Carly Pearce - What He Didn't Do (Official Music Video)

[@Nessa357]

This is a song that has hit home for me! I was abused mentally and physically! And was so scared to leave, but I finally got the courage, from the grace of god! And was able to leave and hide out till it was all over with! May you have faith and live!

[@TinaJones-xo6sm]

I am emotional abused everyday and my husband makes me cry. I try and try to get help for me and him. He is to stubborn and he says he doesn't care.

[@AstraeaThora]

Leave if you are being abused, don't stay it only gets worse. ​@@TinaJones-xo6sm

[@roseaustin8366]

I've been there too! Thank God I'm not there anymore!!

[@pamhartgerink8073]

Been there and finally found a real man that loves me unconditionally. Forty years in July. Don’t look back baby girl,

[@Veton992]

He is not cheating but he is never there. I am alone all the time. He is occupied with work i am occupied with work we never talk and i am literally married but alone😢

[@pickleballgirl4937]

Wow, "what he didn’t do". Thats soooo hard. The emotion in her voice just gets me. I finally left an 18 year marriage. I don't know how many times i have listened to this song, but i cry every time.

[@travisseip665]

I send my prayers and my healing to you

[@shirleyjimenez29]

I am sorry you find yourself having to start all over again. I pray that you heal , I also pray for your new beginning that is full recovery f new opportunities.❤

[@kathychloe1181]

I am right there with you... I have been married eighteen years as... It's so hard when they don't put u first.

[@LovellaMarkland]

Me to

[@davidbarrr5087]

It breaks my heart to read the many stories of domestic abuse, and living with a narcissist. Bless each one of you ladies. There are good men out there, God can show you the right one.

[@Xjin_Eazy-Bake]

❤❤😂 feds are amazing ly doing their jobs 😘😉😊🥰😇

[@Corfecastle]

Very sexist comment. Tut tut.

[@LuanneTovey]

Where?

[@SouthernBelleReviews]

The devil's in the details I won't tell the hell That he put me through...

[@treverpettersson2082]

This whole album hits hard for me…especially this song right here. It makes me look back on what “I didn’t do” back in the past and I never really looked at it like that, from a totally different perspective…totally opened my eyes a lot more and it made me own up to all the things I didn’t do, and now I’m on my way to healing and understanding. Beautifully written song and album😎

[@Denebreus]

Well-said

[@mamabearhamilton]

Bless you, Trevor. We learn and we grow...or we don't because we simply...won't.

[@johnnydodgecountry9508]

Cool

[@rebeccagomez2942]

Send me my wife plea😢

[@lanitameyer1255]

To bad my soon to be ex husband didn’t see his bs

[@christineg3381]

This song (the entire album honestly) helped me through my divorce like no other. As tragic and sad as it is to know someone experienced the EXACT same things i did and could put it in to words was tragically comforting - if that even makes sense. Very grateful for Carly and this beautiful album she shared with the world

[@murphycormac3089]

Hello Christine 👋 how are you ??

[@mystic8884]

"Be a man of his word" ....the weight those words carry my heart drops every time i hear her sing those words...

[@josharnold5598]

Treat me right put me first hits deep one thing that sucks about music that I love so much is the memories that come with it

[@NattalieVaughn]

Yes the Devil's and the details the hell he put me tho

[@VioletDegenerate]

Serious

[@bahadortanzif8932]

Holy crap! This stuff is 🔥

[@brendenmendez8945]

shamanic experience

[@Melissa-g4p]

LEAVING THIS HERE SO IF ANYONE LIKES I CAN COME BACK AND LISTEN ❤️❤️❤️!!!!!!!!

[@deniseweeks4255]

Wow I love this song. Brings many memories back from my first Husband. We met in High School and got married at 17. Had a great few years together, but Army life changed him. This song speaks to my heart and the pain he caused me when he had with an affair with a high ranked Army's wife, that devastated me and our two girls. I never told anyone what happened, till it came out around town from hearsay. My Mom kept saying tell what he did to you. I wasn't gonna sling his name through the mud. That's not who I am. And this song came on the radio my Daughter heard it said"Mom here's your song. The one like what Dad did to you." I love the tenderness she sings the song as if she's lived this too. We Do Survive!

[@MaryHernandez-wt9gh]

I didn't say anything either. It was over. My son saw for himself the kind of man he doesn't want to be. I didn't have to say a word. Plus, I expect better from myself then to air my dirty laundry like that. I commend you Denise. I know how hard it can be sometimes. But you took the high road that very few take. Good for you hun. Yes we do survive!

[@Aliciam693]

This song is so emotional and hits close to home for so many people. I absolutely love it... and the video is beautiful!!! Well done Carly!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@text8214]

Text me 👆📥..

[@terriyoung2558]

Hello Alicia how are you doing

[@CancionesdelAlma_5656]

My first time hearing this song on the radio and I BURST into tears. Sobbing, wracking, tears. This is my marriage. My 17 year marriage. Sometimes it’s just enough looking them in the face knowing you’re their last choice.

[@TeraLester]

This song came out as I was leaving my 29 year marriage, I kept what he did private, and this song hit home to me. You can hear the pain in her voice. Great song, a great artist. Also listen to DAY one by her.. Another great one!

[@susanmarshall5473]

Left after 38 years of verbal and mental abuse. Filing for divorce. This song hits home❤️

[@destinywilliams5763]

What’s sad is what we as women have to go through with men. All the hurt and pain men put us through then go on living like we didn’t matter at all.

[@KyT.-qx1sk]

Yeppers I hear that one all my exs hubby's cheated 😢😅😂on me I feel your pain here 💔

[@fordlife6829]

not true men get the same deal you gals do trust me it's a 2-way street sad for either @@destinywilliams5763

[@MelissaFridley-xg4ho]

God bless may we carry on through smiles and heartache. Fight the good fight

[@bernadettebento1419]

What a beautiful and heartbreaking song. So very true in so many ways. Spells it out clearly.

[@margaretwilson1539]

What a song!!! What a video!!! My daughter is at the divorce process. Narcissist.. strong song....👍 Be strong...

[@teecope488]

Love when an artist can actually make you feel their lyrics....this is absolutely amazing and her beauty adds even more to the concept of it all

[@mamabearhamilton]

Art at it's best.

[@johnnydodgecountry9508]

" Selling " the song is just as important as the song itself ; and she def does a great job selling it.

[@angelakaplan522]

yes

[@teecope488]

@@johnnydodgecountry9508 🤝 agreed

[@marcelobojmic8467]

Llll

[@brandyblechl1745]

I was cleaning my house and listening to music and this song came on.......and.....I absolutely lost it!! Burst into tears with the mop in my hands and fell to the floor..... thank you Carly for your genuine, honest lyrics...I needed to hear this song but man I thought I was over most of the trauma I went through but I guess I still have some work to do to be better?!?

[@brandyblechl1745]

The messed up thing is my first husband and father of my kids put me through all of these things but I am so incredibly fortunate to have a man who does treat me right and he holds me tight, he is a man of his word and stays home because he wants to and he ALWAYS holds onto me tight so he won't loose... but I will ALWAYS have those memories and every now and then they pop up out of nowhere like today and they still hurt ALOT!! It's always in the end it isn't what he did it's what he didn't do....

[@leepandi4373]

I send you a warm hug.

[@mamabearhamilton]

Thank you for your honest post. It is possible you may be interested in one of my latest initiatives. We must teach our girls HOW TO KNOW when the relationship merits giving our everything. Sadly, we must first learn the answer to that question for ourselves.

[@johnnydodgecountry9508]

Some tunes just give people a " Wake up call " , and this is DEF one of them. Best wishes on gittin' where ya wanna be.

[@udirtynogooddog]

😂

[@lavidamia9]

Country is finding a spot in my heart again. It's because of songs like these ❤. Great song, phenomenal voice.

[@KatieVision.]

This song speaks so deeply to my past 💔 I cried when I heard it the first time. God has blessed me now with the most amazing husband , who does treat me right and put me first. Thanks for continuing to share your amazing talent with us ❤

[@jimguarro3156]

That is great so happy for you 😊

[@WhyMustYouKnowL0L]

Have an amazing day anyone who is reading this

[@utahguy058]

This song (and album) is absolutely incredible. The lyrics speak truth to millions of listeners that relate to a loved one that didn't show up for the relationship. The real and rawness of this song clearly has struck a nerve and the video helps to bring that emotion to the visual we all had in our head. Keep up the amazing country music Carly. The genre needs you.

[@joanntipton7826]

This video is awesome. I'm interested who produced it for you. The pauses in the water to the sound of you breathing added so much to the emotional journey. Keep it up Kentucky girl 👌

[@sandraherl6067]

Very well said. Alot of us sadly know !!

[@karenparker6644]

Very well said indeed....yes sadly a lot of us know the feeling....💙

[@serbcanuck]

God didn't waste an angel on Kentucky! Beautiful song, beautiful woman!

[@Penney333]

Awesome song and video! Many of us can relate to "what we didn't do" whether he or she.

[@marizamfir1586]

I listened over and over and cried like a baby. Agree how not only the words hit home, but how Carly put the emotion in it. Thank you! Speaks to breaking out of relationships with narcissistic people

[@lexiepeabody5717]

Not a marriage but this is why my last relationship ended. Beautifully written song and just hit every chord for me.

[@carlypearce58]

Wow thanks for listening to my music i really appreciate you for your supporting me and loving me fan i love you all

[@tinaschultz1976]

Same not marriage but 7 years of a narcissist and only cared about himself it’s hard I hurt but I know in time I’ll be better off

[@johnwalden6276]

Carly Pearce is to me the best new country artist in years.

[@victoriarosenberg4173]

I used to dislike country music until I met my husband. Country music as one of his favourite genre I believe because of the heartfelt stories it tells. We were married for for 24 years and had five kids. We split up nearly nine months ago. It still hurts like hell. He just sent me the link to this song and after hearing it I begin to think that maybe he finally gets it. I it hurts , it hurts so so bad . And I just don't know what do right now. Praying for clarity clarity and sending love and encouragement to all women and men out there who are hurting. May we all heal soon and find the right people will treat us right and hold on tight❤

[@lindsaythrift679]

❤❤❤❤

[@tonyallewellyn7304]

Amen 🙏 ❤️

[@leilaniduguran7905]

Did you guys work things out?

[@Bedheadsandthreads]

Sounds like you two need to make it work. I'm not hopeful mine will end happily ever after... The one I divorced was my world. This one made me get over him, THEN we got married and the real him showed up to the wedding night. Hasn't been the same since I do. Being Christian and him a former pastor, divorce ISN'T easy. If my ex called and said remarry me, I'd be gone WITHOUT a thing. Clothes on my back and NEVER look back. For now I'll just have to except my consequence of believing the first man who fakes it till he makes it... Makes it what he says should be. Now I have no friends no family here he moved us to be with a new church and turns out 8 months into the move: he HARDLY ever goes to church, he plays games all day night and I don't remember the last time he even said I was pretty, or kissed me bc he felt like it much less touched me in any way a man should want to touch his wife. Women (good ones) don't stray bc we're bored we move on so that whatever remains of our shattered selves can hopefully be used as a collage that another will have no problem loving it, like a statue or art...

[@ginasizemore5544]

If he gets it maybe it’s time to date him again and see if he does! Will pray for you and him to work it out and be happy!

[@patriciarealmuto6709]

This song hits home. I remember the day it came out. I was going though relationship struggles when it came out. It made me realize that the person I was with was not the right one…… now I’m happy in a relationship with somebody who does put me first and treats me right and fights for me. Thank you Carly for putting this song out

[@text8214]

Text me 👆📥..

[@tonyallewellyn7304]

Same goes for me ☺️ God bless 🙏🏻

[@TexasRebornMommaShow516]

I been thought a lot in life with my ex boyfriend that cheated on me with Another girl and I hope I find the right one for me

[@James-if3kc]

So nice that you can just leave a relationship when you want and then just find another one right away. Some of us don't have that luxury. Some of us never even had one because our father was a monster who kept us away from the world and didn't allow us to ever develop any social skills or relationships whatsoever. You make me sick.

[@bobyates9780]

You sure right on that

[@-autumn-9632]

❤❤this hits home. Finally in my30s with kids and I found the right man after so many years with narcissist, controlling cheaters. But it takes us getting done wrong to appreciate us being treated the right way.

[@Abby45410]

Survivor of DV and literally everything you say in this song is what he didn't do. Thank you so much for this song I needed to hear it today. Love your voice.

[@tiffany4509]

Same 💜💜

[@emmachambers4418]

Survivor here 2 ❤ this song really hits hard x

[@darlapanda8537]

Me too🩷 I will never be silenced by what he called loved

[@Abby45410]

My ex was narcissistic and emotionally mentally abused me

[@Jerry-zz2eu]

This song makes me even more committed to doing right by my wife and (soon to be) three daughters. Tragically beautiful.

[@amyschwarz8552]

Good on you Jerry! We need more men like you!

[@James-if3kc]

Quit bragging, Jerry. Nobody cares.

[@SashaMcClurg-q7s]

Good for u buddy it's so nice to hear aman say it

[@JooJingleTHISISLEGIT]

@@James-if3kc sounds like projection, he could be bragging, but he could equally be sharing hope with people. maybe deal with your insecurity before insulting people you don't know?

[@James-if3kc]

@@JooJingleTHISISLEGIT Maybe don't try to play therapist with me, pal?

[@Miss_Uno]

This song is beautiful and helped me through a relationship. I first heard it on xm, I started crying and had to pull over and just bawl my eyes out. It awesome to hear a song that you relate to during a trying time in your life, and it helps you through it and you come out stronger. Ty Carly! ❤

[@isabelburger6735]

I don’t usually comment on KZbin videos but my goodness this really touched my heart... I can literally see the hurt in your eyes and to me the water symbolizes how it washes away the pain and sets you free from all the heartache. I’m in love with the whole album and keep listening to it on repeat.

[@KittyPuppets12]

Hi

[@hallmarkaddict8455]

And how you feel like sometimes you're drowning

[@mamabearhamilton]

Good interpretation. I am looking at the fact that the water is powerful with good reason and yet she is able to stand above and walk tall in spite of the power of the water, the circumstances, and the current. Possibly waiting for the perfectly safe current to dive into where she can play and enjoy being bathed in the beauty of it all.

[@aflowergrowswild]

The support you have is really shining through this album & this song really sums that up. You did a cameo for my 3-year-old daughter's birthday a few months ago & she still gets so excited when I play your video for her. She lights up when your music comes on & I'm grateful she's admiring a strong & vulnerable woman of God. Your courage is speaking to your peers, as well as the following generations already. You have a profound gift here. Looking forward to seeing you at the Ryman on the 26th 🙏🏻

[@IWantToMature85]

Is she throwing her ex under the bus though?

[@jenniferrinaldi8808]

@@IWantToMature85 She didn't air what happened. The lyric is "All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no, it was what he didn't do." Airing the dirty details would be throwing him under the bus. Tons of songs are inspired by love gone wrong. Do they throw those ex-lovers under the bus? She also said "Mama always said if you can't say something nice, then don't say anything at all." Carly didn't get into specifics. The song really applies to anyone that had a love gone wrong and/or someone we love disappoint us. The song transcends just her experience. Carly explained the song on a video here on CMT's channel from a day ago.

[@IWantToMature85]

@@jenniferrinaldi8808 I saw some of that video. She kind of turned me off so I didn't finish it. She was somewhat bragging saying that "you want to show your ex that you are doing fine without them." That makes her seem petty and that she won't even move on. Idk why people don't call that out!

[@imechoswife]

@@IWantToMature85 Writing songs is a therapy for some people. She isn't saying what her ex did wrong (AKA throwing him under the bus) she's saying What he didn't do. Which is seriously the title of the song. Maybe as the commenter above me said, you should listen to it completely before judging.

[@aflowergrowswild]

@@IWantToMature85 I'm a songwriter & all of my inspiration comes from my own life. There's no need for a creative outlet if you're not putting yourself into your creation. If Carly ignored this part of her life she would be inauthentic...& then she'd be accused of being inauthentic 😄

[@lionaflores9359]

i spent many years with a man that didnt do alot of things. when i finally had the courage to let go of that relationship i found a man that does everything and more. Love this song!

[@danlandavazo1506]

Who doesn't love a woman with a beautiful voice singing with a twang guitar. Change the " He" to she. Talks to me. Goes both ways.

[@maevemallory2122]

This whole album is beautiful. She did an amazing job & it helped me so much

[@BradleyStewart2005]

I hear this song and it always reminds me what I need to do to keep her happy, I may be a guy but this song speaks words to even me, it also has the old country sound to it

[@SailorJaszie]

This song came out at the right time for me. I have recently split from my narcissist husband of 8 years, 11 years total and this song hits home

[@heatherrivera4507]

Same but was a way too long 20 years love this song

[@likitastarr-smith4993]

Same girl 15 years

[@AmySay]

i was recommended this song in a top ten list, and it’s such a gorgeous song!! i’m so sorry for anyone who can relate to these lyrics, you deserve peace :(

[@rayannfatimah4334]

I understand what this song is saying for close 11 years of narcissistic abuse and financial abuse. Has take a great toll on me. I'm going to file for divorce for it over, and I don't need this anymore. I am going to therapy and taking care of my health. It takes time to heal. Im a survivor, and I will get through this by grace of God

[@rexwells2772]

Im 28.. I lost my dad a few years ago.. and it was hard.. I shut down and I didn't do what I should have.. we were together for almost 6 years and I was a step dad to her 3 kids.. i regret everything i didnt do.. i was a good dad.. but i let her down alot. And she found someone who made her feel special.. so I lost my whole family because of what I didn't do... This hits hard even for me..

[@insdailymails]

❤️ We are happy this video is finally out. More music, more inspiration, more wounds getting healed.

[@b.w187]

After going through my divorce, with 2 young children that don’t fully understand the reasoning, the timing of this song was so needed. Thankfully, I am now in a relationship with an amazing man that holds on tight ❤ Thank you! Absolutely love this song ❤

[@carlypearce58]

Thanks for listening to my music i really appreciate you for your supporting me and loving me fan i love you all

[@nakgertrude2620]

❤

[@Funfuncourtneyreider85]

❤ Carly

[@mikewood8561]

I'm happy everything worked out for you. Your also very strong for taking the plunge into divorce knowing it would affect your children. I hope they made it through it all and are as happy as ever or more. I was in love with a married woman, I know - the biggest sin I ever committed, and she was crazy about me but refused to get a divorce because she had 3 children and one on the way which was mine. She didn't want to put them through the hell of divorce and 2 of them were 13 and 11 so they definitely would've been hurt. I tried telling her to do it many times but after a couple years of us being madly crazy in love and her refusing to divorce I broke it off. I just felt like I was wasting time cause she was never going to divorce. We haven't talked in 4 or 5 years now because she won't talk to me and I let her raise my boy with her husband and I stayed away. He's 10 now, she sends my mom pics. I love her, always will, and what we did was wrong and I've repented so many times but I wish she would've been strong enough to get the divorce. Idk, it must be such a hard decision. All I know is when you feel the feeling I did for her, I'd of jumped off the Golden gate bridge if it was to be with her forever.

[@patwilliams1322]

Every single thing she's ever done is amazing. I actually feel her, on a personal level on this. I know what this songs about, and I adore her for doing it when she did. And she's perfect

[@carlypearce58]

Thanks for listening to my music i really appreciate you a lot for your supporting me and loving me

[@inesbfaure9424]

This song speaks about my relationship with my narcissistic husband of 6 years of being married and 8 years together with 2 beautiful little girls.. I cry every time I listen to it.... It was a plutonic love story that was supposed to stay forever... I tried to save our marriage dozens of times but I eventually gave up.. I just filed for divorce... Wish me peace and healing whoever reading this.. 😞

[@elizabethbotros1404]

Run

[@shaedivxan8308]

God bless and guide you.

[@tabitha3152]

We do survive it's what we are meant to do for our babies 💗 you got this keep the faith ❤️

[@Neilcarfry2011]

Interesting

[@Katlynn-m7x]

I’m going through the same thing but I’m scared to leave

[@heatherjeffers3070]

Finally getting away from a husband/less than a man who pretends to be so wonderful to everyone but at home he’s anything but. This song is hitting home.

[@aprilmiller8987]

I agree with you. I am with someone who does the same thing. I love him but I am not in love with him anymore.

[@DanielleNuara]

Same

[@mari43]

Same I don’t even think I love him it’s a habit

[@shallonfreeman3100]

My husband is the same way and everyone is thinking I'm the problem but I single handedly kept our relationship together. He wouldn't budge and I can't do it anymore. Everyone thinks he is so great but he's an awful husband. I'm going thru my first week of separation

[@Hahak-k3g]

The Mr. Nice guy syndrome is what I call it

[@Countryboy.1]

Carly, your songs are real and from the heart. Your talent is beyond measure. When you sing people just naturally have to stop and listen. Thank you.

[@karatecat29]

This music video is so good!!! You’re my favorite country singer, Carly!!!!!

[@SaraNoema]

Truly have no words to express how proud I am of you CP. This was absolutely stunning. Only the beginning for this masterpiece of a song. You're the best. Always and forever. Love, Sara

[@text8214]

Text me 👆📥.

[@rhondarenee9097]

I love this song ... just left my narcissistic abusive womanizing husband after 5 years still going through the divorce ... this song has helped me cope more then you can imagine... it's a song to live by ..

[@lsalahi]

Wow, I have such a similar history-narcissist husband, 7 years with him, and still going through the divorce. He won't bring court documents with him that the judge asked for. I feel like this song is a part of my life story too.

[@garywillens7792]

Hi Rhonda. I am so sorry you are going thru this. I know just how horrible the feeling is, but for me it is from a bad woman. I look at all my divorced friends and wonder why they got married in the first place. Sending my very best nice wishes hugs to you. Gary/L.A.

[@rhondarenee9097]

​@garywillens7792 thanks gary... I'm sorry you had to go through that.. keep your head up ... we are strong and it's the only thing we can do .. I can only imagine what your going through I know I still can't sleep at night .. I hope you well and peace through this time...

[@rhondarenee9097]

​@@lsalahiI'm sorry you are having to go through this .. I hope you can overcome it and continue to have love and many years of peace .. I wouldn't wish this on anyone .. unfortunately I didn't know what a narcissist was before my ex husband so I'm now trying to educate about narcissist so that others may know what to look for ...

[@kimpollard2004]

Just separated from my husband recently. This hits home. He didn't care about me.

[@edwardwoods6605]

❤

[@samuelmorris1394]

The music video was absolutely beautiful. She did a fantastic job on it.

[@Chloxoxoxoxo]

This song came out exactly when I needed it most, it is one of those hit close to home break up songs. Happier now in a healthy relationship this song reminds now how thankful I am for the relationship I am in now.

[@xvow1475]

All I know is in the end, it wasn't what he did, no It was what he didn't do🌹♥

[@aprilmiller8987]

He always puts his self first and his friends.

[@Sweetbonbon01]

Wow. Beautiful video! The first time I heard the song it was just the lyrics video and that made me cry. This was so beautiful and validating and inspiring that I cried even harder this time. It gives me hope and faith he’s out there.

[@laurenpastoor7730]

Thank you for this song. It came out right after I found out my boyfriend of 8 years had been cheating on me most of our relationship. You put into word exactly what I was feeling. I know it came from your own pain, and I really felt that. Thank you for representing the good women who have to go through shit to find the right ones. We love you!!

[@text8214]

Text me 👆📥.

[@SpnishEyez79]

So sorry you went through this. :(

[@terriyoung2558]

Hello Lauren sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

[@calliepletcher88]

Same.

[@saragrabowski8454]

I can honestly relate to this. I learned that down the road when I find myself then ill be ready to actually find someone... I found out my pregnant by the guy who never told me he had a girlfriend while I was and I'm happy I'm pregnant always wanted to be a mom but what he did hurt me but me being a mom is what matters

[@keirajayne24]

I already sing this song at the top of my lungs now I'm gonna cry to the music video

[@andreabuzicky1881]

I'm with you sister

[@jennxed1974]

Walking away from 16 years of narcissistic abuse. I come here for a reminder to keep walking away silently to a better place

[@Adrian-yz6fd]

Same.

[@amandaaudett]

I feel you 😅🎉 Stay Strong

[@leahtenkate8785]

25 years here before I found the strength

[@Zoe-c9z]

Or loudly😅

[@lwr581]

8 here

[@samyaragsdale2053]

Hearing her describe my past relationship breaks my heart, and singing this the TOP of my lungs..

[@JoyPaul-pe7ij]

This was my marriage for a lot of years. Thankfully, God did a divine intervention. I nearly lost him, but he's now a changed man 43 yrs of marriage and 2 wonderful sons 💙

[@nanacole55]

Love reading your story of hope I am praying for a divine intervention 🙏🏻

[@mommusicandmakeupcaseywalt4793]

She seems so humble, and she's beautiful and doesn't try to be something she's not like most of them try to do. 💕

[@mamabearhamilton]

Humility makes healing possible. So does honesty. I love this song.

[@britnelson9007]

GRAMMY WINNER!! Well deserved Carly!

[@murphycormac3089]

Hello Brit 👋 how are you ??

[@kathleencasey884]

I cried to this song for months after splitting up with my narcissist husband of 12 months. Divorce is now final. This video is great.

[@jessicafallen9778]

Awwww divorces tough I'm sure keep your head up high

[@jessicafallen9778]

Congrats 🎉 on your divorce

[@brettlawson9488]

What are ya doing later?

[@terriyoung2558]

Hello Kathleen sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

[@Jessica-hv7bz]

Proud of you leaving him after a few months I’ve been trying to leave for 11yrs and hate the small loving glimpses he shows me

[@evylysk1367]

Carly has a beautiful voice and she's beautiful, too. I bet her mom & dad are so very proud of her.

[@alicethomas6472]

It's always what he didn't do. We waste so much time on the wrong ones. I really like this song. Congratulations Carly!

[@rickieg9847]

This is one very talented lady Great voice & meaning to ALL her songs no matter who she sings with or by herself. does really touch your heart & soul very moving & Beautiful. 🙂

[@S-J23]

Such a great songwriter and tells the story perfectly. Everytime I hear Carly Pearce sing I get goosebumps. It's got to be said that woman's country music is at an all time high and the talent of them all is incredible.

[@andreabuzicky1881]

Carly you are SO STRONG for putting this song and video out. I have been through awful relationships, I won't date right now...haven't for awhile. This song speaks to so many and as soon as the music starts I cry. I'm glad YOU are being honored on CMT Friday ❤

[@text8214]

Text me 👆📥.

[@terriyoung2558]

Hello Lauren sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

[@carlypearce6014]

Good Morning Andrea .. Thank you for liking my page and my Music ,thank you for the Support you showered on me..I hope you never stop listening to my music..How are you and how is your day going?hope to read back from you .....

[@RoguishNyx]

I usually don't listen to country music, but this song hit home for me. I'm sitting here sobbing bc this is exactly what I needed right now.

[@barbaraingram5147]

Y ?

[@josegomes3306]

Muito bom ❤

[@doodlebugcandiecane]

I already know the song and the words which struck a chord the very first time I heard them! If you’ve never been in this type of relationship, you can’t possibly know what it does to you, even when you think you might be ok! But the video, is visual genius to set the words a flight! Great work!!!

[@melvinsmiley5295]

Everyone deserves to be happy. Just never understood the whole cheating thing, it’s the ultimate gut punch to someone you once cared about. If you are unhappy and it can’t be fixed then be and Adult and tell the other person it’s over BEFORE you move on.

[@Ryan-bz1gt]

Relationships are a two way street you both have to put in the effort it shouldn’t just be a man’s job to fight for your love way too many people think that just because they’re in a relationship that they don’t have to put in the work and the other person should always be the one putting in the effort

[@cathyleeziemba3508]

Perhaps you are making the wrong assumption. I am sure those responding here did more than their fair share to make things work, but when you give and give endlessly and are not receiving any respect, courtesy or kindness in return, it is time to move on. It took me 26 years of trying to make life better, raising 4 kids while emotionally starving, before I got into counseling and learned you can't make it work all by yourself if the other party isn't trying at all. I have never met a divorced person who didn't choose divorce as the very last possible option after trying everything else they could to fix an unhealthy relationship. It irritates me that some people assume if you are divorced you didn't do your part, try hard enough, or gave up too easily. I had a counselor tell me if he had met me 10 years earlier he would have advised me to leave then, so I obviously went above and beyond in the 'giving and/or hoping for better' department.

[@StevenMoore-zt6bg]

Music can really be so powrful speak straight to the heart and soul.😢

[@VioletDegenerate]

Since I discovered this song I haven’t stopped playing it at least 3x a day. Thank you.

[@allabt.k1]

@carlypearce374gmailyour not Carly pearce 😂 .

[@VioletDegenerate]

@@allabt.k1 wrong thread.

[@chelseyd8433]

The way I love all of Carly’s songs is ridiculous!! She doesn’t have not one bad song. We love you Carly ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carebearkuz]

Love this song!!! Unfortunately I can relate to the lyrics!!!! I did finally find a good one about 15 years ago and he still treats me very good and puts me first!!!😊 Shout out to all the good guys out there!!! ♥️ They are out there girls!!! Don't settle!!! ♥️

[@carebearkuz]

@Carly Pearce You're very welcome!!! I loved the tribute to Loretta Lynn also!!! I wish I could have met her but she seemed like such a sweet lady!!

[@carebearkuz]

@Carly Pearce No I am not. How do you become one?

[@carebearkuz]

@Carly Pearce How?

[@mandahill1996]

U sure bc every time I think I have I am let down and put thru hell again and again.

[@carebearkuz]

@@mandahill1996 I am sure!☺️ Ask God for help to find him. He helped me! They are out there. I found mine when I wasn't looking or expecting to meet anyone. I am sorry that you have had bad luck but don't give up!!😊 God Bless you!!!🙏🙏

[@netoramos3635]

I love this song. I can feel every word. Some times we take for granted what is being done for us and don't see what we have until is long gone.

[@Linda-pw8gx]

There is something so soulful to country music, wonderful stories, lyrics and music ❤

[@deniseclark9505]

I saw Carly last night in concert in Durant Oklahoma and let me tell u all that the concert was amazing. She joked and interacted with the audience. Her songs and her voice r amazing but her personality is amazing as well. These songs all hit a special place in my heart as I am going through a broken one-sided relationship my self now.

[@tifferslady82]

@deniseclark9505 me too my friend, Damm it's hard 😢❤

[@Kevinmiller1179]

You know good country when you keep coming back to this song. Very powerful lyrics. Thank you Carly

[@samjanssen2429]

Hey Carly I love 😘🥰 ❤️ your music 🎶 girl 🤠 you did good with Kenny and Dan And shay the brothers and nat and brad of old dominion 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻On Kenny’s here and now tour was it fun touring With Kenny snd nat and brad and Dan and shay

[@carlypearce6014]

@@samjanssen2429 Good Morning Sam.. Thank you for liking my page and my Music ,thank you for the Support you showered on me..I hope you never stop listening to my music..How are you and how is your day going?hope to read back from you .....

[@Gamingwithtaylor_12345]

@@carlypearce6014I’m big fan I like your music video

[@Gamingwithtaylor_12345]

@@carlypearce6014u did good job with this video

[@RafaelNguyenAlvarez12]

Carly has such a captivating voice. Love her music.

[@Yellowroseintexas5]

Incredible! This was my life . We deserve the very best! What he didn’t do , someone else will

[@terriyoung2558]

Hello Donna sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song

[@kasandraweiskopf2053]

Just love this song. Has so much meaning and should show you what you are worth in a relationship.❤

[@christinagrosart8449]

The lyrics completely hit the nail on the head with my situation. Getting out of a narcissistic abusive 11 year relationship. Married 3 years and I started seeing through his mask and lies. I tried keeping my family together and forgive his physical abuse and make excuses for him. Separated for 16 months and can't wait until I can put this horrible chapter of my life to rest.

[@theogoldberg8919]

Sincerity,voice of gold, special talent.

[@brandychewningcaldwell379]

Gosh, I love her voice. The best on the radio right now.

[@carolinemumbua9599]

Her songs are always so relatable ...I love listening to all her it's so emotional 😔

[@FOXFAWN1]

He can do what he wants 20 years together he cheated it’s painful. I don’t know how to deal with that anymore 😢

[@FOXFAWN1]

Maybe I need stop believing in marriage …

[@elizabethbettencourt1116]

I thank God. Still crying. 23 years to be washed away in the waves. 💜🕊🙏 thank you for speaking truth in love helping so many woman. Bless you with a man willing to fight for your love. Our worth matters

[@JonteTheArtist]

I love this video and the lyrics of the song. Carly voice is smooth. She doesn't yell when she sing. Her voice is natural pure. Very beautiful. 💙😇🙏

[@lillybethford1915]

She masterfully vocalized my story. Beautiful.👍

[@sarakeville3613]

God this song hits different when you can relate😭

[@daniellehutson7766]

Yes it does 😢

[@Bombo505]

But I can tell you it gets better.❤

[@sarakeville3613]

@@Bombo505 It still hasnt i really hope it does

[@LulaMaximeMorales]

Right?

[@Jace28142]

Those words hit home. Beautiful and heartfelt. Tears are flowing.

[@brendaallen-nc6vc]

This song touches home, fourty two years! He passed away recently, now I can breathe.

[@cindyordaz411]

This song is one of my favorite songs. It really spoke to me because I was going through the same thing and now I have found somebody wonderful in my life. He is so amazing now I can put my past in the past and move on but I still love this song. Thank you thank you!

[@mikehamner240]

Bringing back real county music. Got to love her voice.

[@johnnydodgecountry9508]

Finally...and yeah...it does seem like they're realizing " Country " fans wanna hear " Country " music.

[@eimasalisio2537]

"The devil's in the details" isn't that SO TRUE for all bad breakups.. and everyone sees the details differently.. but those details don't even matter.. "treat me right, put me first, be a man of his word, stay home because HE WANTED TO" THOSE lines speak volumes and wothout any details you can already feel and heart a heart breaking.. I've cried so many times hearing this song.. and it has helped give me my strength and self respect back after being married to an extremely abusive man for 15 years.. this song tells the hurt but it also tells of the HOPE.. of finding a man that will do all of those things. NEVER SETTLE for anything less than what you DESERVE!! NO ONE in the WORLD is worth making you feel so broken all the time.. if you are currently going through a bad break up and that nrought you to this song and the comments, stay strong and know no matter how bad it hurts now and how much you feel like you are having your heart ripped our right now, keep reminding yourself there IS light at the end of it..

[@JerryWillis-m6c]

The music is so nice!!!😍😍😍

[@lizcashatt4397]

Perhaps someday I will heal being married nearly 22 yrs. Thank you for this song. In the end he wasn’t the man I married the last few yrs he changed cold and hatred in his heart.

[@caleaterry6083]

I love this song. I just rediscovered it the other day on the radio. 10/10 and I can fully relate to it!