Can a Gay Couple Start a Family in Singapore?

[@stephaniemuse]

Every morning, when I drop off my kid at school, my parting words to her are, "Have a great day! Learn new things! Be kind!" That's our main concern as parents - for our kids to be happy, curious, and good-natured human beings.

[@benjamintan1519]

Always heartwarming to find people who go against the odds and carve out a life for themselves.

[@LeonTai]

Baby C is in good hands! But having to adopt your own child is actually insane...

[@Verdiken]

What a wholesome couple ❤

[@eudzthefreak]

Such a power couple, and definitely amazing parents-to-be 💯 Thank you for having us Ching & Cally!

[@elizabethteo]

I think baby C will grow up in a beautiful loving family with both of u. Love is what matters. Not gender. Having heterosexual parents who are abusive or neglectful is a million times worse.

[@libiskit]

Yes and No, Yes because if the parents (same sex or otherwise) put in alot effort to be good parents, they will be much better than heterosexual parents who do not put in much effort to engage, but assume you have heterosexual parents who do put in effort , having an activefather figure in a child's life is highly instrumental to a child's stability and maturity. Alot of imbalanced kids typically lack the presence of a stable active father, well in that case they are better off being raised by dedicated homosexual parents

[@sharonjacob4469]

As humans, as long as we are ready, we can have children. It’s all these cultural, rules, society that play a part in human lives. Your love, nurturing and readiness will be the actual thing that matters in the end. By the looks of it, she’s covered. Well done ladies!! Kudos to you both.

[@liminal759]

the most heartwarming, wonderful video. all the best of luck to you both and stay strong!!!

[@samsonseah74]

Cool i think they will do well as parents. can i know where did your get the mcdonalds baby buddha at the start of the interview?

[@verper5220]

Beautiful couple..I hope they will go through a healthy and smooth pregnancy and birth journey..

[@keeleekeelee9125]

Congrats on the next chapter when Baby C arrives.

[@estella2lenne]

Sending y'all so much love!!❤️❤️

[@cintaapakah5799]

Love is love. Congratulation

[@Shermaine-g6j]

So wholesome!

[@Ignis463]

Congratulations!! I'm really happy for you and your family! To those who disapprove and say LGBT is a crime or a sin or moral decay due to religion or being brought up thinking it is a sin or thinking something along the lines or saying must be man and woman in a marriage to bring happiness and that LGBT breaks up marriage , i would like to correct your thinking on this. Cheating or infidelity on one's partner breaks marriage even if it is straight marriage. Love is love no matter what regardless of gender. Religion is religion stuff. Do not force it on others on your religious thinking. They just want to live their own lives. Educating about LGBT is a way to let your kids from young to understand what they are going through so they will make their own choice in the end. It is the kid's choice to choose either marry a partner who can be either LGBT or not LGBT , but it is not up to us to decide for them. Only through educating and understanding of LGBT lives will help others on this path of understanding themselves as well as to heal. As for the explanation to child who is the sperm donor ? it is just an extra step for LGBT families to explain to their child. Not much difference from a normal family.

[@tanfrederika2123]

Please dont take my comment in the wrong way but why gay relationship/marriage looks like working out better? I always see gay couple in their own zone. Its like they bonded already. But men women couple doesnt really do that. I mean maybe at beginning but after a while, the bond is lost. I dont get it

[@embershen364]

I think its bc they can empathize with each other easier given they are the same gender.

[@tanfrederika2123]

@@embershen364 i still dont get it.. why same gender make it easier.. men is men.. women is women.. empathize is easy once you know the difference. But expecting your partner to react like you, is it bonding? (Please dont take this in wrong way.. i mean is it better quality when its same gender?)

[@embershen364]

@@tanfrederika2123 the fact that the same sex couple got tgt despite the odds means they cherish it more. Heterosexual couple may think its easy to find someone else while the lgbt community is smaller

[@renderz8435]

Simply because the pool is smaller so its harder to find, but because its harder to find, the ones that last have the strongest bonds

[@debaserr]

❤ omg really gives u hope

[@yvonnelai7594]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BB-eq2zg]

Dr Natalie Chua 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@youaresoannoying3103]

❤❤❤

[@ocswoodlands]

You asked a question and the answer is no

[@deidresable]

Who's the baby father?

[@gmr2gnr]

some guy who 💦 in a cup

[@renderz8435]

Sperm donors. And they usually go through strict screening process to select based on background of the guy, etc etc

[@winnie8281]

❤

[@xiaozhisheng5875]

I believe they will explain to their child that by norms its men and women..instead of forcing their child to change what is norms...if by any case their child is natural gay/lesbian somehow after all the norms guiding...then accept as what it is loh...

[@kitty2527]

How did you get pregnant? I mean who is other person who made up this child's DNA.

[@renderz8435]

Never heard of sperm donors?

[@annamariana8140]

​@@renderz8435gross..paving way for in-breeding

[@thaddddeee5355]

Why not both do the same😂

[@user-uy9pd6dr5y]

This is actually very sad for the child. She is going to grow up with a lot of stigma and this is not fair for her. Tough journey ahead for all

[@PaganMin-1966]

If both gays adopted a kid then the kid will have 2 fathers😂

[@Nuur89]

A child needs a fatherly and a motherly figure to grow best. It is selfish to follow unnatural desires and take that away from them.

[@azribadron9819]

Aku dah boleh bayangkan, mental otak budak tu nanti. "Wei kitorang ada Mak Bapak, kau ada mak je! ade 2 mak plak tu" /

[@azribadron9819]

Aku tak ambik kisah pun pasal pasangan ni, dia nak buat tu ke, nak buat ni ke. It's your choice, who am i to judge.Right? Tapi kesian kat budak tu. Dari kecik mental dia kena ganggu mcm tu.

[@beautyandthesimp]

Lesbian

[@aegeanmarine9967]

and they are dragging innocent child into their rubbish lifestyle.pity the child's future and mental well being

[@joannamah4791]

Baby C is probably not happy with her grades.

[@Kalimatullah_Yoh1-1.14]

No. think of baby C at least- what would her life be like, not having a real dad

[@manyue2003]

Lots of people have no dad's or have dad or mom not present. She has 2 moms to care for her. I do agree Singapore society in general has to be open and accepting. If anything society in general will be the one who made the child uncomfortable. My bet is they will probably move overseas

[@deidresable]

@@manyue2003 Intentional and tragedy are 2 diffrent thing

[@manyue2003]

Some mom's or dad's chose to intentionally abandon their babies too. I am a single parent to a special needs child. I am not lgbtq but I understand the discrimination because single parent are also not like by society. Special needs child too. I didn't chose to be single parent and my daughter definitely didn't chose to be special needs.

[@NurzatimanAstha]

I don’t know. Why don’t you ask the millions of children in the world with no ‘real’ dad? How did they turn out eh? Do you know?

[@deidresable]

@@NurzatimanAstha Real dad? Why not just call it the baby dad no need to add "real" to it

[@angxiang3186]

She n she = so independent, don’t need a sperm to fertilise your egg. Pity the child to be borne, how is young child to understand mother n “father” is so different from other children’s mother n father; how to overcome n comprehend such doing isn’t a choice of his/her life.

[@NurzatimanAstha]

As long as the baby don’t write in broken English like you, I think the baby would be perfectly fine. The parents in this video don’t need you worrying for them.

[@womak366mak6]

Reprobate mindset..sad

[@allentay6682]

A private life please keep it private. No need to spread what you believe in.

[@noraschultz689]

Sadly this is going to have to be accepted as normal for our future generation

[@pastelpepe]

@@noraschultz689the only sad thing are you guys and your mentality

[@renderz8435]

@@noraschultz689love between consensual adults is normal its 2024

[@wasabi6507]

Moral decay....the world is gonna end soon with such happenings...

[@LeonTai]

Yes, the world will end not because of wars, global warming, but with... **checks notes** 2 women starting a family together

[@NurzatimanAstha]

That’s what they said hundreds of years ago. We’re still standing. The world is good. If it’s going to end, it’s because of people like you who like to assume a position of higher morality. Calm down. Relax.

[@OG21020]

It has already started. Moral decay. Social instability. With the US, then Canada, UK, Europe and Australia. However, sanity is setting in and some of the US states and European govts are pushing back. Is this case the same as the madness happening over at the other side of the globe? I say not but then it's impossible to predict how they're going to bring up the child in the years to come. They say A now, would they change their minds and say B later? Who knows? After what had happened in the last several years and what's going on today, my tolerance with LG plus whatever alphabets they keep on adding behind is very low and dropping further.

[@noraschultz689]

Sadly so many people think it’s cool

[@renderz8435]

@@noraschultz689cool? U think ppl choose to do this just bevause its cool? They choose to be ostracised by the likes of you and subjected to homophobic treatment just because its cool? Think again

[@valerieng8434]

what’s their ig?

[@seawater1322]

wtf is this ?

[@Skinnypole_clara]

One day, your child is going to asked who is the actual father is..... And you said its a "her" That is just so sad, to think that such immoral value that the child was raised and brought upon.

[@renderz8435]

Nope. If i had two mothers and i was given an explanation as to why this happened, i’d rather have my mother be happy with her partner and i grow up in a loving family than for her to be unhappy for life with my father who she will never love that way - kinda one sided. In fact i think i’ll be more accepting of people who are different from us, theres no immorality in this. This isnt pedophilia or between non consenting insividuals