喜歡你理性分析!我沒有追她,但有時看到她的影片我有感受到她大概是因為過去的成長環境造成一些奇怪的觀價觀和對很多事情的反應過大。她總想討好別人,潛意識的出發點是他人,然後才是自己,而自己無能力表達自己的情緒(童年時父母忽略她的個人感愛,只有在做父母認為「對」的事情才對她有反應,長大後形成只會討好,對自己的七情六慾感有懷疑與自卑。如她不理解那些同學其實是在欺負她,僅想自己是己是不是哪裹做得不對),又為自信心不足去作出錯誤的回應(譬如整容),受委屈覺得「我都怎樣怎樣了,你怎樣不能理解我?」,然後情緒失控,無限輪迴。她需要的是專業的心理醫生或治療師,時間和空間去消化過去的事情和學習認識、真正的愛自己。而他們的爸媽亦都需要學習,不是一味想著女兒的事業又或者對女兒的問題視而不見一味遷就。We are only humans,多些換位思考,其實亞洲有不少人都有這種對自我缺乏自信的人格,希望日後心理資訊與正確的孩子教育會更加地普及。(但棄養絕對是不對的,請尊重生命)
When u have narcissistic parent.........from the reality show that Zhang Heng n Zheng Shuang participated where she ended up dumping him, I got strong feeling that it was her father idea, to me personally Zhang Heng was pretty decent n truthful in expressing his opinions or actions. I noticed that every times Zheng Shuang was about to cry in an argument, he would hold his opinions n just be silent which I think a tolerant character.
@rainiminiatures21843 жыл бұрын
really wouldn't be surprised if part of that was her parent's idea. if she got married and start a family, her focus would be removed from them and she would stop trying to please them. Their money and benefits would be cut off. Zheng Shuang has a very fragile self esteem due to growing up with very draining parents and it's a toxic relationship that is hard to cut and the parents probably don't want to be cut off and it's not too far-fetched to imagine them trying to sabotage. Narcissists will lie through their teeth to keep a hold on their codependent suppliers. There's another case of highly narcissistic parents in Angela Zhang who slandered their daughter and caused her career to be ruined. Also there's Britney Spears. It seems there's a lot of money-motivation and the more successful, the more suffering. Very sad.
@insideout98243 жыл бұрын
@@rainiminiatures2184 Guess not everyone deserves n qualified to have children, sad that there r many abusive parents both physically or mentally