ASMR | Whispered Life Update 🤍✨

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Hey darlin’ I wanted to give a bit of a life update to you! If you remember, after posting my last video of 2021 in December I ghosted my channel until late April and so I wanted to kind of explain what happened during that period and since then. I had planned and written my notes for this video back in March - at that point in time I was feeling so good about life, so optimistic about the future and just really taking care of myself, both mentally and physically. But then I started slipping back into old habits, was dealing with housemate issues/starting a new job and just felt like I could no longer keep on top of everything, including my channel. So I kept waiting to film it until I got back to that high point in March but even now I still haven’t really returned to that place. But I figured it was time to film it anyway so this video partly captures how I was feeling back in March but also goes into some of what happened after. Hopefully you enjoy wallowing in my misery(kidding!) but sometimes it’s nice to see your faves going through things bc it humanises them - so I’m hoping you enjoy and thank you for sticking with me as my content goes through its ups and downs just like my life. Love you, stay safe and know that I’m always rooting for you 😘 Love, love, love, Quiet Xx P.S. if I look or sound sick it’s because… I was 😃

[@blackscreenasmr4358]

Just know we are always here for you 😁😁

[@Draction333]

Thank you for the Christmas card!

[@blackscreenasmr4358]

@@Draction333 what does that even mean

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

@@blackscreenasmr4358 I did some Christmas cards last year for some of my Patrons 😊

[@Tonkahontas]

What you're saying, especially about putting yourself out of your comfort zone and practicing conversation and relationship dynamics, is really important and I'm sure can be transferable to many people in different ways. Thank you for your insights, best of luck in future reflections and adventures, Shivi!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I really appreciate your comment lovely and I'm so glad you enjoyed this type of video! Take care of yourself out there 😘🧁✨

[@leyre621]

💜💜💜💜 I found my new group of friends and feel so happy w them. also been able to enjoy life again like fully. that's the most important recap of this past six months :) love ya a lot, thx for feeling you can talk about all of your personal life w us

[@madsasmrhaven]

Loved hearing an update from you and what's been going on in life 💜 A recycling related job sounds so lovely ♻️ yay for plant motherhood 🌱 and kitty fostering 😍🐈‍⬛ I feel like I need to start going on dates to show myself it's something I can do too instead of telling myself I cant't! Proud of you ahhh 💓

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Yes going on dates is a such a good learning experience! thanks for watching gf 😘

[@DownFromTheDoorWhereItBegan]

I think it’s good how introspective you are, self improvement is a really good thing.

[@i_dont_know_anymore748]

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[@zelgabriel736]

Your whispering is so soothing in this video. I feel so calm comforted warm. Thank you so much :)

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

this is everything I could hope for - thank you for sharing lovely 🥰 💜🧁✨

[@UnpaidInternn]

I believe introverts need social interaction as well as extroverts. A large part of the puzzle is how we recharge. I personally recharge my batteries better when I’m alone. While I have friends and family members who are the opposite and need interaction to recharge their batteries. Also, there is great power introversion and people often overlook that. Quiet is a book that I recommend anyone checkout who struggles with to idea of being an introvert. I personally struggled for a while until I embraced and loved that part of me. It also doesn’t mean one cannot practice and begin to implement other behaviors. For example, an extrovert can work at being alone even though it may be uncomfortable at first. Just as an introvert can work at being with others and engaging in conversations that might be uncomfortable at first. The more we practice these behaviors the more comfortable we become with them.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I always thought I needed alone time to recharge too but I think maybe I recharge from interacting with people I feel super comfortable with - those who I don't feel I have to act a certain way with and always put on a smiley face. Yes I've actually read that book, it's so good! It made me realise that being an introvert isn't a flaw, there's a purpose and reason for both introverts and extroverts. You're so right, I think I need to work on finding the balance that is right for me, as I definitely am craving more authentic social interaction.

[@ApathyParabellum]

It can be tough to create when the stuff you put out has so much synergy with your conscious self. I'm so happy you're well!

[@rayleigh4731]

oof i’ve also had a rough go of it the past couple months (including binging). but something fun i’ve done recently is buy a bike! my partner and i each got one and now we’re going out on rides most nights which is so good for us because our favorite hobbies are watching tv/movies and playing video games so it was good to find something active that we could do together and both actually enjoy and can start out slow and build up our strength and endurance! 💜

[@theresemyrberg936]

💜 nice to hear from you Shivi! I have moved with my boyfriend and daughter from a tiny appartment to a bigger one. It is a BIG improvement in life quality 😄 thank you for sharing and caring 😘

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

oh I can just imagine how amazing that must feel! Thanks for being here lovely, it is always my pleasure 😘 💜🧁✨

[@machintruc977]

💜 True, going from studying to working a physical job also fixed my sleep big time !

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

It was so good for me! Being a student is rough on your physical(and mental health) sometimes! Take care 😘 💜🧁✨

[@Khiartoozen]

im so glad for your changes and video was so relaxing❤️

[@michealvega1373]

I will always cherish the sleep and calm you have given me throughout the channels life! Now i must SCHLEEEP.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

nighty nite! xx

[@phillyphantom1752]

💜💜💜 Thank u for keeping us posted on the life updates as well as sharing ya video about binge eating! I greatly commend you on being so open with us on both of these videos! Hope all is well with ya Shivs! 🙂😁

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww thanks Philly - much love to you! 🌞💖

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[@danielaboeira5275]

💜 so good to hear from you! I also had a similar revelation this year, about liking to chat, so cheers to us, the intro-extroverts! 😅

[@DownFromTheDoorWhereItBegan]

It’s hard to go out of your comfort zone, you should be proud of yourself fam!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

thanks my friend, your sweet words are just what I needed to hear xx

[@kittikotai9817]

hey shivi! you inspired me to go try yoga for the first time and it was AMAZING!! thank you so much

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

So happy for you gf! It’s been a few weeks since I’ve gone to any classes - I’ve gotta get back into it!

[@heyitsmeaaaaa]

love uuu💜💜 your videos make me feel so calm and like everything is going to be okay :))))

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

love you and I'm telling you right now that I know it's all going to be okay for you darling xx

[@cryptothreevus]

OH EM GEE - that advertisement was SUPER tingly!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

aaaaaah thank you! That's the aim, that whether or not the product is something you're interested in you can still get some bonus tingles ✨

[@nerdbamarich2063]

I always enjoy seeing you back on screen 💜💙

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

great to be back, thanks for being such a gem and for your continued support Rich! 🥰

[@nerdbamarich2063]

@@CallMeQuietASMR you're more than welcome 😊

[@everblu]

💙💜💜 I feel you.. we have this yearn for social interactions but it’s not always easy. To seize those “up moments” and put ourselves out there is the smartest thing we can done, as they could make a good starting point to capitalize on in the future. And it’s always the case that we feel so alive after every social event we tried to get out of or had to kick and drag ourselves to isn’t it?)) You’re doing great.. Stay at it.. and thank you💜

[@musicprincess14]

I’m glad you’re back, Shivi!! Missed you lots, but I’m so glad you took time to take care of yourself first. Always the most important thing 💖💖💖 giving you lots of love from NE!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Missed youuuuu! Glad to be back, sending you lots of love right back! 💗

[@kingunited99]

💜 I thought my phone was messed up because the video stopped but I realized that it just flew by because i was so invested in your story haha

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

haha that's awesome! love you xx

[@DownFromTheDoorWhereItBegan]

Real shit though fam, you are not stupid. At all. In fact, I think I speak for a lot of us subscribers by saying you’re very smart and intelligent. Keep your head up my friend.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww thank you, I really appreciate the faith you have in me 😊

[@emmagrace3710]

I've missed you so much♡ this is my alt account due to personal issues but usually I'm on my other account called "Emma grace" and I'm always quick to comment on your videos! I am glad that your in such a stable mindset! It took me forever to get there!! ♡♡ and I'm glad your back. I've missed your uploads fr. (They give me so many tingles!) I hope you will choose to stay. But if not- i will always stay here and watch reruns of old videos you've made. I've been here since at least 15k and it has been so beautiful to watch you grow! How all is well♡ as always keep your head up! Brighter days are ahead! ♡

[@brandiwithandi]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us.💜

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Thanks for watching! 😘 💜🧁✨

[@MKF30]

Hey its all good congrats on the job gig and dating and gaining confidence etc. I pretty much lost all of mine lol so I watch lots of asmr to keep my sanity and helps calm me. I'm happy you're happier and doing well Shivi. 🙂👍

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

haha don't worry my friend, I lost all my confidence too but it's ok sometimes we need to just hibernate for a while and have faith we'll blossom again at a later date when we're ready 😘 💜🧁✨

[@MKF30]

@@CallMeQuietASMR Thanks appreciate that Shivi you're a beautiful, kindred soul! :)

[@anniegreeley7834]

💜 got a new job and moved across the country! Love your videos!!!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

woweee! so excited for you - love you! xx

[@azizrahmanhamidi2864]

Many thanks for your nice videos. Watching your videos really make me relax. Lots of love and respect!!!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww thanks babycakes 😘 🧁✨

[@miggy4854]

Missed you a bunch Mama Q ❤. Hope you are well! Great vid as always.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Thank you!! Much love to you xx

[@aprilsanchezhernandez1144]

💜 i love your channel and wish you would make new videos. You are the best yet that I have come across. Thank you!

[@MsJankz]

💜💜💜 Please take youtubing at your own pace!! None of your subscribers fault ya, your well being comes first ! ☺️ you’re always so caring to us, so please care for yourself too~~ Random thing hmmm… I have a ragdolll cat and he’s officially a year old!!! His name is Mochi

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww thank you for being so kind and thinking of me darling 😘 💜🧁✨ omg I love that name!!

[@ajp1282]

Glad you're out there living life, Shivv-ums!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

thanks babycakes 😘 💜🧁✨

[@almutimkerbell88]

💜💜💜 This year I am recovering from some health issuess. I moved back from UK to Spain and looking for a place to live, living with my parents ATM. I love you to. Take care.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I'm sorry to hear you've been having some health issues lovely but I'm glad to be here to help you relax as part of your recovery. Wishing you all the success with finding a place of your own, sending you lots of love 😘 💜🧁✨

[@koledavis4260]

Haven't really done much in the past few months except try to survive life itself. It's a process but I'm making due.

[@alicem4526]

Keep going! :)

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

and that is so so so okay too! it's your time for hibernation and healing and you should be so proud of yourself xx

[@Effect_____]

The updates give me hope about things hopefully getting brighter in my own life eventually too 🙏

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

don't give up darling, truly in my darkest times things always find a way to turn around and change 💖

[@sarinameyer5888]

💜💟💜 I enrolled back into college, but haven’t told anyone yet, kind of fun

[@vanessamiller9456]

💜 thank you for this video ❤️❤️

[@Leone_XCI]

💜💜💜 I just got my very 1st apartment😊

[@arminz7924]

Great vid 💜

[@abigailgawart8249]

♥️♥️♥️ you are the absolute best

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

nawww thank you Abigail, you're an absolute gem 💖

[@zelgabriel736]

💜 I quit drinking and smoking and became a facilitator for a recovery group :)

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

wow! I am so proud of you - that takes guts and a special type of person to do that 👏 💜

[@MalikEXXL]

💜 in the last 6 months I've started cycling again! It's hot as ever up here in the great American midwest, so it's fantastic exercise! I've also discovered Jocie B ASMR. Have you heard of her? I think she'd be right up your alley. She's SUPER wholesome...just like you 😇 you two should do a video talking about nails and cats!! 😅🤣Jokes aside, thank you for sharing your good times and bad with us. No matter what, it's always a joy hearing you speak, Shivi XD

[@katherinehudson384]

I love Jocie !!!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Jocie is amazing, I have so much respect for what she does! Also I love the idea of a video taking about nails and cats 😆 🙌 💜 And congrats on discovering cycling again, I imagine you have some great scenery to admire on your rides!

[@bubbashlumps]

Just fell to my knees in my room currently crying and throwing up

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

aww darling, I'm so sorry - I hope you feel better, sending you healing and calming vibes ❤️‍🩹 💕

[@alejisimoalejoelconejo3477]

We love you!

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

love you too! 💕

[@owenanderson9624]

Hello there ma'am, hope you are well 🙏❤

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I sure am! Hope you're doing really good yourself Owen! xx

[@Draction333]

Thank you for the Christmas card.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

You are so welcome! It was such a special thing to be able to do 💕

[@agentvenom3342]

I’m glad that you’re feeling a lot better mentally also I think it would be cool if you made a discord if you haven’t already and you can have a section where people can discuss mental health stuff because I feel like that’s an important discussion to have but I feel like we don’t take care of our mental health enough and I think it would be cool if we had a place to like lift each other up and stuff also if you wanna know how I’m doing I’m actually in a pretty good mental state right now I’m actually pretty happy right now because my favorite game is now getting a much-needed update/changes that it’s needed a long time Plus overwatch 2 beta is happening soon so I got a lot to look forward to also just remember it’s OK to not be OK sometimes and even though it feels like you’re all alone you’re not you still have people that care about you no matter how few or many there are

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww this comment is so so lovely 🥰 🥰 🥰 Thank you for supporting me and being so kind lovely. I'm not too sure about discord because I would want to monitor it to keep it a safe space for everyone and I'm not sure it's something I can commit to at the moment. However I do want to try my hand at livestreaming as that's a way for me to interact with you all in real-time 💕

[@agentvenom3342]

@@CallMeQuietASMR Thank you for the reply you’re awesome and so lovely and I hope that things will get better for you from here on out I try to be there for everyone in the kitchen that needs it for emotional support and everything I say comes from the heart and continue the good work people like you is what helps me cope with stress and I’m so happy that I’m part of the ASMR community

[@jacksaunders9813]

Aye I’m always a legend to you anyway like I said to you about how many years ago 💗💗

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Thanks for being such a long time subscriber Jack, you are a legend!

[@alonzov.1978]

Missed you

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

missed you too! 😘 🧁✨

[@justinfelt748]

Hi; beautiful girl and Happy Thursday!😊😊😊😊😊🌌💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷🌈💜💜💜💜💜👍

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

a belated happy Thursday to you too Justin! 😊 💜🧁✨

[@justinfelt748]

@@CallMeQuietASMR Thank you!😊💙💙💙💙🌷💜💜💜💜💜💜👍.

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Well done me for always commenting you on KZbin comment 😊👍🏆⭐️

[@JoshuaTealFIT]

miss u

[@davidparnell1903]

Good video

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Glad you enjoyed!!

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💜loveya👉👈

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[@Seb-F]

💜 I did a World Cup

[@ZackyYabes]

Hi! I hope you’re doing well 💜

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I am, I hope you are too Zacky! 💜🧁✨

[@emmanuelvargas7220]

Hey there baby cakes 🖐👀

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

Hey babycakes 😘💜🧁✨

[@muziekengeluid]

Where are you from plz? Aussie? 😉

[@summercater3182]

I feel like I can relate to a lot of what you’re saying. I really missed you Quiet! I don’t know if you believe in Jesus Christ or anything around that, but I do hope you know that He was there with you during that downfall. He knows how hard that was, and He was walking with you, even if you didn’t feel it or recognize it. You are loved by Him no matter what, and He doesn’t call you to be perfect and without mistakes or your failings, or those dark moments you’ve went through. He wants you because you’re you! He wants you because He’s your Heavenly Father! He wants to help, guide, teach, and transform you. Everything you’re going through is your beautiful story He has made, and He just wants to be apart of it. He’s not looking at your mistakes, He is looking at you, and you’re going to get through this. We’re going to have ups and downs but this is because it isn’t are true home. He is. I hope you find comfort in knowing He is there with you, and I hope you lean on Him and know that He will NEVER leave you. He is not like humans of course, He is God❤️ I love you, I hope this wasn’t too much I just truly love you and I’ve been watching you forever, and I wanted you to know how loved you are. This is not any forcing, it is simply the truth! He has helped me and I’ve been going through a TOUGH time recently as well, so I just wanted you to know that He doesn’t ask you to always be perfect, okay? When He sees you He is forever longing to be with you.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

I'm not religious but I do consider myself spiritual and I can feel the love through this message, thank you darling xx

[@summercater3182]

@@CallMeQuietASMR of course Quiet! I hope this helped you in any way :) I’m actually not religious or don’t consider myself to be in a religion, I just follow the Bible and Jesus Christ❤️ thank you for taking the time to read this!

[@rogerbraintree9552]

💜Well it's hot over here in the UK. A 4 x 4 would be nice to have. I've no idea how to go on a date. I guess one needs to use a dating site and my experience of those is that women get hundreds of requests but men get naught. Anyway my social life is a lot more desolate than yours. Maybe women traditionally have more social lives than men do. Or perhaps I'm a bore.

[@CallMeQuietASMR]

awww Roger, I think you're very hard on yourself! And trust me it was some hard work to get those messages to materialise into dates, online dating can be so fickle at times because people have so much choice and no consequences if they ghost you

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