these things in the past and we were not as divided as we are now. The misinformation war going on is intentional and they are having a huge amount of success due to our wickedness. Nothing else. My son got chased out of his honors English class because he didn't go along with the critical race theory agenda being taught. He was respectful in his views, the the "other side" was not. They wanted violence. It goes to show you the cancel culture going on is huge and powerful, and it typically favors one set of beliefs over another. These are all facts.

[@natandjoec]

Ok, I just got a little further. She is correct about the constitution being the bedrock that this nation was founded on. So she should ask why there are groups and news stations who are actively trying to tear it down. Maybe I should finish the video first, but sheesh. Not everyone identifies with the left or right. Let's not take everything the media says as gospel. There are lots of people on both sides who don't agree with everything the media says about their side. The right has been grossly misrepresented and demonized. Ok. I'll finish the video

[@guardianangel9517]

I agree about sin taking over, even the fact that the Gaddiantons are behind this. If you would have finished listening to this speaker, you'd have seen that she's got a WONDERFUL take on solutions and ways to mend communications between diverse people. That's one of our problems as a society, that people don't want to LISTEN to each other. Everyone can't just overtalk one another constantly.

[@harryharrison6930]

First, I agree that there are very immoral things going on in the world and in this country. I also disagree with some of her points. Some of her points do have truth to them. My starting advice is this scripture: 44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; Remember to love others. If nothing else, they are a children of God and God does love them. Persecution is very painful, but if we hold fast to our teaching and beliefs, God will support us. It may take time, as even the people of Alma weren't immediately delivered from affliction. I am sorry with what your family has to go through. You shouldn't rebuke people when they are trying to do good. People aren't all knowing and can only learn so quickly. My experience tells me that learning is slow and hard. As such if a person does err, that person should be corrected with love and compassion. If you read through Exodus, you will see that Moses made a good number of mistakes. God still supported him because he was honestly trying to do good. If nothing else, we do have the 11th Article of Faith. I believe this applies to all beliefs as part of being on Earth is for people to utilize their agency.

[@Livhappy25]

Agree

[@cici7739]

There's no doubt sin plays a big part, but the secular and spiritual are intrinsically linked in mortality. Both sides have contributing factors

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

When groups feel threatened they close into tribalism

[@Purriah]

I’m pro choice. That means pro choice when it comes to abortion. It also means pro choice when it comes to owning guns. It seems like almost no one can cope with the thought of someone having views and opinions that don’t align or fully disagree with either major American political party.

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

Universalists terms

[@ildenete3235]

Ou cantamos o hino da Cidade Celestial : Deus vêm e abençoe Sião que Te espera sem cessar com suas lâmpadas cheias.Essa terra está cheia de gente tão esforçada em Ti agradar!

[@ruthrodriguez7694]

christians feel threatened, 8:59