“that’s why I struggle with relationships, because I like to sit in silence.” I have never related to anything more.
@itsbwoken147310 ай бұрын
Same...
@MadelynnMarlowe7 ай бұрын
THATS SO ME
@someoneshappyness4 ай бұрын
This is so True bc look The thing is we’re not made for all this modern world shit Success And competition and all this work shit We’re made to Exist Make art for no reason at all Point
@wamnibrushbreaker96444 ай бұрын
@@someoneshappyness Everything is so controlled by social media and the idea of having to be seen. When really its all about finding someone you can sit in silence with and it not be awkward or turn hostile.
@atelyds92 жыл бұрын
Can we just give a massive congrats to Ryan for keeping the same pace as Roy and Calum, but BACKWARDS!
@s_poptart Жыл бұрын
i was thinking about this the last video, this man is so impressive
@niamhgibbons4707 Жыл бұрын
Yeah omg I was wondering how he did that 😂😂😂😂
@Ryan-jw8jw2 жыл бұрын
The comfort between these two friends and their conversation made me realize that I tend to surround myself with people that I do not feel comfortable just being silent with. Even with my best friends, I feel like I can not just sit in the silence. Hence my affinity for nature and hiking. I can roll solo and just BE.
@kaleidoscopeemindd70242 жыл бұрын
the thing about being called shy is so relatable and that's how I've always felt my whole life, and I thought it was just me feeling like that, I'm really glad you talked about this
@sthefaniclaudino84622 жыл бұрын
it's so cool how connected i feel with this, the first minutes with the shy conversation felt like a punch of reality
@syfiarniaa6162 жыл бұрын
it's like free therapy, now i feel like I don't have to always think about what someone is wanting me to say but what I want to say even if it's taking a little more time to me to put all of my thoughts into a one sentence
@emmartin9175 Жыл бұрын
Omgg fr tho!!!
@ceelockboomboo2 жыл бұрын
I love this entire convo, a conversation everyone should have
@QLaudeMusic Жыл бұрын
Roy saying one of the things he's supposed to do on earth is to be a mirror to others for them to see themselves more, and that's exactly what this video did for me. The thoughts, feelings, and intentions have always been there but i feel like these videos put words and perspective to them..
@itsbwoken147310 ай бұрын
This was so relatable...glad im not the only one
@miriamswanson8634 Жыл бұрын
i love an aquarius/gemini duo
@ayasultan56102 жыл бұрын
My third eye has yet again awakened! absolutely love this entire series.
@itsnataliewbu Жыл бұрын
the most impressive thing about this video is that y’all are able to talk while walking uphill
@isabelmiriam18222 жыл бұрын
bro said "cut the cameras, deadass" 1:58
@mildaal2 жыл бұрын
I want this. I would love to just sit down somewhere peaceful and have a conversation with these two for hours and hours. So liberating
@pannipanna25852 жыл бұрын
Back for another therapy session 🤭
@itshelena4450 Жыл бұрын
As a creature of habitual self-doubt it lifted my heart when you guys talked about trusting your intuition. I'd like to think this video was made to help people like me rise above our doubts (: Thank you!
@lexab19122 жыл бұрын
Tag yourself I’m Cal’s hydro flask swinging haphazardly as he walks
@MJheartly Жыл бұрын
I feel seen in a way I've never felt seen before. Thank you!! I too was often labelled as a shy kid but I didn't necessarily feel shy. Over the years, I've had a number of friends (who I would consider extroverts) comment about how quiet I was and they would try to get a conversation going in a moment where I was comfortable with the silence. When I started a new job at the beginning of the year (my dream job, in fact), one of the first things I noticed about my own performance was that I felt like wasn't contributing ideas as often as others during team meetings. I got quite worried about how others would perceive me if I didn't contribute. It wasn't until a recent annual review with my Director that I began to better understand who I truly am. She pointed out that one of my strongest skills is that I'm a great listener, considerate of the needs of others and, therefore, am able to come up with creative solutions. All of my life I've never really thought that being a "good listener" was a meaningful skill - I just thought that was something most people did. But now, thanks to heairng this conversation, I understand just how powerful it is. It's taken me a very long time to finally break it down, but I think I've finally found the core of my being and you two really solidified that for me.
@Hannah-kg8xc Жыл бұрын
I had the exact same thoughts watching this video. So many people have told me I seem shy and asked, if I was afraid to say something wrong. But I just don´t feel like talking all the time. I dated a guy, who kept wondering how I could be fine with just walking alongside each other, not talking (it didn´t work out, this was probably one reason) and I felt the pressure to say something, but I cannot think of anything to say in moments like this. I think, silence doesn´t have to be uncomfortable. I hope that I will find a few people who appreciate me being more of a listener, and I´m so happy, that your director is such a great and mindful person. Reading your comment made me smile and I just wanted to tell you, that you´re are even less alone with thoughts like this than you think.
@brookeh77392 жыл бұрын
therapy sesh part 2 ‼️‼️
@mayaron2 жыл бұрын
wow, this is so inspiring and lovely, i hope you do more of these, it gives me a lot of new perspectives and i really appreciate it
@AnaTorres-lh1yt2 жыл бұрын
This is such a lovely lovely conversation to listen to🤍
@isz_arts Жыл бұрын
Can we give a shoutout to the camera walking backward up and down those hills?!?!?!? 🙌🙌🙌
@visualnovelreader1232 жыл бұрын
that was the coolest conversation i've ever witnessed!! :D
@brittneygonzalez3780 Жыл бұрын
I relate to this conversation so much. I needed to hear this. 🤍
@valeriehebert4874 Жыл бұрын
really love the vibe, the topics, the chemistry between you two and the way you guys think🫶 i relate even more to part 2. thank you for this xx
@atelyds92 жыл бұрын
A beautiful deep dive into the importance of not thinking. Loved it!
@alexapimkie Жыл бұрын
i adored this! thanks for sharing a piece of you and a glimpse of calum with us
@brittanymoodreads9486 Жыл бұрын
I am so happy I discovered this channel on my feed because it makes me feel seen. You articulated ideas and emotions that I have never been able to say. Thank you so much for being brave enough to share your wisdom with the world. I can’t wait to watch all of your videos and learn from you and your friends about how to live a more purposeful, grounded and balanced life. Keep shining your light into the world because you are amazing.
@alison__brooks2 жыл бұрын
soooo stoked!!! the conversation continues ✌️
@evmartt Жыл бұрын
Wow, this convo rn 🤎
@alim-jt9is Жыл бұрын
i love these so much. and i love y’all! thanks for sharing these with us roy 💜
@alexapimkie Жыл бұрын
the shot at 19 is so cool!
@ritwikamitra66922 жыл бұрын
Comfort vid series ♥
@rand0m_.c0splayer422 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait for the next part (if there is one) but I love all your content :D! I was watching this on my to school btw because I was bored🤍 keep up the great work!!
@arielgillespie810 ай бұрын
I love this so much! you've definitely been a mirror for me. both of you. I've never had the way I absorb the energy of other people in the room but can also transmit it explained like that, outside the context of neurobiology that people tend to forget exists outside a conversation about regulating your nervous system (usually in order to appear more normal, the way we perceive is likeable). thank you so so much for making this!! i do have to ask if you get to this, have you looked at the neurobiology of it?
@Kate-qr5pj Жыл бұрын
I need a part 3 please
@leenbasha2 жыл бұрын
roy i love this series, please tell me more of the guys will be guests on it too, either way, great job friend
@angelicajg Жыл бұрын
thank god i ended up here
@IAMAbigailll2 жыл бұрын
I love this ❤️
@brooklynmignan2550Ай бұрын
“Like” been said 35665678x times 😂😂
@sofiaresendescarreirodasil161 Жыл бұрын
I just realized how much of a slow walker I am
@selsounds Жыл бұрын
ryan walks soooooooo fast
@rodrigofarrales9177 Жыл бұрын
Where is this trail?
@haleyg2980 Жыл бұрын
How times does he say “like” in this video lol
@JagwarTwin Жыл бұрын
like a lot
@someoneshappyness4 ай бұрын
Don’t care abt growing or skills and go on go on go on levels and shit like that Just do things bc u enjoy it Love it Just do what u do Be alive enjoy it as if it’s the last day Succes and growing doesn’t matter it’s a bullshit capitalistic illusion And we don’t need it Also we need degrowth anyways to not fck the world up more ahaha But yes We. Can all start with ourselves So make music do music sake For the moment Enjoy nature Enjoy That’s all u do need to do Yk … Succes doesn’t matter and working hard not too Live ur life Just life Working hard is a capitalistic trap and lie Why work when we could live? It’s dumb It’s brainwashy And Succes sis just part with that just as stupid It’s about how other see u Who cares? Fuck that shit and just live fck succes live create Succes is dumbn Love is all that matters Don’t use love and all to become successful Don’t care and succes It’s bullshit And just be pure