This video felt like a hug. I took the advice of going with my gut a couple of years ago, with moderate success. There was mutual interest, but he had situations to handle. Instead of volunteering to help, I let him be. No nagging, no attempts to inject myself into his life, just went on with my life. I kept every exchange positive, and signaled my interest without offering to do anything. Sometimes it's tempting to call him, because I'm pretty sure I could 'make something happen'. But it really has to come from him. I want whoever I end up with to captain the ship so I have to ignore the urge to push ahead. The academy has been a tremendous help!!!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
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@larikajones94112 жыл бұрын
I agree with every single word, sis
@tijuanasshimmeringcreation63802 жыл бұрын
"Trust Yourself" is so powerful, thank you for that gem! I had a gut feeling about the guy I had been dating long distance and didn't trust it, to later find out a couple of years later he was married!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
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@DlitMusic2 жыл бұрын
Really love this! Exactly we have to be authentic no matter what so we can receive love and give back from a place of love. All the advice you give is so good and will allow us to attract the right man faster. Also, loving the ginger hair. All your looks are so beautiful, feminine, and stylish. xxxx 💐
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🌸🌸🌸
@marlenahawkins70982 жыл бұрын
Amen ! I want to change my mindset and be more feminine and break generational curses. I want to learn although I have to do everything on my own for myself and child I still want to be feminine and stop attracting weak men .
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
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@thegrace-basedstudent57012 жыл бұрын
We are not playing around this year!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
No we’re not
@amandagarcia90222 жыл бұрын
Encouraged about 2022. Thanks for setting the direction, Madame Chengi 💕.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
Welcome lovely 🌸❤️
@stephanieswan31492 жыл бұрын
My dear Chengi, you’re definitely taking us to another level and I’m so READY!!! God bless you, my dear!!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
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@lou151765 ай бұрын
This is one of thee best videos you have done Chengi ❤ it’s excellent! I know it’s a few years old but still very relevant. I would just like to add my 2pence worth about the “low investment” dates…the coffee date in particular. If I am meeting someone for the first time from a dating app then I prefer this type of date as a first date, reasons being I don’t want to actually waste my own time with more “getting ready” investment 😁 if it continues to be a second/third date and so on then yes I would expect a higher standard 😊 xx
@blackswanrelationshipacademy5 ай бұрын
Thank you lovely and yes if it’s an online match then a quick vibe check is fine. You can certainly entertain that.
@phalynwilliams41192 жыл бұрын
Thank you so his message is wonderful. Happy New Year 2022!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year my lovely 🌸
@CelesteB780 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU. I NEEDED THIS ,IVE BEEN WATCHING SO MANY OF YOUR VIDEOS. IVE LEARNED SO MUCH. Sorry I'm not shouting
@blackswanrelationshipacademy Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕❤️🫶🏾
@tammyjohnson60292 жыл бұрын
I love this.. thank you it was a very gentle reminder to accept our truth and love on ourselves...
@phoebetinoza15942 жыл бұрын
Great content, thank you Chengi Have a beautiful year ahead ❤️😊
@wadakealotswe47842 жыл бұрын
Thank you Chengi.
@mhzkay2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much for these gems.
@pipermcpickles52832 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! 💕💕
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
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@ruthkaunda33433 ай бұрын
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@bongiwematsoha11472 жыл бұрын
how do you decline a low investment date respectively and get him to take you on a proper date?
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