Cara ku berdamai dengan kesepian dan kesendirian

[@azkira08]

Hi firlyn, semenjak tau kamu, aku udah bodoamat sama cowo. Emg sebelumnya aku juga bodoamat sama cowo, but lately i was miserable karena mikirin cowo yang ga bisa aku dapetin. BUT NOWWW OMGG, I GETTING SO MUCH BETTER, focus on myself, my progress, i back to my nature 🥹🥹, to pursue my dream 🎉🎉. Buang jauh jauh cowo hahaha thank you so much girl ❤❤😍😍

[@ridhoiskak4655]

Ini singkat aja sih, klow masalah main sosmed bikin sensi ya itu benar, krena social media diciptakan gratis pasti ada hal yang diambil dari diri kita, selain gak ada privasi, sosmed itu dibuat bikin candu, salah satu formulanya itu adalah, bikin sebuah wadah video pendek bertujuan biar pengguna jadi "I have no idea what happen" karena informasi terlalu cepat dan gak detail, ketika orang buka sosmed itu video langsung ke play, dan hampir keseluruhan sosmed begitu kecuali youtube, karena youtube itu bukan buatan perusahaan besar jadi formulaanya disini aga beda. Jdi dari 2 hal ini aja udh bikin sosmed itu candu dan bikin mental manusia semakin lemah, karena 1. Informasi cepat dan gak lengkap (bikin bodoh) 2. Video langsung ke play yang membuat cara kerja otak kita itu diambil alih oleh sosmed, karena misalkan di youtube ini ada banyak pilihan video apa yang mau di tonton, dan namanya video, itu gabungan dari audio dan visual, dan kita di reallife juga pakai pengelihatan dan pendengaran, sekarang dengan bermain sosmed ini kendali dalam otak diambil alih oleh mereka yang membuat saat kita di rl jadi sensi atas omongan orang lain, dan juga jadi bukti nyata juga visual yang ada di sosmes ini bikin manusia di dunia nyata jadi ribut.

[@ridhoiskak4655]

Ini adalah salah satu alasan logis kenapa orang yang makin sering main sosmed itu bikin gak produktif.

[@marshmallowarna]

kak KZbin ku sama aja langsung ke play sendiri juga ). Tpi aku setuju sama kakanya.. Dan sebenarnya itu juga tergantung kepribadian masing² sih, kaya misalnya pintar² mengelola isi sosmed kita, mana yg hrs ditampilkan yg baik, siapa yg kita follow, and don't forget Limiting us from playing on social media (kaya di timer misal nya di salah satu sosmed kita).

[@ridhoiskak4655]

@@marshmallowarna Dulu youtube gk begitu, apalagi tahun 2016 ke bawah tuh youtube masih bersih sekali, sekarang emang agak jelek, but compare to other social media, youtube masih opsi paling aman

[@ambarwati1577]

agree! makanya sesuatu yang gratis itu gabagus di sistem kapitalis karena harus mengorbankan sesuatu dengan skala besar

[@shofaamelia3110]

You know, tapi bersyukur karena rasa flat yg kamu rasain tuh jadinya itu yang paling cepet bikin mental kamu makin dewasa dr pd yg harus sembuh dengan orang lain Karena ya kalo kamu sembuh dg org lain, itu bakal ga ada habisnya

[@dif_9899]

Hi Firly, Thanks for making this video! I totally agree with what you said. It actually reminds me of something Osho once said: 'We are born alone, we die alone. Between these two realities, we create a thousand and one illusions of being together - all kinds of relationships, friends and enemies, loves and hates, nations, races, religions. We create all kinds of hallucinations just to avoid one fact: that we are alone. But whatever we do, the truth doesn’t change. It’s just how it is, and instead of trying to escape it, the best thing we can do is embrace it and rejoice in it.'

[@edinbrah]

Thank you, kak Firlyn. After listening to the whole video, I can feel what happened to me isn't that far from what happened to you, senang rasanya ketika tau bahwa yang ngalamin hal itu ngga cuma aku, and i think it will help me so much with my loneliness from now on, setelah sekian lama aku ngerasa ngga bener-bener punya "orang lain" untuk bersandar. Even though, that wasn't necessary, I just needed my ownself :D

[@jeanners9332]

Hi firly! I’m 23 and feel so so amazed that you’re so soooo much more mature than I am! Learn a lot from you. Will take lots of note from this vid. Please keep making this type of content, big reminder for us❤ thank you

[@navic3861]

gabisa gabisa, menurut aku pribadi sendiri ada saatnya, aku bisa apa apa sendiri, namun jiwa sosialku gamau buat sendirian terus. jadi semuanya situasional

[@isabelhaya7885]

It's so weird how we're going through the exact same thing at the exact same time. I'm currently having the same exact thoughts as you. I wish we could meet all the lonely people out there and just gather in the same room so that we won't be alone anymore. In a way, I know that we aren't alone, because I'm going through this too, just like you, and we're going through this together. It's just that we're not physically there with each other to see that we're not alone. In a way, being alone is freeing. I have the freedom to do whatever I want. But I'm a human being too, I need someone I can talk to, someone who's on the same frequency as me. I feel like you and I would be great friends if we met. Anyways, good luck with your content, hope your channel continues to grow, because you're so underrated.

[@yoshinori4949]

pantulan cahaya dikacamatanya sedikit mengganggu ka, tapi topik yg kamu bawain seru banget aku termasuk yg biasa ngelakuin apaapa sendiri tapi sometime pasti ada rasa kesepian juga

[@naayyimin]

arghh thk u sour much ma online sist for the reminder💚🦋🤗

[@A.longtheriver]

kak, relate banget:)) suka bgt sma cerita deeptalk, jadi ga ngerasa sendiri hehe

[@airaa18]

Kakk ceritanya relate banget sama aku, aku juga baru selesai event besar and I feel the same, thank you for sharing kak😢😢

[@RamadhanuAjie]

Keren juga

[@fadlilahnoviarahmah7791]

hai fyrlin. i like your video. thank u for making it

[@supportsytemhuman4611]

Keren banget kak pemikirannya❤

[@syahrulnazarudin8398]

Oke gw subscribe , suka ama konten mu kak

[@ridhoiskak4655]

Keren uga

[@descanle]

I always wonder why I relate to you so much, oh we're the same age! >

[@Ssfiraulia]

How old r u?

[@descanle]

@@Ssfiraulia 20

[@ovgine]

hug kak🫂 makasih bngt udah perah fyp di aku, makasih karena udah jadi temen galau aku walaupun aku subscribers baru tapi maksihhhh bnyaakk udah bikin aku baikan sama keadaan aku sekarang btw aku gapyear dan ketemu channel kamu berasa yallahh.. aku beneeraan terharuu🥺😭🫰❤️‍🔥 sehat sehat kak sukses teruss❤️

[@eldarlnda]

pernah ada diposisi kaya gitu sedih banget

[@study-jx6kv]

Cocok yaa dengan kacamataanyaaa

[@firllynn]

YESS! I'm glad I bought it tbh🤗

[@djamaatul]

your not alone

[@hanifkayaknyaganteng8658]

Makasih kak

[@DewiSartika-dl3kc]

aaa sukaa bgt sama kakaaa pengen bgtt jdi temen kamu

[@Edh7]

Req bahasan menentukan tujuan hidup

[@IcyCantika]

Keren ka , Saya cowo umur 21 ,, saya bukan nya g mau pacaran atau macam macam hal teori cuman aku tu g bisa bersosialisasi dg cewe di dunia nyata kalo di game atau di ig wa dsb itu saya bisa ,klo di dunia nyata tuh kek gmn ya saya tuh ngrasa g asik ke cewe ,dan ngk tau tiba tiba klo di depan cewe tuh aku malu banget dan kaku

[@azkira08]

Damn, aku kebalikannya sih, aku ga bisa interact sama cowo, bisa sih dikit, dan gatau kenapa tiap dihadapkan sama cowo jadi kikuk, gatau mau ngomong apa, jadi malu banget padahal ga kenapa napa. So now, I really don’t have any male friends at all wkwkwkw, tp yaudah si temenan sama cwe juga seru seru aja

[@yawaga777]

ye🎉

[@heiseirider1051]

19 : 00 mlm jumat 19 Desember 2024 17 jumadil akhir 1446H baru liat ini telat 6 hari 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@arisfauzan5730]

gua nonton inaweekapu dan kayaknya gua paham perasaan yg lo rasain

[@nailaaulia2375]

Sama pls ☹️😞

[@jefrieraa]

Aku cowo tapi suka cara ngomong kakaknya walaupun aku ga begitu paham basa enggres tapi enak aja gitu haha

[@FIRLYYYYYYY]

Ka spill lip balm itu yg dipake di awal video

[@firllynn]

@@FIRLYYYYYYY namanya fwee brand korea

[@afifahafra912]

i feel you

[@aiueiyoo]

firllynn i'm so shocked that we're actually have the same method or principal on how to deal with loneliness, i felt so connected and understood when i watched this vid. Aku tuh anak tunggal so mau nggak mau i have to deal with being alone up until now even tho do have friends and family, and also to finally be able to acquire the skills of being comfortable with my own solitude takes a lifetime indeed! Anyways as someone who always put quite a lot hope to every one she meets, and ended up mostly being disappointed when someone that i put hopes on didn't meet my expectation i feel like i really need to applied the "expect the worst" skills haha . BTW thank you for all of your amazing video :3

[@Jiuncio]

thanks kk

[@allvidya]

FINALLY!! ❤

[@rizkidesifitriana0478]

maaf dek, netflix itu mendukung zionis israel bukan? It would be better for you to boycott it

[@yumnanurani9019]

Come here and hug kaaa🥹🫶🫂

[@a4azz]

u are soo me t____t