Cheat Me Me Xwb Los Twb Hlub Hlub Yus~10/18/2023~

Hmong Drama Story: The wife that tolerates everything her husband does due to her strong love for him.

[@m.muaslis6902]

You must be the special kind 😂. Hey, if you can tolerate the numerous adulteries and lies your husband has committed in your marriage and can accept all the flaws and sins he's bought into your marriage, then kudos to you. But many many women, who love and respect themselves dearly will not tolerate such in their home and marriage. Good luck.

[@scha4945]

You are right! It is no body’s business as long as you are happy and okay with what your husband is doing. Don’t complain to anyone down the road when you can’t tolerate him later on.

[@sandly5831]

Wow! 5 minutes into her story i can't bring myself to listen to this story. So pathetic 🙄

[@maryly09]

Right? I was thinking the same thing. She better never complain to anyone in the future.

[@5tuglis573]

All I got to say is he trained you good! You took women back to the 1800s. Your one sister in law is right, you will cry blood one day.

[@mellisalauj2089]

You’re so right. He trained her so well with his lies and loyalty

[@gyxyooj0609]

Stop hating. It's not your life. You not the one in 1800. 😂

[@5tuglis573]

@gyxyooj0609 I don't hate. I just feel so bad for her. She's either delusional or completely brainwashed.

[@MaiKerVue]

I'm sorry but this lady is delusional. She's so insecure with herself that she would rather allow her cheating husband step all over her. Sure. It's your life, do what you please. But when you have kids involved, think about what they're gonna think. They're the ones who's gonna get backlash and lectures from other relatives because of how they're parents are. It's the worse feeling ever as a kid. This lady needs a reality check she clearly doesn't respect herself enough. And her husband sees this and takes advantage. Poor women

[@DisBoiVaj]

She thinks the kids will hold down her man. Wrong! A cheater will always be a cheater. Unfortunately for her, he will leave her at some point.

[@asianlivesmatter2419]

She's totally been brain washed.

[@asianlivesmatter2419]

Thaum nws kis tau mob rau koj no puas tsim nyog os mi koj niam. Nws ua zoo2 rau koj ces nws mus txog tom lawv mas haj tseem ua zoo 100% tshaj os mi koj niam siab zoo. Koj txoj kev zoo yuav rov los tua koj ib hnub ces kuv yuav tsis feel sorry rau koj nawv

[@leek-te5dx]

Sister it is cool you be like that. You are the type that welcome 2nd and third wife and are ok so it cool. If that is what you like then your husband must be lucky.

[@kaylauj]

😂, and you want to tell your side. LMAO😅😅😅!!! You do you sis. Let him step on you and disrespect you in public. Women like you deserves everything you get.

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed

[@xiongandcheng]

Right 😂😂

[@mayloyang4222]

Nobody is jealous of your marriage. It’s the fact that your husband cheats on you. You know it and still encourages him to do it. He’s got you wrapped around his finger so bad that you don’t even see that this is not a normal marriage. But your right, its no one’s business but don’t cry later on when he leaves you for another woman.

[@maypalee-thao9457]

No1 is jealous period! They're just laughing at her.

[@dianeonyxiong9457]

The truth hurts but I have to say tour husbands is good at what he does and you are good at believing him. Good Luck!😢

[@perrfectlee1775]

She believes everything he’s said 😂😂😂 no woman is siab Loj only when u can’t have children yus thiaj li tso tau Nws yuav Niam yau xwb 😂😂😂

[@kanetoews7747]

I’m speechless at this story.

[@darknessstar2814]

From a guy. You can't fix stupid 🤪! But I would love for her to be my wife too. What a lucky guy!😊

[@hummingbyrde]

I understand this couple. She’s choosing to love him for everything he’s doing right and not focus on what he’s doing wrong. This lady sounds happier than many women. Like she said, it’s nobody’s business.

[@kaylauj]

I have to comment again. lol...why not talk to other guys too. Have a open relationship. I'm sure your husband would love for you to do that too.

[@perrfectlee1775]

I agreed 😂😂😂

[@PinkMang0]

I can’t believe you’re letting your husband gaslighting you!! You love your husband more than he loves you that is why he knows he can get away with whatever he does to you. He knows that you’ll never have the courage to leave him no matter how much he uses/cheats on you. Woman, you’re not a woman who is SIAB LOJ, you’re a woman who is XIAM HLWB!

[@chiechee80]

Save ppl time listening to this annoying story. The purpose of this story is how much you love your cheating husband and ppl needs to mind their own business period!!

[@nouyang3166]

Omg, this lady got no heart. So annoying I have to dropped the story. Give yourself some love n self respect

[@angelalee4598]

Niam ntxawm hais yog tshaj plaws nawb mog me viv ncaus txiv neej tseev nws hlub koj nawb mog hnub no nws tseem tham es nws tseem los ua zoo rau koj los vim nws tsis tau tham tau tus nws nyiam nawb mog yog hnub twg nws tham raug tus nws nyiam lawm ces txoj kev hlub nws hlub2 koj no ces nws yuav muab mus hlub lwm tus nawb mog thaum ntawv tseev koj hlub nws npaum cas los nws yeej tsis thig rov los hlub koj lawm nawb mog . Yog koj tsis xav plam nws ces koj txhob tso tshav lug rau nws nawb mog tsis yog nws hlub koj os tiam sis nws paub koj lub siab es nws txawj2 ntxhias koj xwb os koj pheej cia rau nws ua ces 99 tus nws tsis nyiam raug thiab deev tsis tau nws siab tiam sis tus thib 100 ces tej zaum nws yuav nyiam raug thiab yuav deev tau nws lub siab nawb tseem koj tsis yuav koj cov viv ncaus hais tas2 los koj tau be careful nawb vim txiv neej yeej yog txiv neej tiag2

[@iavang8584]

Kj ces yog ib tug poj niam hlwb tsawg tshaj plaws li os tu niam tsev aws kj puas paub tias txiv neej lub mav tais ces zoo li ntawv xwb mas kj yog ib tug poj niam ua Ntxias tau zoo tshaj plaws li os

[@jackieyunan4899]

All hmong woman should be like you...

[@MsBL32]

Wow, you one big hearted sister supporting his cheating! Good for you for letting him treat you that way, and saying how much he loves you, good luck.

[@Y0ungbl00d69]

Ruam....

[@leelynhiavu6817]

We are in the year 2023. If both of you agree to swing then everything good. Both of you are adults and both of you are happy, then who care what everyone think.

[@gyxyooj0609]

I like this girl. Every hmong men's dream girl.

[@forever4030]

If you can forgive your husband, then you should forgive people who is talking about you. It doesn’t make sense that your willing to forgive one and not the other. It appears that your hurt by their words because what they say may be true. If your truly happy with your husband’s actions you shouldn’t be upset and bring forth this story of yours. If you allowing this relationship to be like this. Then you need others to allow and correct you so you can grow for the better. Yes , you love your husband , but you need to ask the question if he loves you? If your the women he claims you are, then he wouldn’t disrespect you and talk to other women. When he comes back and cook and clean is because of his guilty conscious only. It’s not love sister.if he truly loves you like he says , then he wouldn’t put you through this humiliation.

[@pasaiy.8578]

Kablia, your words are right on point. He cheats because she allows him.

[@leejmuam1]

He hits the jackpot. A wife that supports his cheatings and so defensive at it, too. Tus pojniam no yeej tsis puv 100 tiag, tseem muaj lub xav tias lawv khib khib nws. You're delusional to think nws hlub hlub koj.

[@nengher7518]

Thov qhuas nawb....coj tau zoo kawg, siab zoo, siab loj, siab dav, txawj hlub tus txiv tshaj plaws hla hlo li lawm

[@leejmuam1]

Mab vaj 💯 right on.

[@sunnygirl973]

He he he. Tham me me, hlub me me, nyiam me me deev me me xwb tsis ua cas os ! Tsuav yog koj uv tau koj tus txiv xwb os! Hope nws tsis nqa mes los rau koj yhiab koj tseemv neeg os. Tej zaum nws yob hov loj loj es koj thiaj lis tseem nyos. Thiab maybe koj tsis muaj peev xwm mus ua koj luj neej tom ntej os.

[@chuecha2617]

I think your husband knows how to sugar talk his way out of trouble because you support him. he knows what medicine to give to you to comfort and to calm you down. it's because your love for him is so strong that you are blinded. you have been cheated and your mind has been manipulated that you don't even know it. you should be thankful that your friends cared about you but you don't even care about yourself.

[@Mloogzoo]

A cheating husband is a quality husband? Damn... what am i then? God"s gratest gift to women?

[@kouthao3280]

Peb cov poj niam Hmoob aw. Thov nej pab respect nej tus kheej thiab hlub nej tus kheej es cov txiv dev no thiaj li tsis muaj2 phlus ua siab phem rau peb os. Cas tseem qhuas lawv txojkev phem thiab na

[@Shoua608]

Niam Neej Vam, koj teb yog kawg lawm! She allowed him to cheat and disrespect her. She has low self esteem. She loves him and want to be with him more then he wants to be with her. Don’t teach our daughters to believe that it’s ok for a husband to cheat and mistreat his wife as long as he be nice to her after he cheats on her.

[@chaivxiong103]

👏👏👏👏niam neejvam hais yog tshaj. 👏👏👏👏👏

[@zouahang7800]

Omg 😲🔥 xav tsis txog tias peb tseem muaj cov niam tsev siab dawb siab zoo22 li no thiab thov qhuas kav tsij khaws koj qhov kev zoo es koj thiaj nyob laus222...

[@electricgenie966]

You are my kind of woman. They really need to mind their own business especially when you don't mind.

[@pyang815]

I would trade a bouquet of flower for a man that love and respect me and not cheat. I work i can buy myself as much flowers, gift but to have a man truly love and respect and not cheat is hard to find. But I respect your decision for liking a cheating husband i guess you do you whatever make you happy.

[@beevang7967]

Ok. I thunk u need help but if you're ok than I guess is nobody business. Good luck. 😂

[@chongvang4454]

Lady, you’re right, ppl need to mind their own business. However, keep in mind that your husband just hasn’t found the woman he likes YET. When he does and in love, he’ll leave you.

[@chongvang3823]

Wow.. a good wife and a good mother God give u the courages and wisdoms.. loves and forgiveness are in the Ten Commandments.. Amen

[@lonelytinystaci]

No one is jealous of you so you don’t need to be so mad and upset at others. I feel sorry for you because your husband doesn’t truly love you. If you think that love is buying things and doing things for you, you are wrong. If a person really loves you, they can still do all the stuff you want and NOT cheat. I honestly think you’re not happy with your life because somewhere in you, you cannot fix your husband habit of cheating. But like you said it’s your life. Just don’t get mad when people judge you. Ignore it and move on.

[@maimoua5845]

This lady is mental

[@missysmart8620]

That, too! She has no standards as to what’s right and what’s wrong in a marriage. Smh 🤦🏻‍♀️!

[@Zeb1245]

Indeed. Like someone said in the comments that she has a cuckold kink

[@colleenchan9872]

Yes kuv agree rau niam neej vam qhov respond yeej tsis yog ib lub healthy marriage but it’s your life your business when you do fall down or crash bare on your own don’t go bragging or bagging for help from anyone!!

[@rolmfp]

I am sad for her to think that it is okay. She is crazy. For me personally I am not going to put up with any man who is a cheater, because a cheater will always be a cheater. It's not okay for anyone to cheat on any relationship, marriage or not. God bless all 😊❤❤❤

[@seexiong9985]

Your husband us very smart. He knew that you are blind when he treats you going and do as you want but his heart is with the woman he loves...wake up woman...

[@oraleholmes1263]

Where can i find a big hearted women like this.hahahaha..i like women like this one a lot

[@bliaxiong9563]

You can not control others person, but you can control yourself, that’s what this lady does. If she is happy with her life it’s okay.

[@nploojsiabhlubheuly7797]

Well said sis, it's your life she should leave you alone it's none of her business.

[@PuaAngie]

Niam neej Vam kuv nyiam koj cov kev xav or lus teb this annoying lady.

[@TrueHmongVoiceTiam21]

Thank you

[@nengher7518]

Cov poj niam coj tau lub siab li tus poj niam no ces yeej tas nrho peb cov txiv neej lub siab nawb, tus poj niam twg coj tau lub siab li no ces peb txiv neej hlub txog hnub txoj siab tu yeej tsis pauv siab li nawb. Tiam no 21 no cov poj niam siab zoo2 li tus poj niam no muaj tsawg2 lawm os, tus txiv neej uas tsis hlub tus poj niam coj li no ces yog ntawv tas. Zoo siab heev tseem muaj cov poj niam coj tau zoo2 thiab siab ntev2 li no

[@baoyang6565]

Sister..get a life

[@yourrrkool8825]

As Jada Pinkett Smith says, don’t let your spouse stop you from finding the love of your life. lol

[@yourrrkool8825]

There is nothing wrong with you sister. There are a lot of open marriages. Because it’s ok for you, you should not try to justify it to others and imposed your beliefs into others. You do you. Or open marriages work for you. Than enjoy your life.

[@cheexiong1634]

This story is already annoying with the way this lady thinks… but yeah hope you one day you come to realization and see the bigger picture… good luck sis

[@maiyang1118]

Wait until he finds someone that he wants and the other lady wants him to divorce his wife…. (She also don’t see that he’s a great manipulator) I guess each their own… but yeah hopefully luck is on her side.

[@leejmuam1]

​​@@maiyang1118there's no luck. He doesn't love her and she fails to differentiate between real and fake love. She's 1000% in denial. Like she said earlier, she lives in denial.

[@cheexiong1634]

@@maiyang1118 agree…

[@cheexiong1634]

@@leejmuam1 exactly … he is good at what he does so either way it’s definitely not love…

[@user-il2ff1sy7m]

Smh it's not a normal marriage, unhealthy

[@leevang4912]

My husband never cheat me me and he still do everything for me😅 if your husband truly love you he will do everything for you and no cheating

[@payang3701]

Yog hlub npaum ko ces txhob nrauj Tsam tau lwm tus twb tsis zoo thiab tseem yog luag tej txiv xwb Yog muaj li koj hais ko ces nyob twj ywm Peb ua neej nyob ces ib leeg yeej coj txawv ib leeg Txhua tus yeej tsis coj ib yam tsis xav ib yam.

[@soukha2232]

Thov qhuas lub siab loj, thiab uv taus. Most cheaters are willing to do everything for their spouses as long as the innocent spouses forgived their cheating.

[@kxiong9030]

This story seems too fake. Or this girl is delusional.

[@kovang1840]

Delusional 100%

[@maithao1139]

You are right! It is your business. However, WE on the outside see it differently. You love your husband more than you love yourself that you can allow him to cheat on you openly. Lady, he no longer respects you or value your marriage. He is testing his boundaries and he is getting what he wants from you. When will you see past the love for your husband and see your own worth? Do you have any respect you demand for yourself? If you allow him to cheat on you, the world will not respect you because you don't even respect yourself.

[@BossPolly]

That’s good for you as long as you’re happy with your cheater husband. If my husband cheats on me, it’s over!!!

[@electricgenie966]

Some people just have that mentality. I'm not a super jealous type. We're adults and as long as we know our boundaries.

[@MrsKervang]

If you and your husband agreed to an open relationship, you must understand the general public aren't ready for that, especially the OG generation. You guys are bound for criticism. You guys keep it discreet. Everyone doesn't understand love in the same way as you guys do. Best of luck to you both. Discretion is your best friend. Like Tina Turner said, whats love gotta do with it? 😂😂😂

[@hmoobclassicsongs4864]

Men n women dream spouse

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

Omg 5 minutes into the story I have to change to a different story. Can’t stand women like this when they think they right in every ways. You don’t love yourself and you allow your man to treat you like this. Can’t connect with this story. Smh

[@maypalee-thao9457]

Ikr. I sat there like, "WOW." There’s this type of lady(ies) who allow this mental instability in this marriage? Wasted 10 min of time listening to this story and didn't finish it. Gave me HBP & headache. If it was me, it's intolerable & I'M OUT!

[@cua1879]

GREAT ADVICE Niam Neej Vam!! Spoken like a well educated woman who love & respects herself. 👏

[@hlinagsiabhaam4169]

Sister aw yeej Yog li koj hais kawg os kav tsij ua li koj ua swb zoo kawg lawm. Kuv los xav ib yam li koj thiab Ntxawm nws tham los nws khwv nyiaj rau yus siv hlub yus pab yus qhov no yog qhov zoo tshaj lawm os. Yog hnub twg nws tias nws tsis yuav tsi hlub koj lawm los mam hais os

[@already_taken_00]

He's being nice because he don't wanna pay child support. People only treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Know your worth.

[@minalee6453]

I know she is in the right for her. She is the 1% opposite of us women. Lol. Stop correcting her relationship. She will accept the other woman if he chose a second or third or fourth etc. He could do no wrong in her eye. She will never go asking anybody’s help. Agree to disagree with her. I am totally selfish. 😂 She is ONE in a million You go girl.

[@Faifferz]

I’m rooting for your husband at this point lol. He’s living life!

[@colleenchan9872]

Yog nyob tau li koj ko los zoo thiab mas! Ua tau ib tug neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws li koj los yeej zoo thiaj tsis mob stroke… Kuv yeej pom ib co niag pojniam coj zoo li koj kuj nyob tau kaj siab tsis mob hlwb thiab mas… koj tus txiv twb nkag tag koj siab ntsws paj hlwb tag txawj sib fwm ko los kuj zoo kawg os! 😊

[@hlinagsiabhaam4169]

Hnub no Yog hnub tseeb xwb txhob xav tag kis os. Ib cov ces lawv txias kom yus nrauj xwb Yog hnub twg lawv nrauj ces lawv tseem ntshai tias tsam koj ho tham lawv cov txiv thiab

[@jasthao9330]

Tus no yog poj ruam tsab ntse😂 You act like you're his mother instead of his wife.

[@nancyvang1667]

The sad part is that she know she hurt but she acting like it okay. Which I know as a women we will not allow this to happen to us!!! I hope this sister will wake up tomorrow and put a stop to whatever she thinks it okay for him to treat her. Good luck to you sister!

[@mellisalauj2089]

Wow Kuv pab koj tu siab kawg vim nws hlub2 koj tabsis nws ho mus cheat on koj thiab. You call this love. Ntshe koj Tsis pub puas lawm pob tus me niam hluas

[@susanrendak2882]

Omg this lady is delusional…. If he loves her so much he wouldn’t cheat on her. There is no such thing as small cheating….

[@mrher83]

After 10 mins of this story and I came right to the comments lmao!! Nice😂😂😂

[@yayulyn4016]

He knows your weakness and easily manipulate you Tus sister. If you love him I guess it’s okay to be patient with him. Like old folks said, “Uv yeej tsis tuag”.

[@yuxianlee2864]

😂😂😂zoo ma yog koj zoo siab.

[@user-vb9xw7rt3k]

Right on! No husband of mine will be screwing around!

[@nouher3438]

Sister, you don't like them doing group chat about you. Why put your story on air/KZbin? Now ppl talk more...

[@maypalee-thao9457]

It's nobody's business but airing her story. I'm confused lol🤔

[@mayxiong7345]

Tus me niam tsev aw, xav kom koj tus me txiv neb lub lub néej zoo ruaj khov li qhov koj ntseeg nws. Thov kom koj lub kua muag ntshav tsis txhob los nawb.

[@piamoua3649]

Puas tseem muaj ib tug pojniam zoo li no lawm ne? Yog tseem muaj no Kuv xav yuav ib tug los hlub Kuv .

[@gaoyang5064]

I'm done already.... good luck😮

[@kelbra3689]

You are right. They are giving you unsolicited, unwelcome advice. They are overly emotional over a life that's not theirs. They justify it by pretending to care about you, but they are actually just talking sht. about you. Ma misunderstood your question, you didn't ask her how she feels about your husband cheating, you were asking who is in the right, you or the women talking crap. You are absolutely right on the part, if you are ok with it, it's nobody's business. Since everybody is saying he only treats you good because you allow him to cheat, you should try to say no a few times and see if he still treats you good. If he starts to distant from you or stops being loving, you'll know what the truth is.

[@vdrtkrato1115]

Gullible person you are. Bruh. If I ever do dat to my wife it’s over and done. Like you said everyone had their own mind and heart. 😢 for you.

[@มายาวี]

Oh my goodness 😆

[@xayxiong1061]

Wow! His cheating must turned you on that’s why you can allowed koj nias txiv dev liam. You loved him more that’s why you can don’t respect yourself.

[@perrfectlee1775]

Poj Niam yeej khib nws tsi pub pua lawm hos thiaj tsi paub khib… npam kom ces cia yuav kiag ib tug Los nrog koj koom thiaj li paub MAs…

[@user-bm9qd9tu4t]

Txojg thaum nws coj kiag ib tug los lawm ces koj plawv kawg nres li os niam no mam koj siab loj kawg tau ib zaug lawm ces yeej mus ib hnub xwb mloog mas

[@redangel3937]

Girl... he's playing you for his advantages... just remember that when you open the door for him.. he will eventually go in... let's hope you won't regret anything later on.

[@yaseeyasee6227]

Ob yo txawm kuv yog koj tu txiv lo kuv yeej hlub koj thiab tiag vim koj tsi puv puas as muab hai kiag tia yog kuv tu txiv pub kuv tham hlua nraug ywj siab nav ma kuv ua nw qhev tuag ntis lo kuv yeej kam thiab 😅😅😅😅

[@wayang392]

Kawg tias koj niam yug koj kiag koj twb ntxub koj niam thiab cem koj niam lawm ces tag li ko lawm xwb os poj hmoob 75 aw...kam tsij cem neeg tiag os es rau2 siab noj mov ntsu2 kom muaj 300 pound ez musj ob hnub twg koj tis mi txiv tso koj tseg ces koj mam li mob stoke es qaub ncaug si luj laws thiab zaum laub lawm es koj mam li xav txog lig os nawb cov niam tsev tsuas pab hlub koj xwb os poj hmoov ruam aw..

[@alexthao4118]

Kuv pab koj tsaj muaj dau.. tuag zoo dua

[@iathor3045]

No way I think if your husband really love you he should respect you not cheat on you and if more than 3 people said the same and you the only one think that you're right that's not work os niam poj hmoob aw one day you will cry and that time will be very sorry for yourself 😢

[@xiongandcheng]

Some women dont known how to love themselves . So sad or maybe she is doing her own thing the husband just dont know thats why she dont care. Or she think she's too ugly won't be able to find another husband. So sad 😢😢

[@HmongV]

Tus txiv ua li ko tsis yog txiv hlub koj nws lam ua zoo Kom nws tau Tham hluas nkauj xwb.

[@luckyxiong6591]

Pog koj tsis puv 100 lawm txawm yog kuv los kuv yeej tsis cia kuv tus txiv nrog koj tus thiab os

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

You can't beat stupid! If she's good with it..just leave her alone. She's happy and that is all that she cares about

[@1zootxiv]

Kav tsij Ua koj lub siab ntev2 os nawb. Ua siab ntev2 txog kiag hnub Ua koj tus txiv mus yuav kiag niam 2 niam 3 and goes on. Keep continuing ur siab ntev siab loj. U don’t even know what the future holds. When he gets to the point, he will leave u for good. U then will regret what the people around u say. Open your eyes!!

[@Shoua608]

Aha…the point is you’re in love with your husband but he’s not in love with you! That’s why he cheats. If you’re happy, be happy. You are delusional!! He has all his fingers wrapped around you. He knows exactly how to play you.😂