Maine khudke liye jeena kaise seekha? 🤷🏼‍♂️

I did start living for myself!
What's stopping you?

[@jayashreeputhran244]

I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.

[@krishnanandtripathi7588]

Very nice suggestion.

[@rashmiray9773]

I do very much agree. Thanks

[@rashmiray9773]

I am 52 years

[@HappyYoungReaders]

I am 51 yrs, anyone cannot make anyone happy all the time.

[@deepak842]

👍

[@hardiksharma9]

Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic. 1. Reduce stress as much as possible. 2. Avoid people that cause stress. 3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else. 4. Focus on Career

[@jeekakrishna]

build a career in health industry.. Anything related to that.

[@jeekakrishna]

@@sanjanagrover7436 learn zumba and become a zumba instructor....

[@jeekakrishna]

@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?

[@rainbisht1235]

@hardik Sharma ...it happened c same with me .I also decided the same

[@nischalsinghal]

@@jeekakrishna yeah I completed Btech in Biotechnology 🙏❤️

[@meenuajmani8767]

I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !! But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently. Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕 It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.

[@create40urself]

Weldone meenu

[@vikrantshukla94]

@@create40urself thanks

[@shashidhawaledhawale9375]

"IT TAKES A LOT OF NEW LEARNING, AND UNLEARNING, TO LIVE FOR YOURSELF". Simply wow. Thanks

[@mahimagupta5840]

My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..

[@piyushgupta10x]

Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.

[@deadfrominside698]

This country will change the day people realise this :)

[@ajsaxenaofficial]

Yes i try it all the time

[@RiteshPatel-sk1iw]

Glad to hear that..

[@vikrantshukla94]

Great feat...may i know that maths tutor name or link, i have some plans, may be he can teach India at scale

[@anubhasrivastava6089]

You are amazing sir. I think this issue is the root cause of all the mental health related problems. Very thought provoking video.

[@rishabmishra6957]

ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛

[@gyda2792]

For someone living in the rural part of West Bengal with no proper guidance, you are an angel..you're my mentor

[@rahulyadav-ex8pu]

West Bengal here also 😊

[@ashna4985]

M also from rural part of West Bengal

[@advarjitaporwal2329]

i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.

[@vikrantshukla94]

Can u elaborate like why you got separated?

[@monurajput5608]

@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.

[@Homelessbillionaire]

I Never Dreamed About Success. I Work For It.

[@mrdevasheesh]

I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.

[@mansurkarim4739]

Desires come true but dreams don't ...

[@manmeetkhanduja7201]

💯 true, I learnt this at the age of 55, after loosing everything at the cost of my health 😭

[@Dr.GunjanVishwakarma1111]

hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.

[@Manishsharma-jc6jm]

जब पहले हम अपने लिए जीयेंगे, जब पहले हम अपना ध्यान रखेंगे तभी तो हम दूसरों के लिए भी जी पाएंगे और उनका ध्यान रख पाएंगे।👍

[@abhaverma6822]

Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.

[@GK-hm3bh]

I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.

[@reetaraghuvanshi4962]

I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think

[@ShahnawazAlamShan]

Thank you so much for putting these productive videos in the era of reels and snaps . Really appreciate your time and effort Chetan.

[@srivastava7959]

Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.

[@ITLCstudios]

I'm lucky that I am member of this family. You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago . From that day I'm live for my self ! Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !

[@SWATISINGH-kt5bd]

Living for yourself takes great courage . Awesome advice Sir .😊

[@vikrantshukla94]

100p @swati

[@anandtiwari1378]

I live for myself, I Priotise Myself, never thinks what people will say and never care about what will they say. Thanks sir, for this amazing content

[@bj54613]

Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!

[@piyushgupta10x]

Thats a great realization..

[@MILIROY2605]

While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.

[@bloomalive]

Absolutely true... unknowingly we live for others,I really like the ease with which you speak.

[@gautamchaturvedi3942]

You have validated everything I'm going through currently, having arrived at this point by taking a similar call. Thank you so much for articulating in such a way that resonates with each person on an individual level.

[@sunnyshrivastava1934]

it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏

[@yasharthsingh7725]

Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones. But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨ Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️

[@shantipriya4724]

Your each and every word is so soothing and makes me feel light. Feels like a therapy. Can't thank you enough!!

[@nehaawasthi9855]

पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए आभार🙏

[@parulsrivastava8202]

Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.

[@ratnanirupama]

+1

[@princekumaryadav1932]

Are you pursuing PhD at iitk?

[@jayendrasingh9260]

How can chetan sir tell what he hadn't face ... open your own channel, share your research experiences and it's up and down

[@ilhamhoque9305]

Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you

[@madhurjaiman3114]

Real life lessons, I always feel connected with your wisdom 🙂

[@parmeshsrivastava2389]

I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!

[@yagnikmadhav6987]

It really takes a lot of Guts to tell the truth & to share your life learning with us & to get inspired. Bowing down to you 🙇🙇 for your Honesty ✨💫

[@deepayadav4927]

I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇

[@vivekkumarmishra6771]

Really good. I am also in this type of condition. Same here. May God bless you too.♥️

[@sachinsachan]

Never discontinue youtube sir. People like me from rural background are also watching you. You are changing people's lifestyle. LOVE YOU

[@akshayanandjha9565]

Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!

[@abhifinology6681]

Yesterday I was living for others, but today onwards I live for myself.i promise you sir I will change my life!!

[@abhijitdesai8861]

How is it going?

[@abhifinology6681]

@@abhijitdesai8861 it going to change my life.

[@abhijitdesai8861]

@@abhifinology6681 12 days done.. any noticeable change?

[@abhifinology6681]

@@abhijitdesai8861 yes bro but it is gradually changing me.

[@piyushgupta10x]

Yes you can. Just believe.

[@shortsstatus1116]

Yes uu Always talking about true reality of life 😍❤️ Thanku sir 😇

[@vaibh124]

Love this new and better version of CB! Can feel the Spurt of energy.

[@aaravkumar1308]

Thanks for this learned and life changing message sir ... Thanks for being there :)🔥🙏

[@ravivarma7757]

Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏

[@vikrantshukla94]

Too much care for someone takes us foregranted

[@apoorvranjan6032]

I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..

[@SD-xz9ml]

I know! I hated him after nach baliye but his KZbin channel made me realize what a wonderful person he is, ardently following him now

[@apoorvranjan6032]

@@SD-xz9ml that show was really cringy..no one should make fun of others like they all were doing to Chetan sir

[@jivisha_]

@@SD-xz9ml which episode is it on youtube now!??

[@vikrantshukla94]

Depression me the Chetan Bhai...kaahe ki bankerwa bolis ki kitna kma lete ho dk Bose?

[@ajitsingh831]

great sir,,,,I think 99 percent people are doing and living this way....u gave us a new dimension of doing and living ...thanks man

[@moseskhan5391]

You are a true and highly motivated person. Earlier I m not used to live for myself but ofcourse, now I live only for myself. I do feel happy. Much love from London Chetan Sir ❤️ God bless you

[@Jagriti03]

I have read all your books. Thank you sir. Because of you , i fall in love with reading.😊

[@iamasinglesolotravellers5757]

Development mentality atmogan

[@nishachaurasia3320]

I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on KZbin, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.

[@vikrantshukla94]

True Nisha

[@kamla865]

This is the best motivational video i have come across in long time. I have seen it 5 6 times. Every time it rejuvenates me and makes me calmer.

[@rupamdeka3594]

Yes brother, you are absolutely right.. I am going to live for myself.... Thank you for inspiring me.

[@ruchiaggarwal3678]

I was living for others...but now I'm 24 yrs old ...trying to live for myself...nice video 👍..thanku sir for sharing your life experience ♥️

[@mysticguy1174]

To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍

[@lalita6252]

sir, I also want to live for myself

[@mysticguy1174]

@@lalita6252 All the best for your bravery 👍

[@lalita6252]

@@mysticguy1174 sir, I want to live in present, but my mind always think about the things which disturb me...how ti get rid of this habit of mine

[@mysticguy1174]

@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍

[@UtkarshBegiens]

Great advice Sir, I could relate to few points as it was going in my head as well regarding living a life of someone else. Keep the guidance going!

[@amardeep8616]

Actually helping a lot ! Boss ek dam brain and mind me hit hoti aapki baat. Really inspiring 🙏

[@rahulgawale]

I also started living for myself in covid times! Great video!

[@ChetanBhagat1]

That's awesome!

[@vaishalichaudhary1479]

Before you share love ,store some love for yourlsef!!❤vedio was soo touching thankyouu soo muchh Chetan Sir🙏

[@Adiol]

listening to you. has ofcourse had profound effect. I'm pretty much putting everything into execution that i had wanted to ever since i started listening. Keep em coming.

[@bhagyaprabhakamble1]

Awesome Video Sir🌟 Thank you so much for simply explaining the Importance of Self-priortizing 👍🏼 I watch all your other great content videos 😇

[@rajenmsr]

Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.

[@suhailansari3847]

How did you overcome the phase of depression?

[@rajenmsr]

So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.

[@sele403]

All the best BTW you're handsome

[@IamSpidey007]

You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it. But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life. For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others. If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval. Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people. IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it. You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you

[@rishabmishra6957]

bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc

[@Ni2syy]

Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr

[@mitaleebindra9947]

Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )

[@Homelessbillionaire]

The Harder You Work, The Luckier You Get.

[@aishwaryagaikwad2946]

Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !

[@youtubeuser1104]

Well explained and thank you so much for your words of wisdom, i always had this dilemma that choosing oneself is selfishness or self-love !? but now much clear after watching this video my soul also in alignment with what you have shared. keep spreading positivity and motivation 🙏

[@pankajpanwar9495]

Refreshing Chetan! Very profound but very spontaneously said .... I hope younger generation, for that matter person of any age may get clarity and inspiration and start truly living life without baggage!! 🌿

[@trivenikohale9428]

You are an amazing person who shared the most practical tips♥️♥️♥️♥️ Yess I am living for myself 🙌✨

[@ShriLaxmi879]

You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos

[@spiritualpriya]

I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive. I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.

[@naushinasamreen8555]

This is Really the Most needed topic to be discussed I started prioritising myself more these days i avoid toxic people much socializing feel calmer but retaliated with backlash people calling me selfish introvert and even insane

[@AyushTak]

This is the best advise I have ever got… thank you sir!!!!

[@pradeepdheer6225]

You are doing a great job Chetan Sir. People in this world are still not understanding the value of mental health. Please keep up with your thoughts 🙏

[@ritambharasingh9520]

I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate... I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep.... But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective... Thanks a lot..😇

[@India_Travel_Films]

Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.

[@poojavasa]

You know Chetan...ur talking abt subjects that are enlightening us. Making us think n self introspect. It's really helping in sorting out those noises in our head ...that no one helps you with. I'm thankful that uv chosen to talk on topics that are so relevant n needs addressing But most importantly ur speaking from your heart ❤️ N I can see ur wish is only to help others in their journey ..this journey of life. Thank you so much 🙏 I listen to you talk again n again to actually imbibe it n make it get into my head wat ru trying to advise n put it into action rather than sunliya aur phir bhool gaye. Thanks again 🙂

[@birinaL]

Always happy to hear you . constant inspiration for me. Worth 17 minutes spend. Thanku sir ☘🌺

[@learnwithhiramankumar3097]

Bahut badiya sir ,main to pahle se hi aapne liye jeeta hu. But aapse bahut kuchh aur bhi sikhne ko mila aaj . Thankyou so much chetan sir aise hi value dete rahiye

[@Saumya_124]

Amongst all of your videos, this video is truly a gem!!!! Life changing video🙏🙏

[@tanyasingh8245]

Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.

[@sincerelearner2345]

Must needed topic.. Sir thank you for making video in this wonderful topic.. many youngsters waste their crucial years of career making.. also get depressed while living life to impress or please people or society.. We all do need to think upon it that are we living for our lives for ourselves or only for others validation..👍👍 You are really a Great source of Motivation and inspiration for youth.. Thank you once again..🙏🙏✨✨

[@Asif_I]

Helped man! Literally i think for the moment and obviously i will make my life easy

[@adeshsingh4381]

Same situation I am facing now,,but i will change myself ..thank you so much sir for giving us precious advice....❤️

[@soundsofsahil]

Sir your content is amazing it's close to reality and people need such kinda podcasts .💯💯💯

[@pushpalkumar9027]

This video is an eye opener for everyone .Thanks a lot sir. ❤️🙏

[@mukulsinha99]

Totally agree.. and like you said living for yourself is not the same as being selfish. Also people are attracted to one’s who prioritize their happiness.

[@rkprasad.7]

Chetan Sir you kept all the things inside you infront of us without any filter. Love you❤

[@rupenthapa]

Awesome video👌👏it’s more than a year that I already started living for myself. I really don’t give shit to others. Life is short, so I’ll live it to the fullest. Keep up the good work👍

[@jagpreetkamisra710]

Yes it’s helping. You are doing a great job👍

[@manendrasingh952]

puri sachhai hai sir is video me.bahut acha laga ye sab janke hum log dusron ke liye jite hai aaj se apne liye jina hai❤❤

[@rashmijashnani1849]

Thankyou Chetan, definitely you are so sincere and truthful. Hare krishna

[@farahness853]

Never heard such real talk.. In no filter mode. Very clean and pious.. Thnk you so much.

[@ranveerraushan3384]

Thank you so much sir.....itna acha lession dene ke liye🙂🙂 apne liye jina kitna importent hai. Ye mai aaj aap ke duara sikha.......apne liye jina zindagi ka sabse bara sukun hai❤️🙂

[@simranSmadaan]

You are the focus of your life, thankyou for this line sir

[@krishkishore2051]

Thank you sir for your advice.. I will definitely follow it

[@rishitraj9981]

Thank you soo much Sir! Loved it!❣️

[@MrTERIMUMMY]

What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Love from Canada Lots of blessings

[@Santawithwings]

Hello. Nice talk. The thing you said about the pandemic changing your perspective resonated with me too. Despite the losses most of us sustained, the fragility of life and cluelessness of everyone became clear like never before. This realization also led me to forge my own path ahead. Criticisms don't offend now as much as they used to.. 🙂

[@camelkarma]

Lovely video. Thanks Chetan. I read your 5. Someone when I was in my 3rd / 4th year of engineering . Great motivational talk.

[@yashvardhanraizada5740]

Wow ! I am starting this from today, lucky enough to learn this at 22. BTW, Congrats Chetan for your kheti 😂 Aapki jawaani barkaraar rhe !!!

[@harshitchaudhary5476]

It's true its not easy to live for ourselves first but life ek bar mili hai jo sabse pahle humare khud k liye hai. Thank you so much for motivating us....🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@preetphiloveracity]

Btw the best content I've ever seen and I hardly watch a video from start to finish without any skips, this is the one of them.

[@tauhidlaskar8792]

I am 20 after watching you sir now I am starting to live for myself I saw its worthless to think about others and Re- Construct our life according to there compactablity, For the ones who cares for us truly will love us the way we design ourself ♥️. Thank you so much for such an amazing Vedio @Chetan sir