Woman Says She Doesn't Need A Man & Gets Asked An Uncomfortable Question | The Coffee Pod

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Chisha Zed

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@ChishaZed
@ChishaZed 2 жыл бұрын
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@kingba111
@kingba111 2 жыл бұрын
They think submission is oppression.
@trustme7660
@trustme7660 2 жыл бұрын
When submission is brought up women get angry. But women want men to submit to them
@carolinacliph3808
@carolinacliph3808 2 жыл бұрын
Women have moved so far from the basic needs of a man... that they find it difficult to come back... fake beauty, lack of fitness and the I don't need a man attitude is strong with them... Better rub them crystals together hope your Chakras can help you snap out of that horrible spell.
@latoyawilliams3819
@latoyawilliams3819 2 жыл бұрын
I've been married for 13 years and I respect the hell out of my man and can feel comfortable to submit to him because he set the standards of trust and respect. A woman can maintain her looks because she wants to look good for herself and her man but that is not a prerequisite for a long standing relationship. You can be the most gorgeous woman or man in the world but if your character is not in reflection of your outer then the relationship can and will fail. Men and Women should find life partners (if that's what they want) with substance.
@OmniMale
@OmniMale 2 жыл бұрын
As a sailor, I use ship metaphors. Let's look at aircraft carriers. There is only one captain of a ship. 1500ppl as ships company. Each department works a bit autonomous do get the job done. Yet the captain holds responsibility and is in command. He sets the tone and the others work within that tone. He's not micromanaging every dept.
@IntelligentInsights876
@IntelligentInsights876 2 жыл бұрын
There's a reason why the devil presented himself to eve and not adam.
@traceydumase
@traceydumase 2 жыл бұрын
That part👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@ArielGonzalez1
@ArielGonzalez1 2 жыл бұрын
call stupid, but i didn't realize it before your comment and this video ahahahah
@AD-vp6cz
@AD-vp6cz 2 жыл бұрын
0_0
@vasiliualexandru4725
@vasiliualexandru4725 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah the devil said " She belongs to the streets" 😂
@ronnieburton9593
@ronnieburton9593 2 жыл бұрын
@@vasiliualexandru4725 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏿‍♂️
@red154154
@red154154 2 жыл бұрын
When men set high standards. That’s when S.I.G.N language comes into play. Men have spent years understanding a woman’s mindset but when it comes to women understanding a man’s mindset it’s toxic. Tough.
@desjones5254
@desjones5254 2 жыл бұрын
This! When you know what you want to say and can’t find the words. Then along comes this.
@redram5150
@redram5150 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve yet to meet a woman who understands a man’s mindset. All I ever hear is hyperbole and invective
@straightfrommissouri
@straightfrommissouri 2 жыл бұрын
It's only toxic because it would force them to be accountable. Fucking disgusting
@redram5150
@redram5150 2 жыл бұрын
@@desjones5254 I felt that way up until I discovered Thomas Sowell. Man’s a damn genius
@King-ns7it
@King-ns7it 2 жыл бұрын
They have no desire to do so because society has taught them that a man is nothing, that all we are is money and meat. I've given up on it all and I'm married. They will never change at all, they all think they can do no wrong
@jamesross1798
@jamesross1798 2 жыл бұрын
*10 Modern Women Contractions:* 1.) "I want a man to lead" but then say "I want to be Michael Jordan to his Scottie Pippen". 2.) "All men are dogs" but then say "I don't like nice guys". 3.) "I want an alpha male" but then say "I want a role reversal where the man stays home while I work". 4.) "I want a HVM" but then say "I don't need a man". 5.) "Broke men don't deserve respect" but then say "Men don't protect women any more". 6.) "I want to marry a rich man" but then say "I want a divorce" after he trusts her not signing a prenup. 7.) "I'm not cooking, cleaning, submitting, nor spending money on a man" but then say "Why are men leaving the home". 8.) "I want a provider" but then say "Why are you always working" 9.) "I want a man who earns 6 figures" but then say "I'm not helping no man reach his goal because I don't do struggle love". 10.) "We can do a man's job" but then say "Honey there's an intruder at the door" acting like protecting isn't part of a man's job.
@straightfrommissouri
@straightfrommissouri 2 жыл бұрын
Severe backfire is coming their way
@canguskahn
@canguskahn 2 жыл бұрын
Walking contradictions. Very hypocritical and I bet when a man identifies any or all of these thing in the relationship then I promise deflection will come for her.
@jamesross1798
@jamesross1798 2 жыл бұрын
@@canguskahn Yeah you're right! It's called gaslighting. All the women who does these thing are actually narcissists. And it's best to avoid them at all costs.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
11) Expecting men to take responsibility for the relationship and not allowing him to have ANY control over anything
@jamesross1798
@jamesross1798 2 жыл бұрын
@@airthrowDBT FACTS!! 💯💯
@imjusttrollingyou4014
@imjusttrollingyou4014 2 жыл бұрын
Women: be better than my ex Men: don't be as bad as my ex Big difference.
@t.robertjohnson7274
@t.robertjohnson7274 2 жыл бұрын
As long as you dip her in pure toxicity on occasion.
@Sheed96
@Sheed96 2 жыл бұрын
literally
@OMGitsTerasu
@OMGitsTerasu 2 жыл бұрын
Woman: has standards Man : ok Man: have standards Woman: I'm not some object you can mold to your wishes.
@sluggzmcgee6272
@sluggzmcgee6272 2 жыл бұрын
STRONG FACTS!
@koolsmoothfan
@koolsmoothfan Жыл бұрын
fr fr
@nickinik6523
@nickinik6523 2 жыл бұрын
What's funny is that women get pissed off at men saying to stay fit and maintain themselves; but as soon as they get dumped they want to start getting in shape and looking good.
@texasman80
@texasman80 2 жыл бұрын
Make it make sense!!!
@yourface7179
@yourface7179 Жыл бұрын
Not all women lol I workout for me not for men I want to be strong 💪muscles are useful 😊
@nickinik6523
@nickinik6523 Жыл бұрын
@@yourface7179Wasn't implying it was all women, as we all have our own reasons that motivate us. Was speaking about the ones that will gain tons of weight in their relationship, tell their significant other to deal with it cause they not trying to lose the weight. When the relationship end, then all of a sudden they want to lose the weight which most of the time is so the man can see how good they look after the breakup.
@regulaguy1733
@regulaguy1733 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a man myself and I know we all need men. I needed my father, mentor, that mechanic who installed my new engine, the farmer who grows my food, the trucker who brings my stuff to me, the infrastructure that allows me to live and make money, the house I live in, the business I work for. The military and police that keep me safe and on and on. We all need men, we all just don't appreciate them.
@Lovely0714
@Lovely0714 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! 🙌🏾
@Afrolatinalexi
@Afrolatinalexi 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this comment 👏❤️
@regulaguy1733
@regulaguy1733 2 жыл бұрын
@@Afrolatinalexi thank you 😊
@regulaguy1733
@regulaguy1733 2 жыл бұрын
@@Lovely0714 thank you 😊
@SimonKnight1023
@SimonKnight1023 2 жыл бұрын
And women…give birth.
@HisYin_HerYang
@HisYin_HerYang 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in two marriages. The first one I was a ‘professional career’ woman. In this one I’m now a ‘traditional wife’ and I will openly admit I find this one more enjoyable and fulfilling than all previous relationships. What changed? Instead of being in survival mode (moving through the masculine energy) I’m in service mode (feminine energy). He’s the head of the household whereas I am the heart of the home. I’ve made it my career taking care of my family by prioritizing my husband and believe me my husband pays handsomely. 😉 Edit…Btw he is NOT a “high value” man. He’s average.
@TheInternationalAsshole
@TheInternationalAsshole 2 жыл бұрын
So basically you found a dude that made more money than your ex.
@arnethaearl8468
@arnethaearl8468 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss 😘
@eddyalvaross2195
@eddyalvaross2195 2 жыл бұрын
Teach these traditional values to your daughters if you have daughters, and let them know that staying virgin until they find their husband is wisdom.
@odog76543
@odog76543 2 жыл бұрын
​@@TheInternationalAsshole or, giving her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she gave up that profession she had and finally let her man focus on providing for their family and their safety, security, and survival. Something I've noticed about women who work and take on a large leadership role in their relationship and family is that they're always feeling like they're in survival mode, primarily because they don't plan for and forsee the pitfalls and problems in life. They don't save money, so even when they do make a lot more of it, they spend too much on trifles, then when expensive emergencies occur, they're stressed out as to how to proceed through them. They take out their angst and frustration on their mate and family.
@OMGitsTerasu
@OMGitsTerasu 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheInternationalAsshole I think she found a dude who was willing to give her more than she may deserve because she's not a headache. Very well could just mean he's a high earning man so she fell in line, but I like to think that people have positive experiences that lead to prosperity in aspects of those given.
@coachc125
@coachc125 2 жыл бұрын
I am not telling a woman what I am looking for. I know what I want and if I don't see her making the right moves. Then I'm out! No more debates. #SYSBM
@chasegriffin5205
@chasegriffin5205 2 жыл бұрын
Amen to that 👍💯
@undastan
@undastan 2 жыл бұрын
FACTS #NoMercy
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
Yep. You should be asking questions and NOT feeding her the right answers, and you should be watching her actions and seeing how they line up with her words in the vetting process
@useyourwords3286
@useyourwords3286 2 жыл бұрын
@@airthrowDBT that's too confusing. Why would any woman deal with that?
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
@@useyourwords3286 Why would any woman deal with you asking questions about their values? Are you serious?
@leesnow5859
@leesnow5859 2 жыл бұрын
As a man. Widowed. 34 year marriage. My wife was submissive to me. I had final say. Used it 4 times in 34 years. It was when a decision had to be made and we didnt/couldn't agree so I made the decision and I also got all the responsibility for it good or bad. So did I rule my wife? No. Wanted her to be happy. Always considered her. But the responsibility for the family ultimately fell on me. She really liked it when she got sick and I handled everything. Would I have done that if she fought me all the time when she was well? No. We would have divorced. Every group/marriage has to have a leader or there is confusion. A good man or leader will do what is best for the group/marriage even if it is not best for himself.
@tonileolion9702
@tonileolion9702 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊🙏🏼🙏🏼
@ayeflippum
@ayeflippum 2 жыл бұрын
*lee show* As a man, you still don't know the proper use of a period.
@redram5150
@redram5150 2 жыл бұрын
Preach
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
That's a beautiful thing.
@Afrolatinalexi
@Afrolatinalexi 2 жыл бұрын
Hope Everbody reads this comment!!!👏👏❤️
@Fuckyoutubecensorship1
@Fuckyoutubecensorship1 2 жыл бұрын
"Never enter a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it." Prenup and DNA test on children at the hospital should be mandatory father's keep your daughter's off of stripper poles and father's keep sons out of jail. Accountability is women's kryptonite.
@carliushardin4229
@carliushardin4229 2 жыл бұрын
georgia changed that. I offered a DNA and was denied, unless it was court ordered. Filled out the birth certificate and was taken off.
@ShinkuGouki
@ShinkuGouki 2 жыл бұрын
Your name is interesting. KZbin has been deleting my comments and "Josh" from KZbin contacted me 2 months ago about a coment I posted. He didn't tell me what it was about. Why be vague?? Tell me what the hell I said that was wrong. That's annoying.
@jisi8462
@jisi8462 2 жыл бұрын
You won't get an argument about the Prenup or DNA from an honest woman. Prenups are as old as marriage. They used to be called marriage contracts and used to be negotiated by the parents on behalf of their children. The issue of submission is that most of these guys talking about submission are not talking about marriage. The concept most are familiar with comes from the Bible, where it says a woman should submit unto her husband as her husband submits unto God. He is to love his wife the way that Jesus loves the church. Most of these unions are unequally yoked, e.g. Megan Good and her ex husband.
@a-atheist
@a-atheist 2 жыл бұрын
If women aren't going to be submissive to their bosses, they're going to keep getting fired. Just like they're going to keep getting pumped and dumped.
@shaquilleherbert274
@shaquilleherbert274 2 жыл бұрын
hence why u don't get married no leverage can be in a relationship invite them over now an again but once u start your bullshit time to go back home an get a next woman
@alyssalynn1835
@alyssalynn1835 2 жыл бұрын
Never tired of these conversations 👌🏼 I’ll do anything my man wants us to do , he’s shown he has our best interests and I’ll always let him lead , I love being submissive to him 😌 I’m a fitness trainer and I set up one of my clients at the gym with someone and now our sessions have turned to dual sessions where I’m coaching her how to deal with men , they’re simple , they don’t have underlying meanings to what they say most of the time so stop reading into nonsense and overthinking and in turn taking it out on him and he will want to pursue things with you
@trustme7660
@trustme7660 2 жыл бұрын
Rare one ☝️
@the8thchurch461
@the8thchurch461 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@iamblackjeezus
@iamblackjeezus 2 жыл бұрын
@@trustme7660 VERY!!!!
@laughing_man_3378
@laughing_man_3378 2 жыл бұрын
This right here! And women wonder why we're beginning to look elsewhere.
@TURBOBEATZZZ
@TURBOBEATZZZ 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯 percent correct!
@reemobrooklyn3557
@reemobrooklyn3557 2 жыл бұрын
When a woman ask "what do you have to offer to request those things?" ask back "If I have everything to offer are you even capable of doing what I ask for?" Look at how many high value successful men out here ending relationships because the women they are with can't fulfill those requests. It ain't what we can offer, it's just not in them to do what we ask for. Just say that.
@AV57
@AV57 2 жыл бұрын
These conversations go no where, because they tend to only focus on the extremes of society. They focus on 1’s and 10’s, but won’t talk about the 95% of society that is a 4-6. We’ve got all these 4-6 people now obsessing over how disappointed they are that they’re not going to land a 10 and also talking as if anything other than a 10 may as well be a -1.
@redfather5342
@redfather5342 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@shawncudjoe21
@shawncudjoe21 2 жыл бұрын
Submit means one thing, and if the other person is redefining it, then can't expect someone else to accept your definition. Submit means yield to the power and authority of another.
@markcoleman7246
@markcoleman7246 2 жыл бұрын
And in the old days there was no "choice" or discussion if they didn't do it then they got forced, what happens if every man in the world decided to just go back to that. They couldn't stop us if they wanted too.
@shawncudjoe21
@shawncudjoe21 2 жыл бұрын
@@markcoleman7246 Today we would call it rape.
@areyourhandsbroke
@areyourhandsbroke Жыл бұрын
@@markcoleman7246 the devil has entered the chat
@Tmidiman
@Tmidiman 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found a wife that is fit, feminine, fun, and submissive. I figured out long ago that most western women had nothing to offer me. It’s also great to see young men understanding what they really want and communities where they can communicate and learn from each other. Focus on your purpose men and stop searching for pearls among swine.
@_VXI
@_VXI 2 жыл бұрын
The idea of us not needing each other is wild. Men have never come out and said we don't need women, but women come out talking about they don't need us...then get upset when men don't pursue them. What's up with that???
@trustme7660
@trustme7660 2 жыл бұрын
No women will address they’ll turn it into he couldn’t handle you anyways
@ericpowell4350
@ericpowell4350 2 жыл бұрын
Blk vvomen have adopted whyt feminism for so long, they don't even know why or where they got this toxic ideology from.
@straightfrommissouri
@straightfrommissouri 2 жыл бұрын
More like didn't want to be around a fucking headache 💀💀
@stickman1373
@stickman1373 2 жыл бұрын
BC they BI POLAR!!!!!!
@EZ-IZZY1995
@EZ-IZZY1995 2 жыл бұрын
It's insecurities disguised as arrogance. They think they're proving something, but really it makes you look at them with a side eye. That's not normal. in 15 years they aren't going to be saying the same thing.
@jeromed.2505
@jeromed.2505 2 жыл бұрын
When the guy stated that he wanted "full control", I believe he meant full control of the relationship, not the woman. Of course, nobody's should be out to control another person, but the man should lead the relationship since he decides whether there should be one or not.
@ekkotey
@ekkotey 2 жыл бұрын
Men aren’t simple. We prefer to keep things simple. Never heard of a man who wanted a complicated life 🤔
@nathand4500
@nathand4500 2 жыл бұрын
we have less needs and create more. women have more needs and create less.
@charlesosimeon6375
@charlesosimeon6375 2 жыл бұрын
Bro you got my attention at “women hating men for being simple” I was okay okay, were on to something!
@Lostintranslationpodcast
@Lostintranslationpodcast 2 жыл бұрын
I love how they ask men what they want, then talk over them while they're telling them. 😏
@Slothacious
@Slothacious 2 жыл бұрын
"They're naming surface/superficial things" Yeah. We're being clear. Relativising and abstracting everything is the kind of convoluted and unnecessary attitude opposite to the "Peace" men seek in a woman.
@briangrossett3381
@briangrossett3381 2 жыл бұрын
That shows you that they don't listen to hear and understand, they listen to respond. The man stated intangible qualities that he wants in a woman, and the response is that those are superficial. Smh. The delusion. F
@kemetazubuike8958
@kemetazubuike8958 2 жыл бұрын
It’s fruitless to negotiate with modern bw. You will get nowhere fast. They won’t change until they are forced to. It’s a lost cause gents.
@the8thchurch461
@the8thchurch461 2 жыл бұрын
How are you going to force them?
@kemetazubuike8958
@kemetazubuike8958 2 жыл бұрын
@@the8thchurch461 societal and economic conditions would make them change. That’s it.
@the8thchurch461
@the8thchurch461 2 жыл бұрын
@@kemetazubuike8958 Maybe some people would rather die than be forced to live like they are in the 40s. We are never going back to male utopia. This is straight up evolution and you all need to swallow it up. It may even be that the human race is going extinct and that won't be a bad thing. I personally will be celebrating should that happen. The patriarchy is certainly the height of brutality and extremely bad so this is a welcome development.
@REDPILLDLUFFY
@REDPILLDLUFFY 2 жыл бұрын
Woman's minds clock out like you said when they hear "submit". Auto trigger of some sorts. Very interesting.
@gregoryhyman4621
@gregoryhyman4621 2 жыл бұрын
Full Control and Absolute Control are completely different things
@dorothyc6037
@dorothyc6037 2 жыл бұрын
Submission= Respectful cooperation
@genebaa1649
@genebaa1649 2 жыл бұрын
EVERY MAN MUST RULE HIS OWN HOUSE.
@soursop1972
@soursop1972 2 жыл бұрын
With inflation at damn near 10%, gas prices through the roof and expensive housing...a woman would be foolish to say that she does not need a man.
@nicknitro86
@nicknitro86 2 жыл бұрын
If they don't take care of themselves first, they won't take care of the relationship. That's how I see a relationship/partnership.
@chrisjohnson926
@chrisjohnson926 2 жыл бұрын
I just got to the “full control” part. Here’s what I understand, men don’t have opinions about everything. My mom made most of the decisions in our house but mommy mom will tell you my dad has the final say. There were very few things he put his foot down about. He made sure they had an overall philosophy about money. So the man being the Final say often works because men don’t get in the way of most of the things women want to do. The wrong man will use that to minimize a woman but not a man of integrity.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
That was so beautifully written brother. You're 1000% right. For example, when we have no opinion (often about the home) women get free reign. When the woman has a stronger opinion than us, you often defer to that opinion. The final say is the FINAL say to avoid catastrophe, by using superior non-emotional judgement. This is missing in modern society because we have downplayed men for decades. So everyone is running around aimlessly making stupid decisions and young men are not taught to lead because it's problematic. Now women are frustrated after getting exactly what they asked for, weak feminine men.
@Samflow80
@Samflow80 2 жыл бұрын
This is my parents relationship. My dad is laid back in the recliner and my mother makes almost all the decisions for the family. My father hardly ever overode anything. My dad also told me that he was a lucky man. He trusted my mom because she always makes great decisions. He could sit back, relax and just go with the flow. He's living his best life letting her run the show. He said he's happy he doesnt have to think all the time. One day my mother forced my kids and i to go home one evening because my dad was on the way back in town and she had to make sure his house was clean. My mom respects my dad and my dad rewarded her with the keys to navigate the direction of all our lives growing up including his.
@mikesuave11
@mikesuave11 2 жыл бұрын
Women don’t wanna be submissive in their relationships… but never prove that there is a better option out there. They get into fucked up situations constantly and then wonder why they’re alone later in life. Makes no sense.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
They refuse to submit but make AWFUL decisions and refuse to listen to their man in these shitty 50/50 relationships. Soooo many bad decisions in the past in relationships where the woman refused to listen and made emotion-driven poor choices.
@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY
@EMPEROR_KING_SIDDY 2 жыл бұрын
IT'S NOT QUESTIONS ABOUT WHO OFFERING THE MOST..... IT'S ABOUT BEING CONSISTENT WITH WHAT YOU WANT & YOUR ROLE IN A FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP.....
@ThisIsMajor1659
@ThisIsMajor1659 2 жыл бұрын
Servant leader- I am in control and will take acountability for the outcome. Because I am control it is my responsibility to make sure every member of my team is straight. My leadership serves their best interest.
@mizzmolly7649
@mizzmolly7649 2 жыл бұрын
How do you even expect a woman to be submissive when you can't even make the right life decisions?
@Antoniodagreat
@Antoniodagreat 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t be with that man then hoping he will change
@tysonwright2362
@tysonwright2362 2 жыл бұрын
The reason that they don’t like that we’re so simple, is because it is therefore easy to be what we want if they choose to be
@Stanley_Fields
@Stanley_Fields 2 жыл бұрын
You can not be a leader without exercising some level of control because if you have no control it’s impossible to effectively lead!
@eric_a_
@eric_a_ 2 жыл бұрын
How would you know someone's inner beauty when you just meet someone and don't know what their inner beauty is
@fareedakhtar3059
@fareedakhtar3059 2 жыл бұрын
A man should and must have a full control of their family and the woman be right there to support his decision. Control does not mean abuse. My wife and I are from different backgrounds and with do things hand in hand with clarity, love, and respect. Our marriage is beautiful Maashaa Allah Tabarak Allah ❤️
@KR-jg7gc
@KR-jg7gc 2 жыл бұрын
Nailed it. They cannot and don't want to accept the fact that we are different.
@andrewbaker5824
@andrewbaker5824 2 жыл бұрын
When a woman says she doesn't need a man, I let her be single or without a man and move on to the feminine woman who tells a man that she needs him by her being submissive to him.
@airthrowDBT
@airthrowDBT 2 жыл бұрын
This is facts. Men do not EVER stick around for a woman who tells you "I don't need a man I want a man". She's undercutting your contributions psychologically and beta-tizing you to always be the pleaser in the relationship to keep chasing after her fickle happiness so she "wants" you every.single.day.
@alyssalynn1835
@alyssalynn1835 2 жыл бұрын
We need men , my man appreciates me because I’m peace to him and I show how I can make his life calmer and easier every day and I will be his wife one day , why don’t women think like this ??
@Allyourneedsmet
@Allyourneedsmet 2 жыл бұрын
Hope one day comes.
@westleyramirez3036
@westleyramirez3036 2 жыл бұрын
They were programmed by Society to think ill against Men, just because they are Men. To them, Men aren't worth a spit on a ground, and thats how they'll treat us, and yet we don't ever tell them that we don't need Women. I know we needed Women, but they don't do that for us, its hatred towards Men that is trending.
@r2d187
@r2d187 2 жыл бұрын
How did your man find you? You need to be photo-copied.
@alyssalynn1835
@alyssalynn1835 2 жыл бұрын
@@r2d187 we met at the gym , he came up to me and we had light conversation in the gym over time , and when we finally decided to do something together , we had a workout at the gym , went for burgers , and hit a thrift store after.. I barely knew him and I told my best friend if I ever get the chance to have him , I’ll do and and everything to keep him.. we’re both aware of the value we bring but are also humbled .. I try to preach to women all day to follow some of these channels , especially with your partner .. the best thing I’ve done is watch this content to understand what black men and men as a whole go through for no reason
@cryofist
@cryofist 2 жыл бұрын
because they arent ready to accept reality. they have years and years of boss babe ish and you can do whatever you want attitude that has to get eroded away by guys that will use it to their advantage to play them. some (like you) will figure out that if you are loyal and mans peace he will do whatever you ask(within reason) cause he understands inherently that youre worth it.
@FaithMuzic
@FaithMuzic 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 80’s baby. We didn’t have these issues back then, it’s this generation of women that men have to deal with who have been raised majority of by Social Media. Good brother’s in this generation, the ones who are raised with good value’s are not checking for Pretty Women with Ghetto Mentality’s
@ayeflippum
@ayeflippum 2 жыл бұрын
*FM Stokes* Feminism in the US is more than 100 years old. You obviously don't know history.
@FaithMuzic
@FaithMuzic 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeflippum my comments was based on (MY) environment, my lens …not yours. You don’t know my history
@ayeflippum
@ayeflippum 2 жыл бұрын
@@FaithMuzic Your comment is based on your own ignorance of events.
@FaithMuzic
@FaithMuzic 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeflippum whatever dude L-12
@ayeflippum
@ayeflippum 2 жыл бұрын
@@FaithMuzic No, it's not whatever. It's the facts.
@stefanwolf4978
@stefanwolf4978 2 жыл бұрын
Understanding difficult women is like playing Elden ring in hard mode
@DustyDustington89
@DustyDustington89 2 жыл бұрын
Lol they all Malenia haha
@kareemabdulwahhab6919
@kareemabdulwahhab6919 2 жыл бұрын
While blind
@treacherousjslither6920
@treacherousjslither6920 2 жыл бұрын
Ah a man of culture I see
@stefanwolf4978
@stefanwolf4978 2 жыл бұрын
@@kareemabdulwahhab6919 imagine fighting malekith without any armor as a level 1 tarnish
@sznd
@sznd 2 жыл бұрын
Feminine, Fit, Friendly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@Shoptalkwithjaynyce
@Shoptalkwithjaynyce 2 жыл бұрын
Having control & being controlling r two different things
@happybakergirl1292
@happybakergirl1292 2 жыл бұрын
I'm only two mins into this video, so pls forgive if I have to add more comments later. No, full control and authority don't get excersized all the time. It's a tool you use when it's NECESSARY. It's like a gun owner. S/he doesn't shoot it off all the time, but uses it for safety and protection. Control and authority are the same things. If you don't trust a man to control and be an appropriate authority, DON't be in a relationship with him.
@squarefellow1
@squarefellow1 2 жыл бұрын
I so glad I’ve been married for over 30 years. My head hurting from these conversations. It almost like a war. Or tug of war back and forth.I use to give advice on successful marriage, I don’t think the same things about apply today. I wish you all good luck.
@inquizative44
@inquizative44 2 жыл бұрын
Arguing with simps is fruitless.
@SINQUEFIELD83
@SINQUEFIELD83 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad that these women never had a man in the house that they trusted and loved enough to submit to. I personally had a great father and we all had to submit and Trust his guidance
@areyourhandsbroke
@areyourhandsbroke Жыл бұрын
The dilema
@HartofSports
@HartofSports 2 жыл бұрын
Bro this was one of your best vids to date. You was keepin it a stack but they just don’t get how simple we are. All the intellectual soulmate stuff is fairytale tingz. Looks first, cheeks 2nd, personality 3rd, intangibles 4th and figure everything else out later. Keep going crazy the rest of 22’ my guy
@eatshityoutube3271
@eatshityoutube3271 2 жыл бұрын
Women criticize men for being simple not realizing its an insult to women that their modus operandi is being complicated
@areyourhandsbroke
@areyourhandsbroke Жыл бұрын
Shallowness first lust second and ludicrousty 3rd, your doing well my guy.
@HartofSports
@HartofSports Жыл бұрын
@@areyourhandsbroke I appreciate it
@macgill6098
@macgill6098 2 жыл бұрын
Not simple. Just practical and more straightforward
@raesully2615
@raesully2615 2 жыл бұрын
A person doesn't NEED relationship or marriage to function in society. Honestly, you need money more than anything.
@blackiam6527
@blackiam6527 2 жыл бұрын
Ther fact that these fools have to debate this is sad
@darnellhines2299
@darnellhines2299 2 жыл бұрын
I've never asked women to submit I just impose my will on them. I lead and they follow if they can't keep up then on to the next ONE.
@dancgreen2
@dancgreen2 2 жыл бұрын
the truth is they KNOW they just dont want to do ANYTHING...
@zelebigztv8347
@zelebigztv8347 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said brother! Women hate the fact that men preferences are much simpler than women.
@alevtinaberezhnaya1785
@alevtinaberezhnaya1785 2 жыл бұрын
They don't like the requirements because, they cannot meet them.
@ashishranjan887
@ashishranjan887 2 жыл бұрын
Men should hold the right to take major decisions in any household....it has nothing to do with patriarchy or men controlling women. Men should be the decision maker because we are not as emotional as women and can take tough decisions without entangling ourselves into emotions and feelings. Any decision maker should not be emotional....
@straightfrommissouri
@straightfrommissouri 2 жыл бұрын
*W*
@duanewoodson9804
@duanewoodson9804 2 жыл бұрын
GOD and Man and wife
@user-ld8wn4kz9y
@user-ld8wn4kz9y 2 жыл бұрын
Men need to also keep themselves fit!!
@CARPETMAN6666
@CARPETMAN6666 2 жыл бұрын
Women only offer men one thing. Men do everything else in the world. Granted there are some women that copy men doing things. But honestly they can't do it as well as fast or as long. So hats off to the men that do everything.
@markstevens1588
@markstevens1588 2 жыл бұрын
They aren't in control of thier thoughts and impulse. How can the be trusted to control a relationship.
@TheJrl420
@TheJrl420 Жыл бұрын
A partner to do life with? Sounds like a jail sentence
@Ms_Killy_Killjoy
@Ms_Killy_Killjoy 2 жыл бұрын
Maintain full control but delegate responsibility appropriately…necessary skill set for a successful leader
@half.breed83
@half.breed83 11 ай бұрын
Traditional wife here just got done in gym with hubby im 40 look better then majority of 20yr olds maintain ur body and beauty 13yrs strong with my luv ❤️
@xIStandwithJesusx
@xIStandwithJesusx 2 жыл бұрын
Hit the nail on the head with this topic. Great video.
@k.u.s.h6550
@k.u.s.h6550 2 жыл бұрын
We should deep dive into the Concept/definition of "cheating"
@seansworldkc
@seansworldkc 2 жыл бұрын
Submission just simply means to be humbly obedient. Nothing more nothing less.
@bluthunder05
@bluthunder05 2 жыл бұрын
There will always be a disconnect in wht we get and what we ask for. It's our faults on both sides. 90% of the times we hear the stereo typical language from both sides and then tune out or get defensive.
@paulbunyan9436
@paulbunyan9436 2 жыл бұрын
Do they even realize that these are baseline requirements that other groups of women and women in other countries are lining up to give black men? My nephews don't even date black girls. They are being replaced.
@alyxander33
@alyxander33 2 жыл бұрын
What some women seem to have a hard time processing is that when men say that they want a feminine and submissive woman, we're saying that we want a woman that already has those traits in them. So, if you don't have those traits then yes, certain women will revolt when they hear those words. Some women seem to only submit unconditionally to their boss at work and not to their boyfriends or their husbands.
@pbraga7832
@pbraga7832 2 жыл бұрын
Compromise, obedience, loyalty and submissive. My grandfather and dad said loyalty they'll lie about and the other three words if it triggers them in any way run.
@highthoughts1
@highthoughts1 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom is simplicity and men are practical.
@goldnstacks6036
@goldnstacks6036 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody ain't going through the same shit.
@carlcarl2879
@carlcarl2879 2 жыл бұрын
I clearly understand what he's saying God has full control & he's all powerful but he's not a dictator he gives us free will to choose
@crosstudio
@crosstudio 2 жыл бұрын
a business owner of a privately held company has FULL CONTROL. vice presidents, program managers, and project managers, technical managers, developer leads and scrum masters have responsibilities under that umbrella. but the owner has full control. that's what i require as a man.
@randyfalconer6301
@randyfalconer6301 2 жыл бұрын
There's a African proverbs that says " A Tyrant is nothing more than a slave turned inside out!". How we govern our lives is a reflection of our true sleves.
@WWIIKittyhawk
@WWIIKittyhawk 2 жыл бұрын
Woman want men to love them for them.. woman doesn’t want a man for who he is, what does he bring?
@brotherkamaal6644
@brotherkamaal6644 2 жыл бұрын
I've been with my wife 7 years! I married her because she's fit, feminine, Friendly and cooperative long before I knew about the manosphere. She has a job, I have a job, and we run a small business together where we both teach dance, boxing and martial arts. Long story short find someone to do life with and has a similar idea of how you view it. Together we change the energy of every room we walk in to. Life isn't perfect but it's damn sure good. 💁‍♂️🤷‍♂️
@PD-qu8dq
@PD-qu8dq 2 жыл бұрын
The Benevolent Dictatorship is the perfect example. I want her as autonomous as possible so that she can fulfill the requirements I have of her. Her fulfilling my requirements further motivates me and reinforces the direction I have and the sacrifices I make for us.
@ACertainGuy0
@ACertainGuy0 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah but sadly they see the word "dictator" and SPEED past "benevolent" so youre a "bad person" for talking/thinking like that lol.
@PD-qu8dq
@PD-qu8dq 2 жыл бұрын
@@ACertainGuy0 facts!!
@pisquared1827
@pisquared1827 2 жыл бұрын
I think she's right though. The problem is that men need her even less.
@toywashington3934
@toywashington3934 2 жыл бұрын
i'm so tired of women arguing with men about what we want. Personally I've given up all hope that western women will come to their senses anytime soon. I've started looking for women outside of the country and I think other men should to. Its economics, this country is not producing women that we want where as other countries are. 1st world women are delusional whereas women from other countries still maintain traditional values. These are the type of women who will be appreciative of the average man and will raise their daughters to be traditional women. Only when American women see that they are replaceable, only then will they start making some serious changes and honestly I think this is the only solution to the modern dating nightmare. Date Foreign women and let these modern independent women stay single and die alone
@reggiebrown6493
@reggiebrown6493 2 жыл бұрын
SIMPLE and it’s sooo easy. Except for them to realize it
@pbpinc.6454
@pbpinc.6454 2 жыл бұрын
To the woman who said “do they create the space for those types of women to be in…” The renown quote for a man choosing a wife is; “when a man FINDETH a wife he FINDETH a good thing! The feminine qualities of a woman should not be turned on and off like a light switch! But just know that for those who do that, you do more harm to yourself than service. Because the man and or husband that you say you want, “can’t FIND you in the dark!”
@glogictechsummers3045
@glogictechsummers3045 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I work law enforcement Portsmouth not a police officer private security and I've just now got to drink in my coffee it was great
@JasonHartfield
@JasonHartfield Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why a woman don't need a man that's crazy
@hotrodgo4it55
@hotrodgo4it55 2 жыл бұрын
We don't need.. we want one tho,..we all don't need nobody but it's nice to have someone..but values are gone..
@justincox8658
@justincox8658 2 жыл бұрын
the dude with the gold chain, super beta, super emotional, super reactive. No self awareness, no attempt to understand.
@TheHales
@TheHales 2 жыл бұрын
Your channel has grown bro I remember when you were under 10K keep up the great work man.
@Asheroyal12
@Asheroyal12 2 жыл бұрын
No woman will ever be submissive to no Man if that Man is not submissive to God.
@Wondwind
@Wondwind 2 жыл бұрын
These people take life way too seriously.
@rosspeee
@rosspeee Жыл бұрын
Shout out Greenville South Carolina!
@MrEliasdl
@MrEliasdl 2 жыл бұрын
Wifes Submit to your Husband is Biblical. Any women claiming to be Christian but averse to submission to their husband is not in line with the Bible.
@blue-phoenix115
@blue-phoenix115 2 жыл бұрын
Men saying, "I don't need no woman" All the time!
@treyparker3775
@treyparker3775 2 жыл бұрын
I tell young men to watch out for these women that talk with reckless abandon
@wakeup3820
@wakeup3820 2 жыл бұрын
Soul ties are real! My wife of 25 years and 3 kids divorced me and hooked back up with her ex she used to date 27 years ago. Of course, they're having issues and she tried to come back but I can't go back. I still love her but she really doesn't understand marriage. Of course I could've just told her anything just to smash her again, but I follow Jesus so celibacy is for me until God sends me a wife. God bless everyone and remember God is going to judge the world🙏🏾✌🏾
@Dan_toofly
@Dan_toofly 2 жыл бұрын
If I want intellectual stimulation I’ll read a book, These females expect you to be a certain way but aren’t that way themselves half the time.
@areyourhandsbroke
@areyourhandsbroke Жыл бұрын
But let men tell it we are Not the same
@Dan_toofly
@Dan_toofly Жыл бұрын
@@areyourhandsbroke how could we be?
@mrjjthor
@mrjjthor 2 жыл бұрын
Most women will complain and say they'll not submit but eventually they all submit when the right man comes along and sets them straight. If she isn't submitting then it means she's not in your frame or your frame is weak.
@1cambiamos
@1cambiamos 8 ай бұрын
As a black man, what do I want from a black woman? Absolutely nothing.
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