Can both Twin Flames be Runners at the same time?: Twin Flame Journey

#twinflames #runnerchaser #twinflame #twinflamechaser
There are certain misconceptions when it comes to understanding what exactly is running chasing and how it would play out.
In this video I discuss all possible scenarios when it comes to runner-chaser dynamic and how labeling only one twin from the pair as all time runner can misguide you on your journey.
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[@saiyurisingh5808]

I was going to comment earlier in the video and say I am neither chasing nor am I running. And then you explained about the stayer. It's nice to have a description for this wonderful go with the flow state. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️

[@jigga9770]

Thanks sooo much for this clarification I’ve been in this dynamic and thank god I’ve been abandoned so much in my life as a teen, because I would not known how to act in this twin dynamic it’s pretty intense😊

[@etidetid973]

Welcome back ma'am.. I was thinking about this recently.. bless you 🙏 ♥️

[@nazaninsekhavati]

I saw this video more than 5 times!!! Amazing...

[@jacquirathner2806]

Really helpful- thank you 🙏🏼 It is tricky to admit & navigate this terrain- much appreciated 😊

[@archanakm6896]

much needed video. I was thinking both of us are runners. Thank you.

[@amishah3168]

Your videos actually just come up at the right time! And about the new video topic - friendship one..i tried being friends with him, but its impossible for me atleast! I admitted this to him that friendship isnt the right word, but its some connection which need not be named :)

[@pcecca13]

Thank you, Pradnyaa!

[@anuguptasingal4130]

I salute🙏🏼🙏🏼 u for making me resolved from all the drama I got stuck in form last one year...really thankful to you..liking all your vedios..totally resonates with my situation...I have no words to thank you

[@sonysharma2852]

Really nice video,thanks

[@binudinakarlal]

Thanks Mam, was awaiting...

[@pinkrose3285]

This makes a lot of sense. Even though I am awakening , I’m not entirely sure if he is, although it seems like he is slowly getting there… although recently contact is very limited. in the beginning we would both run as you said, I had no idea what was going on and everyone around me said it’s just toxic deep down I disagreed but it’s hard when everyone close to me was saying it. Eventually I got to a point where I decided to do the inner work, still not being aware of what this was and attracted a therapist who was wholly supportive of our connection and did not tell me to stop with it! and then I started running! For a long time…. Lol. It’s a hard cycle to break… but over time we make small but great improvements.

[@justynahrynkiewicz8816]

Oh my, such an amazing video!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

OMG! That's so sweet and such an amazing story! 🥰 God bless all three of you. ❤

[@graces3945]

In my chase I thought that I'm the chaser, but I think I also run from this connection. Because when he did ghost me 3 times, I was so broken inside that I had to protect myself and came to the point that I dont want to initiate the contact anymore. But sometimes I think I have to say him my Real feelings, but my fear and proud is so much, i cant handle this. I sometimes think I bother him with my messages. He never initiate contact, and I just think that he doesnt want contact with me, so why I should contact him again? 😔 I'm going in circles and dont know what I should do

[@MarquiE09]

Hello my dear, I went through the exact same thing you're going through except I was ghosted 6 times by my twin 🤣. Listen what you're going through is a process, there isn't much you can do to avoid it. You are being forced to face your fears until you get to the level of healing where that nonstop, deep, agonizing ache and longing has melted away and doesn't come back from time to time. When you're able to maintain the vibration of wholeness (healing) That's when you know you've truly healed from that fear/ pain/believe/ experience that was triggered in the first place. You'll feel a sense of peace and energetic connection with your twin 1st (and that will fill good, like it's enough), then he will manifest back in your physical reality and the key is to stay in that peaceful, wholesome state whilst interacting with him in the physical reality. It's all about self control and mastery and you will come together and pull away from one another as many times as it takes to get to the level of self mastery you need to be in. I feel you're pain sweetheart, just know you have the answers within and you're strong enough to get through this. I send you supporting love energy 💓 you got this! ❤

[@graces3945]

@@MarquiE09 Omg thank you for your answer, that helps me a lot. Thank you 😘😘🥰

[@MarquiE09]

@@graces3945 I'm glad you found comfort in it, you're not alone ❤

[@ainahaga]

Haha this has been me the last 2,5 years! It will get easier! You are just breaking down your ego....! Mine has ghosted me alot the last 2,5 years AMD I have chased him alot! I love him with ALL my heart ans I know he also loves me! Im never ever gonna stop believing in this love. But focusing on myself and beeing happy feeling the love and just be love!:)

[@rachelross5829]

So when a guy ghosts us were supposed to think they still care? Talk about dysfunction.

[@belindamartinez3985]

Great content, Pradnyaa! Thank you because it gives a lot to think about. I would suggest a separate video for each of the six scenarios in more detail, particularly scenario six. I get the feeling that many more Twin Flames are actually runners than they may think they are.

[@sarahjrurka]

100% ... I've developed a strong theory on this

[@brideonfire212]

5 and 6!!! I was just starting to think if number 6 is even possible and here you are with the answer! Thank you! My fear arises when i think im going to end up in the chaser role due to rejection in the past. I want to keep the energy to myself. On chats or friendly interactions , i don’t know how to be the stayer while remaining open and not aloof.

[@debrahwilde5521]

Yeah I feel I'm coming into the stayer energy. I released a lot during the Lions Gate portal. Finally. My DM's energy language has changed too. It has been a very emotional and challenging journey.

[@joanthomas6012]

All true in my soul connection 👍

[@joanthomas6012]

Thank you so much many blessings to you ☯️💯😇👍

[@Kanin29546]

Yeah when I could realize that we are twin flame is when he had already been a runner ! He was a chaser for 8 years and during that time, I had to run whenever he forced me to make a chance to meet again in real life! I love talking to him by phone, text msg but I didn’t want to meet him again even we had really good time whenever we were together! It was short but full of memory and unforgettable! He remembers almost every small detail about those times! I noticed that the reason made me run away because I was low in self esteem, I gained 10 kg, I had bad job while he was a manager, during short period I archived many good things and level up my job and education! Then I felt much more confident and reconnected with him after so many times on off! I even felt “ relax” when the corona came ( I’m sorry for this thinking but I really wanted to keep talking but not meeting up, when I was not ready even though he never asked me to change anything ) because I could find excuses for not making plan to visit him! After we reunion the first time I became depressed and sleepless, I felt overwhelmed and confused! And the energy shifted to his side that he became back & ford, on and off even though he was super drawn in me and I could feel that! And half year later we met again, only 4 days like the first time but we felt super happy and completely fulfilled! And the day after I went home, I told him that I felt in him, he denied it and started running until now, over 3 months since we last talked! My depression got worst then I found tarot and learnt about Twin flames journey! I know, he is my twin! We have so much similarities in family backgrounds, he lost his mom and I lost my dad since we were young, he is from eu and I’m from Asia, we both met in China as a fated! We met first but we didn’t talk in school, then Both had toxic relationships and he kept chasing me after we both broke up from the exs, we were too nice and having codependency, our bodies are having some parts which are quite similar to each other! Even our name and birthdate are the same letter and day! Sadly he is still running and I’m still being painful from it! There were many guys tried to offer me but I said no because I only feel love with my twin…. I will wait even I’m sad!

[@Xenia-E-Zilli]

I think I do tend to run from my own issues sometimes, even though I am most of the time in the chaser frame of mind. When the inner work becomes very unpleasant, when I feel confused and not sure where I am and what I should do, I feel like I need some space, and I feel like severing all contacts with my TF. In my case though, that is not really possible. So I remain on the 'battlefield', so to speak.

[@joanthomas6012]

Let go and go with in

[@delphinepujol7988]

We both awaken, we took turns and then both running away from each other. I am scared to love him because I am scared to get hurt again ( hurt from past relationships) but I am doing the mirror exercise and since doing this I am feeling I am coming into a more stable/peaceful place of not running and not chasing.

[@simpleasthat7489]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@AnjaliSingh-zf7dp]

🌸🌸

[@jamiehogue7730]

There are 33 comments before me (33 is my and my twin flames number) So, you mentioned the 6th scenario of those who think they’re chasers but are actually runners,.. can you do a video on that specifically and possibly break it down so that way we can identify it and also work on what it takes to breakthrough that for union! Idk why, but that resonated so much with me and I listened to this video 2 days ago, and than I had an intense past 2 days of weeping and dark night of the soul again.. but today, I’m in my power and I realized a new perspective of healing that I wasn’t aware of, that I was running from!

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

That's amazing. That means watching this video triggered something in you and you have started the process of purging it out. 👏 This is good idea - I will surely do a video on runners who think they are chasers! Thank you for your suggestion! 🙏🏻 ❤️

[@jamiehogue7730]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa thank you!! ❤️💙❤️💙

[@vinitagupta6865]

Thanx for explaining all possibilities 🙏🏻 Further to this, is it possible that both TFs are chasers and not initiating contact expecting that the other would?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

That womt be chasing then. When someone does not initiate the contact 'thinking' of someting, (that means some block is there - here we see 'expectation'. Or subtle ego - 'why should 'I' always initiate? Let them initiate.) - is running!! 😊 This preescisely comes under - Runners who think they are chasers. However that does not mean that YOU are a runner. You are someone who is in state of running in this psrticular scenario. The need to chase will be there only when the other is running. Else why would one chase?

[@vinitagupta6865]

Thanx for the clarification 😊💕

[@VA5UNDHARA]

Thanks for another informative video. I do have a follow up question: I am doing my inner work and also don’t really have the urge to contact my twin (except on some days, maybe). But I do keep praying to God or the Divine to make things work and bring us into union. Does that mean that I am still in the chaser mentality?🤔 If yes, what would be your suggestion to such a twin.

[@heather4089]

Same .

[@Psychiccrow1]

Me too ! Please, could you answer to us . Thank You 🙏

[@cescillesubijano8319]

I fall on category 6....I'm awaken...I'm in chasers state of mind but I do runaway from the connection becoz he has a girlfriend...but I do some stuff for my own ascension

[@medhathale4305]

Mam can you put some light on stayer state,, how to navigate through this stage?? 🙏🌸❤

[@RhythmRegeneration]

If I am honest I run to be chased but also as I know I need to seprate myself from the intensity of the connection and look at myself and work on myself and I feel more.comforatble on my own. However when I do this my twin will keep contacting me. This has been happening since we met. We flip the running roles but I think I run the most but pir cycles are short like a gew eeks or days even. I am not sure how to keep going like this, I think I just have to surrender to it.

[@tcmayes8012]

I am number 4 I am always the runner if its too hard I want to run away bc why should everything be hard and its never worth it I am the runner always he really isnt only in this thing and he is the only thing I dont want to run from but when he makes me hurt or ignores me it makes me want to run and everything he does I will do bc that is life tit for tat you do something intentionally or not Im going to do it too!!!! I think 5 too kinda all the same to me ! I really dont understand this whole thing how is something that is so devastating any good? i hate it and I hate we got conned into doing this all i want is the miserable life over and I will never reincarnite again and i will for sure never do anything with him bc he made it so difficult and I will not forgive god for letting and making this to happen and go on and on and on and on etc!!!! I can usually see the big picture but never in this case it totally embodies everything I detest I do not like to be inconveinced I do not ever want to suffer for others and i am most def not a leader have no desire and i dont like to be first or last I only want to be in the middle blend in not stand out anyway!!!

[@roseclimbpaintcont]

He pushed me away w his cruelty for so long that I am now the runner but he is still the runner so it is just done for this lifetime between us. I do not expect reconciliation.

[@roseclimbpaintcont]

The last time when he reached out and then got mad that I responded cuz he reached out by accident. That was the last straw for me. I no longer see amends as possible.

[@sarahjrurka]

Can you explain what the sixth scenario would look like? That is, why would the runner believe they are the chaser - for example what behavior works they be blind to?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Yes, will be doing a separate video on it shortly.

[@patriciaRomerob]

I think my trauma from childhood made me to not be the chaser too much time, is exausting, is not that you are going to look for other person. I have think we are 2 runners. Just when I met him I was more patient, but he hurted me so badly that Now I Just see the things coming and reject him.

[@ivankaghpickering]

I resonate with this.... abandonment issues in a perfectly nuclear immadiate family. How have you been? How's the journey? I would love to hear about it. I've been on a very big purging process with all the current celestial energies in place. Just looking for some guidance

[@anikaali244]

Thank u man,, is there free will to skip the journy? Or otherwise interms off sociedical Condisance the runner not brave enough even talk n they hv question what will th future of it... In this situation chesar also thinking the same question.. What will be outcome.. Is it normal??

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

is there free will to skip the journey? -- If you are a twin flame, this journey is a core part of your soul plan. So not being on that path will be a waste of time. (Like, you went on a battle field to fight a war, but with your free will you kept picking flowers on the grass thinking - this war was too much and nothing is working out!) Societal challenges are thrown at everyone, its upto you how you pave your way through those. There is no need to indulge and look into how your twin flame is doing, when it comes to these challenges. Leave them on their own, you can only look into what is stopping YOU to be in your own power. They evolve too as you evolve. It is normal and natural to have the questions you have - and you will get its answers too. The OUTCOME you are trying to look at is a very traditional outcome - two people being together romantically under one roof. Unfortunately humans only know this one boring template of love. Twin flame connection will start showing you more and better possibilities to be connected. You need to open your mind towards those possibilities. Watch my video - Understanding Union for more detail.

[@anikaali244]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa thank u for response

[@prime5816]

Im the third case mam😂… runner fr years who awakened recently and now after opening up im again a runner… my tf is more of a stayer after initial chasing and he isnt awakened…sometimes i donno if its all in my head or its all true… mam can an unawakened tf become a stayer too?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Yes. Being a stayer is related to their experience and what they are leaning from it. It is not related to the awakening.

[@prime5816]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa thank u mam🙏🏼

[@Janik2370]

Can a twin flame who is married reunite? Some day?

[@komalmankani2236]

Hello Ms.Pradnyaa. How much do you charge for an one to one session?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Hi there are different prices for diferent sessions. Please check the session details link in the description of this video, you will find it there.

[@cosmicsea7]

Can both be spiritual people and aware of their twin flame connection, but still experience separation and triggers?

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Yes. Triggers come to show you what you need to work on. And your twin flame will continue to trigger you. (so that you identify what needs to be worked on.) It is not related to one or both being aware of the connection. Being spiritually inclined is different than carrying a role of a spiritual twin. The matrix twin can be highly spiritually inclined (even be a monk or a preist) and evolved. But in this connection, their role is to be in the matrix.

[@xrc7445]

How many necklaces do you have? I don't think I've ever seen the same twice. 😂 Anyway, I love your style. You take good care of yourself! 😊

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

😆😆🤪

[@philippinesidiocracy1018]

So my ex running I feel he his my tf

[@baharan1979]

It is about one week that I came to know about twin flame. However, without knowing it is more than 6 months I am in twin flame journy. And I think both of us are chaser and runner. My twin flame is my neighbour in front of my apartment . We have big windows, and we can see each other every day but with distance. I was the person who contacted him and I went to him and introduced myself. But then I got so shy I could not anymore face him or meet him, I planned not to walk or cross his apartment. But still i put myself in pressure and i send him messages through WhatsApp group of neighbours and i invited him for a drink, but he did not answer neither of my messages. Even i felt there was attention from him all the time. I think both of us are runner and chaser. Then he started dating a girl, but several times, in front of her, he came to terrasse and look at my apartment and staring, seems he was telling me this is not a serious relationship. All these times I was confused. And each time the girl came to his place I suffered. Finally, last week I said to myself it is enough I do not want to suffer anymore I used the curtains not to have any view of his apartment and i started to take actions for self love and healing my shiness. Then from the day after, I got bombing with the term of " twin flame" accidentally. Then I got relaxed, and then it got easy to distract from him and focus on myself. Whole last week he was not home he was travelling and it was easier for me not to be distracted. Still he is in mind every moment. Since he is in front of my eyes, I need to be powerful to pass these stages.

[@AwakenwithPradnyaa]

Thats amazing. My TF too was my neighbor, stayed just two mins away, however his window was not in front of mine! (thank goodness!! 😆) All the best for your journey!! and welcome to my channel.

[@baharan1979]

@@AwakenwithPradnyaa Thank you for your reply. These windows are horrible, but on the other hand it put all the areas in which I should grow into my face. And it is now much easier since I get familiar with twin flame term