LOL! Tragedy of Commons waiting to happen, just like communes tend to result in starvation due to every worker tries to contribute the least while taking the most. The only reason polygyny works is due to the fact that wives are not expected to contribute to the family financially in that context, and each wife's uterus is still in her own possession so that any child in that uterus is hers not shared in common.
@@resourcesvoonda2128 我绝不认为全世界都一样,我看过那个‘爸爸’,下午在kopitiam 喝茶,也有几个酱的年纪一起在那里喝茶,她经过会跟他们打招呼,只是common sense 猜,不过也不是我的事情,我只在乎我的员工不会因为家事影响她的工作,但,很可惜,5年后我也在没办法的情况下离开那个区域,当时我的员工还欠我2万多,说没影响那是假的,我也没要她还,毕竟她是我员工里面最会谈话的,也会一点中文,跟我打工还一直学,会很长跟我讲华语,主要是她什么都肯学。
During many wars in the passed, lots of husband got killed (fighters) left many widows alone to shoulder the burden herself in silence. Mohamad saw these widows need assistance badly and suggested those rich gentleman able to help can have four wives.
西西歪,我认为你应该多和马来人做朋友,不单单只是和会华文的马来人做朋友, 你的malay 一块一块的😅😅😅 多深入了解他族,是见好事。。。 但是带着莫名其妙的问题真的很尬😭 马来西亚法律确实很照顾穆斯林女生,特别是遗产,家产方面。。。 女生会得到比较多,而且法律会优先考量让女儿先得到遗产。相比之下,华人就比较难说😅可能有些还重男轻女啊什么之类的。结婚的时候,会有“nasi minyak ” well nasi minyak 不是指很多油的饭。而是办宴时,全村,或者有亲戚关系的,会来帮做料理,不分你我,甚至把家里一些特别材料来分享。。。当然不分娘家,夫家。很多很多的传统, 都来自一个小故事❤
可是个人想法如果真的有心要照顾行善定时救济应该也可以不比娶这么多吧?不过回教说什么就什么吧,回教is the best😊
@octopatchi Жыл бұрын
My cousin's muslim husband wanted to marry a 2nd wife. My cousin refused. So in the end, after a few years of argument/live separate lives, they divorced so that he can marry that other woman.