10 Things to Try in the Bedroom, According to a Sex Expert | Sex and Relationship Coach | Caitlin V

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[@richardwilson5]

K Love u

[@richardwilson5]

I well see

[@richardwilson5]

🐒🐸😁 xxx

[@richardwilson5]

But sex

[@richardwilson5]

ISEEU

[@NickNotas]

Whenever sex becomes routine or feels like a chore, it loses the passion. There's a reason for the saying, "variety is the spice of life." Great advice Caitlin.

[@ddmound]

but it is not true. Sexuality is designed to 2 work one way. Any deviance will shut it down. that is what is happening now with the norm. But if it works at all it will only work with longevity in a relationship with the same person. The problem is always duration

[@bestever5346]

Thank you, Caitlin V! Be abundantly blessed and rewarded in many ways.

[@TheGreyguse]

You have the best videos on youtube! Thanks for the tips on everything to keep my relationship alive! 😺

[@dustonwilson8501]

Love love love your ideas

[@ntnrocket1]

Caitlin, do you have a video where you talk about your history and how you got so interested in doing all your studying about sex and where you are right now in your career??? If not, PLEASE make one, I think it would be really interesting to find that out.

[@viklovelife390]

So glad I found your channel, already watched 1 video this evening and have some great ideas for the bedroom tonight and 💯 it’s great that I have because we needed some spicing up, you have definitely showed me how. Thank you gorgeous.

[@earlknapp9918]

You are amazing and.i appreciate what you tell us

[@sasankaedi223]

Superb!!!❤

[@lumzairbennett1643]

Love your advice

[@commerce-usa]

Nothing like a new exciting shared experience to bond people together. Communication is key.

[@joepaiz8363]

Love your content

[@johnbrazitis6667]

Thank you so much for the tips. Once again you are absolutely gorgeous

[@Andrew-rn1so]

thanks! my partner is gonna love this!!!

[@koilover7740]

Love your video 👍👍👍

[@bodiesatva]

Number 6 is pure gold

[@akadirnilavane2861]

Useful tips!

[@ironworker1365]

Love your hair cut!

[@CaitlinV]

Thank you!!

[@Kong2112]

You the BEST! 😌🙏🥰

[@rschultz9492]

Yo. I thank you. Truly. I wanna make her happy. This video was perfect instruction. Comprehensive and direct. You rock. 😁

[@trulif912]

Great ideas 👌

[@phx_stephan]

Nice upload ❤ tomorrow, blindfold and try start outdoor

[@pooleman999]

Blindfold, different rooms, restraints, tease, toys! May even use some ice tonight! Thanks sis!

[@kentonfranklin2373]

Ice is a good tip! Alternate between light touching with an ice cube and licking/kissing. It's lots of fun.

[@TheBuddhaVlogs30508]

Blind fold ,different places, restraints,teasing, pleaseing ,ice ,candles 😊 hmmmm

[@MrSpikebmx]

Your great!!!

[@MrSpikebmx]

Thank you

[@pengora2235]

thanks you ❤️

[@yoggyasf6270]

I learned a lot of this myself over time but I learned a lot of new things i want to try

[@seanferguson5460]

Caitlin, you always look good but in this vid you've taken it to an altogether different level. You look... happy. Give!

[@ddmound]

she is probably high on choo-chi juice

[@redneckdave1968]

I love your videos. I'm in a long term relationship for 19 years but we stopped having sex for a little over a year and it's my fault. I used to drink a lot and it made me last longer in bed. I quit drinking and I couldn't last as long which made me feel like less than a man. That's why I lost interest in having sex. I stumbled across your videos and I'm learning how to get the confidence to try and rekindle our sex life. My girlfriend is in Georgia visiting her daughter and grandbaby. When she comes back to Massachusetts I'm going to talk to her about why I wasn't being intimate with her and tell her about your videos and how they taught me that I'm not less than a man. I'm going to use what I learned from you and show her more intimacy. Thank you so much for your information. I feel confident again.

[@michaelchan587]

Number 2 and 12.

[@chasmcl42]

You were right Caitlin i got a big surprise with the blind fold she took £40 out of my wallet, only kidding great advice.

[@exodusnifty7297]

forgot about blind folds. Very easy to use and great idea for tonight

[@Chronos125]

Where did you get your top from in this video? My wife would love it

[@illustrioussight5812]

Solid❤

[@Allan_aka_RocKITEman]

​@CaitlinV >>> 👍👍

[@harryazcrac4248]

Asked my girlfriend what the safe word would be. Her: Um... "no"

[@cassielong6617]

Maybe you should try talking it over with her and help her understand what the reason is for the safe word. Let her know that if you do something that she doesn’t like that having a safe word is her way of staying stop

[@SocialDeviant_]

I watch your cannel for the METAPHORS 😋

[@matthwoodman2315]

Ours is a paradox!!😄😉

[@stephenjimenez6129]

Just wanted to thank you for a well executed KZbin channel! I think your content is quite valuable and entertaining too. I do think that you’re able to answer questions that both men and women find, (how should I say), ‘embarrassing’ especially when they try to present to their partners or potential partners. I value and find women of transparent sexuality to be more attractive than others, I’m not talking about being crass, but rather using subtle nuanced communication styles in regards to sexuality.(yes there’s a time to talk dirty, when the trust has been established). I haven’t watched all your videos so if this is a repeat request, please forgive me, yet it would be nice if you were to talk about what you find attractive or unattractive in women, as you did in the ‘20 attractive things’ about men. I think that would help people understand their own preferences better and not be so hard on themselves. Presently I am single really haven’t dated in over two years, after a bad break up, and Covid has definitely put on the brakes for me, and don’t know what I’m going to do next, but I really do enjoy your program in the mean time. One more thing, I think young women, (and boys), especially girls coming to age, need to understand that they don’t have to be sexual gymnasts or porn stars, and that it’s OK not to be social media savvy in terms of their sexuality. I’m just saying there’s something to be said about virtue still. I think it would be really cool if you would talk to women, I mean young girls you know I’m talking about 9- and 10 year-olds now and up to age 16. (I trust you know what I’m talking about). Yet to respect and allow for sexuality to organically find its way in a healthy way. Again thank you so much for your work, I appreciate it!

[@francispuleo2382]

Your suggestions are great they should improve anyone’s sex life love your program

[@mtower235]

Been married 35yrs. I’ve had great sex after buying something or even discussing trying something and just the thought of it to her caused her to be turned on. She told me once that it’s because I still cared despite all her flaws. I’m thinking “hell you didn’t exactly win the big bear at the state fair being with me”

[@Rascalboy-ew1bs]

SO CUTE

[@chamilitary07]

You forget about roleplay. That can tie into fantasies. Trust me that is the best part part for me. My partner and I would do the jungle fantasy where she plays the sexy priestess while I'm the explorer. I love your ideas.

[@microwaveableselfie3421]

That sounds kinda hot actually

[@stephenpolson5193]

That's me and my Mrs 😆

[@bradfordrobertson552]

So do you find it hard to connect with somebody because you have a special aura and you need to receive that chemistry that comes from each other’s body when you see each other

[@miken8309]

Probably all of them

[@gbordenflanagan]

Tried shower sex a couple of times and wasn’t great frankly. Whoever’s not under the water gets cold, awkward for both to be standing in the tub if that’s your set up, etc. But yes on blindfold, spanking, etc

[@jeremyharshman3073]

I couldn't agree more. Doing various activities with your partner is a great way to keep the romance alive and the fires burning hot. People, don't be afraid to try something new in the bedroom. That's half the fun. Sidenote: agree with Caitlin on keeping the wipes handy for emergency cleanups.

[@BillCollins0707]

ohhh yes....and important not to act "all weirded out" when it does happen. Just be a lady or gentleman and give your partner an 'out" to any embarrassment they may feel.

[@parthenavantsouris765]

The shower and the kitchen

[@googoochu3923]

New editor it seems

[@jiwakacaustudio645]

So cute

[@rameshkinger1222]

Great 👍🌹🌶

[@deborahdesanto2313]

Hi Catlin what LIVES do you recommend? 😊

[@garethviviers3297]

Put a big ol mirror in the bedroom👌

[@bradfordrobertson552]

I like it all do you

[@arieswar4327]

Long time

[@marvinbienaime2012]

That intro is definitely not me and my lady, but we make it work

[@antiindian8333]

Not tonight Right now ! I started planning

[@Mercy1-]

1:20 This is My perspective and Also a Fact Everyone Should Do Fun New Stuff in Bed Doing one thing everyday will get boring and leads to a lame sex life

[@geno5169]

Totally agree with that same thing all the time. I try to get my wife to get on top like the good old day’s. She say’s she too heavy. I tell her I love those curves

[@user-xk1vq4qo7o]

Kourtney and Travis 😂

[@laluonfire2055]

Hay my dear

[@stevnekighoma3670]

I would try if i had a wife but will let you know when i get one

[@chrystaldance5938]

Ok.. so my husband and I have been married for 25 years. He is very upset with me because I do not flirt…😢 How can I or what do I say, to let him feel this desire??

[@michaelgregg9979]

I'm wondering distant sex if you're not in the same country I'm just running out of ideas

[@evad7933]

How about face sitting?

[@glendoucette624]

We tried something new a while ago definitely spur of the moment we just ordered chinese for delivery and decided to if we could finish before delivery arrived and I shit you not literally 10 seconds after done food arrived that was fun 😂

[@tinawalker5335]

Me waiting for this story to develop into you eating lo mein off her butt 😢

[@Bigjcomeon]

Can only do so much with a little one :(

[@CatMom-xy9el]

loud music & movies lol

[@mandyporter9084]

I'll be trying a blindfold. Not sure if on him, or on me... 😉

[@richardpauly1635]

I would do blindfold

[@63striker]

Lol

[@bradleyjackman7210]

What. Do you do after she had overine canser surgery, and has no desire. Love making yet she love’s being with me, What’s my recourse 👸💑

[@sean-xm9661]

Caitlyn....looking...hubbuh hubbuh Meeeeow ! Ahemmm, gr8 video !

[@evad7933]

Best thing to try is a new partner.:)

[@kbanghart]

Hmm maybe add someone to a couple

[@eduardonieto2355]

You are the best baby I love all what you said , it is interesting.🌹💋❤🌹🇺🇸

[@wallen4857]

I have most everything except for the sex part, wife has absolute zero libido due to child birth and back injury she has lost most of her feeling downstairs! She get a tickling feeling and not a pleasurable feeling when stimulated. The only thing that can get her off is a Hitachi magic wand and only once because it become painful. Any s suggestions?

[@CatMom-xy9el]

there's lots of other areas that are pleasurable for a woman. Neck, breaststroke, tummy, legs, massage, teasing, all of that blindfolded, after she's had an orgasm with that thing than she's very very fully aroused & can easily have 10 more with whatever you do. so use that to get her there & get off once then you do the rest while she's engorged

[@laylaserizawa4538]

Perhaps she could see a pelvic floor expert? Here in Italy they mostly have a background as midwives and then specialisation in pelvic floor rehabilitation. I learned recently that a lot of issue we attribute to other things or even consider normal (such as period cramps) could be easily addressed with pelvic floor massages and rehabilitation. I don’t know where to point you cause I doubt you’re based in Italy but you could look into that and hopefully it is something that may help your wife get back her sensuality and you to get back your wife ❤

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3:24

[@rossgrimley9170]

Why is this amazing woman Anna Kendrick’s twin 😂

[@jc6596]

What to do if your wife hates sex dosent matter where or when she just says it's not pleasurable for her iam a very intimate person she is not she will do it for me but lies there like a board are you done yet makes me feel like shit feel like is pushing us apart and I've told her this and she says that's all you think about not far from the truth but she dosent like different positions she dosent like forplay I'm at a loss don't know what to do!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

[@CatMom-xy9el]

see a sex therapist. was she always like this??

[@themaddoxclan4201]

Blindfold and teasing tonight.

[@j.p.200]

Blindfolded

[@rlaw32901]

My wife is to Vanille to try these

[@CatMom-xy9el]

bring it out of her

[@ihategooglealot3741]

Regular steel cuffs aren't great - nylon, leather or specifically designed steel bondage cuffs work better as they pose less danger of nerve damage (radial nerve) - the steel and leather bondage often cuffs look great - and we're very visual (and leather smells great). Teasing, edging and playfulness are just so good

[@marvinspencer7858]

Soft cuff is more fun

[@ihategooglealot3741]

@@marvinspencer7858 safer, gentler and a far better starting point for beginners, though they still require attention to some basic safety rules.

[@geno5169]

What about using a tie for my wife’s hands guy’s?

[@ihategooglealot3741]

@@geno5169 tends to muck up ties, and is she struggles a lot the knots can become awkward to undo. Use old or cheap ties and practice before playing

[@ihategooglealot3741]

@@geno5169 tends to muck up ties, and is she struggles a lot the knots can become awkward to undo. Use old or cheap ties and practice before playing

[@TheMukBangeater_.]

God pls forgive me for all my sins amen

[@63striker]

Words we all benefit from for certain

[@marvinspencer7858]

I am starting to think I to much of a freak because I have done most of it with my ex-wife.

[@Discoveryplus11]

🥰

[@kentonfranklin2373]

Has anyone ever tried a blindfold and earplugs at the same time? I would imagine taking away two senses would be even more intense.

[@kbanghart]

Ohhhh while feeding her chocolate covered strawberries

[@theresataylor1565]

Caitlin V: what can you do when you've checked all the boxes? We're together 32+ years!

[@kbanghart]

Hmm what about other people?

[@63striker]

@@kbanghart what???!

[@kbanghart]

@@63striker other people

[@DjPlayja]

Add some psychedelics...

[@Mercy1-]

So Caitlin which is your favorite of all the 10?

[@MicheleDamato-co7vh]

10 thing's to try in the bedroom. 1.... vacuum on occasions. 2.... change the bloody sheets. 3..... don't touch my whips and chains. 😂😂😂

[@larrysheppard42]

my wife no longer allows me to kiss her on the lips. I am ignored as a third party who only pays the bills.

[@Dino2GunZ]

Time to leave bro if shes not loving on you she's loving on someone else sorry but its the truth

[@vinnylamoureux1187]

Have you asked her why ???

[@NickJacksonusa]

My friend had a wife that developed issues with physical affection. She would wince if he even tried to touch her. My friend always figured it was something that must have happened early on her life. He tried for 3 years to save his marriage but she wouldn't get counseling and had little desire to fix the issue. Eventually they got divorced and my buddy got re-married. He lived another 5 happy years or so with a wife that adored him and they had a great life until he unfortunately passed in a motorcycle accident. I guess the point of my story is life is too darn short. Find someone who will appreciate you.

[@brodiewhelan3228]

@@NickJacksonusa wow thank god he meet the love of his life

[@michelehetzel2829]

Sometimes it can be a mans hygiene. Often men will approach their women when they aren't clean or she isn't clean or many men have bad breath and she may not be telling you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Always floss, brush your tongue and gargle. You are always more likely to get lucky when you practice good hygiene. Fact!

[@wenthulk8439]

Not a big fan of the butt stuff or the chains........ But the food stuff sounds good.

[@carlwaddell5434]

wow you are beautiful lady good video thank you baby

[@calientemac1]

What if you tried almost all those things your wife doesn’t like them?

[@CatMom-xy9el]

I'd say both of you should see an in person sex therapist or really practice things on eachother, communicate & have patience & an open mind

[@williamforsythe5850]

Yeah, sure thing, the woman with a half shaved head understands what is sexy.

[@basu.97]

So, I mean this in the most genuine way... How exactly do you qualify as a sex expert... Are you a urologist or something or like are you like very much experienced in the field of... Well, having sex or... Like what... I jus wanna understand how to determine whether I should really consider your teachings in sincerity.

[@williamwoods2547]

Back seat of the car in your private attached garage. Relive your teen years.

[@timbuckohfive2751]

Seriously car sex is the worst. Unless its on the hood.

[@williamwoods2547]

@@timbuckohfive2751 In general you are correct since modern cars are usually rather small. I was thinking of the gas guzzling classic cars of my youth (100 octane cost $0.34 9/10), and there was room in the back seat to do cowgirl or doggie style.

[@kbanghart]

@@timbuckohfive2751 back of SUV with the seats down

[@timbuckohfive2751]

@@kbanghart Try an Pontiac Fiero. Seriously fun times and lots of leg cramps lol.

[@kbanghart]

@@timbuckohfive2751 omg, my wife used to own one, that thing was horrible! It caught on fire literally the same day we bought it.

[@robinbhairosingh7487]

Wow good to know😋💦🔥⚡

[@ArielleL-lk3nj]

Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me

[@NatashaD-hj5nx]

Nowadays, there's so much tips techniques and tricks that it's sometimes hard to know where to start. But it's not rocket science to get your man shivering with ecstasy just by changing the way you talk. As simple as this sounds, maybe try escalating it a step at a time, go’ogle something like Words od Desire by Celestine Dessike to sneakily crawl into his mind and let it build on from that.

[@eq1373]

I get so depressed listening to these videos

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