Cheating Husband Has a BOYFRIEND and The Wife goes CRAZY‼️

[@leonamoses5614]

To ALL my Sisters Out there, Please understand that sometimes the man you're with can hate you because they hate themselves! I know it's weird but sometimes when a man is abusive to you, dismissive of your feelings, is always picking fights for no reason, etc...They can very well be struggling with their sexuality! These days, it can be difficult for some women to accept but your intuition DOES NOT lie 💜 Don't be a Fool and know your worth, Period.

[@mslenemymomismyangel1643]

💯

[@shameekisreal5185]

💯‼️

[@mzenticement1475]

🎯🎯😤😢

[@toniwilliams9817]

Went thru this ❤

[@ikeishalamb6293]

FACTS!! I honestly have been hollering this since 1999!! BINGO🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

[@KTB780]

I think the parents were fully aware of their son's sexuality and encouraged him to get married to save face in the church. That's probably where all the drugs, alcohol and other issues come from, having to hide who he truly is.

[@yardiebabe]

Yep! The Pastor, First Lady and their families be lowkey crazy and diabolical. They always want the gay son to marry some desperate to be married, sometimes unsuspecting church girl to be their son’s beard. They only care about saving face and the church members usually know, but ignore it. Sad.

[@rotricesummerville7910]

Bingo🎉

[@LuvnIndoGiniq]

@@KTB780 yep

[@new_beginings3214]

Same thing I was thinking

[@sfwatxyo2162]

Exactly. Church folks are the worst folks. Fake, phony, hypocrites. She was blessed by not having any children in that clan.

[@andrealucas7424]

He left you with a dollar because he was planning on leaving you anyway

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

Exactly

[@juliawalker2061]

If this happened, call the whole family out..I wouldn't be saying his parents ..call their names because there are people sitting in his ministry being mislead..at this point you are becoming an accessory to what they are doing to others...

[@JPMarie]

Something really was wrong with her at that time ..She should have been left him and that family..

[@joannalovepeacehappiness448]

Count your blessings. God has done his work for you to tell your story. God has come just in time 🙏

[@Amlah1740]

This perversion is too much now, I'm sick and tired of hearing about wicked acts like these especially in the church.😢

[@noniboo1521]

All this drama and abuse to hang onto a gay man!! 🙄

[@SunShine-vo8kj]

The cussing pastors wife did the same thing. When she found out he was gay she stayed & had nerve to say if he cheats again she leaving😱these woman are beyond delusional & desperate. A new level of crazy.

[@eyestellitall]

@@SunShine-vo8kj These pastors are cunning, finding ways to continue to control their spouses. Also, in the context of the church, being taught that marriage is for a lifetime leads to women staying in these situations. They are being taught wrong. Also, these abusers know how to pick their victims. He had a sense of what he could get away with before marrying her. This is why we must raise our girls to be independent; one day this characteristic may save her life.

[@TamaraGarrettAlpha]

Key words.... church choir director. 😂😂😂

[@otc39581]

😂😂😂

[@yourstrulysych]

Always remember there’s always someone else who has things worst than you😢

[@liveme201]

The entire time I'm watching all I can think about was sister sister. She looks similar to Tia and Tamera. Outside of that I wish her well in her healing process.

[@toniwilliams9817]

She sounds like them too ❤

[@honeyebby]

I stopped listening at the 10 minute mark. This girl is the problem, no accountability. She thought his parents would be on her side??? He abused her, she stayed, he constantly overdrawn their account but she didnt go get a separate account to keep him from taking all the money, she knew he was gay and she still tried to work it out which NEVER WORKS OUT, she didnt try to move out of his people house, and did she really think she wasnt gonna have to pay rent by herself still??? And countless other issues she mentioned. This girl is a long winded, scrambled up, jokes on her, type of person I cant feel bad for. She definitely brung alot of this on herself. Im not saying it shouldve happened to her, Im saying alot of it she had control of. The only thing she couldnt control is that her man chose another male to be with instead of her, BUT EVERYTHING ELSE ladies you are in charge of your own destiny.

[@beautyinthedark7406]

@@MiracleReed-nr4zx I wish I could like your reply 💯💯💯💯💯❤️. It’s soooo easy to judge others while looking from the outside on the sidelines🤷🏾‍♀️

[@brownsugaewing]

This is why people find it hard to share their abuse. Narcissists continue to this because of judgement like this (not solely based) but they always get away with it because victims are blamed

[@rrrederseats]

PERIODDDDT.

[@swmthomas5066]

Agreed. She should've been done with the whole situation. There was no more marriage to fight for. The physical and financial abuse, the abandonment, the substance abuse, the cheating, the 5150 hold. Like, how bad does it need to get? I also hate when ppl start attacking their spouse/partner's family. They're almost always the ones who believed that family should stay out of their relationship. Now things have soured and they're mad at the family for not intervening. Smh.

[@rrrederseats]

@@swmthomas5066 SMDH

[@truth0136]

Crazy at the 26 min mark she just mentioned the series Green-Leaf after I already said that it exposed the Black Christian Churches🤦🏽‍♂️ The Church is the worst place to be when it comes to the Father and Son. If you’re TRULY Born Again and Born of Spirit you’ll understand that.

[@a.michelleridley-franklin2005]

Heartbreak is the worst, absolute 💔 worst pain in this world. We just have to be, we must be careful, take our time, move slow and get creative with testing potential mates. Even more so, take the time to understand, know and =ealize what love looks and feels like by giving it to ourselves 1st and foremost. Have healthy boundaries and absolute dealbreakers. Smh, i just hate for anyone to go thru heartache and pain.

[@veeherbert6327]

It’s the ones in the comments judging younger her like they’d never been through nothing in life🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Augustrubystudios]

So his mom’s love language was food like no words bby gal about your marriage ending and you having to move on to a new life but uh , Tamales? Pizza? Costco run ?

[@twhite522]

Im give you a pass because it seems like you had no family outside of your sister and you were young. Ladies have your own regardless of relationships status. Get checked because health is wealth. Thank God no kids came from this union.

[@toniwilliams9817]

She put you out because you were causing a ruckus for their son and they were trying to save face. Ugh hopefully you're done with that whole family.

[@yakitajohnson7804]

This is so sad on all levels 😢 she definitely didn't deserve this! He was so mean to her! And I get yal saying she should of left but have some compassion he was cheating on her with a man! He was gay he could of gave her something! He depleted there accounts and all this shit happened in church 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I really pray 🙏 for her healing and peace karma will definitely come for that asshole she called a husband

[@patparks6124]

Understanding is the key. with this story. I'm in the church and yes there are many religions. You go girl You raised up and Moved on. No Turning Back.

[@jabellatv3240]

The way black women are getting online and telling all they business is just crazy social media is so weird 😂😂😂

[@jacquelinerencher7579]

This was too much. I couldn’t sit through the whole thing. 😂😂

[@RAJOHN-ke7mc]

I fell asleep, lostening to her slow talking self. This is too much I sped up the video, and just gave up.

[@Ministry_withTee]

Her husband owes her a apology

[@juliawalker2061]

Word of advice, never go to his family about issues with him...they will listen (to get the a scoop) but they won't help at all... In my opinion, going to his family is to try to get him to do right...know when it's over.... especially if you found out he was gay

[@IAmShanquenta_91]

Crazy situation. You should definitely do a movie on this. Sounds like the mother was trying to hold the church together by offering groceries. Word was getting out so she may was recording her offering to make herself look good.

[@SamBlack-w7j]

Pick yourself up and move on. He hates himself and I won't speak bad of this parents, I will just think about them😢

[@Pointofviewdaily]

She is not lying, when you are in ministry the way you make decision based on logic is different. So very different. Its not until you come out of that you know you would have done things differently but when you are in ministry and under a certain covering and young and wanting to live right and do right it is different. It will appear very foreign to those who has never been in ministry.

[@martha-m7h]

I feel for you woman to another woman.He should've just told you the truth than to put you through all that drama to cover up what he was actually doing.

[@Jay86757]

Girl the whole church knew what was going on and his family girl love yourself more than you love this man because clearly they don't care nothing about you know love you wake up go get some help and stop getting on social media talking about this I hope you went and got tested for real that's the that's the big issue that's what you need to be worried about keep talking about a man and what he's going through what about you. 😢

[@bebepursley6539]

This is why there is a movement to get immature women without careers, choices and an understanding of life lessons to marry early, and young . No homework , investigation of your potential mate prior to marriage. You don't know the signs to look for. You don't have a village; a good relationship with your parents ( cults love it..easy prey), few friends you may have may not have anything to offer you. Their son's marriage may be a hope for his healing or a way to mass his sexuality. Lastly, hanging on to teachings, church practices and a belief system ; that the church leadership does not practice themselves.

[@Skywalker29]

I don’t care how close you are with someone’s family don’t trust them in the church or not they’re full of it

[@kcno1369]

No are definitely not alone

[@walkbyfaith2874]

She should have looked to her family, not the church.

[@r.r.5146]

Damn Shame 😳 just crazy 🤪

[@toniwilliams9817]

Narcissism is real 😢

[@shaneiceoutlaw6837]

Its always the music director

[@deliciafrancis4703]

Tell me where this church is so I don’t accidentally attend!

[@ClarissaFletcher253]

I have read this book before, it never works!! Parents trying to convince everyone their son is straight 😅 Women start using your Godly wisdom.

[@sherimac6296]

Gurrrrrrrllllll...praying for you.

[@toyagaines]

THIS 2 murchhhhhh👀🤦🏽‍♀️

[@angelaalverson4325]

They all need to Separate repent and move on cause they doing to much

[@karenhouston3275]

You could’ve drove her to a shelter. She had a child with her. You don’t have no sympathy for the child. Charlie had nothing to do with it.

[@ezralinehubbard3048]

WHY DO WOMEN GO TELL PARENTS?? I NEVER GOT THAT THEN HOLLER SHE TAKE HIS SIDE CUZ SHE SAID SOMETHING U DON'T LIKE SMH STOP GOING TO TELL ON A GROWN MAN! I GOT GROWN SONS AND NO INDEED DONT COME TELLING ME UNLESS IT'S OUT OF CONTROL OR SOMETHING..I DONT GET IN MY KIDS RELATIONSHIP BECUS I DON'T WANT MY MNL IN MY BIZ... WE CANT CONTROL OUR GROWN KIDS BIZ.. 19:00 NOBODY CARE ABOUT WAT HE DID SMH NO HIS PARENTS DONT..HE MARRIED U..HE GROWN. BUT IM THE PARENT THATS GONNA HURT UR FEELINGS WITH THE TRUTH..MY SONS OR HIS GF ANDDDDDD GUESS WHAT MY SON FEEL LIKE IM TAKEN HER SIDE AND SHE FEEL LIKE IM TAKEN HIS SIDE..BUT I TELL WHOEVER WRONG THEY WRONG AND LOOK FOWARD TO THEM BEING MAD AT ME A FEW DAYS NOT TALKING TO ME..SON OR GF IDC WRONG IS WRONG..BUT STOP PUTTING US IN MIDDLE OF YALL RELATIONSHIP I CANT MAKE A GROWN MAN DO U RITE BUT U CAN IF U STAND ON BIZ

[@michellegreer4571]

I've been there most people will never know because they except anything to be in a relationship.

[@RosettaHarris-gn6bk]

I see a loophole 😮 I believe the parents left him around a child molester that is in the family, he must have been touched, and his family prayed that he would be straight instead of gay that's why they never told you I feel bad you were blindsided and no one told you anything they just let you go along and Mary helm knowing that this man was gay, I blame the family but I am a mother and we like to protect our children😢

[@isimotmuheeb4024]

So, he’s also a narcissist

[@MissJanuaryFoster]

I hate the title of this video. But IG I understand the use of it- I think it was just for the clicks. However this story was sad and too real to use that play on words. She had a mental meltdown but understandably so. This was TRAUMATIC for her and all who deals with it. I hope she is mentally strong and past this frfr.💜💜💜

[@kimberlyjohnson6195]

Why she not naming the church?

[@tiffanyweaver3355]

The sinners in the church just nasty!

[@kerrypinkston9392]

😮Sorry, sis, had yo experience this... GURRLLLL I hope you're mentally better... Cut errbody off .. His family is his FAMILY.. They will always be on his... yes, they will listen with an open ear. That's 1st 2nd. They care more about what others THINK they know and / or see... 😮 I can mind my own business 😅😅😅 tho

[@ezralinehubbard3048]

29:42 😂😂😂SISTER GIRL A PROBLEM AND WANT SOMEONE TO FEEL SORRY 4 HER..NOBODY DC THEY MINDING THEY BIZ

[@carlataitt1920]

Seek : YESHUA HAMASHIAC.! ❤🙏 Only God can fix n change things n you life sis.! 🙏 I wish you all the best in your future. Blessings.!!!🔥

[@SeekAfterGod]

wicked!

[@indiakearse2427]

Yall really still run to the church of demons for answers when u can get answer from god right at home . Stop putting them “church folks” in yall business. All they gone do is sit n gossip bout it

[@mcliff8592]

Was she on fix my life?

[@ezralinehubbard3048]

45:23 RITE NOBODY GAF BOUT U AND UR HUSBAND BIZ SO STOP PUTTING PEOPLE IN IT

[@carlataitt1920]

Galatians 5 : 22 , 23

[@stephaniemartin9760]

Church…

[@estherblack2770]

Dont share your accounts with any man just because you are married. Keep money secretly. If men are behaving l8ke that, please leave. Its not a mistake that they are behaving like that, those men hate you. They are already abusive and you think they care if you dont come home??

[@mariefoster5130]

Gurl,, say thank God and run 😢 . And please go get tested 😢

[@juanasiac]

She look like she could be kin to the Mowry Twins 😹😹😹 kinda talks like them too !!! 😂😂😂

[@QueenBoss0628]

That’s literally the first thing I thought 🤣 she might be there cousin 😂

[@sharondavis2941]

Yes she does favor the Mowry twins

[@shavongrimes4229]

😂i was thinking the same thing 😜

[@mmnewsomm]

Most choir directors are tambourine players.

[@bigsteak1409]

😂

[@Shaynae-Duhh]

Hello 🗣️

[@sherryrobinson7660]

​@@Shaynae-Duhh😂

[@qweenzee7188]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsT-xm8xz]

🤭🤭🤭

[@Godgotmealways]

She better go get her health checked 😮

[@genevier11]

He’s abusing you and he’s gay is crazyyy 😮‍💨

[@LuvnIndoGiniq]

Usually the ones who beat women are. That's why they low key hate women

[@bethbethanny6425]

That part got me like 😂

[@jenniferparham1283]

The abuse is he wants to force her to leave and not abandon her. He wants to be able to say that she left me but leave out the abuse part. He’s fighting within himself who he truly is and don’t know which way to turn. That’s where her self worth SHOULD come into play!!!! To know she deserves better than this

[@toniwilliams9817]

Bingo 💥

[@angelc5435]

For real. Ain’t know way i would have stayed through that. That first, staying away for a month, i would be single. I would have been planning my escape then. You got to know your worth and not allow someone to just do you any kind of way in the name of love, married or not. I wish my husband would.

[@dontstartnone]

Damn He had full control of her mind Hope she gets some counseling

[@hazeleyesgreengrey8438]

This man showed her who he was over and over god spared her.

[@Latruthisfree]

(God) Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️

[@mzenticement1475]

🎯👏🏾🙏🏾

[@patriciaperry-higgins6269]

Young women PLEASE don’t let a man show you he don’t want you more than once. Some woman don’t know their in competition with themselves and this is a perfect example. This man done everything he could possibly do to her to get rid of her yet she hold on because it’s familiar. Some of the women in the church will do and take anything just to be the wife in a position within the church. My heart hurt for her and I Pray she truly let go and heal. It’s pure foolishness to put your life on the line for a man (diseases) from sleeping with men or other women. What’s crazy is underneath it all I believe if he came back she would take him back.

[@VeronicaTaylor-h6k]

God please bless and protect her🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Justlikethat555]

Men tend to marry this type of woman that DO NOT hold them accountable. Nieve and don't leave while they do their dirt. Even with abuse. He did not like her at all.

[@LuvnIndoGiniq]

Girl!!! Wtf, I don't understand why she didn't simply file for divorce the day she found out he was sleeping with men. Get spousal support and move around. His parents are gonna side with him. That's usually how it goes. I would have been happy to leave town and be away from it all

[@satoyajones3669]

I was thinking the same thing

[@kosmicinclinations3333]

People hear about fight or flight but the freeze response to trauma is rarely talked about

[@ProfessorCupcakeTV]

Somehow she believed just about anyone could make her husband stop cheating, when in fact only she could, by leaving him. I'm sorry she experienced this. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shyelowe4302]

Love will make you do crazy things ..And that's just the way it is... Thanks for sharing..🥰

[@iamki444]

I am grateful she is here with us to share her story. Abuse is real. Cults are real. To sum it up...Her experience was a LESSON for her. Continue to love yourself out there!

[@mzenticement1475]

🎯👏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

[@valenciaarnold6065]

After all that, why would she want her “husband” to pick her up from the hospital.

[@lboogiebanks2426]

Especially since him and his mess is the reason she was 5150

[@party__poison]

she literally says "it's crazy how abusive relationships work, because only one I wanted to pick me up was him"

[@LaShawnishere]

She's trauma bonded and has Stockholm syndrome

[@3threesmiles]

i m glad i have the mental strength i have

[@netherdew]

D. Oooooo yooo. U. though ? 😂

[@3threesmiles]

@@netherdew yep

[@mr.3much11]

He abused u but u want him to comeback home is crazy.. fucked up situation, but u gotta take a lil accountability for dis one.. u went through a lot of shit u didn’t have to.. u chose to.. but we live nd we learn.. just keep it moving 💯

[@netherdew]

She’s not not taking accountability. Weird for you to say that. It’s much crazier to think it’s crazy to value a marriage and try for a person you love, and it’s reasonable to expect the parents to be capable of doing what’s right. She won in the end bc she can genuinely love. And I thought old churchy folks “know Jesus”… they should be doing what Jesus would do

[@mzenticement1475]

Should people have the expectation that once they get married, they are allowed to cheat and abuse their spouse and then get to use the "til death do us part" to guilt them into staying?

[@tuinfarto608]

She didn't learn nada

[@deliciafrancis4703]

Wow that’s powerful. Great narrative in two small paragraphs. 🫶🏾@mr.3much11

[@carlataitt1920]

He was never really your husband. He used you as a beard. Find and seek deliverance sis. 🙏 Let it go.! 👊

[@tiffanytodman4973]

Honey I stopped feeling bad for her the moment I heard chior director... bih u knew 😂

[@LadyBree99]

😂😂😂😂 right

[@otc39581]

😂😂😂

[@vashonlatrice4177]

😂😂😂

[@feleciagoldson2834]

WOW! Misery really does love company.💃🎻

[@venus6072]

She still making excuses fou that man after he dogged her out just sad

[@josephineforte5518]

What is wrong with these women that accept this Type of behavior from these zesty men. She need to get Therapy and leave this man alone 😢😢😢

[@STAYATINYARMYSIN]

The hypocrisy 💀 this is why I tell my bf I don’t go to church 😬 these people do not practice what they preach 🤨

[@rockinhighempressvibes6316]

He married her for the wrong reason from the jump he married her to cover up his men & alcohol addiction everyone knew so when that guy told her he was cheating with men God exposed the whole situation that's why everyone was mad and not surprised & what God was trying to end it seem like she was trying to hold on instead of moving on & healing. 💯

[@RainChoc_]

I grew up in church as well & I soo agree with her. Some of the most evilest people I’ve met came from church. I watch some churches legit push someone of the LGBTQ plus community, but legit cover up & cape for molesters & abusers. It’s the craziest thing to me. I’ve watch pastors do all of this “Holier than Thou” act/preaching, but all while a serial cheater or not being a good parent to their own children. I’ve seen it all & it’s definitely “cult mindset/ideology” . That’s why I believe in spiritually & having a relationship w/ God on my own. I don’t believe in “Church” 😅 no longer. Why is every pastor & their family well off while their congregation is low/ poor class the entire time ? None of it makes sense when you LOGICALLY think about it.

[@nyeshayoung6718]

When you see a family like that run. No if and or but. They will take you out. To cover there family secrets!

[@TAL399]

the devil 😂

[@toniwilliams9817]

Narcissists are notorious for playing the victim.

[@chandraross1506]

She has horrible storytelling skills. But i pray she heals

[@jonesybaby5402]

Yes. And I don’t believe her.

[@myrajones4835]

She clearly was in denial and delusional because I’m sure she saw red flags. The physical abuse was most definitely a big red flag. The fact that she was going to his family members expecting them to really be truthful to her is insane. Please tell me she is getting counseling.

[@oseskill3k337]

And she got messege from someone telling her that her husband was gay and. Harassing them 😂

[@katrinaparham7708]

We are all children of God. He must repent and live Gods Laws. One way or the other there will be Judgment. 🙏 She prayed to know the Truth and was showed. She got out and saved her life. Definitely get tested. He had C.P. on top of all that & now arrested 😮. Count your blessings yall didn't have children.❤

[@BeautifulSoul-zk6lo]

Child where yall be finding these men so I make sure to stay away?

[@AshBall70]

They find us

[@bridgettlogan9870]

You confused me , but I'm glad you okay!!

[@RootedInRoyalty]

Tyler Perry please make this a movie 🍿🎥😮

[@mcotto814]

The entire drama was allowed by her!! She absolutely knew he had a drug problem before marriage. So I blame her for all of this nonsense! Why did you CHOOSE to stay? The only reason why people do anything is because they choose to believe it serves them somehow. Bruh

[@tennilegreen8692]

She said all that to say nothing she was all over the damn place and didn't tell us nothing 🤦🏾‍♀️🤔

[@ladyrenee1982]

Ruby❤❤❤❤❤

[@RubyKai]

❤️🌹💎🌹❤️

[@OhSnapperzz]

You hit the nail on the head ......CULT.....CULT......CULT

[@marisolcalixte2264]

Once she said the choir director I was like…Ummm 🤔. For that grew up in the church #IFYKYK 😬