We have normalised silence to the point where , when someone stands up. we find it odd and we fight them….
@sibongilemnguni51899 ай бұрын
Can't agree MORE with you, dearest, please 👏 👍 🙌 💯 .
@lifewitYolandaMbeki9 ай бұрын
💯
@michellematjeke53969 ай бұрын
It’s everywhere, church, friend groups and even families.
@galaxyfox5hy9 ай бұрын
So true
@nomsangema81629 ай бұрын
Truth be told being a pastors wife doesn't mean you must let people walk over you❤
@Sims_Online9 ай бұрын
I surprisingly love Nandi. We live I a world that lies that telling the truth is deemed crazy
@thandolomanzinizungu9 ай бұрын
I love this lady. A lot of church people are hypocritical and due to that many don't attend church today bc of them. Love her for standing up for herself.❤
@jacksonmpala78709 ай бұрын
live holy is not being hypocritical. these people want to mix Christianity with the world,
@nonkanyisomofokeng74705 ай бұрын
😂me and you there dear😂
@amdemichaeldessalegn8014 ай бұрын
This woman was never a Christian, listen to her. God does not give the gift of shape shifting, that is gift of the devil. Learn to discern. She went in to distroy and deceive.
@kitchenforall14 ай бұрын
If she knew she would stand up for herself instead standing up for Christ, why marry a man whose image will definitely put you out there. For Christ sake let’s stop normalizing nonsense in the name of standing out please 🙏🏾 This is not judgement. We’re not God
@sybillamula71909 ай бұрын
Don’t marry someone for their looks, make sure your visions and values align
@motivationalconnect76419 ай бұрын
Tough one that one
@smangelenkosi93009 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@siziwetobie58189 ай бұрын
💯🤞🏾 Yhoo Mfundisi sana choose wrong
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
Your view is very worldly. Pray for a partner and ask God to bless your marriage. Stop with the stereotype that beautiful women are bad. They’re created by God to glorify his name.
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@siziwetobie5818uyaziva ukuba uthini Sisi?
@nomileziphodlamini14539 ай бұрын
I think that Nandi is refusing to be judged by sinners and has chosen to be real and not hide 20:17
@mandyg53229 ай бұрын
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, Nandi. How we conduct ourselves is important to God. Moses never entered the promise land because he misrepresented God in his conduct. If God has called you to bring change to the system do it in a holy manner. Esteem your hubby's calling, through it you too will be blessed.
@prettymandoyi44024 ай бұрын
True, I agree with you
@ThobileBiyela-nh7pb4 ай бұрын
I agree
@joshuagoldneil61184 ай бұрын
Who told you that Moses misrepresented God in his conduct what kind of rubbish is this, Moses is a prophet of God, stop your nonsense and show respect to the lord and his messengers.
@lungab65244 ай бұрын
@@joshuagoldneil6118Moses did not enter the promised land because of his disobedience to God's specific command. In Numbers 20:8-12, God instructed Moses to speak to the rock to bring forth water for the Israelites. However, Moses struck the rock twice in anger instead of speaking to it as commanded. This act demonstrated a lack of trust in God's provision and a failure to uphold God's holiness before the people. As a leader, Moses was held to a higher standard of obedience and faithfulness. Additionally, Moses' actions in the incident at the waters of Meribah reflected poorly on God's character and authority. By not following God's instructions precisely, Moses misrepresented God's power and sovereignty to the Israelites. Ultimately, Moses' disobedience resulted in the consequence of being prohibited from entering the promised land. This serves as a sobering reminder of the importance of obedience and faithfulness to God's commands, especially for those in leadership positions. Moses misrepresented God
@Redeeminglove14144 ай бұрын
@@joshuagoldneil6118I agree with you!!!
@nombulelohangana74339 ай бұрын
Nandi no one will ever understand the things that happens in Methodist church unless u grew up attending the church .I understand u fully .Good luck
@fionagriffith84814 ай бұрын
I used to lime with Methodist members. They drank like fish. It made me question their commitment to God
@tedebare78744 ай бұрын
Really!
@optimisticmargie59484 ай бұрын
It is happening in Anglican Church,the wife of the priest,who has been sleeping with his fellow priests just died and story has it that the woman was sacrificed or killed deliberate.I pity for her 4 growing kids.
@lindiwehlekani45019 ай бұрын
She is very true about the injustice and corruption in the church. It's not only the Methodist church. I grew up in church and had to watch and endure my own mother being abused by my father who is a respected elder in the church. When I grew older and tried to save my mother, I was labeled as a rebel who don't respect church and marriage and of cause my mother went back on her knees to the same church and husband. Nandi is fighting a good fight even though I don't condone her rudeness but I relate to her fight.
@TT-qn2kz8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@NtsikiManson8 ай бұрын
Which church? Out of interest
@Nozist55Ай бұрын
She's not rude, she's realistic.
@abbafatherswarriorprincess36277 ай бұрын
We should never look to others for our standard of holiness; not even to the church, but to God's Word. We should never compare ourselves to others, because the world is evil; only to God's Word and what HE says. And the Holy Spirit, the Helper, is always there to guide us.
@wystee28954 ай бұрын
Like me some South African woman.
@huldahjay84954 ай бұрын
Exactly. Well said. Measuring your faith against flawed humans is a recipe for disaster. Only God's standard matters. Period
@abbafatherswarriorprincess36274 ай бұрын
@@huldahjay8495 AMEN
@dejavu11074 ай бұрын
@@abbafatherswarriorprincess3627 AMEN.
@zanelemazibuko60869 ай бұрын
She seems to be misunderstood because while she's vocal and present, others who are performing worse go unnoticed. I understand her perspective. If you witness wrongdoing and don't fit in with the organization, it's okay to leave. She's honest and doesn't pretend to be someone she's not.
@phumud46444 ай бұрын
Well said 👏
@makwenarapudi71708 ай бұрын
It's God using Queen Nandi t expose this hypocritical churches! May God give u strength to set others free!
@NthabelengNakeli-nu2oo8 ай бұрын
This just opened my eyes 😢
@stevemonssen30124 ай бұрын
Its every church
@kiya33284 ай бұрын
She is so strong... I need a character like her in my life! She answers with a smile❤❤❤❤. This is authenticity, and i am here for it!
@blessingjebison9 ай бұрын
Holy Spirit we need your guidance and leadership in the Body of Christ.
@oliveDaughterofZion4 ай бұрын
For real
@mamakhabaneramoshabe87959 ай бұрын
I like her😂 She basically said "When they go low, I go underground"😂
@Tatai201016 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@YandisaNozembe9 ай бұрын
A woman of seel in deed, love her tenacity. Truth has many enemies...
@Siiviwe9 ай бұрын
Thank you for this episode. I'm a big Methodist Church girl and I had to watch this episode twice. I hear Queen Nandi. ❤ I'm glad she's fighting the injustice!
@CELEBUTAIN9 ай бұрын
Speechless just speechless, even the twins were shook but they did handle this with care.
@MuziwoxoloDukwana2 ай бұрын
,l😂😂
@nomzekelomdloyiya6209 ай бұрын
Millicent’s line of questioning 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm9 ай бұрын
She need to grow up very fast
@lindacooper15434 ай бұрын
No ou live cording to Os wor bikini ing in nose is a no no no matter church you a in Read the bible shes contrary..to Gods word.thats what matter SIN IS SIN no matter what.church.you go to READ THE WORD YOU.REPRESENT GOD!!!!!!!!shes wrong
@nonhlanhlamtshali44859 ай бұрын
I love Nandi for being herself and not conforming to people's standards. She speaks her truth, and that's what people do not like about her shen
@akhonangxabani5399 ай бұрын
Let her be herself outside of the ministry…a whole minister’s wife in a bikini in public. Isn’t her body the temple of the Lord?
@amandamalindi93609 ай бұрын
Exactly
@nolwaziginindza74609 ай бұрын
From this interview I will see her with a different eye yazi
@naledikabai85789 ай бұрын
She can't change the church and it's people, she just has to switch and go to the one that suits her.
@pfulu8 ай бұрын
When you read in between the lines i can sense Pride and Arrogance. The is no standards at all.People with standards own everything they have .you can not bite the hand that feeds you.
@honeybee72459 ай бұрын
We need the spirit of discernment when choosing life partners because WOW!!!
@madamtt20909 ай бұрын
True
@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm9 ай бұрын
Say it again ❤may Lord help us
@MgoMgowo9 ай бұрын
And churches also need the spirit of creating proper rules. Not changing them whenever , then painting orhers as delinquents. Then fail to prove the delinquecy thereafter.
@bbm21169 ай бұрын
@@MgoMgowobefore the church rules kuqala uMoya oyiNgcwele ungekalawulwa Nguwo libala. Once the Holy Spirit takes over thhe church won't have to say nothing to you
@saintsinclair8 ай бұрын
Because WOW!!! 😢😢😢
@Inchrist611-k2q9 ай бұрын
CENT Twins well done for interviewing such a difficult person!!
@mercynjoroge37535 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@JackieNtwayagae2 ай бұрын
She is
@nonkululekomehlomakulu20379 ай бұрын
For your calmness, standing your ground, owning your story and being you..... They will say you are full of yourself, they will say you have pride.
@GODMALUV19 ай бұрын
When you come to christ , u can't be you. You have to be what God want you to be. She is not even a Christian to be in the first place
@GODMALUV19 ай бұрын
Stay which calm. Watch the whole episode or series from the beginning be4 u make judgement mama
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@GODMALUV1leave that to Christ. You don’t have authority to pass judgments. Pray for forgiveness
@Camagwinee9 ай бұрын
@@blackbusinessdirectory8952 the authority that we've been given is in the Word of God and we do have the authority to judge accordingly, that is with the Word of God John 7:24
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@Camagwinee not with hatred. That authority must not be unchristian. Look at it this way ‘what would Jesus do?’ (WWJD). Spread love not judgement
@ms_tee9 ай бұрын
Nandi is the EFF of the black churchs, she triggers transformation, necessary conversations and exposes things. Uwuthwele umnqamlezo wakhe.
@nomileziphodlamini14539 ай бұрын
Exactly, someone needs to speak up. African Missionary churches are different from the other churches in their original countries and need to speak up about it.
@feziwemotshabi30966 ай бұрын
I agree
@mariasono61175 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂EFF of the black church
@nonkanyisomofokeng74705 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂yabona wena umgqibile ukumchaza😂
@Cookist_Mahlengi9 ай бұрын
Now you understand why the bible speaks about being unequally yoked. This type of situation will make you suffer in your calling. He is the pastor who upholds the standard and she doesn’t. There’s nothing wrong with her reasoning. They are just unequally yoked period. They will never have common ground. Also she’s an Alfa female who doesn’t know how to submit and is unwilling. There are relationships that cherish women like her. But the one she’s in, is not the one. Even with 6 kids. What’s unfair is that he has to compromise his calling to please her. It’s a tough place to be in as a man of God. I hope God helps her grow especially because her marriage needs it. Even if she doesn’t become mam’mfundhisi. Just being a child of God who is humble enough to her husband and God. And doesn’t care about being right. God will defend you if you feel mistreated. We don’t fight fire with fire.
@khosiethabekhulu34979 ай бұрын
Well putted. She is not the woman for him. This is sad. It is like Megan and Devon.
@xolilemazibuko43909 ай бұрын
I share the same sentiments with you he chose wrong
@MaureenkediboneMonareng9 ай бұрын
Well said yooo I feel sorry for the pastor Shame
@toscamilanga46409 ай бұрын
Was waiting for someone to point that out.
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@khosiethabekhulu3497 OMG! How, on earth, do you know that? Do you know anything about God’s purpose for them? Do you know why God let that marriage to exist in the first place?
@mulisaramarumo99689 ай бұрын
Queen Nandi is a fighter and unfortunately many Christians want timid people to conform to anything just for peace sake .Matthew 10:34-36 , rather expose the ills of church than hide and have churches that are built on people's pain..
@somnguni9 ай бұрын
!!!!Exactly
@Nombuso-bd5du9 ай бұрын
There is a lot happening in churches and people don't want to listen.
@Fatima-k6t5l9 ай бұрын
Quoting…Pastors sleep with their colleagues, the church uses him by him emotionally manipulate people and get money out of them to reach a target otherwise the pastor doesn’t get paid. She wants the husband to get his job back but she’s here bashing the church,…I mean she’s comparing herself to a 23 year old gosh I can go on and on and on lol she’s the biggest hypocrite!!!! I strongly doubt that the husband will be given back his job. And for those who watched this episode I hope you’re aware of the evil that is being performed in churches today! Still shocked at the fact that she was honest enough to admit that pastors lie and emotionally blackmail us to give out money.
@ImaniQ_99 ай бұрын
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@Camagwinee9 ай бұрын
@@Fatima-k6t5l Jesus extensively warned us that the last days will be like the days of Noah and for us to be weary and to discern many folks who come to us in sheep's clothing and are inwardly ravenous wolves. Now think how hectic were the days of Noah that God flooded the whole world😳
@sindisiwesibuyi94669 ай бұрын
When your partner was chosen to be your fall from grace. I blame him for not discerning. He knew who she was before giving her 6 kids.
@zanelendevu58879 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂 So much truth, its his fault
@mandisanorman85139 ай бұрын
It was not about the cape but character 😢
@Dimz78909 ай бұрын
So true
@Sibusisosibanyoni-gm6js9 ай бұрын
The husband he's in hell, emuva kude phambili kude shame,.
@Nasiphii_M9 ай бұрын
Sooooo true. Sisishumane. Shame. He was stupid
@fikifesi67909 ай бұрын
Your truth Nandi... you've exposed the injustice. You're eloquent and elagant.
@michellephandle3646 ай бұрын
If Christians will show grace,kindness and love among each other,problems like these won't exist,as a so called Christian we suppose to spread love....and how do you begin to feel when you think you have a dictatorship card on someone else's life....Ministers are called yesss,but they are not robots....AND WHO CALLED THEM WILL FIX THEM ....if they had to correct Nandi with love in all her wrong doings(their perception)she would have maybe changed or tried to fix her mistakes....THEIR ONLY WISH WAS TO SEE THEM SUFFER......Love love love ....humanity, kindness and forgiveness......GRACE people GRACE
@mariasono61175 ай бұрын
True neh
@kurubalanrengaraju85284 ай бұрын
Wonderful lady Just plain honest May Jesus bless this wonderful soul
@4hinson7774 ай бұрын
Do no harm and accept no harm. She's a real one. 😂 🔥💎🙏🏽
@NolwaziM9 ай бұрын
Nandi said what she said chile. She said silence is not golden! She’s not remorseful. She said she never broke any Methodist law. She said she tried to conform in the beginning to people’s opinions and no matter how hard she had tried they still did not like her. She said they had already made up their minds about her so she had to make the decision to be authentically herself. This sounds to me like religion trauma and you can hear from the number of times she cussed in this interview. The sad truth is that most pastors wives are going through this silently. Those who try and trivialise her experience by saying she doesn’t read the bible when they don’t live in her house shows how narcissistic religious people can be. The fight is definitely bigger than just her and her family. I believe through this experience she’s going to find her calling and touch many lives.
@selbybopape235 ай бұрын
Religion Trauma,That's a Good Phrase
@successnefox17244 ай бұрын
Thus what I sense as well religion trauma. Unfortunately ladies get fed up fast than man hence she said is like they are hypnotized. Again personality matters if you are fiery (red dominant) is not easy to tolerate injustice.
@EstherAkinsola-s6p4 ай бұрын
My dear this is what my mum is going through honestly 😢😢😢😢 Sometimes I cried seeing my mom going through what she is going through has a pastor wife 😢
@well3604 ай бұрын
@user-pz7gp3sh1i This must be very wounding. I pray you can find a safe space to heal from this trauma. May God guide you accordingly
@NolwaziM4 ай бұрын
@@EstherAkinsola-s6p May God strengthen your mom 🙏🏾
@victoriasonqishe18789 ай бұрын
Love Nandi to bits,you served them nice,you gave them what they deserve.Inkohlakalo nobumenemene ecaweni yethu abunyamezeleki.Well done cc
@saintsinclair8 ай бұрын
Wow. You guys support such nonsense, nyani.
@selbybopape235 ай бұрын
I respect Her Not being a Hypocrite, And She says, pull out the Rules and Find Me Wrong.. I respect People who Will stand proudly for what they believe..Not these Simps in Congregants...😂😂i Like Her👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽
@ComfortEkpin-ru6jm28 күн бұрын
It is not about her, but about God and His word.Even John Wesley's wife was not born again, it might be the same spirit at work.
@zasendlunkulumalimela49989 ай бұрын
I salute you girls, you handled this conversation very respectfully. You might look young but very matured. Keep up the good work. Keep fighting girl stand for the justice and better run to Christ as your Savior you find piece.
@mimie27459 ай бұрын
U are one strong woman ….these churches they try to control our marriages so much
@Dearqueennandi.9 ай бұрын
Manipulation 😢 which is just pure evil
@nelisakungu43659 ай бұрын
@@Dearqueennandi.hayi Jonga I love you for days Gqumakho ❤
@charis75134 ай бұрын
That's not biblical. What does the bible say about marriage, what does it say about a husbands role and a wifes role? Those churches are using Gods name in vain. Working from a place of fleshly desire. Masking it with faint scripture. That's manipulative, not the holy spirit; evil. God will deal with them too, but please people need not be afraid to speak up and ask questions and get Godly counsel. That's one of the ways people are being tricked. Through Shame and fear. The people in their lives are complicit or just being dishonest. Some are over worked. It depends. The kingdom needs workers that are adequately eqquipped to disciple people truthfully, without getting carried away or backsliding.
@MemoeBeni9 ай бұрын
I love how people here are just being straight forward... No sugar coating... That's how the church shld be.
@Ngunikaz9 ай бұрын
It is nolonger I who lives but Christ in me… the story would change immediately 💯
@nolithambebe9 ай бұрын
Nandi is a realist, she doesn't live under cover...I pray God protect her and her family
@GODMALUV19 ай бұрын
She may be a realist to the world , but not a Christian b4 God
@sakhiwovumazonke53199 ай бұрын
@@GODMALUV1 says you
@sibongilenchabeleng59869 ай бұрын
@@GODMALUV1What on earth is a 'Christian b4 God' anyway?
@WorkFromHomeAfrica9 ай бұрын
Protect her so she can continue like this?
@jolsinq88369 ай бұрын
@@GODMALUV1just because she doesn't hide manyala(evil)/things that were happening in sodom and Gomorrah)that are happening in the churches?...are we going to ignore the abominations she is exposing?!!
@khumalolungile9739 ай бұрын
This was really nice to watch. I really dont think she is bad or wants to fight because she enjoys it. I really hear and understand her point, if she can just express herself without swearing I think her point will definitely get across a lot of people. Much love to her and her family. May God heal her husband, may he be reinstated and may God continue to provide as they wait.❤
@zanelenkame51429 ай бұрын
She is a not a congregant but a ministers wife and that says she’s attached to her man and whatever she does is a reflection of her husband. Her actions will definitely have an affect on her man. Uyibulele icareer yakhe! If shes not happy with how Methodist do things why does she not create her own church with her own rules? Yicawe yoKhokho bethu le! She says she wore the uniform correctly how though with a nose ring and a tongue ring. Im a Methodist in good standing but would never marry a minister because I know what it entails. Who is she to think that she can change the church????
@mambesigoje70069 ай бұрын
Tjoooo so there are rules around wearing nose ring and tongue rings?
@Mbalings9 ай бұрын
@mambesigoje7006 apparently earings, make up and wigs are fine 😂😂
@gladysmgidi64399 ай бұрын
But kunamanyala namanyundululo in the church
@Barbsie_M9 ай бұрын
Girllll. Born and bred in a Methodist church. No one understands what you saying more than me. Caweni there are rules we abide phofu there are rules everywhere kodwa. She did this to her husband and her family. This man saw a beautiful lady and wanted to make her a wife. Little did he know that she will be his down fall. Uphi ngoku? She will be celebrating her birthday kwa Chief NGQOKO. Imagine umfazi womfundisi etywaleni kodwa ugulelwa yindoda allegedly. Ukuzi thoba ? Uthini ngo thoba isdima sale ndoda wavuma Uba ngu nkosikazi wakhe emazi ba ungumfundisi, esazi ba uba ngumama umfundisi funeke uzi phathe njani ? Wazi faka lo bhuti. She wants to be in the entertainment industry so bad, it's actually sad. Which industry will take her knowing she bad mouthed a whole church, one of the biggest churches in SA. Who will recognize her ? I mean if she can do that to her husband and church yintoni iProduction ? Uright pha kwa Tiktok
@Mbalings9 ай бұрын
@@Barbsie_M she belongs to the streets
@abigailtakobana29509 ай бұрын
I think this gave an insight of who Nandi is, I love her, stand for your truth publicly not in secrecy.
@leratoramaphoko32869 ай бұрын
After watching this all I can do is send prayers to Minister Mlambo. May the Holy Spirit show him the way. This must be tough on him😢
@ndileka2169 ай бұрын
Quite sad.... Rev Mlumbi
@myrahtshabalala54738 ай бұрын
This maybe the only reasonable response
@mncedisilundi7 ай бұрын
He decided to marry someone who belongs to the streets
@souldelite86453 ай бұрын
@mncedisilundi according to?
@MartinMunyaradzi9 ай бұрын
That's a very worldly and carnal woman,your body is the temple of the Holy spirit so respect your body.
@zanelendevu58879 ай бұрын
Yep, I think she needs a lot of maturing nje..... Whats worse she is comparing herself to other 23 yr old's 🙄Even though she is married more so a Reverends wife.
@angelajohn13279 ай бұрын
Bible talks about modesty. Read your bibles please.
@MgoMgowo9 ай бұрын
I dont think so. The church seems not to be sure of what their rules are.
@MartinMunyaradzi9 ай бұрын
@@MgoMgowo its not about rules it's about holiness
@CharlotErnest9 ай бұрын
Religion or Christianity that come to Africa with whites surprises me because before it we were wearing African attire whereby it was not covering the whole body but now you talk too much about ppl dress code shhhhhshhhh
@ceciliakunene91066 ай бұрын
One just needs to put oneself in Nandis shoes. She is married and whatever affects her husbsnd affects her. She is Right to expose everything that hurt her. So that she gets Healed. I think this is Therapy for her.
@phindiswaapril5 ай бұрын
Andizu ngasho umhle ntombiyakuthi
@dejavu11074 ай бұрын
I’m a Christian but since most churches comply with the world I’ve decided to build my relationship with God from home and in peace. Until God himself shows me a church where he’s truly worshipped I shall keep it that way. God is spirit and can be found everywhere and the Holy Spirit is the best teacher in case there’s something I don’t understand.
@giftbhera37653 ай бұрын
You are not alone. I took that decision too! Eversince I made that decision, I am at peace.
@dejavu11073 ай бұрын
@@giftbhera3765 Amen and to God all the glory.
@stefanmnguni5168Ай бұрын
Heb.10.25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. (AMP)
@stefanmnguni5168Ай бұрын
Heb.10.25 Not forsaking or neglecting to assemble together [as believers], as is the habit of some people, but admonishing (warning, urging, and encouraging) one another, and all the more faithfully as you see the day approaching. (AMP)
@dejavu1107Ай бұрын
@@stefanmnguni5168 Amen to this… Unlike at Church when I pray from home I know that the people I pray with truly have a relationship with God.
@andremanuel32449 ай бұрын
The fruit tells it all... 😢Prayer is needed guys, let mercy lead n let's rather meet at our secret places n pray n not offend.it's not about the church it's about Christ Jesus, Thank you twinzzzzzzz
@ruthsumaili45109 ай бұрын
Salvation is personal journey and it seems she is far from it ,you don’t have to compare yourself with other people’s lives.
@onikayongaba89269 ай бұрын
Is she saved or just a Ministers wife?
@RosinahMonyebodi9 ай бұрын
@@onikayongaba8926 I think she's not saved. She is just a ministers wife. May God help her and be saved. Jesus will help her.
@ruthsumaili45109 ай бұрын
@@onikayongaba8926 i doubt she needs to be convicted by God.
@FundoMpho9 ай бұрын
@@onikayongaba8926she is not saved
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
Salvation is not your construct. It’s a personal relationship with Christ. You are not in a position to say who’s receiving it or who’s not. Leave that to the owner of salvation.
@JohannahRamalobela4 ай бұрын
I love you Queen Nandi for standing up for your rights and the truth ❤
@JayJay-bd2us9 ай бұрын
I salute you Queen Nandi,it takes courage to stand up for yourself in this corrupt system
@SisLinaM9 ай бұрын
I think Nandy’s message would be understood better if she could just stop swearing and using vulgar language. She is retaliating and that’s why she is like that. The Church has hurt her and her family. They abused them. They harassed them. Iwisile ibossy.
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
We understand it better when it’s coming from the heart, unfiltered. We understand it very well my sister because we do not judge her. She’s a child of God, who’s allowed to express herself in a way that best suits her, not us. It’s her story. Not ours. It’s her journey. Not ours.
@mbalidlamini6959 ай бұрын
@@blackbusinessdirectory8952wena you're attacking everyone who's commenting go and research about the difference between being corrected and being judged
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@mbalidlamini695 that’s your opinion Mbali. I don’t get satisfaction from attacking people. It’s a pointless exercise. You may have misconstrued my view. I don’t subscribe to suppression of other people’s views. I feel that we, as Christians, can be very judgemental. This is fundamentally wrong in many ways. You can’t tear down and pass judgement on another Christian, in a condescending way. Our attitudes are terrible towards other Christians, who behave in a way that we don’t agree with. Remember, the devil is happy when we are fighting amongst ourselves. It cannot be that whatever the interviewee says is seen in a bad light. The fact that she’s speaking against the church doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s wrong. What if it’s God’s way of fixing some of the wrong things that are happening in the church? What if the church is right? Can we, instead of, pray for her healing and that of the church? I don’t know this lady and I am sure she doesn’t know me either. As Jesus Christ would say, ‘Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone” (John 8:7), I am not in any position to throw even a pebble at her. So ke sisiwam, I hope you understand me. My position is based on Galatians 5 v22-23. If I offended you or appeared abrasive, please accept my sincerest apologies. God bless. 🙏
@mbalidlamini6959 ай бұрын
@@blackbusinessdirectory8952 but the Bible says don't conform to the standards of this world but allow God to transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind then you will know the will of God so keeping up with trends "the ladies my age are doing it", fashions and popular values "so called philosophies" must not matter in a Christian's life Also God constantly watches your response to people, problems, conflict and disappointments
@blackbusinessdirectory89529 ай бұрын
@@mbalidlamini695 all I’m saying sisi wam is that we must refrain from being judgemental and allow Jesus to to the judgement, not us. We are not privy to the criteria that is used, it’s a mystery to us. Mathew 7:1 states clearly that we should not judge others as we are also to be judged because the same measure of judgement will be used by you. In this instance, we need spiritual maturity and guidance. Let’s not allow the devil to come between us. Let’s be steadfast in our commitment to faith.
@naomijung8398 ай бұрын
I love this lady standing for her rights and truth, very brave and honest woman but others might perceive it as arrogant
@rebotiletutja90229 ай бұрын
May she rise up in prayer and sound a trumpet of revival for the Methodist church.. That God may change the systems and align it to His just and righteous way.
@ulohoonome83794 ай бұрын
Amen
@pfulu9 ай бұрын
Hii CENTTWINZ - I love how you are Questioning her .Shes still need lots of guidance in this Christian community.
@msngema13809 ай бұрын
Unfortunately she looks like the type who takes advice from no one…
@khosiethabekhulu34979 ай бұрын
@@msngema1380Unteachable spirit.
@nomathembakhoza28929 ай бұрын
True no wisdom at all.
@dianabess15059 ай бұрын
@@msngema1380not even God will advise her but I pray that she softens her heart and get to have a relationship with God
@ncedisakhewu9 ай бұрын
@nomathembakhoza2892 there is no wisdom in mob mentality.
@philasibonge.mkhize9 ай бұрын
Appreciate Nandi for exposing things that go on eWeseli👏🏿
@siphesihlenhlebela77219 ай бұрын
Indeed her reasoning is sooo worldly. She is even comparing herself to other women her age in this world. She needs to find God. It is only him who can help her.
@NoxoloMqela-wf6sm9 ай бұрын
Amen
@yakhemfumbe66499 ай бұрын
So true, the swimming costume wooooow who does that. And claim I'm doing me
@nomileziphodlamini14539 ай бұрын
This kind of judgement is so sad because the Methodist community in England has female ministers and they were pants, whereas in SA it’s not allowed konkhe!!!
@ndileka2169 ай бұрын
@@nomileziphodlamini1453that is not true, there are many women ministers in the Methodist Church. The current Bishop is a woman, the previous one as well.
@DimphoSello-gz9pr7 ай бұрын
ITS FUNNY HOW YOU ALL WANT PPL TO ACT IN SOME WAYS BCS OF CHURCH I DONT AGREE WITH YOU STOP JUDGING PPL BCS OF YOUR BELIEFS GOD BLESSES US IN THE SAME WAY AS HE BLESS EVERYONE FOR ME IREGARDLESS OF HOW WE ARE HE LOVES US ALL YOU ARE THOSE PPL AT CHURCH WHO LOVE PPLS BUSINESS
@zukiswa87419 ай бұрын
I love how these conversations challenge our make up as a society. I found myself accepting Nandi as she is & reflecting a lot about my life ❤
@LesegoBaloyi-e3v9 ай бұрын
This is deep and only when you are in her shoes will you get it.
@luyandangqola25229 ай бұрын
Very deep really
@maryolayinka51594 ай бұрын
@@luyandangqola2522In my own opinion nadi is somehow selfish. Looking at her bikini picture on X, as a Christian I feel is a form of lack of respect for the office of her husband. I am not in support of the church. The reality is that bikini is not African especially when your husband is a Pastor.
@luyandangqola25224 ай бұрын
@@maryolayinka5159 That's true hey 😘
@sekasizani31246 ай бұрын
Am proud of Her and very happy She stood and fight for Herself, even Mama Winnie fought alone in many occurrences
@sharonkarabomongale62509 ай бұрын
I love Nandi, I admit she couldn't have handled the situation better, there are amicable way of doing things but let's speak the truth , there are bullies in the house of the Lord, misleading others, not led by Holy spirit and wants to control others. That is not Godly at all.
@asavelachola99389 ай бұрын
She's just a strong woman at a wrong place. Love you Nandi ❤
@Ntuthu28_M9 ай бұрын
There's a lot going on in churches even in Christian churches. I applaud you for living your truth. As for the rest of us. Let us let God be the judge cos he sees everything even what's hidden. Thank you Centtwins❤
@NancyM23M9 ай бұрын
To the husband Mr Minister - 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
@NonwaboSkosana9 ай бұрын
I love her... She owns her truth church people can be very abusive
@eyethumkumla9 ай бұрын
I completely understand her , what she stands for and is fighting for but at the expense of her husband? She clearly said the man loves his job , can’t her love for him allow her to compromise? Yoh bethuna
@nompumelelomasango48609 ай бұрын
Exactly
@BuyisileSibiya-ju8ef9 ай бұрын
Exactly. Church is all what her husband knows,why take that away from him? Why not compromise for the well-being of your family?
@MgoMgowo9 ай бұрын
@@BuyisileSibiya-ju8efshes not taking church away from the husband. Church faiked to even prove what they are doing wrong. How is that taking church away from the husband. If she bent rules and not complied , she woukd be tskijg that away. But she hasnt she even kept minor rules which most, including those that are finding faut with her fail to keep. It is nice to compromise , but being conditioned whereas rules to justify the conditions arent even there is a bit unwarranted. Too much to bear
@thembisasoci99707 ай бұрын
As a pastor's wife I would never think of piercing my nose, wear a nose ring and pierce my tongue or mouth. I no longer live for myself but for my husband's dignity, mine, the church's and the Lord's. The Word of God teaches us to submit to our husbands. That will not kill her in doing that.
@DAVINCI85-i4h5 ай бұрын
@@MgoMgowoyou clearly havent watched the Pastors wives series....you would see how she is almost totally uncompromising in things she does....she was at one stage refusing to take heed of her husbands objections for her to pose for sexy shoots i believe for a calender and it was only when her close friend convinced her out of it did she opt out.....this lady just never wants to be wrong in cases when she is right and when she is wrong
@chiefer13259 ай бұрын
She loves her husband, dont be mistaken at all...she is fighting the system...
@nomfundojantjies84659 ай бұрын
Exactly
@fatherschildpeace21749 ай бұрын
This lady Yooo. She is Ahabs wife, incarnate! It's clear she is not a believer. Her reasoning is so wordly and warped.
@theriebank9 ай бұрын
Shes embarrasing her self and her husband proudly so
@shalom28899 ай бұрын
I used to respect Nandi a lot until I watched Amabishob 😢😢😢her character doesn’t represent Christ.
@thendokhameli25569 ай бұрын
The swearing😔.. She's a disgrace to 😔the body of Christ!
@NoDnaJustRsa9 ай бұрын
Personification of Jezebel here twisting Scripture. I respect the methodist church.
@bethechange23359 ай бұрын
I agree, I discerned spirits on her and didn’t watch beyond 1 minute. My spirit was disturbed by her words and I stopped. This woman I didn’t need to hear more after only watching for 1 minute because her statement that she is the type of person that can even wear a bomb to go down with another person reveals the spirit speaking through her is demonic and extremely vile. She is of this world & operating under serious evil spirits. She is not fit to be a wife of a pastor or any true believer as her heart is not right. She may be exposing evil people but where someone exposing is evil I don’t even need to hear it. I don’t entertain devils like the ones in her.
@sebehlongwane80029 ай бұрын
You found Wesley Church like that, no matter how much noise you make nothing is going to change, we grew up under such at church and the moment we matured we walked away for our own sanity and peace of mind. I feel sorry for her husband, a little fame got into her head honestly
@gugumkula74989 ай бұрын
True.
@viwenyati35299 ай бұрын
Thank God she is not walking away.
@AzaMdlokolo-v2h9 ай бұрын
This is sad 😢😢Nandi needs to grow up
@pamelakhabo8439 ай бұрын
The church wouldn't dare tell a white minister's wife to not wear a bikini.NEVER..but blacks are ostracized. Im with Nandi,the most important thing is one's heart not what you are wearing.
@ncedisakhewu9 ай бұрын
💯
@Blessed_for_life_20239 ай бұрын
And she didn't wear a bikini to church.
@StirYourselfUp5 ай бұрын
@@thabi886then all married women swimming @ the beach are living in sin…hayi wethu😅😂
@diligenceeke30234 ай бұрын
@@thabi886 That's misinterpretation of scripture. From Jesus own words it's the person who looked and lusted that commited adultery. Even though you may have a valid point, but don't switch scripture around to prove your point. Secondl, people go to the beach everyday. Members of that church also go to the beach and see people there. Why should this woman not go swimming because of members who also go swimming?
@diligenceeke30234 ай бұрын
@@StirYourselfUp He sounds like a religious zealot trying to control another woman who isn't his wife. All members of that church also visit beaches. Why should the woman not swim because she is pastor's wife. What sort of witchcraft is that?
@lindiwemoletsane9 ай бұрын
Truly speaking, these days our churches are known about money.
@phemopatience9 ай бұрын
When Nandi spoke about how she will bring the bomb & go down with you, the twins’ reaction got me😂😂😂. You both said “yhooo” at the same time
@neliswamatwa57569 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@MgoMgowo9 ай бұрын
Same 😅😅😅
@TT-qn2kz8 ай бұрын
And when she said the husband suck money out of them 😢 their reaction 😭
@Alwaysgrateful43619 ай бұрын
She spoke the truth. Silence is not golden. This is why the churches are riddled with evil. Too many good people are silent. 😢
@rejoicedongonda20609 ай бұрын
I don't care about the wrongs of the church whatsoever.. You are wrong for marrying someone you can't fully accept .. Its his job, his calling and you walked right into it knowingly
@BuyisileSibiya-ju8ef9 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@bongiswakopeshe69069 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@edinahnakambale23059 ай бұрын
God have mercy on us
@edinahnakambale23059 ай бұрын
God have mercy on us
@Sibusisosibanyoni-gm6js9 ай бұрын
I don't think she loves and respect her husband, it's a shame.
@victoriakgabi73839 ай бұрын
Hi ladies lm always admire your interwiews with your different guest. I'm a full member of Methodist this church is not like in the olden days. Now is only about money not saving the sauls of people is a money making scheme. In rural areas the old people like pensioners they taking that last money to the headquarters of the church while they struggling to put food on the table. Some in the rurals are busy trying so hard to build the church they just attend in a shack while in urban have decent buildings cause they taking the money from different branches like to say ntlo kgolo e batla bokana from that poor community. That ntlo kgolo just collecting not helping those branches about the building instead they taking from them it's heartbreaking. And most of the time in rural areas is old people pensioners at the same time they are breadwinners because the children are not working and also you share with the church that grants l don't think is fair Methodist think twice about this because is oppression in the name of God. But understand me l don't say to attend church in the shacks are wrong because church is not about buildings is about you but still we need buildings as a shelter.
@qaphileqaphs44709 ай бұрын
Thank you Nandi stands for the truth kudlalwa ngabantu kanti in the name of the Lord haybooo bengingaz indab kngak mina im shocked 😮
@SaritaPasserby9 ай бұрын
A Christian without holy spirit is totally nothing....we need it to guide us....
@gugunyanda69619 ай бұрын
We do need the Holy Spirit. But we refer to Him as 'Him'/ 'He'. We don't refer to Him as 'it'. He's actually a person not a thing. From a sis in Christ 😊❤
@nomvulankoro21099 ай бұрын
I wonder if Christ would have referred to anyone as nothing ragardless of the differences.
@DAVINCI85-i4h5 ай бұрын
@@nomvulankoro2109 what you talking about...Jesus multiple times mentioned that apart from me ye can do nothing....seems to imply the samw thing
@Keomolf_9 ай бұрын
I pray for Nandi may she open her heart for God more than she ever did so that she can hear God clearer. Can u kindly allow God to minister to u for a while. I see potential though
@Dearqueennandi.9 ай бұрын
I think you projecting seek God. Love and light my dear
@wendyjones12313 ай бұрын
Religion will have you moving in fear of being rejected by man about issues God nor his Word is even Concerned about‼️ indoctrination, hurts and steel peoples individuality‼️
@sindingwenya603Ай бұрын
Gos is using her to fight injustice
@viwempongwana9 ай бұрын
When you fighting such battles it can't be in place of a good character, you can do it in a Godly manner. Still be kind,well mannered and stand your ground.
@sarahmatsetela97369 ай бұрын
Queen Nandi, keep fighting, they will understand you later. You are at another level
@glorykgala4309 ай бұрын
For the first time, I kinda,sorta understand where Nandi is coming from. However, salvation and the Spirit of God is really needed.
@spm91309 ай бұрын
I support the lady for the truth she stands for. Church leadership is very biased towards pastors’ wives. My ex-pastor husband did so much wrong to me and yet not even once was I called to give my side of the story, they believed him and obviously he hid his shenanigans. We become the sacrificial lambs and yet they know that they are after either your money or your marriage! Fight for your marriage sisi, those who don’t understand now will understand later! You are so right, the pandemic of corruption is very bad in our country, so much that it has infiltrated the church and is ruining families! No wonder people don’t want our Christ and that, for me, is tragic!😢😢😢
@LethoHali9 ай бұрын
💯
@curious_afrikan9 ай бұрын
you're putting in personal emotion into your assessment. as a pastors wife the bar is high for you, you're a leader and a mother figure to the entire church.
@spm91309 ай бұрын
@@curious_afrikan so? Does that give anyone the right to trample over me?
@curious_afrikan8 ай бұрын
@spm9130 not unless you're letting the congregation see you half naked, etc etc.
@DAVINCI85-i4h5 ай бұрын
You need to watch pastors wives series....this lady is just all round rebellious,and im talking of matters outside the church....why would a pastors wife be arguing about whether ot not to model for sexy pics in studio....
@asandavaaltein91759 ай бұрын
I don't blame her, she just sees everything from worldly point of view
@nchadipoo5379 ай бұрын
I don't understand whether she's saved or not... But from listening to her she seems not transformed by the power of Christ... Therefore there's not much i can say about the way she lives her life...she needs to be saved.
@mphodingiswayo32829 ай бұрын
She is a Methodist she never claimed to be born again
@thabimas1619 ай бұрын
Is she a PK? There’s a reason she feels that way and it’s good. There are a lot of corrections that needs to be code in the church platform, I support her because she’s not trying to disrespect anyone and she’s actually speaking for many who can’t speak up, so go on and be yourself respectfully sister 🥰
@nolithambebe9 ай бұрын
Thanks for bringing her in, she is lovely....may the Lord bless her heart ❤.
@maseramemolumo14408 ай бұрын
Queen Nandi touched on some important points of contention in the church. I could see Inno’s discomfort with how honest, and a tad bit raw opinions. I hope our churches will for a second put aside the doctrine and hear our voices and most importantly seek Gods counsel in leading his church 😊
@BomkaziNtinganti9 ай бұрын
First time hearing about Nandi in this channel. I love love her views about life. I truly wish her and her family all the blessings. A Queen. Now let me go follow her on all her socials ❤
@Noku_kbk9 ай бұрын
I can relate! I love her for exposing the church and their hypocrisy! Good for her! I’m glad she’s standing up and going against the current
@KhanyiMboodles9 ай бұрын
This was actually such a great episode. Non-biased despite knowing Nandi personally, I think I LOVE how Inno asked such important questions and made such valid comments. Nandi did well in being open & honest and besides a little bit of profanity, she made a valid point. Or two. I’ve got so many questions or rather things to say. 1. Is the husband being held hostage in this marriage? “Go cool off and come back - you’ll love me again” I think as a woman that’s one thing you fear hearing from a man. 2. To Inno’s point, if roles were reversed, how would she feel? 3. I hope one day her husband finds it in his heart to forgive her for the hurt she has caused him and sees what she was trying to do - at the end of the day she says she was fighting for his justice 4. I worry about their children. I worry so so much raising kids in a broken home (Judging from what she was saying) Isn’t it better to raise your 6 kids as Co-parents who are both healthy in all aspects? 5. Have they received counselling / are they attending therapy? As single units, as a couple and as a family. It is SO important. They’ve been through a lot (and are still going through a lot)
@lebosihlangu9 ай бұрын
Couldn't have said it better! ❤
@paballofavoured9 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have said it better
@therealmncwanegwabeni72639 ай бұрын
What a sick situation! I feel sorry for the husband and the kids 😢
@sindingwenya603Ай бұрын
I hope one day the husband will thank Nandi for her bravery. The kids are fine and they are still going to have more.
@takhonavilanemabanga81589 ай бұрын
Love Queen Nandi guys like struuu❤she's true, not fake❤❤❤come for them wena queen
@phakamabusiswanatasiambhel18719 ай бұрын
I'm actually starting to love uNandi ngoba uyalimela iqiniso...i really hope that your husband gets justice shame...people have a huge problem with people who stand for their truth
@motoaisusan31249 ай бұрын
Nandi we thank you for standing up.May God give you strength to fight this evil.
@j.p.2009 ай бұрын
She does make some good points.
@BontleHlongwaneАй бұрын
18:45 It’s not our opinion, it’s the spirit’s opinion. It’s the self righteousness for me.
@philiswashereenmkhatshwa68339 ай бұрын
Her reasoning is very worldly … ai nooo ..20 sessions of premarital counselling by a church is important … but she did have 1 or 2 points that made sense
@S24-x1u9 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I think the problem is that she's worried about what the church says or doesn't instead of following scripture
@bethechange23359 ай бұрын
I agree with you. This woman I didn’t need to hear more after only watching for just 1 minute because her statement that she is the type of person that can even wear a bomb to go down with another person reveals the spirit speaking through her is demonic and extremely vile. She is of this world & operating under serious evil spirits. She is not fit to be a wife of a pastor or any true believer as her heart is not right. She may be exposing evil people but where someone exposing is evil I don’t even need to hear it. I don’t entertain devils like the ones in her.
@vusimngomezulu25009 ай бұрын
@@S24-x1uWhich church are true according to the Bible in this world? Because many churches are not true according to this scriptures, Roman's 10:1-3,2thimoty 4:3-4,2Peter 2:1-3...
@neusalanga9249 ай бұрын
So true 😮
@fayonacooper76624 ай бұрын
I am trying to watch the video in its entirety..,and I am a strong woman ,mother ,wife but I find this woman distasteful ..she is a total disgrace !!!
@ArenaOfLibertyMinistry9 ай бұрын
I get u Nandi completely...people are out there'ready with red pens to keep people's mistakes..
@MgoMgowo9 ай бұрын
Also red pens that mark what doesnt need to be marked. Look at how she complied with rules, immaculate. She asks them to show her rules they are faulting them on , they fail to. I also hear Nandi! I hear her yazi
@newtendai4 ай бұрын
First time watching your show. I love Nandi. I love how she is self assured.
@teresasimon86724 ай бұрын
And she is telling the truth 🙏🙏🙏
@nosiphonotshokovu97069 ай бұрын
Growing up in the Methodist Church,at 37 I would never personally raise my kids there.My pensioner mother pours out money just for going to church,the pensioners are getting bad cause the church soley relies or litches off them.I'm good with that church.Nandi thanks and be strong Mami...
@ladyd95119 ай бұрын
Fact
@mphoteti60699 ай бұрын
If awubhatali itikiti they won't bury you
@Babalwakiviet9 ай бұрын
Lady is rebellious I feel sorry for her, she destroyed her husband's career and she just doesn't care.
@bukelwagaqa41379 ай бұрын
Nandi is so hell rude. Really she was never been having a calling
@keyamosala23839 ай бұрын
She is so rude dis she ever have a career education read the bible I'm so shocked. Cent twins should removed Methodist fired her husband she fired himherself😮
@itumelangmeselane24809 ай бұрын
There is a verse in the bible, where the congregation or must i say the community take the woman to Jesus, i know you know the script better than me. When they are the at the temple , Jesus is saying to them, anyone who think have no sin, must take a stone and bit the sinner. The bibble said, all of those thousand people just vanish. They disappeared quietly. So let the gal, bethu who happened to be a pastors wife and the beautiful mother of six kids, ingane zikamfundisi, just be herself uzokonwaba phi umama wabantu. Kwababakhonzi ba busy kangana, Nandi is busy loving and taking care of their Prince and Princesses, just leave the poor woman alone bathong!!!
@pendezafrancoise9 ай бұрын
@@itumelangmeselane2480 Oh yeah everyone left because they know they sinned, but what did Jesus say, “I do not condemn you….go and sin no more” so as much as she can accept her mistakes and as soon as she will realize/recognize how it has cost her she needs to stop sinning; she can call them out and righteously judge them according to the Bible because Jesus told us we can, but you can’t correct a brother by trying to compare their sin to yours…..it will go nowhere😢😢😢😢
@5thdimensio2849 ай бұрын
She is his downfall
@dudumkandla78999 ай бұрын
May the Lord help us as women to know what is right eyes of the Lord not what is right for people. It's a pity we like the things of the world yet we claim to love God. It's all in the Bible how a woman should behave in general you just need to read. There is surely a veil that is covering the children of God to see what is right and wrong😢