Cameron Diaz Gives the Weird Kid Her Bra | Bad Teacher | Now Playing

[@tywalden4329]

"It's okay, I'm his teacher." "Oh, okay. Take your time." An interesting response to that... lol

[@im1who84u]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@gospelofrye6881]

That's the joke.

[@tywalden4329]

@@gospelofrye6881 yeah. I gathered that. lol.

[@im1who84u]

@@gospelofrye6881 Nothing gets by you.

[@ajdominguez1002]

​@@im1who84u No, my reflexes are too quick. I would catch it.

[@hardcandy9880]

"I think college. Thats your window. You ready?" Is oddly encouraging without saying much

[@irumasuzuki9074]

Too bad College isn't a guarantee for everyone

[@hardcandy9880]

@@irumasuzuki9074 Yes. The encouragemenr only applies to kids like him.

[@rsvihla]

The quote is “Thinking college. That’s your window. Be ready.” Not to be a pedant.

[@gregmicheals6231]

@@rsvihla bro I was thinking the exact same thing! I’m glad you said it! Haha

[@johnthomas1940]

Shit described me to a T and I was like damn

[@dylancooper3690]

He's not weird. He just has feelings with no game. It happens.

[@X-Prime123]

Girls are nice to start with, then they turn into women and that's the end of that, lol.

[@thomascromwell6840]

True. I only have my ego and a world's worth of game. I'd switch places with someone like that any day.

[@dbodooley]

Yup. I’ve seen the type. He is the type that in 12 years would be a complete stud going to the gym daily, great job and fighting the girls off of him.

[@AdrianAron-i7l]

nah man if u have that kind of feelings you have the will to develop the game . Game is a skill feelings are the fuel to execute

[@kingtech7917]

Yup true I was him in school you gotta be tough and emotionless

[@innovbrain]

I think teens need these kinds of honest teachers at this age. When I was 13, I loved the fact that i was surrounded by all adults at home. Because you learn too much from the most sincere people in your life. And this teacher is honestly too sincere. She gave advice that saves years of waste to a teen😊

[@HeyMyLifeIsLibby]

Honestly, as hard as it may have been to hear, if I ever had a teacher, friend, or even a parent to be that honest with me, I would’ve been so grateful and avoided so many years of delusion and self pity. 😂

[@cityhawk]

It would have saved me a couple of years of middle school. Rather not relive it.

[@HeyMyLifeIsLibby]

@Lubomir Radev I need it. It helps me sniff out bullshit. How serendipitous.

[@dutchvanderlinde4965]

@Lubomir Radev Ay but hes not a bad looking dude though, big as his nose may be.

[@dutchvanderlinde4965]

@@mdp4022 well then marry it

[@X-Prime123]

Yeah, that doesn't happen in real life. However you can be like that to your kid and help them along, if they're up for it. Sadly it's us who have to become what we didn't get.

[@rachelgarcia2553]

Love Jason Siegel!! “I’m going thru such a tough time”😂😂😂😂

[@kennethfharkin]

When she said she wasn't wearing any panties he should have responded with "Now I'm going though such a hard time."

[@dbodooley]

Hahaha. He is the best

[@atyourservice]

@@kennethfharkin Or he could have said that it is very unhygienic to not wear underwear and leave her standing in an overly dramatic way. That would have been much funnier :)

[@keenannelson-barer307]

@@kennethfharkinbest comment

[@youngsteph1]

When she is telling the boy why the girl doesn't want him but another guy, saying she is superficial & priorities all fucked up, she hestitates, because she knows she was that girl.

[@X-Prime123]

There ought to be a long-term study done on it.

[@samuelm.e8778]

That’s the moment she redeems herself

[@139-b7j]

Wanting a masculine man who can protect you and give you a good time instead of a cry baby manchild is not being superficial.

[@SINdaBlock411]

@@139-b7j someone likes it rough

[@johngrondin8258]

No shit

[@OliverJonesMusic]

Imagine getting called a loser by Gibby

[@carnage1284]

That’s when you know it’s bad😂

[@TheWelchProductions]

After season 2, he became a winner.

[@BlackDiamond2718]

Women can take off their bras as much as they want, nothing will be as iconic as gibby taking off his shirt.

[@kingbernard_30]

Bro Gibby is cool. He got Emily Ratajkowski

[@Black_Caucus]

LMAO

[@hemantwaghmare527]

She impressed me by making someone feel better about being sensitive. 💛

[@palocymasaio]

now reverse the roles, what if a grown man gave a garment to his student

[@ddc_3337]

@@palocymasaio not the same. the society doesn't work the same for both. A girl cant even date more than a few guys without being called 'she's for the streets' or 'shes passed around' whereas if a man sleeps around more, he's called a stud. as you can see, he got praised for having a bra, whereas, a girl would be shamed for having an underwear. Even when girls are being sexual, people will quickly say 'i wonder how her dad feels about that' etc. but for a guy, noone says that. Thus, what she did, uplifted the boy's image, whereas, if a male teacher did that, the image of the girl would be ruined.

[@joshisfearless]

@@palocymasaio bro is going to prison 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@samuelm.e8778]

Even though Elizabeth started out as a terrible person, I can definitely say this scene is where she redeems herself

[@ScottStuart2K]

3:15 she realized she was talking about herself too😂😂

[@kingkongchief1177]

I bet she became a great guidance counselor. She doesn’t sugarcoat or lie to kids. She’s completely honest with them when she tries to help them like you’re supposed to when teaching kids about life.

[@spiritualempress6691]

I was never a big Cameron fan but she was absolutely perfect for this role ❤️

[@newcars11]

I'm a big fan of Cameron.

[@zainhasan29]

We need teachers like her she was caring supportive and always treated a student like a friend ❤

[@johnpauljones9310]

Teachers who treat students like friends end up molesting them. So, no.

[@OneWeirdDude]

Your students are not supposed to be your friends.

[@MKD1101]

​@@OneWeirdDude why? I think people below are misunderstanding friendship as being friends with benefits!

[@OneWeirdDude]

@@MKD1101 It's unprofessional.

[@MKD1101]

@@OneWeirdDude how about being friends after they are no longer your students?

[@mattlol2334]

No ones gonna talk about Gibby being the bully for once 😂

[@jeffk1482]

I like at 3:16 there’s a flash of introspection on her face. Like “hey wait…I was just describing myself!”

[@DanielsGameVault]

"Lots of people don't wear bras"......"Definitely. Lots of TEACHERS >_>" UUFF ! SAVAGE ! :))))

[@im1who84u]

I can't remember the last time a wore a bra.... and that makes my wife very happy.

[@syednoorerasul]

1:33 that is some spot on expressions for a child actor lmao

[@rebeccamcgowan728]

I know I'm the only one but the Abe Lincoln guy cracks me up 😂..."churn butter" 😅

[@stephaniestanley8041]

Cameron was wonderful in this movie 🍿🎥

[@JSPHism]

"dont be weird"- the teacher who just gave her bra to her underage student

[@tonygristina4860]

If my teacher gave me her bra, I could use it as a two person tent.

[@dianapevtsov]

Nice to see you, Paul Safranek. ;) kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3TVc3x5jrJjr68

[@baze3541]

lmqoo

[@michiel1162]

bro could keep the homeless from drowning

[@apeasantdream5935]

We prob share the same teacher

[@X-Prime123]

Is it that dude with the fake boobs from Canada?

[@Mikey122687]

Remember guys, she got a meeting with the principal and the superintendent tomorrow at the meeting, tomorrow

[@Essentialsend]

did the meeting take place?

[@Jayeeda_]

1:41 their reaction is killing me😂😂😂😭

[@rachelxx1991]

"Oh, please don't."

[@NahualliUoxtitla]

Abe's look at 1:20 is priceless 😅

[@nadimabbas4093]

I love that Camerion Diaz did the bra removal trick from Flashdance😍

[@dianapevtsov]

And lent her undergarment to an unpopular vulnerable kid like in SIXTEEN CANDLES.

[@zach11241]

And put semen in her hair like Something About Mary

[@dukedave7]

You spelled her name wrong...

[@ssansu]

Every woman in the world does that

[@IanChristopherson-t9v]

@@ssansu I had to teach my ex how to do it. She didn't know.

[@CaptainJimmybrown99]

The Jewish guy trying to do Lincoln is so underrated

[@JackYouTubeAcc]

“It’s ok, I’m his teacher.” “Oh, okay take your time.” Very interesting

[@nicholasburch2122]

Being sensitive is absolutely a compliment. I'd rather be sensitive to my personal experience of life than fit in.

[@darklevi8888]

​@@metalspinda9594 Perceptive eye ! Your analysis is spot on.

[@mikedillan8101]

Me too ❤

[@sstaners1234]

He needed the pep talk bad.

[@KevPage-Witkicker]

The "Karen" at the end being British (she's Eve Draper from Hot Fuzz) is almost unbelievable, great accent, she nailed it.

[@erickportugal7351]

4:45 Neville and Gibby playing along

[@randomdude9664]

Man does this, 20 to life

[@serenabrooks8898]

I did not know men wore bras, so that they could do this.

[@philgibson3001]

FACTS…there’s just some things girls can get away with that guys would be destroyed for…it is what it is

[@km4336]

​@@serenabrooks8898🤣😂

[@spongmongler6760]

there's no real comparison. it'd be like... a gym vest? of which no, at max there'd be questions and maybe losing your job which would only be slightly more likely than a woman's odds. there's no way you're real, you're bait.

[@WilliamHBaird-eq2hp]

CD is a beauty indeed.

[@dylancooper3690]

This is actually very good advice, even if tough to hear.

[@Jules279]

Fr, kids like that don't get the hot popular girls for a reason. Like she said he'll be alright once he's grown.

[@clavisolemgbe4124]

Too funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@NahualliUoxtitla]

Abe is hilarious... 0:13 "which is why they called me rail-splitter.... aaaaaahhhhhh"

[@thatswhatsup0493]

The hat part was the best 😂😂😂

[@liorasitelman1856]

IRL giving a student her bra would get her reported to the board of Ed and she’d have her license revoked. But she gave him great advice.

[@ilmaio]

Same board, would force kids to watch sodomy porn, while hovering around in the hope to have a chance to chop their genitals off mimicking impossible sex changes. But giving a teenage boy a bra? Horror. Same boy WEARING a bra? Fantastic! Ultra cool! I miss America so much.

[@volourn9764]

It have to be proven.

[@rileymcdonald6296]

She's a woman teacher so no I don't think anything would happen to her especially not in these times 🤣 people turn a blind eye with female teachers, but if it was a male teacher giving it to a female student the whole world would be in uproar ☠️ just a fact. Watch the south park episode "miss teacher bangs a boy" it's the mist perfect example of what I'm talking about 🤣🤣

[@TheMintedAero1993]

The film is called bad teacher

[@brandocalifornia3024]

He's a fuckin MO RON! I forgot how funny this movie was

[@craneoDeFuego077]

"Take your time" is crazy

[@nogoogleplus]

Cameron is one of the best ever to do it in this genre

[@JPSimen]

Fiona has a sweet voice.

[@tiyopaenguin]

0:44 the funniest scene for me.

[@andymassingham]

Abe says “yup” with all the enthusiasm of a washed-up actor who despises taking this job for minimum wage. I’ve replayed it five times😂

[@apurugganan]

Works for me -- I like Cameron Diaz =)

[@kingbernard_30]

Bro's got that negative rizz

[@clavisolemgbe4124]

I love this movie ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂

[@Luckmorne]

Matt Besser also played a person dressed up as Abe Lincoln for a Halloween party in the Happy Endings episode "Spooky Endings" in 2011.

[@cyberles8830]

"8th grade will be better." "--probably not."😄

[@gwcrispi]

Peak Cameron...

[@henriqueleijoto9285]

I enjoy this scene: a lot of hustle there

[@Madboiwastaken]

I can't believe they can spin something so inappropriate into wholesome 💀

[@NahualliUoxtitla]

Eh. Ver. Ee. Thing. 😅 "You can explain it all tomorrow to the principal. And the superintendent. When you got your meeting with the principal and the superintendent tomorrow. At the meeting. Tomorrow."

[@wallymakuchal3527]

The red head.... is that Lucy Punch?

[@smducky980]

Yes!

[@andreahmmian1303]

2:05 😂😂

[@Mr.T-1000]

strangely enough, you can go from zero to hero with 1 simple trick.........not giving a fuck, the second u start acting like ur cool as ice,,,,,,,your suddenly cool as ice.

[@levistrnad2965]

you just explained what half the generation does not even understand. congrats!

[@rapbattlefan2008]

I wish Cobra Kai had come out when I was in high school. Eli “Hawk” Moskowitz learned to flip the script. He proved that you always have the power to be a badass if you want. Garrett should’ve taken a leaf out of Hawk’s book. On a side note, Elizabeth Halsey is essentially just a female Johnny Lawrence!

[@honeyv6020]

Best part of the movie...

[@Peirithous]

Lucy Punch💙💛💙💛💙💛💙💛

[@Dontmatterwhatuthink]

Whats Justin Timberlake doin’ here 💀💀💀

[@chrispatton8081]

Gary from The Last American Virgin needed this speech before hocking his stereo to help Karen get rid of Rick's baby.

[@jcb3393]

So hated that movie. Pissed me off to no end on so many levels.

[@clavisolemgbe4124]

Camera Diza is a talented actor❤❤❤ 👏.

[@dabumenon2358]

3:58

[@pdawg0612]

I want her as my teacher

[@brucemiller1696]

My kindergarden teacher was that hot. 😋 And yes, i was into girls that early.

[@emmanuelharris6445]

Same here. What a lucky kid🍀. Really wish I was him.

[@d-money5976]

This movie was so funny and plenty of OH $hit moments....Was hoping they did a Bad Teacher 2 same as they did with Bad Santa 2..

[@toolittletoolate3917]

Anyone who wants to know what the phrase “run like a girl” means should watch this clip.

[@EnycmaPie]

Imagine the shit storm that would happen if a male teacher gives his teenage female student his underwear as a gift.

[@ran52475]

Yeah man women are considered objects regardless of age and their sexuality isn’t considered their own. Nobody’s threatened by a trophy even if it’s inappropriate. Also when you find out every male teacher who seemed alright actually did prey on a friend of yours, it turns out the odds of a male teacher handing a female student his underwear without preying on her is pretty low. So, no it’s not a “double standard” it’s just an accurate reflection of both misogyny and typical predation

[@idk_6385]

Yeah its a comedy the point is its wrong

[@donabz1471]

Are you gay ?

[@MightyBiffer]

@@ran52475 Do some research. Women teachers prey on their male child students more frequently than male teachers do. Your bigotry against makes is showing when you see this clip and think that the woman is helping but assume that a male would be predatory. Here is a word for today "misandry." It is real and you are part of it.

[@dianapevtsov]

@@idk_6385 Exactly. It's explicitly in the movie's title. They weren't unclear. But people love to hide their priviledge under alleged examples of oppression, which is why the KZbin comments section is heavily decorated with, "If the roles were reversed, DUH-DUH-DUH-DUH-DUHHHHHHHHH." As if there aren't countless real life instances of women teachers ruining their careers and lives with an act of transgression like this.

[@NasunaGotto]

What is the name of the movie😊

[@Joseph-gm3qm]

It was weird seeing Gibby being a bully 😂😂

[@MegaLokopo]

What movie is this?

[@philm0graphy]

what the hell is Marshall Erikson doing there

[@fritzdecat]

Gibby! How could you?

[@davidbolha]

@ 04:43 Her hypergamy hath reawakened, igniting the fire in her loins (for Garrett). But will he accept her "golden shower" ? 🤔😎😁😂

[@JewishKeto]

She told him what he NEEDED to hear… not what he WANTED to hear.

[@scarface1499]

I was this kid. College was definitely my window. Be yourself, build your confidence, and talking and going out with girls will be a breeze!

[@meissinmonterroso8273]

Bro what, that’s weird

[@Bless-u1j]

GIBBY!!

[@billmurray7473]

Schools today need More teachers like this one, willing to go the extra mile for students w/problems. Just think, some of these might be Senators and Congressmen. Your thoughts here.......

[@thedarkcomedian]

I totally agree!

[@jimrabbit96]

That mean red head lady at the end looked like Mark Lanegan.

[@minecchannel2006]

4:50 jason segel

[@keithrickson8522]

Imagine a male teacher giving a 13 year old girl his underwear because her crush dumped her.

[@douglassam6395]

Long ads no skip

[@lava3218]

She really is a bad teacher. Wow. Also if she really did this she wouldn't be teaching long.

[@sinisterknight9696]

It’s inappropriate, but I don’t think there are any rules or laws against giving away an article of clothing, provided nothing else has happened.

[@alexanderhayward8505]

It ain't that serious.

[@thedarkcomedian]

@jackalima326😂😂😂

[@ChristoffRevan]

​@@sinisterknight9696Um, if a male teacher gave a female student his undies he would go to jail...

[@KevanKChannel]

I was hot in college but college was so hard and stressing I never put the time to become popular.

[@legitdownz8926]

I feel you bro✊🏼

[@devangabhyankar9785]

and 1000 other lies people tell themselves

[@KevanKChannel]

@@devangabhyankar9785 ?

[@yashvardhansingh9285]

don't let him bother you bro, I seen things too

[@NYD666]

Nice humble brag, dbag. Too bad people care less about what you did in college than in highschool - unless you played sports.

[@newmanproductionentertainm5127]

You know it’s bad when you get bullied by gibby of all people in the world.

[@nathanreddy4801]

5:17

[@aaron-dd5zr]

Yeah it’s real. 😅😅😅😅

[@sabanakhatun2549]

All great creativitrs

[@cristinachaliandroi1369]

How nuch i laugh in this movie i cant tell

[@NahualliUoxtitla]

The blonde girl looks like a young Joan Cusack

[@katemurray8201]

I didn’t realize gibby was in this movie

[@bartulis8036]

Can adults give their bras to kids

[@JugglesGrenades]

I wonder what happened the next day at the meeting.

[@RhysRTX]

GIBBBYYYY

[@roxannemua9350]

4:14 i thought it would be heavier lmaoooo

[@MercSambo]

Was this the move that made CD quit acting?

[@fashionablechangeling2003]

No, that was Annie

[@maxdecphoenix]

I read this and was like wtf is he talking about?. I had to look it up. i had no idea she left acting. She really did. But i did see that she is currently working on a film for Netflix, so apparently her 'retirement' only lasted 10 years (less if you factor in finishing a t.v. series.)

[@Jsmith2024]

Gibby!

[@ninjanerdstudent6937]

Gibby?

[@beboysub]

bro had no rizz

[@im1who84u]

2:46 Like most girls, she wants the "bad boys" and you're not it kid. She'll want you in about twenty years when your financially well off and the "bad boys" have all left her and moved on to the younger and hotter babes. Oh, did I mention? When she finally does "settle" for you she'll have three children from three different men and been "ran through" by so many men you'd think her three holes are sewing machines. She'll be in debt up to her eyeballs and expect you to pay for everything. Including the three children that aren't yours. You'll have all the responsibility without any of the authority or respect. You'll be sixth in the line of what is important to her. First she cares about herself. Then her three children. Next the family dog. And then MAYBE you. So you are behind the family dog and unless you are the lead dog, your view never changes. All you are to her is an A.T.M. and a babysitter so she can leave her kids with you while she goes out on "girls night out weekends" with all her single girlfriends. Comes home after midnight drunk with her clothes all twisted around, makeup all smeared up, smelling of other men, and her hair has this "just laid look" to it. Shouts at you to "F" off as she stumbles past you on her way to the bedroom to pass out for the day. Complain to her and she'll just accuse you of being insecure and controlling.

[@anitarathi1863]

OK where do you find women like that Who hurt you And where the hell did you gain these experiences from If an ugly , goofy ,unpopular girl proposed to you like that you you would have the same reaction

[@im1who84u]

@@anitarathi1863 Actually I've avoided that "bullet" in my life but have seen it happen numerous times to friends and acquaintances I personally know. I have had girls get up the courage to make their feelings known to me and I've always been polite to them. Some I would go out with, most I didn't. Either way I treated them all with respect. I am an old wolf and I've been on the trail a long time. You sound like you may not be that kind of girl and that makes you the "Unicorn", the exception to the rule, but that doesn't change the rule. The below comment is a cumulation of years of watching and listening to others and learning from their mistakes, reading, listening to seminars, and of course my own personal experiences in life. The places I’ve been, the things I’ve done, and the people I’ve met. I am older now and have had a good life. I was M.G.T.O.W. way back when I was in my late teens and early twenties. I just didn’t know it and there was no term like M.G.T.O.W. for it. By the way, the music of the sixties was great! I learned early on in life not to listen to or trust women. I saw other men that had gotten married, lived to regret it, and curse the day they ever got married, and little did they know, the fun for them was only just beginning. Soon they would be falsely accused of assaulting their wives, seexually assaulting their own children, and then slapped with a restraining order and now they could only see their children under state supervision. Try getting a job or a place to live with that on your record. Oh, but wait, there’s more, the fun doesn’t just stop there. It just keeps getting even better with each passing day. Next, they get financially graped in the corrupt, unethical, immoral, dishonest, crooked, and shady at best “family court system” by a vengeful, hateful, vindictive lying, parasitic, shrew of a woman that used to be their wife. The woman you marry, is not the same woman you divorce. So, these poor slobs are left alone to cry in their coffee, driving an old rust bucket of a car because that’s all they could afford, his ex-wife gets rewarded for her poor behavior and gets all the cash and prizes. She gets to keep the nice “new” S.U.V. she convinced him to buy while they were still “happily married”, all the time knowing full well she was going to soon divorce his sorry ace and keep it. He is living in some small one room apartment, while his ex-wife is living in the house he is still paying for, she got custody of the children, turned his own children against him, “coached” them to lie about him in court, while he pays child support and vaginamoney to this parasite, she installs her new “boyfriend” in his house….. and it only gets worse from there. Getting attached to women only leads to emotional pain and financial ruin. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule…… but that still doesn’t change the rule. It’s the exception that proves the rule. There’s no wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it. Now, look at this poor guy. What women is going to want to date or have anything to do with a man that is broke, looks like he’s been pulled backwards through a horse’s ass, and has a vindictive ex-wife coming at him like a heat seeking missile? I was blessed with a good position in life and didn’t have to work very hard to get girls/women. Women liked being around me and to be seen with me and the guys liked hanging around with me because it increased their chances of “getting laid”. I knew the women didn’t necessarily like “me”, they liked being seen with me, they liked the thought of other woman envying them for being seen with me, they liked the thought of having access to my resources, they liked the thought of marrying my lifestyle and hooking me to them for life with a kid. Who I was, was just coincidental to them. They wanted access to my resources. Many a woman has asked me to marry her and I don’t regret a one I turned down. I do regret the two I did marry, but I fortunately did not have any children with either of them, was only married three years to my first wife and one year to my second wife. Did not get financially ruined cause I saw my mistake early on and got out before we had children and bought a house together. Although they both lobbied very hard to have children, I was able to put them off. I purposely did not purchase a house or accumulated much property because after I signed on the “dotted marriage line” I noticed a slight change in their attitude and not for the better. I suspected things might be going south and I was right. Both marriages eventually ended in a divorce. I got a vasectomy at age forty and never married again. When I dated, I dated from a position of power and I didn’t have to take any sh!t from any women and I wasn’t afraid to tell them to hit the road and they knew I would do it. That threat has to absolutely be on the table at all times. I had a reputation for not taking any sh!t and had already demonstrated my willingness to retire beetchy women in past relationships. If they became beetchy, controlling, or in general just not fun to be around…… at that point, they had reached their expiration date, I didn’t need them, and their phone stopped ringing. What is the point of dating someone if she isn’t fun to be around? These things are supposed to make your life better. There was always another one waiting in line to take her place. It was that simple, no fights, no arguments…. It just went silent. It’s been nice, I am sorry but it’s just not working out. I hope you find someone else more deserving of you… (to take your sheet) I never told them they couldn’t do this, or they couldn’t do that, but if they weren’t bringing seex to the table, well then, why are you even here? I can get everything else I need from my friends and a dog. They were always free to do and say whatever they wanted to and they were always free to leave at any time. My only job was to decide if I was willing to keep them around and put up with their behavior. If I didn’t like something they were doing, I would put them on notice that if it continued, we would no longer be dating and in that case, they were free to see other men with my blessing. Sometimes I would even recommend other guys I thought they might be more compatible with. Even today as an older man, I can still turn heads when I walk into a room. The reason you might see this comment posted around is because I want as many men as possible to see it and to help those coming after me to avoid falling into these female traps and dream killers. I’ve never let any female stop me from pursuing my goals and dreams. If they don’t support my dreams and goals, they get left behind. In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.

[@LIJerseyBrooklyn]

​@@anitarathi1863 you're a hypocrite

[@Thesilent1613]

@@im1who84u that’s why you need to find a godly women. Religion and God is what keeps a marriage from falling apart. You need a strong foundation. Eventually, having kids will strengthen your relationship as well as giving you guys a new purpose in life.

[@im1who84u]

@@Thesilent1613 I am sure you mean well, but you don't know what you're talking about. Women, including "Christian women" are a lot different today than in the past. I did find a "Godly" born again Christian woman and here's how that went. I could make this even a longer story, but I'll keep it short. Back in the 1980's I got married for the first time. I was 32 and my future ex-wife was 28. I dated her for THREE YEARS before we married and it was like dating Marlo Thomas from the television show called, “That Girl”. She just looked so cute, dressed smartly, was bubbly and fun to be around, and when you saw her you just wanted to hug her and hold her close to you. I met her at church, and she professed to be a Christian. She was also a second-grade schoolteacher at the Christian school that was connected with our church. After her asking me numerous times to marry her, I finally said yes. During all of this I had been working for law enforcement for about seven years. I told her that was not my career of choice and that my goal was to work for the airlines in any capacity to just get my foot in the door. In addition, I also had my pilots license and an Associates Science degree in Aviation Technology in case things went that direction. I told her I was willing to move anywhere in the United States to take any legitimate job offered to make it happen and that I felt very strongly about this. Meaning no house mortgage and no children so that we could be ready to move when and if I was offered an airline position. Then at that point we could start looking at houses and deciding how many kids we wanted to have. Soon after our marriage she started making noises that she didn’t want to move and leave her friends and family behind. I told her in no uncertain terms that if I was offered a legitimate job with a reputable airline I would take it and if she wanted to stay behind she was free to do so. She on the other hand wanted to saddle me with children and a mortgage right away and condemn me to working in a factory or the likes of for the rest of my life. We both agreed to a three-year limit on my efforts to achieve this goal. Before you read on, I want to say that I am not one to necessarily hold a person’s past against them. Six months into the marriage I discovered this Christian girl I had married was sneaking around behind my back seeing an old boyfriend and having him over our apartment after I had left at ten-o-clock in the evening to work the night shift. But wait, there’s more. In addition, I also discovered she had no less than two abortions when she was in college studying to be a teacher. But wait, there’s more. While in college she attended all night sex charged parties that included drugs, alcohol, and debauchery of all sorts with numerous people of both sexes in attendance. Once the clothes came off, they stayed off for the entire night and into the next morning. They just walked around the apartment naked. Hey, who wants breakfast? Don’t bother putting any clothes on, it’s a come as you are breakfast. They just walked around the place naked, watched television, took showers together, until they had to leave for school or some other reason. The good news, if there is any, she was very good in bed when I married her and was up for whatever I wanted to do. Other good news is that because of her sneaking around behind my back with her ex-boyfriend, she had lost all trust I had in her and all privacy. I felt free to use all my skills and resources to dig into her past and personal life. In addition, I put a recorder on my own phone line among other tactics. No cell phones back then. Well anyways, when all this came to light, I was less inclined to want to tie myself to her with children and a mortgage and didn’t want a future with her as far as marriage was concerned. I couldn’t trust her anymore. I was surprised but not upset with her college years and willing to leave it the past. I was not so willing to put her current indiscretion so quickly in the past. It didn’t help that she took no responsibility for her actions, kept defending what she had done, and continued blaming me for her inability to be a faithful wife. We did go for counselling and according to her it was all my fault she was sneaking around with her ex-boyfriend. I made her do it. Enough said there. What she didn’t seem to realize is that besides what she had already done, as damaging as it was. She more importantly didn’t consider the trust had been broken. I could no longer trust her anymore and questioned everything now and in the past. Was I being lied too then also? How could I trust her going forward? I did go to her ex’s place of employment and flatten his car tires. She got angry with me for doing so. I could have argued it wasn’t my fault and it was all her fault. I could have accused her of making a big deal out of nothing, and she “made” me do it, but I didn’t. In addition to defending her actions, telling me it was my fault, and telling me I was making a big deal out of nothing. She never admitted wrong doing, never said she realizes how wrong it was of her and sorry she had hurt me, never apologized, never said I am sorry, never promised to never do it again, did nothing to even try to make me feel more secure in our relationship or build the trust back and….. and…. Get this…. Told me how lucky I was that her ex-boyfriend didn’t come over here and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires! Yea, that sounds like something I want to be married to…. If I was a moron. Really? My wife telling me her husband how lucky I am that her ex-boyfriend doesn’t come over to this apartment I am paying for and beat my a~~ for flattening his tires? Really! Did she tell him how lucky he is I don’t go over to his house and beat his A$$ for conspiring with my wife for after hour “visitation” in my apartment after I had left to go to work? Well bring it on. Anytime he’s ready, I can forget all about how lucky I am. I am sure he knows how to get here. We divorced after three years, I stayed single for the most part after that, got a vasectomy, never had any children by choice, and soon after our divorce I was offered a position with a major airline in a different state and had a wonderful twenty-year career traveling all over the world and “knowing” many attractive women. She on the other hand did get what she wanted, in a sense. She did get remarried to a divorced man with children and had one daughter with him from that union. I met the daughter when she was a teenager and she seemed like a nice girl. A little off but she probably inherited that from her father. In addition my ex was also “blessed” with custody of one of her new simps mentally challenged sons his ex-wife didn’t want. He had more children but his ex-wanted to keep those for herself. Her husband was somewhat mentally challenged himself and much older than her. Maybe that’s why his one son turned out a little odd. I felt bad for the poor slob coming out of a bad marriage and then marrying her. He had a shrew of an ex-wife, and the child that was mentally challenged must have inherited whatever it was that was making his father a little odd “schizophrenic”. His ex-wife did not want this child living with her, so my ex and her new pack mule had to take him in. Running around the house at all hours of the night locking and unlocking doors, running up and down the stairs…. And she HAD to work outside the home which was not the case when she was married to me. In addition, the reason she had to work is because her new simp was not making enough money to pay his child support. So her pay cheque went directly to her new simps ex-wife. I am sure she was just thrilled to hand over her paycheck to his ex-wife. So that’s the life she traded to get, for the one I was offering her. Moving to a better climate, traveling all over the world first class, Hawaii, Paris, Iceland, New Zealand, Kenya safari, Rome, the Pyramids, Alaska…, a nice home, children that we could have had together, and a life we could easily afford so she can be a stay-at-home mom. I am just shaking my head. Women’s logic? All whilst I was traveling first class around the world eating in exotic restaurants in Europe, lying on beaches in the Caribbean, snowmobiling mountains in Iceland, hiking into the craters of inactive volcanoes in Hawaii, exploring Alaska, romantic evenings sleeping on the beaches of New Zealand, Kenya safaris…. And all with attractive and fun-loving women I either took with me or met there. My ex is now divorced again, the daughter they had together did not want to stay with her mother and wanted to stay with her father and did. My ex is now and has been for quite some time, alone, has a few friends but none close, does not own a home, lives in an apartment and at the mercy of paying rent that can change at any time, struggling financially, and estranged from her daughter. I on the other hand own a nice home that is paid for in a nice neighborhood, a late model car that is paid for, no credit card or any other kind of debt, money in the bank, retired with an airline pension and can still travel for free, good circle of friends, popular with the ladies, and a good social life I can easily afford. I will just never understand the logic or lack thereof of women. It’s like they are relationship suicidal or hell bent on destroying their lives, their future, and the lives of those unfortunate enough to get caught up in their unnecessary drama. In today’s world, apparently the worst thing a woman can experience is being married to a man who loves her, has a good career, and a bright future. Life is hard. It’s even harder when you’re stupid. In this world you either lead, follow, or get out of the way.

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