Callie and Arizona moments - 10.09 "Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word" - part 6

All Calzona scenes from 10.09 "Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word"
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[@Mgalad]

Callie is the character with the noblest hearted in the show. And if ever you people meet someone like her, I mean with that personality, don't let her go... never... and fight for her.

[@BrkSm19]

You should get dress now, and leave..... The best Arizona's line in all season

[@0286M]

totally agree with you!! I don´t like Leah and Arizona, but I don´t think she cheated on Callie by sleeping with Leah.. I mean, Callie had told everybody she´d died, then she asked Az to move out of their place..Arizona tried to go after Callie, but she didn´t want to listen.. ( okay, she had plenty of reasons for that).. I think she tried to give Callie a break and, while she did that, she found someone willing to give her the attention ( and some other stuff) that she needed.. it´s not a crime, guys! If she were that "McSlutty" she woudn´t have been there on court, she woudn´t have listened to Callie in the W.C and woudn´t have looked so hopeful when she saw Callie had put her ring back on..

[@siobhan_7386]

+mariana giannotti ngl that scene with Callie and the ring hit me right in the feels

[@OverUsed2]

I'm a little tired of cheaters who say they've made a "mistake." Every step taken while cheating was a conscious decision. They knew what they were doing and they knew it was wrong, but they did it anyway. They weren't walking down the street, stumbled, landed on someone and started screwing them. The only mistake they made was getting caught.They made a bad/a wrong decision and then try to gain some sympathy for themselves by saying "but everyone makes mistakes," when they knew all along they were betraying their partner and what the potential consequences may be (i.e.losing their partner). So cheaters should just suck it up and admit that "I screwed up," (pardon the pun) and not try rationalize what they've done. Good, I got that rant out. By the way, I've never cheated (I couldn't live with myself) or been cheated on, but if someone cheated on me I'd react like Callie (or maybe gone further) and told them "see you later, we're done."

[@cassie1560]

Happy you never got cheated on but understand, that sex isn't everything, what bonds us, is bigger than that. Emotional cheating is the hardest, I think, bc you can't control, falling in love with someone else, you don't have to chase after it but does it matter, if you do? Your heart is there. Like Callie said, Arizona did something impulsive, a lot of times, people who cheat, absolutely don't think about their partner at all and don't get caught. I don't think what Arizona did, was ok but she wants Callie and they are in love. You can overcome infidelity. People do it all the time.

[@Emma-in5dh]

D Beast I agree

[@saritha_srb9122]

The point here is not about emotional or physical cheating but the choice you knowingly made to betray your partner whom you seemingly loved & then knowingly saying it was a mistake. If you feel uncomfortable with each other, make a knowing choice of "Break Off" before the so called mistaken choice of "Screwing" everyone including yourself. But at the end of the day it is between those 2 people & whether they can move on from this.

[@sameverett4245]

Sara Ramirez is truly flawless. Incredible beauty.

[@09spashley]

wow crazy good episode! Arizona go back to your wife and never let her go. You too have something beautiful fight for it!

[@sundawg911]

Great episode and I think it gave what fans of Callie and of Arizona needed. It provided insight as well as indication of what is to come. Loved it. Thanks for the uploads.

[@papillonnoir1110]

I think I do not realize. There's so many things that have happened to Calzona in an episode. And I awaited this scene since sooo long time. Now I look forward to seeing a kiss between them, THE kiss :-)

[@08lilyloveable]

I'm glad Grey's has finally done the reveal as to what brought Calzona to this point. I was getting mad at the show cause the cheating seemed to come from nowhere, esp. after they worked hard on their relationship after Arizona lost her leg. I sure hope though that full disclosure happens with them cause anymore secrets would so be the end of them. It is possible all this drama will make them stronger.

[@spykerz026]

I love that calzona is gonna try to work this out... but all i can think about now is... POOR LEAH....

[@lisabud40]

When Arizona broke up with Callie and left for Africa, Callie immediately went and slept with Mark, so how mad at Arizona can she be?

[@MariaCallizonaFAN]

When you look like that, you are right, but you are forgeting that when Arizona left for Africa they BROKE UP, and now they are MARRIED. Even tho they are separated, its still cheating at the some degree. And also, she kep doing the one thing that in a way ended their marriage - sleeping with someone else, because she isnt brave enough to face her PTSD and to admit that she has a problem. I hope that now, when they start all over again, when they try to make things better, she will do that... go to therapy, by herself and also go to the couples therapy, cause they also have a lot of things to work on their marriage.

[@embrya26]

***** facing down PTSD isn't about being brave. PTSD is no different from any other mental illness. If everyone around you either behaves like there is nothing wrong with you or ignores your subtle or not so subtle behavioral changes and doesn't challenge that then you're not going to truly believe that you have an illness. My brother has PTSD (ex military) and it took him 2 years to seek help because even though others around him had it, he and his family glossed over it. It took him pulling a gun on his 3yo (long story) before he truly realized he had a problem. Arizona needs a support system, one who will force her to see that she does indeed need help, not for Callie but for herself.

[@embrya26]

***** Let's forget that she cheated initially...if you are separated and your spouse has shown no interest in reconciling with you, you still think its cheating if you find solace somewhere else? I'm not being facetious, I honestly want to know how that's considered cheating.

[@MariaCallizonaFAN]

In a way it's a cheating. It's not common belief, but a lot of ppl this that she's still cheating Callie in a way. Not cheating-cheating, but yes, in some way it's what it is. I'm not picking sides, I'm one of the very small amount of fans who sees the things realisticly, not towards the preference of the characters. I know what PTSD is. My ex gf has PTSD, and depression, and even tho she's aware of it, she doesn't have the courage to make that huge step and seek for help. Also, I never said that Arizona has to seek for help because of Callie. She needs to fix herself first, and then fix her marriage. They both have a lot of work to do. They both have to find themselves again, in order to make their marriage work. Yes, Arizona needs support system, and that support system for her is Callie, believe it or not. She needs hope. She needs something to have to lean on. When in 10x03 she said "I really need you to do this", she said everything. She needs Callie. She needs to believe that there is at least a little bit of love in Callie for her, to move on, to go on and to seeks for help. Cause is Az's mind if she doesn't have anything to fight for, why fight then? And also, Callie tried to help Arizona, from the beginning, Arizona was the one who didn't want her help. She blamed her for everything and she never processed that. She never told Callie about that. She never talked to Callie. That's one of their biggest problems. Lack of communication. It has always been. So, from the start Callie didn't have anything to begin with, to be there for her, to be her support system, to make her realize that she needs help. That changed in 10x03. And well, we know the rest of the story. We'll see how it develops from here. I'm all for them being together and start over and keep trying. After all it's Calzona we are talking about. There's still love there. And IT'S HUGE.

[@embrya26]

***** what if they were separated for a year? Two years? If Callie began seeing someone would she be considered a cheater too? I guess I fail to understand how its any type of cheating when someone tells you they don't want you in their life anymore, kicks you out and avoids you at all costs. No discussion was had about the separation and no rules were set so I can't see it as cheating. One more question...if a married couple separates are both parties to remain chaste until the divorce is final? What if the divorce takes several years?

[@liafaroug6525]

Do not just see an arizona mistake in this episode, callie also have mistake in the previous episode. When she doesn't want a couple therapy, when she kick arizona out from their apartement, or when callie said if she lost her wife in a plane crash, although it was to attract more donation.. that all makes arizona heartbreak, she's very sad and lonelines. Arizona really thought she had lost callie....she cheated callie because of that, it's just the effect of their fight. So I still hope the get back together and start their relationship back safe and sound...

[@erialccrasher8073]

I mistake,yet she does it a couple of times and again.Sleeping around with anyone can't be a trend that's like so easy Arizona.Even though i am still hoping Calzona will be back.

[@NicoleGerona]

There's hope guys!

[@0286M]

agree!! hope, but it still breaks my heart to think about Callie´s reaction once she knows about Leah..

[@Emma-in5dh]

Lexy Em nope

[@lilgrumps5804]

Calzona *u* [interally screaming]

[@kittymeow43]

if i may have to say, this only shows that Callie deserves better.. way someone better! and for me, its no longer Arizona.it was indeed a very wrong move on cheating Callie..but HER with Leah, is just totally sh*t! an absolutely foolish act! cheating once MAYBE/CAN be given another chance, though its totally wrong but one after the other is unacceptable.i was really hoping before for the two of them to get back together but now and these made me change my mind. Callie doesnt deserve an unfaithful,cheater (not only once) and weak person like AZ. AZ is just a selfish human being. Dont get me wrong.. i was and will be forever a CALZONA fan but for me, they should be better off as colleagues and nothing more with someone who deserves someone better. What AZ has done is too much.. too much for a person like Callie. another more heartbreaking episodes coming soon! the writers wont get easy on this but do hope CALZONA will fond their own happines and our happines as well =)