Choosing a Sperm Donor|My IVF Journey|Single Mother by Choice

Howdy friends! I am 21 weeks pregnant using donor sperm. I am discussing here the process (requirements, cost, strategy), sperm banks used and the characteristics I looked for in finding the perfect donor for me.
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[@jimmiepasson2002]

Ahhh I’ve always wanted to do this but people are so quick to say, wait for a man, wait for this, you need a man. No you don’t, love this ❤️. I like that you’re giving us information and insight.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Honestly friend when do people not judge or have something to say? It's unfortunate but reality that folks are miserable within themselves and their own lives that they are quick to pass judgement on the next. You have to want to do it for YOU despite what others may say or think. Life doesnt always go as planned no matter what it entails and you must pivot and adapt as needed. Do tons of research, read SMBC books/blogs, connect with many of us in the community to get a sense of the pros/cons. Trust you'll know what God has planned for you and if its this route you will be covered throughout

[@FreyaEinde]

I feel like being in no rush to make everything happen makes you better at choosing partners because you're not trying to make them good for everything. If that makes any sense.

[@serenasimms1400]

They always say wait for a man I’m not shaping my life around a man I get one life I’m not wasting it on the worst of the human race 😭💀

[@BigShowDoG]

Wow

[@anjelicameshae]

@@serenasimms1400 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@MzAngelEyes]

Sadly, as a whole (always exceptions) it feels like men and women simply do not want the same things anymore. I know so many good hearted women that are stable and ready but cannot move forward with their desire to have a family because they simply cannot find a partner. Your channel has encouraged me so much and has definitely offered an alternative to still be able to have a family ❤️

[@Po0pypoopy]

women are so picky....they usually want a man to be 6 + feet tall, big "package", rich, etc. go figure....

[@TobeWill]

Societal conditioning unfortunately all the feministic agenda

[@shalonw.472]

I am 42 and I tried waiting on the husband and look where that got me....childless. My partner of almost 3 years was going to do IVF with me, but he's chickened out twice now. He did all the testing, but freaks out because he feels that IVF isn't "natural"; even though I have a low AMH and he has male infertility. Anyway, I am wavering but suppose to start the IVF process this week...taking the meds. I can't sit here and watch my dreams end. You are so brave to be your 20's and I look forward to watching more of your videos.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Appreciate you so much friend! Praying for you and sending you all the love! Please know I am a resource and YOU GOT THIS! 🙌🏽

[@shalonw.472]

@@AliciaLatrice thank you so much.

[@auwalkhalid6539]

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎶➖➖

[@socialitarobotica]

@@auwalkhalid6539 how much do they charge?

[@francoiskuate6215]

I can't stress this enough....DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUUUUU sis cause at the end of the days these are your dreams maybe not his!! Kids are the most beautiful blessing! Follow your dreams!!💕💕💕💕💕 Good Luck

[@jibakhassaw9702]

I'm in my twenties and I'm planning to become single mom by choice. I feel you girl.

[@AliciaLatrice]

You got this friend 🤍

[@auwalkhalid6539]

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

[@theartofmgtow4204]

Move to a 3rd world countries n see how easy single moms got it vs a humbled woman who would rather keep her man n be a whole family lol

[@l.n.9462]

Just interested what r ur reasons for choosing to be a single mother? How many kids do you want? Best of luck on this journey:)

[@Evettecord]

@@theartofmgtow4204 aren’t men everywhere hating women & marriage? Aren’t they saying that a woman is old after 25? I’m glad that more of us are moving on. Why stay in an abusive dynamic?

[@jessicapulley3020]

I'm 35 (almost 36) and have been dating for nearly 20 years with no luck. I've had to get on antidepressants because of my desire for a child. I always said that if I didn't have a child/partner by 37, I would begin looking into a sperm donor. People always talk about infertility (which I sympathize with greatly), but no one seems to talk about the simple fact of how hard it is to find a partner. I commend you for doing it at such a young age! Thank you for this video and information.

[@SusanMeagher-l7y]

If u did get a guy does he want to be married or want children. In hindsight I wish I had of done everything as a forever single woman n never got married, it was a nightmare being married....he was a horror...

[@angelbabe133]

I heavily advocate for people to only have kids when they want them and can adequately provide so I absolutely love this !!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thanks for watching friend!

[@dmiramontes22]

Your child is so blessed to have you as a mom❤

[@AliciaLatrice]

You’re too kind, thank you friend 🤍

[@sofiafelix-beltran4579]

Honestly, it’s good to know that I’m not the only one that has decided to take this route. You making this decision doesn’t make you a failure at all. Take me for example, I have my life together and attractive but…I don’t see myself doing the whole being married thing because that’s not what I want for myself. I also don’t want to live in constant fear of separating and possibly fighting for custodial rights. I don’t want to deal with any of that negativity.

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem

[@AliciaLatrice]

You're not alone and I agree, we must take the path that is best for us. You got this friend 💕

[@SCL4L]

I’ve been nervous because of my age, how people might judge me but honestly seeing this, You gave me so much motivation to just do it. I’ve been feeling the exact same way for a very long time..very depressed and feeling like a failure😕 I really relate to your story and I respect you so much for putting this out there. I’m 23 & I’m planning to go through this process in a couple years from now. Thank you so much for all of your advice! I was able to follow this thoroughly & take notes✨😇 god bless you and your beautiful family!!💜

[@AliciaLatrice]

Friend you must do what makes YOU happy. Trust regardless there will be folks wanting to express their 2 cents and you dont have to subject yourself to listen or take heed to it. I get attacked daily on here and my social media platforms regarding how terrible I am for making this decision. They dont know my story and that's okay because I dont owe them any explanations nor do I care about how they feel about MY decision. You got this and know you're not alone in this. I am always a message away

[@audreysophie1323]

I've just chosen my donor and I can relate to everything you've said! Jeez it was like listening to myself. I've been hurt so many times before. Being a SMC via a donor is the best decision I have made. Thank you so very much for your video.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thanks for sharing friend!! You're not alone and I am so proud of you for doing what's best for YOU! You got this and please know I am cheering you on and always a message away! 🤍

[@Tiffanybacquel]

New subscriber here. I am older, my AMH levels are the only hormones that are low. It is literally a race at this point. I have full support from my family as well. This is so encouraging. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Welcome Tiffany and so very lucky to have you join the family! It's truly incredible to know you have a solid support system because its beyond needed throughout the challenges/journey. You got this queen! Trust, claim, that its already done and will work out as its suppose to for you

[@shannonsellers4888]

There are some vitamins to help with those levels

[@Tiffanybacquel]

@@shannonsellers4888 yes! I have my next appointment with my Dr. next month. 💜

[@shalonw.472]

@ Shannon Sellers Do you decide to move forward with it? I am glad that you have your family's support.

[@Tiffanybacquel]

@@shalonw.472 yes, I am in full swing. The first thing they had to do was balance my hormones. I’m very hopeful. ♥️

[@shanitasjourney7644]

I was married by the age of 25 and separated by the age of 29. Now that I am 30, I want children but I don't want to rush into another relationship just yet, so I am taking the sperm donor route. Not to mention I have endometriosis so the sooner, the better for me

[@Kiki-AndBeyond]

Go for it. I'm 37 and I wish that I started this process sooner.

[@gailainsley6939]

Right. I’m not sure why people think marrying before 25 is the thing to do. Studies show that those who marry by 25 are back on the market by 30. Also, the women are most likely to not marry well so they end up as single mothers anyway. According to studies Longer lasting marriages happen after 28 and it’s also the average marrying age for women in the west 28-35+. Yes, marriage can come later but as a woman, it’s better to be safe. Many are looking at other options to have a baby just incase.

[@channelk2133]

Just came across this video!! I’m 20 and started thinking about it because i feel like me being a single mom is better for me and you made me make my mind up to go through with it when I turn 25 I love this video. 💜💜

[@theartofmgtow4204]

Welfare is what u want n force to bio to pay child support lol

[@AliciaLatrice]

How about you educate yourself more because making this decision makes you ineligible for child support. With your oh so smart ass!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend! You have time to weigh out your options on what's best for you! Just know you have an entire community behind supporting you!

[@jaydencarter1666]

same here girl!

[@paytonmedlock6918]

i’ve made the decision after two years of thinking it over a few months ago, my journey officially begins in june!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Omgg how exciting!! So so happy for you friend! Please know you are not alone and if I can be a resource of info or support know that I am more than happy to be! 🤍

[@altheah.1251]

To all the women: Please don't wait I'm 41 with no kids because I was waiting for the dude to get it right. He still hasn't done right by me after 16 yrs sooo yea DON'T WAIT.

[@AliciaLatrice]

So sorry to hear that friend! Sending all the love your way 🤍

[@z7z766]

Leave him, do this journey. there is a woman who was above 40 who did this

[@SusanMeagher-l7y]

No such thing as a g8 guy for everyone. 😢 I had 2 kids shocking marriage and never saw what he was really like till after married....lots guys see marriage certificates as ownership papers sad but true

[@vigilia8609]

Congrats! I'm 38 and have thought about this since I've hit my 30's. I met my current partner 4-5yrs ago and so far we've had 3 miscarriages. So now I'm looking at gestational carrier but my partner is freaking out about that. Trying to get him to understand that I DON'T HAVE TIME for his uncertainty 😒

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend! Thank you so much for sharing, I am saddened to hear about your losses. So proud of you weighing out your options and looking into gestational carriers. That's such an incredible way to also create that family you're seeking to obtain. I do pray your partner comes around and understands the value and blessing that could be for you both 🤍

[@lindsey5137]

im 42 and single and feel so lost

[@Po0pypoopy]

have you tried praying? God listens....don't lose faith and perform things that are not acceptable by HIM

[@melissaleigh3013]

Thank you for this vid. Ive been thinking seriously hard about maybe doing this one day. It is extremely comforting to me to know that I don’t need to WAIT on a man to “save” me and give me a baby! This world is not a Disney movie! I truly hope I can be a mother one day and I want to at least actively TRY while my biological window is open. Im happy to know that when my window starts closing, I do not have to passively wait for a man and I can take charge of my own destiny. THANK YOU AGAIN!!!

[@melodilovell4948]

I have a few family members that are against it, as it is different for them. They had their babies with their significant others and so they feel it’s taboo to have a baby with a stranger. Some say you never know if you’re having a child by a psycho or not. While that is true~ with the right amount of love and care, you could raise a fully sane and healthy child. I could understand their concerns somewhat, but still, I just want your support. You don’t have to understand or agree with my decision... I just want you to be there for me.

[@alyssablase417]

Exactly. I'm 18 and have always been one to "rush" into things, as other people like to call it. I think things over early so it looks like I jump into things but I just am much more ahead than people my age. I can't see myself getting married or wanting it at all. I just want kids. My family HATES my wants of using a soerm donor

[@AliciaLatrice]

Amen! Exactly..preach friend 👏🏽

[@stoneychi8648]

OMG IM 25 AND IM A MOM ALREADY BUT WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THIS AS A SECOND GO ROUND.....MY SON WILL BE SIX AND I WANTED IVF BEFORE I MET HIS DAD🤦🏾‍♀️ BUT NOW SEEING YOUR VIDEO IM EVEN MORE INTERESTED

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend! Such exciting news to hear you're thinking of undergoing IVF. It's such an emotional rollercoaster and financially, physically and emotionally daunting but so worth it in the end. Do tons of research, find the right fertility clinic/staff and ensure you have your solid support system. You got this

[@mateaukalua4426]

Can you afford this? You had a kid at 19.

[@maureenmildred5064]

Today is 11/23/2023 (Thanksgiving here in USA) …and am in tears because I want a baby sooo bad .am 33 and not even dating .i have so much love to give and I have always wanted to have kids .i feel like this is the route am going to take .Thank you for sharing your story .

[@wshelby83]

Have you still decided to go this route?

[@jacquelineplaatjies9052]

Some people are so judgemental. Some woman wait for marriage, husband happily ever after and when they realize it is not happening it might be too late to be a mother. There are so many STD diseases out there while trying one relationship to another. I know of a lot of children that was born in perfect marriages that ended as total psychos and criminals. Single parents can raise children that will have a great impact in society. There are good and bad in every situation. I'm so so happy we woman have the opportunity to experience motherhood even if we don't get the happily ever after from telenovela.

[@auwalkhalid6539]

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

[@AliciaLatrice]

OMG friend! I am speechless because you took it ALL out of my mouth. Well said

[@PrissyRikki]

Congratulations sweetheart!! 💜 Your whole attitude, positive vibe and strength is very inspiring!!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much friend, you're too kind.

[@jojobrown2504]

I’m 27, and have been thinking about this process recently. I’m planning to be a single mum by choice.

[@AliciaLatrice]

You got this friend! It wasn't a decision I made lightly but it was the BEST decision I could have ever made 💛

[@9sxxa]

I'm 22 and I am doing research on this because my faith in men is very low and I want to have children between the years of 30 and 35, I have always wanted children and I will do it with or without a man, it's empowering to see other women have the same mentaloty

[@sunshineblueskyys]

I turn 40 next year. I plan to do this after I return from my deployment with the goal of being pregnant before 41. I'm too old to be worried about marriage, but I am still open to it.

[@kaylarenee9371]

What makes you such an inspiration for me, is that you are young and beautiful and owning a choice that feels right to you. I look forward to digging into your videos to know your story.

[@AliciaLatrice]

You're too kind friend, thank you for tuning in and following this journey alongside me! It means the word to me xoxoxo

[@naturalsouthernbelle4327]

So happy for you! I have my transfer on the 12th. Hoping for a stick baby! Blessing for a safe pregnancy!❤

[@AliciaLatrice]

Happy transfer day friend 🥳 Sending you all the positive vibes and baby dust. Claim it, this precious baby is already yours! don't forget to kick your feet up, be lazy and get those lucky mcdonald french fries!

[@naturalsouthernbelle4327]

@@AliciaLatrice thank you!. 🍟was the first thing I ate lol. I will be resting for the next 3 days!

[@naturalsouthernbelle4327]

@@AliciaLatrice I got my BFP this morning. I'm praying for this baby to stick around for 9 months. I can wait to finally be a mom❤👩🏽‍🍼

[@AliciaLatrice]

@@naturalsouthernbelle4327 omgggg yayyyy congratulations mama! I knew you would 😍😍 all glory be to God! Trust that baby is snuggled right in and is not going anywhere. You’re pregnant and staying pregnant. Periodt!

[@irebrothers2672]

Great video. I want to add that you addressed the race subject in a delicate, knowledgeable and classy delivery.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much friend!

[@bjohnthomas]

While Alicia has decided not to disclose the race she chose (and I respect that), research has shown that white is the preferred race and only outdone by the patient's own or partner's race. Until the black community and society stop assigning a higher status to lighter skin tones, black people will continue to be marginalised. So while it wasn't a factor for Alicia, it has been a factor for many other IVF patients.

[@AliciaLatrice]

@@bjohnthomas this is totally true! I did a paper on this when completing my masters!

[@uroosausmani2672]

You are amazing! You video made me feel so much better. It truly gave me hope and strength!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much friend! So happy you enjoyed 💛

[@giannacina3726]

Wishing you all the best! I am also wanting to become a single mother by choice. Keep shining, beautiful. 💜💜

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much friend truly appreciate you! Super exciting to hear you're also considering the path to motherhood by SMBC. Please know I am here for any support or insight that I can provide to you

[@giannacina3726]

@@AliciaLatrice THANK YOU! 🥰

[@iamzaniah]

Ur not a failure ❤️

[@AliciaLatrice]

🤍 thank you beauty

[@drinkmeplease6224]

@@AliciaLatrice But the child will be.

[@theinfamouswoodnypmh1367]

@@drinkmeplease6224 why u all in her comments hating ?🤨

[@mackenzierae9331]

I have a couple questions. (1) what age did you start to accept that it’s okay for you to do this process to become a mother? (2) would you go through this journey again to have another baby? (3) do you regret anything? And what advice would you give a women who’s thinking of starting this journey?

[@nanaouzumaki6044]

Thats very good decision,I hope you make it!😊 The reason we have children is to help one another when we are old and also when we are in danger and also not to be alone. I also want to have children artificially. And also to be a loving mom. 😄

[@AliciaLatrice]

Well said friend! I've always been destined to be a mother and its a dream come true! I would make this decision over and over again! You got this!

[@nanaouzumaki6044]

@@AliciaLatrice And also to be a mom.

[@jenniesmythe8188]

New subscriber here. I'm thinking of starting my path next fall !! Congrats

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend! So great to have you beauty! That's super exciting to hear you're considering starting your journey next fall. It's one helluva ride but I would do it a thousand times again! You got this and please let me know if I can support you in any way possible.

[@hydeiathompson9227]

Congratulations! You're glowing girl! Gorgeous!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much sister!! 🤍😘

[@RandySoWavvy]

The biggest reasons men donate is 1 money most of them are in college and just need some pocket change or 2 they truly want to help. I’ve rarely heard of someone donating just so they can feel like they’re amazing because they got bio kids running around.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Agreed!

[@z7z766]

Belive there are creeps who are sending women in donor fb groups to give then their sperms just to get off the fact that they are "spreading their seedings" bs

[@sgjdsyevkfhao]

Thank you for sharing i belive you will be an amazing mother! I appriciate you speaking about the topic because many arent, im considering doing this when im older but that is just a thougth i got plenty of time, but i just meant to say i find you really inspiring, good luck in life take care and merry christmas!❤❤❤

[@jlovesj3335]

At 35 I understand but at 21 I do not. I had my kid at 22 with her dad (he ended up being useless as a man) and it is HARD! I hope it works out for you really

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend! Thanks for your message, I am actually 30. I honestly feel like despite someones age it can be and have its hard moments. Its beyond a blessing when someone has a supportive village behind them.

[@artloves100]

Alicia, you are my hero! thank you so much for this info! What a beautiful soul 🌹🌹🌹🌹💖!

[@AliciaLatrice]

You're too kind, thank you friend

[@drinkmeplease6224]

@Art Loves She's your hero but your child won't look at you as one.

[@La-libellule]

I'm so glad i looked this up.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hope you enjoyed! Always know I am an open book and can always message me for anything 🤍

[@aa.s2444]

Currently pregnant with my IVF donor miracle and I am so happy! 2 prior children 23/18 wanted another child but didn’t want the horror stories of co parenting connect to this child! I’m very happy with my decision and don’t give damn who doesn’t like it! I’m the happiest I’ve ever been and prepared to love my child without conditions ❤

[@KaysonAuntie]

I just don’t want to have sex with another man. I know I’ll change my mind in the future, but male intimacy/interaction sexual is like too much for me

[@Jazzmynnnn]

I’ve been seriously considering this! I’m currently in a relationship but I’m debating on if I want to end it or continue. Leaning more towards ending it at this point. But if I do I definitely want to do this cuz I do want at least one child and I don’t mind doing it on my own. So glad this is an option.

[@AliciaLatrice]

You will make the right decision no matter which path you take 🤍

[@gingerandspice1209]

End it

[@wilsmith3898]

The other kid around your child will be here because their parents loved each other.. or at least knew who they were... your child is going to be conceived through artificial means...if at all. Thats sad

[@Jazzmynnnn]

@@wilsmith3898 Men have the luxury of not losing the ability to procreate while women do not. If I’m in a relationship that is not secure and don’t meet someone soon enough to have kids with, should that mean I don’t ever get to be a mother? Ofc it would be ideal to have a partner but I’m keeping my options open. I’m not going to just have a baby in a relationship for the sake of my kid knowing their father. As long as children have reliable adults in their life they will be fine.

[@gailainsley6939]

2:17 even if you had all of that by 25. Chances are high that you would’ve been single with kids and in a worse off financial position by 30 anyway. Younger marriages end sooner. There is no guarantees. This is probably the best option. No headache. No drama.

[@luxconcept]

I thought if you were CMV positive, that means you could choose a sperm donor who was positive or negative. It's only if you're negative that you're supposedly supposed to only use negative cmv sperm. Although most people who conceive the "natural" way, don't test each other's cmv status prior to making a baby so I think it's probably not necessary

[@AliciaLatrice]

That’s correct and so because I was positive my donor could be positive or negative and so happen he was negative. 🤍🤍 but I totally agree with you when it comes to most people who conceive the natural way typically don’t know one another’s cmv status

[@shannonsellers4888]

Hey Alyicia I’m so happy for you.... 🥰🥰🎉🎉

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much beauty 😘

[@magga5369]

Much love and support to you!!!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much friend 🤍

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

[@Alwaysme35]

I have just started the journey - im on 2ww super excited and super nervous please keep me in prayer, i really want a successful and healthy pregnancy

[@BlakJakk]

women need men like a fish needs a bicycle

[@AliciaLatrice]

🤣🤣

[@BlakJakk]

@@AliciaLatrice MGTOW

[@BlakJakk]

Women dont need men but kids need fathers, alot of boys grow up resenting their single mom

[@janjoy9759]

@Gemma Dann I guess the Mayan calendar predicted this because they knew the quality of men would significantly reduce. Sad to say, it has indeed!

[@BlakJakk]

I see you Sphinsters in the comments... im here to let you know you dont have to die alone. I got sperm, it require donation$ tho.... let me know. Ya feel me

[@Mixedbeauty11]

I want try this I been cheated on by every guy I dated. My ex boyfriend lied saying he wanted to have a baby with me. But cheated on me twice. I had close the door, what option do you think I should try?. I’m in California. I want to be a mom. Facts I’m not worried about race I’m also mixed to.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much for your vulnerability and sharing friend. I've been there more times than not unfortunately but I didnt allow that to keep me from my ultimate goal of becoming a mother. I would best recommend finding a fertility clinic/doctor and working with them on the best route/options available for you. Which will consider a variety of factors: medical history, blood work, etc.

[@Steph-lc7hy]

I’m happy you’re saying this. I’m unhappy and my last relationship just ended. Like a train wreck. I’m in my 20s but I don’t know if I want to wait for a man anymore. Even if I end up miscarriaging I just want to atleast try. I’ve always wanted to have the experience and I cannot wait anymore for a man as the men I’ve been seeing are all useless. Im putting it lightly.

[@Alwaysme35]

I have just started the journey - im on 2ww super excited and super nervous please keep me in prayer, i really want a ssuccessful and healthy pregnancy

[@angelm795]

I love your journey ❣️ you give me so much hope.

[@AliciaLatrice]

I'm so glad! Thank you so much for watching

[@iluvu.6161]

i plan to do this when I’m a little older! I’m honestly not interested in being in a relationship. it’s just not for me. I’ve always wanted children though.

[@AliciaLatrice]

You got this friend, no matter which path you take 🤍

[@icyvc7412]

i’m also choosing someone i would date. i want the donors description to be someone i think i’d be attracted to. it doesn’t make sense for me to choose someone who i wouldn’t even look twice at!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Totally can relate to that and that's why I had my non negotiables as things I wanted the donor to obtain because I'd want it to be someone I would indeed date and not the total opposite.

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies?

[@LindseyDanielslindseypindsey]

Hi love, just wanted to state being CMV positive actually means you can choose a CMV positive or negative donor because you already have the antibodies present in your body :)

[@AliciaLatrice]

Yes yes, so with me being positive my donor could have been positive or negative and turns out he was negative ☺️

[@LindseyDanielslindseypindsey]

Exactly! My positive and so is my donor ☺️

[@ifyouwereinmyshoes.1036]

I am seriously considering this

[@AliciaLatrice]

It's not a decision I made lightly but one I wish I would have made so much sooner!!

[@IzzyJ170]

You are such an inspiration thank you so much for sharing all these videos with us I’m honestly about to go on this journey myself and it’s something I thought about for the longest and finally decided it was the best thing for me. Watching your videos was very informative and calming for me. Once again thank you May God keep blessing you.💕🙏🏻

[@AliciaLatrice]

That's so exciting friend! YOU GOT THIS! Don't allow anyone or anything deter you from this journey to motherhood (even if it is alone). I am an open book and always a resource for you! Cheering you on mama 💕

[@AliciaLatrice]

It's totally natural to feel that way, heck even after having my son I find myself in those feelings. However, its NOTHING to be ashamed of. Life isn't perfect and not everyone gets that fairytale in that order. Detours happen and its what makes life so grand. The perfect one for you will be for you. Without force, without finding them, watch and see :)

[@auwalkhalid6539]

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

[@victoriamadrid5276]

I haven’t finished the video yet but I just DONT understand why would someone ever choose a relative 😭😭!?

[@YayaUnicorns]

A non blood relative maybe.

[@AliciaLatrice]

It's typically a non-blood relative, I have support friends who have gone this route. It looks different for all of us :)

[@iamasia_perez]

So far I’ve found 8 donors and 2 are available.. so I’m still searching. I plan to do ICI in February 2023😁

[@AliciaLatrice]

How exciting! Sending you all the positive vibes friend! It’s definitely an experience.🤍

[@iamasia_perez]

@@AliciaLatrice Thank you! xoxo

[@mateaukalua4426]

Most women want a tall man. It's weird how everyone acts like they're the only ones who care about height. Messed up part is you can't control height.

[@BabeeKMamee]

I had my first sperm donor in 2020, had my healthy princess in 2021, now she's 3 years old and I'm ready for back #2 🥰

[@symonebryant]

I have really been thinking about this for the last couple years. i’m 26 and i’m really considering it.

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

[@AliciaLatrice]

You got this friend, no matter what decision you make 🤍

[@PerpetuallyOverdressed]

Omggg God bless you. Thank you for this info

[@AliciaLatrice]

Always friend 🤍🤞🏽

[@SaraLea]

Do any say “our staff consider this donor unattractive” lol

[@AliciaLatrice]

😂😂😂 nope! But I truly wish they would lol but of course they’re trying to sell us the donor regardless 🤔

[@SaraLea]

@@AliciaLatrice lol, I know... I just thought it would be funny if they were brutally honest. But of course a lot of donations would be skipped over then lol.

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

Oh girl u got 2 babies n house ur not even 35 I’m so proud of you

[@erykkanicole1212]

I’m wanting to this so bad I’m 38

[@skysamples1879]

I keep looking this up because I really want to have a baby, I'm 24 and I've always wanted to be a mother however I don't have a man in my life so I'm considering doing this for myself

[@drinkmeplease6224]

Why u don't have a men I your life? What's stopping you have one? You know a child needs a father right?

[@TrinandCo]

@@drinkmeplease6224 wrong, a child needs a female and male figure in he/her life, those figures do not have to be mothers or fathers, those “statistics” on single parent children are based off of children who came from broken single parents, father leaving them, father dying, etc.

[@drinkmeplease6224]

@@TrinandCo You wouldn't say all that if you just read my statement?😑

[@TrinandCo]

@@drinkmeplease6224 you said father, not “a child needs a male”

[@drinkmeplease6224]

@@TrinandCo well..... Yes I did and?

[@shante8837]

O. M. G. I literally just favorited that same donor 😳 (and for some of the same reasons) what a wild coincidence!!!

[@AliciaLatrice]

OMG - that's trult a wild coincidence lol but such a GREAT choice 👏🏽

[@auwalkhalid6539]

hey I know a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🎵🎵.

[@KaylynRiley-zb4qv]

This has given me hope that I’m not crazy and losing hope in relationships but I feel as tho I’m already 21 have never been in a committed relationship and each guy I meet is either not what I want or just beyond childish and can’t see myself with long wise. Although I’m going to wait 1 or 2 more years stay my bread and see if I do get into a relationship and if not 22 or 23 it is for me I’m letting what I want be known to get the best options

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

I totally believe blood type really matters and huge comparability

[@TheVirgo92083]

The reason some people want to know the race is because other black women are looking and want to know if the option of a black doner is great or slim

[@AliciaLatrice]

The pool for black donors was and continues to be extremely minimal unfortunately. This was another reason my selection journey was prolong because of the multiple cryobanks I had to filter through domestically and internationally for a black donor that also met the non negotiables I had in place. When I do come across them I share them on my IG story to bring awareness to other black SMBC 🤍

[@bluetrees6388]

Wait, I'm confused.....did she use a black donor or not??

[@90sbrat3]

I disagreed with the college part because I felt like you were deciding your child’s future. I’m a college graduate and depending on your major, college can be overrated. College isn’t the only road to success. But good luck on your journey, I’m looking forward to watching. 💕

[@AliciaLatrice]

This is true, but of course we all have our preferences 🤍I couldn’t agree more that college is overrated, honestly for more reasons than not and it isn’t the only road to success. I’ve always just been so keen on continuous education and my biggest fuel for even obtaining my masters was because neither of my parents went to college. Sadly, I have to admit that a lot of my professional success had a lot to due with obtaining a degree and oftentimes I wish it wasn’t solely based on that but allow ones work ethic and overall skills speak for itself. I truly appreciate you sharing your perspective and following alongside me friend ✨

[@Mixedbeauty11]

Hey I’m college education to, I want to start this journey but learn as much I can.

[@nanamensah3730]

Same here I disagree about the college part. Both my parents have college degrees but I don’t.

[@sweetcherry1675]

I'm glade I'm learning from this🖤🖤😃

[@AliciaLatrice]

Me too! Thank you for taking the time to watch friend!

[@inactiveaccount6106]

I want to do this, but I really don't want my children to have half siblings outside of it. It's probably not best for me, as I admit that it is very selfish... but regardless, I can't control what the donor does later on in life so it wouldn't matter. I have half siblings from my father & we have issues due to not growing up in the same household + wide age gaps, so I've always had a thing about that, being the youngest of everyone & seeing it all unfold.

[@jf.7599]

Wait... my mouth dropped when you said "relative's sperm".... why why why would you use a relative ????

[@AliciaLatrice]

Oh yes! I've met woman in the SMBC community who used relative sperm for a variety of different reasons than not. Its not an avenue I myself would have taken but getting to know some of those women and the WHY behind it expanded my perception but of course to each its own :)

[@jf.7599]

@@AliciaLatrice wouldn't that cause birth defects?

[@z7z766]

@@jf.7599 she meant a non blood relative special I guess

[@kenny37729]

Thanks for sharing your journey! Please were the donors test results shared with you before you selected the one that would match well with you? Thanks

[@AliciaLatrice]

Yes ma’am, they give you an entire deep dive into the donor, their labs and more 🙌🏽

[@abbistalkermom]

Beautiful queen .... interesting topic 🇯🇲

[@AliciaLatrice]

Thank you so much!

[@abbistalkermom]

@@AliciaLatrice you're welcome

[@roxanniemiller1725]

I want to become a single mom by choice in the future. I was thinking about adoption but I want like to go through the full process of being a mom

[@twalker11593]

I’m here just to get others insight on their experience which I appreciate women in general for sharing their experience! I just question why all black women choose not to share race? If it doesn’t matter why not share? I’m open to any race but not a lot of black matches out here so it would be nice to hear black women actually talk about it.

[@mardillie]

Glad i found this video..

[@AliciaLatrice]

🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@PassionPulseMusic__]

Im 28 seeking to do this as well. Im nervous because single motherhood is HARD but would love to have a child within the next two years.

[@ashliepickering433]

Very useful information.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Glad it was helpful! Know that I am always a message away and an open book.

[@NDWest]

Is it possible to determine if the donor has knock knees? Lol, I'm sorry...seriously not trying to be superficial but that is something I wish could be informed on...lol, also mental illness history. Oh! And cancer history.

[@AliciaLatrice]

Hi friend!! 😭😭 your message took me regarding the knock knees because I am knock kneed and didn’t even think of if the donor was or not but you’re provided a full health history (of not only the donor but family health and it entails cancers/diseases) as well as any mental health issues 🤍

[@NDWest]

@@AliciaLatrice oh!! Omg, lol!! I so hope I didn't offend you!! It's just a tiny thing I have 🙆🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. I so admire your journey and letting us know how you're going about it. I'm single, 38 and have been seriously thinking about this for myself. I'm in Canada. Please stay safe and wishing you well!! Love your personality and openness 💜💜.

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

[@lindsey5137]

ty for sharing your feelings..i am totally feeling like a failure all my friends are married with kids..i feel so depressed

[@AliciaLatrice]

You're on your OWN journey friend! Sooo often I used to compare my journey to those around me and I had to stop. We all have our unique life purpose and the journey will look different for each. Trust I am so glad I stopped comparing and did what was best for me and my life because most of those friends if not all are now divorced, single parents themselves and in a coparenting nightmare situation. You got this mama.

[@aishamartinez858]

Hi lovely! Where is the fertility clinic your friend used outside of Houston?

[@ari-jv]

I want to do this if I don’t meet someone by age 30.

[@iamasia_perez]

I’m 30 my son is 12 years old. I’m ready for another baby but dating 😬🥴 I haven’t had any luck sooooooo I’m definitely looking into getting a donor to have my next child 🥰…

[@empressmarie4027]

You are a great help

[@AliciaLatrice]

Always 🥰 thanks for watching

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

[@subconsciousexpress876]

How can one fact check to know whether or not the profiles are accurate?

[@AliciaLatrice]

This is such a good question and honestly I have no idea. I would equally love to know the same.

[@realtalknaz748]

Love da Tongue pierce

[@alessandramiller7346]

I have a question what seem banks u looked at cause I’m going through the same thing and it’s hard

[@lindsey5137]

your awesome tyyy so much

[@drharrison5770]

Free donor free from std no health problem Am ready to help ladies out there to be a smile on their faces to have beautiful babies

[@AliciaLatrice]

You're welcome!

[@simplychi9418]

Where there profiles where the donor was not ideal? like would they say hes average looking or only a high school graduate type of thing?

[@lillyvgutierrez9685]

I hope you still fall inlove find a man n u still can have baby you have plenty time too even 35 n if u still have reserve or not as long you have a partner you can try w out using ur eggs … I’m so proud of U I wish I made better choices at 27 I moved home after running streets for 10 years and 3 men I came home having start over

[@tierahurt]

I think the race question was asked because it's difficult to find certain races

[@mentalhealingwithelaine]

What if your child is upset because you denied them access to having a father? Obviously men can walk out, but choosing to do it alone you guarantee that your child will not have a father.

[@ari-jv]

Yes but he should be mad at the donor as well

[@veronicapereira6917]

Sounds crazy if you get the child to know the man looks like you are looking for a partner

[@mjnow09]

Thank you for sharing!

[@AliciaLatrice]

Always, thank you so much for tuning in!

[@alfredsampeke264]

Did you gave birth

[@AliciaLatrice]

I have and will be doing updated videos soon.

[@sigerg82nwtbs71]

Hi AliciA, Can you refer the IVF company you went through please. Don’t care about state

[@AliciaLatrice]

Absolutely! I went to AspireHFI here in Texas

[@sigerg82nwtbs71]

@@AliciaLatrice thank you