Can I be a strong woman and have casual s**?

[@marienmocka8397]

You have saved me in teaching to be high value by letting go a wrong man, facing all the pain to letting him go, and the courage to love myself fully. Understanding the men and female differences and love needs in the core, I found relief in my pain and the way to navigate through it. I am another person now, I am another woman now, the work is still in progress, that is the key. Understanding is the first step to move to the other step forward. You dont know my dear Greta how much you have influnced my life. It has been very very tough to be high value, the price is too high, because Loving oneself is the most difficult lesson to learn. I am on the good way of it. Thank you Greta❤. Bless you and all your dears!

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️

[@XeniaMinakov]

Thank you Greta for putting this information out there, especially in times when something so deeply intimate has become so casual, which it actually never is. ❤

[@joanofarcxxi]

The fact that men watched shows how desperate they are to understand women, because they are not succeeding, and they enjoy watching you. Thank you Greta, you are so sweet and kind, and I always appreciate your videos. Another great topic. ❤

[@thewhimsykitty]

Greta, thank you so much for discussing this topic. Recently, I have been struggling with this. I am a young 70 and have been divorced ( he wanted it) for several years after a 25 year marriage. I thought I could just have fun with this guy (not my ex) and move on, but I'm finding out it's just not that easy. Thank you for making me realize MY worth. I don't regret it as people are put into your life for a reason. I just needed to wake up and see it as it really is... Thanks!

[@GretaBereisaite]

❤❤

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

You are 70 years old and call yourself young? 😢😮😮😮😮

[@Ade-yu6pt]

Thank you so much Greta. Always stay awesome great Greta. I'm praying to God that he will always give you more strength and energy in helping us. Love you loads ❤

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you so much!

[@KTD888]

Greta you say the TRUTH love u

[@hdshjs]

-'No wonder you are single' -'Yeah, I have high standards and love my single live. So it would take an amazing man to convince me into a relationship' 😎💅✨

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

We all have high standards and won't date losers. Find a therapist to manage your trauma and anger issues. 😢 Find the way to fix your inadequacies. Whatever helps.

[@n0426]

“Convince me”👌🏻 💯 Good luck to him. 😝😙

[@hdshjs]

Great points, let's remember that a woman risks her health, safety and opinion every time she decides to have a casual 'fun'. On top of that the experience will be likely very unsatisfying because it's all about the guy - he is the active part and if he doesn't want, he will not take care of the woman. Then comes ofc the male hypocrisy and the disrespect they show to the woman who sleep with them early. So Ladies, don't be naive. Take a long time to get to know a man. And put your self respect first.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

True.

[@hdshjs]

I get the 'psychology' of the haters in the chat. They go for 'Oh, you must have been hurt and treated poorly' in a tone of victim blaming. Even if it was the truth, so now what - the lady should give up on self respect and go waste her remaining life? lol. They go for 'Prove to me that you weren't hurt and used. How to prove it? By sleeping with me' xD That's what they aim for. Ladies, see through their games. You have nothing to prove to a disrespectful and manipulative guy. Once you spot their games, get out of the situation ASAP.

[@nourishedandlean-63]

Great advice….as usual! 💕

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you!

[@rafayrafay6530]

I just love greata she taught me so many things mymother is just like u greata her mindset is like u but after watching your video i started more love with her ❤and u too❤i am muslim but❤ i love u too❤

[@chlariepeace3093]

This true love that jumper you have on ❤

[@liathselkie]

You need to start blocking the guys posting bad messages.

[@GretaBereisaite]

It was too many guys to block

[@hdshjs]

Eh, no need. Best way is to block them in your head and master emotional control. Best response is no response.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

@@hdshjs❤❤

[@lugm1034]

​@@GretaBereisaiteMaybe a moderator?

[@danilaroche1156]

My old ex never married & sleeps around. He's in his 60s. He's deeply unhappy and schizophrenic. Very disturbed. He thinks it ok to be promiscuous. I'm glad we broke up!

[@The_Curious_Capsule]

Hi Greta, are you planning on doing at all any face to face intro/meeting?

[@mpfree7]

I think it is possible to have " casual fun", but you have to meet a few requirements: -You have to know yourself very well and be sure that you really want and can handle this kind of situation, meaning: do not expect that guy to later treat you like his gf, don't expect him to care a lot or have feelings for you etc. - be ready to leave the next day without expecting him to be super romantic and without shame or judgmental thoughts about yourself because he wasn't - there is a price to pay: you might start fantasizing about getting into a relationship with him etc. and he might not even want to see you again, so remember - if you can't handle that, don't even start trying to have "casual fun" encounters. They are not for you and there is nothing wrong with that. - pick a right kind of guy to do it with: the one you do not have romantic feelings for but most importantly the guy that is generally respectful and kind when you meet him/talk to him (he has to be on a certain level and you have to feel safe) - always protect your health - have some distance and sense of humor, if you treat it too seriously and lie to yourself saying "oh, it's just fun" when in fact you expect something more, then it's definitely not "fun", instead of enjoying the situation it will leave you sad and angry

[@lalaa555]

​​@@dittehompoth1469 that's only the case if people you want to date think that about you. If you have something casual with a guy from the next city, noone's gonna know.

[@hdshjs]

So to summarize pay a prize that is 10 times higher than the 'reward' of the hook up. This simply makes no sense. It's easier to do the right thing and actually value your body and the intimacy part of relationships and not give it away as if it was worthless.

[@lalaa555]

@@hdshjs There is only a prize if you can't have sex without getting attached. So sex is not really the problem. The problem is you getting attached easily.

[@headintheforest]

You still can get pregnant, AIDS or many other diseases (dont talk about profilaxis unless you dont do bj, and it can fail too). And with ONS you can get murdered, raped or what not (ONS means you dont know the guy). Can something be casual or fun if there are so many risks involved?

[@danilaroche1156]

Do a video about soul ties. They are real.

[@chalisemenuka7682]

❤Ur all viideos

[@n0426]

Their life is short and miserable! Not mine!! 😒 And i don’t want to be in their life. 😑

[@estellekendall7616]

Haven’t watched the video yet but the answer is no you cannot do that!

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make, the better

[@danilaroche1156]

What do you mean? Sex is not an experiment. It's a sacred gift from God meant for commitment, love & covenant.

[@n0426]

You don’t need to try everything in life. 😑 This is why people tell stories and warn others. 😴

[@douglasbessette6045]

Ms. Greta I found your channel while searching for videos about the female perspective.. I hope that you will let me respectfully sit in the corner and listen. Some of your comments make me want to offer up wisdom if I can. I too am a Christian, so the dating scene is difficult for us. Please allow me to offer some sound advice. Men are not difficult to understand. The person they are is apparent, and they will mostly be transparent, the ones that would trick you give themselves away. If you want to have the most success with men, ask them about their beliefs on dating and what they are looking for early in your relationship. If they say they just want to have fun they mean it and there is nothing that you can do to change them. If they are looking for a relationship its going to be obvious. The man or women who is selfish will not reveal his or her true intentions, the ones who love you will say too much. Don't be fooled you can't trick a man into falling in love with you. Men will go along with you despite their own reservations if they think they will get some fun. The patient sincere man who treats you like a lady is not to be abused for inside he questions your true intentions. Make your boundaries clear in the beginning, and try to make him understand your motivations. Unless your intention is to marry, all of your relationships will logically end in heartbreak, so if your intention is to have fun be transparent about it. If you tell a man its for fun and then you fall in love he will always be offended. love is better than lust, and honesty is better than manipulation. True happiness comes from trusting each other, without trust arguments cannot cease.

[@hdshjs]

This is genuinely so funny. So many ladies under Greta's coaching went married (we have social media groups where we share it) and even more got into really happy relationships and engagement. And this funny guy comes here, says whatever from the top of his head and bum! Now he become a dating coach! Learn from him, Ladies lol. (I kidding, do not wear your heart on a sleeve and do not tell anyone 'to sit down and listen', he is just rude. High Value woman are not rude).

[@Goriana5363]

Mm.. i dont really agree on this one because for example i am 35, divorced and i m having a LOT of casual sex because i have a very high sexual drive and i just love to have sex. If i would be in a relationship i wouldn’t be happy because a single guy simply wouldn’t be enough. For me having sex is my choice and my pleasure, i don t feel used at all and i don t fall in love either, i am happily single and having fun. So i think it is possible to be a strong woman and have casual sex but only in some specific periods of your life. I was not the same person in my 20, so yeah, chances are very high to be used and to suffer, but now i rather have guys around me falling in love with me and wanting me for more and i simply don’t. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you for sharing

[@lalaa555]

I disagree. Obviously, if you want to get into a relationship with this guy, you can't be casual. In my opinion, if you put too much value on sex, you set yourself up for clinging on to a guy you end up sleeping with. You will end up desperate if he ends up disrespecting you afterwards because you gave something so valuable to him and on top of that your hormones go crazy.

[@hdshjs]

The value of intimacy and your body does not change because you neglect it and give it away easily. If you date man for eg. for three months before sleeping with him it would require a top specialize psychopath to pretend to be a good man and suddenly change 180 degree. Sure, there are no guarantees in life, but you can still make the best possible choices by respecting yourself.

[@lalaa555]

@@hdshjs You'd be surprised how good men are at lying when they know that's the only way to get in your pants. Then you sleep together a few times and he leaves. Then what? You're heartbroken and have to wait at least another 3 months and that's only if the next guy you'd like to be in a relationship with is right there. Personally, I don't meet many men like that. I don't want to give up physical touch because of that. It's better to have one special friend than desperately looking for the perfect guy. If the right one comes along, you just switch. It's that easy. I've done it before and will do it again.

[@n0426]

Coming to you from the middle east. 🥰 Here a woman is raised to have values and love herself. It took me my whole early twenties to value my womanhood and accept that i was born a woman. And even if i was physically weak i am emotionally intelligent and spiritually strong! And mentally stable. ❤️🩷💜 It’s only good people who were raised well around healthy adults can see the value of a woman and a man. It’s actually getting worse here because narcissists are using religion to justify themselves.