Can An Alpha Female Have It All with Quiana Watson?

Season 3 Episode 3 | My good friend, sis and realtor Quiana stopped by to have girl talk and talk about the pros and cons of being an alpha female, relationships, her career as a real estate agent and a whole lot more. Quiana is a BAWSE who knows what she wants and has no problem getting the job done. Listen and watch as she shares her thoughts on whether or not the alpha woman can have it all.
Hosted & Executive Produced by: Crystal Renee Hayslett
Producer & Executive Producer: Dinorah Peña
Co-Producer: Chanel Gross
Filmed by: YM
Editor: YM
Graphics: Courtney Coprich
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[@Shanice___Loves]

I love her honesty!!! I hope this video goes viral!! This is the real conversation folks are not ready to have.

[@dollishabrown9292]

Amen

[@ccspeaks3037]

YESSS!

[@motts913]

I love how she displayed that it’s okay for women to take ACCOUNTABILITY

[@drecool85]

This is so important. Women show they often need POWERFUL examples of what it’s like to take accountability for how THEY contribute to a situation. It does mean “blame”. And do you see how effortlessly she says it?

[@munix9351]

🙄

[@kharaseeley3208]

Quiana Watson Ladies & Gentlemen God’s hand is over her applauding the spiritual maturity and class she exemplifies in this interview ❤❤❤

[@RealestatewithDe]

I love the vulnerability and transparency here! This is needed! ❤

[@quianas9734]

This video randomly popped up and I legit only clicked on it because we have the same name ☺️ but when I tell you it was well received!!! God wanted me to walk into this season whole, without regret or doubt and you helped my get so much clarity

[@Melanatedminimalist]

It was the same for me ❤so I stopped and clicked on it to listen.... I'm about to go in Real Estate and I've followed her when I was on social media platforms.... I saw them and they always looked amazing 😊but to listen I thank her for being 💯

[@jadak5657]

I’m 15 and started watchin when I was 14 and I’m learning SO MUCH❤❤❤

[@chalaantv5712]

Im on notepad #4 !! The gems dropping in EVERY EPISODE !!!

[@quetpie1908]

This was my favorite episode by far. I loved the genuine and authentic dialogue.

[@legacylive27peace13]

This was an excellent interview 👏🏾👏🏾 thank you!!!❤ I follow Quiana and she ALWAYS seem to be genuine and still gracious and humble. I appreciate her saying “woman can have it all JUST not ALL at the same time!" Well spoken🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ashleyglover8219]

Loved seeing this softer, vulnerable side of you Quiana!!!❤❤❤❤

[@itsvivi55]

Crystal has such a nurturing spirit you can almost tell her all of your secrets. She's most definitely a safe space. I pray God sends her hers.

[@sunnidayz2940]

Oh my god, I love y’all and this interview. I love how she explained who an alpha female is to the men and women. Thank you.

[@fegiluxelifeadvisor22]

Although would’ve felt neglected would have said something because of the level of my maturity I resonate completely completely completely, and also spoke this language

[@deidrafryer2753]

Pray #luvcrystalrenee !! Love that you added the prayer at the end of this wonderful podcast❤️ Keep Striving KIPS is lifting Him up

[@SHENA75051]

She’s such a amazing spirit I love that this interview took place. I follow her on social media and I watched her on a reality show. She removed herself from the show and I love that she kept her morals and her standards instead of trying to be a reality star.

[@kwalitydealz]

Here are key considerations: Define "Having It All": The definition of "having it all" varies for everyone. It's crucial for an alpha female to define her own priorities, goals, and what a fulfilling life means to her. Balancing Career and Personal Life: Successful alpha females often excel in their careers but may also prioritize personal relationships, family, and self-care. Balancing these aspects requires clear priorities and effective time management. Embrace Support Systems: Recognize the importance of a support system, including family, friends, and colleagues. Delegating tasks and seeking assistance when needed can contribute to a more balanced and fulfilling life. Adaptability and Flexibility: Life is dynamic, and priorities may shift over time. Being adaptable and flexible allows an alpha female to navigate changes in her personal and professional life more effectively.

[@tashajourneys]

Loved this episode!! The transparency was amazing!!❤

[@daniellebush3160]

It’s called unprecedented resentment…. Which cause lack of communication… resentment.. jealousy … it’s important to avoid that when married

[@carlaharvey9331]

This was a good episode. I appreciate both of you and wish nothing but peace, blessings, and success for both of you. Thanks for sharing your journey Quiana.

[@theestherealtor]

This was an awesome video! As a woman who is working on growing my own business, while being married and with a child I've learned to set healthy boundaries. I take one day off out of the week where I focus solely on spending intimate time with my family. No real estate business is done on that day. I think it's good if we can set some healthy boundaries where we can so those who are a part of our lives don't feel neglected. I don't know Quiana personally but I do believe she serves as a great inspiration for female business owners in real estate.

[@shardayrandle1334]

Thank you so much for this video crystal, grateful for Quiana's story there are so many gems that were valuable in her story. I definitely appreciate her speaking on her story with real estate and wanting to actually take the time to explain to people what they are getting into. I am a homeowner and the real estate lady that I had was also black but she only cared about a check and this inspired me to want to help more people as well with purchasing their first-time home and having the knowledge behind the experience.

[@nursechronicleswithcoachshank]

PASTOR SHAMIKA AND DHARIUS DANIELS HAVE IT ALL AND DO IT ALL!!! PD ALSO SAYS THE MEN THAT WANT THE BOSS WIFE HAS TO BE MAN ENOUGH TO BE SO & SO'S HUSBAND, WALK IN IT AND NOT BE OFFENDED BY IT! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 QUEENS THANK YOU BOTH FOR SHARING!

[@fegiluxelifeadvisor22]

When I say this is me speaking through my sis come on Quiana! ❤

[@LuxTravelGirl]

I just love Quiana! Wishing her blessings in all areas of life. 💖

[@mreed9735]

The way I hollered in excitement at the site of these 2 beauties!!!!love Quiana Watson

[@valeriebillings7248]

Awesome 👏🏽! Love Quiana and Crystal. This was very informative and encouraging. Keep it 100; Keep it Private. 🙏🏽💜💐

[@hubbsquaad]

Who knew Ms. Qiana is low key shadyyyyy.....take that date my dear....I SAW IT TOO❤❤❤❤

[@shanapoteat380]

Two great ladies. I'm a true fan of you both. Quiana was my favorite on the television show. Blessings!!! Crystal you are my virtual best friend. :)

[@Elexis715]

I loved this episode 💕

[@brittanycobb1977]

Another great episode!! ❤

[@latonyarichardson4279]

This was a good conversation however I will have to disagree . I believe you have to prioritize and balance your life. Love is far more important than a career in my opinion and I say this as a goal driven career woman . Both people have to be understanding and on the same page

[@LachelWinding]

Hello Crystal MS checking in new subbie. I love what you are doing keep doing great work!!🤩🙏

[@chelsyrobinson4491]

love yall!!!

[@ShandaLove-vd5rv]

Another great Episode Thanks Crystal

[@PrayThenHustle]

The prayer at the end was beautiful

[@ToniBallTheRealtor835]

Omg the pray at the end🥹 God bless all these women❤

[@preciousosueke2721]

I love and was blessed in this episode so much, Ms Quiana is beautiful inside and out.

[@ToniBallTheRealtor835]

The absolute best interview. We love you Quiana❤

[@tamekasjohnson4960]

Beautiful and transparent ❤🙏🏾

[@AllThingsRoxanne]

I absolutely love Quiana!! She’s a true philanthropist ❤

[@briannacoleman]

Totally agree with stage time vs intimate time. So so different

[@reasylvester1767]

This helped me out a lot 👏🏽❤️ Thank you to you both!!

[@AnellaSharpes-px3xq]

I believe when you have it all is when you truly love God with all your heart in good time and bad time and knowing that he really love you in your good and bad time they right there you have true fulfillment.

[@towandacooke5700]

This was a wonderful Eposide ✨️🔥💯

[@LesA_09]

I love this interview!!

[@tonipate6270]

Wow! It broke me but it didn’t break me! Whew!!!!

[@aronelrealtygroup2997]

❤🙏🏽Grace and Favor

[@leighannlatchman6482]

Love this!

[@dbroadna]

An Alpha Female? What is that? A woman with muscle? I am still trying to figure out what is an Alpha Male. In my opinion I believe my partner is just that, us trying to build something for our future to share. Very comfortable with my Lady walking along side of me holding hands. 27 years later and still holding hands.

[@Tashasmith7388]

An Alpha woman in my opinion is a dominant woman who carries strong masculine traits and lacks femininity. These type of women prefer to wear the pants but can’t seem to figure out why they can’t get or keep a man wearing those same pants because it emasculates them

[@tamikajohnson5358]

Quiana is first class in every thing

[@whitneyburns6983]

Let me find out you bouta go on a date with Wayne!😂❤

[@bronxgirl67m7]

This was a great conversation! I feel you can have it at the same time if your partner wants the same thing. I am a Libra ♎️ and we need a partner that can balance you. I feel when you are in a position that is demanding, you have to have tough conversations with your partner. If you can prioritize your work life, you should be able to do it in your personal. I feel that in a relationship, you have to CHECK IN with your partner. I am so happy you explained ALPHA FEMALE. My girls always talk about this. I always say, "I want to sit in the passenger seat and let him drive." We have to be able to take the BOSS hat on and put the WOMANs hat on. Take time to relax, relate, and release. It's possible to have it all, it's just going to take ALOT OF WORK.

[@kimm3375]

Both of you can not have it all at the same time, especially if children involved

[@miss_she_]

Why Crystal sounds while she is talking are somehow annoying and distractive 🫣 I mean you have such a deep strong sweet voice, it over come your guest who is fully emotional and following her train of thoughts (a lil distractive to listen to sometimes but nothing mean honey I promise 🥰🌷💕) This episode is absolutely beautiful and I totally agree with Quiana on it all.. I was in her shoe one and couldn’t carry a relation cause I was married to my career..

[@nursechronicleswithcoachshank]

COME ON!! WE WANT TO PUT GOD'S SCRIPTURES ON OUR OWN LIVES 🔥🔥🔥🔥 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 HOWEVER ITS THE WILL OF THE LORD WE HAVE TO SEEK AND NOT OUR OWN!!! PRAISE GOD!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Melanatedminimalist]

I've been blindsided 😢this was before social media 😪❤️‍🩹💔

[@mreed9735]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@abigailquinones3707]

IF you TRUST Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you CANNOT be the Alpha and Omega of your own life. The Bible teaches that Jesus is the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End, the First and the Last. We are to make Jesus the HEAD over our lives and not ourselves. If we don't, we will not go into the direction the Lord has set out for us. The enemy will be able to deceive us into thinking we're on the right path when we're not, but to us, it FEELS like it. God doesn't go by our feelings. He goes by what is RIGHT. Pay attention to these words. Jesus does not make mistakes in anything that he does, but we as human beings can get off track. Be blessed all ❤. Jesus loves you ❤.

[@ScottHinsdale]

But was he fine with the no kids

[@ShanikaClayton-g7d]

She’s so beautiful, she looks African and native American

[@munix9351]

I've never met a man that gave emotional support!! Where ??

[@catherinegriggs]

Grateful for this episode. I follow Quiana, but this episode helped make her more endearing to me. I loved Quiana’s candor, vulnerability, honesty and authenticity!

[@RichardineC]

Same! I felt the respect for their marriage and what they built together. Class and Grace. Well Spoken.

[@schakerraedwards8262]

Perfectly said! I agree! ❤

[@MonicaSoyemi]

Same!

[@thee_realtor_renita3572]

Love this!

[@ItsDonicaRenee]

Crystal this was a great interview. As someone who’s gone through a divorce. This spoke volumes to me. To Quiana, thank you for being so transparent as you go through this journey. I know how tough that can be. I pray for your healing and peace. Love and Blessings 😊

[@joneepurvis8737]

Thank you so much for having this conversation! I'm trying to hard to pursue my career goals while keeping my husband and children in the forefront of my life. It's hard!!!

[@Theonlycherelle]

I can agree 1000%!!

[@4ceeflower836]

Good convo. I think that: - It's hard (not impossible) for an alpha woman to be with an alpha man because being alpha means being a leader, dominant, there can't be 2 leaders, to me there's a pilot and co-pilot - It's good to have a great job but you shouldn't be married to it, men don't care about our money and career - You shouldn't be waking up in your 40s wanting kids and a relationship, you should be in your soft era in your 20s-30s already I love that Quiana said the truth: - You can't have it all! - Eggs are geriartric starting 35 no matter how healthy/good you look For the woman who sent her question: - Men need to feel needed - She sounds like she's already the man of her life - You shouldn't be needing a man to live true but you need to show yourself as somebody who can be in a couple/partnered

[@Laurie14822]

Such powerful messages. Especially concerning the 'I can have it all' mindset and self reflecting ❤ I love how open and transparent you both were, thank you so much!

[@jojie2speaking]

Im so glad i watched this episode, i been following Quiana for years on Social media and was enrolled in her classes. She is a true Gem. I'm sending all the healing energy to her on the new journey. We all deserve it all! Im so glad she broke this down. :)

[@daisybenitez5362]

This episode saved me. Thank you! Words can not express how grateful I am.

[@tamara_louis_]

I love Quiana’s self awareness, emotional intelligence and communication skills … learned a lot from this video 👑

[@ccspeaks3037]

I agree!

[@TanyaEHood]

It's a delicate balance between building a business and nurturing your marriage. I am grateful that my husband is verbal because I miss the clues. What has kept me is that we decided early on in our marriage to have a dedicated date night. On some of those nights, we just sit with each other and watch a show. It's enough sometimes. Thank you so much for sharing and praying. I pray you continue to let God guide you on the journey.

[@mariethevictornathan7365]

This is why when 2 people marry, there must be 1 vision for the marriage that Both people are working on…

[@trinjuwan4422]

Exactly. Two ppl MUST become 1...this necessitates sacrifices from both, but most often selfish, separate desires transcend what's best for the whole. SO many get married for the wrong reason with a lack of understanding & commitment, hence the divorce rate & /or unfulfilled so called partnerships.

[@ashstylez95]

Amen 💯

[@mzprosperityalways5880]

​❤❤❤❤❤😂 Awesome conversations

[@OcaPudding]

Agreed

[@Hi-LuxeLGX]

Awww hell naw. How do you fumble The Quiana Watson. People crazy 😢

[@nursechronicleswithcoachshank]

PD TEACHES US TO SCHEDULE OUR TIME AROUND OUR CORE VALUES AND IF FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND CAREER IS ON THAT LIST THEN WE HAVE TO DO THE WORK INTENTIONALLY TO SCHEDULE TIME FOR IT ALL! ALSO FEED OUR EYES, EARS, AND WORDS WITH BOOKS, PODCAST, ECT AROUND HOW TO BE A BETTER US SO WE CAN SHOW UP FOR OUR CORE VALUES!!

[@roniwoods2106]

Quiana I'm glad to see you again. I watched the show you were on and I'm glad you left because I think they were making you out to be a mean person. I pray that everything works out for you. I love your vibe. And crystal I love everything your doing. Keep it positive sweetie ❤

[@mommywithaplan]

Quianna makes me love her more and more! This was such a good conversation ♥

[@traciemcdonald5757]

❤ the positive energy, light and sharing positive vibes. May God continue to bless you both

[@theamazingallens2324]

This was a Beautiful interview. SO REAL AND RAW!!! I truly enjoyed it so much ❤❤️

[@eby1981]

This was an episode I needed. It’s great to see this dialogue between two beautiful women very uplifting.

[@empressbey8281]

❤❤❤This was extremely great, the gems and mindset was everything!! I love the clarity on what an alpha woman is🎉🎉🎉 I love the private life but transparency displayed in this episode... And both of you ladies look beautiful

[@Theprosperityqueen]

Immensely grateful for this insightful episode with Quiana Watson. The exploration of the alpha female experience resonates deeply, not just personally, but also in my professional sphere. As a coach, I frequently engage with remarkable women who are navigating the intricate balance between robust independence and the need for emotional support. This episode's dialogue on 'love pockets' particularly struck a chord, reflecting similar themes that often surface in my coaching sessions. In these sessions, I witness firsthand the challenges and triumphs of women striving to meld their formidable strength with vulnerability. How do others in our community strike this balance? This is a question that often arises and one that I believe is fundamental to our collective growth. This platform's commitment to elevating such conversations is commendable. It's not just about sharing experiences; it's about building a tapestry of understanding that encompasses our varied yet interconnected lives. Looking forward to more empowering discussions that resonate with and inspire the women I have the privilege of coaching.

[@ccspeaks3037]

Beautifully stated!

[@LeerittaChristian]

I absolutely loved this interview! The prayer at the end was the icing on top. Thank you ladies for sharing and creating this space.

[@Terri-xd4uk]

Greetings to you Crystal! I really enjoy you, your acting, singing and keeping it positive! Be encouraged and stay focused; you are too beautiful inside and out to get side tracked by someone or something that will mean you no earthly good! Do have a Blessed safe day and all of the run-on sentences,,,take them all for live my Sweet Positive Sister! Remember to always keep GOD First Place In your life Amen Amen and Amen 😇

[@Terri-xd4uk]

Correction: run-on sentences for love 🤭🥰

[@Miekamoments]

Such a great episode, with such encouraging and eye opening conversations!

[@keepingitrealwiththebrowns]

Great interview! Quiana is a GEM!!! I truly admired the transparency and vulnerability from her while still respecting her previous marriage. Peace N Blessings

[@LatoijaJ]

Love Quiana!! She donated towards my loose skin removal surgery! Forever grateful!!! ❤❤❤

[@jamiedavis3780]

Okkkkkk…Crystal, this is one of the BEST interviews you’ve done! I thoroughly enjoyed you and Quiana!!! I remember her on the reality show that she was on and I loved the way she handled herself professionally and was not swayed to do the degrading “famous” stupidity that I see our other black women doing. She LEFT the show before it got to that! I WAS SOOOO PROUD of her for that and I’ve been following her since- i am praying for both of you ladies success in business but most importantly success in love! You both deserve it ❤️🙏

[@drseemoore]

Love Quiana! She truly is beautiful inside and out! Great episode

[@katiewhite5208]

But question, I agree on letting a man lead but how will they learn your likes and dislikes if you are “going along” with it. How do you bring that up in a conversation without sounding ungrateful? For example he made plans to go to an event that you feel uncomfortable going to. Do you tell him at that moment or after with him without him feeling his efforts being shattered?

[@Pretttylala]

This was really good, didn’t know of Quiana but I like her presence.

[@hlengiwehadebe_]

That you for the clarity of the definition of an alpha becoz it has also been seen in a negative light

[@koraniabraxton-brown5242]

This crib and these pajamas is a vibe!!!

[@lgee9027]

Quiana is a true inspiration!!! She is going to be ok, and she will find love again!!!!

[@nursechronicleswithcoachshank]

CHANGE CHURCH BAAYYYYBEEEEEE!!! PASTOR DHARIUS & SHAMEKA DANIELS 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@DsHairOil]

I believe you can have it all, Gods plan for you is nothing like Gods plan for me.

[@BossK89]

Crystal, overall you’re just a great person. ❤I love your vibe.

[@myaiman5278]

Amen, thanks to you Crystal for allowing God to use you in this wonderful way! Another great episode with the beautiful Ms. Watson❤🎉👏🏾 so many💎💎

[@pradagirl6619]

Beautiful episode, so many gems dropped. I literally had just told my good girlfriend that emotional support from girlfriends cannot take the place of that from a man. Thank you ladies for sharing your stories and your heart. Love that you close out in prayer. Amen

[@conversationswithadrianne]

This was so beautiful and "good-girlfriendish" that I need to watch it again.❤

[@sommerstylesboutique]

Such a great podcast! ❤😊

[@purelovegenuinesoul733]

This is a beautiful episode. I love the honesty and holding self accountable. Thank you ladies for this episode

[@ImMorganAshley]

LOVED everything about this! Miss Quiana hunny...she is a class ACT!