Choosing Yourself Without Guilt: A New Way Forward

[@black-sheep-me]

Thank you❤ Some of my friends fail to understand boundaries and I have resentfully said yes to many of their invites later made me feel bitter. When I started setting boundaries, they did not appreciate it.

[@samanthabackinthedays]

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[@alchemia_soaps]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It’s so common to feel resentment when we say 'yes' out of obligation rather than genuine willingness. Setting boundaries is such a brave and necessary step, even though it can be challenging when others don’t immediately appreciate or understand them. Remember, boundaries are for you-they’re a way of protecting your energy, time, and emotional well-being. It’s natural for people to need time to adjust when you start saying 'no' or standing up for your needs, especially if they’ve been used to a different dynamic. They are so used to often control you or control you that it’s hard for them too: they resist and they might push back, The most important thing is to stay consistent and remind yourself that you’re not responsible for how others feel about your boundaries. You’re doing something incredibly valuable for yourself, and over time, those who truly respect and care about you will come to appreciate and honor the boundaries you set. Keep going-you’re on the path to freedom :)

[@_palak_malviya_]

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[@alchemia_soaps]

So glad you said hi 🤍

[@samanthabackinthedays]

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