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[@ImaginaryMdA]

Forcing 4 people to have dinner parties with people they're determined to hate, makes for great tv.

[@missy.x.6918]

And the commentary is the best!!!

[@ellietudor9347]

I think somebody talking about you right in front of your face and pretending you’re not there is equally as rude.

[@MacStoker]

its actually slap worthy

[@lillycupp5008]

@Ellie Tudor If someone would have to say that to her face I’m sure she will be so insulted and think to her self that it’s actually true but never admit it, I totally 100% agree with you.

[@missy.x.6918]

I think it’s a case of ‘all fur coats and no nickers’

[@Jamesfisher0000]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@nataliejones-lee2536]

Right??!

[@PoppyCorn144]

“Normal” people are aware of anthropology - it’s hardly a hidden science. Every single reality show is a study in anthropology, Big Brother is/was a microcosm of tribal behaviour.

[@Drehgab]

PoppyCorn144 exactly, THANK YOU

[@knightcool7769]

Exactly

[@Headie2]

I never knew cl

[@roryodonnell3142]

All that studying and he never learnt to make it sound interesting when people asked what it was.

[@pianoforte3785]

including come dine with me

[@philbecker4676]

Wow this was such a class war.

[@kencur9690]

And the higher class came out on top. Not that I particularly like these two, but I really despise “lower class” people who act and behave in a lower class. There are perfectly nice and courteous people who are not “sophisticated” - it’s a pleasure to speak to them because, while their circumstances in life prevented from achieving, or even seeking, higher education, they are still keen to learn and have discussions. Many times, one ends up learning a lot from them too, precisely because their curiosity in life has given them the education they did not get at school. These two dullards who think that talking about anthropology is boring and who laugh at idiotic jokes are certainly not representative of the latter.

[@obisan666]

@@kencur9690 I think there are chavs and low class people, these 2 have the worst traits of both.

[@victorymansions]

@@kencur9690 *prevented them

[@Paulstrickland01]

@@kencur9690 Your intellectual superiority issues are showing Ken.

[@kencur9690]

@@Paulstrickland01 and your actual intellectual inferiority was shown the second you replied.

[@GigiTanya]

The person who uploads these really needs to start publishing the episode release dates so we can find it on the website ughhhh

[@arnoldotiu8598]

Thank you. And might I add, you are hotttttt

[@IncidentalShine]

I can't believe they don't ugghh

[@coganada2468]

@@arnoldotiu8598 you need to relax thirsty boy

[@rjs69]

I found it on google in less than a minute

[@arnoldotiu8598]

@@coganada2468 stfu! You sound more thirstier than me rn.

[@ThashaPN12]

How did he asked Charles a question and then tell him he’s boring. And how was Charles using ‘posh’ language? That’s Standard English

[@melis2645]

Exactly ! Yet she was the one to ask what he does for a living, I prefer talkative people than people giving one sentence 😂what was she expecting

[@Paulstrickland01]

She's referencing the fact that his flowery use of language seems unnecessary when there's far more concise ways to make your point it seems, just my two Cents.

[@xaoccc9616]

@@Paulstrickland01 I mean the English language can be utilised in so many different ways. It seems a waste to make everything so basic and concise, no wonder the average vocabulary range is becoming increasingly limited.

[@Paulstrickland01]

@@xaoccc9616 That's how language works especially English as hybrid of other germanic languages they start complicated then become simplified over time, his flowery use of language would be fine at a Oxford University dinner but does nothing but isolate the vast majority of people not from that background.

[@xaoccc9616]

@@Paulstrickland01 I agree that you need to read the room. Also though English is a combination of Germanic and Norman French which is far more romanticised. I still believe that it is never a bad thing to use language in ways which captivate the mind.

[@exox7534]

I agree that burping is as bad as farting. But it's really bad manners to bring a book about manners to the table.

[@firstname1154]

It isn't as bad at all

[@akaurb]

Its considered a compliment in India coz that means you are full and enjyed ur meal... so if a guest doesnt burp people feel bad that they didnt feed their guest well... quite opposite to western table manners...

[@Soph149]

Amrit K. I was going to say that. On the other hand, talking loudly about a guest while they can hear you saying horrible things about them, I’m guessing is considered rude pretty much everywhere 🤣🤣

[@braintumor9811]

@@firstname1154 Shaming one for their faux pas, especially in front of other guests, is a major faux pas by itself.

[@Maz-zb9uf]

No its naturally body function

[@ospreyphil8995]

Should send it over to Jane, would help with those lessons in grace and decorum she spent £1000 on

[@princesspentagram3458]

Lol perfect comment

[@Orion3741]

...or Heather, who clearly had the knife in for Zaira.

[@LEuington6]

@@Orion3741she can’t she’s gone to bed she’s so upset

[@Orion3741]

@@LEuington6 : LOL. Excellent. Yes, that's true. She really did go to bed, after that catfight.

[@animatiz]

2:50 was really creepy he stopped smiling and stared at her cold face. Kinda odd

[@Lava91point0]

Yeah i think that was put on for the cameras, they were probably asked to do that. Notice the woman next to him smirking into her drink?

[@aishlingpaigehanlon1571]

That is never even noticed that

[@shannon3741]

it’s plain as day they were being sly to one another or a sarcastic smile

[@baxel54230]

They were doing a stare off

[@scottb9669]

I think he realized she was just staring like that so copied her.

[@YourShadowKeeper]

I remember watching the whole episode. Caroline was exceptionally patronising the entire episode and her only companion on the show whom she deemed worthy to speak civilly too Charles was a untalented man-child who bought 70% of the ready-made foods/takeaways he reheated/cooked on his night. Then threw a tantrum that Andrea and Tom said they would have preferred if he made the meals himself. Both were horrid and horrendously rude. Though Tom clearly needs to see a doctor about his gas issues because he belched at least 30 times during the filming of the four nights dinners.

[@user-dr2ms1lu8k]

Who won?

[@Harrisongarrison0800]

K teacher women

[@c-light7624]

I thought so too about Tom. I don’t think he was intentionally being rude. All I could think was, “man...he’s got some sort of gastrointestinal issue that he needs to look into.”

[@georgielancaster1356]

It is incredibly naff to have a book on etiquette and to bring it out to quote at someone. It would have me sniggering. Though I can't stand belching at table. Once is bad enough. More and I would leave the table and go home but if with friends, I would eat in the kitchen, try and belch as much as I could outside and give It a go to join people after they ate.

[@hollyjane9514]

Sorry it is equally rude and condescending to say how bored they are about someone’s conversation. Then said “He said everything in posh words and his posh little language.” That is equally as bad. Andrea spoke down to people just as much as Caroline.

[@kencur9690]

Yes, indeed: I find it amazing how somehow it is the fault of the more eloquent person that their interlocutor lacks vocabulary. I don’t mind that people don’t have a rich vocabulary - everybody should try to have as rich a vocabulary as possible, but I understand that some people have other priorities in life. Some of these people are very dear to me. That said, I shouldn’t be shamed and called out - as some people are wont to do - because I use what they perceive as “big words”. I mean, he said “anthropology” - it’s not like it’s some esoteric Shakespearean term. It’s a subject offered at every university!

[@kencur9690]

I mean, it’s not the subject that is boring anyway: it’s her.

[@walkz007]

Literally he wasn't even that intellectual ,he described everything in simple, everyday language.....

[@ThinLynottFan]

Is it just me or are they all really unlikeable?

[@dott8348]

Na i like everyone on the left side alot

[@clatterslam]

Burpy guy is okay, the rest are unbearable

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

Yeah... I don't know if I'd want to be stuck in a lift with any of them, let alone at a multi-hour dinner party

[@soundseeker63]

I see what the producers did here: Put two stereotypically "posh" people against two stereotypically "common" people and let the carnage commence! When it came down to it, they were all equally rude and snipey as each other, albeit in their own unique ways. It was all very uncomfortable, and I loved it! :-D

[@stupidhandles]

No, it was two fake posh wanna be pretenders, not two posh ppl

[@INEEDUTOWAKETHEFUP]

"In his posh little language..." What?... you mean, english??😞

[@karenyeomans4716]

INEEDUTOWAKEUP ha, us normal people ... common you mean lol

[@northide8785]

It was basic English, she's very -uneducated- common.

[@katherinawalsh9714]

I know she’s horrible

[@dannypatel9660]

Screaming, how the guy in blue literally picks his nose at the table 😂

[@aak1992]

But burping is so disgusting right 🙄

[@Kwashior]

I had a boss some time back who was from an "old money" family, very highly educated, very successful person, stinking rich and an all round charming fellow. I remember he once told me that "people who try and use french culture as a substitute for real class are trying aggressively to mask their own inferiority complex". Now whenever I see one of the boomers on this show try and act like french food and using french phrases is somehow in vogue (newflash, it's not the 80s) I always think of him.

[@Vasilia4]

She's a French teacher so it makes sense

[@gokuxsephiroth4505]

You know, I think I agree. I agree both the language and cooking of France are amazing, but it is not a substitute for class

[@wtsang1]

The hostess was for sure that one student that reminds the teacher they had homework to hand in

[@aishax5712]

They were so rude and disrespectful

[@georgia_4029]

Yes him burping was a little rude but Caroline talking about him when he’s right there was just worst tbh

[@laurastitanic]

there are always four sorts of people & these 4 represent each one: older fake tan dark haired lady: working class, most likely enjoys soaps and going to her local pub. Doesn't read books. Most likely has the "Live, Laugh, Love" ornament in her front room. Has a chip on her shoulder as she thinks everyone that uses big words looks down on her & thinks she is common. young, fake tanned man: enjoys club dance music, his Instagram is just photos of himself or with friends clutching drinks, thinks anyone that reads or enjoys education is dull, generally a bit ignorant & underneath the bravado act feels inadequate & insecure. older lady with pearl necklace: middle class,, enjoys saga magazine & frequents coffee shops. A bit stuck up, most likely dislikes tattoos and piercings, believes if you didn't go to university, you didn't do well in life. Attends II Divo concerts. younger, platinum blonde man: a loner , has singular interests that only a specific crowd will understand, feels like he doesn't fit in at times, generally gets on with everyone, pacifist, generally well rounded person.

[@Kodak718]

You went real easy on the last two and left out pretentious and judgemental.

[@Laura-cv3pu]

@@Kodak718 well they all can't be negative, some have nicer qualities than others plus 48 people upvoted this so there's that....

[@couldus7028]

you forgot the charming older guy that is friends with everyone except for one person

[@sweetspicy7880]

I still hate that Scottish woman

[@NeedMoarRage]

Wow, you have it pretty much spot on. Especially the first two which I find them quite annoying and rude. The blonde guy doesn't seem boring at all, it's just that the first two are just dim or at least ignorant.

[@alisha2016_]

The blonde guy is very intelligent he seems interesting I wouldn’t mind listening to him talk for hours

[@crazyhorse769]

Wise up you moron

[@Followthebuzzards689]

@@crazyhorse769 Woosh

[@TheMovieTrailers2U]

I think a first year undegraduate could understand him... i don't think he's that smart just was trying to impress a crowd that he knew wouldn't understand him

[@annabelsummer2643]

@@TheMovieTrailers2U Yeah, I studied sociology, anyone who studies social sciences would understand him (or anyone who reads a lot).

[@scogchamp]

he just seems like an average guy who has received an education- unlike the others at the table.

[@zed3063]

They all hate each other and they’re all so rude 😭

[@AI-tc8fv]

Burping loudly is a bit crass but speaking about someone as if they aren't there is also a bit crass. Can't stand these stuffy types. Bet they've got soft hands with no blisters

[@carolflower8015]

Burping is disgusting - bringing up the foul odours from the bottom of your stomach in someone else's presence is the height of rudeness

[@doryexplory2029]

What does crass mein in English? In Germany it means 'extreme'

[@pomegranatemolasses6432]

@@doryexplory2029 vulgar and uncouth

[@aak1992]

@@carolflower8015 yeah if you openly burp up in someone’s face, tf kinda burps do you have that make the whole room smell 😳

[@bronwynburke270]

@@aak1992 I mean I think both sides were a bit rude, but I don't think he necessarily burped on purpose and he apologized right away

[@Thecoochincanoocheecreek]

Charlie’s definition of anthropology was very anecdotal.

[@dominiclewis1408]

Why is this in my recommended and why am am so addicted to watching them😂

[@abbigailstone5235]

“They’re idiots because they won’t let me dominate the conversation”😂

[@Harrisongarrison0800]

Low IQ

[@c-light7624]

I’m replaying this to find the long words being used 😂

[@aidenriley1046]

imagine being happy your natural accent was educated out of you so u could feel superior to those around you

[@annedonnellan6876]

I value authenticity.

[@annedonnellan6876]

Be proud of who you are

[@annedonnellan6876]

You are a unique and special person. Value your uniqueness By all means, incorporate the qualities and skills you value in others. But never sacrifice your own special unique qualities

[@doryapo9778]

Burping while at the dinner table is just plain rude. I love the blonde guy he seems intelligent and classy.

[@dsopa9992]

dorya po actually in some cultures it’s a sighn of appreciation to a meal

[@firstname1154]

It's not rude

[@rhinodonkey7339]

Burping without excusing yourself would be rude imo sometimes it can't be helped.

[@slykey_8552]

It’s bants why you so boring lol

[@nothanks1516]

He did say "excuse me" though. What else was he supposed to do? I get that it's bad manners to burp in the first place but it's not like he's not acknowledging it

[@Jojo-kp5eb]

James acting all posh and goody two shoes with elbows on the table 😂🤣

[@SimonBinning]

They are all so cringy lol

[@lalas3793]

Just because ur well spoken doesnt mean your posh! I'm common and wouldn't class him as posh! It's refreshing!

[@nadominhoca]

The casting Manager of this show is a beast!!

[@hcfyhvc677yvxg]

Nonce? If so wheres the proof

[@Emjolein]

That burp was on purpose, LOVE IT HAHAHAHA

[@tejsoneji]

1:53 - the posh guy has his elbow on the table and he's talking about manners 😅

[@ambitioussoprano]

The lady who showed an overt dislike for the escargot... so immature Edit: Forget what I said. She needed to get her revenge on Caroline after her rudeness on her night about the chicken.

[@nick13588]

Why can't I stop watching these clips!

[@WhatTheHeather]

I feel like a lot of these people on the show is every stereotype and joke about British people rolled into one.

[@future288ify]

Caroline talks about etiquette but Charles had his elbows on the table not a work was said

[@BMarie774]

I’d rather sit at a table with someone who burps, than someone who makes me feel super uncomfortable and judged.

[@annedonnellan6876]

Surely hospitality means making guest feel welcome

[@morgan5324]

That was a mad one, I would not of liked to been apart of that night 😂😂

[@thomasmartin3062]

*would not have liked

[@aussieaussie4848]

“She thinks I’m one of her pupils” dude your pupils like you’ve taken 7 caps of MD lad

[@1EVERTONION]

Where’d that blonde guy come from. I swear in other episodes it’s a different guy

[@janiah5622]

he was there first but somehow he disappeared !

[@mmrwong3533]

It was, but the original guy got sick so they had to replace him with Charles

[@1EVERTONION]

Wizhu Rha ahh that makes sense

[@sashaiscalledsasha]

Talking about burping, farting, and pooping around the table is equally as rude as burping 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@annedonnellan6876]

I worked with a girl from a really prominent family. She always made the other person feel important and. Valued

[@awesomesauce2000]

@@annedonnellan6876 okay??

[@christiaanbruin4989]

I almost died during that silence

[@marioskublan7273]

Bring them back for a part 2 please

[@monicazinha]

1:36 Charles looks like a Brit version of Roger Klotz 😆

[@ManuelPabloArnao]

Who doesn’t know what anthropology is?! All he had to say was ‘it’s the study of humans within different cultures.’

[@dva5610]

But it’s more focused on the themes of positionality which makes it different from its application in other subjects e.g medicine compared to sociology etc.

[@shaunmhm5274]

Swap that Charles guy for someone a little less irritating

[@hepcat3]

swap? lol

[@yungnoodlearm]

He was actually swapped in after the original guy became sick

[@INEEDUTOWAKETHEFUP]

I like him😌

[@TomorrowWeLive]

What's wrong with him? he's the least irritating other lot lol

[@annedonnellan6876]

Charles is so polite

[@savannaontour]

Great Video Sam! We go to Disney World on Friday but this has got me missing DLP! One of my favourite Disney memories was my first ever time going to Disneyland Paris, I was about 6 and I still remember it (terrible memory otherwise!😂). It was snowing, thick snow which made it even more magical. Me and my cousin were making snow angels and then we saw cast members walking Mickey Mouse to a backstage area. I can’t remember who threw the first ball… but as he walked past, myself, cousin, auntie and uncle all ended up in a snowball fight with THE Mickey Mouse! I’ve never forgotten it… it’s quite surreal thinking about it.

[@tomoliver2112]

They all come across as pretty awful tbh.

[@Princessmjjx]

I really don’t want to be horrible but does anyone get young Jimmy Saville vibes from Charles? His face only nothing else!

[@exox7534]

It's the exact skin tone, thin nose, and similar hair colour

[@anuradharanasinghe1901]

The hostess is actually pretending to he posh without actually being posh

[@naomibell9965]

Didn’t know bagga chipz was on come dine with me?!!!

[@kingjam3s540]

2:52 loooooooooolollllllll lol 3:49 as french speak the narrator killed me lol

[@1827Beethoven]

Bringing out a book of etiquette is the worst etiquette.

[@asarwar252]

In some countries its custom to burp at the end of a meal and is considered rude not too.

[@adrianabratescu250]

I don't think Caroline is like a french onion soup, all those layers...more like a solid block of lard, equally refined.

[@veckym9805]

People are so envious when they are see that someone is very smart 😀

[@gleadhill79]

I've come to the conclusion that 'posh' is another word for rude! Well done Caroline 🤢

[@chazzathfc]

Caroline is my re teacher she told us that she was on this and she actually is 🤣🤣

[@mymedsstoppedworking]

Oh come on, he apologized.

[@reginamushi6582]

Cheers for the upload

[@KL-nw9mi]

No it’s not it still stinks 😂😂😂😂

[@sexiiegirl123]

What snobs🤣

[@KeepAnEyeOnDan]

The divide down the centre of that table 😂 I’d much rather be on the left side.

[@dickdastardly635]

The commentator really makes this show .

[@Talentedtadpole]

They are all rude people. The hostess is a pitiful snob.

[@DixonSimonLee]

hyacinth bucket! lol

[@crogg8889]

Burping at the table is revolting but Caroline isn’t there to teach manners

[@jamesthompson8084]

Is it just me or do you find that I British people try to do a French dinner party it's almost always because they're trying to look posh as possible?

[@ThatRandomChannelTRC]

I agree - While burping is extremely rude and exactly like a fart..... Talking to someone about you whilst pretending ur not there......personally....id knock them out after the shower

[@MRCANZ00]

0:55 swear he’s taken MD look at the size of his pupils😂

[@z_3.R-000]

Burping = pooing

[@idax111]

How are they ALL unlikable in their own little way

[@ninaelizabethdewitt]

Burping is considered to say you enjoyed the food in some counties.

[@carolflower8015]

The important thing to get over with snails is not what they are but the way they are killed

[@Zaihanisme]

I’d pretend to be unwell and leave if I had to be with this group of people.

[@adamwallis5903]

CHARLES HAS HIS ELBOW ON THE TABLE!!!!!

[@broms316]

Geez the salty, snidely, forked tongue crocodile smiles were none stop.

[@bagabones5580]

They literally all dislike each other it’s so awkward & uncomfortable

[@ScribblebytesWorldwide]

I love Charles. He was a bit rude about calling out his friend but I'd have dinner with him out of everybody.

[@lovebotrubber7429]

caroline is my teacher at school😭😭

[@Siaori193]

They seemed to all be rude to each other at some point😅

[@BaracudaFTW]

Caroline seems like she’s very insecure, she tries to hard to impress people and seems to obsess over her image

[@dolceanstar]

I've told all the children that I've ever known, who said, "I'm bored". "Bored people are boring!!!"

[@Clone54_]

I love the narrator

[@MoonSnoozer]

It's funny how this turned into a class war, how the others who didn't understand Charles' subject automatically became very intimidated by his knowledge and then decided It was a class thing.. I went to university and studied quite a complex architectural subject and I grew up on a council estate. I just think that they felt a threat towards the others just because of their accents and professions, etc. This does not define people, learn about them and give people a chance.

[@thegreatsaffouf]

First of all...Scotland doesn’t claim her.

[@TheBlondeyBoy]

Agreed...

[@weg5856]

The Great Saffouf which one was from Scotland ? They sounded English to me

[@naomib9989]

They're all as bad as each other 🤣🤣

[@Mis_wangui]

This was a funny episode 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Christislord7100]

Love the blonde guy 😂😂

[@greenyblueish6138]

Why is it when people choose to speak an behave properly it's deemed negative. When you have to deal with people who choose to be seemingly "normal" it makes me irritated, when in company why don't you respect the host!!

[@BelgraviaTottie]

Emilie Holmes When she attended Andreas evening, she actually acted very negatively and did not always behave “properly” as you say. She was very rude and made a remark about giving Dave, her food and running into the kitchen to make toast, she corrected and criticised others food, manners and behaviour which is not etiquette at all. Although not burping, putting your cutlery in right position, having no elbows at the table, finishing your food and not criticising the dish/complaining about it, are all behaviours/attributes I’ve been taught to do, or not to do. I’d never embarrass others at the table for their behaviours, in their homes on their nights. That’s simply not proper behaviour, as you ever so eloquently put it. I do however, agree that their manners at the table weren’t the best. She didn’t handle it correctly and was quite pompous and patronising.

[@greenyblueish6138]

@@BelgraviaTottie I didn't watch the whole episode so just commented on that particular snipet of that episode.

[@abbieisakilljoy6977]

Speaking without an accent is not ‘speaking properly.’

[@greenyblueish6138]

@@abbieisakilljoy6977 I don't have an accent and and have survived great. What do you define as 'properly'?

[@abbieisakilljoy6977]

Emilie Holmes speaking WITH an accent does not mean that you are not speaking properly.

[@poppyclark8379]

How can I watch the full episodes?

[@Notwhoyouknow.]

That's my teacher 💀💀💀

[@toppatoppa5236]

Burping is a natural body reaction to stomach gasses.. but there's a way to do things, Farting is next level cause it stinks

[@donnyreiss1180]

burps can stink too bringing up stomach gasses.

[@Kodak718]

What do they expect him to do if he needs to burp? You say excuse me and we all move on 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@karenyeomans4716]

Kushie54321 you get a napkin, Burke into that, apologise and move on.

[@Kodak718]

@@karenyeomans4716 you dont need to waste a napkin to burp. And regardless of how you do it, the burp will happen. That's my point.

[@karenyeomans4716]

Kushie54321 there is a polite way to do it... that’s my point

[@sineadciara1728]

@@karenyeomans4716 everyone burps tho what's her problem she does to and it was impolite of her to bring a book about manners anyway

[@cmofficial2261]

I feel ashamed to be named Charles 🤦🏻‍♂️😂

[@yootooberwosere]

Poor Charles, seems like a nice guy