Choosing a Woman

In this clip from The Way of the Superior Man Training Program in August, John and Justin Patrick Pierce discuss when to cease pursuing a woman.
They shed light on the truth that most men have it backwards when it comes to choosing a woman, and offer practices to reverse these habits.
They also discuss:
*What women really want to feel from men
*Why unprocessed childhood wounds stop men from having a conscious relationship to feminine energy
*How to hold structure for your pain so you don't pressure a woman to fill the hole or fix the wound
*Why a man's capacity to love his own feminine is directly related to his capacity to be in relationship with a woman
*How to earn a woman's trust
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[@TheFreespirt]

I am feeling so much greatfulness, and to feel and know that men are working on them selves gives me hope of more healthy Relationships🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼 well done Men. Be the love and light

[@nofybn7794]

Men are not working on themselves.

[@Lukearthwalker]

Thanks Geeta, we appreciate hearing that from women. Remember that men will never, ever forget the validation and kinds words of a woman that genuinely respects their efforts.

[@aaronhardcastle4916]

Yes ma'am!! I agree, well done..VERY WELL DONE!!! The world needs more males to be good hearted, men of integrity, and take a stand as protectors and all that men are meant to be in a relationship!! Kudos to those guys for doing the hard work 'behind the scenes' to live it out in their daily lives!!

[@sjcompton2754]

As a female taking in the content of this video, thank you.

[@vanessapetrea2490]

Thank you so much for this video, and for men truly wanting and choosing to be their best self r regardless of having a partner or not. Great work here!!!! Sadly, a female friend of mine hadn’t trusted her partner the whole time they dated, married, and then divorced. He opened and showed and communicated to her, and she was so closed off and self serving, she didn’t acknowledge, appreciate, or respect him no matter what he did or said. She loves conditionally only. And those conditions changed constantly. I had to end my friendship with her as it was in form, because she is draining and has more of a “Ive got to be right” rather than a “save the relationship” mentality. I’m seeing many women that what a great man not know what a great man really is and they end up just wanting a hairy woman they can call a man. Polarity imbalance. Thank you, again, and please keep the torch lit and pass it on often! 💜👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@charlenemaeder8027]

Love the vulnerability here! I would love to meet a likeminded. healthy man who is at peace with himself and loving like this guy. Where do these guys congregate? ;) Just moved from Santa Monica to Nashville, TN. Maybe y’all will pass through here for a workshop sometime ;)

[@patriciabeckman8573]

The becoming whole goes both ways. I've finally got to a point where I acknowledge and appreciate my life as a single woman, yet I also appreciate and want a man in my life. The most amazing men have entered my life.

[@sarahmonahan811]

patricia beckman I’m content being single and I desire an amazing man, but I haven’t been meeting any. Have you been going to specific places? Or doing anything special?

[@patriciabeckman8573]

@@sarahmonahan811 - I've always been one who secludes and isolates myself. As I open up my heart to embrace my own inner joy and reflect that love, I have become more aware of these men. I was in a wedding where the Best man was single and I had an amazing experience spending time with him. I met another man at a small local concert I attended. Just this week I met another at a Fall Festival. There is a 4th I met a few weeks ago at a support group mtg I attended with a relative. Note I am staying within my own values and standards, allowing them to approach me at their comfort levels. It's almost like standing still and watching skittish deer approach. It really has been my getting out; being open and receptive to the incredible differences men offer.

[@sarahmonahan811]

Thank you for that! I will give that a try.

[@dellchica2373]

patricia beckman wow!

[@anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858]

Dating, for the awakened crown chakra. Thanks doooods

[@svenkersten4465]

to all men. i really recommend you a deep cleanse of your gut before starting the next relationship and the grace of kundalini ;)

[@pandorasbox17]

Thanks

[@naumaankhan9472]

Which book did he read at the starting of the video?

[@rachelross5829]

Wow

[@JayAlvesMusic]

david deida looks younger in this video

[@beatitude712]

Are you sure that's Deida? Maybe it's not... 🤔☺️

[@sambamnoham9946]

A headache 🤔 If a man think a woman is a headache .. The man may not be ready or he'S with the wronG woman 🧐 Great talK Love it 💋

[@larryd4692]

What book is he reading from?

[@glrmejdell6753]

Way of the superior man by David Deida

[@liquidvelvet]

💕

[@bodichair]

Not necessarily is it wise to cry in front of a woman, especially if she is or already did break up with you. If the man is not in touch with his Masculine. Many of us get stuck in the old 2nd level feminine engery . A woman loves when a man can be open in his heart but not easily disturbed and needy type . If you're still a needy man, you won't be suitable for a solid woman, perhaps a nice codependent woman... 😢

[@Pathway244]

Metoo

[@mike569112]

Spare us the drama bro.

[@rachelross5829]

How you doing in your love life now? Just curious

[@waneframe]

What in the world is this?

[@kurtlong1367]

instant creepy vibe

[@vision3691]

I agree with you, i also used to see it that way. It looked very strange and creepy becasue I never understood what they were doing. But now I studied this and it looks perfectly natrual to me. Good luck brother

[@Nnmtes]

I think coming to a point of simply wanting a woman in my life, but definitely not needing a woman, is a very healthy place to be. It's taken a lot of grief and learning to get to this place of comfort. It's really nice knowing who i am as an individual, what i value. I know what i will accept and won't accept in any relationship. The strength and confidence you get from that position i feel sure, is more attractive to any potential female partner. I think men have been confused for sometime, or at least brow beaten over what or who they should be, as demanded by feminists. We are now saying screw that, we're men. We're masculine, we're not genderless wimps. We refuse to pander to woke demands, we will be exactly who and what we're designed to be. I think REAL women want and respect that. Great video guys. It's encouraging to see smart men taking care of themselves and learning more about their potential 👍😎

[@sdfp9963]

I loved your comment: I thought exactly the same. I just ended 8 year lasted relationship and went through that sadness and pain but feeling now stronger and more balanced than ever and I know what I want from woman but I dont necessarily need woman.

[@JayeleneHarris]

Simply gorgeous... "I can prove that I can lead my own feminine" Love seeing the divine masculine doing their work- So beautiful

[@keishafromscratch]

As a woman I have been meditating on this for years and begin teaching this a few years ago. Thank you for this! #confimation

[@Beatams81]

Brilliant work guys , so amazing that you doing it for eachother . The part you said about crying infont of a woman made me feel that you guys know what it is all about. Beautiful 💓. Thank you for being xx

[@Maria-pu8wc]

So great man are having this guidance, lovely.

[@holystrawberry]

Good work gentlemen, this gives me hope..

[@carlitacabrera5845]

I wonder which book you were reading. I love this video of you guys dealing with this amazing topic. Learning to build a bridge between the masculine and the femenine which so many times seem to be so so far apart.

[@Johansebastion]

The way of the superior man by David Deida

[@reycisneros2925]

A great selection in Thailand

[@jasmineforde8373]

1) I have no idea how/why this came up in my KZbin recommendations 😳 2) I had no idea men felt this vulnerable or felt though that they needed a woman to be happy😳 3) Either way, I appreciate seeing men choosing to be whole, centered and balanced.

[@ujunwaa]

This is so amazing.

[@CaseyBerard]

Anyone know what book they are reading from?

[@theyogahomeschoolwithingri8460]

Casey Berard-Transformational Life Coach i think it’s from the way of the superior man by david deida

[@CaseyBerard]

Ingrid Aria & The Yoga Homeschool : thanks so much Ingrid!! I will check it out. 🙏💕

[@CaseyBerard]

You may absolutely recommend! Thanks, I will check it out. Here's to wonderful relationships

[@VS-jf2ov]

The way of superior man

[@CaseyBerard]

@@VS-jf2ov Thank you Vetri! I did find it. So great!!

[@karmamatti508]

What’s the book he’s reading from

[@kevinl4771]

Way of the superior man by David deida

[@Jahna_SoundPathAlchemy]

I love that this is the same message we women need to hear. It’s only be becoming whole within that we are able to truly enter Divine Partnership…unconditional love for self and another. Warts and all.

[@carolynwebb8726]

Good stuff. Guys that want to know what it means to be in tuned with nature just go for hikes and start a garden. You feel amazing doing it and you are providing with a garden, both will boost testosterone. Hard work can actually be addicting bc it feels so amazing during and after. I don't know why everyone tries to not work hard or use their bodies, society, I guess.

[@theresam2502]

What book are they reading from?

[@heathersymone5667]

The Way of the Superior Man, I think.

[@hussy1312]

sitting like this these guys look so funny

[@TiredCitizen]

Want one, but don't need one. 💯🤍