Can Twin Flames JUST Be Friends?

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Meeting your twin flame does not mean that you are supposed to be with them. It's for you to shed the ego and to awaken to who you truly are. However, you have a choice to be with them once you stop chasing and become one with your soul. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@robertwolfgan]

Help... Please I believed we were meant to be together, still do... we were so much better together than who we were alone and didn't know until it hit us... Now we are separated and she didn't say when or whether she'll even come back... She just went away and left me hurting worse than I ever felt before (and I've been hit by a car)... I'm not kidding, if I could choose to be with her again but have to experience the car accident everyday, that would be the easiest choice ever because whatever it is I feel now that she's gone is something horrible that I don't wish to anyone kot even Hitler... It's the most awful thing that makes u want to forfeit life and it only gets worse as days passes... I love her I became so much better with her than all the time in my life before her She makes me feel alive, and the made me know what actual "happiness" means Watching this video made me feel both encouraged to stay positive and sad that things might be already too far gone the wrong "complicated" way he described almost at the end... So I'm... in desirous need of help I pray to God every. Single. Day. Go beg for just 1 wish... That one wish and that's it, never will ask anything else again I pray day and night, and I never in my life prayed for anything... That's just how important this is for me The most important thing I promised myself to try and stay positive every moment of everyday and improve myself to be able to be good enough for her and to "make believe" that it will work out somehow of I put the extra work, whatever that is... And promised I would try everything possible to make that happen Which is why I even pray and talk to God, Jesus, Virgin Mary and Holy Spirit now... Look at angel numbers, read horoscopes, all the things I didn't even pay attention to before or made fun of, just because I want to get there so much that I am truly and wholeheartedly willing to try it all just in case it works out... Just "if" it will be of use....

[@Disminder]

What’s you channel?

[@iamgoddessoflove]

@@robertwolfgan If you guys are meant to be together, it'll happpen naturally. Allow for the Universe to bring you guys back together if it's meant to be. Continue to do you and try to stay positive...

[@robertwolfgan]

@@iamgoddessoflove thank you...then contrary to what this man says about twin flames and not to wait, I'll just do that still...got it ..it's just too hard...but for her, anything.

[@livngearth8950]

Thank you, this helps. My twin and I are in separation and are friends, and it’s extremely difficult. We are both in karmic relationships, each married, and neither of us want to hurt those people. I think I’m the one that is more spiritual, and I’m not even sure if he believes in twin flames! I didn’t even know about tf until I became aware of our connection….I thought I was loosing my mind and then started to do the research. This is very difficult. The first time I met him there was a connection, a knowing that I knew him, that we’ve know each other in previous lifetimes. We actually both said that out loud when we met, that we both felt familiar to each other. And when ever we are around each other, I’m pretty sure everyone can feel our energy! We have great conversations, chemistry, and it doesn’t make a difference how many people are around, we can be in a crowd, opposite sides of a room or house, but are like magnets and just end up by each other. And I’m pretty sure I’m just glowing when ever I’m around him. And when i see him, he lights up too. What makes this even more difficult is that he and his wife are our neighbors, and we see them almost daily. All four of us are good friends….very complicated. I feel like I’m trapped in an impossible situation. I have to trust in Divine timing.

[@sarat9567]

Our counterparts mirror us. If you were to leave the marriage that doesn’t have your heart, he would eventually follow suit. Your souls are running the show. I met a false twin that I was 1000% sure was my true twin, and it catalyzed me out of a long term relationship I would not have left otherwise. Shortly after it became apparent this person was a soulmate, not my twin, and an abusive one at that. After a good year of thinking I ruined my life and messed everything up, I realized I have met my twin etherically and in dreamtime but not yet in the physical. So I continue my journey, loving myself and clearing the way for our Union. Celibacy, no dating, no inserting energies that could come between us. Knowing we are connected, I take as good care of myself as possible knowing this is helping my twin - good sleep, good food, good boundaries.

[@livngearth8950]

@@sarat9567, thank you. Wishing you the best in your journey. I hope you find your twin soon. I agree with taking care of yourself first. I’ve decided to focus on myself for now. I think a lot of this journey is about healing and loving yourself.

[@tenbytenhousefreebutnoteno9095]

Can you be ONLY friends with yourself? Try and you will fail. Just a different way to question. =P

[@AlexisSanders-c5x]

@@livngearth8950Things will become clear when you’re ready ❤❤❤ Always connected to the divine wishing you the best!

[@freealternativestreaming2404]

I thought I could see my TF as a friend after so many years. Two days before, after an out of nowhere astral extremely steamy orgasmic meeting, I was prooved wrong in my perception. Funny, to persuade yourself that you are not sexually interested in them anymore and then Booom! the universe laughs at you!

[@stevenlifecoaching7867]

Twin flames are always sexually interested in one another because they come from the same soul. Allow yourself to be sexually interested in your twin flame, remember spiritual, energetic, and sexual connections between one another are the three most significant connections among two souls, especially twin flames, this is not only a sacred connection but also a sexual connection.

[@cassyannhearne5181]

I know that even if I tried to be friends with my tf, I could never. The love and feelings I have for him are too intense.

[@SAB-ex7de]

Why am I not interested in my twin anymore ?? I don't feel like talking to her anymore... Why is it ?

[@yourhealingjourney9824]

Because perhaps you're clearing an energy within yourself. Or maybe she is sending that energy to youm

[@Lyndal.Elizabeth.919]

Thankyou for sharing this unfortunately my twin is someone's husband & out of respect for his marriage I've had to let go. I know when he's thinking of me I feel it in my heart chakra like everyday. Some days more than others & I think we are supposed to remain friends in this lifetime. I love him so much enough to set him free.

[@kirsikkamaria]

Maybe I'm not still in so advanced phase with alchemising my energy but at this moment I can say that it is NOT possible to be just friends. The energy between us is so magnetic and strong that I can't help but wanting to kiss him whenever I am close to him and have fantasies about him. And I am not usually that sexually active. I can be years without having sex. I have never had one night stands. But with him I just feel like wanting to "get under his skin" that close I want to be. He instead says that he could be my friend because he doesn't have romantic feelings towards me and he can "keep down" the attraction between us. I decided that complete "no contact" is the best thing now (after a year of weekly "changing few messages" and meeting by chance every time I felt like I moved on..)

[@amyj.4992]

I knew we are supposed to be romantic partners, I'm not in denial of that at all. I can't speak for my twin, but I'm aware of this connection. I have been doing the work, and checking on myself in my mirror. I think she is too. And honestly loving myself and following my purpose, hopefully will inspire more of my growth. Doing this will allow me to show up for my 💙🦁cubs🐺💓 I'm refuse to let my insecurities stop me, or hurt someone else ever again

[@sabinee7649]

I have met two guys I thought was my twinflame. I realise now after have meet my twinflame, they just helped me to work with my darksides that prepared me to resonate with my true twinflame. It's a big difference to be with my twinflame, we have the the same vibrational level. And it grows slowly during old things that has to cleanse up bringa up. The love is🙏

[@Black46coupe]

It's amazing but painful to be apart from each other or what do you say Theia?

[@brokoryfoods]

According to Cobra (2012 Portal Blogspot) twin flames rarely meet on this earth. The Archons who control the reincarnation system with their multidimensional scalar web almost never allow 2 twin flames reincarnate at once. If they do they make sure they never meet. If they somehow meet, the archons kill one of them of booth twins. It happened with Cobra's twin soul in 2018, she was hit by a directed energy weapon and died a few days later. People incarnated today who think they have found their twin soul are just projecting their twin on their partner, which may be just a soul mate, not the twin. They will only meet their twins when the Archons are defeated, their reincarnation trap is unmade and the implants are cleared (all people incarnated on earth are implanted by the archons).

[@michellelovell7569]

You're so kind and an adorable Man. I'm too aged for this crushing and heartache business. I gotta stop watching these forever and just live my very, very best lonely life and LOVE IT! ❤

[@s1111rrah]

My TF, and I have wanted eachother since day 1. We have both tried to date other people… Couldn’t. He is now telling me he wants to live with me, but he’s a Gemini so he says it like “Do you want me to live with you forever?” “It’s going to be hard to travel from STATE to STATE every night.” In context to see me. I always run… We’ve known eachother 3+ years. I see 1111 daily, but still working on myself.

[@kimhale4567]

What's the best way to release abandonment issues?

[@kim6314]

Don't chaee him......get him out of your mind completely. He will feel your neediness if you keep thinking you were abandoned. ^ He probably abandoned you physically but its not your problem it is his problem...he is probably working on his self. But im not really sure about your case, im just giving few hints based on my experience ^

[@kimhale4567]

@@kim6314 I'm not chasing him. I have abandonment issues from when my mum died when I was 14. That is the root cause , that is where I need to do the work. Don't know where to start

[@kim6314]

@@kimhale4567 sorry to hear that. I pray that you will have inner peace. I was separated from my biological parents too....since birth. And I just focus on positive things in life and i refuse to let any bad emotions let me down

[@deborahwalsh8698]

Heart chakra burst open, then spiritual awakening, now thymus chakra open yesterday. We have great connection but he is in a relationship. I am heart broken and anytime I try to end connection it is very painful.

[@itsoktobedummythicc8996]

Bruh I feel youuu. He will realise you are the love of his life, just give it time. ❤️❤️❤️

[@TheSADHU88]

He will probably breakup in time, happend in my case dont worry about it, universe is working in your best interest!

[@dubinatub1]

Irish?

[@deborahwalsh8698]

@@dubinatub1 Yes Irish

[@deborahwalsh8698]

@@TheSADHU88 thanks for your message

[@user-dk5gg8dz9g]

what if the choice is having him in my life as a friend, or not having him in my life at all? ive given the wheel to the universe to decide, and i’m leaving it open to whatever is best. being together would mean a lot of pain for a lot of people and i can’t imagine something that is designed to be rooted in love causing that.

[@stevenlifecoaching7867]

Well sometimes, there requires a breakup between two people in order for them to realize where they need to change, and become better people, even if this may last more than a decade. But when both of them reunite in the future, they are going to create a long-term and balanced relationship.

[@TheAnimeMiMi]

I have a twin flame and from the start and even today I see him as a younger brother. I feel brotherhood towards him. I’m female though. The divine masculine. Never felt the bubble love phase thankfully. I did feel unconditional love bursting out of him. But his soul was seeing me as his long lost mother… he was acting like a kid. Very Unlike him. So yea my connection is weird from the start. I also want to protect the innocent side of him. It’s weird that we never really talked but he still triggers me from afar. We work together in different departments. And now that I can finally grow on my own and live my life even with him in the back of my mind, I now met another person who has same personality and some features as my twin. It was fun talking with him then I went home and the breakdown started. Feeling pain and crying wanting to see him again with my twin in my head as well. This is hell! When I tried to know the reason I met the second one it appears to be a reminder of my twin journey. As if I need a reminder 🙄 I’m purposely trying to forget my reason. And this new guy, I also want to protect him. There is this welts feeling in me as if a teacher to their student or a mother to her child. I want to help them grow kinda feeling… so now I’m back to the country where I met the second guy as signs are crazily telling me to go back. I’m not looking for him but if it’s meant to I will see him again… this is insane as is against my nature. If I see him I will take his contact number which is so unlike me. Because we live in different countries and I need to stay in contact until I done this stupid puzzle..

[@stevenlifecoaching7867]

Well, maybe that is your role in your past life with him! We can lose past life memories, but we will have the feelings we have all the way from the start-up to this point of life. Just like me when I met my twin flame, I saw her as my wife, but also as a younger sister, but of course, until this point, my feeling for my twin flame become stronger, and sense her as my wife, the feeling of younger sister is decreasing, that's a type of past life memories generate into a particular type of feeling. If I define this in another meaning, this means my divine masculine(but she is a female), is growth from a little girl into a woman, and that's spiritual growth because I sense it without physically seeing her.

[@shamimashabnam8444]

Thank you...so many things got cleared

[@mahalharoui4900]

I just resonated so much with this video. Glad you've tackled it this way. I have been doing enormous self work in the recent times. And it's funny as I get glimpses of meeting my twin flame as a beautiful guy who does not realize how good looking he is. He might have a big noise for example that he doesn't like, but I don't know how to explain it, I am sure I would find his nose attractive. As you've said TF is a mirror and I have that with my smile. No matter how much people tell me I have a nice smile I always think that it's not perfect. I am starting to look at myself and find where I have insecurities to spot who my twin flame is. Kind of reverse engineering of my twin 😝 adding to it being a Pleiadian and a water sign. Thank you and Julia for the guidance 🙏

[@Journeytoselflove]

I have to disagree with you. I do have a twinflame. But I do not feel atrackted to him. Not at all. We do not have the physical part. Wich makes it easier for me to go through the lessons and the mirrors he shows me. I don’t know what the future brings but that’s not important. What is important in the twinflame connection? That is doing your inner work to come in union with yourself. Not with your twinflame. 😌 If you come in union with yourself the rest will come towards you. And that might be your twinflame. That depends on the soulcontract you made before you both incarnated back to earth. ✨

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[@ekatagodspower4891]

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[@TheSADHU88]

fuck no i dont want to be friends with my twin flame, why should i ? it hurts as much as it does so why do i want to get myself friendzoned so i can make myself suffer more.

[@sandrasantos7141]

My dear friends of my Heart We all need to call the Angels of Tween Flames to help us in our journey because they know what is the best for us Let's pray together Divine Angels of Tween Flames, we Love You and we Bless You Please, take all doubts and mistakes from our hearts Heal our hearts from all past mistakes, karmas, Broke now all contrats, associations, promesses, all soul ties and words that are in our beings We want to be free of all that is not good for all Supreme and Divine Good Help us to do this release in Peace Harmony Love understanding and balance Take care of us Dear Friends Angels of Tween Flames We realy need your help protection and guidance Thank You so much You are our Best Friends You are our Light You are our Truth on Earth 💛🌈🌸

[@RyanNerdyGamer]

It’s funny… I met my transitional twin flame years ago via the internet, and that connection really did help in the self-realisation process (and it ended in a way that was the reverse of how it initially began). And now it seems my twin and I are to meet online via similar circumstances, which is so much more than a coincidence.

[@s1111rrah]

What’s a traditional twin flame?

[@RyanNerdyGamer]

@@s1111rrah Both Stef and Julia say they dislike the term “false twin flame,” and I completely agree, so I pitched an alternative that more accurately describes the role they play in a respectful way; they’re not false, they’re transitional.

[@s1111rrah]

@@stevenlifecoaching7867 You’re basically explaining a karmic, but first glance people could say false Tf… And karmic false TF are the same thing. The guy before my TF, was just a brief amazing connection. We taught me a lot, and I appreciate it, but so has everyone else. Past lives and every thing this life will prepare you for the TFJ. I asked for clarification. Most people know the term karmic not transitional. This is the whole spiritual community, not the TF community.. Karmic gets a bad rep, just like separation… But they all have a purpose and once you are aware of that your vision on life changes. Which there are slightly diff terms for things in Quora, as well as ones that talk about how TFs split and why. There’s monad and split soul. I highly think you and your Tf are Monad because your separation was so short. This is not bad, but it makes the rest of us split souls confused. My Tf and I have known eachother almost 4 years and known we were TFs for about 3. Even though we run and have separation just like everyone else we want to be together. But knowing you’re a TF and even wanting to be together doesn’t matter when you’re not healed enough. I am so proud of him. I am careful about how I use my vocabulary online because the interest has misguided info like this, and that is why you get everyone thinking their a TF now, or you have more then one.)

[@stevenlifecoaching7867]

@@s1111rrah What I am saying is more like a noble in your life, who you might see part of you in them and can learn something from them. Even though you learned these things from them, you will still see that part of you within them, but these lessons that you learn do not make a really big positive impact or spiritual growth on you. A karmic relationship, yes can be intense, you might also see a part of you within them, however, the lessons that you learned will have a larger positive or negative impact on you, and after that lesson, you start seeing less and less part of you within them until it all disappeared. So for this, I will delete my previous comment for making this clear. But just to mention, a noble have two meaning, one meaning is you can see the negative side of you within them to help you change it, and another is this person will help you achieve goals, both spiritually and materialistically.

[@s1111rrah]

I think false TF is still important, but karmic relationships are important. I just hate how we make the false TF more important as if it means you’ll meet your Tf. When a lot of people don’t. Thank you Next by Arianna, is very much like Karmics… Thanks for helping me be a better person, but who is next?!

[@t3rmbdg]

You are doing it great Stef ... Good One (y)

[@thahousewifeDJ]

Love your windows peak. I have one too. Hehehe

[@gloriathebooklover8693]

What about starting as friends but it becoming more after a bit of time?

[@hannadegitter6054]

Perfectly agreed

[@JoiseB80]

I like to say catalysts, for me, my ‘false’ twin flames were extreme catalysts due to the belief at that moment they were my true tf. After connecting with my twin flame I knew of course. Even during our journey I’ve had doubts from time to time and then I was overloaded with the most remarkable signs ✨

[@Sam-iu1cq]

Great video. Appreciate it 🙌😊

[@annabelleibelings4385]

I was friends with my twinflame at first. We felt the connection straight away but I was scared. Then we did had an relationship but it did not work out he was running away always with friends and left me alone also in diffucult times when my dad was sick. I feel like he did jot know how to deal with it. It hurts so much. This was 4 years ago. We broke up and after a while we were friends again but it felt always more than that. Now we are in an relationship again but the same thing is happening he has few attantion to me and I feel alone. It makes me doubt sad and I feel abandond. It feels like he treat me as a friend and keeps distance.. I don't know what to think or do😢. It is like he want to be in an relationship but when we have it he takes distance after a while..

[@thetravelexperience1695]

Well i only want to be friends with my twin flame, im not attracted to her, and no longer care about reunion

[@MAZ9404]

If my twin flame and I don't get along in relationships through karmic experiences and then they go off with a karmic and even still persuing her whilst they are just friends after their split. I don't think we will ever be anything because when we talk I feel that we are not compatible he is way too toxic and not prepared to change or leave his ego and he has destroyed my life mentally and physically it's been devastating even when healing most of it

[@gloriavine]

Thank you 💗🌿🌌

[@mykovong]

Thank you

[@kimhale4567]

Exactly 💯

[@nathancolpitts]

BrUHHHHH we were together for a week now in seperation it was so intense hit me like a truck and now i pushed her away i got drunk and crazy and now i focus on me, attracting like a God. though i am still in mourning..

[@stephanieeno8390]

There is no other connection like that

[@twinflamehigherpurpose9750]

Say for example - I met someone 4 years ago who we both proclaimed “twin flame” status with - and they ran and now are having a baby with someone else. You pined for them for four years, had a kundalini awakening. And they still want nothing to do With you - and now you’ve met someone that you feel VERY romantic about who has also ghosted you after a week and feels gut wrenchingly crippling - could it be safe to say my true twin is this new person ? Or the one that sparked the awakening. I was convinced for so long but now I’m not sure.

[@twinflamehigherpurpose9750]

He also has no interest in being my friend. And I don’t want to be romantic with him

[@kim6314]

He blocks me......so i think we can also be enemy lol ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@hannadegitter6054]

How can you be the enemy of your own soul? Just stop chasing the physical form, do your stuff and communicate with your soul , which is in both.

[@kim6314]

@@hannadegitter6054 you have no idea what Im talking about.......this person had physical connection with me and then blocked me ..... did your soul ever have touched you physically? Do you think my experience is classified under "twinflame" one symptom I had was body pain for 4 weeks. But how many of you had actually had sx with your TF......and then got into runner/chaser mode. That .most painful. And I did just ignore the person and trying to move on ..... I'm feeling better and actually I think I'm the one wanting to run now........ IF he is my soul and he just hurt me and treat me like shit ....then I have no idea what kind of connection it actually is ㅋ I might not be on the same page as yours 😊😄

[@kaydence_2422]

@@kim6314 Maybe it was a false one... A karmic

[@kim6314]

@@kaydence_2422 i had no idea that TF thing actually exist before I met this person......when he started running away from me, o feel like crazy and only then i started googling about why i can't stop thinking about someone obsessively....then I discovered all vids about TF....and until i got tired watching tarot readings lol. I can say that too mamy things have changed in me in 6 months now. I only met him physically for 4 times i think....and was very intemse. Then everything and the rest....i worked on my higher self.... I feel inner peace with my higher self without this person. Even i say he is "enemy" but i cant find hatred deep inside me. I was just wondering if he is dealing with party and why did he block me

[@hannadegitter6054]

@@kim6314 it is true. TF is the hardest connection of all; sometimes I wonder why is Called TF or if is TF after all? I hear so many opinions and you right, it is wrong to give advices, and be opinionated about others experiences. I was wrong, I’m sorry and feel for you. No, I didn’t have the same experience but I experienced abandonment for long time. It became easier because I let it go and I’m not preoccupied anymore if he’ll ever come back or not; what I’ll do if he will? Don’t know; I’ll deal with the situation when I’ll get to that bridge, right now I do what I should have done from the beginning: I’m number one. Everyone counts but no one too much. But that is my case. Unfortunately, each of us have to deal and find our own way; no one can help. But I feel for you like for a sister and I feel helpless because I cannot offer a solution for you; it will be wrong snd maybe even hurtful to you. In TF situations, we are all alone , to find our way to light, peace, but I know for sure that we have to forgive, not for them but for us, for our good and for our healing.

[@bigmacklargefries]

Again an awesome vid with exacting explanation of this journey👍