After Pastor's Wife, Baby Horrifically Murdered, He Chooses Faith, Forgiveness

Davey Blackburn faced an absolute nightmare Nov. 10, 2015, when he arrived home from a morning workout to find his wife, Amanda, experiencing what he thought was a health crisis. But he soon found out she had been shot by an intruder who barged into their Indianapolis home. It's a harrowing story told in Blackburn's new book, "Nothing Is Wasted: A True Story of Hope, Forgiveness, and Finding Purpose in Pain."
"I walked in and my wife of seven years and my 15-month-old were in the house at the time," he said. "My wife was pregnant with her with our second ... and, when I walked in, I discovered my wife was lying on our living room floor, and she was surrounded by blood." At first, he thought she might have gotten dizzy and fallen, but once she was transported to the hospital, he learned Amanda, who was 13 weeks pregnant, had three bullet wounds.
Tragically, the prognosis wasn't good.
"They were going to try to see if they could operate, but it ... didn't look good," Blackburn said. "And what they had surmised was that there were three men ... they broke into the home three doors down from us, saw me leave for the gym that morning, and decided to break into our home, and Amanda ... got caught up in that." Blackburn and Amanda were pastors and church planters at the time.
The couple had left their dream job a few years earlier in South Carolina to follow God's call to plant a church in Indianapolis. The shocking murder unfolded just as the church was "taking some roots and getting some momentum," he said. The preacher called the entire ordeal - which quickly became a local and national news story - an "unimaginable, traumatic experience." Amanda was pronounced dead on Nov. 11, four years to the day that the couple packed up a moving van to leave for Indianapolis.
"My world had just been turned upside down," Blackburn said. "I was reeling over the grief and the loss of my best friend, my soulmate, my ministry partner. I was trying to figure out how to be a single dad to my son, Weston, who had been untouched and unharmed in his crib the entire time."
On top of losing Amanda and their unborn baby, Blackburn also had to contend with media scrutiny considering the story's wide reach - speculation that only added to the pain. Watch Blackburn share how he moved past the horror.
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[@Nora-wl8er]

It really is beyond heart-wrenching to lose a wife with an unborn infant from a home invasion! God be with you and your child for the rest of your life, Davey.💔❤️‍🩹😭

[@FirstnameLastname-vy2dg]

It is so easy to say “trust God” and when the bible says to “give thanks in all things” and “God is good” until your day comes. I can tell you it is not easy it is one of the hardest things a person will ever have to do. But God is good and he is good all the time. And we must give thanks, for the Lord gives and he takes away. But by no means is it easy and you never forget but he gives you the strength to get by.

[@JimmyHarmes]

That is true.Psalm 121 can comfort.Peace

[@soloangel625]

So true easy to say we love you and we are praying for you 🙏I am here overwhelmed here reading these comments so sad we trust God. Holy Spirit gives us comfort peace Amen. Rich inheritance in Faith 🙏Amen Pastor. FAITH WE ARE EQUIPPED BY psalm 91

[@Psalm_27.4]

@FirstnameLastname-vy2dg So true, and you wrote it so well. I’m going to screenshoot this for future reference.

[@judypierce7028]

Think about Jesus on the cross and saying "Father, forgive them for they know what they do."

[@annatp1859]

This is hard without Jesus. We really have to be rooted and grounded in the word and fellowship with the Lord.

[@lloydellmiller6279]

I’m so sorry for your loss. She’s a beautiful lady and she is in heaven happy and healthy. You will be with her again.

[@audreychristopher3561]

The lady is in her grave no one will be in till Jesus come that why he is coming 1thes 4:16_17

[@user-vc1zu1ny1j]

My deepest condolences for your tragic losses. May God continue to give you strength and comfort.

[@eugenedenbrook322]

I am humbled by this man's story. Only God can do this work in our lives. My God, I am humbled and edified.

[@LuvStLCards]

I love the sponge analogy. I’m going to use that for my ten yr old daughter to try to help her understand why having God in and faith in your life is so, so important. Blessings and love sent your way.

[@patricianelson9164]

That’s the answer FORGIVE. ONLY GOD CAN MAKE THIS POSSIBLE IN YOUR HEART!!!!!!!❤️.

[@lynhall6742]

It is the most devastating thing to lose your loved one in such a way. I was 64 when my husband was murdered. Although forgiving Brokenness ....

[@JoanneCromp]

Praying for you. Thank you for sharing your loss. You are deeply loved by the Lord and many including me. God bless!

[@JesusChristisgreat-pj6nd]

Im so sorry Sir ❤

[@TAdler-ex8px]

Wow, Praise God. I’m so incredibly sorry for his horrific loss, but I’m thankful for this beautiful message. This is a wonderful testimony of what happens when God’s people pray and intercede for the Kingdom. Someone, who you may not even know, is strengthened in selflessness and Love. Prayer makes a difference saints. Trust in God’s ways, not man’s.

[@sushmagorrela1669]

I know how God leads His loved ones. Amazing grace and only love of Jesus. Thank you for sharing.

[@chericurtis134]

Not an event…a tragedy…horrific evil tragedy!!! Praise God this father of such great loss took hold of the peace from God and took comfort from the Holy Spirit! The only way to live….thankful for your sharing of your story of forgiveness, faith and love!! Well done servant, well done!!

[@rain5784]

There is no way to go through this pain without Jesus

[@SgtTheile327]

A family at my church was returning from a Lois Palau event when a single mother high on drugs/alcohol ran a stop sign. Bot of their teenage daughters were killed. The husband/wife spent months in the hospital. They eventually met the woman who served 8 years in prison to offer their forgiveness. She got saved and started a prison recovery ministry.

[@wandertree]

Amazing. And those girls are safely in heaven, beyond content and joyful. God doesn't view death the way we do. He merely moves people from one reality to the next when it is their time. He knows the plans He has for us. We can trust Him utterly.

[@patricianyiri8879]

IAM SOOOOOO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MAY GOD GIVE YOU THE PEACE AND STRENGTH YOU NEED IN THIS VERY HARD TIME. AND WE SHOULD ALL PRAY FOR YOU AS WELL AMEN ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lynettevaz4996]

We pray strength for Amanda’s parents n loved ones. May the Grace of God fill their hearts ♥️

[@user-vm5ud4xw6n]

I have told people over and over that they need to write down what they were going through and have even gone so far as to give journals and sometimes pens to encourage them to write .

[@charlynnmullin38]

Thank you for sharing this tragedy you lived through.

[@passingthrough777]

Thank you for sharing this testimony and Glory to God for His Beautiful work in bringing you to where you are now. Peace to you Mr. Blackburn in the name of Jesus 🙏

[@archangel1527]

“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 God bless this wonderful Pastor.

[@ProphetiaPortia_]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. May you witness GOD's continued grace, mercy, and yoke of peace. Blessings remain thru the gift of the seed of man for generations to come & my covenant.

[@savitaharripaul7876]

So heartbreaking 💔 😢 😞. My Heartfelt is to you and your little one. 💔 my prayers are with you 🙏

[@Mathilda5xp]

My deepest condolences. Thank God for His unfailing love. Blessings from Aotearoa.

[@raegates]

Great story, great victory overcoming tragedy and loss.

[@karenwoodward7291]

We have the hope of Heaven no matter how bad things get here on earth. He will get to be with them again someday. God is good!!!

[@ShySparrow10]

I love that Davey touches on peace that passes all our understanding in sharing the story of the darkest time of his life. In 2019 when my Christian Mother was laying in a hospital bed for endless weeks after a second stroke, unable to move or speak, and I could not even bear that she was enduring such an agony , when God spoke these words to me. "I am a shield against the blast." I wrote about this experience at that time, and I cant trust my memory of what exactly I wrote, but assuredly God was a shield for Amanda, she surely wasn't alone when she faced the gunmen, no more than Stephen was alone when he was being stoned. I`m sharing this on my personal FB page/ Sing me a Song of Praise and Glory, because it reminded me again of our God who is our shield at all times, even in these, the darkest of times for so many. Bless you Davey.

[@wandertree]

That is beautiful. Thank you. Everything you say lines up with how Scripture portrays our God. ♥

[@Ace243Datura]

Thank you for sharing your story. My mom is in rehabilitation after several strokes, one being a full left side one. The drs didn’t believe me when I said she told me she loved me. I told them I understand their science and will do what’s right but I’m praying because God has the final say. The next day they called me shocked she was speaking and understood what they were saying. She is left handed so that helped her. She’s still unable to walk and has pressure ulcer that she needs prayers for and I’m still praying for full healing but if not it’s just a little more time to love her and say all the things I needed to say so she knows she’s loved. She occasionally talks but that comes and goes too.

[@newbee2262]

As a Christian, at what point do we wage war against crime, and sin and evil. From the apostles tonthe missionaries, they campaign with rulers for justice.

[@aidarisyazmin]

i think The Lord leads on this. I left/walked away from a career in law enforcement to seek The Lord...first it was "enamorment" and all the beautiful things until He really started pressing on me the importance of knowledge of warfare and fighting for justice--learning to pray a little deeper etc and having eyes to see/discernment to hear when to intervene and such.

[@GaylaKenney-i2f]

I do get what you’re saying. Forgiveness shouldn’t mean that a murderer is set free, because forgiving that person isn’t necessarily going to make them change, you would be irresponsible of letting that murderer back out on the streets and causing or committing harm to someone else. Forgive yes but forgiveness isn’t a license to set a murderer free, there still has to be consequences, that’s not revenge, that’s part of living in a civilized society, you can’t have love without justice or justice without love. God isn’t only a God of forgiveness and love but also a God of order, which means there has to civilized rules to follow and accountability for they’re not followed.

[@newbee2262]

@@GaylaKenney-i2f well said

[@annatp1859]

So sorry for this. God bless you as you trust and obey

[@nancygerhart4372]

Such a good speaker on the Word

[@1Way.]

What is really difficult in the situation that Pastor Davey Blackburn didn't mention is that when something like this happens to you and you're the one to find the situation, especially being the spouse, you are the main suspect in causing it by law enforcement. You're guilt in the eyes of many until you've been cleared, until that time you feel isolated and fear. Then, you can move forward. Without God, the father, Jesus, the Christ, the Holy Spirit, and God's word. You likely won't come out on the other side restored. Praise God for his restoration.

[@HS-ml8dx]

Isn't that what he is talking about from 04:28 onwards?

[@pedenmk]

How terrible. This is the first I've heard about this. I use to live in Indiana. Crime has done nothing but increasing to unprecedented levels. I hope me Blackburn finds the strength to continue spreading the world of God.

[@ibitoruben-green1439]

The Holy Spirit ministers to you the way no one else can. My heart felt condolences to you and your family ❤️💟🙏 May the soul of the departed rest in peace, and may those responsible find forgiveness in Christ Jesus through his love and mercy 💖🙏

[@user-vc1zu1ny1j]

Interviewer, he tragically lost loved ONES( his wife AND unborn child)... you keep saying "loved one".

[@linak7155]

I heard this story a few weeks ago in Inside Edition, very moving. I loved the photos and film of the family then and of his new family now. God of Almighty has blessed as has chosen to rebuild his life around the gaping hole .

[@CarmonBenford]

i really hear what he's saying about writing. Raw emotion just thrown out there in the notebook. The real purpose is glorifying God. It's not about us at all. Credit goes to Billy as well for his sensitivity and inciteful questions.

[@lorinh111]

I had to forgive over and over the person who led my 16 year old to her tragic passing. God be Glorified somehow through the tragedy’s in this life🙏🏻

[@wandertree]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've not experienced anything that tragic, but I know I have to work daily to forgive, repent, etc. It's an ongoing process. Someday, we will be whole and complete and without sin in His presence.

[@suzaniovieno2023]

So so sorry to hear this! Gods plans are greater than we could ever imagine! It was not him who did that 😮. Satan evil 😈 plans

[@AllegraPalermo]

If withouth intervene Holy Spirit , impossible we have a forgiveness heart like Christ Jesus our Master !!!

[@IreneSalazar-uo2cz]

God will use too heal others when you use it for his glory

[@isabelcronje1351]

Thank you Davey powerfull testimony of Gods wonder working power many blessings to you and your new family 🙌

[@CBNnewsonline]

Thank you for listening to their story with us. May their story build up your faith.

[@jenniferanderson-mk6gv]

Happy that you got married again like Job but when you are old and by yourself it very hard

[@AndreaEllis-dp9yl]

😲 so very sorry for your loss but our GOD is awesome and he will give you strength in our pain I am so very glad you stay faithful you will see your wife again in that beautiful city I go through things too and sometimes I am angry at GOD then I repent may he watch over you and continue on the path of redemption in JESUS name❤❤🎉

[@riarereitimon4410]

Only thru Jesus that we can overome. Thanks for sharing.

[@beingroxy]

I remember his story daily 😢🙏🏽

[@beckygunter6478]

Amein ❤️, no truer words spoken. Baruch HaShem ❤️ for His Glory

[@Kathleen253]

Beautiful story of how in tragedy the Holy Spirit works in one's life. Vengeance is mine says the Lord, praise the Lord this man is living this out in real time.

[@soloangel625]

Forgiveness I needed this message here today. Amen

[@thewatcher4552]

Ee live in a cold cold world. I hope they caught the wicked people. You have two blessings in glory waiting for your arrival . ✝️🙏🏾

[@ancaion8484]

Who are you to judge another's servant? to his own master he stands or falls. Yes, he will be supported, for God can make him stand.Romans 4:14

[@DaisyandJesus116]

Something about this story seems odd. Just a funny feeling. He also doesn't talk a lot about the unborn baby. God knows what really happened.

[@woowoo2358]

Yeah idk if its true but there are Reddit threads about him saying he took out life insurance on her shortly before she died but not on himself and its sus. Like you said only God knows what really happened

[@DaisyandJesus116]

Eyes are the windows to the soul and his eyes seem deceptive ​@woowoo2358

[@zombiemom6701]

He left the door unlocked even though crime had happened in his neighborhood. Left the door unlocked with his sleeping pregnant wife and baby son upstairs. Talked on the phone peeking through the window- but didn’t see Amanda? Dresses up his glee as Christian forgiveness. Moved on to wife #2 quickly. I grew up with these fake Christian types. It’s like we suspend all logic in our desire to believe God blesses all of this. My Christian mom lost my dad when o was little. He died in an accident. She never was bitter or blamed God but SHE STILL GRIEVED. Davey is abnormal and not in a godly way but in a sociopathic way.

[@Imuetinyanosa]

I’m getting the exact same sense and gut feeling that something seems off. Only God knows

[@sofiabravo1994]

I don’t know him but my discernment started to ring when he barely talked about finding his wife on the floor and proceeded to talk about the church and their dreams ? Uh what ?

[@VarnerRuth]

Beautiful story. God bless this Pastor and his family.

[@zombiemom6701]

Beautiful story of a murdered pregnant woman?

[@soloangel625]

Powerful message Praise Jesus

[@joesullivan-y9r]

For letting his wife and unborn child be brutally murdered? Why on earth would you praise that you sicko?

[@suzannegathe6261]

May God keep you and your family strong 💪 🙏 ❤️

[@BonnieKetterman-qw8vd]

I'm so sorry for ur loss I will certainly be praying for u through this sad difficult time stay strong & God will bless u

[@renew9016]

Thank you ❣️❣️❣️ Amazing

[@lisaengel89]

The title of this video implies the baby was horrifically murdered also. You may want to change that.

[@ScoobyDoozy]

She was pregnant.

[@lettus143]

I'm not understanding how you feel that dying in your murdered mother's womb is not a horrible death?

[@lisaengel89]

@@lettus143 oh my goodness. How did I miss that?! I'm an abolitionist! I believe life begins at conception. I stand corrected. Thank you!

[@lisaengel89]

@@ScoobyDoozy Thank you. Somehow I missed that. Yes then, a baby was murdered.

[@ancaion8484]

Judge not, and ye shall not be judged; condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned; forgive and you shall be forgiven. Luke 6:37

[@micah6811]

Judge righteously.

[@lilypadyork8001]

God bless you. I am so sorry you had to go through this. 💟🛐💟

[@PavelMushinski]

❤️‍🔥🙏🏻❤️‍🔥🙏🏻❤️‍🔥🙏🏻for this man, his wife and child

[@judymoore5009]

For those who are suggesting he should show more emotion, this happened a good while ago.

[@zombiemom6701]

His first interview immediately following he showed no emotion. He’s abnormal.

[@wandertree]

@@zombiemom6701 Not everybody is outwardly emotional. It's unintelligent to assume everyone displays emotion the same way.

[@maureenoconnell4399]

😞

[@stepone6159]

I don't begin to know how people do life At All without Jesus, let alone what this dear brother had to face. Not in this day and age.

[@lynettevaz4996]

Romans 8:28. Amen

[@Angie-v4r]

I remember well the murder of the Amish school girls and the immediate forgiveness of the perpetrator by the entire community, beginning with the girls' families. As much as I admired them, I could not relate to their almost "eagerness" to forgive, as I saw it, anyway. I had no such ability in my heart. Now, I understand, at least much more than I did back then. As this young pastor stated, forgiveness is a choice. It really is. The feelings may come later, but the hate does not manifest when forgiveness is a chosen action. It is the same with love. I have come to understand that this is why love in the Bible is an entirely different concept than the world's view of love. Biblical love and the world's view of what constitutes love share little, if anything at all, in common. I pray to have the faith, and the love, and the forgiveness no matter how I may feel I've been wronged, of this pastor for the men who destroyed his family. I have no doubt that the pain he has suffered is incomparable to the joy he will experience in eternity. As for me, God is working on me ❤

[@zombiemom6701]

Life was really good financially for davey after his first wife was murdered. Big new house, new church, new book and new wife. Hope the blood guilt is worth it, davey!!

[@lindad6351]

Woe! Watch out when you accuse people of murder!!!!

[@flatearther7013]

Perfect alibi

[@DaisyandJesus116]

Exactly

[@lindad6351]

Had he been guilty, the police would've presented the evidence.

[@soloangel625]

So sad

[@soloangel625]

Sorry for your loss 🙏how can we live in this difficult time 🙏sad sad Praying God bring peace and comfort to you and family

[@brendasmith8008]

The book is amazing… God bless you Davey, thank you for sharing your story…

[@daniellepentecost900]

Yes

[@EvaRøsand]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@soniadeena8923]

Blessings to you Pastor

[@zombiemom6701]

Why Davey, would you and your new wife and the son of your murdered wife, dress up as robbers when your wife was apparently murdered by robbers? Just what the heck is wrong with you?

[@lindad6351]

Hm. Good question....

[@LeonoraHilarion]

I BELEIVE FORGIVENES IS AUTOMATIC TO A CHRISTIAN. BUT I WILL NOT GI BACK TO OLD RELATINSHIO WHEN TRUST IS NI LONGER THERE. I WILL SEE TO TI THAT JUSTICE IS DONE. CROIME MUST BE PAID. I MUST DEPEND SELF.

[@miamucci4924]

This is ridiculous. Not normal. Anything for a book

[@hannacastaneda8219]

Where did the murders come from??? Was it random?

[@JustChristianThings]

What the pastors wife murdered their baby? The title is confusing

[@rennieclaraluttrull4543]

Why are you telling about the perpetrator???

[@rennieclaraluttrull4543]

So who killed his wife???

[@judymoore5009]

He said there were three men who were home invaders who saw him leave home and broke into his house. She had three shots to her head, I believe he said.

[@donnyetta]

Jesus said to forgive as many times as one is asked. God forgives when we pray for forgiveness. God does not expect us to forgive people unless they ask - He doesn't!

[@omegawife8827]

I need your book. This was encouraging.

[@anonymous-kv2oe]

agree that you cant go through life without Jesus,its impossible. 100% understand moving on, but we shouldnt marry divorced ppl.but i can also see myself doing the same if in a vulnerable situation.

[@debicovert6105]

Stop blaming media they only report

[@followeroftheway8454]

I pray God continues to strengthen Davey after such a devastating loss, his son too after losing his mum so early, in such a way. I pray his wife rests in peace, and the whole family come to terms with the tragedy in Christ Jesus. Amen

[@MansfieldTab]

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[@anupamamanjunath3660]

😢

[@christinemcguiness9356]

🙏

[@SaborSahariar]

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[@truthpluslove]

God restored Davey you can tell. Amazing how God has given Davey the victory over the plot of the enemy.

[@CBNnewsonline]

Please continue to keep this family and their loved ones in your prayers.

[@joesullivan-y9r]

@@CBNnewsonline Good advice. All the praying this pastor has done in his life seems to have worked out well for him.

[@joesullivan-y9r]

You would think God could find a better way than this horrific crime to give Davey "the victory over the plot of the enemy." Seens a bit harsh.

[@NM-ze3dh]

He looks Creepy, i think he is involved

[@lynbob1872]

The 3 men have been caught and had done this before and had robbed two other homes before they enter their home and Larry Jo Taylor tried to r@pe her she fought then he shot her. You should read the transcript of the trial.

[@soloangel625]

Praying peace

[@DaisyandJesus116]

I get that feeling too. I have the spirit of discernment and his eyes hide something.

[@NM-ze3dh]

@@DaisyandJesus116 100%

[@wandertree]

@@DaisyandJesus116 You don't have the "spirit of discernment". That's ridiculous. All Christians have the Holy Spirit, and if we are daily in the Scriptures and prayer, then He guides us and gives us discernment so we aren't led astray. That is not the same as intuition and superstition. If you sense something, you could be right - you could be wrong. But it is impossible and foolish for people sitting behind a keyboard who have never met this man to think they see something in his eyes so therefore he must be guilty. There are so many different types of personalities and people, and some are awkward or stoic. Frankly, it shows a real lack of discernment to judge a stranger in this way. I don't know this man, but I'm appalled at some of these immature comments.

[@penelopegalbraith4189]

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[@GameN3rdz]

I doubt hes keeping it together hes doing a good job faking it though for the camera

[@TraumaSurvivorCynthia]

This happened in November 2015!!,✌ #davesandersstepdaughter 🇺🇲

[@peacepipe6695]

Everyone knows that. You never can tell what a man is going through.

[@user-fb5bq6pb6y]

You don't know what he's going through period.

[@AE-pv9vc]

So this begs the question, can Jesus truly make your mind and soul renewed on this side of eternity? Biblically and anecdotally the answer is yes.

[@CindySharp-v1w]

@@AE-pv9vcYes, He can. God can restore “what the locust have eaten”. He did it for Job. That doesn’t mean that grief or pain ever goes away, but this man can have joy and a fulfilling life after this terrible tragedy. God is good!

[@carinmore4406]

I know it has been about 8 ys(?) since his wife was murdered, but I don't see any nornal level of a sense of loss or grief with this guy. He sounds so matter of fact like. And he gives a little too much detail and "normal routine" of going to the gym and getting coffee. I would definitely suspect him. Pastor or not.

[@zombiemom6701]

@@ashley6934I grew up with someone who I thought was a standup guy- a Christian! And he turned out to be a serial rapist. Only GOD knows the heart.

[@Scoutbq1l]

i dont believe you

[@End_Illegal_Apartheid_israhell]

car

[@cecileblouin7151]

To the host I was getting into this story and then you interrupted him I want to know what he has to say it happened to him I find it very annoying