can exes be just friends? | tea for two

[@lovecommanectar]

do you think it’s okay to be friends with an ex? lovecommanectar.co/4bKT6qT

[@alpaqa]

Yeah

[@jeenajoan]

In this case it makes me very happy that they stayed friends with their exes.

[@mercymunoz1408]

Yes

[@TheMilkyWay444]

Hell no, Let that shit go.

[@Anistonxian]

Hell no 2:07

[@Inesines44456]

Whoever edited this needs a raise.. this felt like a movie

[@yusterhunter2560]

I’ve battled addiction alone for 6 years. These young men putting their pride aside to aid in her recovery is the purest form of love. Respect to all 3 of them.

[@Bri-tf6eu]

988 is always there to text or call if you ever need it man

[@smome777]

I don't know many men who could have done it, matter of fact I think 70% would have sent her over the edge..... She was really blessed to come across them.

[@ivak515]

Me crying with Trey and Alyssa when they’re talking ab Alyssa’s mom

[@Shwayzee]

I’m literally bawling my eyes out

[@3D1ofakind]

The amount of respect and emotional maturity everyone shares in this room is overwhelming, like I didn't think this was possible, especially given the scenario 😮

[@oliviaeaston4527]

That letter moved me to tears, what a beautiful episode

[@Babygirl758]

It’s the best one yet

[@estefanysepulveda10]

"I realized that the most important legacy I can leave for you was not a tale of being rescued but one of self-rescue" instant tears!! the letterrrrr

[@Katechap20]

All three of these participants are so mature, vulnerable, well spoken, and brave. I’m thankful for their willingness to let this kind of conversation be recorded and shared.

[@anniecsonu]

this is my favorite episode by far, its so deep, and all three people are so mature and profound

[@JazmynMarez3232]

As watching alyssa and trey for years together, this makes me feel good about how much closure they got and how much she got out of her fresh one. It takes a lot and I respect all of them for doing this.

[@oxceanz]

When she said “they were my beautiful chapters…..” awwww man 🤧

[@annen22]

You are all three beautiful people. It’s crazy to see how much you all have been through just in what you talked about in camera. I could tell there was so much more to each individual story. The unconditional respect for one another was so beautiful to see.

[@kahihileee]

I teared up watching Alyssa and trey’s part and the letter :(

[@SlapSister]

Damn, she needs to make her story into a movie. It's very dynamic and emotional.

[@user-cf7vy4hl8p]

the wisdom in these conversations is ridiculous, I mean that in the best way possible. thanks for creating a space to understand the vulnerability & have the courage to lead with it.

[@mwahnobars]

the letter was so beautofully writen im crying.

[@treezah308]

literally im crying rn

[@spamflip]

Crying because I’m inspired to write something in my own words

[@sunvavachi]

These young people are so motivational. You never know what life throws at you!

[@glocellsalting8466]

I’ve watched Alyssa and Trey from the start and seeing them two grow as individuals really warms my heart 🖤🖤🖤. Although they are no longer together, just from the feel of the video, that genuine connection that they have is still there

[@Jamierice139]

Damn this shit got real deep real fast. Only half way through 😅 but Loving the vulnerability.

[@annen22]

Agreed I had to take a break to look at the comments cause it was so intense

[@QuyenNHokom]

These three souls hv given me hope that this world might not be going to shit after all lol! It was cathartic for me when she revealed who she addresses the letter to. With that letter I won't worry for her. She has learned through her struggles that ultimately, it is pure self love that is the fuel that gives you the power & strength to lasting inner peace & happiness. Noone can give that to you but yourself. Easier said than done.

[@larizatarango]

I have never sobbed so much through a KZbin video. The lack of pride these men have, the care, the love they've shown her. THE LETTER. Forever inspired and changed fr

[@Lustful_Twilight]

I was not ready for the roller coast of this video. The letter at end broke me, but in the best way.

[@ashleanicole]

Wow. Just wow. Mature beyond their years and just an incredibly well put together story of three different lives coming together as one. Thank you to the participants and Nectar for letting them share their stories ❤

[@Goodvibesaround3]

The level of emotional maturity those young men possess is absolutely astounding. They are well spoken, kind hearted, and incredibly mature. Given the circumstances of each relationship, it’s nice to see that she was able to attract a partner who wasn’t using, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 stuck by her through that journey to see her come out of it on top. Putting her before himself is incredibly difficult but so very important. It’s nice to see someone else has lived a similar journey to mine.

[@kat-fk7on]

🖤 Wow. I’ve been a fan of Alyssa and trey ever since their very first KZbin video after they went viral on Twitter. Being apart of their journey has been such a light of hope in my life even with all of its trials. Now in this chapter here, my love and appreciation for you all has grown , and has gained as well for Adal. Thank you to the three of you for sharing your truth. And that letter at the end wow. Alyssa you were born to be a nurturing human and I’m happy and hopeful to see that that nurturing will start with yourself 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@hollyliujah]

omg im crying. what a beautiful letter 😭 it’s amazing to see 2 mature men push their egos aside to help someone they love so much. alyssa you inspire me so much & you deserve the world. im so happy you’re with us & to hear you’re doing better 🖤

[@REDRUBYXOXO]

I was not planning to cry on a Saturday morning 😭 this was so good

[@Noname78624]

As someone who lost her mom 2 months ago and watching this during first mother’s day without her…I bawled 🥺😞

[@mckennadecker3382]

You are going to make me cry

[@kiarag8395]

i lost mine 6m ago. I’m right there with ya. keep going, you’re doing great ❤️‍🩹

[@Noname78624]

@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug 🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

[@Noname78624]

@@kiarag8395 sending you a big virtual hug🫂 we will get through it, one day at a time. 💕

[@shashirekhakamle4655]

So sorry. Hang in there. It will b alright

[@ShannonPring]

Been here since the start when her and Trey were together and posted their first video then the mid point and afterwards, then her meeting Adal and getting to see her live through another chapter of her life with another loved one. Though her experiences and events differ from mine exponentially, I couldn’t help but feel the vulnerability and nakedness of her life story. I love all 3 of you guys so much and I am moved by how this whole 30 minute video has affected my perception of a loving type of love 🖤

[@0hcae_]

got me sobbing and reflecting on my own life fr 😭

[@mimiluyen]

i've been watching alyssa and trey's story from the very beginning and to see all the things they've gone through together and continue to still be in each others lives, gives me so much hope and happiness for alyssa. alyssa deserves the world, i'm happy to see her have such wonderful people who truly care so much for her that they choose to be here still even though they aren't in a romantic relationship anymore. trey and adal, you're wonderful and genuine people, thank you for being friends for alyssa.

[@Poundtown765]

watching Alyssa back in the day and then now watching this video is just amazing. everyone included in the video is so beautifully spoken and so respectful. I really appreciate the vulnerability showcased. cried like a baby during the letter. love you alyssa! stay strong darling

[@mariella692]

you’re so strong and i wish you nothing but the best in life 🖤

[@nathanjarrelle]

They’re so mature, I feel like she could be the problem relationally and these guys have a need to fix and care for her as a child which could also be a problem relationally

[@marianapalomares-yj8ry]

this was so touching. I cried every step of the way with her and their talks

[@DanielBeraka-nu8ff]

This episode touched me. Even though she didn't end up with either of them, the composure and closure they assured one another was very fulfilling. The letter at the end to her daughter made me bawl my eyes out even more, much respect for all three of them.

[@mells5152]

🖤🖤 This one cut deep . It’s been beautiful to watch Alyssa and Trey both mature into young adults over the years . I can’t wait to see where life takes all of you . Wish you all nothing but the best 🖤🖤

[@leareyna6015]

I held it together so good because I knew much of Alyssa’s story already from TikTok but the letter at the end broke me. This was a fantastic episode. May God continue to bless and guide each of them on their journeys.

[@kathytran5872]

🥺 they love them I hope they’re doing well with their lives. Just glad that they still have each other during their hardest times.

[@denyell__]

Ugh I love how raw and emotional and just open and loving this all is. I’m sobbing. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@KJFAdaily]

this was beautiful to watch.all so strong, mature, and open minded. definitely expected to cry watching these 3.

[@mandyymoniquee9010]

The letter to your future daughter 🥹🖤

[@thee792]

Her and trey have so much chemistry I hope they get back together

[@polarberri]

What pure hearts and connections all three have. I am so sorry for all the hardship you all have gone through. The letter is one of the most beautiful things I have ever heard. Wishing you all peace and happiness.

[@thetrinitymiller]

🖤🖤🖤 I’ve been watching Alyssa since the very beginning. I’ve never met her, and I hope one day I do, but I genuinely feel so much love for you alyssa. She’s inspired me so much and because of her and watching her handle similar situations I too have experienced I’ve grown and strived everyday to be better. You’re so loved.

[@falisha5952]

Alyssa and Trey have been my favs for years 🥹🫶🏽

[@BelaDesouza_]

It’s so interesting to see people who express their wholesome. deep, past memories. Part of it is very beautiful but also so strange because I can tell I’d never hang around these people but they have their own lives with crazy stories you know? Just so fascinating. And people can look at me and say the same haha, life is so interesting

[@naomivanessaaa]

love you alyssa, that letter was so beautiful 😢🖤🖤🖤

[@MilkyMik]

🖤 sobbing. So proud of how much you’ve overcome and extremely happy for the support you have. 🖤

[@kathryn8462]

man seeing her letter made my heart hurt. ive had a few exes that saved my life. some im still talking to others i hurt too much to be friends with

[@JonathonsWifeForever]

Woooow I’m in tears hearing her write a letter to her future daughter. WOW! What a POWERFUL & life changing thing to do. I’m going to write a letter to my future daughter. Wow💜💜💜

[@eeeMCeee]

All three individuals have character beyond their years... such a moving episode

[@aravelpabilona2291]

This video had so much layers to it and I just appreciate how these three beautiful people were able to share their stories and experiences. 🖤

[@cmooreHD]

This was one of the best and deepest episodes on this channel yet! Just wow..

[@yeeyang7230]

9:18 is so relatable ! Those moments and time will definitely always play in ur mind ❤

[@lor9582]

just because there wasn’t a relationship connection doesn’t mean that theres no human connection ❤️

[@TheAmiz6]

🖤🖤🖤 I’m crying. I felt all the emotion in this

[@faithboulom4211]

God this broke me & healed me in so many ways

[@awesomealie8179]

i think after high school there should be a class for dating and relationship. For some reason girls and boys that are not even worth getting into relationship are getting into lousy and troubled relationships.

[@30__]

There’s already a class for that and it’s called “sex Ed” 😂😂😂

[@geniuspeng]

The ending letter was so powerful

[@lydiacoffey2003]

Then talking about Virginia Street made me so emotional ❤

[@GenineDarcheville]

I was literally crying with you guys. You've come soo far, keep going🖤

[@marissachantelle]

I’ve been watching Alyssa and Trey since the beginning. Seeing this video was so healing for me so I can’t imagine how healing it was for you 3. I commend you for allowing an outside source be the one to edit and share this story because I’m sure that it is so hard not knowing if your story will be portrayed truthfully. And the respect Trey and Adal have for each other is so incredible. Alyssa, I hope when you have the capacity to watch this and you’re able to see how much growth you’ve all gone through. 🖤🖤🖤

[@liindawgg]

gah I saw the three clips on tiktok and was hoping for 444 years of happiness to both of them whether it be with or without each other.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Best episode ever! The ending kinda confused me though and left me with questions…I kinda hope you have her on again.

[@blue-the-realist]

Even tho jubilee;You really put content that from my outer mindset and my country’s culture.you really did a job at explaining this situation that i will never see.Much love from 🇯🇴

[@Ki-KisWorld]

People will debate about this question for forever

[@alondrac2603]

It’s so beautiful to see Alyssa Healing and Health 🥹🤍

[@30__]

It’s interesting how everyone’s type looks like siblings.

[@bestfriendsisterchannel3108]

I hope her and Trey rekindle. ❤

[@sofiaaras4888]

They are all so strong, much love and appreciation for all of them❤️

[@leyahzz]

This was such a beautiful watch. That letter at the end helped heal a little part of me. Thank you for this video ❤️

[@allisonwernick1728]

what a beautiful and sweet soul this girl is

[@supbabyj]

🖤🖤🖤 just finished watching and I’m so proud of you to see all the growth and change you continue to do with your life 🖤✨

[@deelutz8460]

Her letter at the end... Amazing ❤

[@Karra__with_a_K]

I think it is so beautiful these gentleman were able to have such a mature conversation.💚💐

[@CraftingWithTopaz]

I remember meeting them in Cali in 2018, and they were such kind people.

[@kianaleipenaranda8025]

a beautiful episode 🥺 and the letter 🥺🖤

[@jenishmaharjan1962]

7 mins in and im teary

[@iisshana]

I am bawling!!! This is such a beautiful and raw video

[@carefreeblackboy7995]

If you can compartmentalize to a point where you can erase your attraction for someone you said you loved and did everything with then I don’t think I can trust you.

[@annen22]

This video was posted 31 minutes ago. You posted 27 mins ago….. you barely watched anything before you commented. That’s extremely unfair. It says this comment is about you and your experiences rather than the people in the video.

[@carefreeblackboy7995]

@@annen22 i responded to the title of the video, not the content of it. In my opinion if you can go through all these experiences with someone and then at the end you can confidently say you can continue to be friends with them without any risk of that attraction coming back or even becoming a little jealous when they move on then I don’t know if I can trust you. How do you remove that attraction so easily unless the case is that you weren’t really as emotionally attached as you said?

[@30__]

@@carefreeblackboy7995Stop shaming people’s preferences and standards, if someone doesn’t like your friends with an Ex it should be understandable. Just as if someone is okay with being friends with an Ex. We gotta stop labeling everything toxic just because it doesn’t fit our criteria. If someone wants to forget about an Ex and a lover let them be who are you?

[@SerpentineWisdom]

​@@30__ You're shaming his preferences right now. His comment is his preference of opinion and thought process. Let people have their own ideas.

[@cucumber-9]

Its a coping mechanism

[@eixirt-l]

i’ve been following Alyssa and Trey since Twitter when they went viral, and I love how well they communicate and express themselves, i’m glad they’re all mature enough to have these conversations. And that letter was so beautiful🥹🖤

[@fanceym2770]

sending alyssa love 💙 and virtual hugs🤗🤗

[@iLive4Dance267]

I was crying the whole time and by the letter I was sobbing

[@wuvbug]

i've watched alyssa and trey's videos for so long. this video made me sob hysterically because the love they all have for each other is so pure 🥹

[@yuuiz9405]

that letter was beautifully written.

[@alexandracortes4134]

I cried like a baby this whole episode 😭

[@fbspin]

her type is guys with chest tats

[@esraaabdalla341]

Best episode ever. Such adorable and lovely souls

[@elisazouza]

this is actually beautiful had me crying

[@Chrolikk]

50sec ago is crazy

[@jadenw1840]

so happy to see alyssa on this channel

[@damarismowatt]

Beautiful editing yesss 😌🤍 kudos to the nectar team x

[@seducedbysasquatch]

Alyssa is a beautiful writer

[@jemmaalegre7164]

🖤 what a beautiful interview and healing process!

[@Zakuru12]

I WAS NOT prepared for this tea

[@Theautography]

This is deep

[@omotayosatuyi252]

Yeah I'm tearing up it's crazy

[@HeavenlyJLove]

this was so beautiful, my heart.

[@iaminfinitymartinez]

these men are brilliant alyssa is so lucky.

[@terrencejared]

This was such a beautiful episode 😭