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@kacperilnicki356 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command hey just Intrigued what was that quiz at the beginning
@beccag11076 жыл бұрын
Charisma on command, PLEASE do a breakdown on Taika Waititi’s humour and charisma. I love your videos, they’re super helpful. It would be awesome if you could do this. Thnx
@mewsao6 жыл бұрын
Please do Chadwick Boseman one!
@AssortedBits6 жыл бұрын
Just wanting to point out that the subtitles are off starting at 11:02.
@ishpeeedy6 жыл бұрын
Subtitles get a bit different after some time
@Mysteri0usChannel5 жыл бұрын
Chris Hemsworth is basically a human Golden Retriever. Friendly and polite, builds you up, sometimes misbehaves but never in a bad, always in a funny way.
@fayHoran5 жыл бұрын
exactly. i also saw a fanart of golden retriever thor and a cat loki fighting xD
@RenzXVI5 жыл бұрын
That's funny. I've been watching funny pet videos all day and then somehow ended up randomly clicking on this video. So which pet store sells a Golden Chris Hemsworth?
@nbucwa66215 жыл бұрын
Accurate
@thedoneeye5 жыл бұрын
I just hope that also means he's completely housebroken and microchipped 😉
@ultrahocherhitzte5 жыл бұрын
I feel like that's Chris Pratt though. Chris Hemsworth is more of a St.Bernard..
@lolawho86765 жыл бұрын
he is a healthy, confident person without any complexes...and this is always attractive and make ppl comfortable...
@gasgaslex_photos5 жыл бұрын
Lola Who He's Australian, we're all like that 😎
@Rmmmm70005 жыл бұрын
gasgasLex oh shit.... I’m Australian and I’m full of complexes and self esteem issues.... I think I australianed wrong. :/
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
healthy, good looking , confident , tall and has good personality so yeah all of those things and what there is that he cant do , can he sing wait, yes he can , and he had both parents wow dude is lucky
@odinsmith62495 жыл бұрын
Serial killee
@TaymaShine5 жыл бұрын
exactly. it’s harder for people who didn’t grow up in a healthy environment with healthy parents and a healthy sense of self worth, but it is still possible to reach that level regardless, it just takes more time.
@finnchiss19485 жыл бұрын
1. humor- short jokes that elevate his friends. 2. touching people 3. not hiding things, confidence 4. compliments (that are true)
@nikitasidoryuk8524 жыл бұрын
You can't touch people if ur ugly then r a creep
@dorian_tihi58693 жыл бұрын
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@g0o0ey3 жыл бұрын
@@nikitasidoryuk852 with that additude, just be friendly and not creepy its not hard.
@HeritageDrPepper3 жыл бұрын
The 6 points made in the video are time stamped in the description for anyone who likes time stamps or want more information.
@starsungglitters61213 жыл бұрын
@@nikitasidoryuk852 Sounds like an excuse , maybe try learning how to touch people non creepily
@atable25052 жыл бұрын
“If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well” very true and something to think about
@lifespanwellnessbeauty-60i64 Жыл бұрын
The Halo Effect.
@mallorycarpinski1160 Жыл бұрын
And of course the inverse is true...
@Kloutrous8084 жыл бұрын
"TOUCH EVERYONE" yes, I've been doing this for years. Everyone in my cell loves me
@syra15414 жыл бұрын
HAHAHHAHA NOOO
@aspenINTEL3 жыл бұрын
hysterical
@mattglasgow43833 жыл бұрын
They didn’t react well to me saying I’m a universal toucher...
@hernatundag6013 жыл бұрын
🤣😄😃
@jam_music24483 жыл бұрын
HA.HA.
@damonovna5 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, 14 minutes of detailed explanation why Chris Hemsworth is great. Now I have a scientific base for my crush on him.
@marjamka81835 жыл бұрын
Yep
@braindead52835 жыл бұрын
Yep, me too.
@nimisha65845 жыл бұрын
Hel...yeah!
@samarium19345 жыл бұрын
@@nimisha6584 leave
@nimisha65845 жыл бұрын
@@samarium1934 c'mon Let us play fortnite. Korg was too easy
@koolyokam0075 жыл бұрын
This channel has a crush on Chris Hemsworth. Just admit it.
@otso235 жыл бұрын
I sure as hell do
@kylewhite93835 жыл бұрын
Who doesn’t have a crush on chris, we’re only human ❤️
@Photosounder5 жыл бұрын
Chris is love, Chris is life.
@GloriaCeleste5 жыл бұрын
Who doesn’t?
@kevo64635 жыл бұрын
Don’t we all lmaoo
@TheBubbeloo3 жыл бұрын
It helps being ridiculously good-looking. Granted it's not everything and his personality is what matters, but good looks always give a head start when meeting new people.
@jakeb9342 жыл бұрын
It can actually have the opposite effect and be intimidating.
@Jakeylicious78912 жыл бұрын
It's true especially with the touchy feely stuff. If a nonconventional looking man does what Chris does, he'd be deemed creepy, especially with the over touching.
@angelkaye61962 жыл бұрын
@@Jakeylicious7891 Was going to say that. Its natural to want to be touched by beautiful people but more disgusted by odd looking or strange looking people.
@neslisultan2 жыл бұрын
You’re 100% correct! And a lot of people will lose respect for you if you’re a really nice person unless you’re really good looking and/or successful!
@PeterParker-jl9ll2 жыл бұрын
u know some ppl cant rlly change their looks, unless ur a girl or whatever and make-up can help but for guys were dealt w the cards that we have and cant change our appearance
@karinshadi2275 жыл бұрын
"Watch Chris Evans lose his mind in his next clip" Evans cry from laughter everytime Hemmy breathes lmao 😂
@Evabernard8685 жыл бұрын
PLEASE HELP I see this clip everywhere as a good example and I can't find a single version with subtitles; what on earth does he say??
@cobyvinkovic65945 жыл бұрын
Yeah I can't speak Australian, I have no idea what Chris said.
@Einalem_15 жыл бұрын
Jamie Bernard He says: “he doesn’t bring nuances”
@Evabernard8685 жыл бұрын
@@Einalem_1 THANK U!!
@hausofdelena5 жыл бұрын
Same
@bahaatamer12454 жыл бұрын
1. Hilarious 2. Incredible at touch! (Make it feel good!). 3. Shares things about him that can be embarrassing, with no fear of judgement! 4. Shares praise with those who helped him through!
@Sam.Wendorf5 жыл бұрын
I really hope Chris watches these videos when he has bad days. He deserves to know just how lovely of a person he really is.
@omgbygollywow3 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of people are watching all these videos, because I meet people who try to do all these things that these videos recommend, but everything goes out the window when something goes wrong and then their true character comes out and you see their true colors. To me, being genuine and being a nice person is the best way to be popular. Most people can see through other people when they are trying to employ a technique and trying to "be popular". Maybe it's best not to try to "be popular" but to be a good person who cares about others, and then you will be popular.
@chronolys5 жыл бұрын
lowkey watching this before school starts to help my anti social ass LMAO
@ohhellyeah28783 жыл бұрын
Hope it helped.
@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho55403 жыл бұрын
how’d you do?
@chronolys3 жыл бұрын
@@idontknowwhatmyusernamesho5540 UHHH I DONT REMEMBER BUT I GRADUATED HIGHSCHOOL JUST FINE BDJSKWJDD
@matthewschank81733 жыл бұрын
Hope it helps! 🙏
@monkey-ke4yt3 жыл бұрын
@@chronolys dam u replied
@nooralukkarinen75075 жыл бұрын
I'm not even here for the tips I just want people to acknowledge how amazing Chris is
@LapineTingTing5 жыл бұрын
Same same! 😂
@dyver1235 жыл бұрын
Same dude, same
@marshallvalentino25725 жыл бұрын
Honestly I love him so much
@damienwayne23475 жыл бұрын
charisma on command be out here putting all his friends on blast
@ironmanmason42474 жыл бұрын
Damien Wayne LMAO 🤣🤣 underrated comment
@SeenSven3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful thank you ^^
@cornoffthecobs72993 жыл бұрын
Helped me too
@anatolelaudet21833 жыл бұрын
Well, the touching isn't all that relevant these days, unfortunately...
@Wheebzee3 жыл бұрын
No way it's the minecraft prison guy
@adityajha78413 жыл бұрын
wtf are you doing here? This was the most unexpected thing i saw today... Also i really love your content
@Kareszkoma5 жыл бұрын
Chris Hemsworth has that "bro" touch. He is confident and friendly, but.. not pushy. It's just like "hey buddy".
@davidperrier61495 жыл бұрын
I understand what you're saying but can we not use the term "bro touch" anymore?
@Kareszkoma5 жыл бұрын
Oki. That's fine.
@ItsBetterEveryDay5 жыл бұрын
Wholesome
@goodtimes82295 жыл бұрын
@@ItsBetterEveryDay INdeed.
@_Chad_ThunderCock4 жыл бұрын
@@davidperrier6149 why? I don't get it?
@Billie4Mozzarella6 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Chris Hemsworth is described as the "most sensitive Hemsworth brother". He didn't like conflict, he liked to sew, he was never a bully, he was very much the stereotypical middle child--creative, peacekeeping and sensitive. The reason he's considered the most attractive of all the brothers even if Liam could challenge him looks-wise is because he's a warm, kind, sensitive person, and is unafraid to show it. Given that he gets a lot of big bruiser badass roles, the revelation that he's not only a great dad but that he's always been "the sensitive one" who clearly shares affection and is completely and totally secure in his masculinity is extremely attractive to both women and men.
@mridulnair47545 жыл бұрын
Chris is the best looking off all the 3 brothers. Luke is 2nd and Liam is 3rd for me honestly
@seanlynch7885 жыл бұрын
Ya I'm the middle child and I'm definitely not the most peaceful one
@potato-whiz5 жыл бұрын
Based on looks alone... 1. Chris 2. Liam 3. Luke.
@mikahong4 жыл бұрын
Theres a third one?
@sathyanarayanay.h.96303 жыл бұрын
Perfectly described 👍
@curlyswirly5 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine Emilia Clark and Chris Hemsworth doing an interview or working together?
@ricochico11445 жыл бұрын
They'd just be constantly smiling and touching each other and it'd be like "You're the best !" "No you're awesome !" "No you are !"
@WinterCharmVT5 жыл бұрын
They would take the box office by a storm.
@fredlebhart13935 жыл бұрын
We’d all wind up pregnant
@candieland42764 жыл бұрын
Whooooooaaaaaaaa...I just don't know if we could take that much 'cute' haha
@zetjet99014 жыл бұрын
*t h i s n e e d s t o e x i s t*
@Goneforgoodflsh2 жыл бұрын
Btw, the "he's a friend from work" was actually an idea from a teen extra on set, and actually Chris talks about it in an interview.
@RaffyAyala7 жыл бұрын
"Own what you do or don't do it" Preach
@KelleyBroussardMackaig7 жыл бұрын
That was the best take away I got from this!! So may times, I've half committed and it made things awkward AF!
@ishbanyadav7 жыл бұрын
We always tend to notice a thing or two but to compile so many qualities and make it in a form of an amazing presentation is so motivation and learnable (if that's a word)🙌
@jypandeyji10647 жыл бұрын
Mr IY oh god u i see u 😝
@erikm97687 жыл бұрын
I agree. And, "motivational and making it easier to learn" :)
@pantino216 жыл бұрын
You know what the answer to this question is. Just be yourself and stop trying too hard what if youre not funny and it goes awkward. Being yourself is the best way to be popular haha
@ismailsafi33506 жыл бұрын
Mr IY 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻
@ishbanyadav6 жыл бұрын
Ismail safi kya hua ismail bhai? Itne khafa kis baat ke liye?
@aruzhan90405 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one here after brie larson interview?
@lupic27865 жыл бұрын
normal girl thought I was the only one
@athenanagano28075 жыл бұрын
Lol same 😂
@laurel18655 жыл бұрын
Poor brie
@NewkirkChris5 жыл бұрын
I’m absolutely here because of that haha
@emberrey18145 жыл бұрын
Literally just came from that video, and after cringing so hard I needed something to lift my spirits again :/
@imomifysupport45433 жыл бұрын
he is absolute gorgeous, I’m sure it plays a role in the welcomed touching. he definitely knows he’s hot although he doesn’t act cocky at all his confidence shines through and is seen as comfort, approachability and kindness. He seems like an open minded awakened man. Much respect to him, I feel like I know the guy. 🧐
@Rone-ki1hm5 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Win the Genetic Lottery
@LAkadian5 жыл бұрын
Self fulfilling prophecy, mate.
@Kintaro0e5 жыл бұрын
Yeah that pretty much is it lol
@Madtv505 жыл бұрын
it's not a lottery blame your parent for not being attractive enough
@cocacolla955 жыл бұрын
they not guilty for not being attractive enough, they lost that lottery as well @@Madtv50
@joshuaizly55025 жыл бұрын
Ikr I wish I had Jack Black's body
@lindsaymansur64625 жыл бұрын
Basically, be humble, grateful, not self-depricating, funny without being mean (which is how so many are), and be authentic.
@FallingStary5 жыл бұрын
Thank you because I swear everyone else grabbed "be attractive" and ran with it
@yevgeniyaleshchenko8495 жыл бұрын
Self-deprication is okay but in moderate amounts and as self-irony and sarcasm. It might even add to charisma if done properly.
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
@@FallingStary well its most of it really
@FallingStary5 жыл бұрын
@@gandalainsley6467 not really maybe short term in the beginning but it can only take you so far
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
@@FallingStary well but if you dont have it you wont even get to beginning
@piqueny88725 жыл бұрын
Be a real life Hercules! Have eyes like diamonds, a smile that will melt titanium, and a sexy accent that’s will do the trick! Good luck all men out there
@naomiariel014 жыл бұрын
he’s not scared to be himself because he KNOWS he’s hot and charming ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ighorkingeski89443 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's easy-peasy for him
@anominousanonymous93442 жыл бұрын
Well, he knows he's hot... being charming, though, is part of 'not being scared to be himself'.
@anunnakimenagerie5 жыл бұрын
How to touch everyone: ✅ Chris Hemsworth ❌ Joe Biden
@j.3mmiller5755 жыл бұрын
Haha! I respect your authenticity :)
@anunnakimenagerie5 жыл бұрын
@@j.3mmiller575 thx ;)
@justinshalu80345 жыл бұрын
lol
@kshitizyadav31745 жыл бұрын
Creepy joe 😂
@wifilost5 жыл бұрын
Trump did the same thing
@esperanzabaca6635 жыл бұрын
I can watch these videos all day, it’s not only about being liked or being popular it’s about building better relationships with others :)
@jkl7995 жыл бұрын
I've never heard a bad thing about Chris Hemsworth. He is such a charming and good human.
@realyzer4 жыл бұрын
"Touch the person" after coronavirus. lol. This virus was created to destroy Chris Hemsworth's charisma
@gersonencarnacion37444 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment.
@zariacaprio14913 жыл бұрын
Lol'ed
@badmoxstudios3 жыл бұрын
@Henry Rennard I hate being touched, especially if it's constant. But I will happily take it if it's from Chris Hemsworth 😂
@ChriSSS-993 жыл бұрын
@@badmoxstudios well you don't hate being touched. You hate being touched by some people.
@juliemarie89633 жыл бұрын
lol
@AllTheBrightPlaces12315 жыл бұрын
1. Be a really nice person 2. Be super talented 3. Be hella funny That's basically all you need to do How do I know this? One of my friends has all of these and he's literally friends with everyone....the entire school knows this guy Confidence 👍
@sofiarodriguez67685 жыл бұрын
You can be all three but not be charismatic. Its more rare but it's completely possible and happens quite a bit.
@bg357wg5 жыл бұрын
Sofia Rodriguez I think a lot of the charisma goes into that third one with humor...?
@ballexbanan5 жыл бұрын
I am nice I think . . . I have a talent singing and drawing but no one hear me when I sing and no one looks at my drawings I am not funny That is me
@spiderman99725 жыл бұрын
@@ballexbanan Are you a guy or a girl. Girls like drawing. More usually (not all the time). But are charismatic? You dont need to be funny. Just be confident. Which is hard do instead if just say in your head. But I dont doubt that you seem like a nice person
@edofluit65685 жыл бұрын
@@ballexbanan well not everyone can be the popular one
@MehdiNPartDeux7 жыл бұрын
Damn, you're friend had to find out this way....
@robertogracia60717 жыл бұрын
Hahaha (your*)
@MehdiNPartDeux7 жыл бұрын
+Robert Garcia Thanks, your the best lol
@erikm97687 жыл бұрын
was thinking the same :D
@moreomar20266 жыл бұрын
MehdiNPartDeux you're**
@davidgodfrey97806 жыл бұрын
MehdiNPartDeux Savage
@linahorn58775 жыл бұрын
when he said his daughter painted his nails uwu thats a real man
@tianiemitchell5692 Жыл бұрын
I like he's down-to-earth he's real, he has class and he's like the Kid Next Door that you grew up with. I've had some very supportive parents and or family members who believes in sharing the credit where credit is due.
@cinlocybin5 жыл бұрын
It's kinda funny how Americans find Chris Hemsworth's personality so charming, but in Australia, that's just the typical bloke.
@ambre41445 жыл бұрын
cinlocybin the people in Australia must be so nice and so much fun then.. I wish I could have a frien like Chris Hemsworth
@Cubannerd5 жыл бұрын
American men are naturally awkward.
@kofola91455 жыл бұрын
@@ambre4144 It is vegemite.
@ambre41445 жыл бұрын
kof ola sorry to sound stupid but what is that ? ( I’m French soo don’t come at me)
@sarawawa89845 жыл бұрын
I guess I need to move to Australia (haha jk I’ve heard the stories about spiders there and idk if the stories are true but I’m not risking it)
@minusonegamer28845 жыл бұрын
Having a sexy accent helps. Like a lot. A LOT!
@mrs.schmenkman5 жыл бұрын
Uh...Russell Crowe?
@emjanevlogs47525 жыл бұрын
So if I move to USA I’ll pull the guys?🤪🤪 (Aussie here)
@danielhenderson48163 жыл бұрын
Em Jane Vlogs you will
@cheanarchist23813 жыл бұрын
my sis baby daddy was builder on his house , he’s so sweet he shouted everyone & there familys drinks lunch at music & DJ at the beach hotel .. so sweet to get everyone together for a party day just to say thanks ☺️
@colinmadison60055 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say, at first I felt weird watching KZbin videos on how to be popular and stuff, but you are actually very smart and I love your approach on things. This channel can be very good for people like me who might even like to talk to people but just have trouble in social situations. So thanks man, keep doing what you do.
@Ostravska_Klobasa5 жыл бұрын
"Just be funny." OMG thank you, how did I not think of that?
@alexturner75644 жыл бұрын
@@condimentking0073 wat
@PowahSlapEntertainmint7 жыл бұрын
Because he's Thor.
@annipsy21857 жыл бұрын
PowahSlap Entertainmint yah im tellin you, its a bit of a superhero thing. OR they get those kind of people for the roles😄
@guytube12277 жыл бұрын
Wait, what are you doing here?
@batman23856 жыл бұрын
Life isn't fair.
@apollonian_lux24736 жыл бұрын
He's thor? I can barely walk!
@bruh-ur5vw6 жыл бұрын
Stop following me 😂😂
@caraliu36604 жыл бұрын
Great video! I'd love to hear about how to do this as a female. I don't see a lot of women touching a lot of people so I feel like the universal touching part probably only works for men. Also, I wish more women would elevate other men and women around them as much as men tend to do (always envious of the closeness of male friendships, where they constantly build each other up, support them, and also checks them by being honest with them). I need to step up, but ladies, we need to step up!
@violetviolet8883 жыл бұрын
The principles are not gender specific. Think about the women you respect and then look for the principles they use.
@destinyhntr3 жыл бұрын
@@violetviolet888 Yes. All of these thigns he's mentioning apply to women too. Just because the example person is male doesn't mean it's gender specific.
@violetviolet8883 жыл бұрын
@@destinyhntr I was responding to the original poster's comment. And I disagree. If the creator of the video wanted to, they could depict the concepts with equal representation females and males. After all: males, particularly white males, have had more than their fair share of airtime.
@sesonam4176 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know what type of women you are around but all the women I know have this bond and sisterhood, it’s not a gender thing
@inuhundchien6041 Жыл бұрын
Ermmmm it's a you problem because women touch each other so easily and naturally unlike men. Of course it's rare for people of opposite gender to do this with each other.
@hipnhappenin5 жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart when I realize I naturally do all these things but still have no friends
@ayslanferrari80285 жыл бұрын
Are you sure you're trying it to the right people? hahaha
@lilyroza5 жыл бұрын
Well, take all this advice with a grain of salt. For starters: Don't touch everyone. Distrust anyone who touches everyone. In many circles, touching people innappropriately or indiscriminately will get you shunned or worse.
@gareeba44925 жыл бұрын
Lol
@discountfantasy57195 жыл бұрын
These are just a few puzzle pieces from the bigger picture, it doesn’t mean that if you do these 3-4 things you will have everything. Your problem is somewhere else
@NightOfCrystals5 жыл бұрын
Take heart! You will have friends. There are times in life when you feel like you have no one, those moments deepen the joy when you do feel a connection.
@richaprasad67377 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many of these tips are applicable to women. Women touching everyone and/or giving away credit tends to carry a very different type of interpretation than when men do it.
@s.o.26287 жыл бұрын
Richa Prasad Yes, that's what I thought! I tried being a "universal toucher" when I was younger, but hot dog, did that mislead guys. Now I'm only comfortable touching girls since guys act like an arm touch is a love confession :(
@KelleyBroussardMackaig7 жыл бұрын
Serena Journalist - LOLOLOL "but hot dog did that mislead guys" - Haaaahaaa!! 😆
@RubyJamez6 жыл бұрын
Yea true, the same goes in opposite direction, I don't like at all when men of my "dating" age touch me. If you are over 40 or under 15, it is fine, otherwise just creepy no matter how friendly the touch is.
@scp--2976 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on who the other person it is and also how you personally act while you do that. I am a "Universal toucher" and it does mislead certain people but once me and that person is in the group. They usually start to realize that I'm just a "touchy" person and that I'm not interested in that way. If they drop hits that they like me, I try to basically tell them I see them only as friends with verbal language and body language. If it start getting too weird though then I don't touch that person at all while still showing in good with everyone else.
@AlliBearASMRVA6 жыл бұрын
I was just about to comment on that when I ran across your comment Richa Prasad. I feel women are more scrutinized for being touchy or showing interest in conversation because sometimes it is interpreted incorrectly. I would like a guide (for women) on how to act without leading people on, or without it being misinterpreted as sexual.
@Rmmmm70005 жыл бұрын
I feel like the more I watch these videos the more I over analyse my behaviour and the more socially awkward I become 😂😂
@robertyeakel41865 жыл бұрын
this is exactly why i dont watch that many of these lol
@RenzXVI5 жыл бұрын
Whatever you do, don't resort to watching funny/cute pet videos or you'll end up with 11 cats...
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
it just makes me realize that most of it is just looks and money , because i have similar traits , and i was still treated like a shit as kid , teen , then i had 2 years of me going mental and beating anyone who said something that i didnt like , weirdly people tried then to be my "friends" well they tried to be around me more
@theredguy87462 жыл бұрын
The thing that I struggle most with in social situations is consistency. A lot of us have only good intentions, but we go about it the wrong way and it has cost me plenty of potentially awesome relationships with awesome people, and now I'm here thinking that I will never make it up.
@dawncruz43895 жыл бұрын
"no matter what you look like" potato faced me: great thank you
@guiller23715 жыл бұрын
Awesome video. Actually, his body language is like a happy brotherhood type of hug. The message is very positive, especially nowadays where everyone is afraid of being tagged by getting too close. It also seems to me that this behavior empowers him in the group. It makes him the dominant figure.
@elliel.59155 жыл бұрын
I think that the point about his jokes elevating the people around him is spot on. I've actually noticed how much of a difference this makes in real life. When I was in middle school/early high school, my friends and I would constantly make jokes at one another's expense. The "haha you have no friends" or the "what the hell are you wearing?" type. We would pass it off as silly and not serious, but it made me feel like crap in the long run, and actually hurt my self-esteem a lot. Now, we all make jokes that elevate others, and everything is so much better. We don't do it insincerely either. Not saying this is the only reason my friendships are in a better place nowadays, but it played its part. tl;dr: Make jokes that build your friends up, not tear them down. It really does make a difference.
@potato-whiz5 жыл бұрын
Ellie Em my husband has a humor like that. I’ve said to be his friend you have to have thick skin and “get” him or else you won’t hold up and take it personally. In his defense, he can take as well as give too. But it can be too much sometimes, especially when it’s just a constant barrage of playful insults, it just creates a negative vibe. He’s very charismatic otherwise though. People love him generally.
@mamobee3 жыл бұрын
The physical touch thing was really helpful, I feel like there's a bit of a wall in terms of platonic intimacy with my friends as I am very wary of being touch and touching other people due to past traumas. I used to be a very touchy person and would always cuddle up with my friends and I would like to get back to being that person, so that section of the video was extremely helpful! Thank you :)
@MaxiLuckhart3 ай бұрын
I’m a touched, I tend to touch when people are smiling or I am smiling, just start smacking backs with love, and go from there. lol im partially joking.
@lovetrustandpixiedust5 жыл бұрын
Chris just is secure in his masculinity and who he is without feeling the need to overcompensate or bring others down. That's incredibly attractive in a guy and likeable in anyone.
@rickandrygel9135 жыл бұрын
How to be popular: Step 1: Be around people. Me: Pass
@Mahluhkai4 жыл бұрын
Your afraid of being around people 😂😂😂
@annipsy21857 жыл бұрын
His so chill and confident and COMFORTABLE, thats what i get from him😄 when i watch him in an interview ,it looks like his just sitting at home hangin out with buddies. i feel like its probably a bit of an Australian thing! Since Hugh Jackman kinda gives me the same vibe....
@coldenvfx6 жыл бұрын
Anni Psy lol
@PumperPanda956 жыл бұрын
I am 6'3 as well and I am not very charismatic. Don't look for easy excuses.
@annipsy21856 жыл бұрын
Nick O idk why i didnt tell u this story a month ago but now i will. When i was younger i met a boy, he realy liked me, we were talking on the phone and i called him some cutesy name. He suddenly got offended!!! He said: u call me that because im short ?! Thats probably why u dont like me like i do.... I said: whatt are u talking about????? He said: that im shorter than u!!! Ive never even noticed his height!!!! Not in the slightest! He was the one who had issues with it, not me!!! I dont think i need to explain this any further but i hope i made my point clear.
@Kasuyaki0076 жыл бұрын
that's interesting, sometimes being too easily offended or insecure can lead to making some imaginary problems become real.
@smurfvolvo6 жыл бұрын
Anni Psy it's easy to be confident when you know most women want you and most men want to be you 😂
@Headspace1013 жыл бұрын
Chris couldn't look anything but masculine if he tried. He is so down to earth, gorgeous abd funny.
@delloda5 жыл бұрын
Universal touching requires you to be at least 2 levels above average in looks.
@orti12835 жыл бұрын
nah, just come to any latin american country and you'll see
@delloda5 жыл бұрын
@@orti1283 Latin American guys are sometimes seen as creepy in Europe for this reason.
@alis71354 жыл бұрын
Yup
@paulinezugzwang17734 жыл бұрын
Naaah it has to do with vibe and not being a creep. If it's none sexual touching, why should your appearance matter? I would refrain from touching people you barely know though, you never know how they would react. The McCartney clip in the video is obviously a joke.
@__ForTheSakeOfMen4 жыл бұрын
It's simply confidence and comfortability, but good looks don't hurt
@LaviniaDeMortalium7 жыл бұрын
In the same vein I'd like to see you explore Tom Hiddleston's quieter style of charisma
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
I'm game! Please tweet me some videos that you like and I'll watch them :-)
@becksdresure5 жыл бұрын
This is kind of revealing inner character traits that stem from within such as unselfish love for others and humbleness ... consideration for others... Neat thanks
@zcardman20072 жыл бұрын
Absolutely great suggestions. Becoming comfortable with proper touching, humor, and the uplifting of others is a great way to make others feel comfortable with themselves and with you.
@volbla7 жыл бұрын
"[...] without trying" "Be very touchy" This is going to be a problem.
@benjaminaltman48957 жыл бұрын
Hahaha that's fair. I was aiming to express that it's lower effort habits than having to be charismatic by telling amazing 5 minute stories. Chris conveys a lot of confidence and charm without needing to be center of attention for a super long period of time :-)
@laurenjcoates5 жыл бұрын
I think the touching one is VERY dependent on how good looking he is. If you’re a pale, overweight, scruffying looking guy it might not go over so well
@ChanelROETV5 жыл бұрын
Lauren exactly
@jonathann42805 жыл бұрын
That’s just a fact :/. Unfortunately in western society if you happen to be fat it is much much harder than being skinny. If you’re fat you’re already perceived a certain way right off the bat by society
@gamble7778885 жыл бұрын
That's true but only incidentally. Pale, overweight, and scruffy are traits that usually are either the cause of or a result of insecurity. I've met overweight people who are charismatic and touch and joke around with people very effectively, and the key is that they are confident in their own skin.
@brandiphillips57755 жыл бұрын
I love being pale.
@Commander_Shepard.5 жыл бұрын
What about Hagrid then?
@emilgrges7357 жыл бұрын
Ragnarak
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
Haha I blame my Philadelphia accent ;-)
@karolasek71543 жыл бұрын
This "universal toucher" reminds me of Park Jimin who I really really like and lots of people thinks he's just a guy who you cannot dislike, he likes to give hugs to everyone too so that's probably one of his secrets hahaha
@wadelockwood92245 жыл бұрын
6:42 Nobody: This guy: touch EVERYONE
@BrettMaverick7 жыл бұрын
I have a great idea. Do a character dissection on Jason Momoa!
@moritzw.89917 жыл бұрын
Brett Maverick hi Brett nice meeting you here!
@Johnnythefirst7 жыл бұрын
I think it would basically be the same. They are very alike in personality if you ask me... :)
@ablebodied1757 жыл бұрын
Hi Brett.
@ozancanca97406 жыл бұрын
Yo how did you came here? Love ur vids by the way😍
@mewsao6 жыл бұрын
he's the poor man hemsworth
@davedave8263 Жыл бұрын
The reason he is able to compliment people without sounding like he is sucking up is because he genuinely believes that everyone should have credit. But like with everything else that he does, he says what he needs to say, he is direct, then he moves on.
@fembot5215 жыл бұрын
You basically need to be this way naturally otherwise it is awkward AF
@theemperor10155 жыл бұрын
We keep changing throughout our lives. Try to remember how you were 5 years ago.
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
@@theemperor1015 yeah i was smiling , wait no that was kid me , i was getting more angry at the time by being treated like shit yeah that was good time
@travis_redfern67715 жыл бұрын
It can be a gradual change tho. I know I went from being crazy and lighthearted around a lot of people back in middle school to being very shy within a few years. (And it being what people know me as now) So I think it can go both ways too.
@Ajesen5 жыл бұрын
@@theemperor1015 yes
@misaelarvizu70234 жыл бұрын
I agree
@m8ur8825 жыл бұрын
how to be popular without trying Step 1: BE HOT AF BRO
@IsabellaParker7 жыл бұрын
it's just his Australian charm ;) ;)
@PraiseTheFSMonster7 жыл бұрын
That accent definitely doesn't hurt
@tootsie406 жыл бұрын
Meh
@rhysstanley73876 жыл бұрын
meh
@dionp386 жыл бұрын
In Aus, touch is a big thing. Many people will use it to a higher degree here than in a lot of other western countries.
@enteringzeropoint78566 жыл бұрын
You spelt Asgardian wrong. ;)
@maboo736 Жыл бұрын
He is comfortable, friendly, not too much into himself and ridiculously good-looking. All that helps. 😂
@Lexo5934 жыл бұрын
This video and watching Chris makes me feel more confident right away. I had a very interesting phase where I suddenly because very popular within my social circle and is thanks to this video. As a slight introvert, I have rewatch this video and remind myself in order to make this behavior a habit. Thank you, keep up the good work! You’re changing lifes.
@keepXonXrockin7 жыл бұрын
I think a video on Emma stone would be great. I find her very likable in interviews. I feel like she's actually really nice. Jennifer Lawrence is always heralded as this super laid-back funny girl but I personally find her really annoying.
@McDoodle447 жыл бұрын
Agree. Lawrence is nice and smart but acting it out over the top. As if that's another role to play
@joquendof6 жыл бұрын
The hate is real
@loladolly52776 жыл бұрын
100% agree!
@nikoperez72083 жыл бұрын
I’ve done these things all my life and my friends aire like family to me. There’s nothing like making your friend feels amazing
@davidalessandrini65975 жыл бұрын
I feel like this is the type of video Mark Zuckerberg would watch
@personwiththethingsandthes62835 жыл бұрын
I agree, but it's also the type of video that people like me who have no self-confidence watch to make sure they aren't complete idiots in public.
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
well he is basic dude who is really smart so yeah , he is like most of people here, only rich and smart
@satinekryze28933 жыл бұрын
The lizard man ?
@OfficiallyNazo5 жыл бұрын
I wish there was an exact channel like this more towards females
@mxrder83 жыл бұрын
Y’all can get damn near anybody y’all want tho 😭 we the ones who gotta apply pressure
@OfficiallyNazo3 жыл бұрын
@@mxrder8 I mean u got a point but some of us ain’t built like that 😭
@mxrder83 жыл бұрын
OfficiallyNazo exactly 🤣🤣
@narutospersona4263 жыл бұрын
Charisma is unisex, tho most of these tips only work for males there are many helpful tips for women
@joysuryadutta23063 жыл бұрын
Be Physically fit, look at people like u are confident of ur being and owe no one ur existence. Read more to increase ur intellectual capabilities. Trust me this works like magic, show people u really care about them by listening to them, and just listen and reply Only when u gotta compliment them or say something which makes them realize that u are really wanting to listen to them, Be good to people, shower love. Experiment with ur look, try to dress in a way which makes u look ur best. Trust me this is all.
@waterbender197 жыл бұрын
this is an awesome breakdown. I didn't realize how awesome Chris Hemsworth is until this video... and I'm glad you spend so much time on the touching aspect, I wasn't aware that that is so effective and appreciated!
@Charismaoncommand7 жыл бұрын
~ Glad you're digging it!
@supportteam68083 жыл бұрын
Chris Hemsworth has that loving big brother/cool dad vibe with EVERYONE...that is why he is so likable...it is his nature!
@Kinsey6King5 жыл бұрын
I am incredibly late on the Chris Hemsworth train. He’s amazing...
@chiefbells5125 жыл бұрын
I've watched a countless number of your videos, and *always* learn something...or have something I intuitively realize confirmed in a huge way. I deeply appreciate the time and effort you sacrifice. If the majority of your video efforts were universally watched and put into practice, the quality of every relationship we all have would be raised to an unspeakably positive degree - human relationships, generally speaking, are every man's universe. What you routinely offer is easily implemented solutions to a better world.
@leesawyer4340 Жыл бұрын
"If your friends are awesome, it stands to reason that you must be awesome as well" Thx for that one
@derrickcullors09295 жыл бұрын
Elevating Compliments is an art. Its intended to make a person feel good but also designed to make others like you.
@RobertoBlake6 жыл бұрын
Great job on this one guys!!!
@benjaminaltman48956 жыл бұрын
Thanks Roberto!
@TheDreamSyndicateArts6 жыл бұрын
+Roberto Blake sighting in the wilds of YT! Thanks for your work on this video +Benjamin Altman! I hope you both are creating something awesome this week!
@erwingifslang5 жыл бұрын
fun fact smiling alot makes you seem more truste worthy in america but less trust worthy in western europe
@gwendolyn24425 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same with eye contact, everyone would swerve you
@potato-whiz5 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true. It was quite the culture shock when I moved to Europe for a time.
@potato-whiz5 жыл бұрын
Paul O'Reilly yes, Eastern Europe. I lived in Poland and have been to other Eastern European countries and they don’t smile like we do in the US nor do they have the same open friendliness. They think Americans look like buffoons and are “fake.” (I heard the word fake associated with American friendliness many times in Poland).
@jareddeleon88365 жыл бұрын
Thus everyone in Europe are cyborgs.
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
i do smile when i talk with people sometimes but i have been told that my smile makes me look like a serial killer
@xoselhket2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy you made a video about a real person rather than a fictional unrealistic character.
@ev96385 жыл бұрын
If u clicked on this video u ARE trying
@tymishathapa37525 жыл бұрын
No I'm just a lazy potato with nothing to do all day
@thunderbolt59825 жыл бұрын
@@tymishathapa3752 saaame, honestly.
@aidacucak65955 жыл бұрын
Yikes
@datguy77155 жыл бұрын
You are not watching a video on how to watch a video without trying about how to be popular without trying.
@chodge2255 жыл бұрын
If you wrote this you are TRYING
@mediumx32415 жыл бұрын
The touchy thing works good for him beause he's a very attractive and tall guy with a protective aura. When he's getting in physical contact with other men it just looks like a father with his son or a big brother. If he wasn't such a big guy it could certainly be a different story and his "touchy" behaviour would be seen more negatively like he's trying to assert himself.
@trepimero55305 жыл бұрын
1. Don't look the way you probably look and you'll be fine
@heatherpsyd4 жыл бұрын
"Life is a long-term game." So true, I like it!
@cinnamonflan14125 жыл бұрын
Smiling and complimenting! I like his confidence where he elevates other people up and likes to make people laugh.
@Jalil48056 жыл бұрын
bottom line , just be nice to people
@SpaceCattttt5 жыл бұрын
That's nice. It makes people say hello to you when you meet them. And nothing else.
@TheBr0dster5 жыл бұрын
Someone once said you’re too nice to people. Thought, so what?
@sylviemayharrisonmccartney43165 жыл бұрын
*Says "hi" to classmates in the halls, gets ignored.*
@Spirit01_official5 жыл бұрын
Thats no longer working as of 2019 , :(
@greenkitty825 жыл бұрын
You try that and it still doesn't work. They will still betray, talk down to you, mock you and disrespect you. Maybe I've just come in contact with the wrong kind of people. But being kind doesn't always mean you'll be liked and respected. You should do it anyway as it doesn't feel good to be mean but it's just a shame when it's not returned.
@MKEditsxx2 жыл бұрын
He's an ideal human Other than he is ridiculously handsome, he's charismatic, funny, warm, charming, positive, confident, humble... He also seems a great husband and father so a family guy God bless him 🙏🏻🥺💙
@bananafanafoferry69705 жыл бұрын
Part of it is being healthy and taking care of your body. When you look good it helps you to feel good inside.
@yelu66 жыл бұрын
guys!!! please make one about Tom Hiddleston. he's extremely charming!!!
@lokimuffin28886 жыл бұрын
Yes! Tom Hiddleston for the win!
@BuriedAliveInterlude6 жыл бұрын
I think for him he's just very nice/courteous apologizing for very miner things and making everyone in the room laugh just to lighten the mood. and he's overly receptive.
@reaper76846 жыл бұрын
nah not feminity at all ,wtf are you talking about , its pure masculinity , there are multiple shades of masculinity , he's just in the "gentle " part of it .
@sweatysack47616 жыл бұрын
Yelu C. i dont know who youre talking about girl but I just fell in love
@beccag11076 жыл бұрын
YES
@OldManTheseDays6 жыл бұрын
Reasons people like being around Chris Hemsworth: 1) he's good looking 2) He's funny 3) he's good looking
@kittyboygamer69125 жыл бұрын
And he’s tall
@weberpatricia8387 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had found you a couple years back, back when I was totally insecure and not on top of my game. I had to find out all those techniques myself through trial and error. But how reflecting and watching that video it’s like “oh yea, I actually do that subconsciously”
@prettyfunny76165 жыл бұрын
Light touches on the shoulders are a good starting point. Big beaming (not creepy) smile can get you a long way
@manyasingh22305 жыл бұрын
Mark ruffalo: “its magical” Awwwww
@chicoloco3416 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Be Handsome and tall.
@apatshe81885 жыл бұрын
If not: Adapt by making fun of your "shortcoming" Self-Deprecation is a good form of comedy. But if done wrong, will make you seem insecure
@jeffrenjr5 жыл бұрын
True 👌🏽
@yevgeniyaleshchenko8495 жыл бұрын
Jealousy is not attractive.
@danikajayde85775 жыл бұрын
Some people become attractive because of their personality, but if you are doing things without meaning it, like it's a checklist, it's going to come off as contrived and that'll work against you. People can see if you're friendly one moment but pining for what someone else has the next.
@gandalainsley64675 жыл бұрын
@@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 well some people would disagree
@wendyforrestier7738 Жыл бұрын
First of all, I don't want people to be obsessed with me! Keep your charm.