What God Is Saying About Being In An Unequally Yoked Relationship/Marriage, You Need To Know This!

[@elizabethtucker6433]

This word is definitely for me as I am married to a covert narcissist who is an unbeliver please pray God helps me to forgive him I have bitterness towards him.. I just now saw this and it's almost midnight 🕛 God I am very much in need of help. I am called of God. Please 🙏🏼 for me.

[@nolitafumba]

After you have forgiven him, will the narcissism in him fade away ??

[@elizabethtucker6433]

@@nolitafumba I can't answer that. God will have to heal him.

[@elizabethtucker6433]

@JesusIsComing99 Yes, I am aware of this. I know my calling. I am aware of what God has told me.

[@elizabethtucker6433]

@JesusIsComing99 Thank you! So much.

[@kadiansalkey1687]

@@elizabethtucker6433 my dear sis pray and ask God to quietly move him and watch God work I am testimony to what am telling you and don’t argue when he argues just learn to be silent it work

[@NkosazanaQinga]

Lord for some of us are not married still looking waiting for the right one please help us choose well by your name in Jesus name amen 🙏🙌

[@shirleyouhaa4787]

Amen 🙏 Thankyou Lord Jesus 🙏 Put my trust in you in your Timing 🙏

[@gracewezisakala3456]

I have been thinking about this for awhile now thank you Jesus for this word I pray that God will show me the way in Jesus name Amen

[@nkhensanimavisbuys5947]

Thank You Lord Jesus Christ . I need grace in my marriage 🙏❤️‍🔥

[@joannelong1017]

Amen. I am a married woman with an unbelieving spouse. I married him as a Christian believer, but I would not encourage anyone to do that unless you are called for this ministry. Much prayer and love of God makes the difference.

[@christinabriggs1782]

Same

[@AngelinaParker1]

Amen!:it's definitely a call not searched for or sought after.... A ministry for sure. Taquila Coleman check out her ministry and Gerald and Yvonne ministries I think it is... And Dominic Herpst

[@naturallygifted2002]

Amen!! If it's 2 unbelievers and they are already married then one of them got saved and the other is still unsaved. Then remain married. However, a believer is NOT to yoke with an unbeliever believing You can change them.

[@kaywilliams1529]

The BELEIVER can't change the unbeliever, God will do the changing. Just continue to pray, be the best wife/husband that is required of you. At one time in our lives, we all were unbelievers.

[@kadiansalkey1687]

The Bible say u can stay and pray for your unsave spouse

[@PulengPosholi-sq8lz]

​@@kadiansalkey1687LET ME TELL YOU MY SISTER, I DID HOLD TO WHAT YOU ARE SAYING, MARRIED TO A MALIGNENT NARCISSIST!!! OVER 20YESRS I WAS TAKEN TO HEAVENS THRONE ROOM SITTED BEFORE GOD THE FATHER CRING BITTERLY YELLINH HIM WHY YOU ALLOWS ME TO SUFFER IN TJIS MARRIAGE! HE SAID I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ! LET ME SHOW YOU WHO REALLY HATES YOU! WE WERE SPEAKING HEART TO HEART, THEN I TURN AROUND TO LOOK TO THE PERSON HATING ME AS THE FATHER SAID! BEHOLD MY NARCISSIST HUSBAND THEN HE SAID UNIQUALLY YOKED MOST OF MY CHOOSEN ONES,

[@PulengPosholi-sq8lz]

And said to me at HIS TIMING HE IS GOING TO RELEASE ALL OF US AMEN GO TO PRAYER ASK THE JOLY SPIRIT AMEN

[@kadiansalkey1687]

@@PulengPosholi-sq8lz wow are u out now?

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[@NomsLoots]

I had a dream about you. You held my hand and I felt the presence of the Lord. Then you said the Lord says better is coming and you signalled and said tomorrow. It’s coming and he’s coming.

[@MrsWilliams928]

I agree and can testify I am in a marriage now I thought my husband was true believer in the beginning and thought God was telling me to marry because I had dream about him before we met I was deceived and in beginning he would agree with what I believed or didn’t really comment now we go back and forth about the word and its interpretation. My husband grew up Jehovah witness but was disfellowed I didn’t realize some of their beliefs are not what I believe so I have been praying

[@princeyudah]

Amen! APTTMH!!!

[@robinreborn5634]

I have recently had some feelings for a man who is very open to Christianity, yet is not born again/ a Christ confessing believer. I know it’s not right. I know I have to separate myself. I am in a backslidden state, so I don’t think it’s in Gods will even though it feels nice right now. Please pray for us. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@deannalydia943]

@@robinreborn5634 same 🥲

[@esthermkhwebane9899]

The word is absolutely 💯 it is difficult in that kind of a marriage, that is unequally yoked! May the Lord help us, I receive peace in Jesus name

[@teresaroquemore670]

Amen the real achievement is in God

[@donaldladner4211]

Amen 🙏 Thank You Chantel I Love You, Great WORD Very True, Yes, Equally Yoked Is A Must For Sure! Hallelujah!!!

[@NkosazanaQinga]

Please guide us to the right path in Jesus name amen 🙏🙌

[@teresaroquemore670]

Amen this sister is speaking a truth

[@OliakuFelix58]

God is good!

[@RiyaJoyce-xc1eu]

Praise God 🙌🏻 I receive this prophetic word in the mighty name of Jesus Amen

[@KunondjoMuroua]

Amen and Amen ❤

[@morissaedwards7348]

I really needed to hear this today.

[@maristoldboys5466]

First from Fiji in Jesus's Name amen. Glory to God.Thank you Jesus. ☦️✨🇫🇯🌴

[@weedman6797]

I would have liked if you spoke more about if you were already in a marriage that's not right and I want out!

[@weedman6797]

Thank you very much for the given word! ❤

[@siyabongamasinga7432]

Thank you God.Amen and Amen 🙏🏼🙌

[@itoesophie2526]

Thank you Lord Jesus

[@Malaika789]

Good night everyone I agree Amen glory to God hallelujah let no weapon from against your marriage shall never propose in the mighty name of jesus Amen 🙏🏾💖

[@zanelempala9806]

Amen and Amen thank you sis

[@jedidaholoo9521]

Amen God help me eþinto the right marriage

[@mukoyamaureen9015]

Amen

[@roxannesmith1479]

I Am trusting God through it All 🙏🏽💪🏾❤️

[@pastoral4297]

Thanks for sharing 😊

[@LatoyaMcmillan-c6n]

Amen 🙏

[@amirrafeeq8056]

Greetings sister AMEeN God be with you and bless

[@marshacarroll7301]

Yes and amen in Jesus name amen j receive bthe help I need amen

[@HarolsTaylor]

I think you are right.

[@sazinincube3602]

Thank you 💕 Jesus

[@royalprincess9499]

So true my sister. It doesn’t worth it

[@naomisamuel4984]

Amen and Amen 🙌🙌🙌

[@naturegirlbb100]

Amen and Amen

[@labatsou]

Me I am not married thank God but I have a girl with someone who left fortunately but it is not easy being single parent.I hope it's not too late for me,because I feel I have no help in doing the things I have to do for the Lord

[@SED58221]

I need answers to this question. And it’s not meeting Gods standards. And it’s not what God want. Everything you are saying. Please explain this cause it’s been a challenge 8 years. And it’s always arguments just like you said.This is my answer thank you jesus. God make a way for me to walk away. I need provision. If it’s your will. In Jesus mighty name.

[@timothykiogora3372]

Hallelujaàaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hossana Amen 🙏

[@Awinbillalaribalinda-ep1tx]

Amen 🙏🙌

[@nogettykhanyisile2702]

That's my story right now worse mine is a witch doctor, l was hoping that he will change but instead they tryed to change me to worship idols ancestors, l wish l could have left now I'm stuck because I'm not working and not financial stable to go and restart life believing in God for financial breakthrough to leave this demonic house, my pastor has been warning me but l don't have money to go and rent with the kids and l will not compromise when it comes to my God.

[@annpusey9006]

You are already compromising for staying…pack your things and go to a shelter to a family member…God is waiting on you to move so he can show up for you! Once you stay there nothing will happen. Faith within works is dead… God is waiting on you to move!! Leave everything if you have to. Grab your things and go and see if God will not meet you by the way.

[@annpusey9006]

Grab your kids and go. Will be hard, absolutely, will you have to fight countless battles? Most definitely, aren’t you now? What do you have to lose? If you believe in the one true God he will always always show up. Not how you expect in his way he will.

[@AllthingsHealth_]

Waiting for a financial breakthrough in that place is a absolute joke! The enemy will never let you leave, that relationship is your bondage! Just plan leaving and let God do the rest. I know because I am in a similar situation as you. Packing my things and walking away with my child at the end of this month, with or without money. I am getting into a fast just for God to lead me out 🙏🏽

[@Monndzu-1-u]

It is me who is in a RELATIONSHIP with someone who is DEFINITELY pretending to be CHRISTIAN. There is more to it than it meets the EYE. Now God WANTS me to leave her. PLEASE pray for me Prophetess. I tried to leave LAST YEAR. As a result, I slept in the CAR a whole NINE months. I came back, but still SEPERATED, and I just NEED a FINANCIAL breakthrough to buy a HOUSE in Jesus name

[@Marymukiri8450]

Unbelieving spouse showed me dust and I decided to be single...I can't try that again..

[@wilhelminamoka4700]

But please what if every Christian cutoff from unbelievers how do the unbelievers get saved? We should be one another’s keeper. Saul was a persecutor but he was converted why not pray to God for the person so they change and become believers too.

[@nicoleroncone4496]

Yes I agree with you. And the unequally yoked verse is taken out of context. It's not even about marriage. It's about something else. The bible says that a believing spouse saves the unbelieving spouse. So obviously believers and unbelievers can marry and God will sometimes allow that so one of the people can be saved

[@wilhelminamoka4700]

@@nicoleroncone4496 Thank you. This added more meaning to my thoughts.

[@Ravishing_Rose-b4y]

I agree and disagree with you. 1. Marriage is a Godly covenant between two people. The foundation of every Christian marriage is God. If God is not the foundation, who is at the foundation of such marriage? What God puts together let no man put asunder, therefore marry the person according to the Will of God. I dont mean to marry Saints but marry someone who has a heart for the things of God, so that when the storm comes in, faith is what's holding BOTH of you up not only one. And also, so that you both parties complement and support each other in their individual faith journey as salvation is personal and moreover so that when the blessings of marriage come there are no loopholes for the enemy to enter. To try and snatch, this was the case with Job, He was Righteous but his wife and Kids weren't as committed in the walk of faith, this is why satan was able to use them as bait to try an lure Job into unbelief. 2. Marriage is unity. What does Jesus say about a house that is divided? Such a home will collapse, demolish, crumble and fall. Because one is for Light and the other is under the influence of darkness. There is no cohabitation of light and darkness... for example a Christian man marries a woman who has lived off of 0nlyF@ns for the past 2 years; she is a heavy party goer and stuff. This is where feud will start: the lifestyle choices are different, sense of morality, purpose and reason of living is different. Though they may agree on some stuff, belief in Christ must not be not be comprised. If God is not the foundation.... how will decisions be made for the Glory of God? 3. Marriage has its purpose for the society and for the two people. It is not by accident that Sarah had to be Abraham's wife, so that she would bear Isaac who would bring Jacob who brought Israel. Iron sharpen Iron, marriage is not only physical, but emotional, mental and especially spiritual if your spouse can't intercede on your behalf, pray for/with you, how can such a person help you to fulfill your destiny, how can such a person refine you for the will and promises of God? I'm not expecting marriage to have perfect people but people who are both running after God because God will be the Alpha and the Omega of such marriage. A christian Marriage must have 2 believers, there's no other way about it. The part where I agree with you, is being the Christian that initiates the conversion of the POTENTIAL spouse, I say potential because conversion is not an easy task IN Marriage. The friendship and courting/dating phase gives the unbeliever enough time for the person to have an idea of our faith and convert. After all Christianity is a lifestyle and a choice. God has never imposed faith on us, He revealed Himself to us and gave us the choice to obey or not. So that's the approach Christians should take. Don't go into marriage to impose your faith. Conversion should be done before marriage, because after marriage it will take, strength emotional and spiritual strength (the enemy always fights marriage), energy, Knowledge, wisdom, time and unnecessary fights. You can't be fighting over one spouse being abit messy and also over how you find it ridiculous that He/she doesn't believe that Jesus is The way😂 what about the children, what would they believe? dating a non believer is a risk but, if you do, date/court long enough for him/her to convert if such a person doesn't convert in the dating phase I don't recommend marriage, unless that is the perfect will of God, what is the guarantee that you successfully convert them?

[@nolitafumba]

​@@nicoleroncone4496You guys are running away from the truth of the word of God . Just go ahead and marry unbelievers in peace without twisting the word .

[@Ravishing_Rose-b4y]

@@wilhelminamoka4700 what guarantee do you have that you will save them? Remember faith comes by hearing the Word of God. Faith is a product of Grace, grace is what God gives, you can't put it in your head that "yeah, I like Him/she, my being in a relationship with him is evangelising" you can inspire, you can say something that can motivate someone, but you can convince someone to believe, that's when you take the place of the holy Spirit. If God brings an unbeliever your way fine, but you don't have to go into a deep relationship to save them. I have seen a christian girl who was in America to study and she ended up dating Muslim guy, in 2016-2017, she was hated by his family, a baby came into the picture and he wasn't willing to care for the child and stuff, she returned to her country, he is still muslim and even got married to his fellow muslim lady. she was in USA studying to be a pilot she had to stop because of pregnancy... the child is innocent but now she has placed herself in a situation she could have easily avoided, her life took a turn after that, until now. Her mom is a preacher and wasn't in support, but what can a mom do when she are 21 hours away? That's why I ask what is your guarantee that he will be saved? From what I have seen often those relationships based off of "I will help Him/her convert": often the person they are interested in question is a temptation. Often, those people are strongly attracted to that person so they try to cover up that attraction under the "evangelizing". I did that once, there was a friend and neighbor he is Christian, but lukewarm on the colder side, very handsome guy, awesome personality, we all have flaws but his flaws was stuff i did not do, i was 15-16. I saw him in the dream in a negative light, i knew God was warning me to not to move an inch close. I felt sick to my stomach, but I'm glad I did, I was still a baby in my walk with God. It depends on your level in Christianity, like that time i didnt have the discipline i have now, so I would have fallen for anything, literally if my friendship with this guy had gone deeper i know so much of me would have been destroyed, because already at the beginning i was ready to compromise my faith. From the 2 examples I have given 1 thing is common, we comprised our faith. Dont tempt the devil to tempt you.

[@successgladys6275]

AMEN 🙏🙌💖

[@AngelCherubLim]

I don't equally yoked with unbelievers...

[@LateshiaBass]

The book of Hosea

[@Linda-z3y]

Marriage vows are to be taken Seriously 1 Corinthians 12. But to the rest speak I ( Paul) , not the Lord if any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13. And the women which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified bt the wife, and the unbelieving wife is santified bt the husband: else were your children unclean, but now are they holy. 15. But if the unbecoming depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. For what knowest thou, O wife whether thou shalt save thy husband? Or how knowest thou O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? 17. But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk And so ordain I in all churches. 18. Is any man called circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised. Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but keeping of the commandments of God. 20. Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. 21. Art thou called being a servant? care not for it; but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. 22. For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ’s servant. 23. Ye are brought with a price, be not ye the servants of men. 24. Brethren let every man, wherein he is called therein abide with God. 1 Corinthians 25-40 Reasons for Marrying or remaining Single. Reading from King James Version for it is written Ecclesiastes 1:9 Nothing New under the sun 9. The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun. 10. Is there any thing wherof it may be said, See, this is new? it has been already of old time, which was before us. 11. There is no remembrance of former things; neither shall there be any remembrance of things that are to come with those that shall come after.

[@Marymukiri8450]

I'm leaving him

[@nicoleroncone4496]

Sis this is not correct to refuse to marry an unbeliever, and you even read the verses that prove otherwise. The unequally yoked verse is taken out of context. It is not talking about marriage. Why would the bible talk about a saved spouse saving the unsaved spouse if they werent supposed to get married in the first place? we must ackowledge that God sometimes has believers and unbelievers get married so that one can save the other. We cannot be a witness for Jesus if we just cut off everyone who doesn't believe the same as us.

[@rosemaryt7286]

My dear sis in Christ, we have definitely been called to witness to unbelievers however, you are not to marry them prior to them becoming true convicts. It is different if you become a believer whilst already married and your spouse remains an unbeliever then you are not to leave them but to pray for them and continue to witness to them about your new found faith and by the God’s grace and mercy he will always become a believer. Trust me a marriage where the two people are of the same faith will surely be more peaceful and prosperous than a marriage where the two are having different beliefs. I am speaking from experience, I have be married for 26 years to a man I thought was a believer prior to marriage and later found it was not the case , it has been a battle I wish I never had to endure however, I am still asking God to touch him like he did Paul and make him believe the truth and live by it. It is impossible for man but with God all things are possible. I am literally worn out but I’m praying for God’s strength to be able to carry on waiting for his intervention. I want nothing more than to see my husband saved but would I have yoked myself to him in marriage had I known , definitely not. God bless

[@ebonymoody]

This is not my word in Jesus name.

[@SED58221]

Well it’s for us and whoever needs it

[@ProtonSpace]

I used to say, I am sinful person but always tried to stay at 51% good but God came and said, go and make just one step at evil side, take that step don't be afraid and come back. Break some hearts, those that have been braking you for so long, why don't you try that? Why are you constantly trying to resolve everything through love? Can't you understand that some of them just need to understand that, what they did is wrong? And He is right I tried to break her and it has been successful in a way. We need to separate because just the idea of understanding you can't help her, made me the first step, then she stopped having an influence over me and I still am able to make nice friendly resolutions in that bad situations. She has a huge issues and I do believe she really needs to understand a real abandonment and what hope really means and how I felt and it might be a "pill" to heal her. I do hope.

[@keememokubung8809]

Amen

[@patriciadouglas4329]

Amen 🙏