Victims Romance Scam Leads To Eviction And FBI Involvement!

[@CatfishedOnline]

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[@francesfehrman741]

Payment for mailing computers. Keep $$$. Any other $$ go to police

[@Ty-1452]

Catfished team, I love what you do, but you did a crappy job in explaining to her the situation. This woman is not intelligent enough to understand that the person in the photos is a victim, too. She still thinks he is the one who scammed her. All the research you did isn't worth anything if you can not explain the situation in a way a victim like this will understand. She is probably talking to the same scammer as we speak.

[@soysaucegirl2007]

Evicted from her home, FBI on her case, lost bank accounts, family breakdown. This woman is beyond help.

[@katarina1852]

I agree!

[@HopefulInterventions]

Well said.

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

Instead of taking care of herself and her teeth, she sends all her money to the scammer and then smiles coyly about it--like she's a silly teen.

[@lynnparrish1335]

The hair?! She can no longer get a haircut?

[@brandonmoskos9149]

And still wants to be with the dude. Lmao

[@donnaleeclubb119]

I knew a relatively well kept 55 year old woman named Linda.. She was online dating. The minute they asked for money, her answer was: "Oh, Linda doesn't give men money. Men give Linda money." LOL 😅😅. End of scammer.

[@GretchenV95]

What a Queen. 😂😂

[@demontferrat]

@@GretchenV95don’t call them Queen 😂

[@sunflowerlady2057]

Queen 👸

[@ElizabethPienaar-tx9lh]

Brilliant!

[@englishsteel-nz6im]

Linda is a boss lol

[@nonieshealthbeautyover6070]

I am a very intelligent woman, but I can't watch today because Johnny Depp is waiting for me at the airport. ❤

[@lisapizza6494]

😂

[@Didjeridoolove]

😂👍🏽🤣

[@lindarusso2557]

😂

[@femalehuman8766]

Hahah🤣 yes, and George Clooney has just left his wife for me!

[@donnamariegrant9204]

😂😅 send pictures

[@janepurcell6747]

My grandmother is from Slovenia, my dad is from Mexico and my mother is from Switzerland. Which is why I have a Nigerian accent.

[@celestialknight2339]

💀

[@marthaindiana]

@@celestialknight2339😂

[@terryfilkohazi2237]

A woman was talking to a guy born in Norway and came to the United States at age 12. He claimed his accent was Mexican. 😂😂😂😂

[@Iburn247]

Checks out 😂

[@ChristyCarrillo-cj7xd]

Makes sense thanks

[@vilmalaurel8833]

I notice that slippery slope of playing the victim. She states how HE is ruining her life, how HE is ruining her relationship with her family. No, doofus, YOU are the one ruining your life and making yourself the fool.

[@citizenjoevotes]

Absolutely. Until she accepts her part in this and addresses it, she will go back. I’m glad that she is paying her children back. Full restitution is a step forward for them all.

[@nickimillennium]

She also referred to herself as innocent at one point. Yes, ignoring the FBI and continuing to help a scammer screams innocence . Women like this are way too coddled their whole lives.

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

Yea, people in these relationships are like gamblers, they don't see they're throwing money away, they see it as an investment for the future.

[@rayhill5767]

Narcissistic drama The drama gives her supply Positive or Negative

[@oaklandmade007]

You see the projection!

[@RasheedahNizam]

Not everyone can provide an inheritance for their children, but at least we should all try to be financially independent so that they don't need to pay our bills. It's hard enough for young ppl to take care of themselves these days. Paying our rent so that we can keep our online fantasy going? Just selfish.

[@fightingtosurvive6527]

Exactly 💯

[@jodyknowlton6775]

Yeah, that’s why I would never take money from my kids never

[@rabidrabbitshuggers]

They don’t just do it through romance scams.

[@jodyknowlton6775]

@@rabidrabbitshuggers yeah that’s true I got off Facebook dating it seems that’s all that’s there is stupid scammers

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

I absolutely agree!

[@garethLLB]

The moment the FBI became involved and she continued to communicate with this criminal, she stopped being an innocent victim and became an accomplice. Ignorance is no excuse in the eyes of the law.

[@missincognito2666]

The FBI has to watch the video lol

[@hoosierbaddy3052]

Ignorance of laws has never stopped them from being imposed on us. If that were the case, we’d know of a handful of laws. From which we can only be arrested for? Laws don’t care whether you understand them or agree with them for them to be established and enforced. The myriad of universal laws are immutable therefore unavoidable as well. I agree. Once the feds were pulled in bc she took her mule/laundering money to the police, it was now under federal investigation. Yeah, time to stop a love relationship when international laws are being broken. Ones big enough to earn time away. To me, she lacked enough internet savvy to consider a scam was being perpetrated. Mostly bc of her advanced age. They can’t help it. My mom is close in age. Sometimes she needs help unfiguring out problems. Yeah, weird. Meaning I have to back a problem up several steps to see how/where it went buggy. She’s not an idiot. Just unfamiliar with technology and electronic devices. Luckily she’s not looking for love/companionship.

[@christopherdunn3094]

Exactly. She is officially part of the scam. Book her on fraud charges.

[@taliabraver]

She said its time I ended it.Problem is it never started.

[@adammonahan687]

She's belongs in a damn prison or hospital! People like this actually vote and help choose the leaders of our country! It's insane

[@velocepeyet]

He wasn’t her type of guy - her being such a knockout 😂

[@MTASHUNKAB]

😂😂😂

[@Makgeulli]

😂😂😂

[@robertsmith3672]

She needs a mirror in the house.

[@deenad3562]

The toothlessness or the Mitch McConnell face?

[@RaShe105]

She is just in denial or trying to make herself seem better by downplaying everything

[@FrenchMartini]

SPOILER ALERT: He's not real!

[@alvaro3831]

HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@flapjack5600]

😂

[@ginaanelli9717]

Dang! Now you went and did it!😆😆

[@henrydzramado8158]

He is 😏

[@jeank5410]

I’m still going to watch anyway 😂😂

[@alexandrajones2196]

Love that she said she "innocently" gave him all her CHECKING ACCOUNT info. After the FBI & her kids warned her. No ma'am. You are complicit.

[@missc258]

Lol i noticed that too🤦🏼‍♀️

[@MarciaHooley-fr7qj]

Nobody should have to warn you NOT to give your damn banking information to anyone, much less a stranger!

[@WobblesandBean]

Sandra is just like my mother. She trusts complete strangers over her own children. If we tell her not to do something for safety reasons she'll immediately do it, because she assumes we don't know what we're talking about. Yet, she'll blindly trust a total stranger. This is why my sister disowned her and I am low contact with her. She also refuses to accept culpability for ANYTHING. No matter what, she will deny ever doing anything wrong. Boomers and hypocrisy are synonymous.

[@shadegreen5351]

​@@WobblesandBeanI used to trick my mother into taking advice. She always thought I was a child, even in my late 30s. For some reason she trusted my sister fully. Any advice or suggestions she took from her. I would contact my sis, get her to contact our mom, tell her the exact thing I recommended to our mom yesterday, and bingo, done and done.

[@Gloria_Williams]

@@grenade8572 Wow! That's got to be super frustrating!!! I can't even imagine that, but it's so ridiculous it's a little funny!

[@landonmiles97]

I’m going to guess this woman also believes she is intelligent and isn’t naive.

[@thebehebak]

Or somehow she's 'different' and that her scammer has truly fallen in love with her and meant to be together.

[@karinaurena7168]

🤦‍♀️

[@donnaleeclubb119]

Or she's plain stupid. There is that possibility also.

[@tinaalexander8719]

And good looking!😂

[@willowthistle3648]

I saw a bunch that said they were psychologists. Then, one showed a 'degree' from the 'University of Phoenix'. One of those online college courses... I'm probably nuts, and if I told a real psychiatrist what's going on in my head, I'd probably go on a nice, long trip to a mental hospital. I mean vacation resort. Except with any of these people. I'd be normal by their standards.

[@danacarpenter3289]

I’m amazed at how they can keep a straight face listening to these people.

[@Fannylouisa]

ahahahha. and looking at the missing tooth without laughing ahahah

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

If you have an elderly parent or grandparent who refuses to believe that the person they’re talking to is a scammer, and they’re giving them money, talk to an attorney about taking conservatorship of the person. That person will be angry, but they will thank you later.

[@Hey_its_just_me_to]

Yes immediately, the longer they wait the worse it gets!

[@cgee6867]

That can take a lot of money to get into court and it is not illegal to give anyone money.

[@ThatArabGirl10]

@@cgee6867 That is true.

[@Sashazur]

Even if they’re angry and NEVER thank you later, YOU’LL still thank yourself. Because they’ll be angry anyway as soon as you tell them they’re being scammed. Better they’re angry and still have money at least.

[@triciadevereaux9601]

And even if they don’t thank you, at least they won’t wind up out on the street.

[@outpost206]

Oh my god, when she was describing that whole Apple computer/shipping nonsense, all I could think was, "this is the scammiest-sounding scam to have ever scammed."

[@src5769]

And the scammer received $3,000 ea, and she didn't ask for anything!🙄

[@m-o-l]

5,000 dollars is a pittance compared to the others we see on here ..

[@lmusima3275]

She lost thousands and her home in this ridiculous romance scam. Her family had warned her she was being scammed and they got fed up

[@HandbagDiva]

@@m-o-lShe’s on Social Security which is peanuts in the US. She’s given him more than she had. They use the ones without money to launder the cash they get from other scams.

[@Drewsalems_Lot]

Scammy scammy scam scam!

[@conniedeshazo3031]

Her cocky attitude doesn’t cover up for her real ignorance.

[@oaklandmade007]

It's getting on my nerves.....

[@KELLY-maybeiCudBeUrGirlfriend]

Well said! I was getting annoyed with how cocky she was being.

[@cellytron]

Not even a little bit. She is nowhere near as delightful as she thinks she is.

[@janedarndoe]

Nor her looks 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@susanlett9632]

I can't stand most of these so called victims. This one is REALLY grating on my nerves! I detest her.

[@sulaprince]

She sounds like she already knows all the answers ...so why is she even asking for advice .. 😣

[@randommusings4957]

The way she had to emphasize that he's not her type and he's just " okay" 😂

[@operabuff4587]

LOL

[@madelineprofio2352]

Omg that’s kind of what bothered me the most out of this whole video!! Like we KNOW you think he’s attractive, he IS attractive. Admit that you’re shallow and that was a big part of her getting so hooked into this. If he was someone in her “league”, no WAY she would have gotten so mentally wrapped up in him to be committing crimes for him.

[@CH-od8ni]

She actually begins her description of him with “he was average weight” after saying that he was not someone she would usually go for. I can’t believe what I am hearing.

[@susanlett9632]

😅😂

[@donnaleeclubb119]

LOL 😅😅😅😅. He has teeth. Maybe she wants someone toothless too.

[@mikemcmike6427]

There comes a point in some of these stories where the person goes from an unknowing victim, to an active willing accomplice purposely ignoring the red flags and helping a criminal.

[@ingefriedbianca]

Some people are very naïve and too weak to acknowledge red flags, but they’re not at fault.

[@ingefriedbianca]

@@purenkool2024 At 70 yrs old not everybody has the experience of a parepatetician…

[@pamelajefferies3197]

If you go from victim to helping a criminal makes you a willing criminal . She is a criminal if she is laundering money.

[@pamelajefferies3197]

She is at fault at this point.

[@willg6199]

@@ingefriedbiancaThe police literally told her. Who more needs to tell her?

[@angelmission]

I hate when someone says, "This can happen to anybody" NO, it can't! There are certain people this can happen to. These people are extremely naive, Extremely lonely and/or have a character flaw themself that lures them in. This could not happen to just anyone.

[@SueRosalie]

the initial attempt at getting a scam started can happen to anybody, I get those fake fb profile friend requests nearly every day. But of course going any further, only happens to those who ignore the red flags.

[@angelmission]

@@SueRosalie I agree. But they generally will say anyone can get scammed. To me, getting scammed is not merely someone trying to scam you, but succeeding.

[@Uglyoldhag]

Scammers are clever by using obvious fake profiles and obvious fake language and promises. They target the lower intelligent people.

[@myopinion6092]

delusional that a Younger handsome man would deal with her..she needs someone to buy her a mirror! and Glasses

[@barbarasi4799]

You have to be gullible to think that a vital, good looking man would take an interest in an overweight, much older woman. I can’t believe they believe some guy saying that they are so beautiful when they definitely are not. I’m 67 and overweight and I was reasonably nice looking back in the day. My face is okay now but nobody tells me I’m beautiful. Look in the mirror ladies. 🥴

[@domesticdiva0324]

It’s funny how people can send ridiculous amounts of money to strangers they never met but can’t spend it in proper dental care. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ivanaandric5703]

I was thinking the same exect thing!

[@ericzerkle5214]

LOl she has horrible teeth!

[@WobblesandBean]

Sandra is just like my mother. She trusts complete strangers over her own children. If we tell her not to do something for safety reasons she'll immediately do it, because she assumes we don't know what we're talking about. Yet she'll blindly trust a total stranger. This is why my sister disowned her and I am low contact with her. Boomers and hypocrisy are synonymous.

[@imnoteamplayer]

@@WobblesandBeanI’m so sorry that your mother is like that! That can only be… way beyond frustrating. I’m imagining you trying to warn her time and time again … I’m glad that my mother listens to me about online scams and the like. Which in part she does because she’s not afraid or ashamed or too stubborn to admit that I’m simply more tech and internet savvy than she is.

[@ivanaandric5703]

@@WobblesandBean I'm sorry you have a 'mother' like that. Mine is all you just said plus a raging narcissist, so unfortunatly I comletely understand bc I went through it...

[@tessy28]

Obsession with being desirable to others leads to mental illness and falling for scams like this.

[@Sashazur]

It can also be the other way around, certain kinds of mental illness can make you a perfect scam victim.

[@lynnparrish1335]

She refers to it as a “habit” which, in her case, filled a need or lack in her part. Let’s remember, she married multiple times, and that’s significant. But I don’t equate mental illness with stupidity, and the primary “diagnosis” imo is stupidity.

[@isay207]

Should have spent money on dental work

[@Wisepati]

And these people vote. They don’t have enough common sense to take care of themselves.

[@Sinsteel]

@@lynnparrish1335 Stupidity means something like she's unintelligent, not that she repeatedly makes the same mistakes. "Stupidity" is way too broad, she's making these mistakes for underlying reasons of personal need for validation, it's not "stupidity".

[@SummerofKittyLove]

She thought he wasn’t good-looking enough for her but she was ok with it 😂

[@marknewton6984]

Huh?

[@dayp8125]

"In the beginning it's not someone I would've chosen to date" Me: Ma'am 😐😑

[@NicoleNotNikki]

😂😂😂

[@wenb9270]

Maybe she like chocolate

[@nineteenfortyeight]

You can't choose to date someone who has no interest in you.

[@Kim-yx2ye]

"I have saved $5000 under my floor boards for you" Also: "Hurry and me $97 for WiFi and $800 for a ticket home to you". Ridiculousness.

[@livw2180]

"I innocently gave him all of my information" - not the adverb I would use 🙄

[@Oliviaandtrina]

I caught that too. Like wtf does that mean?

[@nickimillennium]

“Stupidly”is the preferred choice.😂 But isn’t it interesting how she makes sure to frame herself as an innocent victim instead of taking full accountability. Most of these people are narcissistic and manipulative.

[@kdeloris2225]

She very willingly gave him her personal information. That's what she should've said.

[@maddygs698]

@@Oliviaandtrina I guess she meant something like being innocent or foolish like a child. “Naively” or “foolishly” would probably be a better word

[@nadogrl]

@@maddygs698- That’s still too kind…”Stupidly” would be more accurate.

[@LindaKayHolevas]

She’s awfully smug for being in this situation. 🤦‍♀️ SMDH

[@lisakrieg3076]

Yes!! She certainly is and extra over confident​@@gasmith7486

[@Luisa-H208]

Yeah her demeanor makes me strongly dislike her. I don’t feel bad for her at all. She’s in my top 5 of “yeah, they deserved it…”.

[@anny1_232]

@@Luisa-H208no one deserves it.

[@marknewton6984]

She will do it again.

[@lisakrieg3076]

@@marknewton6984 oh yes, she will.....

[@CatherineB554]

I'm sure she was told by the police and FBI that this was a scam, yet she continued on. She deserves whatever comes her way.

[@katieanderson1040]

The bank ,western union and her family.

[@Xxboomcrew41xX]

​@@katieanderson1040women are delusional, regardless of generation

[@hellooutthere8956]

Ppl like you "deserve" to get a wake up call.

[@ingefriedbianca]

People who are so cold, ruthless and callous to say that a victim “deserves” to be victimized, are people who have suffered extensively all types of humiliations that have completely desensitized them.

[@XxRipperRooXx]

​@@ingefriedbiancaOr maybe we are people who are tired of morons who burn bridges and ruin their lives on a obvious scam.

[@kennymudder99]

“No, He’s not my type” says the old woman with half her teeth😂

[@julie5001]

She's so full of herself. 🤮

[@hughhemmerich8854]

😂

[@ercanbanka5377]

it's kinda sad , because normally in a world long before us , humans respected each other no matter your physical appearance .

[@skibee421]

@@ercanbanka5377 if u grow old together, yeah..

[@chezfun]

Not to be mean but I guess I will be, she ain’t no prize! As my son says, she’d have to sneak up on a glass of water to get a drink.

[@dve43v3r]

Imagine being OLD AND TOOTHLESS AND SAYING THATS NOT YOUR TYPE. Lol it’s the AUDACITY FOR ME! 🥴😭🤡😂

[@ThepupsnameisBrian]

OMFG I CAUGHT THAT TOO!!!!

[@ChrisAndCats]

Just being old doesn't take away the type of person you're attracted to. You just have to be realistic once you get older.

[@Hexighost]

lol, know your s@xual market value; if you're a toothless old termite riddled shack and a mansion with marble columns wants to be with you, granny, its a scam

[@MsMedford]

Lmaooooo right.

[@ThepupsnameisBrian]

@@ChrisAndCats yeah, except that guy is so far out of her league they could be on different planets

[@pencilcase8068]

This is almost as bad as the one who was emotionally cheating on her husband who ended up divorcing her. You guys are extremely patient since even her children disowned her

[@mamadude505]

She's pretty despicable.

[@HopefulInterventions]

@@mamadude505Exactly!!

[@AnnieBooker]

She’s gonna go right back to it

[@Pureimagination200]

It’s their business to be nice to these “victims”. Without them there is no social catfish but I know they will never go out of business. New scams are always being invented

[@Pureimagination200]

@@mamadude505and mean

[@breathnstop]

"I didn't have anyone else in my life just my kids." What a crap thing to day. You didn't want to leave them something?

[@SueRosalie]

"just her kids". My kids are everything and irreplaceable.

[@hereweare2031]

Just her kids..who pay her rent. Doesn't seem like she knows what love is.

[@sheilawilliams9080]

It’s interesting how many women (and men) put even the possibility of a romantic love interest over their concern for their own children and grandchildren.

[@nineteenfortyeight]

These people are often surrounded by love of various kinds, and undervalue it. 😢

[@michaelmclaughlin261]

"Hello beautiful, did you eat today? I am stuck on this oil rig but keep an eye out for a box filled with cash and cell phones that will be mailed to you..."

[@KimSpurre104]

😂

[@Aintitgrand]

😂

[@Aintitgrand]

Did I eat today? I eat ALL day 😂

[@donnahilton471]

Letting anyone open an account in your name is the utmost in stupidity!

[@Dotthel]

This woman is so focused on what she doesn’t have - aka a man - that she doesn’t focus on what she has - health and a loving family. She is blessed and doesn’t even know it.

[@matchhunter7012]

A woman always wants a man for security and provision because they are wired that way. So she is missing something very important and that's why the scam worked on her.

[@Dawnella66]

But but but, she was getting NONE of that..​@@matchhunter7012

[@nickimillennium]

If she cared about her family in the first place, she wouldn’t have burdened them. No surprise that she takes them for granted.

[@crowsarefab]

@@matchhunter7012 i am a woman. Was divorced when I was 26 and never remarried or lived with anyone. I got qualifications, worked hard and looked after myself.

[@BMALB2023]

​@@matchhunter7012 Not always wired that way. That is too much of a generalization. I'm in my '60s, lost my husband of decades to cancer. I am loving the freedom to do what I want, enjoy my grandkids and family and stay very busy/volunteer/pursue interests.I cannot imagine having time to let a guy into my life to change things. No matter the benefit. Not worth it.

[@mandamorris7934]

She's very lucky she's not done jail time. Losing her family wasn't ennough to make her stop? Absolutely sickening.

[@JoJoGranum]

Losing her family just drive her into his virtual arms. She now feels like she has nothing to lose now

[@frofrofrofro900]

Family should help her and be with her

[@Liverpool5095]

​@@frofrofrofro900They tried. She kept burning them and going back to him. There's a reason why they cut off from her.

[@Catnipatrick]

Narcissistic people don’t listen to anyone but themselves and people they hold on higher regard based on something they hold valuations them.

[@GeeEee75]

I'm not convinced that she understood that the man in the photos is not the person scamming her.

[@celestialknight2339]

Agreed. They didn’t make it entirely clear to her. They should’ve said clearly “Someone stole this man’s photos, and is pretending to be him. You are not talking to this man, but a mystery man/woman who was impersonating this innocent doctor.”

[@Sashazur]

@@celestialknight2339This has been a consistent issue in many of their videos. Recently they’ve gotten better at being clear about it, but with these victims it has to be spelled out as simply as Sesame Street!

[@LadyGrissom]

It seems to be a problem in many of their videos. I don't know why they have such problem to say it clearly and not in a way the scammed people keep an impression they are talking with someone real who just looks different than the photo or that the person on the photo is scammer. It sometimes feels that's exactly what the scammed people end up thinking.

[@cameleonfleuri]

​@LadyGrissom Ya , I noticed that too. Weird 🤔

[@GeeEee75]

​@@LadyGrissom The actual scammer *is* a real person. It would be a lie to say they're some sort of AI.

[@rpg5017]

"baby boo" ...... and "the rest were my play toys".....sigh 🙄🙄🙄

[@marissabenham739]

🤢🤢🤮

[@mikec.4343]

The more I watch these videos the more I'm convinced that there are people out there who WANT to be victims.

[@diamondsparkle9967]

I agree.

[@maryfields1382]

I think they actually enjoy the drama. And as long as their friends and family keep bailing them out by paying their bills, they'll never stop.

[@megarainbowluv1]

Hahahahaha 😂

[@BackwoodsFilms]

Absolutely. They have no problem giving someone every penny they have in order to perpetuate their fantasy, and the scammers know it all too well.

[@blanebeats8647]

Yeah they also get "comfort" from the attention they get from the hosts. It all boils down to insecurity and loneliness

[@ebudae]

Being called 'baby boo' at 77... OMG I am embarrassed for her. Also, when they are explaining to her she has a vacannt look in her eyes. You can tell that she does NOT 'get it'. She absolutely will go back. If not to him then someone else.

[@pencilcase8068]

Love is cringe, instead of fighting the cringe embrace it. There were names I thought I wouldn't allow myself to be called but I ended up liking them

[@turboredcart]

thats right pooh bear

[@alleycatcannabis]

You're completely right, she wasn't listening at all. She wanted to hear what she wanted to hear

[@Dawnella66]

​@@potatowaffle4573so true lol

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

She's definitely going back...

[@AnnieBooker]

If he doesn’t call her my queen or ask if she’s eaten today he’s a really poor romance scammer. I mean really, study up, guys!

[@mochasweet4966]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SandraW6988]

She’s not a victim, rather she’s a volunteer.

[@BradJames878]

Sandra's comment is the most correct one here.

[@googleuser8095]

enabler

[@azthekid5175]

$5k for a HOUSE in California? 🙄🤭 You can’t Rent a Carport in California for $5k.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Couldn’t buy a parking spot deed there for less than $10,000 on average.

[@alicedaly6011]

Must have been a dolls house

[@alg2158]

Yeah, you can maybe get a shed for 5k in Cali😒

[@Isthisjoebiden]

Right...that's not even closing costs on house on the east coast, let alone California

[@PragueImport]

@@alg2158 A tent, maybe.

[@amyk.2500]

Why are women so horrified at the thought of being alone? Every time I’ve been single and lived alone I really enjoyed it. Join a club, do volunteer work, make online friends (JUST friends, not scammy lovers). I had a dog and she was my best friend, I hardly ever felt lonely. There’s a whole world out there that doesn’t revolve around men.

[@Challenger2A7]

It's ego: "I'm far too gorgeous to be seen without a man!"

[@princessmarlena1359]

I don’t mind becoming a crazy cat lady, even if they eat my remains.

[@dawncordero-reyes3922]

I know right..im so happy being alone with my 2 dogs..get to see my grandkids and I still work at 60

[@bluebellbell2912]

this woman isnt a victim...shes a volunteer

[@JR-yi3cz]

She could have used the money she gave to the scammer to have her teeth fixed!

[@ferociousgumby]

@@JR-yi3cz Could have given a teeny tiny bit of it to charity.

[@rladPwjd]

Why is she so cocky about this when she has only 1 upper tooth? She's answering all the questions like she's a rebellious teenager.

[@Veracityseeker7]

Exactly

[@nadogrl]

Why ask why?😂

[@frofrofrofro900]

Age? Few of us will be live so long

[@skibee421]

@@frofrofrofro900 what ya saying, wise guy? i'm 72 & have teeth. had my top ones all capped . life expecdicy is around 80,eh?

[@sookie4195]

She needs that upper tooth to fit in the void where a lower tooth is missing. That is how she eats.

[@AFAskygoddess]

She says she doesn't have anyone....except three children AND three grandchildren. Holy 💩. That's a BOUNTIFUL BLESSING! Too bad she didn't appreciate the family she already had.

[@akosua8779]

She means she has no D....that woman don't care for herself or family to be THAT FOOLISH u gotta be selfish and only think of your pleasures

[@ChrisAndCats]

I assume she means friends or a partner. Children can't and shouldn't be giving you every spare moment. They have lives and jobs. It's more to do with the inability to be happy whilst alone and be alone without being lonely. In other words, a happy life without a partner.

[@AFAskygoddess]

​@@ChrisAndCats, you don't need to have a romantic partner to have a full life. Love is love. Feeling incomplete unless you're in a romantic relationship sounds pretty codependent to me.

[@ChrisAndCats]

@AFAskygoddess I agree completely. I've been single through choice since 2014, after a 14yr relationship ended but have work, interesting hobbies and close friends, so don't feel lonely when I'm alone. I don't have the need or inclination to find another partner just to fill a gap. If one came along, so be it but I'm not desperately searching as seems to be the case a lot of times in these videos. I think that's the issue in a lot of these cases though, the people don't have enough going on in their lives to keep them occupied and content.

[@mwinchester66]

She's a narcissist.

[@1ohmwrecker]

I can imagine the pain from her lack of dental care😳 and give all the money to fix it to a scammer 🤦‍♂️ c'mon girl!

[@fatuusdottore]

Yeah, that's the saddest part. But in the US, dental care is insane and there is literally no help for it. She's also super old, and it seems she devoted herself to raising stable children, despite her own problems. I feel bad for her ngl.

[@gerayneharris8045]

I don't understand with all the information about romance scams out there, why are people falling for them so easily. The First thing they need to do is an image reach. These criminals are laughing all the way to the bank with victim's money 😔

[@Naturefan354]

​@fatuusdottore Medicare will cover extractions and dentures which is all she needs

[@jerseyreddjc3569]

@@fatuusdottoreno dental care is not insane. What’s insane is the amount of people who don’t know how to do basic maintenance for their teeth. This looks like a lifetime of bad oral hygiene on her part.

[@marysawyer2259]

Totally agree with you!!!

[@heezypeasy8611]

She is one of the very few that i don't feel sorry for. She's taken ZERO accountability.

[@jujujupiter]

You’re a better person than me. I don’t feel sorry for any of them.

[@sampsonroofing7377]

They are all idiots; so many of them have kids and grandkids that could use the money they're sending to these scam artists so they can keep their stupid little phony romance dramas going.

[@AltClev37]

This is what we call “A Lost Cause” She will never see what this scammer has done to her life until she’s got nothing left and is sent to prison. Wait, what am I saying, she’ll probably find a way to send him money FROM prison. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@user-gj1me4mf5c]

It's UNBELIEVABLE she blames the scammer for the problems with her family. She is delusional!

[@joannaradacina2585]

NO she is just stupid😢

[@cheapcraftygirlsweepstakes2338]

She’s evil.

[@karinaurena7168]

Indeed

[@sargassum6190]

People have to be realistic. A younger, seemingly well put together man is not pursuing a genuine internet relationship with a 77 year old woman with no teeth or social credit.

[@GaffGiraffe]

​@@cheapcraftygirlsweepstakes2338 Evil is mad up to make ourselves feel better. Conartists are able to make a mark out of anyone. It just makes you feel better to label this woman as evil and lable yourself as good. You have to do this to sleep at night. It's a survival mechanism but it's just not true. When I hear people blame religion or good and evil for works of man, all I see and hear is weakness. And that weakness, will enable these scams to continue.

[@JaguarRacingTeamX]

A Nigerian Rebel? Even in her delusion he can't just be a regular scammer, he must be a rebel. Maybe he's a big warlord Baby Boo?

[@SueRosalie]

in truth they're 20 year old Nigerians living in homely shacks, sitting around in their underpants and smoking. Same with the computer scammers in India.

[@paisleyprincess7996]

Rebel Lagos Cafe Boy

[@debmccafferty1007]

Sad 😢

[@kawalli3768]

lololol

[@lynnokrzynski8720]

If he's a Nigerian rebel he might have access to what is termed blood diamonds so why does he need the pittance she can provide?

[@duanedaxalexander]

Please *do not* tell someone who has proven to be gullible to put a cell phone in their fireplace. That is a terrible idea.

[@Sashazur]

Yeah batteries can explode when burned. That’s really dangerous.

[@PB-zw2ot]

Everything about her is unlikeable. If you're not listening to the FBI...

[@ferraroannie4058]

It's hard to believe there are still people out there falling for these ultra transparent scams. It's either rampant narcissism on the part of the "victims" or they've been living under a rock for the last decade or so. SMH

[@Black_Samurai-fish]

More like being unbearably lonely

[@amandahugenkiss]

It’s weird how they actually develop an addiction to sending the money. Even after they know it’s a scam, they can’t give up the addiction.

[@m-o-l]

Massive egos are part of it too, imo. The victims think they still look like their 20 year old profile pics 🙈

[@FreeRadicals305]

@@Black_Samurai-fish Lonely? She has 3 children and 3 grandchildren. She's just looking to 'win the Lotto' with a scammer. I'm not buying the 'lonely' excuse. There's a certain element but she's unbearably delusional.

[@theartistcherrypi6454]

I wonder how much early stage dementia plays in this

[@Cindy-cj8bw]

Ma'am, please throw your money at a dentist, a hair stylist, and a good therapist! There aren't too many men out there who would jump at the chance of kissing that mouth!

[@carolerichard5250]

Cindy you read my mind!

[@mamadude505]

She looked fine in the old pics they showed of her, but hoo boy! Now, not so much. Yuck.

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

They might cut their tongues on the snaggleteeth. I mean, really, she spent all that time laundering money, sending computers, etc., when she could have gone to a dentist.

[@Cindy-cj8bw]

@British_vlog Delusion is a crazy thing!

[@japstoryeditor]

😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@nikibryant8016]

She cant afford teeth but sends money to a stranger OMG

[@christabell2002]

Only in America

[@premilajohn5693]

😂n believes him when he tells her she's beautiful 😂😂😂

[@LeniDell]

I hate to say it but she should be banned from being online entirely. She’s obviously not competent to take precautions at ALL. She didn’t get scared and stop with the FBI telling her… nothing but a prison cell will stop her. I hope her kids put her under a conservatorship. If they talk to her again. Thank you for looking out for so many. This is insanity.

[@megarainbowluv1]

You said it best 😂

[@allisonjames2923]

Except she knocked back the straight scammers who just asked her for money. She just worked with this guy accepting the computers because she expected a cut. This isn’t some totally naive elderly woman, she obviously believes some of his lies but she could also pick a scammer. She is deliberately involved in money laundering

[@Alex-Trejo]

What makes it even more crazier was that she didn't keep the $5000 for herself 😂

[@SusanSez1]

I have such a hard time wrapping my head around someone who ignores that the man is younger, good looking, rich and accomplished. Then ignores that she is not. Then ignores that the "love" comes too fast and without even meeting. Then ignores the requests for money. Then ignores the additional requests for more money. Then ignores the fact that they never show up in person. Then ignores their family's advice. Then ignores their bank's advice. Then ignores the FBI's advice. How did these people get to this age with little or no intuition and/or or common sense??

[@5trace]

Exactly delusional

[@tims4502]

You forgot several iterations of “and then asks for money” but yeah, other than that spot on! Everyone in her life was trying to help her but she shrugged off all of them. Frustrating!

[@wigglygiggly776]

The desperation of finding love. Love is blind for sure.

[@SusanSez1]

@@wigglygiggly776 Yes, you're right. It seems to completely overpower any sense.

[@Alex-Trejo]

It's so unbelievable that I'm starting to think this is all fake & stage.

[@staynyourlane422]

No man is worth having if he wants you as an older woman on social security to fund is travel, life or phone bill. This woman absolutely knew getting a shipment of brand-new computers, phones and money was not legal. She should be punished by the authorities. She is not innocent.

[@SueRosalie]

some of these victims do indeed end up in prison for their part in money laundering

[@danasalberg2279]

Should have kept the money and computers ... blocked the scammer then sold the computers and bought herself some new teeth. 😂😂

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

and stylist@@danasalberg2279

[@adriannavarro2536]

@@danasalberg2279her teeth are her biggest delusion lmaoooo

[@jeffro221]

@@danasalberg2279 And reimbursed herself for all the money he stole from her.

[@sphinx1017]

When she says, "that got me into a lot of trouble," she actually looks thrilled. These 'victims,' feed off drama.

[@AgeoftheFall88]

People like this make it hard to feel sorry for them

[@MsMedford]

Exactly

[@oaklandmade007]

As soon as I saw that smug ass look on her face, my pity left💯 she likes it

[@susanlett9632]

I don't

[@sjohnson9536]

I’m sorry but if you don’t listen to the FBI then you deserve to get in hot water legally. This woman definitely needs someone to have power of attorney over her or something.

[@theresalayton9286]

I couldn't agree more 👍👍

[@hellooutthere8956]

Nobody "deserves" this but yes they do need poa but you know wht? Those ppl will rob you blind too.

[@Sashazur]

@@hellooutthere8956Yes it’s a potential risk that a conservator etc could rip you off too, but she is already being ripped off. Having someone else controlling her finances would almost certainly be better, and if it went wrong at least it could not be worse than what happened already.

[@jennzifur]

These people kill me. They are skipping their rent, mortgage, dental care, and life necessities to an obvious people who never be ascetically attracted to them and contacting Catfished for help.

[@ingefriedbianca]

She is being victimized by a team of scammers and cyber stalkers and these criminals know how to push people to suicide.

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

And whats worse, he was sending her actual products to essentially launder for money, so if anything she should've been getting a cut of that, but she was just doing it for free! Not only is she bad at relationships, she's a terrible criminal too! XD

[@KimHmrs]

There's a reason scammers ask how many times your married/divorced. You can be mistaking in your spouse once, heck maybe twice. But 3 times, means you're an easy target.

[@anitalimbu2226]

Yes

[@marknewton6984]

Loser. 😢

[@EPA18]

How could she possibly think that someone who looks like him would fall for her? It's amazing how some people have an inability to honestly assess themselves.

[@EmmA-ln9he]

No one wants to tell themselves "I'm ugly", especially in a society so obsessed with beauty and dismissive or mean to people who don't meet those standards. It's a hard thing to face, especially because being beautiful or not is not a choice, either you have good genes or not...

[@rosiered3403]

​@@EmmA-ln9heI've thought I was ugly since age 12. When people give me compliments, the voice in my head quickly says oh they're just being nice. I know it's all in my mind, but I avoid looking in mirrors or I start to pick apart everything about my face and body.

[@vanessab.6682]

I mean it could happen. Look at Summit and Jenny, from 90 day fiance.

[@lauriehumann9659]

She looks fine.

[@desertrose1226]

@@EmmA-ln9heshe’s not ugly -she’s just old and needs a dentist. A few years ago she looked decent.

[@twattgurll]

The old lady is delusional- she likes the attention and will not stop.

[@mamadude505]

She sure does. She's eating it up.

[@Maki-00]

I don’t think she really even comprehends that the man in the picture is not the scammer and has nothing to do with it! She’s the type who will fall right back into another scam right after this.

[@SueRosalie]

@@Maki-00 ikr this happens every time. I don't understand why the Catfished team don't do enough to make it clear to the victims right from the outside, that these handsome profile pics are NOT the person they have been communicating with, and that person is a black Nigerian guy or team of guys in Lagos. And they keep referring to the scammer as "Michael" or whatever, continuing to feed the delusion. In fact why don't they get a picture of one of them and show it to the victims right from the start. There are pictures available, some of these scammers do get arrested and convicted. kzbin.info/www/bejne/n4erfZyMiZmYm68

[@twattgurll]

@@elipotter369 Self introspection /Self realization.

[@dave30076]

@@SueRosalie In a couple of cases, the catfished team was able to get the person who had their pictures stolen to tell the "victim" that they were not talking to them. I think it was the Barry Gibb lady (or another one), who STILL did not get it, and thought that Barry Gibb (or whoever it was) had to lie on camera. Some people are...sad to say it...hopelessly stupid.

[@tanya4534]

The way she made it a point many times to mention that the guy in the pictures the scammer used is just "okay", "not my type" and "got better looking" is very telling. She has a high level of self importance. She must think she looks like Rita Moreno.

[@cherylspeares7003]

For real 😂😂 she acted like she was a gorgeous 35 year old 🙄🙄 missing teeth and her neck sliding down to her chest... SMH

[@SueRosalie]

@@elipotter369 that's exactly how it works, swamp them with flattery and telling them the lies that they want to hear

[@donnawojcik1271]

She is lying so she didn’t seem shallow. No way she wasn’t instantly attracted to that man.

[@TheTCOLL]

Glad I’m not the only one that was cringing

[@ldylibra_thediviner4820]

@@cherylspeares7003 OMG not the neck sliding to her chest 😭 😵

[@Spiderlash97]

My mom has been widowed for many years. She works out, keeps her house spotless and spends her money on her grandson and church. It makes me so much less sympathetic to these women. Yet I can’t look away…

[@kittycatLOVExoxo]

If even the fbi couldn't get through to her, no one will. She seems to completely not care about herself or anything

[@nickimillennium]

I would 💩 my pants if someone even mentioned the FBI. It’s a testament to how coddled and delusional she is that she brushed them off

[@kerry1979]

What I think too & I bet you 100% Why would social catfish be able to get through to her. When The Police, FBI, Banks & her family told her. She is going to continue Just Like Old Jodi & others would.

[@boosqueezy2418]

“sandra, you’re smarter than this” no, no she’s not. how do they stay so patient with these brick heads??

[@vilmalaurel8833]

It's becoming condescending.

[@everyonelovesmajima]

Being called stupid doesn't make anyone feel better or help them make better decisions. At least this woman didn't sit there talking all about how smart and desirable she is.

[@kdeloris2225]

Not brick head💀🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amirahclark4989]

@@everyonelovesmajimashe knew the other men she talked to in the past were scammers and stopped talking with them, so deep down she knows and don’t care, she just wants to be wanted.

[@SueRosalie]

@@everyonelovesmajima most of them do, over and over.

[@elainebmack]

I can see why she's divorced 3 times. She is arrogant, snippy, and none too bright. Her former husbands probably got sick of her.

[@sookie4195]

Imagine what her husbands looked like.

[@amandadinicola5857]

​@@sookie4195YES!! Very snippy and arrogant

[@joletty1793]

😅😂😂😂😅

[@RondaDM]

She tried to say it was the actual doctor who scammed her, that doctor don't know her from a can of house paint!!

[@PandaHead602]

💯

[@BcnEggNChz_]

You're sending him your rent money for nothing in return and still wondering if he's real. Some ppl need to be in a adult day care.

[@cameleonfleuri]

Absolutely!

[@biddierepellent]

it's getting harder and harder to have sympathy for these people man

[@onceuponacrime2027]

I hope you have eaten today my King

[@pattido777]

​@onceuponacrime2027 😂😂😂😂

[@ivanaandric5703]

I never had any sympathy for these ppl. 99% of them do NOT deserve sympathy!

[@biddierepellent]

@@onceuponacrime2027 lmfaooooo

[@PrairieMom]

Good grief! Retired and lots of free time to do what? Sit an talk to a Nigerian scammer. What a total waste of retirement. Just sickening.

[@angeldiaz762]

This is why I'm glad my mom isn't on the internet. And when my dad reaches a certain age me and/or my brother may have to take his internet away if God forbid he gets sucked into a scam

[@juneyshu6197]

Im so busy retired I cant even volunteer at the Sr Center yet!

[@jilldavies7094]

If she'd spent some of her money on a dentist instead of a scammer, and got a decent haircut, she'd likely attract a nice man from her local neighbourhood. One that her family would be happy for her to have.

[@carolm.4623]

I’m sorry but shes addicted to the attention of this scammer and in two to three months she will unblock him online. Her loneliness, need for attention will not allow her to move away from this. If the FBI getting involved didn’t scare the 💩 out her to stop… then a KZbin channel that specializes in uncovering scams won’t either. I honestly believe mental health is the number one reason this continues.

[@maryw1129]

I totally agree

[@fatuusdottore]

Loneliness is a problem.

[@Mukyuify]

​@@fatuusdottoreit's a problem that she created and only she can solve. And she needs to learn how to be lonely. Loneliness is normal.

[@MagisterialVoyager]

@@fatuusdottore I sort of agree with that, but what @Mukyuify said is healthy and correct, too. Also... Dottore, are you lonely? 😂 Sorry, I read your username and had to LOL.

[@crowsarefab]

@@fatuusdottore no one has to be lonely if they choose not to be. You can join all sorts of clubs where you can meet like minded people or volunteer. Also this woman has a family. She should concentrate on them.

[@ChristineM342]

Zero sympathy for this woman.

[@ceciledelaney5174]

Too bad she didn't use her money for dental care....jeeze Louise!!

[@dewilew2137]

She thinks $5K is going to buy a house in California? That wouldn’t even be enough for a down payment on a house in Tumbleweed, Arkansas. That should have been enough to tell her that this is not someone from America, or from the West at all. 🙄

[@jennterry6977]

Drew made such a good point. I mean obviously this person is not real, but why does it matter? Either way they are stealing from you and could potentially put you in prison.

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

She thinks he's real but has a nother name. I dob't think she made the connection that these were stolen pictures.

[@a.greywolfe4056]

These people need to ask themselves, do good looking and/or successful people approach you with romantic intentions in person? No? Then online people doing it is a scam!!

[@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529]

Amen, well said! That's just plain ol' COMMON SENSE!!!!!!!!!

[@oaklandmade007]

Yeh, it's rediculous.,.

[@williamegler8771]

It is funny she said she was being "USED"! Nothing is further from the truth! She willingly paid for the fantasy boyfriend experience! She ignored multiple red flags and believed ridiculous stories and excuses. She got what she paid for and has nobody to blame for the consequences but herself!

[@mariebroyles6874]

yep

[@Kahless47]

Don't forget that she was complicit in stealing money from other people and laundering the proceeds.

[@Coffeeislife33]

I’m sick listening to her, her actions are sickening and she should be held responsible for any harm done

[@joanclawford8964]

That's for sure ... !!

[@ingefriedbianca]

People who are naïve are not breaching the law. People are not required to be savvy and to have a criminal mind capable to detect any scam. Naïve people are perfectly in their right. Only scammers breach the law and are therefore despicable.

[@dunjica77]

I have been contacted several times by scammers. I start to engage in a conversation, and allow them to use their "art" for a while. Then I ask if I can confide in them, and give them a ridiculous sob story and ask them for money. It is always funny and satisfying watch them just disappear into the sunset after that:))))

[@Madybananas]

"Innocently gave him all my personal banking info. " got me

[@Krisnina]

What I don’t understand is how she says she KNOWS this is a scam and that she KNOWS she’s being taken advantage of, but yet it has taken her YEARS to stop - and who even knows if she will stop. Addiction is a curse, but choosing to launder money over keeping your family together is insane. That’s a choice.

[@melissamcclain34]

Being questioned by the FBI should have been enough for her to stop talking to him yet she just gets in deeper.

[@terryKessler42719]

I would die twice if the FBI contacted me about anything.

[@princessinmittens4783]

It's funny all three marriages failed because they found someone else they liked. What made her so unlikable? Of course, it was no fault of her own.

[@crowsarefab]

To the people saying she is lonely, she has sons, daughters and grandchildren. She should make her life around them.

[@FranSanTeeth90]

There's hospitals, the VFW, the library

[@Mhel2023]

Just because we get older doesn't mean we're dead. We have needs just like any other human being.... And kids, grandkids and baking cookies just doesn't cut it

[@crowsarefab]

@@Mhel2023 Well join a club. My friend likes a drink and could go to a different one each day. I am older and prefer to spend time with my dogs.

[@kathymichael2323]

​@@Mhel2023Serving your flesh is exactly why people get used and broken.

[@rl1137]

Easier said than done. My best friends mom is wrapped up in thinking she’s dating Jeremy Renner. Still to this day. Been 2 years and @socialcatfish tried very hard to get her the help and answers she needed but she won’t do it. Now she’s living in her car with no husband and no kids and no grandchildren now. All she says is we will be sorry when they get married and we aren’t invited to her wedding. Delusional and an addiction is what she is and has. I miss my friend for sure. She was so wonderful till this guy.

[@chaoticXmisfit]

It still baffles me that people willing give their bank info to a complete stranger like it's nothing

[@patriciabrant8037]

Plus give personal Social Insurance Number. That is crazy. I was brought up you never give that number to a stranger.

[@frofrofrofro900]

Age. Few of us will be live 70 years

[@28282222]

‘Someone I normally wouldn’t have dated’…classic example of a picky person with an inflated ego. A 2 expecting 8s and 9s (age considered).

[@Challenger2A7]

A 2???? That's very generous of you. 😂

[@plbeckman]

I can picture these scammers sitting behind the computer rolling in laughter.

[@brianmclendon1647]

I get the impression that she thinks the doctor is scamming her

[@Nocturnalux]

That’s just it, I don’t think these people get that the person on the photo has nothing to do with anything.

[@MsMedford]

Yes she's that dumb

[@mildredpierce4506]

I wish the team had located the scammer so she would know it is not the doctor that is scamming her

[@junemarshall-kingsley566]

Too much empahsis is still placed on the victim whose pictures have been stonlen. I'ts beside the point whether he is Turkish, a doctor, or whatever. Hwis pictures have beeen stolen. Instead, we need to see footaage of how the Nigerian scammers party after making a big kill, sit on floors in crowded rooms with laptops and work in shifts with scripts.

[@madelineprofio2352]

@@junemarshall-kingsley566so true!!

[@1tarawho]

When she said "I didn't have anyone in my life but my kids"!!! Omg she has no clue what a treasure your children and grandchildren are!! I've been told I'm an attractive woman in her 50s. I want to stay single for my kids and grandkids so I can spend all my time with them. They are my light in this cold hard world. I would never send someone I never met in real life money!!! For one thing that would be taking away from my kids and grandkids, nope no way, my kids and grandkids always, always will be first in my life!!

[@DeenaGoldsmith]

Imagine being one of her children and seeing this and hearing her say she has no one in her life except for her children that would break my heart

[@emily_endicott]

Drew and Bri - some of the people you have worked with seem a little ungrateful but you guys are so patient and kind. Thank you for all the work that you guys do!!

[@wayneolsen8965]

Amen! You guys have more patience than I can imagine

[@territ1231]

I'm an older woman and would never fall for this crap.

[@MargaretHill65_]

I can’t believe these people are that stupid ! I have been divorced 23 years and I sure do not need a man in my life and for real no man I can’t see or touch 😂

[@janewainwright9756]

'Baby Boo'?? He can't remember your bloody name!!!!

[@cUser691]

Lost it when Drew asked [about re-sending boxes and no payment for this ‘job, “So what’s your thought process?”

[@femalehuman8766]

I don’t know how he said that with a straight face! He’s great.

[@SueRosalie]

@@elipotter369 he's way too nice.

[@carolyncruse5495]

I am tired of this foolishness. Everyone knows this is not a relationship they are in. This is a Crime game. Look at that woman’s mouth, she needed help herself and she is helping him. 😤

[@SueRosalie]

honestly some of them will only stop when they are in prison

[@nadinecanabou2069]

if they are talking to you all day and night that's a huge red flag people do have a life