CHIT CHAT GRWM | DATING, SUGAR DADDIES, RELATIONSHIP ADVICE + PRINCESS POLLY TRY ON HAUL

[@annabellehayes]

Lemme also make clear ladies. MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY SO A MAN ONLY HAS LOYALTY TO OFFER YOU. Lowkey men cheat ooooo!! I just mean my preference are men who just arent on social media or care about it. I dont care about fame or money. Some men can have money & not fame but regardless how they treat you is what it all comes down to. I'm not about to be taking care of a man either

[@CarasPlace]

This ! ! ! I personally don’t agree with artist/rappers, athletes, famous, etc. I don’t like the lifestyle. I love a low key guy. *chefs kiss* 😆💋

[@GeorgetteSmith]

This!!!❤️❤️

[@dancerdancer313]

I fully agree with you about having your own money. It's important to be able to take care of yourself as a woman - but also not be taking care of your boyfriend like he's your son that you never gave birth to lol 🤣 When you can take care of yourself there's freedom and power in that. When a man "takes care of you" you're basically his slave and you have to put up with any and everything because you gave your power away. Yeah, make your own money ladies.

[@alison2161]

Smart woman

[@JacquelineHarrellTV]

What size do you typically wear with this company??

[@soldierofchrist4462]

yes ma'am! I was with my ex for 6 years I did the back and forth then I decided one day to stop seeing him, work on myself, It took 2 years to heal from that experience. I moved to a different city and 1 month later I met my husband at a fitness park. While I was dating my boyfriend (now husband) my ex had the nerve to contact me and ask me to dinner. No sir! I moved on and am happy. I'm married with 2 kids with a third on the way. I found Jesus and my husband and I put God first before everything. This relationship was truly heaven sent. Don't be afraid to move on ladies especially when you know it's time.

[@luisanaso]

That’s exactly what I am doing now ❤️💕

[@Beautifullysaid]

Wow i love that so much 2023

[@Beautifullysaid]

Goals

[@finesserxo4299]

Wow that’s amazing ! So happy for you… I’m definitely gonna experience this soon 🙏🏾

[@Shonparke]

"Don't let your boyfriend stop you from meeting your husband" lol, can relate. I went to the gym with my ex, we were in that hazy post breakup stage. My husband approached me to help me bench and we ended up working out together. Been together since 6 years. We we're together and I wasn't gonna miss an opportunity lol..

[@Memomommy]

Wow, idc this is bad advice, very childish. If your doing this the man your with, is not even the one you really want.

[@Shonparke]

We had already broken up and we're basically just riding to the gym together. My husband wouldn't say it was bad considering we've been together since that day. Marriage trumps boyfriend any day.

[@annabellehayes]

@@Memomommy its a joke miss sensitive nelly lmfao the actual point you clealry missed is if you have a boyfriend who is cheating on you and treating you like shit stop wasting your time and hurting yourself when you could be with someone who wouldnt even do that or possibly be your husband

[@thewindsinger7687]

So cute omg 🥰😩❤️❤️

[@Thtisha22234]

@@Memomommy you’re single until married. Therefore, loyalty to a boyfriend is nonexistent and such “relationships” should not deter one form meeting her husband

[@jayms1084]

I’ve been married 10 years. Our relationship is soooo private. Keep people out of y’all business

[@iMolikaMenThlang]

💯 I agree I’ve been married 20 years and it’s best to keep ppl out ya business. BOOP 💁🏽‍♀️

[@Memomommy]

The best way to do it.

[@foxhound9285]

The only way

[@ambrosia21]

@@iMolikaMenThlang I know your statement explains itself but could you u give a tip on how to avoid if someone asks about you and your s/o to respectfully decline to speak on it ?

[@OHoneyPot]

I swear by this‼️

[@nolamonahan8764]

Cheating is a sign of insecurities. Glad that you see this . Your completely right it is not part of up and downs in a relationship. That is like saying abuse is apart of up and down. Love yourself respect yourself and others will follow.

[@Bee9ce]

Girrllll ain’t no way you have grown people asking who your man is. What he looks like. People undervalue privacy so much nowadays. I turn 27 next year & with every year I get older, the more I desire a more lowkey private life. People’s decision to keep their relationship private shouldn’t even have to be explained. It’s weird.

[@annabellehayes]

GIIIIRLLL youd be surprised! im like damn ahahhah people are sooooo nosey

[@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew]

Amen I totally agree. I love privacy. It may be that the people that want to know the most have the most questionable motives.

[@indiaspringer9638]

Omg I can totally relate to females like you who are pretty, chill,low-key and who don’t fall into the hype of trying to keep up with the latest trends on social media. You have respect for yourself and refuse to settle for less because you know your worth. That’s a rare characteristic these days. Continue to Keep grinding and being you sis! You’ve gained a new subscriber.

[@uniqua5313]

completely agree!! I’ve been with my man for 5 years and just posted him for Christmas 🤗 privacy is key

[@ninidiaries4801]

I love this vulnerability. It makes you so much more relatable! I felt everything you were saying! Wishing us many blessings going into the new year ❤️

[@annabellehayes]

thank you

[@mariaharmstrong7671]

Another thing about entering a healthy relationship after a toxic one that no one talks about is how you later grown to feel bored / unsatisfied solely because you are used to relationships being confusing / manipulative/ having surprises

[@annabellehayes]

I personally don’t feel bored or unsatisfied. I do feel like I am the toxic or fucked up person in arguments because he handles it so much better than me

[@Memomommy]

@@annabellehayes a man, yes. My girl got a Mature Man, this is so good for you, literally.

[@morountodunokedara]

this !! :( It really sucks!!

[@FashAveGirl]

Yeah this can happen, they say it’s bc the drama was like a dopamine hit (when you make up after the fighting) so we slightly get addicted or used to the toxic behavior. It’s another side effect of being with a toxic person that you don’t realize until later😕

[@Mini-rt8bm]

THIS! thankfully, I’ve moved passed that feeling

[@DutchessSarahJ]

I celebrated my 10 year wedding anniversary with my husband this past October. Keep people out of your business. ONLY discuss things about your relationship with your man. Nobody else. They will take that as an inside invite and you do NOT want that. 💕

[@afiaowusuaa6890]

Let's get her to 1 million guys!! She's almost there!!! Welcome back!!

[@sunvavachi]

omg right?! I've been following her for SO long, pretty much when she started! She def deserves it and she does it in such a graceful/private way too which I love! :D

[@FashAveGirl]

Thank you for your vulnerability, sadly I can relate to everything you said about relationships. I’ve been with an athlete, a rapper, and I’ve taken back a cheater and so on. And yes even a man wit a small IG following can be a dog! Lol at the end of the day cheating is NOT normal, and we shouldn’t be accepting this from anyone. 💜✨✨

[@reyprzz]

when you talk I feel like I’m sitting with my best friend. you’re so genuine 🥺

[@LuvKitKatt]

You pretty 💕

[@reyprzz]

@@LuvKitKatt thank you gorgeous ! 😭💗

[@iMolikaMenThlang]

Show ppl only what you want to show don’t feel under any pressure you need to share anything you don’t want to. I’ve been in a relationship for 20 yrs and counting and I say it’s best to keep that private. Ppl don’t need to know everything honestly. BOOP 💁🏽‍♀️😁

[@susanukochio348]

Lol I just love how your African tongue can't be hidden,it's super funny

[@gnelove3601]

It’s so cute lol

[@LuvKitKatt]

Omg that had Me like 😭😭😮😮

[@WendyCoveredByTheBloodOfJesus]

Yes giving another woman inappropriate attention is cheating to me. I'm glad God showed you the signs. One year is ok. But years, years, and years with a cheating person is not ok.

[@BunnyLover2241]

you can have a guy with money but he’s lowkey! pls don’t lower your standards because you think a guy with lower income won’t cheat bc they still can.

[@annabellehayes]

PERIOD! Like I said how they treat you is more important BUT i aint no mans mama and aint taking care of them. Mama likes to get spoiled lol

[@sunvavachi]

Nice to see you. Your edits were hilarious. Hoping for more wellness into 2022...I feel the same on many topics you touched. :)

[@annabellehayes]

thanks girl trying to bring my funny side more in videos in the new year

[@zalaelle190]

AWWW LOVED THIS!! GREAT ADVICE FROM A YOUNG WOMAN LIKE YOU. More females need to see and take accountability in their actions if a man keeps cheating and you choose to stay, your not showing respect for yourself so why should he respect you. Thanks for this video ❤️

[@_Demii]

That quick inserted paragraphs are so relatable. Thank you for the vulnerability 💕

[@myraxgalore]

This whole video beginning to end was TOO relatable. Thank you for sharing and making me feel like I’m not alone in thinking they way we do✨❤️❤️

[@MyFragranceTrail]

“It’s not my business ooo and Fast Fast” are such Nigerian lingos. Love it! 🤎🤎🤎

[@faith_fashion_Fitness08]

Privacy is keyyyyy!!! God first as well we need to protect what we love. I am very private in that. People are gonna know about my status when I get married 💍😂😂💓🎉🍾🥂

[@MrsThursJay]

3:35 giiirrl we've all been there lol I used to date a somewhat locally famous rapper and he was always talking about how his rapper friends were always seeing some girls on the side bc it's part of the "image" or "lifestyle" and my dumbass thought he wouldn't do that to me because I was ✨different✨ and guess how that turned out!

[@dancerdancer313]

I'm happy for you and I hope the guy you're with values you and treats you well. Your GRWM vid had a lot of gems. I appreciate that you have sense, not just a pretty face/body. You have substance and brains, you're down-to-earth, and have a great personality - that's why I follow you. Too many girls focus only on how they look and have nothing else to offer and when their looks fade, then what? You know? Anyway, keep shining and all the best to you in 2022 ✨😄🙌🏽✨✌🏽

[@TheBebe7124]

“For you to change after I’ve had enough and don’t have enough in in me to try IS NOT FAIR” I need to put this on a T-shirt bc that spoke to meeeee

[@dancerdancer313]

I also wanted to add that it's good that you don't post every person you date on social media. Guys already like to date pretty/hot girls/baddies as trophies to show off and inflate their egos and faux self-confidence - but when you add the fact that you're a popular social media influencer, that's another layer added to your "trophy value" in their eyes and ego. Like, guys already brag to their friends about F**cking a hot girl, but then add the large social media following on top of that and of course that guy wants you to show him off on your social media. So, definitely keep your social media focused on you and your business endeavours/sponsorships - not on the person you're dating until you are certain that their not using you. It's funny how many guys won't post the girl they're dating on their social media because they want to still appear like a single playboy, meanwhile he selfishly has the girl he's dating thinking she's his girlfriend, when he's really just playing her.

[@elna.m.]

Road to 1m soon come! Glad to have you back Annabelle ❤️

[@kyleyannafitzpatrick9274]

Did not expect a life lesson but I NEEDED to hear this, especially as I prepare for 2022 thank you for sharing your wisdom this video just helped me so much! 💕

[@goldanbarbie3064]

Haven’t even finished watching this and I love this video already. Can completely relate to everything you have said and thank you for sharing. Makes me feel so much better knowing I wasn’t the only one that went through the same thing. I am in such a happier mindset and environment 🙏🏽

[@Divinia93]

My boyfriend uses zero social media and it’s so refreshing, he literally found out a few months ago what TikTok is lol, he’s twelve years older so that probably has a lot to do with it

[@brittanycaldwell134]

Love the realness. You told it like it is. It’s the beauty and common sense for me ❤️.

[@KAROLINA-kn8xk]

Wow. I remember watching your yt videos with ex bf and I was like omg relationship goals, I really hope to have something like that one day when the reality is often the complete opposite You are incredibly beautiful and strong Annabelle ❤

[@queenDindahouse]

Annabelle, I couldn't be more proud of you if you were my own daughter.. What a beautiful & amazing young lady you are. Stay The Way You Are! Mwah! By the way! You're right a private life is a happy life.

[@annabellehayes]

awwwww omg thank you so much for your kind words

[@nafeesahtynetta]

I love the videos when you talk more. I like hearing your opinions on different topics.

[@phi-losiphy2038]

Funny enough, this video also made me set standards for friends. I have realised I kept accepting the bare minimum from my friends, letting them treat me like crap and put their other friends above me. So in the end, I decided to set standards for my friends too. Standards are not just for men!

[@vivienchen8345]

LOVE YOUR CONTENT !! You inspire me literally everyday ily

[@tomi_alao]

i love you. i love this. its like it was meant for me, especially the part where you spoke about relationships in detail.

[@JodyJody]

I didn't know she was African or African descent...and I love it!!!

[@TheDilovely]

It's the clown painting his face 🤣🤣 love your videos Annabelle.

[@akalixa]

Girl you and your man are CUTE! This is the first man I started dating who wasn’t black and this is the best I’ve every been treated. Ladies, start dating men who appreciate you and don’t embarrass you (you’ll have more luck with men who aren’t black unfortunately)

[@ahleeeson]

The problem though is that some guys don’t believe in cheating and what I mean by that is they think that having a side chick or multiple chicks is normal. They question if having one girlfriend or one wife really is the norm or that how do I know that that’s not the way that it really should be. I guess it’s cause some countries are more accepting in that. So I think what’s most important is before falling for someone, to make sure they have the same mentality or standards as you when it comes relationships.

[@kandydiaz7658]

Girl I’m dying you are sooo funny!!! But I agree with everything you said❤️😌

[@ijesssparkle]

Speaking nothing but truths in this! You’re soo right! Let that waste man go so you can welcome your king into your life!❤️🙌🏾

[@MindfulMedicine808]

I love these types of videos ! Your personality is top tierrr 😍😍

[@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988]

You are so incredibly gorgeous. You look wonderful in your dress

[@TzarinaChampagneBeauty]

Missed your girl chat / haul videos! Definitely looking forward to more in 2022. 🥰🥰

[@leeg664]

Y'all this girl is fire !!! She is so real

[@Strongqueenlez197]

Yes please do a wig install tutorial 👏 Princess Polly looks like a beautiful clothing site

[@a-mbaechleracapella9737]

Thanks for opening you to us❤️. WE love you happy. If you want to keep things private we are respecting it.

[@katkatungu8813]

Not my fwb texting me when she shouted " let him go let him go"😂😂

[@Emmanuella777]

The “Who tf is knocking on my door” gave me Ghanaian aunty vibezzz, I diiiiiiieeeedddd😭😭😭😭😭

[@KellW2012]

The editing 😂. God bless you & may your heart heal & prepare you to meet ur husband. Amen

[@Rihanna.d]

We missed you 😌MERRY CHRISTMAS🎊🎄

[@arrianne7856]

Okayyyy sis we see you! Im so happy for you! This grwm 🙌🏽 Yes to the wig video! Or at least I want to know where you got it from

[@brandalecarter9354]

All the outfits are showstoppers.✌️

[@GalineT7]

Your accent is the cutest lol it’s not my business oooh🥺😍

[@areyn1298]

You're preaching. I really appreciate this video.

[@RoseSimeus]

Don’t worry about it sweetheart 😂😂! Known but private is the best route. Especially if you a social media personnel because people feel entitled to your relationship and business

[@chef-bama283]

I will say that it's very important to care about your happiness and how someone treats you rather settling and being content. Put happiness first.

[@brotherneal1]

My favorite color is blue too! Nice modeling. Keep up the good work!

[@bigbrowneyes2189]

you are right !❤ Everything you lose will be back in a better version🎉

[@ToriOfTheNile]

OKAY PURRRRRRRRRRRRR, come through with the Chad 😍

[@annabellehayes]

Not the Chad 😂😂😂😂😂🤍🤍

[@SipofClass]

Love the vibration... So real woman!

[@Arisingempress]

I love your content I could watch your videos for hrs

[@tessascarlett5367]

i’m so happy for you. love these videos!

[@sululuxelife]

This video made my day what a vibe happy New Years 💗💗

[@yasheca]

Hey thanks for keeping us motivated

[@Jennifer__barera]

YASSS !! I’ve been waiting for this 😘

[@Pixiepurpleunicorn]

I've missed you ❤️ I hope you're doing alright ✨

[@xauceamani]

12:58 The way I squealed in excitement.😂 Hes cute, a handsome man! So does he, by any chance....have a younger brother around the age of 18-19? A friend of mine would like to know. 👀😉 And it's the classy matching in white outfit for me. You both look like such a lovely pair! I think the body you're describing is what I like to call a Teddy Bear Man. Where's it musclular but a cushion of fat over so it's like they're still soft yet also firm.

[@miunicorn1324]

“And I mind my business…” that part

[@faith_fashion_Fitness08]

BTW GOD BLESS YOU ALL HAPPY NEW YEARS !! May WE all get closer to GOD , our family, our purpose , our GOALS !! 💓🙌

[@erikaowusu2837]

It’s the intermittent Ghanaian jargons for meee❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@UNRULYMARSHA]

We shouldn't trust anyone 100% we have to leave that 5% that shit will happened.

[@RGLover641]

Yayyy! Love it!! Would love a video on how you lay your wig 😃

[@bpjog25]

This entire video is confirmation! Thank you!!

[@brittanycurrency2941]

Do u put your own individual lashes on ??

[@ANWEclecticTaste]

You accent is adorable. Where are you from?

[@Letishalovee]

Shes mixed with ghanaian and the philippines

[@SaryMag]

Men NOT on social media are top tier🙏🏼😩😍😍

[@sammg3377]

Yyyaaaaayy I love watching these. Makes me aspire to live more intentional with my depressed self

[@laceymjae]

Yaaaayy!! I missed your talking videos!! 💕

[@merryharris1098]

That was definitely cool. Please do another GRWM.

[@WendyCoveredByTheBloodOfJesus]

Let him go sis!!! Period!!!

[@mariebastien1423]

Thank you!! You speak truth! Times we have to get thru some pain to grow and mature.

[@chloejoseph1923]

More consistent love the vids 😍

[@lauraashleynl]

Oh my god, yes please do a wig install! I just bought a unit but I'm so intimidated and haven't figured out how to wear it yet lol

[@mmmmkay4773]

Omgeee he is gorgeous!! He reminds me of my late hubby. Get it boo!

[@juannette990]

He’s gorgeousssssss! Get it girl

[@officialsimran8688]

love you! been waiting for a video

[@nistoeuphoria4679]

She said "is not my business oooo" Thousands times and is cute and hilarious!

[@sunvavachi]

I had to watch the dresses only now. OMG I love that brown dress. I'ma have to look into their site.

[@Karamelkiss100]

Yes please!!! Teach me how to lay the wig!!!

[@dantavares4477]

love you girl. a video about your skincare and hair care routine would be much appreciated lol :)

[@Nicole-hi2me]

Very wise young lady.

[@lara-yv6bx]

I watch your exercises every day.

[@TheRockandRollChic]

Annabelle I just wanna know what brand of Humanofort you recommend to buy from 🥺 (I finally bought your gym booty and 8 week shred and I’m starting them this week!!!)

[@GalineT7]

Yay she’s back🥳🥳🥳❤️Welcome😘

[@simpliiseun3504]

What camera does she use??